I’m glad his parents felt the heat when OP called him an embarrassment bc that’s on him. They should be embarrassed that they raised someone who feels comfortable cheating.
It's because they raised him to be a precious little baby boy who never needs to face consequences for his actions and his mommy and daddy will always be able to wipe his a$$ for him when he sh!ts the bed. He's just ended up thinking that that works with everyone else.
A Vincey episode is almost like going on THE emotional rollercoaster. You're sad for someone, angry at someone, and then you're laughing at the wholesome section
she won't get it. this is an issue of entitlement, she won't understand because she's egocentric and believes she can do whatever she wants with her kids and her belongings.
Yep, I remember an older story where a father was a serial cheater and his wife had left him, he kept trying to win her back and even tried to convince their adult children to convince her to take him back, all while admitting that even if she took him back he would still keep cheating on her, yet he was still angry that nobody took his side.
It’s actually neither of them fault because the thing about cutting off snack foods is that your body craves snacks and sugar and the sudden cold turkey diet makes people irritated and frustrated for at least a few weeks. It’s no different than quitting cigarettes.
@@HelloYersoGae I lost over 100 pounds. Never once did I get mad at people for eating junk food around me as I'm the one on the diet. She needs to grow up and stop crying over nothing.
The problem, in my opinion, is not that he didn't bring her a pastry it's that he took away her agency to say no to having a pastry brought to her. He made the choice on his own. It was her choice to make and he took that option away from her.
Simple: she thinks that because it's her kid, she can act however she wants. I'll bet she knows damn well if she pulled this crap with her friends, she wouldn't have friends or if she pulled this with her job, she'd be fired. But her kid? Nah, she should just get to act however she wants. More parents have that entitlement than people realize.
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Obligatory algorithm support. The first 3 stories are classic double standards. Always blame the victim for trying to do the right thing smh 🤦🏻♀️. Say hi to your cats for us Vincey ❤
As a picky eater, I 100% support not inviting me to dinners where food is not varied. I might be upset at first but if it was explained that the reason is that it is expensive and a set menu I would like "oh of course, thank you for remembering my preferences".
Omg, yes. I'd be going scorched earth with that woman and literally donating ALL her stuff. And when she comes home to an empty house, I'd tell her that this is what she gets for touching/donating other people's stuff. She deserves to learn this the hard way. To avoid her being able to play victim, tell her the exact location(s) of where her stuff is and that she can go and get it back if she hurries. For extra sting, don't tell her where some of the last couple things are.
If she really pushed it, I'd call her SO and tell them they should be worried because apparently their partner is OK with cheating and she might cheat on them. No justice, no peace b!tch.
Story 5: NTA. Y'all would have to miss me because cookout CANCELED if someone totals my car in my driveway. No, I'm not going to go somewhere else because I'm in a bed mood. It's my house! Too bad, so sad.
I don't think people who say " it meant nothing" (in terms of cheating) realize that makes it way worse, not better. What I hear when that phrase being used: "I threw away our relationship over something/someone that meant nothing to me". Like the OP and have a 0 tolerance for cheating myself, but I would rather know that they had to make a massive conflict of heart decision if I get cheated on. I would still dump them 5 days ago, but it would ease me a bit to know they didn't throw something good away for nothing... could be just me though?
When I was a kid my mom would not buy me shoes bigger than a size 7.5 because big feet on a girl were ugly. My feet constantly hurt until I could buy my own shoes (size 9).
@@TheVeggiekat Big feet on a girl were ugly? To who-other women? People with feet f*tishes? Size nine isn't even big, WTF? Why do the opinions of people who don't care if you're alive or dead matter? That's basically what I said when I get criticized for my comfy and practical clothing choices. Being forced is one thing, but it baffles me why anyone would wear uncomfortable clothes on purpose that hurt you just to impress other people that you will never see again and "feel pretty" for about maybe five seconds until it feels like the clothes are trying to k*ll me.
For story 2: I've got arfid I can only eat certain foods and I DONT go to fix menu restaurants, as the person with the good aversions it's your responsibility to accommodate it no one else's. Yeah it sucks, yeah most people don't get it, but it's no one's problem but yours.
Story 5: If I invite a bunch of people to a party and one of them destroys my property, everyone is leaving, I don't give a shit how long it took to get here. You don't fuck up someones car and think the party will continue. Also how is he supposed to leave, did everyone forget his car is busted? Story 3: She can go and get her own pastry. Can the guy not just get himself something nice especially after she told him she was dieting and didn't want pastries?
As someone who struggles with binge eating and food addiction, I 100% I would freak out internally if my BF brought home a pastry and I couldn’t have one. Externally I’d ask him to please split it with me or give me a bite. The best way to support someone with BED who has just started learning Mindful Eating/Intuitive Eating is to not eat the junk in front of them. Of course the goal of Intuitive Eating is to not turn ferrel in front of food, so eventually the partner can enjoy their snacks at home whenever they want. But definitely at the beginning the best support is eating that stuff when your partner isn’t present. Same as not drinking in front of newly sober alcoholics. Seeing my BF walk in with a cinnamon bun would have me absolutely jonesing for a cinnamon bun. 😢😵💫 Saying no is so hard and being denied is also hard, cuz at some points in the day, it’s all you can think about- filling the void with a hit of dopamine.
8:55 Yeah, just play the mind games you weren't aware of, OP. I hope you're ready to walk on eggshells about nothing and watch her seeth over the way you breathe now. "Your breath smells like tacos; how could you do this to me?!" Or maybe she could be an adult about it instead? Pfft, of course not. He was told not to bring anything, and she got mad that he didn't bring anything.
It's not about the cheating specifically, it's about broken trust. Even if you forgive them and try to move on, you're now going to be wondering if they are telling the truth every time they say they have to work late or they say they are stuck in traffic. I know I couldn't live with that worry.
Story 2. I'd like to point out that the post never mentioned the picky eater themselves inviting themself. I also always end up defending my fellow picky eaters in the these posts. But also I would definitely understand not being invited to something like that.
I'll admit, while I get that people have dietary restrictions or food sensitivities, I find picky eaters kinda annoying. Like newsflash, there's other food besides chicken nuggets and the world doesn't have to cater to your inability to have an adult palate.
@@khaleesireyna731 I understand but you do realize how quickly this can be ableist. Many picky people have psychological conditions like ARFID, eating disorders, or autism. Like my pickiness is directly related to autism. Believe me, I wouldn't want to be as picky as I am and I've done a lot of work, including therapy, to be less picky. But it's not a choice. I know there's food other than chicken nuggets but if I don't want to starve myself, sometimes that's all I can eat.
Also, like, it just sucks being excluded on purpose. I’m a vegetarian and once my close friend deliberately didn’t even tell me about his birthday dinner because it was at a sushi restaurant he knew I wouldn’t like. I only found out it happened afterwards from a mutual friend’s facebook post. I was deeply hurt that I didn’t even get the option to decide if I wanted to go or not. I understand not wanting to pay for her to not eat, but if that’s the only issue, tell her she needs to pay for herself. I don’t think OP is an AH, and of course no one is entitled to an invite, but I can understand the DIL being upset by it, IF she would otherwise be invited to if food wasn’t an issue. Anyways, I can understand both sides, but the DIL should have handled that differently, even if I think her feelings are valid.
If there's one thing I've learned as a woman who has a wife, it's best to ask anyway even if your wife has stated she's trying to avoid junk food and eat better. That way she feels considered and cared for and is given the opportunity to set her own boundaries instead of feeling like they've been set for her. Be supportive, ask in advance how you can support her current diet, but always ask when you're getting treats because you never know when she needs to feel included or just needs some comfort food.
As a diabetic with only sometimes good self-control, I do appreciate it when people don't even give me the option to say yes to pastries. But I think the whole pastry thing is a non-issue really and the gf is just a bit upset she's missing out. Just a littke healthy communication can solve the issue.
Story 6: Never, ever give her a key to your place or let her stay overnight. If you can't install a lock.on your door, see if you can find a lockable trunk to store things in.
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Always funny when cheating scumbags say it 'meant nothing' and think that makes it better 😂 it makes it worse! You're betraying the person you're supposed to love for nothing!? Yeah that makes it worse. God I hate manipulative, two faced cheats. They're absolute narcissists.
I’m trying to cut down on sugar from a recent tooth filling I’ve had. If my partner wants to have a sweet treat, and I’m choosing to be sugar free that day, I wouldn’t be crying like a baby about him having a treat. She needs to realise she can’t control other people’s food choices, and should maybe seek therapy, as she has been having a hard time recently, hence the weight gain, and she’s taking things out on OP.
I think it's so weird, I understand that it's been kind of like a tradition for him to get her something from the bakery when he goes, but she's grown. If she wants something from the bakery she can go get it. If my partner went out to eat on his way home and didn't bring me anything, it's a non-issue because I can go get myself something if I want it, definitely not going to get upset like a child, especially if I've been talking about how I wanted to lose some weight and cut back on snack stuff
Story 4: I typically agree, but I think you're mostly wrong here, Vincey. Yes, the 13yo is likely an entitled brat, however, it is neither OP's responsibility nor authority to parent him. If this is what is to be expected, stop helping the little a-hole out. This entire situation was just crazy, but OP is not the parent. As the youngest of 3, and the only male child, I was childified by my older sisters, even after having a family of my own and being in my mid-30s. Long term, it took both an aggressive, terrible family get together and 1.5 years of no contact before I finally forced them to see me as an adult. The OP was probably parentified, given the age difference, and that's their parents' fault. But now OP believes they have some level of authority to order the brother around. They shouldn't and their mothers' backing of OP's demands is unjustified. OP needs to let mom handle this and keep their hands out of the future criminal's rearing.
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Post 4: If he has bad social anxiety, and he has never gone into a grocery store by himself to buy something, but he has gone to a mall with his friends before, there is a chance that going into the store alone can seem terrifying and even make him want to freeze up, especially if it was unexpected. However, if that's the case, it's still good to make him get out of his comfort zone, so he can benefit from exposure therapy. Since I've gotten older, my social anxiety has eased up, but there were times in the past where I would freak out over small interactions because they were new and I hadn't had the chance to mentally prepare myself. In some cases, I would just flat out refuse to do something (usually involving a phone call) until my mom did it for me (or until I just couldn't put it off any longer once my mom stopped doing it for me). Meanwhile, I was working a job that heavily involved customer service on the phone, and I had to do regular presentations in front of large groups, and I did it with ease. There's also a chance that maybe he did go into the store once by himself and he did something wong that embarrassed him so badly or something. Like, to this day, i refuse to call to order a pizza by actually calling the place because the one time I gathered the courage to do it (mom wouldn't do it, and this was right before online ordering became a thing), I said, "I'd like to order a medium Hawaiian pizza," and they responded with, "okay, and what kind of pizza do you want," and my brain broke because I had just told him what pizza I wanted, and my brain couldn't think of the correct response, so I just handed the phone to my mom and walked away. Also, everyone gets annoyed when you just get home and someone immedialty asks you to do something, so moot point.
Vincey, I'm not sure if you noticed but some people were voting the pastry story as NAH (No A-holes Here). This is different from NTA. NTA means that OP isn't an a-hole but someone else is, NAH means that nobody in the story is an a-hole. For the donation bags, I feel like I read a post at some point from the mom's POV but some details were different. In that one the mom was selling her kids' clothes and she seemed to think that this was her kids "contributing to the household income." Needless to say the mom was voted as YTA for essentially the same reasons OP in this story is NTA.
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Story 4: nah, the door slam would have netted me no video games for a week and possibly no door for that week. He's an entitled brat and the parents need to wake up
OK, Vincey, I love ya, but I disagree with you on the diet story. Sugar is just as much of an addiction as cigarettes. Its a lot harder to quit smoking if you're in a house with someone who smokes. Its harder to cut out sugar if its still being brought into the house. Her partner should of definantly ate his pastry before he got home and kept sugar out of the house.
Story 2's picky eater rubbed me the wrong way (not the pickiness itself but her attitude). I was reamed out by my mom everytime I asked to be invited to things other people were doing because it was Rude and Put People On the Spot. If you're not invited, you are NOT INVITED! Damn the entitlement... Makes me think she's picky for attention instead of having an actual medical reason since she's so butthurt not being invited to an adventurous food event where there will likely be no "safe" foods. What's she gonna do? Drink soda and watch them chew? Perhaps sneak in a Happy Meal? So childish!
The picky eater story. It was best to not invite her. OP had plenty going on her side 1) only inviting bio family and not any spouses 2) inviting a picky eater to a "fancy restaurant" is on the same level as inviting a known Vegan to a "regular restaurant" that only has salad as their vegan option. You know the person would complain there is nothing on the menu for them 3) OP was paying so it's her wallet, her right to keep the gathering small And I do defend people on their diet choice/restrictions and so on. I respect the same vegans that respect I use butter etc. but it was the easiest example.
I agree with points 1 and 3. The thing with not inviting people solely because of their dietary restrictions/preferences feels shitty for that person. (Note that I said for food being the ONLY reason for not being invited.) If that’s the only problem I feel like the person should at least be given the option like “hey, we’re going to this restaurant, you probably can’t/wont eat anything, but you can come if you want”. Basically what I’m saying is- it isn’t nice when your friends exclude you from events because of food. Lol 😅 But yeah, either way, people are definitely not entitled to an invite, esp for reasons 1 and 3.
@@calypsokiosko9067 In this one instance, I agree it was best to not invite DIL. I was speaking more in general, that it is kind of a dick move to not invite someone solely because you assume they won’t eat or they don’t want to come. Also plenty of picky eaters/people with dietary restrictions can go out and not eat and are perfectly capable of not whining. And can also pay for themselves. The DIL in this one was just entitled and handled it poorly. I can understand being upset at being excluded though. That’s all I’m saying.
That brother of story 4 with the cheese and groceries...I have a feeling he is on his way to being an incel/neckbeard/white knight/ or even a low key misogynist (enabled by the parents) that thinks all the things his sister or mom are making him do are a woman's duty.
Ok, post 3. I'm on a diet myself, but what I eat and what others eat is completely different! I went to a restaurant with my friend a while back and we had a good meal, and they can give you dessert to take out. I took her round and showed her the cakes and she asked if I was getting one. I said no because of my diet and she nearly didn't get one, but I told her that if she wanted a cake then she can get a slice, it wouldn't affect md because I have a cheat day, that day wasn't my cheat day, and if I wanted cake it would be on my cheat day. She got a cake slice and we both left happy. I had a cake slice on my cheat day. 😁
Story 3: it might be because I don't hang out with people who diet, but I think OP should be on the lookout for signs of orthorexia (an obsession with healthy eating). I'm a bit concerned for the girlfriend
The problem with story 3 is that he never aked. Yes, she wanted to cut down on eating "junk foods" and get back into a body that made her feel happy, and it's great that he's supporting that. But he was incredibly inconsiderate for not even deciding to ask if she'd like anything or not while he was there. He is the AH, but not a major one, a light one. The one comment forgets that everyone is different, she clearly would've appreciated(based on her reaction) it if he had ASKED HER if she wanyed anything, and he didn't.
🙄🤡 Gimme a break. She threw a tantrum like a toddler. She needs to grow up and stop embarrassing herself. She's pathetic. He needs to run from her and meet someone that has normal reactions to everyday life.
How would he know to ask? He was doing what she said, to not bring pastries. Why would he think to ask her if she wanted him to bring her one when she told him not to bring her one?
Story 3, I really wish we could hear both sides here. Because OP mentions she was talking about going on a diet, but not that she actually started one. Like if she gained weight due to shtf, is that situation over, has she landed, or was her intention to land and then start a diet?
I dont get the nta comments on #3 She did seem upset but i dont think it was just about the pastry. She said she wanted to go on a diet not that she was on one meaning he should have asked. Him not asking basically said to her you're starting that diet now. He may not be a big ah but just a small one. They need to actually communicate with each other and not assume things. All the comment assuming she woupd have yell at him or gotten upset with him for asking is wrong since that is only speculative and not what happened. If it did the post would have been way different. The comments bashing her are a littpe women hatery if you dont agree that's fine but please stop assuming things that didn't happen.
Post #3: It isnt about the pastry. It is about thoughtfulness. My sister is gluten intolerant and doesnt want pastries either. HOWEVER, whenever we go to the store, we always get her something too. Not pastry but some kind of treat she can eat as well. Sure, dont bring your gf pastries but should have been thoughtful and got her something else instead. This way both of you can enjoy some treats.
She said not to get her anything. He didn't get her anything. She got mad anyway. She's being childish, and it isn't up to him to figure out what she's thinking or predict the future; no one is a mind reader. He did what she told him to do. She should be more in charge of her reactions and emotions. You _know_ she would get mad if he either brought a pastry for her ("I told you I didn't want one!") or called ("You're sabotaging my weight loss!"). She would get mad no matter what he did because she was taking her frustrations of her weight out on him with a temper tantrum.
@@lesstalking3007 Dude, she didnt say not to get her anything. She just talked about cutting out pastries. I am not sure in what world and understanding this means that she did not want ANYTHING. Pastries are not the only treats that exist. He could have gotten something else for her. Like a decent human being who has a partner. I am unsure how some people can buy something for themselves but get nothing for their partner. I would feel guilty af.
@@NLance She got mad at him for not giving her a pastry; the post clarified that's why she was mad. He got a pastry for himself, but he didn't get her one, and he didn't because she told him not to. She saw him with a pastry and suddenly wanted one herself, then got mad when he didn't get her one. She basically put him in a trap. But no, he should've read her mind and saw into the future what she wanted and then guessed she was hungry for a healthy alternative she never mentioned before or was perfectly OK with cheating on her diet. Sure, OK.
Listen up men! Vincey included! #2 was the a-hole. He called his girlfriend fat. Shhhh! Shut up and listen. He. Called. His. Girlfriend. Fat. What you think doesn't matter, he did it. Stop listening to these "pick me" girls who say he did nothing wrong even worse the ones who say how they would love to be excluded from their normal pastry trip. The girlfriend is intelligent enough to understand how calories work. As long as you burn more than you eat you're going to lose weight. She could have budgeted in an extra spin class to burn the calories, stop treating women like we need you to solve our problems or protect us from food. Get her the usual and let her make her own way
🙄🤡 This is the most ignorant comment I've ever seen here. Are you the psycho that had the tantrum? That ma needs to run far and fast from you. You are not normal, seek help.
Post 2. Nah I think op ITA. Not because she didn't invite her step daughter to a restaurant where they serve food she won't like. Nah, that part is reasonable. But she IS excluding her from a sort of family event. The right thing to do would be to plan something with her alone so she feels included again. She's not her mother, but she IS dating a man with a kid/teen, so if HE's treated as family, she should treat his daughter as family accordingly. If my parents assumed I wouldn't come and excluded me from an activity I don't like, but invited my sister and step brother...I'd be rightfully upset. I think OP should consider the step daughter's feelings more. But inherently, it's not wrong to do as she did.
1:53 OMG, this! I absolutely hate when cheaters try to justify their actions by saying “It meant nothing” because in saying that it effectively means that you are your feelings mean so little to them that cheating on you means nothing to them.
Idk if someone ran over my quarter of a million dollar car and totalled it, I can't say I wouldn't cancel everything and tell everyone to get lost. I at least wouldn't be there hosting anymore, that's for sure.
Right!!?? I’m no longer in the mood to cook anything for anyone. Sorry that you drove several hours but my priorities are currently on my expensive transportation that just got totaled by some idiot that couldn’t take a few minutes to get off his phone. The people who drive several hours obviously aren’t at fault and can rightfully be upset but what is the husband supposed to do? He now has to pay out of pocket because someone else’s insurance won’t pay for it. I’d be pissed. 😭😭😭
Right? It's not like they all just have to turn around and go home, they can all go to a frikkin Denny's or something. My house is now off limits. Still should have included the spouse in the decision though.
Story 1: I hate when people like the in-laws and OP's sister say that they were too cruel. It's like, "Hey, he risked your health and betrayed you, but you shouldn't be a meanie 🥺" it's so dumb to think like that.
Man that story of the dieting girlfriend and the pastry just kinda ticks me off, as an autistic person those unspoken "social expectations" are just stupid and frustrating
Nah man, not being autistic doesn't help in a situation where the expectation is "you should have just psychically known I would want something contrary to what I previously told you." Any partner acting like that is not mature enough to be in a relationship.
Story 1: "Well then, I must've meant less than nothing if he was willing to pick her over me." YES! EXACTLY! If the person you cheat with means nothing to you the person you cheated on clearly means less than nothing to you! It's why I always hate excuse.
It never fails to surprise me how many cheaters think that saying, "My AP never meant anything to me!" makes things any better. It doesn't. It makes things worse. Anyone who can conduct a s*xual relationship for more than a day without feeling anything for that person is a cold and heartless person who is incapable of caring about any person outside him/herself.
Got one for you in return: An electron is driving down the highway. Cop pulls it over for speeding and asks "do you know how fast you're going?". Electron answers "no, but I know where I am!"
Story 3: OP is NTA, of course. The girlfriend is probably not even mad at him, but rather having a hard time with her diet, which makes her frustrated to see the food that she craves but can't have. Perhaps the diet she chose is very ineffective? Not everyone can loose weight just by cutting sugary and fat foods. Of course, none of this is OP's fault or responsibility. He deserves an apology.
Story 3: NTA. She wanted to diet and workout, so she's the one who decides when she's done. What if you brought her a cinnamon roll too? She would have screamed and cried again, because you'd ruin all the work she put in. If she wants junk food now, she should get it herself. That way she can't blame you afterwards
If she asked that means she would've wanted something, I think he's a little bit of an AH for not even asking. Just because someone is on a diet, doesn't mean they don't want a small treat or something.
She basically set a trap for him; no matter what he did, she would complain, and people would call him the AH for not reading her mind or predicting the future.
I’m glad his parents felt the heat when OP called him an embarrassment bc that’s on him. They should be embarrassed that they raised someone who feels comfortable cheating.
It's because they raised him to be a precious little baby boy who never needs to face consequences for his actions and his mommy and daddy will always be able to wipe his a$$ for him when he sh!ts the bed. He's just ended up thinking that that works with everyone else.
Story 3:Just because you can't eat something doesn't mean that others can't,NTA
A Vincey episode is almost like going on THE emotional rollercoaster. You're sad for someone, angry at someone, and then you're laughing at the wholesome section
I mean it’s appropriate for each situation but yeah, there’s always a rollercoaster of emotions 🎢
“You should get back with a cheater”
So you’re fine with your partner cheating?😆
Story 6 is very classic fire with fire: Start taking HER stuff and donate behind her back until she gets it.
Better plan is to just move out and under no circumstances give Mom a key to the new place. Maybe even refuse to have her over.
she won't get it. this is an issue of entitlement, she won't understand because she's egocentric and believes she can do whatever she wants with her kids and her belongings.
People who cheat have a 70% chance of cheating again. Find someone better.
Cheaters also love to play victim when the cheated on call them the same thing they feel.
Yep, I remember an older story where a father was a serial cheater and his wife had left him, he kept trying to win her back and even tried to convince their adult children to convince her to take him back, all while admitting that even if she took him back he would still keep cheating on her, yet he was still angry that nobody took his side.
What do you mean only 70%, my moms ex cheated any time he could
I’m not sure if your stat is accurate, but I agree with you on finding someone better.
I’m betting the odds go down if the cheater turns their self in. Bro should have just stayed quiet.
"Don't bring me any pastries-why didn't you bring me a pastry?!"
Is she for real?
It’s actually neither of them fault because the thing about cutting off snack foods is that your body craves snacks and sugar and the sudden cold turkey diet makes people irritated and frustrated for at least a few weeks. It’s no different than quitting cigarettes.
@@HelloYersoGae
I lost over 100 pounds. Never once did I get mad at people for eating junk food around me as I'm the one on the diet.
She needs to grow up and stop crying over nothing.
The problem, in my opinion, is not that he didn't bring her a pastry it's that he took away her agency to say no to having a pastry brought to her. He made the choice on his own. It was her choice to make and he took that option away from her.
Nah, my sister gets cheated on? We ride at dawn, I got her back.
The mom stealing the daughter’s stuff and donating it is insane. Wow. I definitely needed wholesome memes after that. Very triggering. 😵💫
Okay, while the brother is the jerk in the cheese story, OP also shouldn't have worn shoes she knows hurts her feet.
It's like wearing pants you know are on fire then complain about the smell.
What was the mom thinking in Story 6? What justification could she possibly have?
Simple: she thinks that because it's her kid, she can act however she wants. I'll bet she knows damn well if she pulled this crap with her friends, she wouldn't have friends or if she pulled this with her job, she'd be fired. But her kid? Nah, she should just get to act however she wants. More parents have that entitlement than people realize.
You are right, Vincey.
That's a pretty nice background, I hope your PC isn't on literal fire though 😂
Lmao hopefully not 😂
HELP REAL
I hate parents that think anything their kids own THEY own over them. Like they have more ownership over the kid's stuff. Even adult offspring. Yuck
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Wow that’s awesome! Hope you have fun with your friend and congratulations on finally finishing your work ❤😊
You should cover the “BestOfRedditorUpdates” subreddit. Who doesn’t love stories with follow ups?
Obligatory algorithm support. The first 3 stories are classic double standards. Always blame the victim for trying to do the right thing smh 🤦🏻♀️. Say hi to your cats for us Vincey ❤
As a picky eater, I 100% support not inviting me to dinners where food is not varied. I might be upset at first but if it was explained that the reason is that it is expensive and a set menu I would like "oh of course, thank you for remembering my preferences".
I heard "a-holy" as aïoli and I think we should start using the latter 😂
That last post has be fucking steamed, holy shit
Omg, yes. I'd be going scorched earth with that woman and literally donating ALL her stuff. And when she comes home to an empty house, I'd tell her that this is what she gets for touching/donating other people's stuff. She deserves to learn this the hard way.
To avoid her being able to play victim, tell her the exact location(s) of where her stuff is and that she can go and get it back if she hurries. For extra sting, don't tell her where some of the last couple things are.
2:53 IGNORE UR SISTER SHE WOULD REACT DIFF IF IT HER MARRIAGE
If she really pushed it, I'd call her SO and tell them they should be worried because apparently their partner is OK with cheating and she might cheat on them. No justice, no peace b!tch.
Story 5: NTA. Y'all would have to miss me because cookout CANCELED if someone totals my car in my driveway. No, I'm not going to go somewhere else because I'm in a bed mood. It's my house! Too bad, so sad.
Your videos come online at 3pm UK time which is a nice treat for teachers like me leaving work
I read 3am at first and I had _A LOT_ of questions lol
I don't think people who say " it meant nothing" (in terms of cheating) realize that makes it way worse, not better. What I hear when that phrase being used: "I threw away our relationship over something/someone that meant nothing to me". Like the OP and have a 0 tolerance for cheating myself, but I would rather know that they had to make a massive conflict of heart decision if I get cheated on. I would still dump them 5 days ago, but it would ease me a bit to know they didn't throw something good away for nothing... could be just me though?
Post 3 She was hangry
Story 4: The kid is a brat, but here's my question - why wear shoes that you know they make your feet hurt to the point where you can barely walk?
I don't get it either, but I'm told it's because "pretty"
Idk about that.. but if you're on your feet all day, that hurts regardless of the shoes.
Who knows. I bet if you were to ask OP, they'd say "pretty" like a robot.
When I was a kid my mom would not buy me shoes bigger than a size 7.5 because big feet on a girl were ugly. My feet constantly hurt until I could buy my own shoes (size 9).
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Big feet on a girl were ugly? To who-other women? People with feet f*tishes? Size nine isn't even big, WTF?
Why do the opinions of people who don't care if you're alive or dead matter? That's basically what I said when I get criticized for my comfy and practical clothing choices.
Being forced is one thing, but it baffles me why anyone would wear uncomfortable clothes on purpose that hurt you just to impress other people that you will never see again and "feel pretty" for about maybe five seconds until it feels like the clothes are trying to k*ll me.
I think the background is absolutely perfect! It's such a soothing thing to see while you're reading the post, Vince!
For story 2: I've got arfid I can only eat certain foods and I DONT go to fix menu restaurants, as the person with the good aversions it's your responsibility to accommodate it no one else's. Yeah it sucks, yeah most people don't get it, but it's no one's problem but yours.
Story 5: If I invite a bunch of people to a party and one of them destroys my property, everyone is leaving, I don't give a shit how long it took to get here. You don't fuck up someones car and think the party will continue. Also how is he supposed to leave, did everyone forget his car is busted?
Story 3: She can go and get her own pastry. Can the guy not just get himself something nice especially after she told him she was dieting and didn't want pastries?
I love hearing Vincey’s outraged voice. Want him on my side ❤
Same 😅❤
Final story: Mum is a thief, plain and simple. Document everything, and if it happens again, call the police on her.
As someone who struggles with binge eating and food addiction, I 100% I would freak out internally if my BF brought home a pastry and I couldn’t have one. Externally I’d ask him to please split it with me or give me a bite. The best way to support someone with BED who has just started learning Mindful Eating/Intuitive Eating is to not eat the junk in front of them. Of course the goal of Intuitive Eating is to not turn ferrel in front of food, so eventually the partner can enjoy their snacks at home whenever they want. But definitely at the beginning the best support is eating that stuff when your partner isn’t present. Same as not drinking in front of newly sober alcoholics. Seeing my BF walk in with a cinnamon bun would have me absolutely jonesing for a cinnamon bun. 😢😵💫 Saying no is so hard and being denied is also hard, cuz at some points in the day, it’s all you can think about- filling the void with a hit of dopamine.
8:55 Yeah, just play the mind games you weren't aware of, OP. I hope you're ready to walk on eggshells about nothing and watch her seeth over the way you breathe now. "Your breath smells like tacos; how could you do this to me?!"
Or maybe she could be an adult about it instead? Pfft, of course not.
He was told not to bring anything, and she got mad that he didn't bring anything.
story 3 NTA unlike the GF
I feel like I’ve won the lottery when Vincey reads a comment that I’ve read already!
It's not about the cheating specifically, it's about broken trust. Even if you forgive them and try to move on, you're now going to be wondering if they are telling the truth every time they say they have to work late or they say they are stuck in traffic. I know I couldn't live with that worry.
Story 4: Get more comfortable shoes, but at 13 the brother should be able to do a simple transaction at a store.
Story 2. I'd like to point out that the post never mentioned the picky eater themselves inviting themself.
I also always end up defending my fellow picky eaters in the these posts. But also I would definitely understand not being invited to something like that.
I'll admit, while I get that people have dietary restrictions or food sensitivities, I find picky eaters kinda annoying. Like newsflash, there's other food besides chicken nuggets and the world doesn't have to cater to your inability to have an adult palate.
@@khaleesireyna731inability to have a adult palate
@@khaleesireyna731 I understand but you do realize how quickly this can be ableist. Many picky people have psychological conditions like ARFID, eating disorders, or autism.
Like my pickiness is directly related to autism. Believe me, I wouldn't want to be as picky as I am and I've done a lot of work, including therapy, to be less picky. But it's not a choice.
I know there's food other than chicken nuggets but if I don't want to starve myself, sometimes that's all I can eat.
Also, like, it just sucks being excluded on purpose. I’m a vegetarian and once my close friend deliberately didn’t even tell me about his birthday dinner because it was at a sushi restaurant he knew I wouldn’t like. I only found out it happened afterwards from a mutual friend’s facebook post.
I was deeply hurt that I didn’t even get the option to decide if I wanted to go or not.
I understand not wanting to pay for her to not eat, but if that’s the only issue, tell her she needs to pay for herself.
I don’t think OP is an AH, and of course no one is entitled to an invite, but I can understand the DIL being upset by it, IF she would otherwise be invited to if food wasn’t an issue.
Anyways, I can understand both sides, but the DIL should have handled that differently, even if I think her feelings are valid.
If there's one thing I've learned as a woman who has a wife, it's best to ask anyway even if your wife has stated she's trying to avoid junk food and eat better. That way she feels considered and cared for and is given the opportunity to set her own boundaries instead of feeling like they've been set for her. Be supportive, ask in advance how you can support her current diet, but always ask when you're getting treats because you never know when she needs to feel included or just needs some comfort food.
Hmmm the mom stealing clothes... It's she ACTUALLY donating, or is she selling things?
Does it really matter?
Both are bad, tbh.
As a picky eater, I would understand entirely why I wasn't invited, and would not expect to enjoy the event anyway. Some people....
Love the minecraft backgrounds, they totally fit your vibe
With the mom trying to give away items OP will need for her own place, she better find a place soon. Talk about control issues!
Hey Vincey. The Minecraft background isnt parkour so i already love it. Excellent shaders btw 👍
As a diabetic with only sometimes good self-control, I do appreciate it when people don't even give me the option to say yes to pastries. But I think the whole pastry thing is a non-issue really and the gf is just a bit upset she's missing out. Just a littke healthy communication can solve the issue.
Story 6: Never, ever give her a key to your place or let her stay overnight.
If you can't install a lock.on your door, see if you can find a lockable trunk to store things in.
You should get some backgrounds from The Long Dark. It’s my favorite game, so I’m completely biased, but its beautiful scenery is a main factor for a lot of its long haul fans like myself. It’s one of those games you can sit in a spot, just set down the controller, and relax looking at all the pretty.
Super cozy too, lots of nice campfire and cabin settings. I just recommend the game in general by, if you’re into survival.
Always funny when cheating scumbags say it 'meant nothing' and think that makes it better 😂 it makes it worse! You're betraying the person you're supposed to love for nothing!? Yeah that makes it worse. God I hate manipulative, two faced cheats. They're absolute narcissists.
Post 4: How useless do you have to be to be incapable of buying a single item from the grocery store as a frickin’ teenager?? 🙄
Story 6, the OP should go into their moms closet and swap out the moms clothes in the bag.
Story 4 makes me wanna say "Them kids nowadays", even tho I used to be pretty much the same at the age of 13
I’m trying to cut down on sugar from a recent tooth filling I’ve had. If my partner wants to have a sweet treat, and I’m choosing to be sugar free that day, I wouldn’t be crying like a baby about him having a treat. She needs to realise she can’t control other people’s food choices, and should maybe seek therapy, as she has been having a hard time recently, hence the weight gain, and she’s taking things out on OP.
I think it's so weird, I understand that it's been kind of like a tradition for him to get her something from the bakery when he goes, but she's grown. If she wants something from the bakery she can go get it.
If my partner went out to eat on his way home and didn't bring me anything, it's a non-issue because I can go get myself something if I want it, definitely not going to get upset like a child, especially if I've been talking about how I wanted to lose some weight and cut back on snack stuff
If it meant nothing then that’s worst cause you threw away everything for nothing
Story 4: I typically agree, but I think you're mostly wrong here, Vincey. Yes, the 13yo is likely an entitled brat, however, it is neither OP's responsibility nor authority to parent him. If this is what is to be expected, stop helping the little a-hole out. This entire situation was just crazy, but OP is not the parent. As the youngest of 3, and the only male child, I was childified by my older sisters, even after having a family of my own and being in my mid-30s. Long term, it took both an aggressive, terrible family get together and 1.5 years of no contact before I finally forced them to see me as an adult.
The OP was probably parentified, given the age difference, and that's their parents' fault. But now OP believes they have some level of authority to order the brother around. They shouldn't and their mothers' backing of OP's demands is unjustified. OP needs to let mom handle this and keep their hands out of the future criminal's rearing.
aahh I love the Minecraft backgrounds! anything is better than that ai generated one but Minecraft is just perfect❤
(the fireplace one is the image gen crap btw)
Love Your voice and I always enjoy the stories. Especialy the wholesome ones.
Greetings from Sweden. 🇸🇪
Oh you record the backgrounds yourself? Nice dude! They're great.
I like the minecraft background
Same
2:40 BEO GOR CHEATED ON
11:42 But why?
Story 4:What a lazy brat,He 100% just didn't want to do it because of his laziness,NTA
Post 4: If he has bad social anxiety, and he has never gone into a grocery store by himself to buy something, but he has gone to a mall with his friends before, there is a chance that going into the store alone can seem terrifying and even make him want to freeze up, especially if it was unexpected. However, if that's the case, it's still good to make him get out of his comfort zone, so he can benefit from exposure therapy. Since I've gotten older, my social anxiety has eased up, but there were times in the past where I would freak out over small interactions because they were new and I hadn't had the chance to mentally prepare myself. In some cases, I would just flat out refuse to do something (usually involving a phone call) until my mom did it for me (or until I just couldn't put it off any longer once my mom stopped doing it for me).
Meanwhile, I was working a job that heavily involved customer service on the phone, and I had to do regular presentations in front of large groups, and I did it with ease. There's also a chance that maybe he did go into the store once by himself and he did something wong that embarrassed him so badly or something. Like, to this day, i refuse to call to order a pizza by actually calling the place because the one time I gathered the courage to do it (mom wouldn't do it, and this was right before online ordering became a thing), I said, "I'd like to order a medium Hawaiian pizza," and they responded with, "okay, and what kind of pizza do you want," and my brain broke because I had just told him what pizza I wanted, and my brain couldn't think of the correct response, so I just handed the phone to my mom and walked away. Also, everyone gets annoyed when you just get home and someone immedialty asks you to do something, so moot point.
thank you for writing out my exact thoughts for me lol
Vincey, I'm not sure if you noticed but some people were voting the pastry story as NAH (No A-holes Here). This is different from NTA. NTA means that OP isn't an a-hole but someone else is, NAH means that nobody in the story is an a-hole.
For the donation bags, I feel like I read a post at some point from the mom's POV but some details were different. In that one the mom was selling her kids' clothes and she seemed to think that this was her kids "contributing to the household income." Needless to say the mom was voted as YTA for essentially the same reasons OP in this story is NTA.
Hi, Vincey! I'm not sure if you're still interested in cat news, but I have some anyway. My niece's cat "Kit Kat" just had a litter of babies, triplets that my niece has named "Snickers", "Reeses", and "Twix"! Mama and her little "candy bars" are doing well! 😊
Wouldn't know on the background. I listen to your videos at work on headphones
Story 4: nah, the door slam would have netted me no video games for a week and possibly no door for that week. He's an entitled brat and the parents need to wake up
The minecraft background is very nice 😊
Backgrounds are nice
OK, Vincey, I love ya, but I disagree with you on the diet story.
Sugar is just as much of an addiction as cigarettes.
Its a lot harder to quit smoking if you're in a house with someone who smokes.
Its harder to cut out sugar if its still being brought into the house. Her partner should of definantly ate his pastry before he got home and kept sugar out of the house.
How could a OP leave the barbecue he is hosting at his home? That doesn’t make any sense of course he would have to cancel
Ffs you and some of the commentor’s on the poster acting like someone just broke a $10 base and not a $250,000 car.
Story 2's picky eater rubbed me the wrong way (not the pickiness itself but her attitude). I was reamed out by my mom everytime I asked to be invited to things other people were doing because it was Rude and Put People On the Spot.
If you're not invited, you are NOT INVITED! Damn the entitlement...
Makes me think she's picky for attention instead of having an actual medical reason since she's so butthurt not being invited to an adventurous food event where there will likely be no "safe" foods. What's she gonna do? Drink soda and watch them chew? Perhaps sneak in a Happy Meal? So childish!
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The picky eater story. It was best to not invite her. OP had plenty going on her side
1) only inviting bio family and not any spouses
2) inviting a picky eater to a "fancy restaurant" is on the same level as inviting a known Vegan to a "regular restaurant" that only has salad as their vegan option. You know the person would complain there is nothing on the menu for them
3) OP was paying so it's her wallet, her right to keep the gathering small
And I do defend people on their diet choice/restrictions and so on. I respect the same vegans that respect I use butter etc. but it was the easiest example.
I agree with points 1 and 3. The thing with not inviting people solely because of their dietary restrictions/preferences feels shitty for that person. (Note that I said for food being the ONLY reason for not being invited.) If that’s the only problem I feel like the person should at least be given the option like “hey, we’re going to this restaurant, you probably can’t/wont eat anything, but you can come if you want”.
Basically what I’m saying is- it isn’t nice when your friends exclude you from events because of food. Lol 😅
But yeah, either way, people are definitely not entitled to an invite, esp for reasons 1 and 3.
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Nah, excluding a person that's just going to wine, takes up space, and costs money even if they don't eat is a total waste.
@@calypsokiosko9067 In this one instance, I agree it was best to not invite DIL.
I was speaking more in general, that it is kind of a dick move to not invite someone solely because you assume they won’t eat or they don’t want to come. Also plenty of picky eaters/people with dietary restrictions can go out and not eat and are perfectly capable of not whining. And can also pay for themselves.
The DIL in this one was just entitled and handled it poorly. I can understand being upset at being excluded though.
That’s all I’m saying.
That brother of story 4 with the cheese and groceries...I have a feeling he is on his way to being an incel/neckbeard/white knight/ or even a low key misogynist (enabled by the parents) that thinks all the things his sister or mom are making him do are a woman's duty.
His parents are coddling him, not the sister. They are raising a king baby.
Or just a lazy brat.
I'm not sure you know what a white knight is, though.
Oooooh mincraft 🥰🥰🥰
Ok, post 3.
I'm on a diet myself, but what I eat and what others eat is completely different! I went to a restaurant with my friend a while back and we had a good meal, and they can give you dessert to take out. I took her round and showed her the cakes and she asked if I was getting one. I said no because of my diet and she nearly didn't get one, but I told her that if she wanted a cake then she can get a slice, it wouldn't affect md because I have a cheat day, that day wasn't my cheat day, and if I wanted cake it would be on my cheat day.
She got a cake slice and we both left happy.
I had a cake slice on my cheat day. 😁
Day 1,052 of reminding everyone to do things for yourself because you're worth it
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Story 3: it might be because I don't hang out with people who diet, but I think OP should be on the lookout for signs of orthorexia (an obsession with healthy eating). I'm a bit concerned for the girlfriend
Girlfriend from the pastry story is probably extremely sensitive trying to cut sweets and other “junk food.”
The problem with story 3 is that he never aked. Yes, she wanted to cut down on eating "junk foods" and get back into a body that made her feel happy, and it's great that he's supporting that. But he was incredibly inconsiderate for not even deciding to ask if she'd like anything or not while he was there. He is the AH, but not a major one, a light one.
The one comment forgets that everyone is different, she clearly would've appreciated(based on her reaction) it if he had ASKED HER if she wanyed anything, and he didn't.
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Gimme a break. She threw a tantrum like a toddler. She needs to grow up and stop embarrassing herself. She's pathetic. He needs to run from her and meet someone that has normal reactions to everyday life.
How would he know to ask? He was doing what she said, to not bring pastries. Why would he think to ask her if she wanted him to bring her one when she told him not to bring her one?
@@user-gj1me4mf5cthat's a bit extreme
Day 757 of reminding everyone to drink some water! Stay hydrated, friends!
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Story 3, I really wish we could hear both sides here.
Because OP mentions she was talking about going on a diet, but not that she actually started one.
Like if she gained weight due to shtf, is that situation over, has she landed, or was her intention to land and then start a diet?
"landed"???
Huh?
Wha-huh?
I dont get the nta comments on #3 She did seem upset but i dont think it was just about the pastry. She said she wanted to go on a diet not that she was on one meaning he should have asked. Him not asking basically said to her you're starting that diet now. He may not be a big ah but just a small one. They need to actually communicate with each other and not assume things. All the comment assuming she woupd have yell at him or gotten upset with him for asking is wrong since that is only speculative and not what happened. If it did the post would have been way different. The comments bashing her are a littpe women hatery if you dont agree that's fine but please stop assuming things that didn't happen.
Post #3: It isnt about the pastry. It is about thoughtfulness. My sister is gluten intolerant and doesnt want pastries either. HOWEVER, whenever we go to the store, we always get her something too. Not pastry but some kind of treat she can eat as well. Sure, dont bring your gf pastries but should have been thoughtful and got her something else instead. This way both of you can enjoy some treats.
She said not to get her anything. He didn't get her anything. She got mad anyway.
She's being childish, and it isn't up to him to figure out what she's thinking or predict the future; no one is a mind reader. He did what she told him to do. She should be more in charge of her reactions and emotions.
You _know_ she would get mad if he either brought a pastry for her ("I told you I didn't want one!") or called ("You're sabotaging my weight loss!"). She would get mad no matter what he did because she was taking her frustrations of her weight out on him with a temper tantrum.
@@lesstalking3007 Dude, she didnt say not to get her anything. She just talked about cutting out pastries. I am not sure in what world and understanding this means that she did not want ANYTHING. Pastries are not the only treats that exist. He could have gotten something else for her. Like a decent human being who has a partner. I am unsure how some people can buy something for themselves but get nothing for their partner. I would feel guilty af.
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She got mad at him for not giving her a pastry; the post clarified that's why she was mad. He got a pastry for himself, but he didn't get her one, and he didn't because she told him not to.
She saw him with a pastry and suddenly wanted one herself, then got mad when he didn't get her one. She basically put him in a trap.
But no, he should've read her mind and saw into the future what she wanted and then guessed she was hungry for a healthy alternative she never mentioned before or was perfectly OK with cheating on her diet. Sure, OK.
Guys the voice actor of Marge Simpson passed away today…
No, she did not. Julie Kavner is the voice of Marge. She's still alive, and she is 73 years old, living in Manhattan.
@@user-gj1me4mf5c the VA for the Latin American dub, Nancy Mackenzie, passed away.
Listen up men! Vincey included! #2 was the a-hole. He called his girlfriend fat. Shhhh! Shut up and listen. He. Called. His. Girlfriend. Fat. What you think doesn't matter, he did it. Stop listening to these "pick me" girls who say he did nothing wrong even worse the ones who say how they would love to be excluded from their normal pastry trip. The girlfriend is intelligent enough to understand how calories work. As long as you burn more than you eat you're going to lose weight. She could have budgeted in an extra spin class to burn the calories, stop treating women like we need you to solve our problems or protect us from food. Get her the usual and let her make her own way
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This is the most ignorant comment I've ever seen here.
Are you the psycho that had the tantrum? That ma needs to run far and fast from you. You are not normal, seek help.
Yeah, let's listen to the "women can do no wrong" posts like this instead. Sure.
GF got mad that OP did what she told him.
No he didn’t, stop making stuff up
Bait used to be believable
Post 2. Nah I think op ITA. Not because she didn't invite her step daughter to a restaurant where they serve food she won't like. Nah, that part is reasonable.
But she IS excluding her from a sort of family event. The right thing to do would be to plan something with her alone so she feels included again.
She's not her mother, but she IS dating a man with a kid/teen, so if HE's treated as family, she should treat his daughter as family accordingly. If my parents assumed I wouldn't come and excluded me from an activity I don't like, but invited my sister and step brother...I'd be rightfully upset.
I think OP should consider the step daughter's feelings more. But inherently, it's not wrong to do as she did.
1:53 OMG, this! I absolutely hate when cheaters try to justify their actions by saying “It meant nothing” because in saying that it effectively means that you are your feelings mean so little to them that cheating on you means nothing to them.
RIGHT
And the parents and sister defending the husband...they're probably cheaters themselves
Idk if someone ran over my quarter of a million dollar car and totalled it, I can't say I wouldn't cancel everything and tell everyone to get lost. I at least wouldn't be there hosting anymore, that's for sure.
Right!!?? I’m no longer in the mood to cook anything for anyone. Sorry that you drove several hours but my priorities are currently on my expensive transportation that just got totaled by some idiot that couldn’t take a few minutes to get off his phone. The people who drive several hours obviously aren’t at fault and can rightfully be upset but what is the husband supposed to do? He now has to pay out of pocket because someone else’s insurance won’t pay for it. I’d be pissed. 😭😭😭
Right? It's not like they all just have to turn around and go home, they can all go to a frikkin Denny's or something. My house is now off limits. Still should have included the spouse in the decision though.
"It meant nothing"
You realize that just makes it worse, right?
(The wife's sister was defending the husband? Yeah, she's sleeping with him.)
Story 1: I hate when people like the in-laws and OP's sister say that they were too cruel. It's like, "Hey, he risked your health and betrayed you, but you shouldn't be a meanie 🥺" it's so dumb to think like that.
Man that story of the dieting girlfriend and the pastry just kinda ticks me off, as an autistic person those unspoken "social expectations" are just stupid and frustrating
He did what she told him and she still got mad. People should just say what they mean.
I'm not on the spectrum and this kind of behaviour annoys me. It really is total BS.
Agreed. And crying? Why are people always crying over minor things? What are you going to do in an actual crisis?
Nah man, not being autistic doesn't help in a situation where the expectation is "you should have just psychically known I would want something contrary to what I previously told you." Any partner acting like that is not mature enough to be in a relationship.
@@nanoglitch6693 I agree but I'm just saying as an autistic person it's even harder to pick up that kind of stuff
Story 1: "Well then, I must've meant less than nothing if he was willing to pick her over me." YES! EXACTLY! If the person you cheat with means nothing to you the person you cheated on clearly means less than nothing to you! It's why I always hate excuse.
It never fails to surprise me how many cheaters think that saying, "My AP never meant anything to me!" makes things any better. It doesn't. It makes things worse. Anyone who can conduct a s*xual relationship for more than a day without feeling anything for that person is a cold and heartless person who is incapable of caring about any person outside him/herself.
He's an idiot who thinks he was never gonna get caught and now that he has, he's just whining because "Oh no, consequences!"
If you want another bad science joke, I have one
What did one cell say to it's sister cell that stepped on it's foot?
Mitosis
I gained a brain cell from this, thanks 😂. Here is yesterday’s pun: row with the flow 🛶
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Got one for you in return:
An electron is driving down the highway. Cop pulls it over for speeding and asks "do you know how fast you're going?". Electron answers "no, but I know where I am!"
So the mom is giving her kid's stuff away and is shocked that they can no longer trust her? What?
Donate all her stuff. Bet she'd get it then. If grandma is willing to help, get grandma involved too.
Story 3: OP is NTA, of course. The girlfriend is probably not even mad at him, but rather having a hard time with her diet, which makes her frustrated to see the food that she craves but can't have. Perhaps the diet she chose is very ineffective? Not everyone can loose weight just by cutting sugary and fat foods.
Of course, none of this is OP's fault or responsibility. He deserves an apology.
I wonder what other trust breaking things the mom from story 6 has done.
Last story: how many items has mother donated of her own?
Story 3: NTA. She wanted to diet and workout, so she's the one who decides when she's done. What if you brought her a cinnamon roll too? She would have screamed and cried again, because you'd ruin all the work she put in. If she wants junk food now, she should get it herself. That way she can't blame you afterwards
If she asked that means she would've wanted something, I think he's a little bit of an AH for not even asking. Just because someone is on a diet, doesn't mean they don't want a small treat or something.
She basically set a trap for him; no matter what he did, she would complain, and people would call him the AH for not reading her mind or predicting the future.
@@Kiara-MShe's a grown up, she can get it herself instead of throwing a tantrum. She should be embarrassed.
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Why would he ask for something she told him she didn't want?