I cried right when she said "I want to get pregnant naturally I dont want to do this" cause I can feel it too, and when Josh replied "I'm sorry" it gets even more painful cause I pictured my husband when he said that to me. Me and my husband has been trying to conceive for years, we've changed doctors, clinics and even hospitals but we've never succeed. Now we're at the state of feeling tired but then I watched this video. This video brings back the memories of my journey, and I feel like I can start over again. Lets do this Gabie, I know this is gonna be a rough journey but we can do this. Lets bring the good news when the time is come!
처음에 하기 싫다며 우는 가비의 말에 그 감정이 고스란히 전해져서 어찌나 마음이 아리던지.. 조쉬도 너무 서포티브 했지만, 고생하고 있었을 딸을 집에서 마음 조리며 기다리면서 굵직한 고기 넣어서 딸 먹이고 싶은 마음으로 잡채해주신 어머니의 마음도 왠지 너무 우리 엄마도 생각나면서 너무 그냥 혼자 울었어요. 다 잘될거라고 믿고 응원할게요.
Seeing Josh cry with you is heartwarming, obviously the heartbreak and sadness isn’t good, but the tenderness he has for you is something I hope for everyone to experience.
As someone who doesn't want kids, it really moves me to see how much you want this and what you're willing to go through to make it happen. I sincerely wish both of you all the luck in the world and I'm sure all your efforts will pay off eventually.
I also don’t want them, so you’re definitely not alone. I’ve been married 17 years, and it’s pretty sweet to not have to be responsible for anyone but yourself. It’s also great to do whatever you want, whenever you want, without having to take kids into account. I feel bad for people who get pregnant in high school. They’re missing out on living and trading it in- usually, for just getting by day to day and struggling with kids. I’ll pass on that any day.
Gabie, there is absolutely no shame in having IVF. Sometimes we need help and that's ok. Once you have that baby in your arms it won't even matter anymore how you got pregnant. Wishing you all the best.
@@cajeriojaeoijcajeroijaero9856 i don't think it has to be from own experiences to be able to say those things. Science is a partnof God gift. and God definitely love for its human to be able to try their best. Consider ivf as the effort and then let it all back to the God to decide. As gabie n josh said with or without baby they still in for each other. Lets just pray for the best and pretty words wont hurt them isn't?
I've seen a lot of people discussing their IVF journeys as of late and I can't imagine how draining and difficult it must be to go on this journey. Just know that you are incredibly strong to go through this and that you have a whole community of people behind you. Take as much time as you need to rest. As an IVF baby, I wish you the best of luck!
Gabie, you are so strong for not only going through this challenging process but for sharing it online. I am sure it will be comforting for others who have undergone IVF. My mother went through three rounds of IVF trying to conceive and she often says that the physical pain is nothing compared to the mental toll it takes on you and your family. My mother's advice for anyone in IVF is always; to take each day one day at a time, try to be kind to yourself for it is not your fault, and lean on those around you who are there to help. I'm thinking of you and Josh in this trying time and I wish you the best of luck!
Taylor! I’m so glad to see you here as well. Your journey was very trying and inspiring. Seeing your beautiful baby boy now is a testament for your strength and love. I hope the same for Gabie and Josh.
걱정마세요 지나고 보면 진짜 아기가 너무 이뻐서 힘들었던게 기억도 안날정도랍니다 저도 와이프 배에 매일매일 제가 놓았죠..... 안아프게 하려고 엄청 노력했고 배우고... 주사 놓을때마다 가슴이 찢어지듯이 힘들었습니다 또... 유산도 경험하고 .. 힘들게 찾아온 아이가 5개월째 식도폐쇄증이 될수도 있다해서 서울대병원에 가서 낳았습니다 다행히도 정상이고 지금 잘크고 있습니다 지금 98일째 아들내미가 옆에서 자고 있습니다~ 힘들었던 기억이 나지도 않아요......그냥 뭐랄까 너무 빨리 지나갔네요 아이가 너무 이뻐서 힘들었던거 정말로 하나도 기억이 안납니다~ 그당시에는 너무 힘들었던거 같아요 뭐랄까.. 가슴에 구멍이 난것처럼 또 일상생활을 해야하고 일도 해야하기에.... 더 힘들었던거 같은데... 지금은 너~~~~~~무 행복합니다
Ya, cause your dad who easily could have ran off and gotten another woman pregnant was sooooooo weak. Not like he only wanted a child with a particular woman.ugh
Different women respond to the hormone treatment differently. I froze my eggs and I don't think I had any side effects during the process, it was very easy. Just wanted to put this out there so people won't think they will for sure suffer. But I think it could be a fun conversation for you to have with your mum about what the process was like for her.
@@skleroosis oh ty for this information!! but I've already talked about this with my mom and she told me she had a rlly hard time and was always the one injecting herself too😞🙏
가비님! 저랑 너무 비슷한 상황이시라 같이 울면서 영상봤어요...ㅜ 저도 자궁내막증으로 수술했었고 유산 후 시험관으로 쌍둥이 임신 출산 후 곧 돌을 앞둔 둥이맘이에요! 저도 신선이식 안되는 상황이라 동결로 했는데 그게 성공했답니다!! 그 긴시간동안 정말 몸과 마음이 아픈일들이 너무 많았는데... 어떨때는 주변의 어설픈 위로가 더 칼날같은 상처로 남아 지금도 그때를 생각하면 마음이 시릴때가 있는데... 가비님은 유튜버이시니 더 힘든 부분이 있지 않을까 하는 생각이 듭니다. 부디 더 몸과마음 힘든일 겪지않으시고 기적처럼 곧 아기가 찾아오길!! 진심으로 기도할게요!! 이때다 하고 맛난거 몸에 좋은것 많이 챙겨드시구요~!
hey guys. my wife and I had been married for almost 7 years now. in 2019 (3 years in our marriage), we had a glimmer of hope, my wife was pregnant. Unfortunately we had a miscarriage. she was devastated. we nearly gave up. we started planning for an IVF and also an adoption. 2022, she's pregnant (naturally) and hopefully we can see our little one in early 2023. I pray for you both that you guys will soon have a baby / babies in the near future. lots of love, Amar from Brunei Darussalam
My nephew was conceived via IVF, and while my brother was out of town for work for a few days (he tried desperately to get someone else to cover, but when you're a specialist in a field...), I helped my SIL with the injections and clinic visits. The fact that they were able to retrieve ten eggs is very very good. They got four from my SIL, and through sheer blind luck two were fertilized. It also helps that you have an astoundingly resilient husband in Josh, who not only is taking the journey with you, but is also willing to share his vulnerabilities on camera just as much as you are. With how strong both of you are, I am fairly certain that the mini-carrott, whenever he or she arrives, will be exactly what you were both wanting 🥰 Also... I was eating some japchae watching this video and then, boom, at the end, beef japchae 🤣🤤
That is so fantastic! I'm so glad that you were able to be there and help them out and I'm so glad that everything worked out! Thank you for your story and your comment!
It's amazing how Josh is traveling and creating content for Jolly and Korean Englishman and can still be there for Gabie. It's beautiful to see his commitment. I hope you two can have a healthy baby.
Wow what an achievement for husband to be there while wife is going through fertility treatment? How bar is low for men dude..they both are having kids that's bare minimum...
@pcy6141 it's more special because we can see how busy his schedule is filming high quality content and networking with celebrities...he's not the average Joe.
My parents went through 5 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 5 FETs. They have us, 3 children-we are all in HS! Mom said it was a painful 10 year journey, but it all worked out in the end. Hoping the best for you and Josh too!❤❤❤
가비님이 이 댓글을 보실진 모르겠지만, 저는 시험관 아기로 태어난 고3이에요. 어릴땐 시험관에 대해 잘 몰랐었지만 지금 생각해보면 엄마한테 너무 고마워요. 엄마는 제가 동생이 갖고 싶다는 이유로 38살때 제 늦둥이 동생도 시험관으로 낳으셨거든요. 엄마는 주사라면 치를 떠는 사람이고, 입덧때문에 저를 임신 한 동안 방에서조차 나가지 못했대요. 엄마가 동생을 임신했을때, 울면서 주사를 놓던 아빠와 울면서 주사를 맞던 엄마가 저는 생생히 기억나요. 엄마는 그 힘든 과정을 다 알면서도, 첫째인 저를 키우는게 너무 재밌어서 한번 더 반복하셨어요. 엄마는 아직까지도 주사를 굉장히 싫어하시고 아빠는 아직까지도 주사를 남에게 놓지 못하겠대요. 그렇지만 두분은 저와 동생을 누구보다도 아껴줬어요. 엄마 배에는 제왕절개로 큰 흉터도 생겨버렸지만 엄마는 시험관 한거 절대 후회 안한대요. 가비, 조쉬도 마음 단단히 먹고 그 멋진 길 나아갔으면 좋겠어요. 가비님 영상 보면서 한번 더 엄마한테 고마움을 느끼고 가요.
아 정말 얼마나 힘든여정 중인데 또 잠시 중단해야해서 진짜 속상하시겠지만 꼭 꼭 잘 임신 되실꺼니까 그 과정에서 무너지지 말고 항상 건강히 잘 될꺼라고 먼저 스스로 믿고 또 믿으며 버티시길 ❤ 저랑 우리모두 진짜 믿어의심치 않아요 걱정말아요 무조건 건강히 몇배의 좋은 결실 얻어질게 분명하니까 가비언니 화이팅 사랑해요.
I'm so glad that Josh is there for Gabie and willing to help her, especially with the shots. I wanted to cry everytime she started to cry. Hoping things go good for them, and maybe someday a baby. Anyways, they're a beautiful, loving couple.
저도 자궁내막증으로 수술 후 난임으로 시험관했었어요. 배주사, 난자채취, 수정란삽입, 엉덩이주사 과정을 다 격었어요. 그렇게 생긴 쌍둥이가 내년에 대학생이 된답니다. 가비씨 배란주사 맞는 힘든 과정보며 울컥했어요. 잘 될거에요. 잘 될거라 믿어요. 저는 몸을 따뜻하게 하는 족욕이 도움된거 같아요. 기도할께요.
I’m a bit late to comment, but thank you for allowing us to see how emotional and physically draining the IVF process can be. It’s been over 18 months since my last and final IVF cycle - five years, eight cycles, one miscarriage. I went through all the needles, appointments, and surgery, only to be diagnosed with “unexplained infertility”. Needless to say, it was heartbreaking and didn’t know who I was because I had thought (and told) I would always someday be a mother. This was my journey, but so many others have been blessed from the process and have beautiful families. There are no reasons or meant-to-bes of why it happens for some and not others. It just is. And there are dark days and then there are hopeful days and we just have to navigate it as best we can. Sending you my heart in this journey and I wish so many hopeful days ahead for you and Josh. ✨
가비님, 저도 시험관 3차만에 이쁜 둥이들이 찾아와서 지금은 벌써 32개월이 되었네요.. 정말 그 힘든 과정들 알기에 너무 조금이나마 힘이 되어드리고 싶네요.. 긴 터널들을 지나 빛나는 천사가 찾아오길 정말 기도하고 또 기도하겠습니다! 응원할게요❤ 엄마는 위대하다! 화이팅!!:)
Gabie I felt like crying. I am married for 8 years and haven't been blessed with a baby. Watching your videos helped me gain the strength that I can go through this too. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. You don't know how it helped for people like me who are silently suffering with fertility issues. Virtual hugs Gabie you are an angel
I feel like this is why this is such a huge reason for why videos like this are so important. For those who are walking down this path to feel some sort of community to find comfort within to discuss challenges, decisions, and to be able to cheer each other on… ❤
My sister and her husband have 3 kids through ivf. It took I think 3 failed implantation tries before the first 2, but it doesn't even compare to the pain of raising them, lol. Good luck!
가비언니 오랜시간 봐왔던 구독자인데 이번 영상은 마음이 일렁여요 모든게 낯설고 마음이 아프지만 결국 생각하게 되는건 가비가 행복해지길 바래요 아주 잠시 가열하게 쉼없이 달린다고 생각해요 그리고 숨을 고르고 하늘을 봤을때 후련하고 벅찬 결과가 있을거예요 저는 모든 과정에 대해 생소하고 함께 울었지만 공유해주는 가비에게 고맙고 폭 안아주고 싶어요 어떤 결과이던 가비의 건강이 제일 중요하고 가비의 행복이 가장 중요해요 영상 찍느냐, 편집하느냐 고생 많았어요!😢 고마워요
Thank you for sharing Gabbie, watching this made me realise how strong each and every one who has experienced IVF are. And Josh’s way of support and how he was being so understanding warms my heart. You’re both amazing
don’t give up gabie!! my mom had my older sister through ivf before she had me & my other siblings naturally! we always joke to my older sis about how she’s a test tube baby & a wanted baby so she should always always cherish her life 😅 also my mom always share with me about her ivf journey and how she had to get injections daily while going to the hospitals for check up all by herself 😢 i think all moms in the world are great and amazing ❤ this journey is tough but you will get there ❤
Thank you for sharing this. I got PCOS and i'm planning on marrying next year. Gabbie's videos are helping me so much and your mom's story inspired me even more ❤
@@Rashmisoo no worries ❤ sadly, i have pcos too and i think i might have difficulties giving birth in the future too but my mom’s story will always be my inspiration ❤ she has pcos yet managed to give birth to 4 healthy girls! ( 1 through ivf, 3 naturally) ❤ i think the idea is to always always trust in yourself and never give up even if the journey gets tough ❤
as a korean adoptee who's mother went thru this and failed... my heart goes out to you, gabie and josh. the love you guys share, the support, everything is so inspiring and reminds me how strong women can be, no matter what happens! keep going, keep smiling, YOU GOT THIS 💕💕💕
Wow, I cannot get over how brave you two are for sharing this journey with us. I also can't imagine the comfort you're bringing to thousands of people also going along the same road. It must feel like a relief to know they're not alone.
Sending you guys so much love. It took me 7 years to have my first child after our second IUI. I can still vividly remember all the feelings that I felt when I was going through it. Love is never an easy journey, but when you finally hold that precious life in your arms, all the pain and heartache just melt away and only pure joy and happiness remain. 4 years later I conceived my second daughter naturally, and 11 years later, at 45yo, I had my son who was the BIGGEST surprise of my life. Have heart Gabbie and Josh, and never stop believing. Sending you love and warm hugs from Indonesia. 🥰
It is really brave of you to share your journey like this. I have so many friends I have known that have had fertility issues and there is still an awful taboo around talking about it. Tens of thousands of people go through this every year, but we're still afraid to share it? I guess there is some embarrassment and shame about it. I think you're doing a lot for people in this situation. It shouldn't be scary to talk about. It shouldn't be shameful that you're going through this. I applaud your transparency and wish you the best of luck.
IVF is so hard. I think you can be prepared, in theory, for the physical impacts, but the emotional ones hit so very hard. You are very strong Gabie, and I’m so glad you have Josh and your family to support you. Best wishes on your journey.
i dont think ive ever cried more at a youtube video.. gabie and josh my heart goes out to you. i am praying and praying that this will work for you guys. youre seriously so strong and thankyou for being so vulnerable with us. i will keep you in my thoughts... all the best
부부가 서로만 알 수 있는 이 벅찬 마음... 영상을 보고 있는데 눈물이 나네요. 전 딸아이 키우고 있는데, 딸 배에 주사 놔주시면서 아프냐고 물으시는 어머니 마음도... 남편분도... 힘들게 버티시는 가비님도... 힘내시라는 말조차 힘들까 조심스럽지만, 가비님 가정이 내년에는 더 행복하고 사랑이 가득하길 바랍니다!
That first clip, I cried with you guys. When this baby comes it’s going to have such a great family. The amount of RUclipsrs I’ve seen document IVF - it’s really more common than I thought. Women are so strong.
Seeing Josh cry when you started crying just let me know when this baby eventually comes, it’s going to be so so loved by a wonderful set of parents who share a deep and beautiful bond.
그래도 남편이 주사도 놔주고 좋네요 . 저는 일하는데에 먹는 약과 주사를 가지고 가서 일하던 와중에 시간맞춰 주사를 놓고 약을 먹어야 했어요. 이른 아침과 밤에 집에서 놔야 할 때든 어디서든 주사놓는 내 모습을 남편은 본적이 없고, 본인은 무섭다며 보려고 하지도 않았어요. 시험관을 하는 본인이 과정을 견뎌낼 의지가 아무리 강하다 해도 같이 고통을 감내하려는 상대의 태도는 마음의 안정감에 큰 영향을 줘요. 조쉬는 그런면에서 좋은 사람인것같아요.
It's ok Gabie! everyone needs a little help sometimes, it's just in different things for different people. hoping for a good result for you and Josh soon!!
저도 이런 경험을 했던 사람으로, 너무 감정이입하며 봤네요ㅜ 저도 그 시간이 힘들었기에..ㅠ 힘내라는 말을 하고 싶어서, 처음으로 유툽 댓글을 남겨 봅니다. 저는 결국 인공수정, 시험관 다 실패하고 그냥 우리 둘이 행복하게살자~ 하며 편하게 마음내려놓고 열심히 살고 있는 어느날 하나님께서 아기 천사를 선물해주셨어요♡ 응원합니다♡♡
저는 난자채취 3번 이식 4차만에 아기를 만났어요 난자채취부터 쉽지 않았고 이식 또한 계속 실패하다보니 정신이 너무 피폐해져서 4차를 마지막이다 생각하고 진행했었는데 감사하게도 아기가 찾아왔고 지금 옆에서 45일된 아기가 자고 있어요 영상을 보니 너무 공감되고 지난 시간이 떠오르네요 여자만 고생.. 🐶고생이죠 정말 몸도 마음도 너무 힘든 여정이예요. 좋은 남편이 계시니까 잘 견디실꺼라 생각해요 곧 아기가 찾아와서 지금 제가 지난 과정을 추억(?)하는 것 처럼 아기를 재워두고 이 영상을 꺼내보시는 날이 금방 오시길 진심으로 기원할께요!
Your videos has been helping me deal with my tokophobia ( tokophobia is the intense morbid fear of getting pregnant and childbirth). I don't want children and my husband does not too, but the fear and panic around the theme is hard for me because I am a doctor. So watching your loving videos, you both doing it together and lovingly, as well as struggling together, has been helpful for me to see it in a loving and positive way, and helping me with the intense fear I feel around the theme of pregnancy and childbirth!
This is the first time I feel seen. I'm scared of getting pregnant too. Even though I've never really been in a real relationship but I just have this intense fear to the point that I'm scared of sex too because the what ifs just keep plaguing me. Its nice to hear that there are others who feel the same
@@rheam3920 There are a lot os us in the world! I think even if you don'`t want children, fear of enjoying healthy and safe sex is a huge thing, I felt the same. What helped me in this part is that I trust in science. I researched the most efficient form of birth control and I stick to it (I use currently the hormonal IUD, the second most efficient form of birth control). Maybe talking to your doctor about it and choosing the best birth control method for you and sticking to it the correct way can help lessen the fear. BUT this doesn'`t mean I still don'`t fear I will get pregnant. Everytime my stomach is bloated I get a little paranoid T_T
Thank you so much for your honesty I had no idea it was a thing. Pregnancy freaks the hell out of me, even worse thought of childbirth gives me intense anxiety and fear. Unfortunately touching a woman's belly triggered this phobia I didn't know I had.
@@rebeccadsouza9128 I get you... When I see the baby moving below the skin of the pregnant person it triggers me so much. Respect your limits and don't force yourself to be in situations where you have to be exposed to this theme. It's ok to have a phobia, it's ok not to like to touch pregnant women's bellies. I bet most of them themselves don't like to be touched, as it is a very personal and intimate thing...
3년 동안 시험관을 했고.. 지금의 과정이 얼마나 힘든지 누구보다 공감해요. 힘내세요! 언젠가는 예쁜 천사가 오니깐요~ 저도 3년만에 성공했고 지금 예쁜 쌍둥이 남매가 태어난지 60일 되었답니다. 제 담당 쌤이 그랬어요. 아기천사는 늦게 올 뿐… 언젠가는 꼭 온다고!! 그때까지 멘탈 잘 잡으시고!! 주사를 맞는 과정보다 결과를 볼 때 제일 힘들 거예요. 고생한만큼 꼭 좋은 소식 있길 바랄게요!
응원의 좋아요 눌고 글 남깁니다.. 마지막에 왜이렇게 눈물이 나던지요.. 가비님 아무생각하지마시고푹 쉬시면서 몸을 그리고 자신에게 최대한 집중하면서 맛잇는거 많이 드시고 슬플땐 슬픔표현하시고 기쁠땐또 마음껏 기쁘세요!! 그래도 괜찮아요 지탱해줄 가족들이 바로 눈 앞에 있으니 그 얼마나 복인가요 곧 새롭고 가슴벅찬 행복과 미래가 올테니 너무 심려치 마시고 지금은 그대로 괜찮아요 심호흡하시고 푹 쉬세요!!! 응원하고 격려하고 위로합니다. 그리고 팬의 입장으로 너무나 소중한분 사랑합니다.
힘들게 엄마가 됐던 입장에서 여러가지가 공감이 되서 글 남깁니다. 결혼 후에 내가 난임일거라고 생각하는 여자는 없잖아요. 언제든 맘만 먹으면 가질 수 있을거라 생각했는데 그게 안될 때의 당황스러움과 절망이 얼마나 고통스러웠는지 모릅니다. 저는 모든게 내탓이고 여자로서 자괴감까지 느꼈었어요. 몇년을 무척이나 노력했지만 안좋은 경험까지 겪다보니 무너지더군요. 하지만 감사하게도 남편이 계속 붙들어 줬어요. 많이 도와주고요. 결국 이쁜 새식구를 만날 수 있었답니다. 조쉬께서 온맘다해 도와주시고 함께 하시니까 가비님도 곧 엄마가 될 수 있을거라 믿습니다. 많은 구독자분들의 응원이 꼭 와닿을 거예요.
This video reminded me we women are so strong and so powerful ❤ I’m wishing you all the strength and happiness in the world. I hope this journey brings you lots of joy at the end ❤
언니 덕분에 생명을 가지는 일이 얼마나 기적이고 멋진일인지 느낄수 있었어요 요즘 다들 아이를 가지는일이 얼마나 힘든지 생각하면서 비혼주의인 친구들이 많아지거나 결혼을해도 자녀를 원하는 사람들이 드물다보니 저도 같은 생각이였는데 언니 영상을 보면서 정말 멋있다고 생각이들고 감동이였어요 ♥️
너무나 수고했어요.. 아프지만 잘해내는 중이시라니 다행입니다. 맘이 아파서 썸네일만 보고 못보다가 이제 볼 용기가 났어요. 걱정되는 거는 남편에게 다 떠맡으시고 순서대로 하면 좋은 결과 있으실꺼예요. 왜냐면 기쁜일만 가득한 미래가 준비되어 있거든요!! 국가비님 사랑해요♥♥♥
힘내세요!!! 저도 나팔관조영술부터 출산때까지 임신기간내내 응급상황에 눈물바람이였지만 지금 어느덧 두아이 엄마가 되었어요 지금돌이켜보면 그런일이있었구나..싶네요.. 가비님 눈물보며 그때의 그 감정이 기억났네요😢 힘드시겠지만 곧 만날 아기를 생각해 힘내세요~ 엄마 아빠가 이렇게 보고싶어하는거 아니까 금방 찾아올거에요!!
I'm not even married or close to the thought of pregnancy but this video made me cry. Just thinking about the amount of pressure, sacrifices and things that women have to go through.... Thank you for sharing this. This is my first peek at the IVF process and it looks so overwhelming. I can only imagine how hard it must be for you, Gabie. Sending you lots of love and strength, and praying for a smooth process for you 🧡 화이팅!
If you think it's just women, you're missing a very important half to a very important whole. Stop focusing on just the plight of the one you side with and wake up to the reality of the fullness of life.
I cried right when she said "I want to get pregnant naturally I dont want to do this" cause I can feel it too, and when Josh replied "I'm sorry" it gets even more painful cause I pictured my husband when he said that to me. Me and my husband has been trying to conceive for years, we've changed doctors, clinics and even hospitals but we've never succeed. Now we're at the state of feeling tired but then I watched this video. This video brings back the memories of my journey, and I feel like I can start over again. Lets do this Gabie, I know this is gonna be a rough journey but we can do this. Lets bring the good news when the time is come!
Me too I cried I pray they have a baby
I cried so hard
파이팅!! 어떤분이 아기발이 작아서 늦게 온다고 하네요.
희망의 끈 절대 놓지 마세요.
Just fucking adopt bro jesus christ
I did two rounds of IVF, both I had to jab like that cos first round of ivf non of my embryos made it. Quality of eggs not good they say.
처음에 하기 싫다며 우는 가비의 말에 그 감정이 고스란히 전해져서 어찌나 마음이 아리던지.. 조쉬도 너무 서포티브 했지만, 고생하고 있었을 딸을 집에서 마음 조리며 기다리면서 굵직한 고기 넣어서 딸 먹이고 싶은 마음으로 잡채해주신 어머니의 마음도 왠지 너무 우리 엄마도 생각나면서 너무 그냥 혼자 울었어요. 다 잘될거라고 믿고 응원할게요.
제가 하고픈말ㅠㅠ
Same here. It made me so sad. I really hope this works for them 😢
가비씨 힘내세요..!❤
저도 딱 이런 마음에 눈물이..ㅜㅜ 가비님 다 잘될거예요~~ 홧팅♡
가비♡
다 잘될거예요
자궁도 길트인다고 해요
이번에 잘되고 순풍순풍 세아가의 엄마가 되서 아롱이다롱이 낳고 행복한 비명 지르게 될겁니다~
회이팅~!!!
Seeing Josh cry with you is heartwarming, obviously the heartbreak and sadness isn’t good, but the tenderness he has for you is something I hope for everyone to experience.
이제야 봤네요.
저는 아들 하나만 5년만에 얻었어요.
그럼에도
60이 넘은 지금도 둘째 시험관 안 한걸 한번씩 후회하고 있어요.
분명 최고로 가치있는 시도예요.
용기를 가지시기를..
포기하지않기를 ..부디
As someone who doesn't want kids, it really moves me to see how much you want this and what you're willing to go through to make it happen. I sincerely wish both of you all the luck in the world and I'm sure all your efforts will pay off eventually.
Don't let anyone change ypur mind but yourself on kids. Not everyone wants to be a parent.
I also don’t want them, so you’re definitely not alone. I’ve been married 17 years, and it’s pretty sweet to not have to be responsible for anyone but yourself. It’s also great to do whatever you want, whenever you want, without having to take kids into account. I feel bad for people who get pregnant in high school. They’re missing out on living and trading it in- usually, for just getting by day to day and struggling with kids. I’ll pass on that any day.
Gabie, there is absolutely no shame in having IVF. Sometimes we need help and that's ok. Once you have that baby in your arms it won't even matter anymore how you got pregnant. Wishing you all the best.
@@cajeriojaeoijcajeroijaero9856 i don't think it has to be from own experiences to be able to say those things. Science is a partnof God gift. and God definitely love for its human to be able to try their best. Consider ivf as the effort and then let it all back to the God to decide. As gabie n josh said with or without baby they still in for each other. Lets just pray for the best and pretty words wont hurt them isn't?
@@cajeriojaeoijcajeroijaero9856 What are you? Gabi’s twin? Only you are in tune with her?
@@cajeriojaeoijcajeroijaero9856 what are you even saying?
@@cajeriojaeoijcajeroijaero9856 dude what???
@@cajeriojaeoijcajeroijaero9856 Umm... Why do I have a feeling that you've taken it out of context? 😅 OP meant no harm.
먼 훗날 아이에게 이 영상을 보여주면서 엄마 아빠가 귀한 너를 만나기 위해서 이렇게 노력했다고 말해주는 날이 올거예요 응원합니다
You’re such a sweet person
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 진짜로 그리 생각하오?
@@팩트로팰때쓰는계정 당신도 누군가의 소중한자식이시겠죠. 늘행복하시고 남의행복도빌수있는 사람되시길~
아이가 나와야 그말을하죠
@@하히후헤헤호 정말 그럴그예요 ..작고 소중한 아가
아기 발이 작아서 찾아오는데 오래걸린다고 하잖아요 예쁜 생명이 찾아오길 기도합니다^^
되게 예쁜 말이네요❤❤
어머나. 작은 발의 아기가 아장아장 걷는 상상을 하니 너무 귀여워요👶🏻
@BAT 어디서 오는지, 시작점을 모르고 다 다르니까 누군가한테는 오래걸리는 거겠죠! 가비님에게 좋은 소식이 오길, 또 가비님의 행복과 건강을 기원해줍시다!
🥹..
너무나 이쁜말
I've seen a lot of people discussing their IVF journeys as of late and I can't imagine how draining and difficult it must be to go on this journey. Just know that you are incredibly strong to go through this and that you have a whole community of people behind you. Take as much time as you need to rest.
As an IVF baby, I wish you the best of luck!
아가야, 이렇게 너를 원하고 있단다.
추운겨울 조심히 그리고 건강히 가비엄마에게 와주렴!
Gabie, you are so strong for not only going through this challenging process but for sharing it online. I am sure it will be comforting for others who have undergone IVF. My mother went through three rounds of IVF trying to conceive and she often says that the physical pain is nothing compared to the mental toll it takes on you and your family. My mother's advice for anyone in IVF is always; to take each day one day at a time, try to be kind to yourself for it is not your fault, and lean on those around you who are there to help. I'm thinking of you and Josh in this trying time and I wish you the best of luck!
❤️
You’re not alone ❤ I’m so glad you have such a great support team around you. Take everything one step at a time, you’ve got this! 💪
Taylor! I’m so glad to see you here as well. Your journey was very trying and inspiring. Seeing your beautiful baby boy now is a testament for your strength and love. I hope the same for Gabie and Josh.
Your journey was so beautiful and inspiring Taylor, thank you for sending love! I hope nothing but the best for Gabie ❤️
Thank you for commenting, Taylor! Your journey was the first one I thought of when I saw Gabbie is starting IVF
My prayer and thoughts go to u & Josh , Brea 🙏
걱정마세요 지나고 보면 진짜 아기가 너무 이뻐서 힘들었던게 기억도 안날정도랍니다
저도 와이프 배에 매일매일 제가 놓았죠..... 안아프게 하려고 엄청 노력했고 배우고... 주사 놓을때마다 가슴이 찢어지듯이 힘들었습니다
또... 유산도 경험하고 .. 힘들게 찾아온 아이가 5개월째 식도폐쇄증이 될수도 있다해서 서울대병원에 가서 낳았습니다
다행히도 정상이고 지금 잘크고 있습니다
지금 98일째 아들내미가 옆에서 자고 있습니다~
힘들었던 기억이 나지도 않아요......그냥 뭐랄까 너무 빨리 지나갔네요
아이가 너무 이뻐서 힘들었던거 정말로 하나도 기억이 안납니다~
그당시에는 너무 힘들었던거 같아요 뭐랄까.. 가슴에 구멍이 난것처럼 또 일상생활을 해야하고 일도 해야하기에.... 더 힘들었던거 같은데...
지금은 너~~~~~~무 행복합니다
행복하게 사신다니 다행입니다..앞으로도 더 행복하세요
iam an IVF child and watching this makes me so grateful for my parents especially my mom she's so strong 😞
Ya, cause your dad who easily could have ran off and gotten another woman pregnant was sooooooo weak. Not like he only wanted a child with a particular woman.ugh
Different women respond to the hormone treatment differently. I froze my eggs and I don't think I had any side effects during the process, it was very easy. Just wanted to put this out there so people won't think they will for sure suffer. But I think it could be a fun conversation for you to have with your mum about what the process was like for her.
@@skleroosis oh ty for this information!! but I've already talked about this with my mom and she told me she had a rlly hard time and was always the one injecting herself too😞🙏
@@Maryam-bl2gi awh. That's too bad. At least it had a good outcome.
@@skleroosis you're so sweet thank you!😭❤
가비님! 저랑 너무 비슷한 상황이시라 같이 울면서 영상봤어요...ㅜ 저도 자궁내막증으로 수술했었고 유산 후 시험관으로 쌍둥이 임신 출산 후 곧 돌을 앞둔 둥이맘이에요! 저도 신선이식 안되는 상황이라 동결로 했는데 그게 성공했답니다!! 그 긴시간동안 정말 몸과 마음이 아픈일들이 너무 많았는데... 어떨때는 주변의 어설픈 위로가 더 칼날같은 상처로 남아 지금도 그때를 생각하면 마음이 시릴때가 있는데... 가비님은 유튜버이시니 더 힘든 부분이 있지 않을까 하는 생각이 듭니다. 부디 더 몸과마음 힘든일 겪지않으시고 기적처럼 곧 아기가 찾아오길!! 진심으로 기도할게요!! 이때다 하고 맛난거 몸에 좋은것 많이 챙겨드시구요~!
hey guys.
my wife and I had been married for almost 7 years now.
in 2019 (3 years in our marriage), we had a glimmer of hope, my wife was pregnant. Unfortunately we had a miscarriage. she was devastated.
we nearly gave up. we started planning for an IVF and also an adoption.
2022, she's pregnant (naturally) and hopefully we can see our little one in early 2023.
I pray for you both that you guys will soon have a baby / babies in the near future.
lots of love, Amar from Brunei Darussalam
Congratulations with all my heart❤
Wow this was so inspiring I’m so happy for you and your family and I hope the same for them ❤
Congratulations👼🏻👼🏻🤍🤍🤍
Wish you guys have a good health and happy holiday!
congratulations ❤🇧🇳
The baby who is waiting for this family is lucky to see how much they are wanted by you guys through this journey.
Beautifully said 🥹
When Gabie cried, it broke my heart, I cried with her. Josh is an amazing partner. Sending positive vibes your way. *Fighting*
Same 🥺
Me too...
Me too
I almost cried too ❤
OMG same i dont like seeing her cry either, but one thing for sure JOSH IS THERE!! Sending nothing but prayers to you guys!!
두분을 꼭닮은 예쁜 아기가 생기시길 진심으로 기원합니다.
추후에 아기와 영상을 보게 된다면 너무나 뿌듯하고 고생한 보람이 있을것같아요~
행복하고 건강하세요😍
My nephew was conceived via IVF, and while my brother was out of town for work for a few days (he tried desperately to get someone else to cover, but when you're a specialist in a field...), I helped my SIL with the injections and clinic visits. The fact that they were able to retrieve ten eggs is very very good. They got four from my SIL, and through sheer blind luck two were fertilized. It also helps that you have an astoundingly resilient husband in Josh, who not only is taking the journey with you, but is also willing to share his vulnerabilities on camera just as much as you are. With how strong both of you are, I am fairly certain that the mini-carrott, whenever he or she arrives, will be exactly what you were both wanting 🥰
Also... I was eating some japchae watching this video and then, boom, at the end, beef japchae 🤣🤤
That is so fantastic! I'm so glad that you were able to be there and help them out and I'm so glad that everything worked out! Thank you for your story and your comment!
자연임신은...진짜 축복이며 기적이고..놀라운 일이군요..
아기천사가...꼭 빨리 찾아오길 바랍니다.
두분의 용기있는 과정을 지켜보고 있기만 해도 눈물이 나요, 모두가 간절히 응원하고 있으니 꼭 좋은 일이 생기기를 바래요🤍🤍🤍
It's amazing how Josh is traveling and creating content for Jolly and Korean Englishman and can still be there for Gabie. It's beautiful to see his commitment. I hope you two can have a healthy baby.
@@qist_ Gabie has been having trouble with her infertility and they both want kids
pretty simple really
Wow what an achievement for husband to be there while wife is going through fertility treatment? How bar is low for men dude..they both are having kids that's bare minimum...
I really hope so too. They truly deserve it ❤❤❤
@@pcy6141 yes that's the bare minimum and sadly not all men do that, so it's such a nice thing to see how josh is there for gabie.
@pcy6141 it's more special because we can see how busy his schedule is filming high quality content and networking with celebrities...he's not the average Joe.
이 이쁜 부부에게 찾아오게될 행운의 아기야
빨리 만나자 ♡
My parents went through 5 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 5 FETs. They have us, 3 children-we are all in HS! Mom said it was a painful 10 year journey, but it all worked out in the end. Hoping the best for you and Josh too!❤❤❤
aww, it sounds goofy but I really felt your parent’s love through your words. Wishing you and your family the best!
가비님이 이 댓글을 보실진 모르겠지만,
저는 시험관 아기로 태어난 고3이에요.
어릴땐 시험관에 대해 잘 몰랐었지만
지금 생각해보면 엄마한테 너무 고마워요.
엄마는 제가 동생이 갖고 싶다는 이유로
38살때 제 늦둥이 동생도 시험관으로 낳으셨거든요.
엄마는 주사라면 치를 떠는 사람이고,
입덧때문에 저를 임신 한 동안 방에서조차 나가지 못했대요.
엄마가 동생을 임신했을때, 울면서 주사를 놓던 아빠와
울면서 주사를 맞던 엄마가 저는 생생히 기억나요.
엄마는 그 힘든 과정을 다 알면서도,
첫째인 저를 키우는게 너무 재밌어서
한번 더 반복하셨어요.
엄마는 아직까지도 주사를 굉장히 싫어하시고
아빠는 아직까지도 주사를 남에게 놓지 못하겠대요.
그렇지만 두분은 저와 동생을 누구보다도 아껴줬어요.
엄마 배에는 제왕절개로 큰 흉터도 생겨버렸지만
엄마는 시험관 한거 절대 후회 안한대요.
가비, 조쉬도 마음 단단히 먹고 그 멋진 길 나아갔으면 좋겠어요.
가비님 영상 보면서 한번 더 엄마한테 고마움을 느끼고 가요.
정말 착하고 선하게 자라신 게 느껴집니다
그래서 부모님이 그 힘든 과정을 한번 더 반복하겠다고 다짐하셨나봐요
글쓴님이 너무 예쁘게 자라셔서요..
부모님이 힘든만큼 엄청 행복하셨을 것 같아요
아휴 감동 받았어요
This is such a sweet comment 🥰😊
힘든시간 생각 안 날만큼 예쁜아가천사 와주길 기도할게요💛
아 정말 얼마나 힘든여정 중인데 또 잠시 중단해야해서 진짜 속상하시겠지만 꼭 꼭 잘 임신 되실꺼니까 그 과정에서 무너지지 말고 항상 건강히 잘 될꺼라고 먼저 스스로 믿고 또 믿으며 버티시길 ❤ 저랑 우리모두 진짜 믿어의심치 않아요 걱정말아요 무조건 건강히 몇배의 좋은 결실 얻어질게 분명하니까 가비언니 화이팅 사랑해요.
I'm so glad that Josh is there for Gabie and willing to help her, especially with the shots. I wanted to cry everytime she started to cry. Hoping things go good for them, and maybe someday a baby. Anyways, they're a beautiful, loving couple.
저도 자궁내막증으로 수술 후 난임으로 시험관했었어요.
배주사, 난자채취, 수정란삽입, 엉덩이주사 과정을 다 격었어요.
그렇게 생긴 쌍둥이가 내년에 대학생이 된답니다.
가비씨 배란주사 맞는 힘든 과정보며 울컥했어요. 잘 될거에요. 잘 될거라 믿어요.
저는 몸을 따뜻하게 하는 족욕이 도움된거 같아요. 기도할께요.
스트레스받지 마시고 푹 쉬세요~!! 두분을 쏙 닮은 어여쁜 아가가 곧 찾아올거에요🤍
같이 마음 아파서 함께 울었어요..ㅠㅠ
신은 선물을 주실 때 시련이라는 포장지에 싸주신다고 하잖아요..
얼마나 큰 선물이기에 얼마나 소중하고 사랑스러운 아이를 보내주시려고 ㅠㅠ
아가야~~ 빨리오렴 엄마아빠 그만 힘들게 해주쟈~~~~ ^^
언젠가 아이에게 "넌 최고의 유튜브 각 이었어!"라고 말 해주는 그날이 오길 바랍니다 ^^
I’m a bit late to comment, but thank you for allowing us to see how emotional and physically draining the IVF process can be. It’s been over 18 months since my last and final IVF cycle - five years, eight cycles, one miscarriage. I went through all the needles, appointments, and surgery, only to be diagnosed with “unexplained infertility”. Needless to say, it was heartbreaking and didn’t know who I was because I had thought (and told) I would always someday be a mother. This was my journey, but so many others have been blessed from the process and have beautiful families. There are no reasons or meant-to-bes of why it happens for some and not others. It just is. And there are dark days and then there are hopeful days and we just have to navigate it as best we can. Sending you my heart in this journey and I wish so many hopeful days ahead for you and Josh. ✨
❤
가비언니 분명히 아기천사가 금방 찾아올거에요😇 울지마세요!
이녀석 얼마나 대단할 녀석이길래 이리 엄마아빠를 고생시키는지^^ 두분의 사랑과 노력에 꼭 좋은 결실이 있길 바래요~♡
시작과 채취후 그 감정 잘 압니다. 저도 7년차 //시험관 하고 있어요. 시험관은 긴 여정의 인내심 이랍니다. 응원해요!가비님 꼭 성공하길 바래요
가비님, 저도 시험관 3차만에 이쁜 둥이들이 찾아와서 지금은 벌써 32개월이 되었네요.. 정말 그 힘든 과정들 알기에 너무 조금이나마 힘이 되어드리고 싶네요.. 긴 터널들을 지나 빛나는 천사가 찾아오길 정말 기도하고 또 기도하겠습니다! 응원할게요❤ 엄마는 위대하다! 화이팅!!:)
두분의 사랑의결실인 이쁜 아이가 빨리 오기를 기도합니다.
맞아요.아기발이 작아서 늦게 천천히 조심히 오는중일거예요^^저도 40에결혼해서 1년반 시술햇어요 다실패해서 시험관권유받고 준비중에 시술받으러가는전날 자연임신알고 지금은 그아이가 중1됫답니다^^ 힘들어도 조금만 더 힘내요 응원합니다. 꼭 엄마만나러 올거예요 힘내요 힘!
힘내세요
Gabie I felt like crying. I am married for 8 years and haven't been blessed with a baby. Watching your videos helped me gain the strength that I can go through this too. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. You don't know how it helped for people like me who are silently suffering with fertility issues. Virtual hugs Gabie you are an angel
I feel like this is why this is such a huge reason for why videos like this are so important. For those who are walking down this path to feel some sort of community to find comfort within to discuss challenges, decisions, and to be able to cheer each other on… ❤
I wish you all the best!
All the best!!
You got this! Good luck and God bless 🙏❤
My sister and her husband have 3 kids through ivf. It took I think 3 failed implantation tries before the first 2, but it doesn't even compare to the pain of raising them, lol. Good luck!
That first clip…I’m crying. My husband and I have cried together exactly like that❤❤❤
어떤 말을 해드려야할지..그냥 정말 응원해요! 꼭 행운이 찾아올거예요🌈
응원하고 기도합니다 천사같은 아기가 찾아올 거예요 그날이 꼭 올거예요 ! 걱정말아요!
가비언니 오랜시간 봐왔던 구독자인데 이번 영상은 마음이 일렁여요
모든게 낯설고 마음이 아프지만 결국 생각하게 되는건 가비가 행복해지길 바래요 아주 잠시 가열하게 쉼없이 달린다고 생각해요 그리고 숨을 고르고 하늘을 봤을때 후련하고 벅찬 결과가 있을거예요 저는 모든 과정에 대해 생소하고 함께 울었지만 공유해주는 가비에게 고맙고 폭 안아주고 싶어요 어떤 결과이던 가비의 건강이 제일 중요하고 가비의 행복이 가장 중요해요 영상 찍느냐, 편집하느냐 고생 많았어요!😢 고마워요
Thank you for sharing Gabbie, watching this made me realise how strong each and every one who has experienced IVF are. And Josh’s way of support and how he was being so understanding warms my heart. You’re both amazing
저도 자궁내막증 수술하고 결혼 4년동안 아기가 안생겨서 39살에 시험관 시술로 임신했어요~~영상보고 옛생각에 울컥했네요. 지금은 30개월 아들둥이 잘 키우고 있어요~~ 시험관 이식전에 착상에 좋다는 소고기 두유 추어탕 엄청먹었었어요
몸관리 잘하세요~ 예쁜아기가 꼭 찾아올거예요~~
don’t give up gabie!! my mom had my older sister through ivf before she had me & my other siblings naturally! we always joke to my older sis about how she’s a test tube baby & a wanted baby so she should always always cherish her life 😅 also my mom always share with me about her ivf journey and how she had to get injections daily while going to the hospitals for check up all by herself 😢 i think all moms in the world are great and amazing ❤ this journey is tough but you will get there ❤
That's so cute😆
Thank you for sharing this. I got PCOS and i'm planning on marrying next year. Gabbie's videos are helping me so much and your mom's story inspired me even more ❤
@@Rashmisoo no worries ❤ sadly, i have pcos too and i think i might have difficulties giving birth in the future too but my mom’s story will always be my inspiration ❤ she has pcos yet managed to give birth to 4 healthy girls! ( 1 through ivf, 3 naturally) ❤ i think the idea is to always always trust in yourself and never give up even if the journey gets tough ❤
얼굴 한 번 본 적 없는 언니의 팬이지만 .. 정말 온 마음 다해 언니의 건강과 행복을 바라요 🙏🏼 정말정말..!!
as a korean adoptee who's mother went thru this and failed... my heart goes out to you, gabie and josh. the love you guys share, the support, everything is so inspiring and reminds me how strong women can be, no matter what happens! keep going, keep smiling, YOU GOT THIS 💕💕💕
남매둥이엄마랍니다. 몇 년전 제 모습같아 눈물이 많이 나네요. 정말 고통스럽고 힘든 시간을 보내고 많이 울기도 했던 지난 날이 주마등같이 펼쳐지더라구요. 힘내시고 기쁜 소식 있으실 꺼랍니다. 언젠가 이 영상을 사랑스런 아이에게 보여주며 웃으실꺼라 확신해요~
👆 👆 완전 리 얼 ~ 올 누 드 & 사 생 활 👆 👆
원하는대로 너무 쉽게 보 여주는것 아냐?!! 👆 👆 검색 ㄱ ㄱ
아기 천사야 이렇게 아름다운 부부가 널 기다리고 있어! 건강하게 조심해서와!!
가비언니에게 소중한 생명이 꼭 찾아가길 간절히 바라요...그 과정또한 너무 힘들지 않았으면 좋겠고..언제나 응원합니다🥹💙
Wow, I cannot get over how brave you two are for sharing this journey with us. I also can't imagine the comfort you're bringing to thousands of people also going along the same road. It must feel like a relief to know they're not alone.
아주소중하고 예쁜 아기가 찾아오려고 힘든과정을 겪으시네요,하나님의 귀한 선물 분명히 내려올거에요 끝까지 잘 견디시고 좋은 선물 받길 기도합니다.
한 생명이 정말 소중하네요.
정말 고생 많이 하셨구요. 시간이 많이 지난후에 지금 힘들었던 이 과정을 아기를 바라보며 웃으며 얘기할 날이 꼭 올꺼에요~힘내세요~!
시험관이 정말 힘든 과정이군요 ㅠㅠ 너무너무 힘드시겠어요.. 마음이 너무 아픕니다
꼭 예쁜 생명이 찾아오기를 바랍니다!!
Sending you guys so much love. It took me 7 years to have my first child after our second IUI. I can still vividly remember all the feelings that I felt when I was going through it. Love is never an easy journey, but when you finally hold that precious life in your arms, all the pain and heartache just melt away and only pure joy and happiness remain. 4 years later I conceived my second daughter naturally, and 11 years later, at 45yo, I had my son who was the BIGGEST surprise of my life. Have heart Gabbie and Josh, and never stop believing. Sending you love and warm hugs from Indonesia. 🥰
It is really brave of you to share your journey like this. I have so many friends I have known that have had fertility issues and there is still an awful taboo around talking about it. Tens of thousands of people go through this every year, but we're still afraid to share it? I guess there is some embarrassment and shame about it. I think you're doing a lot for people in this situation. It shouldn't be scary to talk about. It shouldn't be shameful that you're going through this. I applaud your transparency and wish you the best of luck.
토닥토닥 힘든 과정을 이겨내는 가비님을 응원합니다.
I went through all this, and I succeed... Stay strong, keep calm very very calm and believe in it!!! Good luck!!!🌺
IVF is so hard. I think you can be prepared, in theory, for the physical impacts, but the emotional ones hit so very hard. You are very strong Gabie, and I’m so glad you have Josh and your family to support you.
Best wishes on your journey.
i dont think ive ever cried more at a youtube video.. gabie and josh my heart goes out to you. i am praying and praying that this will work for you guys. youre seriously so strong and thankyou for being so vulnerable with us. i will keep you in my thoughts... all the best
가비 울면서 보게 되네요 정말 고생 많았어요 둘에게 좋은 소식이 꼭 생기길 바래요 고생하면서도 영상을 찍어서 공유해 줘서 고마워요
몸도 맘도 힘들었을테 그 와중에도 이렇게 영상 남긴건 단지 기록용이 아니라는거 알아요. 어떤 마음으로 기록한건지 알기에 더 고마워요. 정말 애썼고 너무 잘했고 또 잘하고 있어요. 올 연말에는 가비를 떠올리면서 기도할게요.
부부가 서로만 알 수 있는 이 벅찬 마음... 영상을 보고 있는데 눈물이 나네요.
전 딸아이 키우고 있는데, 딸 배에 주사 놔주시면서 아프냐고 물으시는 어머니 마음도... 남편분도... 힘들게 버티시는 가비님도... 힘내시라는 말조차 힘들까 조심스럽지만, 가비님 가정이 내년에는 더 행복하고 사랑이 가득하길 바랍니다!
As a Moslem i pray for you both. "In the name of Allah, The Most Gracious and The Most Merciful“... You got this Gabie.. Fighting!
That first clip, I cried with you guys. When this baby comes it’s going to have such a great family.
The amount of RUclipsrs I’ve seen document IVF - it’s really more common than I thought. Women are so strong.
Seeing Josh cry when you started crying just let me know when this baby eventually comes, it’s going to be so so loved by a wonderful set of parents who share a deep and beautiful bond.
엄마 아빠가 많이 기다리고 있으니까
아가가 건강히 빨리 만나러 왔으면 좋겠어요😊
그래도 남편이 주사도 놔주고 좋네요 . 저는 일하는데에 먹는 약과 주사를 가지고 가서 일하던 와중에 시간맞춰 주사를 놓고 약을 먹어야 했어요. 이른 아침과 밤에 집에서 놔야 할 때든 어디서든 주사놓는 내 모습을 남편은 본적이 없고, 본인은 무섭다며 보려고 하지도 않았어요. 시험관을 하는 본인이 과정을 견뎌낼 의지가 아무리 강하다 해도 같이 고통을 감내하려는 상대의 태도는 마음의 안정감에 큰 영향을 줘요. 조쉬는 그런면에서 좋은 사람인것같아요.
모든 어려운 고비 잘 넘기고, Josh와 Gabie 품에 세상 건강하고 아름다운 캐럿 아기가 안기기를 온 마음으로 빕니다. 🙏🏽
Joshi 아니고 Josh 입니다 ㅋㅋㅋ 오타 나셨나보네요... ㅋㅋㅋ
It's ok Gabie! everyone needs a little help sometimes, it's just in different things for different people. hoping for a good result for you and Josh soon!!
친정 어머니가 함께 있어주셔서 다행이고 쏘스윗한 조쉬가 온맘으로 함께 아파해줘서 그나마 힘든 기간 잘 해온신것 같아요.
가비와 조쉬가 갑작스레 맞게된 아름다운 첫눈처럼 그렇게 천사가 찾아와주길🕯✨️❤️
저도 이런 경험을 했던 사람으로, 너무 감정이입하며 봤네요ㅜ 저도 그 시간이 힘들었기에..ㅠ 힘내라는 말을 하고 싶어서, 처음으로 유툽 댓글을 남겨 봅니다. 저는 결국 인공수정, 시험관 다 실패하고 그냥 우리 둘이 행복하게살자~ 하며 편하게 마음내려놓고 열심히 살고 있는 어느날 하나님께서 아기 천사를 선물해주셨어요♡
응원합니다♡♡
2:35 I don't wanna do this.. 제 마음이 다 아프네요...눈물이ㅜㅜㅜㅜㅜ 가비님 다산기운 요기남기고갑니다. 내년 크리스마스에는 조쉬가비 쪼꼬미와 함께 하고있기를 🙏
"나 정말 자연 임신 하고 싶었어"하며 우시는 가비님 마음이 뭔지 너무 잘 알겠어서 울컥했네요. 저도 그랬거든요. 그 힘든 과정 다 겪고 임신이 되고 출산하고 육아를 하니 그 힘들었던거 다 잊을만큼 행복한 일들이 찾아옵니다~~ 모쪼록 힘내세요!!!
아고. 얼마나 이쁜 아가가 올라고 . 엄마 힘들게.
엄마아빠 닮아 너무 이쁜아가가 짠 올테니 맘편히 기달려봐요.
제 주변경험담을 말씀드리면 시험관하다 힘들어서 잠시 멈추고 치아교정했더니
자연임신이 되버렸다는^^
맘 편히 가지시라고요^^ 쉽지는않지만요^^
홧팅입니다
Seeing you guys cry. Just hurts. I’m so use to seeing happiness and laughter. I pray for you both!!
저는 난자채취 3번 이식 4차만에 아기를 만났어요
난자채취부터 쉽지 않았고 이식 또한 계속 실패하다보니 정신이 너무 피폐해져서 4차를 마지막이다 생각하고 진행했었는데 감사하게도 아기가 찾아왔고 지금 옆에서 45일된 아기가 자고 있어요
영상을 보니 너무 공감되고 지난 시간이 떠오르네요
여자만 고생.. 🐶고생이죠 정말
몸도 마음도 너무 힘든 여정이예요. 좋은 남편이 계시니까 잘 견디실꺼라 생각해요
곧 아기가 찾아와서 지금 제가 지난 과정을 추억(?)하는 것 처럼 아기를 재워두고 이 영상을 꺼내보시는 날이 금방 오시길 진심으로 기원할께요!
Saying prayers for you especially and Josh too. I hope it'll go well for you Gabbie. You are so incredibly strong
I’m praying for guys, stay strong as you are, bless you guys ❤🧿
저도 결혼 3년동안 임신 안되서
차병원 에서 가비씨처럼 시술했어요 5번모두 실패되서
시험관시술로 했는데
쌍둥이 가져서 힘들게 낳았어요
가비님 ㆍ조쉬 마음 느껴져서
눈물이 낫어요
힘내시고 고생끝에 아기가 기다리고있어요 씩씩하게 힘내주세요 너무나 이쁜 커플부부
축복합니다 주님께 기도드립니다
화이팅 힘내세요 두분 늘 응원할게요 ~♡♡♡♡♡♡
같이 울었어요ㅜㅜ 같은 아픔을 겪은 여자로써..
절대 조급해하지 마시고 꼭 건강한 아기 만나시길 바랄게요🙏🙏
Your videos has been helping me deal with my tokophobia ( tokophobia is the intense morbid fear of getting pregnant and childbirth). I don't want children and my husband does not too, but the fear and panic around the theme is hard for me because I am a doctor. So watching your loving videos, you both doing it together and lovingly, as well as struggling together, has been helpful for me to see it in a loving and positive way, and helping me with the intense fear I feel around the theme of pregnancy and childbirth!
That's beautiful, I wish u the best
This is the first time I feel seen. I'm scared of getting pregnant too. Even though I've never really been in a real relationship but I just have this intense fear to the point that I'm scared of sex too because the what ifs just keep plaguing me. Its nice to hear that there are others who feel the same
@@rheam3920 There are a lot os us in the world! I think even if you don'`t want children, fear of enjoying healthy and safe sex is a huge thing, I felt the same. What helped me in this part is that I trust in science. I researched the most efficient form of birth control and I stick to it (I use currently the hormonal IUD, the second most efficient form of birth control). Maybe talking to your doctor about it and choosing the best birth control method for you and sticking to it the correct way can help lessen the fear.
BUT this doesn'`t mean I still don'`t fear I will get pregnant. Everytime my stomach is bloated I get a little paranoid T_T
Thank you so much for your honesty I had no idea it was a thing. Pregnancy freaks the hell out of me, even worse thought of childbirth gives me intense anxiety and fear. Unfortunately touching a woman's belly triggered this phobia I didn't know I had.
@@rebeccadsouza9128 I get you... When I see the baby moving below the skin of the pregnant person it triggers me so much. Respect your limits and don't force yourself to be in situations where you have to be exposed to this theme. It's ok to have a phobia, it's ok not to like to touch pregnant women's bellies. I bet most of them themselves don't like to be touched, as it is a very personal and intimate thing...
영상 보는 내내 저도 같이 울었네요ㅜㅜ 저두 두분의 오랜 팬이예요~꼭 예쁘고 건강한 아기천사가 찾아오도록 기도할께요~화이팅♡힘내세요♡
3년 동안 시험관을 했고.. 지금의 과정이 얼마나 힘든지 누구보다 공감해요. 힘내세요! 언젠가는 예쁜 천사가 오니깐요~ 저도 3년만에 성공했고 지금 예쁜 쌍둥이 남매가 태어난지 60일 되었답니다. 제 담당 쌤이 그랬어요. 아기천사는 늦게 올 뿐… 언젠가는 꼭 온다고!! 그때까지 멘탈 잘 잡으시고!! 주사를 맞는 과정보다 결과를 볼 때 제일 힘들 거예요. 고생한만큼 꼭 좋은 소식 있길 바랄게요!
응원의 좋아요 눌고 글 남깁니다.. 마지막에 왜이렇게 눈물이 나던지요.. 가비님 아무생각하지마시고푹 쉬시면서 몸을 그리고 자신에게 최대한 집중하면서 맛잇는거 많이 드시고 슬플땐 슬픔표현하시고 기쁠땐또 마음껏 기쁘세요!! 그래도 괜찮아요 지탱해줄 가족들이 바로 눈 앞에 있으니 그 얼마나 복인가요 곧 새롭고 가슴벅찬 행복과 미래가 올테니 너무 심려치 마시고 지금은 그대로 괜찮아요 심호흡하시고 푹 쉬세요!!! 응원하고 격려하고 위로합니다. 그리고 팬의 입장으로 너무나 소중한분 사랑합니다.
아이고 아픈 모습 보니 고생이 너무 많으시네요.
제발 성공하시길 빕니다.
내년에는 깜찍한 새생명이 태여나서 영어 한국어 다잘하고 엄마 아빠 이쁨 받고 건강하게 아기가 자라는 모습 기대 할게요.
힘들게 엄마가 됐던 입장에서 여러가지가 공감이 되서 글 남깁니다. 결혼 후에 내가 난임일거라고 생각하는 여자는 없잖아요. 언제든 맘만 먹으면 가질 수 있을거라 생각했는데 그게 안될 때의 당황스러움과 절망이 얼마나 고통스러웠는지 모릅니다. 저는 모든게 내탓이고 여자로서 자괴감까지 느꼈었어요. 몇년을 무척이나 노력했지만 안좋은 경험까지 겪다보니 무너지더군요. 하지만 감사하게도 남편이 계속 붙들어 줬어요. 많이 도와주고요. 결국 이쁜 새식구를 만날 수 있었답니다. 조쉬께서 온맘다해 도와주시고 함께 하시니까 가비님도 곧 엄마가 될 수 있을거라 믿습니다. 많은 구독자분들의 응원이 꼭 와닿을 거예요.
제 큰딸도 미국 내슈빌 사는데 가비씨랑 똑같은 과정을 지난 주에 치렀답니다
가볼 수 있는 상황도 아니어서 참 마음이 아팠어요
제 딸을 보는 마음으로 영상봤어요
다 잘 될거에요 지금은 힘들겠지만 곧 사랑스러운 아가 만나시게 될거에요
딸 응원하는 그 마음으로 응원해요
This video reminded me we women are so strong and so powerful ❤ I’m wishing you all the strength and happiness in the world. I hope this journey brings you lots of joy at the end ❤
두분 닮아 예쁘고 건강한 아이가 금방 찾아와 줄 거라고 믿어요💚응원하고 기도합니다💕
언니 덕분에 생명을 가지는 일이 얼마나 기적이고 멋진일인지 느낄수 있었어요
요즘 다들 아이를 가지는일이 얼마나 힘든지 생각하면서 비혼주의인 친구들이 많아지거나 결혼을해도 자녀를 원하는 사람들이 드물다보니 저도 같은 생각이였는데 언니 영상을 보면서 정말 멋있다고 생각이들고 감동이였어요 ♥️
이러운 과정을 4번이나 긍정적이고 의연하게 버텨준 와이프에게 정말 잘해야 겠다는 생각을 다시한번 하게되네요
힘내시고 건강아게 아이가 찾아오길 바라겠습니다.
자연임신하고 싶었다는 말에 같이 울어버렸네요… 어려운 결정이었을텐데 용기내신 두 분을 응원합니다. 아가 천사가 분명히 엄마아빠를 찾아올테니 걱정마세요. 가비님의 안정이 최고로 중요해요. 충분히 휴식하고 오세요:) 화이팅 ❤
Was crying the moment you both hugged 🥺 praying for the both of you!!
Hey, thanks for sharing your journey. I cried watching this. You go girl! You can do this!
너무나 수고했어요.. 아프지만 잘해내는 중이시라니 다행입니다. 맘이 아파서 썸네일만 보고 못보다가 이제 볼 용기가 났어요. 걱정되는 거는 남편에게 다 떠맡으시고 순서대로 하면 좋은 결과 있으실꺼예요. 왜냐면 기쁜일만 가득한 미래가 준비되어 있거든요!! 국가비님 사랑해요♥♥♥
힘내세요!!! 저도 나팔관조영술부터 출산때까지 임신기간내내 응급상황에 눈물바람이였지만 지금 어느덧 두아이 엄마가 되었어요 지금돌이켜보면 그런일이있었구나..싶네요.. 가비님 눈물보며 그때의 그 감정이 기억났네요😢 힘드시겠지만 곧 만날 아기를 생각해 힘내세요~ 엄마 아빠가 이렇게 보고싶어하는거 아니까 금방 찾아올거에요!!
예쁜 아가야 꼭 빨리 와줘 ❤️
모두 다 잘 될꺼예요..걱정말고 편안하게 마음을 가지고 기다리면 좋은 소식이 올꺼예요~^^
44살에 시험관 실패하고 포기했는데 5월에 자연임신 아들을 낳아서 만5년 똑소리난다는 소리듣고 키우고 있어요 잘 되실거예요 26살부터 42살까지 계속 실패하다가 딸을 나은 지인이 계세요 절망하지말고 아직 시간많아요 힘내세요
I'm not even married or close to the thought of pregnancy but this video made me cry. Just thinking about the amount of pressure, sacrifices and things that women have to go through.... Thank you for sharing this. This is my first peek at the IVF process and it looks so overwhelming. I can only imagine how hard it must be for you, Gabie. Sending you lots of love and strength, and praying for a smooth process for you 🧡 화이팅!
If you think it's just women, you're missing a very important half to a very important whole. Stop focusing on just the plight of the one you side with and wake up to the reality of the fullness of life.
@@Akutikun I agree this pressure comes from both partners not just one. Both Josh and Gabie have suffered on this difficult journey.