as a single Christian mom, i love that y'all are discussing this! i made a lot of bad choices when i was living in the world, BEFORE coming to Christ, one of them was living in sexual immorality. when i got pregnant at 22, i made the decision to get an abortion & ALMOST went through with it. but by the grace of God, i made the choice to keep my baby and i thank the Lord every day for her because she is truly the biggest blessing! 🥲 i have been walking with the Lord in purity for 3 years now & really enjoying my season of singleness, knowing Jesus is enough! raising my daughter in the ways of the Lord & being her mom in this lifetime has brought me so much joy. i trust God's perfect will & timing for my life whether i'm called to marriage or a life of singleness. all glory be to God! ❤
@@paytonferguson9014 it’s amazing what the Lord can do when we surrender and repent and put our faith in Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith 🙏🏼😭❤️
Yes queen!!! I was a 20 year old mom & left the dad. Years later, baptized and dedicated Christian woman who finally got married! Enjoy that era with God. He’s the best. We need nothing more. Thank you Lord.
As Sav was praising Josh, I was thinking, maybe the flowers equivalent for men is giving them their “flowers” - verbal compliments, words of affirmation, praise, honor, thanks. Receiving flowers makes a women feel loved and thought of and maybe it’s the verbal words of affirmation that make men feel valued.
Hawaii is sooooo expensive to live now, tourists are actually making it more expensive on the island for the natives to live there. I wouldn’t recommend full blown moving there, at least right now in its current state. It’s beautiful, but a tragedy for some, if not most the natives the moment.
@@teeandkids937 They “need” the tourists because it’s a part of its economic profit. The use of “need” comes from mostly non-natives that live on the island and benefit from having business on the island. But it hurts the natives that actually live there year-round. As most of Hawaii is owned by non-natives, that profit goes back to those non-natives rather than the natives and helping the island. Those individuals benefit from tourism, while most natives do not. Now if it’s beneficial to them (let’s say they also own businesses), then they’re more likely to be pro-tourism. A lot of natives can’t even afford to live on the island/in homes they’ve had for generations because the mark up tourism has brung. A bottle of water in some areas is like $10-12.
@@asdfghjklasskdfghjkl Essentially, this. The mark up on necessities, the endangering of the sea around the island, the lack of respect for sacred land/private property, the lack of following rules, etc. all hurts Hawaii natives.
@@teeandkids937they need tourists. That’s not to say that once those tourists become residents that living there is sustainable. The fantasy of it is probably great but the reality of it is probably something else entirely.
The back and forth banter between Josh and Sav is something I’ve always found so relatable for my husband and I and today I realized it’s because it gives no-longer-newlyweds-and-we-got-kids vibes 😂 it’s just a point in marriage where you say anything and everything bc that’s your person and you also understand how each other say/mean things in a conversation.
Personally, I think both parents have a say you both contributed to making the baby. I wouldn’t want to take the special moment from the love of my life by having my mom or anyone else in the room. I also feel that it’s such a vulnerable moment, uncomfortable moment, beautiful moment and your lives completely change and your relationship and family changes completely. I felt it made my partner and my relationship stronger and the experience was so special together. I couldn’t imagine more people in the room even if it was my mom. But it’s definitely based on relationships women have with their mom I guess. I just think it’s so special with just you two. Baby starts with just you two, should be born with just you two🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ just my thoughts based on my experience.❤
i am team chapstick all the way 😂 i always carry multiple chapsticks in my purse. i can't stand the feeling of my lips being dry or cracked! i'll drive back home if i realize i forgot my chapstick! 😭
a - spart - a - may?!!!!!!! hahahahaha lollololol Never heard this pronunciation of aspartame and I am dyyyyyyinnnngggg!!!! Is this a thing people say? So adorable, cute, hilarious, and Josh just casually repeating this hilarious pronunciation is killing me! Love you guys, your vibe, your belly, and your podcast!
I literally came to the comments to see if anyone else thought a-spart-a-may was an odd pronunciation. Very disappointed lol. Because am I pronouncing it wrong? 🤣
My first birth I had my husband and my mom, my second birth (home birth) I had my husband and both our moms in the room. I think it depends on your relationship with your mom and what kind of support you're wanting. My mom had all unmedicated births and knew I would need her experience & support for my first - her knowledge was also welcomed by my husband. For my second (once I knew I could do it) I wanted my mom and my mother in law to experience seeing a grandchild being born. My mother in law could only have c-sections and was not present for her own daughters births so I knew she would cherish the experience of a home birth. I loved the experience too of having 3 generations in the room - it's so bonding and I think it only added to the experience my husband and I had.
If you start consistently wearing chapstick you'll need it and feel the connection when you don't have it. I only need it when I am sick. Other than that I don't touch that mess! That's like I used to feel weird because my husband doesn't wear lotion. But I realized he just doesn't like it on his body. But there are certain points of the year where I kind of make him wear it because his skin needs it and looks like it needs it. Other than that I don't mess with him because some people have texture things and it's just not for them.
YIKES Savannah telling Josh he’s not getting a vasectomy after the 3rd baby. He just said he doesn’t want any more kids and doesn’t want a mistake to happen. IF y’all get further down the line then reverse it. But how else do you think you got here with baby number 3 all in the span of 3 years 👀😅
A man doing the responsible thing when most men would care less. And if you don’t want to be on hormonal birth control- I really respect him saying this.
Why am I annoyed by her??? LOL. . . I guess cause it seems - Josh cannot get his words out without her over-talking him. Jesus paid it all - Hallelujah
Nah my husband can tell me not to bring my mom for birth lol honestly it’s weird, I don’t think you need anyone but your husband. There’s a problem in the relationship if you need more support than your husband for sureee
It's really sickening how many influencers move to Hawaii. I'm sure your social media pays you well, however there are real natives there facing REAL PROBLEMS WITH NO WHERE TO GO. It's not like they can take a train to the next state and start over. This trend of moving to Hawaii and making it harder for the locals needs to go away. It comes off so wrong from these so called godly influencers
The correct pronunciation is O Ah Hu (O’ahu not “OhWaHoo") and Honolulu not hanalulu). You should really research the basics before you visit for a whole month including the correct pronunciation of Hawaiʻi.
I have been watching y'all for about three years or maybe longer. Y'all have moved about three or four times since I began watching. Enjoy your new adventure.
More like 4 or 5 times. I just was having this thought myself. They living the life though. Hopefully they find a place that helps them finally feel at peace
I heard that Hawaii is overpriced. It’s no longer a great place to live as it once was, and unfortunately many locals were forced to move out their homes due to increased finances. It’s a documentary about it. I think it was on Netflix but I can’t recall.
I totally get the whole “3 years and no ring is a red flag thing”. As someone who has been dating for 2 and a half, I can wholeheartedly say I would not see it as a negative thing if I don’t get proposed to by 3 years. Personally, I told him I do not want to get engaged until at least 2 years of dating. I need to make sure we know the most important things about each other and prioritize God in our relationship before marriage (which we have been). Marriage is a really big thing so waiting is not a red flag IMO. But tbh 4 years? I’d be like…what are you waiting for haha. But he’s been hinting at it anyways so this was probably a pointless rant
I know I’m going to get some grief over this but tall move all the time. What exactly are you looking for that will allow you to set down some actual roots for ur children? They have no stability at all in regards to home. How will they ever make friends. You both are so unsure of what you want but you have 3 kids who need more than just picking and moving every 6 months based on their parents whims. You guys are great parents and it’s obvious you love your kids and each other. But whatever you’re searching for in as far as a home base goes, you need to figure it out and do it soon. Nowhere is going to be absolutely perfect. But for the sake of your children’s mental health find a home and stick to it. They need more than just u guys. They need a community that they can depend on and friends who they can grow with. Especially once they get school age. I love y’all but this is frustrating to watch. I know u have ur reasons but this is a lot.
I agree. They always seem discontent with where there are like they can’t sit still. They need to plant down some roots. Then they’re always traveling when they do settle in a city for a little bit. It must be hard to have a real community which they kind of complained about in an old podcast episode. That takes effort and time and being in a place long term. It doesn’t matter if their job allows them to, it gives off unstable and unsatisfied.
Respectfully, this comment is a bit dramatic with bringing up their children’s mental health. We all love their family but I don’t think you should care enough to let them moving frustrate you. They aren’t even moving they’re taking a month long vacation which they are highly blessed to be able to do. As you said what you’re referring to is mostly important for when they start school which all of their children are very far from.
As a kid who moved all the time I am perfectly fine and enjoyed having so many different homes 😂 also they’re only going on vacation for a month they aren’t completely moving homes.
Me and my partner have been on the fence about what we should do, I’m pregnant with our 3rd and we 100% done having anymore kids, he wants me to get my tubes tied but I’m 24 and my dr has already said they’ll pretty much refuse it because of my age and I think it’s just not the time I should be doing that but he’s refusing to even think about getting a vasectomy so it’s hard definitely up to the person at the end of the day
I’m kinda surprised that Savannah thought it was crazy that he would combat the request of wanting your mom in the room when she found it crazy that a women could not want the father of her child in the room. I personally agreed when she said birth is a tremendous medical procedure and physiological event and a healthy birth is the best outcome. Some people deal with pain the best alone in silence and may not want anyone in the room. Some feel empowered with a cheerleader. Some may be perfectionist and have added tension with an audience their. Some feel better being nurtured, petted, coached, and soothed. No one way is the right way because we are all different and what’s normal toI would encourage every woman to one couple is abnormal to another. Back in the day men would wait in the waiting room to keep the romance alive and women preferred to be soothed by their mother and female tribe. Now the intimacy of couples doing it together has become more common. At the end of the day doing what’s best for the overall health of the birthing mom and their baby through your individual birth story. I personally do better dealing with pain alone and would want my partner in and out; to have the flexibility to request solitude to meditate through the pain without feeling like I’m offending him and the comfort of knowing I still have his respect that I’m trying my best to bring our baby here without complications, especially with the added anxiety surrounded around the first time. At the end of the day many men find a way to bond with their baby regardless if they watched the birth, weather it was because of an emergency c-section, a scheduling issue like deployment, and untimely birth, or something as simple as running to the gift shop to grab a camera and missing it. The goal is a healthy birth and unfortunately life isn’t ideal and maturity is about recognizing when something may not be about you. So weather you need to support her in the room and you don’t want to or support her on the other side of a door you want to be inside remember love is patient, kind, and it doesn’t hold records of wrong doing. Remember men you’re not only supposed to treat you wives as you treat yourself (1 Peter 3:7-8) but also treat them as Jesus did for the church he sacrificed his life for (Ephesians 5:28-33). I know they are loving Christians who do not mean to sound judgmental and neither do I. No hate or tea just honestly a piece of my mentality ✌🏾
I had my mom & partner in the room for birth. I only had my mom there because it was our first child and she is in the medical field so if anything I didn’t understand was going on she would be able to help out. Plus giving her the honor to watch her first grandchild be born into the world. But for future kids it will just be my partner and I.
I have a problem with women or men showing their “ belly”….sorry….its fine in a swimming area, IMHO, or outside when its hot and everyone is dressed that way, but otherwise im not interested in looking at peoples more personal areas…example: at work or in restaurants.
Josh, I think the word you were looking for was sensory???!! I have sensory issues and certain textures really gross me out.. not chapstick but like cardboard 🤢.. any wood that isn't polished or coated icks me out.. I didn't have sensory issues until I hit like 35.. it's so strange for me
I guess I’m the opposite. I think everyone should consider modesty… except pregnant women because it’s HOT, yall just grow your baby dressed how you please. 😂❤
Women having their stomachs out during pregnancy I think is adorable. I love the way I see women style different things it actually gives me some inspiration. I just turned 30 in February. My hs reunion was 2 years ago and the class president was going back and forth on fb with people… and I’m from Vegas I wasn’t about to fly all the way out there from Virginia for it lol. I don’t even think it ever happened because they were planning it last minute and they couldn’t solidify a plan 😂😂😂 my husband and I don’t want any kids together his daughter is turning 20 this month and we have an 11 year age gap. He will be 42 this year and he’s openly stated he will get a vasectomy but he’s giving me until 35/36 because he thinks I might change my mind. I love kids, but we are some busy bees so I don’t envision it.
I don’t wear lip gloss, or Chapstick and lick my lips too, but when I’m the sun and it’s summer time, I put sunscreen on my lips, I go to Arizona every year in summer.
I’m on Josh’s side on the mom being in the room while giving birth. I don’t think a man can just say no to your mom being in the room but it’s fair to have a conversation
Damn, I wish Josh and Savannah talked more about dating single moms. I'm currently in the situation myself and I understand why men don't want to date single moms, those that don't mind, and those that like it.
I like Fresca too!!! My boyfriend just brought me another case since I hadn’t had it in a while. Also I’ve gotta have chapstick but he doesn’t like it at all, says he doesn’t like the feeling of it on his lips, I suppose the slippery feeling it has
Actually that's smart not wear lip gloss/chapstick if you don't have to everyday all day. Because if you do wear it all the time and then you suddenly stopped wearing it or it's just like using nose spray everyday, eye drops everyday or something like that your body gets used to it and then if you stop using it or you don't have it then let's say your lips will get chapped real bad , hurting and painful to where it changes from wanting to wear it to HAVING to wear it. Not fun!
i disagree, i wanted my mom and boyfriend both in the delivery room. my mom is one of my best friends and biggest supporters, she has been in the same situation before and understands what support i need so of course i wanted here in the delivery room. its no choice of my boyfriends to be made, he isn’t the one delivering and he isn’t the one who needs support lol
I’ve been watching you guys for so many years! Now I’m 17 moved to Hollywood & fell in love trying to be a young Godly couple in this city is hard but I still watch you guys to keep myself inspired! Thank you for the encouragement ❤
My husband and I have been together 10 years and has never wore chapstick! He says he doesn’t need it and the crazy thing is his lips are never chapped! 😂
For the people in the room conversation. The men are not entitled because you’re not the one going through the potential death of having a child. Also, you’re thinking about it in a way that you already had two children but for first time moms that never been in this situation they can choose the support THEY need. Definitely can be a conversation but if you said no I would not listen. It’s your child but it her body going through this.
There needs to be a specific circumstance for me to want to date a man who has kids, ie the wife died, way too many immediate red flags otherwise.. did yall see even Chance the Rapper got divorced?? I seriously am sickened by how normalized divorce is, and I honestly have a hard no to recommend dating a divorced man. And actually if you want a divorce cool do it, but you should stay single now and not expect more. I could talk about it forever I need to start a podcast with my husband lol
So for clarification purposes lol are you saying that if someone were to be a divorcee, they should stay single and not expect to get married again? Is that what you mean by “expect more?” Also, does your opinion change based on age when it comes to dating someone with kids since the older you get the less likely you are to meet someone without kids?
@@kennethiavail1719 for clarification purposes yes lol if you choose to get divorced for reasons that are outside of something like getting cheated on or death, you’re clearly seen as someone who can’t commit to everyone, and you shouldn’t expect to be seen as on a level playing field. Age doesn’t matter, if you made the horrible decision at age 20 or 40 you’ll reap the consequences
@@heybristevens okay. That’s a hot take girl! lol but I can understand someone being afraid to date someone who has been divorced and I would ask questions to really gauge because I do believe that many things in life are not black and white. Also, when you say horrible decision, are you referring to someone being a single parent as if they committed this horrible thing? I’m just asking because horrible is such a strong word and it implies that a single parent made a horrible decision by choosing not to have an abortion and keep their child.
@@kennethiavail1719 that’s definitely why I said for certain circumstances like their spouse died, or they were cheated on so questions would always get asked firstly of course. And by horrible decision I’m saying getting divorced, kids or not. Idk what you’re implying when it comes to being a single parent vs getting an abortion, that’s not at all what I’m talking about
@@heybristevens well I asked two separate questions regarding dating someone divorced and dating someone with kids. Your answer kind of implied that whether you’re 20 or 40, you still made a horrible decision with consequences so it sounded like to me that you were just kind of saying you made this horrible decision to be a single parent but you just clarified you were speaking on going into the dating market as a divorcee regardless of kids. I feel like if you’re a divorcee with kids then it is likely that you will remarry another divorcee who probably has kids. If God blessed you with a second chance at love, I think those stories can be beautiful.
YOOOOO first of ALL. Savannah not knowing what “WHAT DID YOU WANT” is wiiiiild hhahaha and second of all! I am a girly who have barely ever thought about putting chapstick on, I only ever wear chapstick only if I think my lips are getting chapped, I think some people just like being natural and not having to always do stuff like that, I’m the same with make up, like I couldn’t care less!
I 100000000000% agree with him about chapstick. I HATE IT like absolutely hate it with a passion.. im also a texture person but i dont have dry lips and "knock on wood" never do and actually when i wear chapstick it MAKES my lips dry. I feel like there is something in chapstick that makes you always need to put on more.
I’m 41 and don’t wear chapstick I’m a woman and I live make up. It actually dries your lips more in the long run. My husband is almost 50 and he also does not wear chapstick ❤ I adore y’all
This was a great episode love the questions being asked …but I would’ve liked for Josh to elaborate more on the male perspective fully without sav interrupting him mid thought
I will say, once I started really using lip mask / oils / chap sticks it’s like I need it, I swear they low key they make our lips NEEDDD it by making them feel dry.
Actually my husband got me into wearing lip balm because the truth of the matter is licking your lips dries them up and that causes you to keep kicking them to think you're hydrating them but you're not. Then once I started using lucas paw paw I cant go to sleep without it. It feels like the dessert even though my lips are not chapped either.
I haven’t watched a Pod in a minute. I laughed sooo much! I just love y’all! I’m so glad I tuned in! Josh I just recently started wearing chapstick. But for the longest I was not a fan. Because it makes that nasty white stuff. But I found one that doesn’t do that. But for the longest licking my lips was just fine for me too! I love y’all sooooo much! 💚
Ehh I feel like the father has the right to see their child being born, their first breath. I understand it’s her body her experience etc., but in reality that’s just as much his experience too, and for a woman to even want to take that experience from their child and partner is just wild. And he would definitely have every right to feel a way about that.
I’m a texture girly so I got to Josh I don’t like Chapstick I don’t like lotion I don’t even like water to touch my skin, other than like in the shower.
I have chap stick but I don't always use it. I am super hydrated and don't need it but during my depression I was dehydrated and noticed my lip skin being dry I don't want babies. If I get married and my husband wants babies I'll c if we can
My husband never puts chapstick on and I’m like with Sav , I have to have something on my lips and when I do t it for real is just not okay. Even have a lip mask on every night.
Very great question. I wish I had time to answer. One thing can say being older I may have different answers for, having the weight on you and vasectomy questions. And yea no chapstick 😂
I am a woman and I think it is a little weird to show your stomach when pregnant or not pregnant all of it to me is something I wouldn’t do myself. but that is definitely a cultural thing. I think it is different from person to person what their opinion is
I think the thing with people dating single parents. You said it would be a red flag if someone didn’t want to date someone with kids. I think it can depend. I would mostly say no because some people just don’t want to be parents right then. They might want to date and have a couple years of being just married without kids so I would understand them not wanting to be with someone. Like if a guy started dating a women and she never said she had kids and then after a couple dates she tell him I can understand him breaking up with her because of that. Sure it should be mostly about the relationship but I also understand not everyone is ready to be a parent. And also for me I think it would depend how many baby mommas that person has and those reasons. If they had a spouse and they died or something happened and they got divorced then sure. But if I wasn’t a Christian and the person I was maybe gonna date had 6 different baby mommas I would really have to think about that and see if that person has changed or gotten to know god or whatever it is because I don’t want to be just another baby momma. With me having kids already I would totally date a guy with kids. But that’s because I have them. If I didn’t idk if I would date a man with kids. But who knows.
as a single Christian mom, i love that y'all are discussing this! i made a lot of bad choices when i was living in the world, BEFORE coming to Christ, one of them was living in sexual immorality. when i got pregnant at 22, i made the decision to get an abortion & ALMOST went through with it. but by the grace of God, i made the choice to keep my baby and i thank the Lord every day for her because she is truly the biggest blessing! 🥲 i have been walking with the Lord in purity for 3 years now & really enjoying my season of singleness, knowing Jesus is enough! raising my daughter in the ways of the Lord & being her mom in this lifetime has brought me so much joy. i trust God's perfect will & timing for my life whether i'm called to marriage or a life of singleness. all glory be to God! ❤
I love this so much!
@@paytonferguson9014 it’s amazing what the Lord can do when we surrender and repent and put our faith in Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith 🙏🏼😭❤️
Yes queen!!! I was a 20 year old mom & left the dad. Years later, baptized and dedicated Christian woman who finally got married!
Enjoy that era with God. He’s the best. We need nothing more. Thank you Lord.
As Sav was praising Josh, I was thinking, maybe the flowers equivalent for men is giving them their “flowers” - verbal compliments, words of affirmation, praise, honor, thanks. Receiving flowers makes a women feel loved and thought of and maybe it’s the verbal words of affirmation that make men feel valued.
“Wait how old are we?!” This is too real, the late 20s all blend together when you got kids. 😂
Hawaii is sooooo expensive to live now, tourists are actually making it more expensive on the island for the natives to live there. I wouldn’t recommend full blown moving there, at least right now in its current state. It’s beautiful, but a tragedy for some, if not most the natives the moment.
That’s interesting because from what I’ve heard Hawaii wants and needs the tourists.
@@teeandkids937maybe they need the tourists but the issue is tourists moving there to live
@@teeandkids937 They “need” the tourists because it’s a part of its economic profit. The use of “need” comes from mostly non-natives that live on the island and benefit from having business on the island. But it hurts the natives that actually live there year-round. As most of Hawaii is owned by non-natives, that profit goes back to those non-natives rather than the natives and helping the island. Those individuals benefit from tourism, while most natives do not. Now if it’s beneficial to them (let’s say they also own businesses), then they’re more likely to be pro-tourism. A lot of natives can’t even afford to live on the island/in homes they’ve had for generations because the mark up tourism has brung. A bottle of water in some areas is like $10-12.
@@asdfghjklasskdfghjkl Essentially, this. The mark up on necessities, the endangering of the sea around the island, the lack of respect for sacred land/private property, the lack of following rules, etc. all hurts Hawaii natives.
@@teeandkids937they need tourists. That’s not to say that once those tourists become residents that living there is sustainable. The fantasy of it is probably great but the reality of it is probably something else entirely.
The back and forth banter between Josh and Sav is something I’ve always found so relatable for my husband and I and today I realized it’s because it gives no-longer-newlyweds-and-we-got-kids vibes 😂 it’s just a point in marriage where you say anything and everything bc that’s your person and you also understand how each other say/mean things in a conversation.
Personally, I think both parents have a say you both contributed to making the baby. I wouldn’t want to take the special moment from the love of my life by having my mom or anyone else in the room. I also feel that it’s such a vulnerable moment, uncomfortable moment, beautiful moment and your lives completely change and your relationship and family changes completely. I felt it made my partner and my relationship stronger and the experience was so special together. I couldn’t imagine more people in the room even if it was my mom. But it’s definitely based on relationships women have with their mom I guess. I just think it’s so special with just you two. Baby starts with just you two, should be born with just you two🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ just my thoughts based on my experience.❤
Josh's recation when he said 'it is?' to pregnant bellies being a controversy😂😂😂 he seemed so bewildered that people could even be offended😂
the a.m drop for the east coast morning commute 🤌🏼
You guys talking about chapstick made me feel like I need to put some on while the watching podcast 😂
i am team chapstick all the way 😂 i always carry multiple chapsticks in my purse. i can't stand the feeling of my lips being dry or cracked! i'll drive back home if i realize i forgot my chapstick! 😭
Everyone who moved to Hawaii, left Hawaii. They all hated it, expensive and no friends and family
Gets too small
“On Honolulu” y’all are too cute lol. I’m from Hawaii and I think you will enjoy! Honolulu is the city, Oahu is the island.
a - spart - a - may?!!!!!!! hahahahaha lollololol Never heard this pronunciation of aspartame and I am dyyyyyyinnnngggg!!!! Is this a thing people say? So adorable, cute, hilarious, and Josh just casually repeating this hilarious pronunciation is killing me! Love you guys, your vibe, your belly, and your podcast!
It’s funny because it actually works with the real spelling if you add accents, aspartamé 😂 sounds classy lol
@@ChloeDezz I know! 😂😂😂😂 Hilarious, now I kind of want to say it like this! 😂😂😂
Came here to say the same thing. I paused it after Josh repeated and was like what 😂 I’ve never heard that either. Love it
I literally came to the comments to see if anyone else thought a-spart-a-may was an odd pronunciation. Very disappointed lol. Because am I pronouncing it wrong? 🤣
They are influencers.....maybe they've started something new! Hahahahahh 🥤
My first birth I had my husband and my mom, my second birth (home birth) I had my husband and both our moms in the room. I think it depends on your relationship with your mom and what kind of support you're wanting. My mom had all unmedicated births and knew I would need her experience & support for my first - her knowledge was also welcomed by my husband. For my second (once I knew I could do it) I wanted my mom and my mother in law to experience seeing a grandchild being born. My mother in law could only have c-sections and was not present for her own daughters births so I knew she would cherish the experience of a home birth. I loved the experience too of having 3 generations in the room - it's so bonding and I think it only added to the experience my husband and I had.
I love this!! ❤
Best thing to eat breakfast to is a josh and sav pod love u guys
If you start consistently wearing chapstick you'll need it and feel the connection when you don't have it. I only need it when I am sick. Other than that I don't touch that mess! That's like I used to feel weird because my husband doesn't wear lotion. But I realized he just doesn't like it on his body. But there are certain points of the year where I kind of make him wear it because his skin needs it and looks like it needs it. Other than that I don't mess with him because some people have texture things and it's just not for them.
YIKES Savannah telling Josh he’s not getting a vasectomy after the 3rd baby. He just said he doesn’t want any more kids and doesn’t want a mistake to happen. IF y’all get further down the line then reverse it. But how else do you think you got here with baby number 3 all in the span of 3 years 👀😅
A man doing the responsible thing when most men would care less. And if you don’t want to be on hormonal birth control- I really respect him saying this.
Also, it’s kinda like telling a man he can’t do what he wants with his body and then we as women scream “my body, my choice….”
@@LoniD26 AGREED.
Why am I annoyed by her??? LOL. . . I guess cause it seems - Josh cannot get his words out without her over-talking him.
Jesus paid it all - Hallelujah
Thought I was the only one lol
A preggy belly is so wholesome. I love seeing your beautiful belly. Swimming in a 2 piece and all
Nah my husband can tell me not to bring my mom for birth lol honestly it’s weird, I don’t think you need anyone but your husband. There’s a problem in the relationship if you need more support than your husband for sureee
I LOVE Fresca, but I cut out artificial sweeteners, so I don’t drink it anymore. Pronouncing it asspartuhmay killed me. 😂😂❤
Aspartame is what she was talking about??
I had no idea 😂😂
It's really sickening how many influencers move to Hawaii. I'm sure your social media pays you well, however there are real natives there facing REAL PROBLEMS WITH NO WHERE TO GO. It's not like they can take a train to the next state and start over. This trend of moving to Hawaii and making it harder for the locals needs to go away. It comes off so wrong from these so called godly influencers
Not Josh thinking white people are crusty and him not wearing chapstick 😂 love yall!! Hope Hawaii is amazing
The correct pronunciation is O Ah Hu (O’ahu not “OhWaHoo") and Honolulu not hanalulu). You should really research the basics before you visit for a whole month including the correct pronunciation of Hawaiʻi.
6:23 “Aspartamay” Sav you’re so cute ❤😂
I have been watching y'all for about three years or maybe longer.
Y'all have moved about three or four times since I began watching.
Enjoy your new adventure.
More like 4 or 5 times. I just was having this thought myself. They living the life though. Hopefully they find a place that helps them finally feel at peace
I heard that Hawaii is overpriced. It’s no longer a great place to live as it once was, and unfortunately many locals were forced to move out their homes due to increased finances. It’s a documentary about it. I think it was on Netflix but I can’t recall.
I totally get the whole “3 years and no ring is a red flag thing”. As someone who has been dating for 2 and a half, I can wholeheartedly say I would not see it as a negative thing if I don’t get proposed to by 3 years. Personally, I told him I do not want to get engaged until at least 2 years of dating. I need to make sure we know the most important things about each other and prioritize God in our relationship before marriage (which we have been). Marriage is a really big thing so waiting is not a red flag IMO. But tbh 4 years? I’d be like…what are you waiting for haha. But he’s been hinting at it anyways so this was probably a pointless rant
I know I’m going to get some grief over this but tall move all the time. What exactly are you looking for that will allow you to set down some actual roots for ur children? They have no stability at all in regards to home. How will they ever make friends. You both are so unsure of what you want but you have 3 kids who need more than just picking and moving every 6 months based on their parents whims. You guys are great parents and it’s obvious you love your kids and each other. But whatever you’re searching for in as far as a home base goes, you need to figure it out and do it soon. Nowhere is going to be absolutely perfect. But for the sake of your children’s mental health find a home and stick to it. They need more than just u guys. They need a community that they can depend on and friends who they can grow with. Especially once they get school age. I love y’all but this is frustrating to watch. I know u have ur reasons but this is a lot.
I agree. They always seem discontent with where there are like they can’t sit still. They need to plant down some roots. Then they’re always traveling when they do settle in a city for a little bit. It must be hard to have a real community which they kind of complained about in an old podcast episode. That takes effort and time and being in a place long term. It doesn’t matter if their job allows them to, it gives off unstable and unsatisfied.
Respectfully, this comment is a bit dramatic with bringing up their children’s mental health. We all love their family but I don’t think you should care enough to let them moving frustrate you. They aren’t even moving they’re taking a month long vacation which they are highly blessed to be able to do. As you said what you’re referring to is mostly important for when they start school which all of their children are very far from.
As a kid who moved all the time I am perfectly fine and enjoyed having so many different homes 😂 also they’re only going on vacation for a month they aren’t completely moving homes.
Me and my partner have been on the fence about what we should do, I’m pregnant with our 3rd and we 100% done having anymore kids, he wants me to get my tubes tied but I’m 24 and my dr has already said they’ll pretty much refuse it because of my age and I think it’s just not the time I should be doing that but he’s refusing to even think about getting a vasectomy so it’s hard definitely up to the person at the end of the day
Constantly licking your lips is big ick. Hahaha just use a lip balm. I made my husband stop licking his lips when we were dating.
To me saying something “gives me the ick” is such a Gen Z phrase that it annoys me when people say it 😂
I have family that waited 8 years to propose and 9 to get married 🥴
I’m kinda surprised that Savannah thought it was crazy that he would
combat the request of wanting your mom in the room when she found it crazy that a women could not want the father of her child in the room. I personally agreed when she said birth is a tremendous medical procedure and physiological event and a healthy birth is the best outcome. Some people deal with pain the best alone in silence and may not want anyone in the room. Some feel empowered with a cheerleader. Some may be perfectionist and have added tension with an audience their. Some feel better being nurtured, petted, coached, and soothed. No one way is the right way because we are all different and what’s normal toI would encourage every woman to one couple is abnormal to another. Back in the day men would wait in the waiting room to keep the romance alive and women preferred to be soothed by their mother and female tribe. Now the intimacy of couples doing it together has become more common. At the end of the day doing what’s best for the overall health of the birthing mom and their baby through your individual birth story. I personally do better dealing with pain alone and would want my partner in and out; to have the flexibility to request solitude to meditate through the pain without feeling like I’m offending him and the comfort of knowing I still have his respect that I’m trying my best to bring our baby here without complications, especially with the added anxiety surrounded around the first time. At the end of the day many men find a way to bond with their baby regardless if they watched the birth, weather it was because of an emergency c-section, a scheduling issue like deployment, and untimely birth, or something as simple as running to the gift shop to grab a camera and missing it. The goal is a healthy birth and unfortunately life isn’t ideal and maturity is about recognizing when something may not be about you. So weather you need to support her in the room and you don’t want to or support her on the other side of a door you want to be inside remember love is patient, kind, and it doesn’t hold records of wrong doing. Remember men you’re not only supposed to treat you wives as you treat yourself (1 Peter 3:7-8) but also treat them as Jesus did for the church he sacrificed his life for (Ephesians 5:28-33). I know they are loving Christians who do not mean to sound judgmental and neither do I. No hate or tea just honestly a piece of my mentality ✌🏾
This was beautiful said!!!
I had my mom & partner in the room for birth. I only had my mom there because it was our first child and she is in the medical field so if anything I didn’t understand was going on she would be able to help out. Plus giving her the honor to watch her first grandchild be born into the world. But for future kids it will just be my partner and I.
Josh you gotta fix that microphone lol
Idc if pregnant women show their stomach. I didn't and had two kids but idc who does. Do what you want.
The way y’all talk abt thrive all the time doesn’t even feel like it’s an ad I love that. I can tell yall really rock with thrive 🥰
They got the BEST snacks!!!!
I have a problem with women or men showing their “ belly”….sorry….its fine in a swimming area, IMHO, or outside when its hot and everyone is dressed that way, but otherwise im not interested in looking at peoples more personal areas…example: at work or in restaurants.
Come on now Josh lol. Get the chapstick! 😂
Chapstick makes your lips so dehydrated, so you feel the need to continue using it. I do not use chapstick, and when I have, my lips get worse
Youre probs using a bad brand
Josh, I think the word you were
looking for was sensory???!!
I have sensory issues and certain textures really gross me out.. not chapstick but like cardboard 🤢.. any wood that isn't polished or coated icks me out.. I didn't have sensory issues until I hit like 35.. it's so strange for me
I, a woman, do not use chapstick 🙋🏻♀️ i think it makes my lips drier tbh
I guess I’m the opposite. I think everyone should consider modesty… except pregnant women because it’s HOT, yall just grow your baby dressed how you please. 😂❤
Women having their stomachs out during pregnancy I think is adorable. I love the way I see women style different things it actually gives me some inspiration. I just turned 30 in February. My hs reunion was 2 years ago and the class president was going back and forth on fb with people… and I’m from Vegas I wasn’t about to fly all the way out there from Virginia for it lol. I don’t even think it ever happened because they were planning it last minute and they couldn’t solidify a plan 😂😂😂 my husband and I don’t want any kids together his daughter is turning 20 this month and we have an 11 year age gap. He will be 42 this year and he’s openly stated he will get a vasectomy but he’s giving me until 35/36 because he thinks I might change my mind. I love kids, but we are some busy bees so I don’t envision it.
I don’t use chapstick and also don’t need it either😅 I think it makes your lips MORE chapped!
I don’t wear lip gloss, or Chapstick and lick my lips too, but when I’m the sun and it’s summer time, I put sunscreen on my lips, I go to Arizona every year in summer.
Yall thinking a red flag is them not being engaged by three years is WILD! 💙
I’m on Josh’s side on the mom being in the room while giving birth. I don’t think a man can just say no to your mom being in the room but it’s fair to have a conversation
Damn, I wish Josh and Savannah talked more about dating single moms. I'm currently in the situation myself and I understand why men don't want to date single moms, those that don't mind, and those that like it.
The fact that someone licks their lips nonstop is the clue that they need chapstick.
I like Fresca too!!! My boyfriend just brought me another case since I hadn’t had it in a while. Also I’ve gotta have chapstick but he doesn’t like it at all, says he doesn’t like the feeling of it on his lips, I suppose the slippery feeling it has
Actually that's smart not wear lip gloss/chapstick if you don't have to everyday all day. Because if you do wear it all the time and then you suddenly stopped wearing it or it's just like using nose spray everyday, eye drops everyday or something like that your body gets used to it and then if you stop using it or you don't have it then let's say your lips will get chapped real bad , hurting and painful to where it changes from wanting to wear it to HAVING to wear it. Not fun!
Love it 😊
I can say my husband does not wear chapstick and he says the exact same thing!😂 it really must be a texture/feeling thing loll
The whole chapstick debate and soooo my fiance and I lol he doesn't wear chapstick at all and I'm just like HOOOW I need it pretty much 24/7
sooooo exited for the Hawaii era 😍
Vlogs soooon!!!
Depending what chapstick/lipgloss you use, it actually dries your lips out and makes you feel like you need more and more and more.
Why do you continue use we’re moving to Hawaii if you’re only visiting for a month? You’re not actually moving there🙄
I wanted my mom and husband in the room the first time because I didn’t know what to expect. With our 2nd baby I only wanted him
i disagree, i wanted my mom and boyfriend both in the delivery room. my mom is one of my best friends and biggest supporters, she has been in the same situation before and understands what support i need so of course i wanted here in the delivery room. its no choice of my boyfriends to be made, he isn’t the one delivering and he isn’t the one who needs support lol
Chapstick is not a big deal here (I'm from the caribbean). Some people use it, and some don't
I feel if a woman wants to show her belly she should. Whatever they are comfortable with! The baby belly is beautiful!
Sav sounds like she wants more kids
I don’t wear chapstick I don’t need it. It fills weird and irritating on my lips
Josh is like my kids father. They lick their lips so much they keep them moisturized themselves
“Where’s my hug “ is wild 😂
A support group. 🤣
I don’t wear chapstick..
LOL!!
I’ve been watching you guys for so many years! Now I’m 17 moved to Hollywood & fell in love trying to be a young Godly couple in this city is hard but I still watch you guys to keep myself inspired! Thank you for the encouragement ❤
The intro is my fav 😂😂😂where on the Nike website did u get those pants sav?? They are so cute ❤
My husband and I have been together 10 years and has never wore chapstick! He says he doesn’t need it and the crazy thing is his lips are never chapped! 😂
If he’s well hydrated, that’s probably why. Our skin only typically gets dry/chapped if we’re dehydrated or have eczema.
For the people in the room conversation. The men are not entitled because you’re not the one going through the potential death of having a child. Also, you’re thinking about it in a way that you already had two children but for first time moms that never been in this situation they can choose the support THEY need. Definitely can be a conversation but if you said no I would not listen. It’s your child but it her body going through this.
Wow what a interesting podcast ❤
First! Love you guys so much 🥰🥰
Wait but is it just me or are the mics kinda like scratchy???
They definitely were. I kept hearing a buzzing sound
Yes it was mine!! We fixed it after. Sorry!!! - Josh
There needs to be a specific circumstance for me to want to date a man who has kids, ie the wife died, way too many immediate red flags otherwise.. did yall see even Chance the Rapper got divorced?? I seriously am sickened by how normalized divorce is, and I honestly have a hard no to recommend dating a divorced man. And actually if you want a divorce cool do it, but you should stay single now and not expect more. I could talk about it forever I need to start a podcast with my husband lol
So for clarification purposes lol are you saying that if someone were to be a divorcee, they should stay single and not expect to get married again? Is that what you mean by “expect more?” Also, does your opinion change based on age when it comes to dating someone with kids since the older you get the less likely you are to meet someone without kids?
@@kennethiavail1719 for clarification purposes yes lol if you choose to get divorced for reasons that are outside of something like getting cheated on or death, you’re clearly seen as someone who can’t commit to everyone, and you shouldn’t expect to be seen as on a level playing field. Age doesn’t matter, if you made the horrible decision at age 20 or 40 you’ll reap the consequences
@@heybristevens okay. That’s a hot take girl! lol but I can understand someone being afraid to date someone who has been divorced and I would ask questions to really gauge because I do believe that many things in life are not black and white. Also, when you say horrible decision, are you referring to someone being a single parent as if they committed this horrible thing? I’m just asking because horrible is such a strong word and it implies that a single parent made a horrible decision by choosing not to have an abortion and keep their child.
@@kennethiavail1719 that’s definitely why I said for certain circumstances like their spouse died, or they were cheated on so questions would always get asked firstly of course. And by horrible decision I’m saying getting divorced, kids or not. Idk what you’re implying when it comes to being a single parent vs getting an abortion, that’s not at all what I’m talking about
@@heybristevens well I asked two separate questions regarding dating someone divorced and dating someone with kids. Your answer kind of implied that whether you’re 20 or 40, you still made a horrible decision with consequences so it sounded like to me that you were just kind of saying you made this horrible decision to be a single parent but you just clarified you were speaking on going into the dating market as a divorcee regardless of kids. I feel like if you’re a divorcee with kids then it is likely that you will remarry another divorcee who probably has kids. If God blessed you with a second chance at love, I think those stories can be beautiful.
Josh you aren’t alone with the lip gloss/chapped stick! I barely wear it, I will wear it when I do need it (:
Thank you!!!!
@@joshandsav yes!! It’s valid lol! We each do our own thing!
I am loving the short hair Savannah
YOOOOO first of ALL. Savannah not knowing what “WHAT DID YOU WANT” is wiiiiild hhahaha and second of all! I am a girly who have barely ever thought about putting chapstick on, I only ever wear chapstick only if I think my lips are getting chapped, I think some people just like being natural and not having to always do stuff like that, I’m the same with make up, like I couldn’t care less!
I 100000000000% agree with him about chapstick. I HATE IT like absolutely hate it with a passion.. im also a texture person but i dont have dry lips and "knock on wood" never do and actually when i wear chapstick it MAKES my lips dry. I feel like there is something in chapstick that makes you always need to put on more.
I’m 41 and don’t wear chapstick I’m a woman and I live make up. It actually dries your lips more in the long run. My husband is almost 50 and he also does not wear chapstick ❤ I adore y’all
This was a great episode love the questions being asked …but I would’ve liked for Josh to elaborate more on the male perspective fully without sav interrupting him mid thought
I will say, once I started really using lip mask / oils / chap sticks it’s like I need it, I swear they low key they make our lips NEEDDD it by making them feel dry.
Actually my husband got me into wearing lip balm because the truth of the matter is licking your lips dries them up and that causes you to keep kicking them to think you're hydrating them but you're not. Then once I started using lucas paw paw I cant go to sleep without it. It feels like the dessert even though my lips are not chapped either.
I haven’t watched a Pod in a minute. I laughed sooo much! I just love y’all! I’m so glad I tuned in! Josh I just recently started wearing chapstick. But for the longest I was not a fan. Because it makes that nasty white stuff. But I found one that doesn’t do that. But for the longest licking my lips was just fine for me too! I love y’all sooooo much! 💚
Nooooo my husband does not wear chapstick! Hahaha I’m cracking up!
I don't really wear chapstick. Only when I need it and that's hardly ever, and I don't lick my lips a bunch lol.
Ehh I feel like the father has the right to see their child being born, their first breath. I understand it’s her body her experience etc., but in reality that’s just as much his experience too, and for a woman to even want to take that experience from their child and partner is just wild. And he would definitely have every right to feel a way about that.
I’m here for every single Hawaii vlog! I won’t be mad if you POST EVERY SINGLE DAY from there 😊😊😊❤.
My husband doesn’t wear chapstick either!! You’re not alone Josh
I’m a texture girly so I got to Josh I don’t like Chapstick I don’t like lotion I don’t even like water to touch my skin, other than like in the shower.
I don’t wear chapstick at all. Chapstick actually makes your lips more dry lol. I don’t even wear lip gloss. Only benefit lip tint if anything lol
No I only wear chapstick when I need it or your skin becomes dependent on the artificial moisturizer. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I have chap stick but I don't always use it. I am super hydrated and don't need it but during my depression I was dehydrated and noticed my lip skin being dry
I don't want babies. If I get married and my husband wants babies I'll c if we can
My husband never puts chapstick on and I’m like with Sav , I have to have something on my lips and when I do t it for real is just not okay. Even have a lip mask on every night.
Very great question. I wish I had time to answer. One thing can say being older I may have different answers for, having the weight on you and vasectomy questions. And yea no chapstick 😂
I am a woman and I think it is a little weird to show your stomach when pregnant or not pregnant all of it to me is something I wouldn’t do myself. but that is definitely a cultural thing. I think it is different from person to person what their opinion is
My husband doesn’t wear chapstick either and it’s so weird to me… I always need something on my lips unless I’m eating
I think the thing with people dating single parents. You said it would be a red flag if someone didn’t want to date someone with kids. I think it can depend. I would mostly say no because some people just don’t want to be parents right then. They might want to date and have a couple years of being just married without kids so I would understand them not wanting to be with someone. Like if a guy started dating a women and she never said she had kids and then after a couple dates she tell him I can understand him breaking up with her because of that. Sure it should be mostly about the relationship but I also understand not everyone is ready to be a parent. And also for me I think it would depend how many baby mommas that person has and those reasons. If they had a spouse and they died or something happened and they got divorced then sure. But if I wasn’t a Christian and the person I was maybe gonna date had 6 different baby mommas I would really have to think about that and see if that person has changed or gotten to know god or whatever it is because I don’t want to be just another baby momma. With me having kids already I would totally date a guy with kids. But that’s because I have them. If I didn’t idk if I would date a man with kids. But who knows.
My husband doesn’t wear chapstick or lotion. He can’t handle the texture or feeling of either 😅
I also don't use chapstick, josh. XD If I don't need it, I don't wear it LOL