Man Flew A Girl Out And Was Disappointed With The Outcome

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  • @shantelleholden9182
    @shantelleholden9182 10 месяцев назад +92

    I’m 42 and my mother told me as a young girl… don’t take anything from a man. If you do they expect something from you. I think flying out with someone you don’t really know is dangerous. This is some new generation stuff.

  • @TheUrbanAdvocate
    @TheUrbanAdvocate 10 месяцев назад +265

    Easy solution here...if she ain't your girlfriend, fiancé or wife she don't get flown out. Simple.

    • @wilddrinks
      @wilddrinks 10 месяцев назад +11

      Exactly Some Guys Used there Money as leverage Some Women are Looking For Good Vibes 😎

    • @LMB8
      @LMB8 10 месяцев назад +1

      🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @Cartersjourney15
      @Cartersjourney15 10 месяцев назад +2

      Unfortunately…… that’s not how must guy think lol

    • @wilddrinks
      @wilddrinks 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Cartersjourney15 Those guys are clowns most women rather have a good time.. Just be Yourself!!!

    • @dapatman9827
      @dapatman9827 10 месяцев назад +3

      So simple! Not hard to comprehend here.

  • @bruceleeroy8302
    @bruceleeroy8302 10 месяцев назад +196

    Bro, this is the game. You don't expect romanticism on the first date. Act accordingly. Don't spend too much money upfront and get to know her and check the vibe first. Flying women out is usually a dumb idea.

    • @thecunninlynguist
      @thecunninlynguist 10 месяцев назад +14

      it's simpin to the max.

    • @TheBonelessBanana
      @TheBonelessBanana 10 месяцев назад +7

      He might as well be paying for sum

    • @osmosisbless
      @osmosisbless 10 месяцев назад +4

      especially after 2 weeks

    • @getithowyoulive2.
      @getithowyoulive2. 10 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly the energy and vibe gotta be good

    • @louischapman3716
      @louischapman3716 10 месяцев назад +1

      If he wanted to spend let him. He just needs to have an understanding with her before she got there.

  • @shawnba2294
    @shawnba2294 10 месяцев назад +36

    Flying a complete stranger out will always be wild to me, let alone after just 2 weeks, bro said “she thinks I’m a trick or Some” Lmao Nigga you literally are a trick

  • @cget
    @cget 10 месяцев назад +70

    Women, no man is going to fly you out if he doesn't want to have sex with you. If you don't want to have sex or don't want to be tried, make that known upfront or get your own place to stay during the trip. Men, fly to her first, build some type of connection where sexual intimacy is achieved or at least developed, *then* take her on a trip. Everybody be trying to go 0-100 nowadays

    • @flashsanders1331
      @flashsanders1331 10 месяцев назад +1

      Wanting to have sex and expecting to have sex are 2 different things. All y'all want to have sex with Beyonce but it ain't never going to happen. Stay in your financial lane. Be a good host stay classy, a gentleman.

    • @cget
      @cget 10 месяцев назад +3

      @flashsanders1331 If you agree to share a bed with a man, of course he'll expect to have sex at some point. That's why I'm saying communication is everything and women have to set that tone from the jump. Staying in a financial lane has nothing to do with this because we're talking about men that can afford to do this.

    • @AfuaYmani
      @AfuaYmani 9 месяцев назад

      I'm never sleeping in the same bed with a man who flies me out. For my safety he can send me the money so I can book my own room.

    • @jaejae444
      @jaejae444 9 месяцев назад +1

      smart man 🙌🏾👌🏾

    • @quizzyquandadon9289
      @quizzyquandadon9289 9 месяцев назад

      @@AfuaYmanithe point is

  • @travisstreetz
    @travisstreetz 10 месяцев назад +173

    Nobody going to say it so I will….. that man flying her out after 2 weeks is insane. He was desperate as hell and probably overzealous once he met her.

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 месяцев назад +2

      Every comment is saying that.

    • @charissemodeste6489
      @charissemodeste6489 10 месяцев назад +3

      Yep.

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад

      The other part is she gave some kind of green light it was a hoe trip. FaceTime with lingerie, or provocative pics or lusty conversations. However, there are times when none of that is there and that freak just know he getting action. I'm sure the girls in his city know he likes to spend or his finesse could strictly be just with out of town women. Not close to home. Can't get real info.

    • @rogerblewett5595
      @rogerblewett5595 10 месяцев назад +6

      She should not have for let that man fly her out knowing that she was not interested in him.. i don't wanna hear that crap about her mood changed because moods change all of the time even for married people, however if a man fly's you out you have to know that he is not just flying you out and spending money on you for nothing.. but keep playing dumb

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 месяцев назад

      @@rogerblewett5595 bro, that is extremely gross. You can't do something big for a woman, then act like a creep and expect that she had no choice but to put out because you spent coin on her. That is an extremely disgusting way of thinking, and super alarming. Do you have sisters or daughters? Can anyone treat them like that? Do you raise daughters saying "gifts are given in exchange for sex, and if you don't want to give sex, then don't accept gifts?" Gross, dude. Just extremely gross, scary and gross that you think that way. My daughters and sisters aren't being raised like that. Your daughters and sisters are free to come live with me once they escape your disgusting prison where men are entitled to take their bodies because they spent money on them.

  • @sirrmanning2769
    @sirrmanning2769 10 месяцев назад +36

    When I was single, I had an interaction with a woman (pictures showed she was beautiful) and she wanted me to fly her out to spend time with me. After looking at the cost of a round trip plane ticket, lodging, food, gas, etc... and the fact that I had only communicated with her for a few weeks, I decided to kick it with someone local lol.

  • @finallaugh8721
    @finallaugh8721 10 месяцев назад +298

    Brothers, stop flying women out in 2023+. 🤦🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @already5912
      @already5912 10 месяцев назад +3

      That part pimpin...

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 10 месяцев назад +1

      It was one BM. Why do you people ALWAYS exaggerate and take credit for another person's actions. BM from the USA are not flying women anywhere so STOP. You guys make a woman pay for a two for one meal and expect to use her body for one to three minutes.

    • @1BossP305
      @1BossP305 10 месяцев назад +13

      @@teresamarie7460just say they’re not flying YOU out because men are they do it everyday, I’ve done a few times

    • @Alex-df9rh
      @Alex-df9rh 10 месяцев назад +6

      @@teresamarie7460don’t blame all bm for your problems

    • @whayes8084
      @whayes8084 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@teresamarie7460Black men YOU deal with. My wife would tell you different.

  • @Gunnatello
    @Gunnatello 10 месяцев назад +545

    Maybe I just don’t have enough money but there’s no way I’m flying women out. Why tf am I trying to talk to women in another state?

    • @mellomessatsu
      @mellomessatsu 10 месяцев назад +1

      Its dudes that cant really get play in real life but got money so they resort to tricking and spending on women through social media or some other dating platform

    • @bxi1547
      @bxi1547 10 месяцев назад +18

      So basically if you had money you would simp?

    • @Brandon_beenfly
      @Brandon_beenfly 10 месяцев назад +60

      Why would you only want to limit yourself to women in your own state lol that’s crazy

    • @limitlesspursuit
      @limitlesspursuit 10 месяцев назад +31

      Ask Luda. He told us why.

    • @nik-at-nite
      @nik-at-nite 10 месяцев назад +49

      @@Brandon_beenflyClose proximity allows the opportunity to get to know one another better

  • @jamaalellison3076
    @jamaalellison3076 10 месяцев назад +372

    Man, I wouldn't take any advice from DJ Envy. 😅

    • @georgiapeach8930
      @georgiapeach8930 10 месяцев назад +2

      Why

    • @robertmoon9756
      @robertmoon9756 10 месяцев назад +10

      This dude is tricking SMDH

    • @Iceberg_225
      @Iceberg_225 10 месяцев назад +12

      Facts. He let his wife cheat. No married supposed to go on a month vacation

    • @bigolbabyhuey
      @bigolbabyhuey 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@georgiapeach8930Because he couldn't make his wife come in 10 years... oh yeah, he helped scammed a bunch of people out of their life savings

    • @hellokittypink23
      @hellokittypink23 10 месяцев назад +19

      He's a scamming idiot. I hope when Charmaine the Goddess returns we can get some real answers and tea about what happened last week; did the feds take any equipment? Will Envy see jailtime? What does Tyrese think of all this? Lol

  • @tohneesanchez2049
    @tohneesanchez2049 10 месяцев назад +13

    Vibes in person are different from vibes online.

  • @rooseveltwilliams1073
    @rooseveltwilliams1073 10 месяцев назад +142

    I'm a woman, and paying airplane tickets for an adult that one has only had text and/or phone conversations (basically a stranger) reeks of stupidity and desperation to me. To each his/her own.
    The person being flown in could be crazy or a criminal.

    • @murrrsic
      @murrrsic 10 месяцев назад +7

      facts. as a man I ain't flying nobody nowhere unless we already fkn.

    • @limitlesspursuit
      @limitlesspursuit 10 месяцев назад +3

      And taking it is the same because that’s setting yourself up for trouble also trusting someone that would fly you out so quickly without thinking they want something in return.

    • @Matthew7.7
      @Matthew7.7 10 месяцев назад +3

      Beg to differ. As a man I spoke to this girl for weeks. We would fall asleep on the phone and all that. I flew myself out to see her first. After we started dating I started flying her to see me.

    • @rooseveltwilliams1073
      @rooseveltwilliams1073 10 месяцев назад

      @limitlesspursuit exactly. Flying to meet another "Jeffrey Dahmer" type fr3ak.

    • @vanessay4
      @vanessay4 10 месяцев назад

      Many people I know are now married to the person who flew them out or flee themselves out to the person they met online 🤷🏾‍♀️ don’t live ya life in fear if you’re smart and have discernment.. your life partner may not be in your state or country

  • @dyquanbowers7316
    @dyquanbowers7316 10 месяцев назад +8

    Why is he expecting a stranger to be affectionate?

  • @deevalerie5857
    @deevalerie5857 10 месяцев назад +58

    Desperation & pressuring someone, would probably put off most women. Or *lying,* as the 1st caller discovered.

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 месяцев назад +1

      The vibe that some guys give off, like women owe them sex is a huge turn off. When a guy acts like i can't or shouldn't say no, i get the hell up out of there.

  • @215welivee
    @215welivee 10 месяцев назад +22

    If you’re trying to get to know someone, it doesn’t mean I’m sleeping with you. IDC if we vibe or not, why is sex always the expectation? This is why you don’t go on trips with ppl until you’re already in that space with them. Not every woman is looking for a free trip.

    • @selfmaderish4690
      @selfmaderish4690 10 месяцев назад

      The only comment that makes sense 💯 all I heard is sex was the end goal lol no relationships or marriages just fronting until you get sex and figure everything else out later. #theblckcommunity 🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @misskris117
      @misskris117 10 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly! 💯💯💯💯

  • @UncleBoogieTX
    @UncleBoogieTX 10 месяцев назад +17

    Fellas, just be honest up front. If you’re expecting sex, just tell her you’re expecting sex. Otherwise it’s slight entrapment. ✌🏾

  • @ShervierJ
    @ShervierJ 10 месяцев назад +122

    This is similar to the vacation conversation. I’m not taking a woman on vacation if we’re not already actively sleeping with each other

    • @RUDYRAYYYMO
      @RUDYRAYYYMO 10 месяцев назад +17

      Church. Who raised these dudes

    • @DB64LifeEntertainment
      @DB64LifeEntertainment 10 месяцев назад +5

      Facts dont be a sucker

    • @bank_sinatra
      @bank_sinatra 10 месяцев назад +9

      FACTS. Most of these women just looking to finesse anyway.

    • @MeaghanTamara
      @MeaghanTamara 10 месяцев назад

      And I wouldn't go unless we were having sex. What's the point? If I went through Laguardia oh we are fucking.

    • @MGamerkid
      @MGamerkid 10 месяцев назад +4

      Had this issue last month we slept together twice. She asked ME if I wanted to go on vacation with her. I get to booking the place, she's like "only one room, this a friendly only trip" I said cool I'm good off going then. Kind of feel like a douche but spending all that money even for myself and not getting any is crazy

  • @limitlesspursuit
    @limitlesspursuit 10 месяцев назад +195

    It’s crazy to call me thirsty for flying you out but you’re not thirsty for accepting it!?

    • @thecunninlynguist
      @thecunninlynguist 10 месяцев назад +31

      i wouldn't say they were thirsty for accepting it. More of a finesse. If some rando dude is willing to fly me out on a perception, that's on him...it's like those dudes who take out women on expensive first sates thinking it's a way they'll be smashing by end of night, when they just were finessed out of a meal instead of smashing. Simps gon simp, and they gon be targets for predatory women

    • @ODK321
      @ODK321 10 месяцев назад +8

      @@thecunninlynguist Exactly, just like how most women are targets for predatory men and get slapped around, pumped and dumped and cheated on. 2 wrongs don't make a right, just be a decent person in life. The energy you put out will come back on you at some point

    • @Ptzzy
      @Ptzzy 10 месяцев назад +19

      @@thecunninlynguistno that bird shit. Look if you don’t rock with dude stop accepting money and gifts. Some dudes don’t play about the bread and it could be dangerous. I’m telling my daughter that, please dont accept lavish gifts if you don’t like the guy.

    • @millionairemillennial86
      @millionairemillennial86 10 месяцев назад

      🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Supremmo
      @Supremmo 10 месяцев назад +2

      If he was smart, he would’ve paid for one way or straight up with her. Also, use updated photos. At least three months.

  • @Ptzzy
    @Ptzzy 10 месяцев назад +9

    Ladies stop taking paid for trips if you ain’t rocking with dude like that! Ain’t no guy flying you out and spending his bread to hangout. We gotta stop being stupid and acting like we don’t know. Fellas stop flying these women out because it’s not worth it. Spend that bread on an escort or professional girlfriend.

  • @cocoa_pacific
    @cocoa_pacific 10 месяцев назад +192

    Why would you fly out someone who is basically a stranger? I can see flying out a girlfriend but you are really rolling the dice spending all that money for essentially a blind date. On the other end of the spectrum, it’s crazy for women to put their safety in the hands of a stranger just for a plane ticket, a meal, and some shopping. Make it make sense 😓

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад +10

      It's actually the other way around. These girls get the full file on who sending the pj to come get their musty asses. They know exactly who they are getting into and how daddy like it. They just play the damsel lady role. That's the star part.

    • @DIGDOWN68
      @DIGDOWN68 10 месяцев назад +8

      This has become too normalized.

    • @already5912
      @already5912 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Erica-cf1xb 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @DM-jn3zo
      @DM-jn3zo 10 месяцев назад +2

      at a minimum have money to fly yourself home when you break the news he's not getting anything out of it lol

    • @irissanders7487
      @irissanders7487 10 месяцев назад

      That part!!

  • @PromosMakeCents
    @PromosMakeCents 10 месяцев назад +45

    Dont Be Flyin These Heaux Out! 😅

    • @Jundarippa
      @Jundarippa 10 месяцев назад +2

      Ain't nobody flyin' out these scallywags.

  • @tohneesanchez2049
    @tohneesanchez2049 10 месяцев назад +23

    No one should be getting catfished nowadays. We have FaceTime and other ways to video chat.

    • @thecunninlynguist
      @thecunninlynguist 10 месяцев назад +2

      you'd think right? But that one MTV show went on for yearsssss (fake or not) even after we had technology to prove who we are.

    • @tohneesanchez2049
      @tohneesanchez2049 10 месяцев назад

      @@thecunninlynguist yup I always wondered about that too

    • @datsapaddlin
      @datsapaddlin 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@thecunninlynguist That show definitely partly fake and the side is just desperate people that shoulda known that IG model ain’t want them 😂.

  • @sneakerhead_dread7188
    @sneakerhead_dread7188 10 месяцев назад +51

    Me being a woman, If I flew out to meet someone, NEVER would I go alone, not in the world we live in NOW!!! Im definitely bringing one of my friends with me and she can do her own thing while im on my date. I'll pay for my own flight, and have my own hotel, we can hang out, have a good time, but I'm going back to my OWN hotel!!! I totally agree, If their is a next few times, we can take turns visiting each other, that would mean I'm feeling you and other shit can DEFINITELY down, but not the 1st time. Or people need to be straight up, if they want sex, just let them know, when you come out, were gonna have a nice time and were gonna end the night off with getting some ass. Thats it thats all!!!

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад +2

      That's not how a daddy speak to a lady. It's a pretend it's a nice gesture, gifts, and depending on how he treats lady and what din din he takes her too...then that determines if he deserves semen deposit. He gotta pay tho.

    • @Chris-qg6kc
      @Chris-qg6kc 10 месяцев назад

      7:06 Now all of a sudden he's mister no means no?

    • @KennyBucketz
      @KennyBucketz 10 месяцев назад +1

      Some of this makes sense, but why go wjth your friend if your friend isn’t going to go on the date with you? If it’s for safety, how will your friend keep you safe if she’s doing her own thing when you’re with the guy? Or is it not for safety and just to have someone to split the hotel tab with try and not be bored when you go back to your hotel? I could be way off but as of now there seems to be holes in the logic of brining your friend if the friend isn’t also with you guys. (And as a side note, for me, a lady bringing a friend on the actual date is a no-no because 99% of the time they’re expecting you to pay for the friend too. Seems like a using situation, and the my only seem to try to bring a friend to dinner dates…been there. Uh uh. I know you weren’t suggesting you do that).

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@KennyBucketz Well because it's a set up. Joke is on the man. If the friend is not getting any motion...She gonna flip and snake that friend. The real snake side comes out in environments where the attractive meter and money is very high.

    • @KennyBucketz
      @KennyBucketz 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Erica-cf1xb I was asking OP. Also, I’ve never heard of flipping and snaking before. What is that? Cockblocking?

  • @calikeisha365
    @calikeisha365 10 месяцев назад +21

    I don’t understand women who fly out to spend time with someone they don’t know. My time is more valuable to me than a free plane ticket and dinner. I dated a guy long distance before and our first meeting he flew to my city and got a hotel so there was no expectation of me sleeping with him. Ladies please stop flying out until you really know them. Let them come you for a first meeting.

    • @sims4610593
      @sims4610593 10 месяцев назад

      Egggxactly! Its really common sense but them girls just being wanting that experience until some scary shit happens.

  • @BboyMobster
    @BboyMobster 10 месяцев назад +16

    Expectations will have you broke or depressed. Don’t fly no one out or do things and expect something out of it. Dating for us men means we have to spend money in some kinda way.

  • @tamaracharese
    @tamaracharese 10 месяцев назад +46

    You fly someone out for a first date, you take that gamble. You should’ve flown to see her. When you meet ppl in person, things do change.

    • @kwekujobs4795
      @kwekujobs4795 10 месяцев назад

      I Wona Fly Over & Come See You😊

    • @tamaracharese
      @tamaracharese 10 месяцев назад

      @@kwekujobs4795 my man did, which is why he’s mine and I’m his.

    • @KennyBucketz
      @KennyBucketz 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yup, sometimes things change. And on the other hand, sometimes people were never interested/attracted in the first place and just use you for a free flight to a city, free shopping, free meals, and free experiences all on your dime. Happens all too often.
      And either way it’s a gamble. Fly her out and she either changes her mind or was using you (like I explained). You fly out to see her, and she can still change her mind, you change yours, she can be using you for free food, shopping, experiences, she could be setting you up, or she might ghost you when you land. Huge gamble either way. It’s usually a terrible idea to fly someone out or to fly to see them, especially if you haven’t met already and had chemistry.

    • @tamaracharese
      @tamaracharese 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@KennyBucketz honestly, flying anywhere to see anyone is an investment. If you don’t KNOW if they’re worth it, I wouldn’t do it.

    • @KennyBucketz
      @KennyBucketz 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@tamaracharese exactly. That’s what I’m saying. If you haven’t met and had chemistry, the risk isn’t worth it. If you’ve met and had chemistry and think she/he is worth it, then flying out to see them can be worth the risk because dating in general is already a risk. It’s now just less of a risk of blowing a big investment

  • @debracunningham603
    @debracunningham603 10 месяцев назад +15

    Online dating is tricky, sometimes you are vibing and then you meet the person the chemistry is just not there, or maybe he said something that just turned her off. I have met men that I feel like I could do something with him and then he opens his mouth and says something dumb and spoils the whole vibe

  • @shanicen3281
    @shanicen3281 10 месяцев назад +6

    Men really think they don’t sound creepy saying they aren’t doing anything with sex first. Yuck

  • @suzeesix
    @suzeesix 10 месяцев назад +10

    People these days take unnecessary risks. I can’t imagine flying out to meet someone I don’t know. For what? Companionship? Sex? WTF?
    That sounds so crazy to me.

  • @OSnoopySnoop1
    @OSnoopySnoop1 10 месяцев назад +19

    HE PLAYED HISSELF 😂😅😂

  • @ceenichole6866
    @ceenichole6866 10 месяцев назад +50

    He didn’t want Romance or affection, he thought he could make this transactional. To assume a woman should sleep with you is wild. I’m sure there was no conversation about the expectations. that’s what he gets 😂😂😂

    • @catastrophecookies6066
      @catastrophecookies6066 10 месяцев назад +2

      I mean her being naive is pretty wild too

    • @misskris117
      @misskris117 10 месяцев назад +1

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @deezihogan8675
      @deezihogan8675 10 месяцев назад

      Before Charlemagne said "transactional" were you saying "transactional"? Or are we as human beings just prone to not being original?

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@deezihogan8675i thought about the word "transactional" from the jump. How are you out here trying to call out a stranger? More than one person can agree with someone and not be unoriginal. A lot of times, when people agree on something, it's because it's correct.
      Boy, bye.

    • @deezihogan8675
      @deezihogan8675 10 месяцев назад

      @@forallthestupidshit3550 hold up Sis!, I'm out here calling out Ms. Thang, Not you. If you want the smoke, I'm definitely here for it, as well. Girl, Bye!

  • @bxi1547
    @bxi1547 10 месяцев назад +6

    When simpin goes wrong. Actually it never goes right.

  • @BeBlessed70
    @BeBlessed70 10 месяцев назад +9

    Two weeks?? Did he say they had been talking for two weeks? That's not nearly enough time to get to know someone to be flying out to meet them in person.

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 10 месяцев назад +17

    That's his fault. Take the L and let this fly. It is what it is. Just learn from your lessons. It's not that deep

  • @ka9202
    @ka9202 9 месяцев назад +2

    My ex did that to me a few years back. Flew herself out like 'Oh I'm gonna be in the neighborhood' type ish' 'and I wanna see you.' She came outta the airport terminal and I knew off rip, seggs was not going to happen. She catfished me with the screenshot but I said what the hey; hadn't seen her in a while. Same thing paid for everything: the place to stay, food, amusement park, museums... spent 4X my rent in a week. But back to the trip; she's picking fights and SCREAMING at the top of her lungs at me any chance she gets (in public, in the car, any and everywhere) I had to keep my composure and walk away when she would do that. Had to block her haven't seen or heard from her since. YEA!

  • @Gracefullybri
    @Gracefullybri 10 месяцев назад +10

    The fact that he’s calling in complaining and did all that for some 🐈let’s me know everything I need to know about him 😂😂 and why you can’t get 🐈 in the hometown why you gotta fly chicks out😂😂🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @deathgod1411
    @deathgod1411 10 месяцев назад +11

    Women need2 be careful flying out 2 meet strangers Danger😢

  • @cjjohnson3827
    @cjjohnson3827 10 месяцев назад +17

    When is envy gonna get donkey of the day for the ponzi scheme? Lol

  • @nikkif9873
    @nikkif9873 10 месяцев назад +8

    Social media messed alot things up 💯

  • @jeremyt.2540
    @jeremyt.2540 10 месяцев назад +8

    Envy giving advice is funny asl 😂

  • @TauronB2G
    @TauronB2G 10 месяцев назад +8

    Buddy a whole goofy out here. I wouldn’t tell nobody I did that dumb isht.

  • @jessesgirlwhite484
    @jessesgirlwhite484 10 месяцев назад +118

    As a woman, a grown ass woman, the talk would have been had and all parties know what's up. She wanted the FLEW OUT experience and there's nothing wrong with that: HOWEVER, let him know. It's not fair to him.

    • @getmoneychill6462
      @getmoneychill6462 10 месяцев назад +19

      Facts she knew what homie was thinking & wanting

    • @jessesgirlwhite484
      @jessesgirlwhite484 10 месяцев назад +5

      @getmoneychill6462 exactly. It's going to cause him to be guarded next time, and I don't blame him.

    • @Truessencesvn
      @Truessencesvn 10 месяцев назад +4

      I travel a lot for work and my personal time. A woman that’s well traveled doesn’t see getting “flewed” out as serious. If he expects sex HE needs to mention that before anything since HE is the one that offered. That’s just me tho

    • @jessesgirlwhite484
      @jessesgirlwhite484 10 месяцев назад +8

      @Bigthighs134 I travel a lot for personal reasons with friends as well as solo. It may not have been a big deal for her; however, it was for him. She should have practiced her communication skills. As adults, we know that there's nothing in life FREE

    • @louischapman3716
      @louischapman3716 10 месяцев назад +2

      Amen! Thanks for stating the truth. She knew what he was expecting.

  • @limitlesspursuit
    @limitlesspursuit 10 месяцев назад +38

    You CAN have that conversation. You have to have that conversation. If she’s not down she needs to say that.

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад +1

      That's not how allegations work. There is no honesty.

  • @borganfreeman
    @borganfreeman 10 месяцев назад +3

    Envy SHOOK 😂he nervous every time the door opens

  • @THEOTOCLAN
    @THEOTOCLAN 10 месяцев назад +5

    Yall gotta stop flying these chicks out. And Envy doesn't understand stuff like this. He is speaking from a simp position

  • @pwpstrick
    @pwpstrick 10 месяцев назад +5

    I’ve flown a couple of chicks out, some met off social media, some I’ve met on a holiday weekend but I’ve never not hit. And I’m very blunt you’re gonna know what time it is before you get that ticket. I’m married now and my wife was flown out lol.

  • @_Tree
    @_Tree 10 месяцев назад +2

    Ain't No way I'm doing that. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheKenan34
    @TheKenan34 10 месяцев назад +6

    The moral of the story is...... If you're gonna expect sex from somebody, maybe you should bring the conversation up on the phone first and facetime them to see if that's your vibe and the person you want to spend your time with.... Simple... Common sense 😅

  • @belindalynn8984
    @belindalynn8984 10 месяцев назад +3

    You know what a man wants, if you ain't ready to give it up, then don't go.

  • @mars3676
    @mars3676 10 месяцев назад +2

    Yea this is why relationships aren’t forming properly

  • @shanellemontgomery8252
    @shanellemontgomery8252 10 месяцев назад +4

    You all remember this is the first date. 🤷🏾‍♀️it’s a date no matter how fancy it may be. No force just have a great time. Get to know the person in person and find out what they are into. So you can be great at it then the next time you all will be vibing !!

  • @dextersmart5289
    @dextersmart5289 10 месяцев назад +4

    Whenever I flew a Chic out to Ny I always got that because I just remained myself and I just let everything flow organically. You can always tell really early what that vibe is gonna be like. If it happens it happens.

  • @251979SAM
    @251979SAM 10 месяцев назад +14

    Hygiene could be another reason a woman changes her mind

  • @2kdad
    @2kdad 10 месяцев назад +4

    so their first date was a all expense paid vacation for her. WTH!

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад

      Sounds like it wasn't his first rodeo. They know whores get real nasty when it's sand and exotic locations.

  • @nmorrison7
    @nmorrison7 10 месяцев назад +15

    Don’t entertain women that don’t find you sexually attractive. Dating a woman that has no desire to be with you sexually is boring and pointless.

    • @pfunk1992
      @pfunk1992 10 месяцев назад

    • @rbush431
      @rbush431 10 месяцев назад

      That doesn’t apply in this case. She pretended or at minimum was interested then changed her mind. I think she wanted a free trip and meal. I mean who doesn’t

    • @nmorrison7
      @nmorrison7 10 месяцев назад +3

      ⁠@@rbush431 I’m not sure if you’re a man or a woman, but there’s nothing free in life. That’s the main problem with some women in general is the sense of entitlement. The last caller had the right response to the scenario. The bottom line is that man worked for that money that was spent on the vacation that she should’ve declined if she’s not attracted to him.

  • @thecunninlynguist
    @thecunninlynguist 10 месяцев назад +13

    when simpin goes wrong. I for the life of me will never understand flying chicks out. Just seems so loserish, if you gon pay, just go get a local escort or something haha

    • @bxi1547
      @bxi1547 10 месяцев назад +1

      Simpin never goes right. Women only see simps as a lick.

    • @ForzaPulls
      @ForzaPulls 10 месяцев назад

      Stay in topic about DJ envy aka Dj Madoff

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад

      They do that too. That's why they move out of town to buy whores in peace. They think those whores don't know the other whores from where he came from. Nope. All friends. Big whore community. They love their kangs

  • @sheilawilliams9966
    @sheilawilliams9966 10 месяцев назад +3

    IT'S CALLED DATING!!!.
    I LIKE TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE AND THEY GET TO KNOW ME
    UNLESS THERE'S A PROMISE OF EXCHANGE "SEX FOR MONEY SPENT" DON'T EXPECT SEX!!!😢

  • @AshleyNoneya
    @AshleyNoneya 10 месяцев назад +2

    You can’t expect someone to give you what you want just because you fly them out 😂

    • @cedriclloyd5571
      @cedriclloyd5571 9 месяцев назад

      Yes you can. Just like the person being flown is "expecting" a good time, sightseeing, and/or shopping.

    • @AshleyNoneya
      @AshleyNoneya 9 месяцев назад

      @@cedriclloyd5571 no one owes you anything mr entitled 😂😂 goodbye

  • @celetarenee
    @celetarenee 10 месяцев назад +9

    He’s expecting her to drop it only after 2 weeks of communication 🙄?? He’s wrong for that. From how he sounds. He probably don’t look good. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @already5912
      @already5912 10 месяцев назад

      When did it take weeks when women doing it on the daily now lol.. 2 weeks is time gouging ... 🤷‍♂

    • @hannahi9355
      @hannahi9355 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@already5912just because all the women you know are fast it doesn't mean all women are that way. I can't imagine being so jaded that you believe all women are the same.

    • @celetarenee
      @celetarenee 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@hannahi9355 exactly! I couldn’t even find the words to respond to him so thank you. 😊

    • @already5912
      @already5912 10 месяцев назад

      @@hannahi9355 To be honest some of these women you put on high pedestals are like that.. Stop thinking so highly of women. You say the right thing/s and the vibes are right both parties are satisfied..

  • @significantnobody823
    @significantnobody823 10 месяцев назад +9

    Why fly out when you know you wont put out?? He isnt flying yoy out to have bible study. Plus you leave yourself in a situation where the worst outcome can happen. Ladies please do better

  • @Pecan504
    @Pecan504 10 месяцев назад +2

    She ran game on him to see what she could get out of him. It worked 😅

  • @txzbelle75
    @txzbelle75 10 месяцев назад +2

    Sometimes, the vibe is off... maybe she was nervous... maybe he wasn't what she thought...

  • @kaytan8409
    @kaytan8409 10 месяцев назад +6

    Do men feel differently about paying for the woman to fly to their city, vs. the man just booking his own trip to fly to her?

    • @elijaharvinger1178
      @elijaharvinger1178 10 месяцев назад

      Part of the reasons women accept being flown out is because its a flex. It lets the woman know that a man has means. If he can fly you out and shower you with gifts and dinners that's an ego boost for him.

    • @thecunninlynguist
      @thecunninlynguist 10 месяцев назад +2

      i think the simp perceives it as a flex to the woman they're flying out....like "i have money to spare, i'm flying you out"

    • @elijaharvinger1178
      @elijaharvinger1178 10 месяцев назад

      @@thecunninlynguist Exactly.

  • @kennethemenike1597
    @kennethemenike1597 10 месяцев назад +3

    Dj envy deserves everything coming to him for doing business with a convicted scammer and thought he’s a changed person

    • @reyrayo2502
      @reyrayo2502 10 месяцев назад

      Where did his car collection come from 😂😂😂😂 what an idiot I hope you do time bro

  • @smharris6732
    @smharris6732 10 месяцев назад +2

    The Broolyn caller represented right👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I like her (mothers) perspectives. 😅

  • @hannahi9355
    @hannahi9355 10 месяцев назад +2

    Men be expecting so much. You meet them once and they're ready to move in together and have the nerves to say you seem hesitant. Like obviously. Use common sense.

  • @Bebo860Cora
    @Bebo860Cora 10 месяцев назад +4

    Book A One Way Trip , If She Not With The Program She Gotta Suffer The Same L and Fly Her Self Back

  • @ItzD
    @ItzD 10 месяцев назад +7

    CTG was 1000% correct in this entire conversation.

    • @joeking6534
      @joeking6534 10 месяцев назад

      You must be a simp 😂

  • @roybledsoe24
    @roybledsoe24 10 месяцев назад +2

    Be an adult and be upfront. Stop playing childish games. If you wanna have sex and that’s it be upfront with them.

  • @ambrosiaofthegods
    @ambrosiaofthegods 10 месяцев назад +3

    Why would a woman even take the chance to fly out anywhere without her own dime in her pocket as a fall back plan..

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад

      Because getting the semen is the plan. They gotta put it on them with their musty lingerie and honey pack on their body to get roach baby on that Vacation. If he ask her to stay she is there for good. New life, new me.

  • @briesthoughts2261
    @briesthoughts2261 10 месяцев назад +29

    He just wanted to smash and she just met him. He was in the wrong.

    • @dn30001
      @dn30001 10 месяцев назад +1

      Females do it...then its ok

    • @stevengrvp
      @stevengrvp 10 месяцев назад +7

      Why accept the trip

    • @thecunninlynguist
      @thecunninlynguist 10 месяцев назад +6

      @@stevengrvp free trip. Just like when thy accept free meals.

    • @stevengrvp
      @stevengrvp 10 месяцев назад +6

      @@thecunninlynguist it's messed up but they are playing a dangerous game

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@stevengrvpbecause a trip doesn't mean you're entitled to anything from me.

  • @formallyknown1
    @formallyknown1 10 месяцев назад +1

    Wait is nobody gonna say something? Envy is still coming to work 😂

  • @Mac-Mac-hb4ec
    @Mac-Mac-hb4ec 10 месяцев назад +1

    She got a free trip 😂😂😂😂. 🗣️🗣️🗣️he turned out to be a coorrrrrnnnyyyyyy

  • @Baller4life405
    @Baller4life405 10 месяцев назад +4

    As a man who have money I would never fly a woman out for sure !

  • @romegrey2600
    @romegrey2600 10 месяцев назад +4

    Why tf would women accept getting flown out by men qhen he can easily assault her if it doesn't work and why would men proposition women expecting something? Come tf on

    • @sdk0524
      @sdk0524 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah I don’t get it from either side

  • @delroy0
    @delroy0 10 месяцев назад +1

    I aint flying nobody out that i'm not sleeping with 🤣🤣🤣 we in a recession goddamnit

  • @iamjamesmeeks
    @iamjamesmeeks 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sounds like he had expectations but never had a conversation with her about what those expectations were. As I tell my children “use your words”. That’s always the surefire way to let it be known what you want

  • @kriskim9952
    @kriskim9952 10 месяцев назад +3

    Maybe dingo does not have a MANdingo!!!!! 😂😂😂

  • @LaRochePosayStyist
    @LaRochePosayStyist 10 месяцев назад +1

    I personally don't meet people online, because you don't know WHO you are dealing with. 😮

  • @Lil_bottega73
    @Lil_bottega73 10 месяцев назад +2

    Bro said F that I flew you out here to hit that 😻

  • @billsgotmedointhis
    @billsgotmedointhis 10 месяцев назад +3

    I agree with CTG, meet and greet first. As a single woman myself, if a man offered to fly me out, and we were meeting for the first time, I would pay for my own plane ticket. Many men will be expecting something if they wine and dine you because they dished out their dough on you. Sounds very prostitutish/pimpish to me. In this day and age, women should always have a back-up plan if you agree in having the gentleman pay for everything. Escape plan if you will. Because like a lot of callers are saying, it's one thing to talk over the phone but up in person, a whole different level.

  • @JewelzFin
    @JewelzFin 10 месяцев назад +3

    Waiting for the day Envy gets Donkey of the Day for his role in scamming people. LOCK HIM UP!

  • @RaineSim
    @RaineSim 10 месяцев назад +2

    This is why we women get got nowadays. You have a complete stranger fly you out, make ALL the arrangements and pay for everything, then you stay the entire time???? Y'all ain't afraid to die???

  • @Jennessy21
    @Jennessy21 10 месяцев назад +43

    Glad to see Envy on the set. The show wouldn’t be the same without him. I wish bloggers would let it all play out rather than spew gossip about things they don’t know about. It’s insane how bad our people want to see the demise of our own.

    • @brandonbrown6918
      @brandonbrown6918 10 месяцев назад +1

      What I miss😅

    • @m.i.d7174
      @m.i.d7174 10 месяцев назад

      Exactly. DJ envy has been robbing his community of “our” ppl for 4 years now with ridiculous seminars and get rich quick scams. So yeah, he’s definitely helping the demise of the community. He deserves what’s coming.

    • @quentinparker7404
      @quentinparker7404 10 месяцев назад +5

      Well said.👍

    • @YoungMannie92
      @YoungMannie92 10 месяцев назад +1

      He never left, worked from home one day and ppl went crazy

    • @ogkush36
      @ogkush36 10 месяцев назад +9

      Envy snitched that's why he's still here on the show

  • @jubrown24
    @jubrown24 10 месяцев назад +66

    My heart goes out to DJ Envy’s family and I commend him for showing up everyday on one the BIGGEST platforms with the weight of the world on his shoulder. Praying for all parties involved🙏🏾

    • @JewelzFin
      @JewelzFin 10 месяцев назад +28

      He doesn't deserve any love for being a scammer.

    • @williegrant3054
      @williegrant3054 10 месяцев назад +4

      HE BETTER!! Them Lawsuits 4 REAL. They're NO JOKE!

    • @eltonthomas2637
      @eltonthomas2637 10 месяцев назад +7

      Go listen to him promote, dude. You'll change your mind.

    • @hellokittypink23
      @hellokittypink23 10 месяцев назад +7

      I don't commend his scamming ass for shyt! He needs to be held accountable for being that felon's marketing/PR/co-founder smdh

    • @kennethemenike1597
      @kennethemenike1597 10 месяцев назад +14

      He should have not involved himself with a convicted scammer. Black folks are very forgiving I swear you should be praying for the victims only

  • @Warriorvelcro
    @Warriorvelcro 10 месяцев назад +1

    😂😂not the doggy snack

  • @gzmain78
    @gzmain78 10 месяцев назад +1

    IDGAF if it's 2 weeks or 2 years. You can get the same results flying someone out you've never met.

  • @LifeCreator
    @LifeCreator 10 месяцев назад +12

    To alleviate anyone from feeling used. The girl should fly herself out and split the food bill. That way there’s no expectations or obligations from the man or woman.

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад +1

      Sounds like heaven. The problem is there is no leverage.

    • @HJCOD
      @HJCOD 10 месяцев назад

      @@Erica-cf1xbfrom neither part

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 10 месяцев назад +1

      Why would a woman be so desperate to meet a man...

    • @LifeCreator
      @LifeCreator 10 месяцев назад

      @@teresamarie7460 the desperation would diminish very quickly if women flew themselves out. The desperation comes from a free trip and free meal and free content and pics for their IG for most women.

    • @SmooveTV718
      @SmooveTV718 10 месяцев назад

      We can ask the question that the other way around....@@teresamarie7460

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 10 месяцев назад +3

    Envy keep saying you can't have that convo, yes the hell you can.
    I've definitely had that conversation beforehand so we both knew the deal and what the expectations were.
    I've gotten yes. I've gotten maybe and I've gotten flat out, no. I respected all 3 because they were honest.

  • @91tumtum45
    @91tumtum45 10 месяцев назад +1

    Lol fly you out for your conversation but doesn’t wanna converse enough to FaceTime 😅

  • @raheemtheinvestor
    @raheemtheinvestor 10 месяцев назад +1

    Damn these pre recorded interviews is crazy DJ envy locked up 😂🕺🏿

  • @kinggodtravis
    @kinggodtravis 10 месяцев назад +5

    Y'all guest is not getting flew in nowhere, let's start there. Then she said, she is getting flew in for her conversation. Listen, simple as this, don't nobody fly or pay for flying if you're not on the same page. If a man is attracted to you, he wanna hit just off that, women need to learn men, so if he flew you out, he definitely wanted to hit, don't go if your not interested in getting smashed, I don't care how you feel about I should be able, be able to stay at home and everybody be good, and men start buying one way tickets just to be safe 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 10 месяцев назад

      Men should learn that a woman is more valuable than money. However, if you men want to put a dollar value to it, it's definitely worth more than a couple thousand. But, y'all already know this and that's why you play with women with no self esteem and self worth.

    • @SWOTHDRA
      @SWOTHDRA 10 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂

  • @The_Gray_Area
    @The_Gray_Area 10 месяцев назад +7

    You don’t fly out somebody you never slept with. If anything, fly to her nearest major city, get to know each other, take her out and see if there’s chemistry. If you smash, cool. If not, then it’ll take a little more work. I’m never flying a stranger anywhere.

  • @TheMMFamily9
    @TheMMFamily9 10 месяцев назад +1

    Why are these woman leaving thier comfort zone "flying" to them , you crazy , have them get a room in your city .....you crazy 😂

  • @ivanwayneinc9268
    @ivanwayneinc9268 10 месяцев назад +2

    Dang.. Envy you at work??. Bruh.. that new deal must be fiya fiya

  • @forallthestupidshit3550
    @forallthestupidshit3550 10 месяцев назад +5

    Nothing is more of a turn off than a guy who gives off the vibe that i can't say no, because he did something for me. When a guy gets around me and acts like i owe him, so i better do something, i am immediately turned off and scared, actually. Makes me want to RUN.

  • @divotno
    @divotno 10 месяцев назад +3

    Charla nailed it- if he’s too thirsty and doesn’t play his cards right

  • @beedog6491
    @beedog6491 10 месяцев назад +4

    Why bother flying someone out if not for the buns? If it ain't established ahead of time, it's not going down. There's plenty of shorties you don't have to fly out you can take your time with and date.

    • @thecunninlynguist
      @thecunninlynguist 10 месяцев назад +2

      simps just assume

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 10 месяцев назад +1

      Not how hell works. Hot and ready Only. Baddie only. Image awards need the hottest roach couple on the imaginary scene. It's a bad roach infestation all over the world.

  • @thinkAboutIt1x
    @thinkAboutIt1x 10 месяцев назад +1

    A. A woman shouldn't be letting a stranger fly her out, if she is not going to smash.
    B. If she change her mind after agreeing to smash she needs to give him back asap the money he spent on her.

  • @sweett8725
    @sweett8725 10 месяцев назад +2

    I met a guy he flew me out after talkin for a few weeks on the phone. We met where I lived but he lived in another state. He tried to holler at me the night he saw me, asked me out the next day and during that date we talked about a lot. He knew I hadn’t been intimate with anyone in 8 months and we talked about why. I’m just tired of being approached because I’m “fine” but clearly these men objectify me for my body and nothing real comes from it. So I’m not puttin out until I find someone willing to get to know me. So he flew mw out and pretty much had t planned any outings, dinner, nothing. And before anyone say he spent money on a room and plane ticket- for all I know that shit was free bc frequent flyer miles are a thing. He had alcohol on deck but no plans to do anything. So I felt like he flew me in like I was a common prostitute and was turned off. We didn’t have sex and his energy was different the next day. He paid for wherever we ate but I just didn’t feel like I was shown a good time and that’s the only reason why I didn’t end my 8 month drought on him.