"BABE, DONT YOU WANT ME BACK?... UHHH Who dis?" | Ppl call their ex
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If Preach doesn't get triggered into ranting in French the video is not complete. 😂
That’s a fact 😂
Too true
💯💯💯😂😂😂
It's even better when Aba antagonises the situation with his patented shit eating grin on his face! 😂
Always my favorite.
“She went out with my cousin.”
“Guess it runs in the family.”
“No, *she* runs in my family.” 🤣💀
@Kitty Silverlake The last word of the last line hit hard too then. 😂
Don't leave meeee
No, the family runs in her...
PREACH LAUGH 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She’s run through his family 😂😂
You have to be down horrendous to call your ex about why your relationship failed in front of a camera.
Says you
@ says mad people you using our relationship failures as content?
@@thaisennj9781 at least something positive comes out of it
Down apocalyptic
@ What's the positivity generated from this event? Being laughed at? Dredging up old emotional issues? You sold yourself for god damn content . . .
I already respected you guys, but after that “ily” reaction I now respect Preach even a ton more
What does it mean
@@janieraltreche1989 “I love you” I think it should be
@@flowersandcheesecake1710 it actually means I love yams
@@JavierNYC423 My only true love, complex carbohydrates.
@@oz_jones read that in a western African accent
This is toxic as hell. Especially the guy who called his ex and told him "I Love You" (ily) and then blocked him... and then thr girl who asked "would you want to go on a date"; if they had any feelings, even residual, that can cause some pain to have to let go of again.
When your ex cared so little about your existence that he forgets who you even were
It’s because he’s selfish
@ it's because u weren't all that to him lol.
@@seorwhite3333 that’s rude
I have a feeling a lot of these people are serial daters, so their last Ex may have just been someone they were with a couple weeks.
@ Sure it is, but don't delude yourself because u end up worse off in the end.
I don't understand why someone would keep contact with their Ex. It's over, move on, be at peace...
Relationships are different, some people actually end up better as friends
I mean, that doesn't seem to be the case with anyone here but still
@@nightfighter7452 it's not the case for majority of relationships. Only ones many see end up as friends are those with kids.
They wanna keep that '' comfort 🍆/🐱'' on deck just in case one of them is going through a drought
@@d.speedy5083 Or maybe we just choose to engage in relationships with people we actually like and are able to be mature enough about it to retain a friendship afterwards. 🤷♂
as a true fan of comedy, i truly appreciate how often u guys callback to random jokes/sets & always credit the comedian too..that's real & respected!
WOAH WOAH WOAH!!! Let me get this perfectly straight: You comment something that is completely unrelated to the fact that I have two HAZARDOUSLY HANDSOME girlfriends? Considering that I am the unprettiest RUclipsr worldwide, it is really incredible. Yet you did not mention it at all. I am VERY disappointed, dear mister
“Fan of comedy” hmm that’s a new one.
@@wespicedmemes not just any fan a "true" fan of comedy
@@mharris4264 ahh yes. A lot of ppl just pretend to be fans of comedy but this guy is for real.
bro said “as a true connoisseur of the comedic arts”🤓
To the girl that broke up with the guy that wanted a poly relationship, I freaking love you. If anyone says to you they want a poly, RUN. Theyve been cheating on you, they want to have their cake and eat it too for once
While I agree that there might be some guys and girls that use the preference of a "poly" relationship as pretense for being dishonest in a relationship, you are wrong to assume this is true as a blanket statement and I wish to show you a different perspective. There are people out there that really, truly seek a polyamorous relationship with another partner and intend to do so in a manner that also aligns with their said lover's boundaries. This is coming from my point of view as someone who has only been in monogamous relationships and I have no desire for a partner that seeks for a polyamorous relationship.
@@footballholic_R10 there is not one poly person that hasn't cheated, didn't. Want to look bad and brought up poly to cover their asses, there's millions of videos where the guy or girl said that they found someone attractive despite having a relationship already, that's how it always starts so they. Don't hurt their partner's feelings
Telling a girl you want an open relationship is a good way to get her to break up with you so you don't look like the bad guy lol
@@PotatoSlices true shit right there, I agree. like I can't trust anyone that wants one
@@PotatoSlices win win for guys,if she wants you can fk her too alongside other side bitchess,if she doesn't you break up and don't rly care..
I like the military guys response, he's definitely matured after losing ole girl. Hey that's how life is. You learn and you grow so hopefully you don't keep Making the same mistakes over and over
I took time away from dating before meeting my husband. I focused on rebuilding. And I got into therapy to start learning why I made the bad decisions regarding the people I let into my life. If every ex is trash, perhaps looking into why you keep picking it up is warranted.
I’m 55 and my son is currently 21. He lives on his own and has a job but he won’t talk to me because when he was 20 he was dating a 26-year-old. They met when he was 18 and she was 24. I found out that they were dating so I took his phone, deleted her number, and forbade him from seeing her because of the age difference. I explained to him that he was a child and that true adulthood starts at 21. 18-20 are children but 21+ are adults. So 21 dating 27 isn’t bad. I tried to move out but I forced him to stay in my home. He asked if we could talk about it but I wasn’t having it I’m not allowing my son to be a victim of pedophilia. When he was 20 he moved out and I have been texting him and calling him but he won’t respond and he hasn’t dated anyone since. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want my son to date her. He needs to date girls his own age. What should I do? Also, I never said that he couldn’t date older women. Like I never really explained to him that he was still a child at 18 and that the age of adulthood doesn't mean shit I also didn’t allow him to date in High School but I said he could date when he goes to college and I think he met her there. She was his first girlfriend, first kiss, etc but like I said he was still a little child and she was an adult. 21 is when adulthood starts at 21 he can date someone who is 27(well not her because she was 24 and he was 18 so she was a pedophile), 31, etc. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want to set my son up with her because I want him to date people near his age. The oldest an 18 year old should date is 22. What should I do? And all these people telling me to mind my own business have no kids. I have all the right. People don’t want their daughters dating a man that much older.
@@llawliet6262 so you are just going to copy paste this mess throughout the comments huh smh 🤦🏾♀️ let it go your public comments proved you to be a troll. Stop 🛑
This! I respect wish I went before my current relationship however I'm going now but what you said is absolutely truth
I made the mistake of dating a girl on the rebound...i will never make that mistake again.
I second that. After I recognized that none of my relationships were working, I had a long period of self reflection and alone time. I worked on my self, and being happy by my self. Then I met someone who's truly good for me. Hopping from one relationship to another without a grace period seems like a crutch in my opinion. I've had conversations with people I was with years ago, and it seems like some of them are the same exact person, while I'd hardly recognize the person I was three+ years ago. I just took responsibility for my bad decisions and recognized when I was the problem, and grew because of it.
That "Ily" part made my whole body cringe. "Je refuse!" I'm with Preach 😂
Wats it mean??
@@iamSilencio “I Love You”
I’m 55 and my son is currently 21. He lives on his own and has a job but he won’t talk to me because when he was 20 he was dating a 26-year-old. They met when he was 18 and she was 24. I found out that they were dating so I took his phone, deleted her number, and forbade him from seeing her because of the age difference. I explained to him that he was a child and that true adulthood starts at 21. 18-20 are children but 21+ are adults. So 21 dating 27 isn’t bad. I tried to move out but I forced him to stay in my home. He asked if we could talk about it but I wasn’t having it I’m not allowing my son to be a victim of pedophilia. When he was 20 he moved out and I have been texting him and calling him but he won’t respond and he hasn’t dated anyone since. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want my son to date her. He needs to date girls his own age. What should I do? Also, I never said that he couldn’t date older women. Like I never really explained to him that he was still a child at 18 and that the age of adulthood doesn't mean shit I also didn’t allow him to date in High School but I said he could date when he goes to college and I think he met her there. She was his first girlfriend, first kiss, etc but like I said he was still a little child and she was an adult. 21 is when adulthood starts at 21 he can date someone who is 27(well not her because she was 24 and he was 18 so she was a pedophile), 31, etc. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want to set my son up with her because I want him to date people near his age. The oldest an 18 year old should date is 22. What should I do? And all these people telling me to mind my own business have no kids. I have all the right. People don’t want their daughters dating a man that much older.
@@iamSilencio I refuse
@@llawliet6262 he has his freedom thank god.
“I wasn’t supportive enough when she had postpartum depression” anyway cut. Lmaooo
The editing kills me
@@kirstendepina did this mf dirty
To clarify, post parthum depression isn't real.
@@YouGottaShootEmInTheHead how do women feel after childbirth? We asked an anonymous RUclips commenter! Also, of you have a citation for that I would love to read it please and thank you
@@OEBlackman WOOOIIIIIIIII!
They have no problem admitting their wrongs and they ruined the relationship. We need more of this.
Preach's reaction to "ILY" was so damn funny 💔😂😂
You guys are amazing, keep it up ✨
Nancy from Maryland? This man just found her on a spreadsheet of his spread cheeks.
What is that supposed to mean?
????
DAMN! That’s clever, I gotta use that.
CLASSIIIIIC😂😂😂
I literally just rewatched that last night😂
When i tell you i've NEVER heard ILY said as a word....in my 32 years of living....until now😵💫
I used to use it like 15+ years ago that is when it was a thing 🤣🤣 other folks were using it too
That's the best use of that emoji I've ever seen
@@VolumePerfection What region of the US/state because I'm on the west and I never heard that before
@@VolumePerfection that was never a thing clown
I'm 20 and I didn't even know that was a thing 🤣
It's a red flag if they're constantly complaining about their past exes, but if they simply had bad exes then it's not a big issue for me. Like I get not making many good choices in partners in previous times, I think you're allowed to have that immaturity to not be able to recognize red flags in people to a point, it's when they can't stop talking about how bad they were that it becomes a problem. Then it starts to look like they're grasping for a reason as to why that person bad and they're good. That's just me. I definitely ain't calling my ex tho lmao
It depends though. Some exes, especially those from when we are young, can be 100% genuine authentic a-holes with nothing to offer but get into a relationship because the other person is vulnerable at that point in time.
Bad exes? Not a problem, per se.
If ALL OF THEM are bad? It's a huge red flag.
1:35
Im biased because I date women, but every single woman I have ever dated has mentioned that their ex was somehow bad/mean/abusive toward them. It's a subtle psychological technique to save her from a bully; and to convince you that she is a good person. And most guys buy into it quickly because they desire to fix problems. It's only after a while that they learn she contributed to the drama in her relationships, but cant be seen as the bad guy or take accountability. Once he gets fed up, or angry, and she monkey-branches to another, he is now the bad guy she tells the next guy about. I feed into it though because I will tell ALL of my exes to never contact me again.
My ex-boyfriend made the mistake to compare me to his ex-girlfriend on more than one occasion. I let him go. His ex-girlfriend don't want him, either!
Preach's reaction to ILY was f'cken glorious. Can't stop laugh.
1:46 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Preach be killing me sometimes man😂
“She run through the family”
@Kitty Silverlake Yikes.
I’m 55 and my son is currently 21. He lives on his own and has a job but he won’t talk to me because when he was 20 he was dating a 26-year-old. They met when he was 18 and she was 24. I found out that they were dating so I took his phone, deleted her number, and forbade him from seeing her because of the age difference. I explained to him that he was a child and that true adulthood starts at 21. 18-20 are children but 21+ are adults. So 21 dating 27 isn’t bad. I tried to move out but I forced him to stay in my home. He asked if we could talk about it but I wasn’t having it I’m not allowing my son to be a victim of pedophilia. When he was 20 he moved out and I have been texting him and calling him but he won’t respond and he hasn’t dated anyone since. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want my son to date her. He needs to date girls his own age. What should I do? Also, I never said that he couldn’t date older women. Like I never really explained to him that he was still a child at 18 and that the age of adulthood doesn't mean shit I also didn’t allow him to date in High School but I said he could date when he goes to college and I think he met her there. She was his first girlfriend, first kiss, etc but like I said he was still a little child and she was an adult. 21 is when adulthood starts at 21 he can date someone who is 27(well not her because she was 24 and he was 18 so she was a pedophile), 31, etc. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want to set my son up with her because I want him to date people near his age. The oldest an 18 year old should date is 22. What should I do? And all these people telling me to mind my own business have no kids. I have all the right. People don’t want their daughters dating a man that much older.
@@llawliet6262 sounds like you need to let him make his own decisions at this point. It is a little creepy with a full grown adult dating a teenager but the way you went about it was wrong and pushed him away.
@@TaymaShine Thank you! A 21-year-old shouldn't date an 18-19-year-old! Those who do deserve to die.
@@TaymaShine this guy is a troll. He left other comments saying he is 20 years old
The pure look of confusion that turned to disgust from preach as soon as he learned about "ily" is just priceless, I felt dat cause damn I'd cringe so hard hearing that from another human being, seriously, who Speaks in text language, take your ..ass. back to elementary.
What's ily mean?
@@chonch1267 it means I love/like you it’s usually love though
I was wondering what the fuck they were saying, that's even worse than i thought.
Yea that moment when ily clicked for preach is gold
soooo gross like yeesh im a zoomer and even i would never...
Never call you're ex again you will be like these people for the people who did this should be honestly ashamed to even come up with this idea just to embarrass themselves but yeah this is hilarious
We live in a society
Idk if its just me but when I break up w someone, I delete their number. ESP if the relationship ended badly
@@user-ho3uu4sn4p I mean people have different ways to handle situations on ex,s they been with
Imo, blocking the ex is the best thing to do. Especially if it was on good terms. You don't want that good feeling to creep up on you in your next relationship.
wait what? They chose to do it; some probably were confident they would get a good response.
I get where people are coming from when they say "If all your multiple exes have been crazy, then what's wrong with *you*?" but I've had multiple girlfriends who have all been pretty awful, and I think it doesn't always come down to your own toxic way of choosing 'crazy' people. I try to get to know people as friends before I date them but a lot of times people act really differently in relationships than they would as a friend. Just my thoughts.
8:58 bro how the fuck did you remember her with different hair and the military guy. Props to your memory man
How much are they getting paid to humiliate themselves on camera or do they just have no shame?
1:40
Not much
No shame, just desperate for fame
Hopefully not as much as the people on Moment if Truth.
yes
The F-off reaction I think is the most appropriate and common reaction lol
I’m 55 and my son is currently 21. He lives on his own and has a job but he won’t talk to me because when he was 20 he was dating a 26-year-old. They met when he was 18 and she was 24. I found out that they were dating so I took his phone, deleted her number, and forbade him from seeing her because of the age difference. I explained to him that he was a child and that true adulthood starts at 21. 18-20 are children but 21+ are adults. So 21 dating 27 isn’t bad. I tried to move out but I forced him to stay in my home. He asked if we could talk about it but I wasn’t having it I’m not allowing my son to be a victim of pedophilia. When he was 20 he moved out and I have been texting him and calling him but he won’t respond and he hasn’t dated anyone since. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want my son to date her. He needs to date girls his own age. What should I do? Also, I never said that he couldn’t date older women. Like I never really explained to him that he was still a child at 18 and that the age of adulthood doesn't mean shit I also didn’t allow him to date in High School but I said he could date when he goes to college and I think he met her there. She was his first girlfriend, first kiss, etc but like I said he was still a little child and she was an adult. 21 is when adulthood starts at 21 he can date someone who is 27(well not her because she was 24 and he was 18 so she was a pedophile), 31, etc. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want to set my son up with her because I want him to date people near his age. The oldest an 18 year old should date is 22. What should I do? And all these people telling me to mind my own business have no kids. I have all the right. People don’t want their daughters dating a man that much older.
@@llawliet6262 Sis, you can't micromanage your sons life. Children are individuals. Plus, at 18 in the United States (Assuming thats where you are), he's a legal adult, which means you have really no say in what he does in his life. You tried to dictate to him your rules in your house and he did exactly what an adult would do when he disagrees with your dictations, he moved out.
As for the young lady that you want your son to date, its like this. Either he has to want to date the woman himself on his own volition or you are S.O.L. on that one. I get you love your baby and I said that because its obvious you still believe he's your baby, but he's 21 now, you can't do anything except stand by and stand back. Because truthfully, your son's a legal fully grown adult who makes his own decisions and you have no say in any of them anymore. Its hard to do after you've had that power for the 17 years prior but from 18 on, its on him.
@@llawliet6262 you just going to keep posting this?
@@llawliet6262 Take the L and leave the Lawliet.
I don’t get this, all my exes numbers were deleted straight away, pictures, texts the whole shabang, got to keep it moving 👍🏼
Facts ....like that one girl said, when I break up with somebody, you and everybody connected to you are now no longer in existence.
Right. Idk my exes numbers either. They are immediately deleted and blocked.
For younger generations dont ever delete the text save them could come in handy in court
@@Crosscutx This!!! I broke up with one and she kept sending me threats so I saved the convos, blocked her and deleted her number. If anything happens, I'm good!
@@Crosscutx What kinda scenario would you have to get yourself in to need them? 😂
"I'm not doing that sh- call somebody else"😂😂😂 ........that dude's a hero
“ILY” I busted out screaming laughing 🤣🤣🤣
*“Nancy from Maryland?!?”* Yeah shawty fasho fasho had a 10 day contract instead of that 5-year max extension. Dude barely remembered her she was gettin traded mid-game🤣💀💀.
He prob had some side girls or a whole rotation. She was playing checkers while this man played 3d chess.🤣
@@andergarcia4953 Mans was living his best life
That was definitely one those 2 and a half week Tinder relationships, dude either has other options or the relationship was truly just boring and unremarkable, it happens sometimes.
💀
Bruh you did not just say fasho fasho
What are you 12 lmaooo
When Preach starts swearing in French, you know shit got serious.
As a French I love the words used. Way more poetic than when we swear in France.
Wait, how do French people swear?
I only caught the Tabarnak lol
What does tempana mean
C'est du Creole, et je comprends rien
@@forceandbravoure C'est du quebecois
@@Snoop_Dugg Putain merde etc
I swear I hate how much I love this channel. Great content, wonderful interaction and the ability to truly be yourself no matter the topic just shows how great you guys really are.
I’m 55 and my son is currently 21. He lives on his own and has a job but he won’t talk to me because when he was 20 he was dating a 26-year-old. They met when he was 18 and she was 24. I found out that they were dating so I took his phone, deleted her number, and forbade him from seeing her because of the age difference. I explained to him that he was a child and that true adulthood starts at 21. 18-20 are children but 21+ are adults. So 21 dating 27 isn’t bad. I tried to move out but I forced him to stay in my home. He asked if we could talk about it but I wasn’t having it I’m not allowing my son to be a victim of pedophilia. When he was 20 he moved out and I have been texting him and calling him but he won’t respond and he hasn’t dated anyone since. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want my son to date her. He needs to date girls his own age. What should I do? Also, I never said that he couldn’t date older women. Like I never really explained to him that he was still a child at 18 and that the age of adulthood doesn't mean shit I also didn’t allow him to date in High School but I said he could date when he goes to college and I think he met her there. She was his first girlfriend, first kiss, etc but like I said he was still a little child and she was an adult. 21 is when adulthood starts at 21 he can date someone who is 27(well not her because she was 24 and he was 18 so she was a pedophile), 31, etc. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want to set my son up with her because I want him to date people near his age. The oldest an 18 year old should date is 22. What should I do? And all these people telling me to mind my own business have no kids. I have all the right. People don’t want their daughters dating a man that much older.
Why you gotta hate how much you love it though?
Cause I GENUINELY enjoy this channel to the capital T
@Rectum Abdominus dude's other comments all mention them being different ages lmao
@@randomfemale4322 he has been commenting in the last hour. Sometimes he’s 55 and some other times he is 20.
@@llawliet6262 stop consoling him. Make him learn to do dangerous things carefully so hell be adept in future struggles
06:36 Preach's face and the quick glance he gave Aba.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Do you find it weird if someone is constantly complaining about _all_ their exes?”
Reminds me of that saying: if all the people you meet appear to be assholes, you’re the asshole
“Wtf you asking me” HAD ME ON THE GROUND 😂
😂😂😂😂😂Me too
Bruuuh took me clean out😂😂
It's interesting how many of these exes immediately said that they themselves were the problem, I mean most people I know if their ex rang and asked why the relationship ended they would probably say "because you were a relentless dickhead now leave me the fuck alone" and hang up
I guess it's more profitable to have the "good side" on your videos instead of the "bad side"
Maybe they called the right ones🤔
They called the ones who admitted to being a problem and kept apologizing even after the relationship ended and they still talk. They'd never call the ones they wronged or didn't get closure.
@@limofootball yeah that's the theory I'm goin with as well
U know alot of interesting people
I have a friend that always says how horrible their exes are, but so far the only common denominator I've seen is her. 🤷♀️ Sure sometimes coincidences happen, but after personally interacting with her in depth and a couple of her exes, pretty sure it wasn't all just the "guys being assholes". And if it was I have an idea of why they acted as such.
I was friends with a girl and a guy that ended up in a relationship.
I was like ,,oh god that will never work out" but they ended up being together for half a year.
Anyways in the end she complained how he was very jealous and that this would make her feel uncomfortable and controlled. The same thing she said about her other exboyfriend.
But at this point I knew her, and I knew she wasn't an angel neither. She once was totally jealous and got fricking annoying when he was teaching me how to solve a physic problem and the other time she openly flirted with another guy (IN FRONT OF HER BF) saying ,,if I wasn't with him, I would immediately go with you". Nah If you only talk shi* about you bfs and men , I'm not gonna trust you
You sound like a shit friend.
I’m 55 and my son is currently 21. He lives on his own and has a job but he won’t talk to me because when he was 20 he was dating a 26-year-old. They met when he was 18 and she was 24. I found out that they were dating so I took his phone, deleted her number, and forbade him from seeing her because of the age difference. I explained to him that he was a child and that true adulthood starts at 21. 18-20 are children but 21+ are adults. So 21 dating 27 isn’t bad. I tried to move out but I forced him to stay in my home. He asked if we could talk about it but I wasn’t having it I’m not allowing my son to be a victim of pedophilia. When he was 20 he moved out and I have been texting him and calling him but he won’t respond and he hasn’t dated anyone since. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want my son to date her. He needs to date girls his own age. What should I do? Also, I never said that he couldn’t date older women. Like I never really explained to him that he was still a child at 18 and that the age of adulthood doesn't mean shit I also didn’t allow him to date in High School but I said he could date when he goes to college and I think he met her there. She was his first girlfriend, first kiss, etc but like I said he was still a little child and she was an adult. 21 is when adulthood starts at 21 he can date someone who is 27(well not her because she was 24 and he was 18 so she was a pedophile), 31, etc. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want to set my son up with her because I want him to date people near his age. The oldest an 18 year old should date is 22. What should I do? And all these people telling me to mind my own business have no kids. I have all the right. People don’t want their daughters dating a man that much older.
If someone has a bunch of exes that they do nothing but talk shit about...it is 100% that person.
Sounds like you and that person aren't meant to be friends.
When people ask me why I was ashamed to come out as gay in the 90s and early 2000s, I point to guys like 6:30. For crying out loud ... ugh.
That line "all of your exes are big problems like damn what is wrong with your patterns in your choosing" hit really deep for me, it took me many years and some frustrated, dissapointing relationships to realize that my exes weren't the only problem...
Me and my emotional dependence allowing me to accept anything was the worse part of it, then I realized that I needed to heal myself in order to not let anything like that ever happen to me again, to be clarified about what kind of people I was allowing to get into my life, and what should not.
Are people really that desperate for attention? My god.
Embarrass yourself by calling your ex infront of a bunch of people you don't know and ask them pointless questions. Comedy gold right there.
You know they get paid right? If you give me 500 bucks to call and ex that hilariously easy.
I don't know their ages, but in most look college age. I'm sure you've done more embarrassing things than call your ex for free.
@@hinoakuma6386 exactly
Do it for the vine. Do it for the vine. Lol
Man, preach stared daggers at Aba about the “ily” thing…”why the fuck you asking me?” 😂 You guys are the RUclips champs!
Aba always trying to set up Peach.... Aba was trying to catch him slipping.
@@sulite79 they set each other up so well all the time. Anytime a video drops i watch because i know im going to hear rational people spit truth while being funny and genuine as hell.
What does ILY mean? I'm from Germany
@@Joel-jb6yo acronym for I love you
😆😆
Lol "Nancy from Maryland" -- he didn't know her last name?! 😂😂
Naw man is cultured. Smashed, dashed and forgot about her. Don't be surprised most dudes don't care about you at all.
All my exes were absolutely toxic & terrible narcissistic abusers. Nothing I could've done would have made them treat me better bc they also abused their other exes. I definitely can take accountability for that, something is clearly wrong with my vetting process. Now the next step is figuring out why I keep choosing these people/how to get a better selection.
Get a therapist, first. Might help with discerning your blind spots.
Mine helped me tremendously.
I won't lie, holding my hand up - all my ex's are "complete no no!", but then, that makes me wonder: As I'm the common denominator, what's up with me that I attract certain traits, no matter how different the individual backgrounds are? So yeah, taking time to just be me, heal, learn from mistakes, and hopefully grow. Till then, staying well away from relationships.
I have the numbers of three of my exes :
Don't answer 1
Don't answer 2
Don't fucking answer 3.
Ain't nobody got time for that !
😂
How tf did you comment this a day ago? The vid just came out
@@Puffster_Legend Early access for patreons.
@@Puffster_Legend maybe some people get videos early
So you picked 3 bad men back to back to back, huh? Damn.
Preaches reactions are gold lmaoo
@ damn bro ur in every single comment
@@neversurge1962 not truee
@@neversurge1962 is a robot
That ILY made me feel sharp pain all over my body
I am genuinely cool with all of my Ex's. They're all precious and that doesn't change just because we didn't work out as a couple. What I am surprised by though, is how uncomfortable this seem's to make a lot of people. Like, people be questioning my benevolence towards them and tryna convince me that there's something wrong with that... Honestly, if you go from "I want to share my life/bed with you" to "rot in hell" by the mere fact of a breakup, I advise you to pick your partner more carefully in the first place.
Same here. It makes people SUPER uncomfortable.
I think it’s a lot of people projecting awful break ups on others
My only question for you would be: are all of your exes genuinely cool with you? What I’ve learned is that everyone has a different approach to break-ups for their own state of mind. My ex texts me all of the time but I really need space, so it makes me uncomfortable. She’s still cool and everything but I just need a lot of time away before I can comfortably interact with her again. And we had a good relationship, there were no manor issues. I don’t think there’s really a right or wrong way to treat exes, but if two exes aren’t on the same page, that can make one or both of them uncomfortable
@@bean_boy5264 Love that question! Here's my take: I cannot do the mindreading for them. If my reaching out makes them uncomfortable, I rely on them to communicate that.
@@atide_and1175 Perfect answer! My conflict lately is that I’ve explicitly told my ex I need space without communication, but she doesn’t seem to understand or is maybe talking anyways as a means of coping (I sympathize, but still, I need that space!)
It just means you’re a doormat.
Preach has to be one of the most hilarious people on RUclips. :) When he got disgusted by "Ily" i was in freaking tears laughing
Kinda want to see if aba will call his ex, the one where hid in the bush. Lol
I'm not sure someone who ditched you before the first date counts as an ex.
@@perlundgren7797 You are correct
lets fucking goo!!!!!!!!! @aba -MAKE THIS HAPPEN!
😂
@@perlundgren7797 true but the bush tho
As a man who has been suffering for a girl ex for YEARS this video was vindicating. Thanks
I’m 55 and my son is currently 21. He lives on his own and has a job but he won’t talk to me because when he was 20 he was dating a 26-year-old. They met when he was 18 and she was 24. I found out that they were dating so I took his phone, deleted her number, and forbade him from seeing her because of the age difference. I explained to him that he was a child and that true adulthood starts at 21. 18-20 are children but 21+ are adults. So 21 dating 27 isn’t bad. I tried to move out but I forced him to stay in my home. He asked if we could talk about it but I wasn’t having it I’m not allowing my son to be a victim of pedophilia. When he was 20 he moved out and I have been texting him and calling him but he won’t respond and he hasn’t dated anyone since. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want my son to date her. He needs to date girls his own age. What should I do? Also, I never said that he couldn’t date older women. Like I never really explained to him that he was still a child at 18 and that the age of adulthood doesn't mean shit I also didn’t allow him to date in High School but I said he could date when he goes to college and I think he met her there. She was his first girlfriend, first kiss, etc but like I said he was still a little child and she was an adult. 21 is when adulthood starts at 21 he can date someone who is 27(well not her because she was 24 and he was 18 so she was a pedophile), 31, etc. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want to set my son up with her because I want him to date people near his age. The oldest an 18 year old should date is 22. What should I do? And all these people telling me to mind my own business have no kids. I have all the right. People don’t want their daughters dating a man that much older.
@@llawliet6262 He was 20 and she 26? Sorry but I really don’t see the problem and I understand your son
@@SandraLopez-ll2ob You clearly don't have kids. I have all the rights even if they do live by themselves.
@@llawliet6262 You have no right. He is a young man. You allow your feelings to get in the way of your sons life and that is disgusting. You didn't just disagree but you completely barged your way into his personal decisions. I hope he doesn't speak to you again
@@llawliet6262 Lol, I understand where you're coming from, but if you keep this up your children are gonna spit on your grave, man.
One of if not the realest 💯 non fake channel on this platform. I appreciate 🙏🏾 and love the truth you guys put out. Thanks for the advice, guidance and entertainment I really appreciate. The funny thing is i got your channel from my ex, gotta thank her for that 😂 😅 🤣.
Have you seen Aba's beard it's fake as hell..
@@dirtydead4144 what 😂
@@brainderp808 blyat?
That first sentence was redundant as hell.
@@dirtydead4144 loooool
2:56 "I was going to marry him, but he was a serial cheater." Yeah that's logical. If he's a serial cheater, you had to of known that for a while. But you was going to marry him?? She also said she wanted to hit him up so she can know, but she clearly knew because she said he was a serial cheater. And he said it as if he already told her. So what's even the point?
It’s contextual. It’s very easy to judge as a third party but there’s different factors that would make someone stay with a cheater, even if they don’t like it. You don’t know if their finances were tied up, if they had kids together, if they worked together, if they’re from a culture where breaking up is inappropriate, if they were going to work on it together with a therapist, etc. You just don’t know. Very bizarre comment.
Edit: also, her saying “serial cheater” doesn’t imply that she knew he was cheating while they were still together. It just means he was having sex with many women during their relationship, either with or without her knowledge. Use your common sense.
@@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358 No, just stop. Liking your own comment is funny.
I've always found people who delete or block everything about every ex they have super toxic. Usually those people are the problem.
My little sister has went around telling everyone for the past few years that every person she’s dated, has r@ped and beaten her. She ALWAYS brings that shit up at random times and has to throw shade at them. Shit sounds sus because she’s physically aggressive as fuck and has no problem threatening violence. Pretty sure she’s lying, because she invited two of them to her last party, and wanted everyone to stay the night. Also pretty sure she’s the one that was doing the beating. 😒🤨
Everyone else is the bad person. She’s just projecting what she does onto them.
She's OBVIOUSLY the bad one. It's not uncommon for women to do stuff like that
That sounds like a personality disorder. Suggest to her to seek help.
@@caitthecat already have. She lies about that shit too.
Was gonna say......MAYBE she has no coping mechanism and being violent and physically aggressive is just how she reacts to things, and she's just not healthy...but I REALLY can't wrap my head around inviting them to any kind of party. EVER. Unless it were a public beatdown disguised as a party, with them dangling in place of the piñatas. DEFINITELY strange behavior...watch that you DON'T get in her way or piss her off.
I assume there was some kind of after the fact legal disclosure form and whatnot to CYA, but this feels...disgusting. What headspace puts you in the frame of mind that you should cold call an ex for a monetized interview with what is effectively a third party publisher? It's almost poetic to me that any person willing to make such a unilateral decision to publicize the failure of an intimate relationship can ask "why didn't it work between us" without a hint of irony.
All but one exes were "it' was my fault". I have the feeling we have just seen a parade of master gaslighters, except perhaps the girl that was cheated on.
@@StefemPers Certainly plausible I guess. Not sure if that'd make it better or worse.
If it would affect them so much they don’t have to do the video. These people couldn’t have meant that much to them.
@Kitty Silverlake not in a single party contest state.
@Kitty Silverlake i feel like they told them beforehand that it was a social experiment
It’s interesting how every single person who called their ex, it was the ex’s fault they broke up. I was hoping for an ex to blame the person calling
Bc they didn’t want to look bad on camera
Well if I am calling an ex,I am not calling the one I screwed over for something like this
Did you watch the full video? At 9:00 kinda seems clear she was the problem.
@@ms.c6821 True for some people, but some others screw up and make it out to be the other persons fault anyway.
@@hinoakuma6386it’s quited f’ed up that he laughed about how people treated him after the break up
The Preach reaction to ily is priceless, Aba ain't fufilled if Preach doesn't get mad in a video, and this one was so good!
7:56 it's Nice to see some.of these people admit they were wrong and that they would like to go back with their ex. Pretty brave
BRO, THAT "I LOVE YOU" AND BLOCKING AGAIN, AND THEN THE "ARE Y'ALL GETTING BACK TOGETHER?" "NOOOOOOO"
OMG, THAT HAD ME DYING. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m 55 and my son is currently 21. He lives on his own and has a job but he won’t talk to me because when he was 20 he was dating a 26-year-old. They met when he was 18 and she was 24. I found out that they were dating so I took his phone, deleted her number, and forbade him from seeing her because of the age difference. I explained to him that he was a child and that true adulthood starts at 21. 18-20 are children but 21+ are adults. So 21 dating 27 isn’t bad. I tried to move out but I forced him to stay in my home. He asked if we could talk about it but I wasn’t having it I’m not allowing my son to be a victim of pedophilia. When he was 20 he moved out and I have been texting him and calling him but he won’t respond and he hasn’t dated anyone since. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want my son to date her. He needs to date girls his own age. What should I do? Also, I never said that he couldn’t date older women. Like I never really explained to him that he was still a child at 18 and that the age of adulthood doesn't mean shit I also didn’t allow him to date in High School but I said he could date when he goes to college and I think he met her there. She was his first girlfriend, first kiss, etc but like I said he was still a little child and she was an adult. 21 is when adulthood starts at 21 he can date someone who is 27(well not her because she was 24 and he was 18 so she was a pedophile), 31, etc. My friend's daughter is 18 and I want to set my son up with her because I want him to date people near his age. The oldest an 18 year old should date is 22. What should I do? And all these people telling me to mind my own business have no kids. I have all the right. People don’t want their daughters dating a man that much older.
@@llawliet6262 he’s 18 a that point he can’t do what he want to do u already done your job all you can do is support
No mate Im a father and the fact is once they are adults they make their OWN decisions. Especially the ones you dont agree with. You can give an opinion but once they are set ... you STFU and be there 'IF' things dont work out. And be there IF things DO work out
FYI I met my wife when I was 21 ....she was 28 myparents supported us ... hers had opinions .... 21 years later were married ..2 kids eldest is 19. Wehave a close relationship with my family.... hers ? ( by my wifes wishes) has almost been totally cut off.
My daughter recently came out as Lesbiain my wife has 'opinions' and Im warning her not to make her mothers mistakes. So far she is comming around as fundamentally uts MY DAUGHTERS LIFE not ours.
Your job is done my friend not its times to let go and realise you raised an ADULT not a child.
Also your ages are wrong ....16 is a childbut 18 IS an adult. 21 is just a number.
If he's old enough to die for his country .. he's old enough to date who he wants.
@@llawliet6262 honestly as someone that is 20, you did the right thing. that's a 6 year age gap...when you are that young you are at totally different life stages and maturity levels. it creates a whole power imbalance. it's honestly fucking weird to be nearly thirty and wanna go after someone that young, especially when you met when they were barely legal...
you kid wont talk to you because he is immature. the adult i find to be most concerning. however, i recommend you not exacerbate the issue by trying to set him up with some random girl of your choosing. you will probably just make him feel even more smothered and controlled. you also probably should have at least heard him out back he WAS willing to talk to you, even if you didnt agree. he probably felt unheard or that you didnt care about his feelings/opinions. you can probably start by apologizing for not listening to how he felt when he wanted to talk earlier, and it may at least get some kind of response.
((also pedo is in regards to weirdos who go after kids who havent reached puberty. im pretty sure hebephile might be the term for weirdos who go after post-puberty kids/teens as in the case of your son. but you might have to double check bc i havent read about those disorders in a long time.))
Why didn’t we work our?
Everyone: because I liked or was inside everyone else but you.
Girl in the trucker hats ex: no, I’m not doing this. *hangs up * LMAO
Girl was probably toxic
@@abelardopascual6564 show me one that isn't
@@abelardopascual6564 She 100% is toxic. This is demonstrably true, because she featured in a video where a third party will monetize the dissection of your past relationship just because... reasons.
F*ck that bitch.
Hey you never, she could be a trucker and still have good nails lol. My mom has her nails manicured and painted reflector yellow and she works as a flagger on the highways lol. 🤣🤣🤣
Nah we all know you can’t drive and be feminine at the same time
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This is false. It's unsettling, arousing, and uncommon.
But theres a difference, your mom uses them as a tool for her job. Them reflector nails be hittin different
Well flaging isn't exactly hard labor that's rough on your hands lol
So true
When my dad was a trucker you saw 2 types of female truckers..well 3...
Butch looking/manly. Feminine with make up and nails. And hookers 😂
IDK calling your ex and asking if they want to get back together then hanging up and being like nah not doing that is just cruel especially if they are still holding feelings for you.
11:50 "no she runs in my family"🤣
I remember somehow ending up with two girls at a bar, took a piss, had the realisation of what the fuck am i doing and went home. Knowing i could have feels way better than failing miserably.
Well you don't know until you try and succeed or try and fail lol
……what?
@@noquartergiven1332 lol ofc, but id rather take the money and go home ;)
Also they were there on a date. i was very drunk when we first started talking. My friends had left long ago and i started to sober up.
Oh, and im not talking about a three some. that wasnt my goal.
@@adrianflo6481 ok fair enough lol
@@adrianflo6481 I am very confused. So you weren't trying to smash in the first place? Then what did you fail at? Were you trying to make them your girlfriend? What was your goal?
1:10 that man needs a pat on his back lovley response💀
I just turned 30 this January and out of the entirety of my 20’s I’ve only had 1 ex and we broke up because she cheated on me. I’ve gone on a few dates and whenever the subject of exes comes up, if the other person doesn’t have a concrete reason for the break up and just keeps it vague, I turn the other way. Because in all likelihood, that person was probably the problem and I don’t need anymore problems in my life
That vague shit is for real. Dodge that shit. Stay strong.
Or maybe they just don’t have to tell you about that. Could open up a can of worms and maybe they just aren’t comfortable yet with you.
@@niamh1121 I don’t mean if they have 1 or 2 crazy exes. I’m talking about every ex is the crazy ex
1:35 I've seen too many verified videos on an "offbrand" site to know where this is going.
This is hilarious. My Ex asked me back and I said, “Yes!” We drifted apart because of long distance. This was before social media and FaceTime. I am so happy that we back together. We are made for each other. I love him so much and he love me.
For how long have you been together then?
I never want to talk to or see my ex-wife ever again. I wish her the best, but near the end of our marriage, she became very toxic and abusive. That is something I will never put myself through.
Why is your name Vietnam
@@razorblade2332 can you not read?
@@razorblade2332 It's Vitamin, like Vitamin C. It's just my Gamertag that I use when playing any games.
LMAO
Also sorry to hear that man, I also hope you never have to see that woman again 😑
People be experimenting with relationships nowadays
I mean yeah you kinda have to.
Oh my god that dude at the start is definitely what I would do if some ex called me asking that question 😂 We done, leave me alone, you ain't comin back.
Unless things ended on a really good note, yeah. Dredging up the past is almost always a bad move after you've dealt with/learned from it
For sure if someone complains that all their exes were awful either they're the awful one or they are caught up in a toxic cycle where they pick people who are bad for them. Either way it's a big red flag to me to run far far away.
there have only been 2 different kinds of relationships for me, either they stop seeing me for a bunch of different reasons of none are my fault or they cheat on me and i walk away from them.
so, so far i have either been a convenient person that was just nearby or they thought i was something i wasn't.
People who do these things are whack to me… 1.) I’m 24 and I only have one ex. That ended 4 years ago and I’m still not ready for another relationship. How do all these people have so many exes? Unless maybe they’re considering just flings or something? 2.) I would never call an ex, never. Never never never.
Lastly, this is so cringe.
im 23 and yeah idk either but their threshold for what they consider a relationship is probably lower. it seems weird but sometimes people just meet once or twice and then they are boyfriend and girlfriend lol
Different strokes for different blokes on the relationship front
damn if it takes 4 years to get over an ex, then you got some problems.
If u hold on to yr hurt, thats what happens.
2:39 Man, I feel attacked!😐
I think it really depends on the person. Often yea if all your exes had issues or were bad then maybe you were the issue. But sometimes someone really is a good person with horrible taste in a partner.
“It’s Nancy”
“Who??”
“Nancy, and I’m calling to see if you’d be interested in saving 15% on your car insurance.”
* quick save * 😆
Had the situation where ex-girlfriend/roommate screwed my life up to the point where I had to actually leave my own home because I could not pay the taxes on the house the day they were due because I was dealing with her in domestic violence Court getting a 12 month, no contact restraining order against her because I had had enough of her verbal and financial abuse blowing through her own account, and then borrowing my card and spending money I was trying to save , and we end up arguing, whenever I asked for my card back., fast forward almost 2 years later she is texting me asking me to help her set up an account. I told her no and wished her the best. Also the reason I changed my phone number. .... You haven't talked to me in over 2 years and then all the sudden you want my help like nothing that happened at the end between us, even mattered With very few exceptions dealing with your ex is like entering a toxic environment without the use of a hazmat suit
Aba never fail to surprise me . Man how the hell did he know all of that about the single mom
Right lol? Btw do you happen to know which video he is referencing?
@@junkmail1111 The "You're white so your opinion is invalid" video
@@jordanhickman5802 thanks!
I wouldn't judge who's a trucker, saw a great looking lady dressed for the club jump up in a semi and drive off.
Lol
@@randallreed7470 no you are
@ truckers actually face a few health problems from sitting all the time
Some hot chick stole a semi? That’s dope.
After working in warehouses for years, I just can't see a trucker having long nails- unless she's got a few weeks off, that's just a waste of money.
These Cut producers definitely possess black air energy to the utmost degree. My ex lives in the Philippines and we broke off cause of my parents really thinking she was gonna move here cause of green card. But her and I are on relatively good terms.
A lot of em do. A lot of them don't. What you ought to do is go spend a year in the Philippines with her. Chill out on some beaches, experience the culture. If she is educated and has a good job there, then there's no reason to take a wild animal out of it's natural habitat.
I'm currently in the Philippines with my girlfriend and her family. You're not wrong on that end. I do enjoy that she's from Tarlac where you see very few westerners. It's also so cheap to live out here month to month in relative comfort.
@@nicholascortese9446 but then he's the wild animal. one of them would have had to move sooner or later if it's about long term. :)
@@njux1871 Nope, men leave their families in search of fame and fortune to explore and conquer the wild frontier. We carve out order from chaos.
...the rejection on display...great gods, it's exquisite.
I was that person. There was something wrong with all my exes. Then I understood I was choosing those guys because I was afraid to stay in a relationship for the long run. Now I am mid-happy alone, figuring out what needs to be figured out, so I can finally put myself out there for a healthy, lifelong relationship.
90% of my ex's want me back to this day...... I don't call them because, I'd rather continue living with this mindset. HAHAHA "ILY"
Cap
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Markel Raya it's a joke, relax
It’s a joke dumbasses that’s why he’s saying he doesn’t call them 😂😂
90 percent? How many exes do you have
i think it’s a red flag if they’re constantly complaining, but i don’t think it’s a red flag if they’ve just had bad luck with their dating life. the dating market is a mess on both sides
dude, I've had the worst experiences with women, but tbh, I think i definitely share the blame for the decisions I've made........, think I've picked a few bad ones in the past, also wasn't always doing the right thing on my end either, alot of that was learned helplessness though, i kind of gave up after a while.
My exes are exes for a reason - if I got a call, I won’t even pick up 🤷🏽♂️
It’s awkward af to even get a phone call like that let alone have it broadcasted for public view and their clout
Past relationships provide experience and aid one to grow and develop. I've had some good ex's and some bad. None of them were inherently bad nor good people because actions align to those axis not people.
Either way I'm grateful to my ex's, the experience they gave me in all aspects of a relationship made me who I am today. I'd never date them again, don't get me wrong, but they were a part of my life at one point and I don't desire to dismiss those points in my life.
8:50 nah what's this secret lore aba has, mans high-key a stalker 😂
I don’t agree with alot of things but y’all always make me laugh. Preach’s reaction are funny as hell 😭😭
I some what don't agree with their political views but they never fail to make my day better but at the same time no one gives a fuck I root for FNF and Aba n Preach both great content creators
@@imkillzone nobody:
F&f fans: I'm an f&f fan
Like who asked, bro lol
Lol I’ll bite: so what don’t you agree with? I’m genuinely curious
@@dfwherbie8814 *insert the caddyshack "well ,we're waiting" gif*
@@Theresa97 lol fr
Yep, dated a girl with 3 exes telling me that they all were no good. I Ended up break up due to not allowing her to cross my boundaries. She said I’m worse than her baby daddy, due to me having boundaries. I have to disagree since her baby daddy has made 0 attempt to see her kid.
He's probably paying that child support on time even without seeing the kid, which is the most backwards thinking ever if you're somehow worse for not putting up with her BS.
As a south asian, if I ever get instantly married, no relationships, I’ll try my best to be supportive and also that accent was mad funny.
Yeah 😂 I'm half south asian (indian) too and his accent switching from indian to American was really funny 🤣 especially that weird way he started his sentences like "Iiiiiiiii........" the I was always indian but after that was quite American
@@ashlynboone_ Does it better than me. Never got the hang of the accent maybe cause I was born in america
"On est passé de LoL à ILY. Le monde s'en va à sa perte."
Translation : "We went from LOL to ILY. The World is going shit."
9:42 Fatman Scoop "WE'RE FUCKIN TONIGHT!!, WE'RE FUCKIN TONIGHT!!, WE'RE FUCKIN TONIGHT!! OH!! OH!!"
8:10 gangsta....
I only have one question. Why do they still have their ex's numbers? If we break up I ain't keeping your details in my phone, except maybe the block list. Ex for a reason.
"Is that a thing"
Preach in the most masculine voice he can get: "WHY THE FUCK SHOULD YOU BE ASKING ME?"
Preach’s French ranting is smooth af lmaoooo
4:35 and that is what we call having self respect.