The Casey Crew Podcast Episode 221: "Men Wanna Be Bad B*****s..."

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  • Опубликовано: 21 авг 2024
  • This episode delves into the exploration of traditional gender roles within relationships and marriage, shedding light on the shifting dynamics and expectations of both men and women. It examines the concept of courtship, the act of gift-giving, and the changing attitudes of the younger generation towards these conventional roles. The conversation revolves around two key themes: navigating a toxic relationship and fostering a healthy marriage.
    The email of the week is about a woman in a toxic relationship who is trying to navigate the challenges of being involved with a man who is already in a separate and committed relationship. Gia challenges her to explore her own self worth as she suffers the emotional turmoil caused by her own bad decisions.
    The conversation continues with the healthy marriage theme as Gia and Envy focus on the delicate balance of being a spouse, maintaining intimacy, and expressing gratitude within the context of a long-term relationship. Let’s talk about it…🗣️🗣️
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Комментарии • 66

  • @MzBRii913
    @MzBRii913 2 месяца назад +48

    Thank you, Gia! We do not want to go 50/50, but this new generation of men don't know how to lead, keep jobs, and don't want to fulfill their roles so we are forced to do it....

    • @mizzyfit_334
      @mizzyfit_334 2 месяца назад

      And the women don’t know how to be women

  • @k.williams9978
    @k.williams9978 2 месяца назад +34

    TALK THAT TALK QUEEN GIA!!!! Sooooooooo happy with your raw yet gentle and very! NEEDED! response to email of the week 👑
    Rule #1 … NEVER be #2 for absolutely NOBODY💅🏾

  • @vlogsbysha
    @vlogsbysha 2 месяца назад +23

    The audacity of the side chick email. Thanks Gia for telling her the real. I have 0 tolerance for side chicks who knows they are a side chick. It’s truly disgusting

  • @Faithfamilyandfunreviews
    @Faithfamilyandfunreviews 2 месяца назад +22

    Wow!!! Gia didn't hold back at all in response to that first email. A lot of women needed to hear that for real. Great conversation!

  • @alricasheppard2636
    @alricasheppard2636 2 месяца назад +5

    Gia , I swear , you’re the only person on this here internet I will listen to and actually believe in this advice

  • @leoniedennis
    @leoniedennis 2 месяца назад +13

    Men have to learn how to lead in order for a women to feel confident in that man to trust he is able to lead

  • @wendycooper3009
    @wendycooper3009 Месяц назад +1

    Envy!!! THANK YOU for "raising" your son in that moment when he let his girlfriend out of the garage!! Our homes today are missing real fathers to show their children the way! Your kids are blessed to have you!

  • @monicaestelladuran4230
    @monicaestelladuran4230 2 месяца назад +3

    👑Daaaaammm Gia handled the email response to the side chick incredibly 👌 with so much class & respect! 🫶 Much respect to Gia for the polite wisdom, and not a harsh delivery 🦋

  • @wendycooper3009
    @wendycooper3009 Месяц назад

    Gia, You are an excellent example of an equal giving wife and partner! This new generation of living makes me feel like I don't fit, but listening to this podcast reminds me that I'm good just the way I am!

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk 2 месяца назад +1

    34:19 yesssss!!! I snapped out of my “rose colored glasses” thanks to therapy. It opens up SO much and gives you strength ❤

  • @MsRemyV
    @MsRemyV 2 месяца назад +3

    🗣️🗣️🗣️ Word up homegirl, gotta break her own heart to clear her vision.” Path.

  • @Pop-wl8yg
    @Pop-wl8yg 2 месяца назад +4

    WHAT A JUICY EMAIL. I haven’t even listened to Gia’s response yet but I know it’s gonna be good.
    That’s FOUL.
    EDIT: just listened to her response. Ate her ahh up for what she did and gave her some advice at the same time 😂

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk 2 месяца назад +1

    😂😂😂 Gia’s face 14:05 she was SHOCKED

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk 2 месяца назад +1

    30:13 SPOT ON GIA!!! I’m glad you have so much class, I was shouting at the letter from the beginning because NO sis. Leave that man alone. He keeps coming back because you’re AVAILABLE! NOT because you’re special!! I want us to leave the rose colored glasses off and see stuff for what it is!

  • @nataliaurrutia5408
    @nataliaurrutia5408 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you guys once again for bringing the raw conversations and woman’s perspective and understanding:) love you guys so much it makes me smile everytime I see a new upload !! God bless you and your beautiful family

  • @christinathompson1982
    @christinathompson1982 2 месяца назад

    That 50/50 conversation is exhausting! I’m not paying 1/2 and doing everything else ! I totally agree with Gia! Me and my girls have had conversations about this 🙅🏾‍♀️!!I am old school definitely! I’m cool with doing the traditional “women “ things around the house! I have no interest in doing the lawn or putting a battery in the car. But to each their own!🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @_tiffroyal_5945
    @_tiffroyal_5945 2 месяца назад

    I love that you guys are back!! I look forward to watching every week.

  • @kennie9304
    @kennie9304 Месяц назад

    Thanks Gia! Majority of women don’t want no 50/50 !

  • @marimarujaa7818
    @marimarujaa7818 2 месяца назад +3

    Great podcast as always ❤ all I can say these new generations are something else I want say somewhat sad in a way loss of personal connection

  • @EshaRenee
    @EshaRenee 2 месяца назад +2

    Another great episode!!! I look forward to the Casey Crew podcast, love you guys❤❤

  • @ineyshatyzhae
    @ineyshatyzhae Месяц назад

    i love that you guys chose this topic to speak on!

  • @Lovingmemore512
    @Lovingmemore512 2 месяца назад +5

    Great episode 😍😍

  • @chasitymims9949
    @chasitymims9949 2 месяца назад +3

    I love Gia but she will not let Envy finish a point smh lol 🤦🏽‍♀️😊

  • @4biz
    @4biz 2 месяца назад +4

    love the both of yall.

  • @carrollgirl547
    @carrollgirl547 2 месяца назад

    Loved your explanation of how you do it all. I always said you appear to have it all together. Thanks for the tips!!

  • @jamierichardson8435
    @jamierichardson8435 2 месяца назад

    Gia is goals!!🎉👏
    All things I’ve known but you just encouraged me to show my man better! Ty!
    And on another note, I love how real you were with girl who is hooking up w a guy in a relationship. You couldn’t have said it better! I hope she listens !

  • @brittneywade-oo3db
    @brittneywade-oo3db 2 месяца назад

    This was such a great podcast! The topics and answers. It was beautiful and loving to see Goa handle the side chick in the way manner that she did. She explained that there is something missing or lacking within. 🙏🏾 and the fact that hey checked their son about not watching the girl leave the home and make it to her car was what the youth needs. I as someone who started dating a senior in dental school, understand and completely agree with Gia. I knew his situation so I was okay with the coffee shop, I can pay for the movies and some occasional things as he had thousands to pay for board exams, license etc. he covered things and wanted to pay when I was treating so it's situational for sure. But that's also not his mindset! He's not a 50/50 man or concern with how much I make. He's very open about his salary, plans for further investments etc. it never includes my portion .

  • @sesmith2
    @sesmith2 2 месяца назад +2

    Damn Gia! I felt you in my soul with that email advice.

  • @taneshiageorge9372
    @taneshiageorge9372 2 месяца назад +2

    That the energy some of them be giving!!!!😂😮😢

  • @HBSugar1106
    @HBSugar1106 2 месяца назад

    Gia, thank you mama for your message on Email of the week. Lol I needed to hear this just as a reminder. Sometimes we need to hear that to remember our worth. I needed this advice last year for sure. I was almost in a situation like this too. Still struggling with it. It was an emotional connection never physical ever. I still struggle with a man I still have feelings for but has been in a long term relationship too. Its an unrequited love situation. Its not worth it. You need to remember God will bless your love life, you in general, and will prepare you for the right person too. What's meant for you is meant for you too.

  • @80iesbaby
    @80iesbaby 2 месяца назад +1

    35:25 😂That was me! You said it all Gia

  • @Iamlismoore
    @Iamlismoore 2 месяца назад +3

    If a man cannot pay for a meal for me then why would i even bother to have a relationship.......No 50 50

  • @denitasanders2261
    @denitasanders2261 2 месяца назад

    I just love your honesty and it’s gentle and genuine Gia you’re best ❤

  • @DiVoStar28
    @DiVoStar28 Месяц назад

    As a GAY MAN who is happily married to another Man. I feel that this conversation is abit different from my perspective. “Traditional” marriage for me & mine is, Him who is looked at as the “Masculine” one he does all the things that Envy does. Me as the “Feminine” one(still a STRONG BLACK MAN please don’t get it twisted) will do all the things Gia does. So I feel that, the LGBT marriages needs to be taken into consideration in this conversation also. “Traditional” marriages have expanded.

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk 2 месяца назад

    35:55 yup! He’s breadcrumbing her to keep her close emotionally but he doesn’t care about her.

  • @lawilson9047
    @lawilson9047 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m not paying half of anything. When dating, these are the conversations you should have to see if you’re fit for each other. I explained to my husband while dating, I’m spoiled. I like nice things and I like to travel internationally. Is that ok for you, and it was ok with him, because we have a lot of similarities. I was raised that a man takes care of his home. But, if it works in a relationship to go half Its what works for them.

  • @EshaRenee
    @EshaRenee 2 месяца назад

    Gia gives great advice, she would make a great therapist ❤

  • @qaashley
    @qaashley 2 месяца назад

    Loved this episode!!

  • @tesslyles
    @tesslyles 2 месяца назад +1

    PREACH GIA 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @joycewilson7045
    @joycewilson7045 2 месяца назад

    I'm here for it!!!!!

  • @monicaestelladuran4230
    @monicaestelladuran4230 2 месяца назад

    Always love hearing the intro song

  • @ah8064
    @ah8064 2 месяца назад

    Team Gia. ✨ Everything she said.

  • @DoughboyGod
    @DoughboyGod 2 месяца назад +3

    🖤🥷🥷🥷🥷🖤

  • @whiz3787
    @whiz3787 2 месяца назад

    My wife sent me this clip. We are separated attempting reconciliation. I wish I understood why she sent this 😂

  • @alricasheppard2636
    @alricasheppard2636 2 месяца назад

    I think it’s okay to be partners . Show up and do what works for them

  • @therealamias2697
    @therealamias2697 2 месяца назад

    50/50 shouldn’t apply as a literally split of everything. It means that we have each other’s back. And taking out trash, cooking,cleaning, helping with kids, etc. shouldn’t be gender roles. That’s simply being an adult.

  • @Blake-tm4yp
    @Blake-tm4yp 2 месяца назад

    If he can afford it lol . Good point. If he can't then he can't. The mentality if you want 50/50 then it got to be all the way . I agree. A lot of women said they expected to help with the bills and do all the cooking and cleaning. That wack..

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk 2 месяца назад

    33:27 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @rf28vcl
    @rf28vcl 2 месяца назад +1

    you know with always giving a gift you get the other person to always expecting something, what if one day you don't have? what if a day you don't have mommy and daddy to help you ? you got to always stay humble..!!!! giving thousands of dollars gift or helicopters rides is not being humble.

  • @sweetangel83rc
    @sweetangel83rc 2 месяца назад

    🖤🖤🖤

  • @alricasheppard2636
    @alricasheppard2636 2 месяца назад

    With that 50/50, everything is gonna be such. Girl, I stopped speaking to men because they had that mindset

  • @Iamlismoore
    @Iamlismoore 2 месяца назад +1

    No 50 50

  • @Blake-tm4yp
    @Blake-tm4yp 2 месяца назад

    When gia said she happy to pick his clothes up on the floor. I know I heard a couple women that say oh no we still Expect him to pay all the bills and help around the house. I seen this on social media. . One women brag she doesn't have to pay bills or cook . It like if her man is happy good for her 🤣🤷. Some women feel like if a guy ask for cooking and cleaning he want a maid. I seen this over and over . I like it depends what relationship you want. You both pay bills..you both take care of the house. That my version of 50/50. They are rich so their life different then most people. They do have help..

  • @alricasheppard2636
    @alricasheppard2636 2 месяца назад +2

    These ppl full of ish in this society

  • @sharonvelasquez4456
    @sharonvelasquez4456 2 месяца назад

    Going "Dutch" just doesn't work for me🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • @80iesbaby
    @80iesbaby 2 месяца назад +1

    38:54 had me ROLLING 😂😂😂😂 yes! Sexy every day 🙌🏽

  • @Blake-tm4yp
    @Blake-tm4yp 2 месяца назад

    Your son Logan I know who he is 😂

  • @timoffthewall1561
    @timoffthewall1561 2 месяца назад

    Plenty of people go 50/50 and have been married for decades. To say this isn’t a thing with the “regular” couples is disingenuous. I agree men need to be men, but women have changed the most. Men have tried to adapt and have fallen flat. You can’t pick and choose traditional and modern, that’s what’s messing up the game. I’ve never let a woman pay, but I’m all on traditional, that’s what I want and I’m not accepting anything less and hopefully the right woman won’t accept less either

  • @RealEstateHer
    @RealEstateHer Месяц назад

    9:40 FALSE

  • @Redman092000
    @Redman092000 Месяц назад

    Envy is a soya boy .

  • @nyshawn9226
    @nyshawn9226 2 месяца назад +2

    I literally would not be able to stomach this 50/50 conversation one more time had it not been for Gia. She says exactly what I’m thinking and I LOVE IT😆🫡🫡💕😊

  • @maryannanderson5964
    @maryannanderson5964 2 месяца назад +2

    Y'all so cute,if my marriage would have worked out this year would be 40 years OMG❤️‍🩹