That's why it's better to stay single, put dating on hold, and process those feelings. Nobody likes being compared to a person of the past. A new partner is not a psychologist, and it's not fair to involve them in unresolved business from the past. Not processing the breakup can actually hurt new people along the way. Trying to force readiness is not the answer. We're ready when we're ready.
@theguynextdoor4978, I appreciate your thoughtful perspective. You've highlighted a crucial point about the importance of self-reflection and healing before entering new relationships. It's absolutely true that bringing unresolved baggage into a new partnership is unfair to everyone involved. It takes time and effort to truly move on, and forcing it can indeed lead to further hurt. Your point about new partners not being psychologists is spot on! It's important to take personal responsibility for our own emotional well-being. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 🌸
That's why it's better to stay single, put dating on hold, and process those feelings. Nobody likes being compared to a person of the past. A new partner is not a psychologist, and it's not fair to involve them in unresolved business from the past. Not processing the breakup can actually hurt new people along the way. Trying to force readiness is not the answer. We're ready when we're ready.
@theguynextdoor4978, I appreciate your thoughtful perspective. You've highlighted a crucial point about the importance of self-reflection and healing before entering new relationships. It's absolutely true that bringing unresolved baggage into a new partnership is unfair to everyone involved. It takes time and effort to truly move on, and forcing it can indeed lead to further hurt. Your point about new partners not being psychologists is spot on! It's important to take personal responsibility for our own emotional well-being. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 🌸