The Ugly Truth of YouTube: Handling Creator Bullying

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024

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  • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
    @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  3 месяца назад

    Have you experienced online bullying?
    How did you cope with it?
    Do you have a strategy or advice that could help people currently going through a rough time at the hands of the faceless, online cowards?
    It would be so good to. hear from you.
    Much love Imi xxx❤

  • @cherylbenjamin3916
    @cherylbenjamin3916 3 месяца назад +1

    hi .... new sub here ......sent over from linda tee and so pleased i did - really enjoy your personality

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  3 месяца назад

      Oh darling that is so kind of you. It is wonderful to welcome so many new friends to our tribe! I will always reply to all of your comments and look forward to getting to know you Cheryl. If you have any suggestions of videos you might like to watch then I'm sure I can give them a go. I'm certainly new to this RUclips malarky and at 67 it's continuing to be a steep learning curve....as you might appreciate if you watch my other videos...and there have been some horrors i can tell you 🙄 but I'm getting a little better with each one or almost a little better 😂 Much love to you and yours, Imi x ❤

  • @TheUrbanmeister
    @TheUrbanmeister 4 месяца назад +1

    All of these trolls hide behind their anonymity. So brave when they're hiding, less so if they were held responsible for posting their toxicity. Take away the anonymity and then see what happens It's the likes of X and others such as RUclips that allow this anonymity, provides more income which is their key driver. Power Without Responsibility - The Prerogative of the Harlot Throughout the Ages comes to mind.
    Also found the practical advice etc., really helpful. Thanks.

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  4 месяца назад

      Agree wholeheartedly Urbanmeister! My brother has armed me with a tactic for handling the situation when it arrives. "Thank. Noted" will show the indifference I feel for the commentator superbly . I think we all could do with a big brother in the background to give us advice on how we can fight our battles! 😌 Much love Imi x

  • @audremyers422
    @audremyers422 3 месяца назад +1

    Here in the States we have a phrase that we learn as young children and carry with us all the rest of our lives. This is the phrase, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." Consider the source. Keep in mind, you have an instant tool - it's the delete key. Not worth your time, those folks. Consider this ... if you let them get to you, they've won. We never let them win. Never. You keep smiling and doing what you're doing.

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  3 месяца назад +1

      Good morning Audre, You are so right. And we too have the same saying here. Thank you for reminding me of it...sometimes we need to be reminded of profoundly sensible sayings that have their roots in solid ground. You are a kind soul darling, and I certainly will keep keep the advice you have reminded me of....I will also remember I have the delete key.
      I once read somewhere, and I can't remember where, that no one can make you feel anything unless you give them permission. That resonated too and I have often repeated to others who are going through a tough time.
      You know, there is a benefit to aging that is so often overlooked. We have a life time of experiences to call upon and how we have dealt with them, successfully or not, that we can share.
      I have always been a rich person. Not wealthy, but rich in experiences and that has helped form the person that I have grown into. Thank you for taking the time and making the effort to comment. I really do appreciate your support and kindness. Much love to you and yours, Imi x❤

    • @audremyers422
      @audremyers422 3 месяца назад +1

      @@TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc Bless your heart. Thank you. One last thought on this: is far easier to condemn someone for the things that they do, than to actually go out there and do something yourself. Lol - like we used to say back in the day, you just keep on keepin' on.

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  3 месяца назад

      @@audremyers422 You are so right Audre and certainly worth remembering. You are a wise soul indeed. Be well, and much love to you and yours, Imi x❤

  • @LindaTee70
    @LindaTee70 4 месяца назад

    Bless you Imi, thank you for the mention today it was soon kind x
    I wish I liked ironing but it's relaxing watching you do it!! x

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  4 месяца назад

      You do know that if we lived closer I'd come round and do your ironing for you don't you? And sweetie, credit where credit is due, your support means so much and lifts me up when I'm feeling a little disheartened x♥

    • @LindaTee70
      @LindaTee70 4 месяца назад

      @@TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9ycWell, I'm glad you feel I help. The laundry is being piled into the courier's car as we speak!! xx

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  4 месяца назад +1

      @@LindaTee70 🤣 Well at least you know that I'm a whizz at it darling! xx

  • @margaretstagg
    @margaretstagg 3 месяца назад

    Hello I’ve just come over from LInda Tees channel and watched your video I think you are a lovely lady and will be watching you back videos. Hope you get loads of subscribers you deserve it xx

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh darling thank you so much, that's so kind of you to say Margaret. I would welcome any suggestions you might have for future videos? It has been so wonderful today to welcome so many new friends to our tribe, Linda was so kind to ask her followers to take a peak at my channel. I can hardly believe it. I will do my very best to keep you all entertained Much love, Imi xxx

    • @margaretstagg
      @margaretstagg 3 месяца назад

      @@TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc look forward to all your videos. Linda s a lovely lad just like yourself I’m 72 you could do food hauls, clothes same sort of thing that Linda does or a make up one your make up looks lovely by the way xxxx

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  3 месяца назад

      @@margaretstagg Hello Margaret, how are you darling? Linda and I have become firm youtube friends and it's so lovely. Having ladies comment on my videos is so completely uplifting I cannot begin to tell you of the absolute thril it gives me when I see someone has sent me a message! I don't buy many clothes Margaret as I tend to buy a couple of bits every so often but not regularly. However! I do go food shopping and I have watched other ladies go through their shopping bags and make a video of what they have purchased. I will give it a go this week. This week is definitely my week for experimenting, thanks to all of you beautiful ladies. Much love to you Margaret, Imi ❤xxxx

  • @chrissiematthews7988
    @chrissiematthews7988 4 месяца назад

    Wish I liked ironing Imi I find it a real drag and leave it as long as possible, then of course there is a pile of it. I just watched your car vlog and mentioned I’m worried about you maybe being trolled. Not watched Caroline’s vlog yet, will check it out and offer support. Wish trolls could be named and shamed, wouldn’t be so keen then. X❤

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  4 месяца назад

      You want to send it round to me Chrissie? I’ll get it done for you in no time at all! 🥰 x

  • @alisonpoiner630
    @alisonpoiner630 3 месяца назад

    Lovely chatty video. 😊x

    • @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc
      @TheNumber1LadiesClub-lf9yc  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much Alison, I find it quite difficult to gauge whether or not I sound rather boring or not. So it is uplifting to get your feedback. Perhaps I am actually be doing something that people might like. It's such a learning process and one I'm determined to keep going with. If you have any suggestions on future videos you might like to watch, I'm very open to ideas and requests. And thank you for commenting Alison....apparently it is an important part of this process...who knew eh? Be well, much love Imi x❤