THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THEY SAID: MOST PEOPLE DISCOVER THEIR SEXUALITY IN ELEMENTARY AND OR MIDDLE SCHOOL BUT HAVE NO EDUCATION ON IT. this is what keeps societies in the dark and also makes causes many young people to be confused about their own sexual orientation.
Yes yes and yes my little brother is 11 and he came up to me out of the no where and told me he liked boys like he liked girls but he didn’t know what that feeing was. He didn’t know because no one told him about it. I then told him everything and he understood. I accept him and love him and even tough he’s bi I hope he ends up with a boyfriend. It’s crazy how young you can known about that. ❤️
Some schools have education on it. In my school, we learn about it in middle school (during a "health" unit). Even so, our school is full of diversity, but I'm not sure if anyone is actually LGBT in our school. There was someone bi in my old school, and he hung out with basically only girls. In my...uh...CITY (it's Hong Kong, but I'm not sure if I'm allowed to call it a country), bullying is a rare thing, especially in International schools. He basically became popular overnight, which I'm kinda glad. My old school was also always holding events, standing by LGBT people. But I do know in my current country and home country (China, to be exact) isn't the most supportive, but there are these famous males on the Chinese version of TikTok who wear make-up and test make-up and stuff as their content. I'm sure if they are gay or bi, but I think they are from their comments. China isn't as conservative as Korea, but it's 100% not a thing that's wildly accepted, which is sad.
that bit when they talked about their puffy winter coats and how they could hide the fact that they were holding hands… that was very sweet but also made me sad :( i hope one day all the stigma can go away and these beautiful couples can love each other in public without fear ♡:･ﾟ✧
I didn’t understand this part because I was under the impression that it’s common in Korea for male friends to hold hands. I thought that would make it easier for them to not stand out so much.
Um. AIDS can also happen in a heterosexual relationship... Like, of all reason to deny them, I detest this kind of reason the most. Anyone, whatever couple they are, if they're not careful/loyal/well-informed, can still get AIDS/HIV.
It's true. But it has bigger risk for gay couple especially how they're having sex. But, it's not always like that, right? People keep looking gay couple as a bad thing even we can't choose what do person want to be. Like, they're human too. Theres nothing to be argued. Just stop hate and spread love.
The biggest misconception here is that people sometimes assume that if a person had sex with the same gender, you automatically get infected, which is very untrue. Yes, There are some truths that gay people are more at risk of infection BUT let's be clear that if two gay people are negative in HIV, there won't be any transmission. Nonetheless, always use protection when having sex either you're straight gay etc.
I think the reason why gay people were/are more affected by aids than straight people is that the use protection (read: condoms) is more common among straight people. Straight couples use condoms not only for STDs but also to protect against unwanted pregnancies (I'd even say that pregnancy is what most are worried about, they don't think much about STDs, especially in monogamous relationships). Gay couples can't get each other pregnant (assuming they're cisgender and have the same genitals), so they use condoms less often. I think this would have been even more prevalent back in the 80s, because it was probably the aids pandemic that caused both straight and gay people to realize that STDs are a serious issue. (the 'edited' is because I didn't phrase things correctly the first time)
@@cami7916 And also the lack of proper sex education for gay people. If a country wants to lessen the HIV/AIDS rate, they should educate the people who are more likely at risks and also they should stop considering it as a taboo.
I'm learning Korean and these guys speak so clearly that even without looking at the subtitles I can understand a lot. They're really welspoken. I'm happy for them and I hope that society becomes more and more accepting
The part about the fear of holding hands in public made me so upset, I wish they were confident to do it without fearing what others would say and think:(
TastyKimchi I mean tbh that’s in most countries, I live in Ireland where people are pretty accepting of lgbt but I would never go walking in public holding hands with another male
What is sad is that it’s not even specific to Korea :( in my country, France, a poll recently showed that 64% of gay people fear to kiss in the street and 63 fear to just hold hands. That made me immensely sad
thanks for this interview! im also in a relationship and my boyfriend is korean so a lot of the answers like being scared to hold each others hands hits close to home. even though we live in london, we have faced a lot of abuse for holding hands or even hugging in public. my bf became more scared after that and he hasn't come out to many people, only a few friends and his sister. i hope one day our society will totally accept us, no matter what country it is
That's sad to hear :( I hope you guys will be accepted more in the future, a lot of the younger generation is accepting them so it's changing a little by little.
Oky im late✊ but i believe ur guys relationship are beautiful💞 and even there are negative things and hates, we'll always support😍 even from a distance😢
They are so adorable. It's honestly so heartbreaking that people hate on each other because they are the same gender. Ugh, people need to get over themselves.
@@LeNumidium I wouldn't think many straight men,with few exceptions are man enough to take it full circle. Only straight man I know online that takes it is Joe. From JustKiddingNews on youtube. There are a lot of videos to that channel, so finding to where he says it might take some time.
In terms of the position, it’s just sad because there's this cognitive of women and men in sexual positions. It kind of assumes submissiveness which is typically the “women” and the dominant are the “men.” By incorporating that type of norm, not only it undermines people of lgbtq community but just social roles in general. But, I’m happy that many people, whichever identity they have today, are becoming more accepting. :D
I don't get how some ppl see something wrong in this, i see two humans loving each other which is pretty normal and completely fine, thanks for the video 💜
Because those kind of people think it's "against the law of nature" like how is it against it when it doesn't harm anything or anyone and other reasons are "Personal experience" like getting raped or having their lover stolen, etc. then that's not different from being racist because they're generalizing a social group based on few people. I mean look at CL she's getting hate and criticism for supporting LGBTQ in Taiwan.
@@kazeace853 really sad tbh. We're all humans we may not agree with everything we may not experience what the rest has. But we are living and are existing as humans. We should respect each other's preferences, opinions, experiences & etc. We shouldn't put down our own beings just because they're different and are not what we expect. As long as they are good people with good intentions. Being a good soul is what matters.
It's because most of the people who are spreading hate for this kind of relationship still lives in traditional "A man for a woman and a woman for a man". They've been living in believing that LGBTQ is a sin which is not. I hope someday that this kind of hate will vanish in this world and all of them understand that we are also humans.
YES totally agree. the LGBT community has grown in an amazing way in America, but one thing that I wish would change among many other things is LGBT history being taught in school or at least being talked about more openly. It deserves the importance that so many other parts of history are given as well
@@pitbulls4life141 yeah me too absolutely no one talked about the community in my high school only touched on the differences of sexuality/sex/gender/sexual orientation so basically just defining vocabulary..but local youth leaders are trying to change it in my town right now. I hope in the next few years it's integrated in more schools
4booky I remember in my health class last year they wrote LGBTQ on the board and named the words. That was it. Fast forward to this year and now we have a “gay straight alliance.” Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m all for the idea of that and two of my friends were running it so I was going to join. However, after all of the negative talk and bullying in the school about it I decided against it.
one of my teacher actually talked about this bc Genders became one of our topics, and she doesn't support the LGBT community mainly because its against the bible and that's a complete bullshit.
this was very educating. thank you for this video! this whole discussion felt so...I don't know how to describe it. open minded. they didn't lash out at the questions they probably get often, but answered them (especially the topic about "top and bottom"). I hope that we can become a more open minded as a whole and that we educate ourselves more on what we don't know :)
Why would you stereotyping fujoshi/fudanshi? You're like the people who think aids = homosexual. Actually most people who rudely ask who is top and bottom is people who curious because they don't support lgbt or in neutral position or don't have a deep knowledge about it. Other is like "idol" who has fanatic fans (sasaeng? Sorry, I don't know the term very well). So it's not ALL. Oh, yeah. Reading it and see disgusting word is trigerring me.
So nice and normal and sweet. It makes me so happy. In the future I pray that there will be no need for videos like this and everyone will live as who they are in harmony with everyone else.
I just want to add to the topic "who is the girl in the relationship?" and say that this kind of thought comes from a heteronormative and misoginistic point of view Asking that comes from the thought that there is always a partner who is more weak than the other and it's usually believed to be the women Women are not weak and in a gay relationship there is no women because they are both men Also just because someone prefers to be a "bottom" it doesn't mean they are weak/submissive or a women (I'm horrible at expressing my opinion in a coherent way so I hope this comment is not to messy and the point is still clear 😅😅)
It's very good, that you're encouraging other people to come out and not to be afraid. I'm not gay, but I have some friends who are. And they hadn't a problem with saying that to me and they have good friends who are not gay. But in Germany the situation might be a little bit different. From about the 3rd grade we're learning that being gay is normal. That's how my generation grew up and as I know we are the first one with that kind of lessons. Sadly there are still too many against it so some people are afraid of coming out and also families are not reacting kindly to them. So, even if my generation is more open (because not all of us are) there are still a lot of problems. But gay marriage is allowed and they fight for their rights. I really hope, that Korea will change its mind soon!
Same case here in PH i have very discreet group of friends a Korean, a Chinese and a Japanese and me a half Filipino, we met as classmates and we became friends because we're all introverts and we're all guys who is very quiet and a loner in person but very noisy when we're online talking about anime and games, We communicate using English mostly but sometimes uses other's language that we all understand like the common words of Japanese "Nani", "Ohayo", etc. Then later i got a PM from my Korean friend "Jun" where we just talked to each other at night because I'm the only one online and i asked where he's going during summer vacation he just said "nowhere" i thought he'll come to his hometown to his parents since he just lives alone in an apartment, which is why i asked "you're not gonna visit your parents?!" Then he just suddenly said to me "I like you" and i just replied "???" then "u trolling?" then he just sent a very very long message then went offline before i started reading it. Basically he said the reason he's living and studying in PH is because his parents sent him here when he "came out" to them. So they just sent him here and give him allowance till he graduates. Seriously what's wrong with his parents. And the rest is about him being serious about me and asking for my answer.
@@kazeace853 Sorry, what's PH? 🙈 I feel so sorry about Jun. And it's good, that he had some friends to count on. (As I understood you have no problem with him) And yes you're right, what the hell is wrong with them? Everytime I hear such things as: My best friend and my own family are not accepting me... It's not right, it hurts, even if I'm not that person with the problem. It's really not fair. 😔
@@zeroo8124 PH means Philippines and well this incident just happened last year May 2018 and even now I still haven't answered his question and of course because of it the atmosphere between the two of us is more awkward but we're still friends (i think). To be honest I'm just waiting for his feelings to me die out. I swear I'm not homophobic or have anything against gays and I'm not saying I'm not gay or I am (because i never fell in love with anyone before since i lived my life almost not having social interactions with anyone in person or outside). We only meet a few times since that chat and that was mostly when our other friends hold a meet up and occasionally we ran across each other. But still I'm the only one in our group who knows he's gay and it's been 6 years since the four of us became friends, i want to tell him to tell the others too but it's obviously awkward since it's been a year already that i haven't answered him and i don't know if he's still waiting for it or not. It's just surprising for me to get a confession from someone since I thought nobody in this world would ever romantically like me because I'm an introvert who have major anxiety issues like fear of eye contact, attention, judgements from others, etc. now that I mention this maybe it's one of the reason i can't answer him. Because i wasn't like this until 7 years ago my reason is basically cliche (I became the whole school's bullie's target and i had nobody to rely on or talk to so I looked for people i can talk to online which resulted me being more attached communicating online).
@@kazeace853 I've never had someone who said he/she loves me, but I'm also someone who was bullied. And I can tell you that, if you don't answer him, it'll hurt him more. He told you his feelings and you said nothing (I understand you, that would make me also afraid). I had some kind of a boyfriend. I knew he loved me, because my friend told me, but I had none feelings for him. But I knew it because I gave him a a chance and we met quite a lot times. He's a good person, very carrying and kind and because of it I didn't want a relationship with him. I didn't want to hurt him. I was also very afraid, it's not easy for me to trust anyone and I had a very hard life, so I'm not that easy to handle (I think 😅) and also don't want to hurt someone. So I gave it a try and now I'm smarter about what I want in a relationship and what not. What kind of guy is my type... So I'm begging you: Talk to him, make sure you stay friends or get closer because you want to give him a chance. I don't know how old you're, but you have to make it clear. Trust me, it'll hunt you your whole life, if you're like me and don't want to hurt people. I know it... It must be very hard for him to not have an answer from you since a year. It's a very long time. And he also must felt not be taken seriously, if you didn't answer his question. And trust me, it hurts, if you can't get closer to the person who you love. So, my advice is: Talk to him again and 1. Maybe start a relationship and found out, if you love him or could love him. 2. If you're really, really not gay (you must be like 100% sure) than explain it to him. And please, don't be afraid. As I said, I do not trust people easily and I'm also a bit introverted but I gave some people a try and now I can count on them, whatever happens. They're just a few but they're my close friends. I don't judge you, I completely understand you, but please try also to understand him. And talk to him. 🙏🤗
I love coming back and watching this video every so often!! It's so refreshing to see a happy couple and I love how comfortable they are about their relationship. Most couples in general are afraid of speaking about their relationship and its lovely to see the chemistry that they have. They're so cute and I wish them so much happiness.
this was so straightforward and heartfelt. also theyre clearly smitten with each other it's so adorable to watch. i wish them all the happiness in the world.
Omg they’re so cute!!! I love how intelligent they are as well. Answered everything in a proper and educated manner. I hope they can confidently hold hands in public someday. Love them!!
And then Mother monster's song suddenly pop into my head: "No matter gay, straight,or bi Lesbian, transgendered life I'm on the right track baby I was born to survive."
"I wish all mankind live their lives for their own good" the world would be a better place if every single one of us respected each other's personal lives (which is none of our business btw)
Is it just me or i keep on smiling while listening to them. They look so lovely and so into each other! Wow. Keep on fighting!We are here to support the both of you!❤❤❤
I don't know these guys and hadn't even heard about them until now, but after watching this I feel an enormous tenderness towards them. Dare I say, it feels like I love them. Wish them all the best.
They are the cutest couple that I have ever seen ~~ I can tell by just looking at them that they are reaaally good friends too beside being boyfriends. Which is one of the most important things for me that should be in a relationahip 😍😍
I’ve been subscribed to GimCheolSoo for a longtime. He & JangHo are honestly the sweetest truest loving people I’ve ever seen. Always wish them good fortune as they help lower stigma around being LGBT in SK. These are the sort of brave people we need, those unafraid to respond with kindness, but who will also not let themselves be bullied.
An interview which put a smile on my face... I respect these two, separately and as a couple: they are authentic, warm, humorous and compassionate toward others. I wish I knew Korean. I will definitely visit their site.
It takes beautiful and brave people like you to change views, break stereotypes and open minds. Hearts will open in time too, I think you guys are amazing. So great to see two people in love. All my best wishes for you going forward.
It makes me happy to know that even in conservative places like Korea, there are gay couples who are happily in love and have a supportive community around them. Really gives me hope as a young lesbian ❤️ And Jangho's story of his mom being shocked and upset about him being gay at first but eventually becoming really supportive was so heartwarming and nice to hear, I'm glad that she grew to be more accepting!
Same :") I dont like the people who uses gods words etc to judge peoples 🚫 Its like they never wanted a people to be happy or the freedom that they wanted
@calo10able can't they wish a better life in all of those places? Because this video is about Korea, it makes sense to comment about Korea, they didn't say it wasn't horrible in other countries. LGBTQ+ should be accepted and respected everywhere, and that's it.
calo10able This is such a dumb argument. You don’t just give up on progress because your neighbors are equally or more fucked up.. Gay marriage is still illegal in Korea, gay people are still looked down upon by the majority of the world. We don’t need idiots like you playing oppression olympics.
I love channel gimcheolsoo! Ever since I found out about them last year, I was able to become more confident in my own sexuality. I’m glad more people are getting to know them. This was such a wholesome interview, thank you for arranging it!
저는 아니지만, 성적소수자분들의 삶은 항상 존중하고 응원합니다. 한국사회에서 아직 보편화가 되지않았지만 유투브라는 채널을 통해 이야기를 듣고 행복하신 모습을 보니, 사회가 그래도 많이 오픈되거가는구나라는걸 느끼네요. 어쩌다 지나가다 항상 궁금하긴했던 소재라 바로들어와서 보고 갑니다.
The terminology "top" and "bottom" is not something that categorizes the sexual role in a gay relationship but, it is just a sex position, nothing more and sex positions can constantly change. Amazing!
I'm actually a straight girl, but I have always been very supportive with same-sex relationship even though I'm totally a Christian. But! What do we say!?!?!? LOVE IS LOVE. The most powerful SPELL in the world. It is something that people can't decide on, cause it comes naturally even though the other person is the same gender as you. Thanks to these two for sharing their amazing love story and I have to say it more romantic than mine, even though my life is mostly spend inside my house. I hope you two last forever and ever and ever and ever and million, and million, and million ever. And also big, big thanks to the SUBSCRIBER for this. 💯👍🏻
I don’t know who these guys are but they are amazing and I just love them. I had so many curiosities and questions and I would have never thought they will be answered by a korean couple (of all nationalities). They are so honest, so tender and so so beautiful ppl. I loved the video, I loved the way they answered , I love how brave they are and I love their relationship. I wish them a long happy and beautiful life together filled with love and may they surround themselves by ppl who love and appreciate them . PD They remind me of the couple from the movie “Two weddings and a funeral” :))
When i watched this video for the first time i was not out yet to my family. This video helped me a lot, i am not korean but to see lgbt people all over the world gives me hope that we can live together.
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THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THEY SAID: MOST PEOPLE DISCOVER THEIR SEXUALITY IN ELEMENTARY AND OR MIDDLE SCHOOL BUT HAVE NO EDUCATION ON IT. this is what keeps societies in the dark and also makes causes many young people to be confused about their own sexual orientation.
Yes yes and yes my little brother is 11 and he came up to me out of the no where and told me he liked boys like he liked girls but he didn’t know what that feeing was. He didn’t know because no one told him about it. I then told him everything and he understood. I accept him and love him and even tough he’s bi I hope he ends up with a boyfriend. It’s crazy how young you can known about that. ❤️
Some schools have education on it. In my school, we learn about it in middle school (during a "health" unit). Even so, our school is full of diversity, but I'm not sure if anyone is actually LGBT in our school. There was someone bi in my old school, and he hung out with basically only girls. In my...uh...CITY (it's Hong Kong, but I'm not sure if I'm allowed to call it a country), bullying is a rare thing, especially in International schools. He basically became popular overnight, which I'm kinda glad. My old school was also always holding events, standing by LGBT people. But I do know in my current country and home country (China, to be exact) isn't the most supportive, but there are these famous males on the Chinese version of TikTok who wear make-up and test make-up and stuff as their content. I'm sure if they are gay or bi, but I think they are from their comments. China isn't as conservative as Korea, but it's 100% not a thing that's wildly accepted, which is sad.
Ciera Emich ikr
Tian Tian you're lucky..
It's true cause then that would explain why I got jealous every time when someone was hugging my best friend in elementary school
that bit when they talked about their puffy winter coats and how they could hide the fact that they were holding hands… that was very sweet but also made me sad :( i hope one day all the stigma can go away and these beautiful couples can love each other in public without fear ♡:･ﾟ✧
I didn’t understand this part because I was under the impression that it’s common in Korea for male friends to hold hands. I thought that would make it easier for them to not stand out so much.
Exactly
This made me think of a ship of Kpop idols Minsung, when they did in an interview!
@@annie.hi.Top or bottom its Interchangeable . Thats the beauty once your finished turn around it the other guys turn. This way it even Steven
Top or bottom... It's like asking which chopstick is the fork.
this is my favourite sentence now
Accurate
Lmfaoo
Love the analogy
Yeah is so annoying when I see people asking this
Um. AIDS can also happen in a heterosexual relationship... Like, of all reason to deny them, I detest this kind of reason the most. Anyone, whatever couple they are, if they're not careful/loyal/well-informed, can still get AIDS/HIV.
It's true. But it has bigger risk for gay couple especially how they're having sex. But, it's not always like that, right? People keep looking gay couple as a bad thing even we can't choose what do person want to be. Like, they're human too. Theres nothing to be argued. Just stop hate and spread love.
The biggest misconception here is that people sometimes assume that if a person had sex with the same gender, you automatically get infected, which is very untrue. Yes, There are some truths that gay people are more at risk of infection BUT let's be clear that if two gay people are negative in HIV, there won't be any transmission. Nonetheless, always use protection when having sex either you're straight gay etc.
I think the reason why gay people were/are more affected by aids than straight people is that the use protection (read: condoms) is more common among straight people. Straight couples use condoms not only for STDs but also to protect against unwanted pregnancies (I'd even say that pregnancy is what most are worried about, they don't think much about STDs, especially in monogamous relationships). Gay couples can't get each other pregnant (assuming they're cisgender and have the same genitals), so they use condoms less often. I think this would have been even more prevalent back in the 80s, because it was probably the aids pandemic that caused both straight and gay people to realize that STDs are a serious issue.
(the 'edited' is because I didn't phrase things correctly the first time)
@@cami7916 And also the lack of proper sex education for gay people. If a country wants to lessen the HIV/AIDS rate, they should educate the people who are more likely at risks and also they should stop considering it as a taboo.
Sorry but what's AIDS?
I'm learning Korean and these guys speak so clearly that even without looking at the subtitles I can understand a lot. They're really welspoken. I'm happy for them and I hope that society becomes more and more accepting
Could you possibly make a similar video with a lesbian couple? It’d be interesting to see things from a wlw perspective as well
do you know the two lesbian couples youtube channel?
@@seungkwau58 try to watch emolog. They're so cute
calo10able Then don’t watch and nobody asked
calo10able Ok and does that mean you have to give hate to the girls? No.
@calo10able are you one of those people who -sexualizes- 'support' gay men just because it looks hot/cute? Just asking.
The part about the fear of holding hands in public made me so upset, I wish they were confident to do it without fearing what others would say and think:(
The culture over there is very different. Extremely conservative. I just love them!
TastyKimchi I mean tbh that’s in most countries, I live in Ireland where people are pretty accepting of lgbt but I would never go walking in public holding hands with another male
Dylan yeah holding hands is almost like asking for a stranger to beat you up in some places
k eke pretty much yes
What is sad is that it’s not even specific to Korea :( in my country, France, a poll recently showed that 64% of gay people fear to kiss in the street and 63 fear to just hold hands. That made me immensely sad
thanks for this interview! im also in a relationship and my boyfriend is korean so a lot of the answers like being scared to hold each others hands hits close to home. even though we live in london, we have faced a lot of abuse for holding hands or even hugging in public. my bf became more scared after that and he hasn't come out to many people, only a few friends and his sister. i hope one day our society will totally accept us, no matter what country it is
That's sad to hear :( I hope you guys will be accepted more in the future, a lot of the younger generation is accepting them so it's changing a little by little.
Oky im late✊ but i believe ur guys relationship are beautiful💞 and even there are negative things and hates, we'll always support😍 even from a distance😢
I love that their love story is literally a fan meets their idol relationship story 😂 Wattpad has nothing on them
lmao you think this is something just wait 'til you hear about dan and phil
@@palmtree1958 except dan and phil are just friends
@@graybe.x yeah but they still love each other platonically, and their story's a lot better in the way of wattpad level "destiny" trash
@@palmtree1958 i mean yeah but its not weird for friends to go through somethings like that, its not a "fanfic'' thing like the comment said
@@graybe.x you do understand that the term 'fanfiction' has no implication of a relationship at all, let alone a romantic one, right?
They are so adorable. It's honestly so heartbreaking that people hate on each other because they are the same gender. Ugh, people need to get over themselves.
"Sex position can constantly change" that's right
and thats even more true in heterosexuality, diversity is everywhere and especially when you make love :D
Even in straight couples this can happen though P:
@@LeNumidium I wouldn't think many straight men,with few exceptions are man enough to take it full circle. Only straight man I know online that takes it is Joe. From JustKiddingNews on youtube. There are a lot of videos to that channel, so finding to where he says it might take some time.
My girlfriend had several the chance to have the "strong role" i think that is more common than we think ^-^
This comment made my day😂
They are such a sweet couple! Wish nobody had to go through hate for loving someone
jang ho really out here living the y/n life
lmfao fr tho 😂
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Idk why but I laughed hard from reading this comment 😂
Lmao thats funny, but also heart warming at the same time
Sorry but what's y/n? 😂😂😂
In terms of the position, it’s just sad because there's this cognitive of women and men in sexual positions. It kind of assumes submissiveness which is typically the “women” and the dominant are the “men.” By incorporating that type of norm, not only it undermines people of lgbtq community but just social roles in general. But, I’m happy that many people, whichever identity they have today, are becoming more accepting. :D
I didn’t know other people thought this too!
I don't get how some ppl see something wrong in this, i see two humans loving each other which is pretty normal and completely fine, thanks for the video 💜
Because those kind of people think it's "against the law of nature" like how is it against it when it doesn't harm anything or anyone and other reasons are "Personal experience" like getting raped or having their lover stolen, etc. then that's not different from being racist because they're generalizing a social group based on few people.
I mean look at CL she's getting hate and criticism for supporting LGBTQ in Taiwan.
@@kazeace853 really sad tbh. We're all humans we may not agree with everything we may not experience what the rest has. But we are living and are existing as humans. We should respect each other's preferences, opinions, experiences & etc. We shouldn't put down our own beings just because they're different and are not what we expect. As long as they are good people with good intentions. Being a good soul is what matters.
It's because most of the people who are spreading hate for this kind of relationship still lives in traditional "A man for a woman and a woman for a man". They've been living in believing that LGBTQ is a sin which is not. I hope someday that this kind of hate will vanish in this world and all of them understand that we are also humans.
@@kazeace853 "In the eyes of God" it is quite wrong.
@@jiminplsletmehit7620 you're being sarcastic right? Cuz if you're not then I'm gonna kick your ass.
The interviewer was like “I bet he gets jealous” and the shut him down with “no we have healthy communication”
That was really nice lol
I love that part so much🤧
this is literally the cutest relationship i'm soft
I’m hard 👁 👄 👁
@@lamingtongirl123 .-.
They turned me into a teenage fan girl. I was literally whining like a puppy when he touched his cheek at the end.
@@lamingtongirl123 oh ;)
lamingtongirl123 I-
they're so cute and wellspoken! I hope they can educate many people with their open personalities and wish them the best of luck and happiness.
I agree with what he said that this things should be taught on school.
YES totally agree. the LGBT community has grown in an amazing way in America, but one thing that I wish would change among many other things is LGBT history being taught in school or at least being talked about more openly. It deserves the importance that so many other parts of history are given as well
4booky unfortunately I am from America and it was never talked about in my school
@@pitbulls4life141 yeah me too absolutely no one talked about the community in my high school only touched on the differences of sexuality/sex/gender/sexual orientation so basically just defining vocabulary..but local youth leaders are trying to change it in my town right now. I hope in the next few years it's integrated in more schools
4booky I remember in my health class last year they wrote LGBTQ on the board and named the words. That was it. Fast forward to this year and now we have a “gay straight alliance.” Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m all for the idea of that and two of my friends were running it so I was going to join. However, after all of the negative talk and bullying in the school about it I decided against it.
one of my teacher actually talked about this bc Genders became one of our topics, and she doesn't support the LGBT community mainly because its against the bible and that's a complete bullshit.
두 분 다 진짜 말 잘하시네요 ....저는 제 생각을 말로 풀어내는게 좀 어렵던데
@전여빈 한심해
JAYKEEOUT you're doing an amazing job, Everyone has a right to love 🌈
채널 김철수 부처인가... ㅠㅠ 당신들 너무 관대해... 고만 관대해!
I really respect this two, thank you for interviewing them jay.
This popped up in my recommended and I’m not mad about it AT ALL ❤️
they are just sooo adorable. thank you for this video♡♡♡♡
Brave men like this are what Korea needs! Please support love being love regardless of gender!
They are so LOVELY!! 💕 Jay greetings from Colombia 👋 I love your all videos!! 💛
the right guy is so thoughtful and openminded, it's amazing. i see why jangho would like his way of thinking! best of luck to them
마지막 모든 인류가 자신을 위해 살고 항상 자기 자신이 누구인지 얘기 할 수 있는 사람이 되었으면 좋겠다는 철수님 말이 인상 깊네요. 영상 너무 잘 봤습니다!
끼순이나 욕쟁이 스타일 성소수자분들을 많이보다가 선한표정이나 잔잔하고 나긋하고 조리있게 말씀하시는 커플분을 보니 너모보기가 좋습니당~~~
this was very educating. thank you for this video! this whole discussion felt so...I don't know how to describe it. open minded. they didn't lash out at the questions they probably get often, but answered them (especially the topic about "top and bottom"). I hope that we can become a more open minded as a whole and that we educate ourselves more on what we don't know :)
김철수님 말 진짜 잘한다. 사용하는 단어의 폭이 넓은듯
Keep going guys~ we support your relationship~^^
The first 15 seconds is a message to all fujoshis/BL addicts
makes me wonder what their thoughts on BL are
Ugh the fetishizing 😖
They even talk about the bottom like he were a female, dIsgUSting
Cringy and disgusting
Why would you stereotyping fujoshi/fudanshi? You're like the people who think aids = homosexual. Actually most people who rudely ask who is top and bottom is people who curious because they don't support lgbt or in neutral position or don't have a deep knowledge about it. Other is like "idol" who has fanatic fans (sasaeng? Sorry, I don't know the term very well). So it's not ALL. Oh, yeah. Reading it and see disgusting word is trigerring me.
Thank you Jaykee for this awesome interview ❤️
I really like both of their laid back personality and just level-headedness when answering the questions
So nice and normal and sweet. It makes me so happy. In the future I pray that there will be no need for videos like this and everyone will live as who they are in harmony with everyone else.
I just want to add to the topic "who is the girl in the relationship?" and say that this kind of thought comes from a heteronormative and misoginistic point of view
Asking that comes from the thought that there is always a partner who is more weak than the other and it's usually believed to be the women
Women are not weak and in a gay relationship there is no women because they are both men
Also just because someone prefers to be a "bottom" it doesn't mean they are weak/submissive or a women
(I'm horrible at expressing my opinion in a coherent way so I hope this comment is not to messy and the point is still clear 😅😅)
It's very good, that you're encouraging other people to come out and not to be afraid.
I'm not gay, but I have some friends who are. And they hadn't a problem with saying that to me and they have good friends who are not gay.
But in Germany the situation might be a little bit different. From about the 3rd grade we're learning that being gay is normal. That's how my generation grew up and as I know we are the first one with that kind of lessons.
Sadly there are still too many against it so some people are afraid of coming out and also families are not reacting kindly to them. So, even if my generation is more open (because not all of us are) there are still a lot of problems.
But gay marriage is allowed and they fight for their rights. I really hope, that Korea will change its mind soon!
Same in Italy
Same case here in PH i have very discreet group of friends a Korean, a Chinese and a Japanese and me a half Filipino, we met as classmates and we became friends because we're all introverts and we're all guys who is very quiet and a loner in person but very noisy when we're online talking about anime and games, We communicate using English mostly but sometimes uses other's language that we all understand like the common words of Japanese "Nani", "Ohayo", etc.
Then later i got a PM from my Korean friend "Jun" where we just talked to each other at night because I'm the only one online and i asked where he's going during summer vacation he just said "nowhere" i thought he'll come to his hometown to his parents since he just lives alone in an apartment, which is why i asked "you're not gonna visit your parents?!"
Then he just suddenly said to me "I like you" and i just replied "???" then "u trolling?" then he just sent a very very long message then went offline before i started reading it.
Basically he said the reason he's living and studying in PH is because his parents sent him here when he "came out" to them. So they just sent him here and give him allowance till he graduates. Seriously what's wrong with his parents.
And the rest is about him being serious about me and asking for my answer.
@@kazeace853 Sorry, what's PH? 🙈
I feel so sorry about Jun.
And it's good, that he had some friends to count on. (As I understood you have no problem with him)
And yes you're right, what the hell is wrong with them? Everytime I hear such things as: My best friend and my own family are not accepting me... It's not right, it hurts, even if I'm not that person with the problem.
It's really not fair. 😔
@@zeroo8124 PH means Philippines and well this incident just happened last year May 2018 and even now I still haven't answered his question and of course because of it the atmosphere between the two of us is more awkward but we're still friends (i think).
To be honest I'm just waiting for his feelings to me die out. I swear I'm not homophobic or have anything against gays and I'm not saying I'm not gay or I am (because i never fell in love with anyone before since i lived my life almost not having social interactions with anyone in person or outside). We only meet a few times since that chat and that was mostly when our other friends hold a meet up and occasionally we ran across each other. But still I'm the only one in our group who knows he's gay and it's been 6 years since the four of us became friends, i want to tell him to tell the others too but it's obviously awkward since it's been a year already that i haven't answered him and i don't know if he's still waiting for it or not. It's just surprising for me to get a confession from someone since I thought nobody in this world would ever romantically like me because I'm an introvert who have major anxiety issues like fear of eye contact, attention, judgements from others, etc. now that I mention this maybe it's one of the reason i can't answer him. Because i wasn't like this until 7 years ago my reason is basically cliche (I became the whole school's bullie's target and i had nobody to rely on or talk to so I looked for people i can talk to online which resulted me being more attached communicating online).
@@kazeace853 I've never had someone who said he/she loves me, but I'm also someone who was bullied.
And I can tell you that, if you don't answer him, it'll hurt him more. He told you his feelings and you said nothing (I understand you, that would make me also afraid).
I had some kind of a boyfriend. I knew he loved me, because my friend told me, but I had none feelings for him. But I knew it because I gave him a a chance and we met quite a lot times. He's a good person, very carrying and kind and because of it I didn't want a relationship with him. I didn't want to hurt him.
I was also very afraid, it's not easy for me to trust anyone and I had a very hard life, so I'm not that easy to handle (I think 😅) and also don't want to hurt someone. So I gave it a try and now I'm smarter about what I want in a relationship and what not. What kind of guy is my type...
So I'm begging you: Talk to him, make sure you stay friends or get closer because you want to give him a chance. I don't know how old you're, but you have to make it clear.
Trust me, it'll hunt you your whole life, if you're like me and don't want to hurt people. I know it...
It must be very hard for him to not have an answer from you since a year. It's a very long time.
And he also must felt not be taken seriously, if you didn't answer his question. And trust me, it hurts, if you can't get closer to the person who you love.
So, my advice is: Talk to him again and
1. Maybe start a relationship and found out, if you love him or could love him.
2. If you're really, really not gay (you must be like 100% sure) than explain it to him.
And please, don't be afraid. As I said, I do not trust people easily and I'm also a bit introverted but I gave some people a try and now I can count on them, whatever happens. They're just a few but they're my close friends.
I don't judge you, I completely understand you, but please try also to understand him. And talk to him. 🙏🤗
I love coming back and watching this video every so often!! It's so refreshing to see a happy couple and I love how comfortable they are about their relationship. Most couples in general are afraid of speaking about their relationship and its lovely to see the chemistry that they have. They're so cute and I wish them so much happiness.
세상 사람들에게 하고픈 말 많았는데 두 분이 이뤄주셨어ㅠㅠ
철수님 장호님 항상 사랑합니다 진짜ㅠㅠㅠ
this was so straightforward and heartfelt. also theyre clearly smitten with each other it's so adorable to watch. i wish them all the happiness in the world.
I’ve been watching this RUclips couple for a while and their the cutest🥰
Omg they’re so cute!!! I love how intelligent they are as well. Answered everything in a proper and educated manner. I hope they can confidently hold hands in public someday. Love them!!
진짜 리스펙트! 사람들이 이런 사람들을 존중해야죠... 이렇게 하면 이 세계는 훨씬 좋은 곳일 거 같아요..
저는 미국에서 퀴어 사람 입니다. 너무 감사합니다, 당신의 이야기를 해주셔서 감사합니다.
앞부분에 잠깐씩뜨는 과거영상중에 땅호 반바지 영상이랑 떨고 수염없는 영상 너무 귀여워버림ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
Came across this early in the morning. I love how they talk about it so easily and matter-of-fact. And they're so cute together..💙
Waittt so they’re actually a couple 😭😭😭❤️🌈 HOW CUTE !! I saw the gay couple experiment video before this
Omg I didn’t expect this collab, I love their channel so much! They’re so real and domestic 😭
I love the closed up shots! They make it feel so intimate :)
I feel like I should stay this even if this is not theit channel: Janghooooo you're still cute as ever. ❤❤❤
남자끼리든 여자끼리든 전혀 인정 안하고 말고 할 이유가 없는데... 성별에 상관없이 연인들이 손 잡고 마음 편히 활보할 수 있는 사회가 되길 저도 바라봅니다. 👍
웃긴건 하국 90년도 만해도 남자들끼리 여자들끼리 손 잡고 다녔음....친구들....근데 외국에서 그게 게이다 하니까 바꾼것....
언니, 네 말이 맞아 더 많은 사람들이 당신처럼 생각하기를 바랍니다
장호님은 어떻게보면 진짜 성덕임ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
성덕이 뭐에요??
@@경상도바리스타 '성'공한 '덕'후욤
@@uuuuuser 아하 감사합니다 ㅎ
First time I was scared scroll down to the comment section, and glad there's still people who support them
And then Mother monster's song suddenly pop into my head:
"No matter gay, straight,or bi
Lesbian, transgendered life
I'm on the right track baby
I was born to survive."
Yay! 😁👌
"I wish all mankind live their lives for their own good" the world would be a better place if every single one of us respected each other's personal lives (which is none of our business btw)
Such a good video on letting people know that you should always be your first priority. Such an easy to digest video, thanks jay for such content!
최근 두분 처음보게된 사람입니다만, 예민한 질문 조차도 가감없이 담백하게 말씀해주셔서 , 이제껏 가졌던 선입견이 천천히 무너지는 기분입니다ㅎㅎ 감사해요 영상보기 잘한거 같아요ㅎㅎ 좀더 넓은 시야를 가진 사람이 된 기분이에요 ㅎㅎ 두분 행복하세요~
OH MY JAY. This is the content i signed up for ❤️
이 영상 찍어주셔서 감사합니다...두분 말씀 너무 잘하시는 것 같아요..손장호 김철수 두 분 응원합니다:)
Is it just me or i keep on smiling while listening to them. They look so lovely and so into each other! Wow. Keep on fighting!We are here to support the both of you!❤❤❤
I don't know these guys and hadn't even heard about them until now, but after watching this I feel an enormous tenderness towards them. Dare I say, it feels like I love them. Wish them all the best.
1st and omg i love them so much i watch they youtube alot💕 yes i speak korean lol
Are you sure you don't just read the subs?
@@cosmixtsu 나는 한국과 영어를 구사한다
@@samiragonzalez5433 댓글 고마워요.
한국어 못하는거 같은뎅.. 보니까
부모님들은 이런게 있는거 같애요. 남의 자식은 괜찮아도 내자식은 안돼. 저희 엄마도 굉장히 오픈되있는 분이셔서 커밍아웃 했는데 완벽히 받아 드리시는데 한 10년정도 걸리시더라구요. 어머님 옆에서 충분히 이해해 주시고 응원해 주세요~ ^^
They are the cutest couple that I have ever seen ~~ I can tell by just looking at them that they are reaaally good friends too beside being boyfriends. Which is one of the most important things for me that should be in a relationahip 😍😍
너무 기엽다 진짜...하...ㅜㅜㅜ 예쁜 사랑 오래오래 하세요❤❤❤🙏🏻🔥
손 잡을 때 아픈 척 하는거 맴찢..ㅠㅠ
velvet_mode 😭
I’ve been subscribed to GimCheolSoo for a longtime. He & JangHo are honestly the sweetest truest loving people I’ve ever seen. Always wish them good fortune as they help lower stigma around being LGBT in SK. These are the sort of brave people we need, those unafraid to respond with kindness, but who will also not let themselves be bullied.
You both are amazing guys! Much love for everyone watching this video now! 😘🤗
An interview which put a smile on my face... I respect these two, separately and as a couple: they are authentic, warm, humorous and compassionate toward others. I wish I knew Korean. I will definitely visit their site.
Shout out to the mum that was at first unaccepting but then bought them a soup ladle 😂
It takes beautiful and brave people like you to change views, break stereotypes and open minds. Hearts will open in time too, I think you guys are amazing. So great to see two people in love. All my best wishes for you going forward.
they're such a lovely couple!!
근데 이렇게 사람들이 많은 거리 가운데서 자기 주장 펼치고 말씀하시는 게 당당하다고 생각해서 너무 멋있어요
I just love the two of them.... There relationship is soooo cute..
These guys are relationship goals for all of us - love and respect to you both 👏👏
It makes me happy to know that even in conservative places like Korea, there are gay couples who are happily in love and have a supportive community around them. Really gives me hope as a young lesbian ❤️ And Jangho's story of his mom being shocked and upset about him being gay at first but eventually becoming really supportive was so heartwarming and nice to hear, I'm glad that she grew to be more accepting!
I love the fact they're so confident a LOT. They're so strong and share this message perfectly, we stan 💞💞
love is love ❤️thanks for interviewing cheolsoo and jangho 🥰
It is so cool to see how is to be gay in others countries. 😍 It makes me realise how much progress we made and what we still need to achieve. 🏳️🌈
Thats soo touching..people must watch this and just understand that everyone can be happy in a different way... :)
Same :") I dont like the people who uses gods words etc to judge peoples 🚫 Its like they never wanted a people to be happy or the freedom that they wanted
I really wish them and other korean lgbtq+ people the best🙏 let‘s hope for a better future for lgbtq+ in korea❤️
„the worst thing to hate is love“
@calo10able true I sad.
I hate africa .
Kpop is I shipper jikook!!
@calo10able can't they wish a better life in all of those places? Because this video is about Korea, it makes sense to comment about Korea, they didn't say it wasn't horrible in other countries. LGBTQ+ should be accepted and respected everywhere, and that's it.
calo10able This is such a dumb argument. You don’t just give up on progress because your neighbors are equally or more fucked up.. Gay marriage is still illegal in Korea, gay people are still looked down upon by the majority of the world. We don’t need idiots like you playing oppression olympics.
@@Pedrolucas-xm6cc it's not about Jikook. Just because you're a shipper, doesn't mean it's real. Stop being delusional here
The video Cheolsoo released today is *amazing.* He's getting more comfortable and I love to see that
I’ve been on Facebook too long. I held down the like button to try and give it a love reaction 💖 lmaoo you guys are so cute 🥺
THESE GUYS ARE THE BEST!! and so humble and nice!
Applaud them for being so open minded in their answers! This was a great vid, thank u!❤
I adore these two so I always click when someone interviews them.
I love channel gimcheolsoo! Ever since I found out about them last year, I was able to become more confident in my own sexuality. I’m glad more people are getting to know them. This was such a wholesome interview, thank you for arranging it!
They start off with such a straightforward honest vibe.... I'm shook but i love it! 💕😱
This is the type of conversations i love the most, not offensive not getting offended, just a conversation to share opinions and clear up curiosity
저는 아니지만, 성적소수자분들의 삶은 항상 존중하고 응원합니다. 한국사회에서 아직 보편화가 되지않았지만 유투브라는 채널을 통해 이야기를 듣고 행복하신 모습을 보니, 사회가 그래도 많이 오픈되거가는구나라는걸 느끼네요. 어쩌다 지나가다 항상 궁금하긴했던 소재라 바로들어와서 보고 갑니다.
I really admire you guys for being so open and honest about topics like this! Wish you two all the best
you look good together!!! spread the love guys... Love from the Philippines
The terminology "top" and "bottom" is not something that categorizes the sexual role in a gay relationship but, it is just a sex position, nothing more and sex positions can constantly change.
Amazing!
I'm actually a straight girl, but I have always been very supportive with same-sex relationship even though I'm totally a Christian. But! What do we say!?!?!? LOVE IS LOVE. The most powerful SPELL in the world. It is something that people can't decide on, cause it comes naturally even though the other person is the same gender as you.
Thanks to these two for sharing their amazing love story and I have to say it more romantic than mine, even though my life is mostly spend inside my house. I hope you two last forever and ever and ever and ever and million, and million, and million ever. And also big, big thanks to the SUBSCRIBER for this. 💯👍🏻
I don’t know who these guys are but they are amazing and I just love them. I had so many curiosities and questions and I would have never thought they will be answered by a korean couple (of all nationalities). They are so honest, so tender and so so beautiful ppl. I loved the video, I loved the way they answered , I love how brave they are and I love their relationship. I wish them a long happy and beautiful life together filled with love and may they surround themselves by ppl who love and appreciate them .
PD They remind me of the couple from the movie “Two weddings and a funeral” :))
What the. I nearly cried to this. These people are seriously people of wisdom, for me. Love wins. 🧡🌈
When i watched this video for the first time i was not out yet to my family. This video helped me a lot, i am not korean but to see lgbt people all over the world gives me hope that we can live together.