WE CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE (please don't be mad...)

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @jinju1998
    @jinju1998  Месяц назад +342

    Okay Guys! Cerose and I have been tag teaming responding to the comments, but like she said, you guys are the realest, and we can barely keep up! we want to say thank you for the continued love and support, the critique, we appreciate it all! it helps us grow! I want to apologize for the quality of this video! I was actually testing out a new mic and camera, and Cerose ending up sitting on it distorting the audio a little bit.. and the new camera was just trash... so sorry about that!

    • @Misa-ms3jj
      @Misa-ms3jj Месяц назад +40

      Video audio quality does not matter on this one! We saw and heard you both loud and clear! You’re setting an incredible example for a lot of people, young/old. There’s a lot of people out here putting on a show for their church/subscriber/friends/ “the audience”, while their personal lives and kids suffer because of bitterness and pride. I’m so proud of you two!!😭😭 Gohan, what you said about something inside if you made you realize that maybe your kids just needed you, More than they needed you to hustle. 👏🏽👏🏽. You could have a channel on that one thing alone. That felt like that was a revelation from the Holy Spirit directly to your heart in that moment. You do deserve love and to be loved. God bless you both💜💜🕊️

    • @aliyyanaforever7685
      @aliyyanaforever7685 Месяц назад +20

      Doooooo not let anyone tell you not to have him back in your life. He changed and it’s ok to give him another chance.

    • @claudiachioma664
      @claudiachioma664 Месяц назад +11

      This girl is such a smart young lady . Kudos to your parents ❤

    • @jaitsadi-gee
      @jaitsadi-gee Месяц назад +1

      Oh, yeah... I MEANT to ask y'all for suggestions on cameras and mics, and I'll try to figure how to hook it in to my keyboards or music software.
      THANKS, dude and dudette. (I know the previous line was lame af, but I hope y'all laughed, even if it was AT me.) 🤭🥴😂

    • @patricemartinez2241
      @patricemartinez2241 Месяц назад

      Your choice but I knew she always wanted him back good luck girl

  • @danigirl9069
    @danigirl9069 Месяц назад +522

    Gohan keep working on yourself, you are going to be the best version for yourself and your family.
    Proud of you.

  • @censordat
    @censordat Месяц назад +461

    Gohan is fighting off demons and trying fight his way out his dark place that he had fallen in. Keep fighting bruh! We see that you have the potential to be the best version of yourself but you just don't really see it in yourself YET 🙏🏼💪🏼

  • @sonyjuarez3126
    @sonyjuarez3126 Месяц назад +263

    I raised my children with the knowledge that everyone has a story but you have to be willing to listen thank you two for sharing ❤

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад +42

      love this! thats so true! people love to make assumptions and jump to conclusions base on what they think... but sometimes really listening will take you to new heights. this is good advice! thank you for sharing!

    • @valeriepankey6097
      @valeriepankey6097 Месяц назад

      Short. Been there, was very hurt after so many years and children. He apologized and cried. I never hated him because of my girls. Now he calls often and brings me food.

  • @Shybeanieweirdo
    @Shybeanieweirdo Месяц назад +203

    I love the fact she talking about God more and God elevating both of y'all lives. Keep it up, Godbless ✝️🙏🫀

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад +47

      praise be to him! if I am laughing smiling and thrivng today! it's thanks to the looord.

    • @kladies3021
      @kladies3021 Месяц назад +8

      ​@@jinju1998God heals the heart of the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds!

    • @joebtt
      @joebtt Месяц назад +4

      ​@@kladies3021 amen!! I wish Gohan would cry out and praying God talking and pouring out his heart to God and meet Jesus!! I believe our God can change and heal Gohan's heart!

    • @kladies3021
      @kladies3021 Месяц назад +4

      @@joebtt Yes, Jesus is definitely the answer!! Let's keep him and Cerose in prayer.

    • @ornellasigning124
      @ornellasigning124 Месяц назад

      Right I love it too can listen to that all day

  • @reallexYY
    @reallexYY Месяц назад +172

    As a day one viewer I would never be mad to have Gohan back... I'm glad he pulled his shit together and be there for your kids❤... It's nice to have him around for the kids! They need their father even if y'all not together!!!​

  • @denisewatkins3375
    @denisewatkins3375 Месяц назад +322

    In my opinion Gohan has GROWN UP A LOT! Whatever happens between the two of you isn’t our business. I am glad Gohan is in his children’s life! I pray it works out for the BEST for the BOTH of U! ❤️👏🏾👍🏾🙏🏾💯🍀🍀

  • @catherinejoseph5494
    @catherinejoseph5494 Месяц назад +585

    Girl !!!! No relationship is perfect. I love how you two are trying . CONTINUE

    • @mara4713
      @mara4713 Месяц назад +13

      EXACTLY!! Finally a normal person in the comments.

  • @aisuru6690
    @aisuru6690 Месяц назад +294

    I was crying with you Gohan 🥺 it’s ok, we all make mistakes, we are all only human, we are meant to grow from our mistakes 💕 Cerose is such a beautiful, strong, intelligent woman, it warms my heart to see you both becoming more vulnerable and moving in a positive direction together 🥹

  • @kimberlybrown-feay5902
    @kimberlybrown-feay5902 Месяц назад +173

    Gohan I am so freakin proud of you!!!! I know it had to be hard speaking about your traumas and struggles. The real fans of Jin & Juice support you also! 🙏🏽💛 Love you Cerose for sitting there and listening to his pain and being so supportive Momma Kim is praying for you both 😁🙏🏽💛

  • @호라이_Dive
    @호라이_Dive Месяц назад +119

    과거를 되돌릴순 없어요...그렇지만 그걸 계기로 나아질 수 있어요....악플이 많겠지만...시간이 필요해요...사람이 당장 바뀔수도 없고 바라지도 마요..ㅎㅎㅎ 서로 많이 대화하면서 표현하면서 살아가길 바래요 ^^ 내 아이들이 나와 같은 경험을 슬픔을 트라우마를 갖게 하지 말아요 .YOU CAN DO IT !! 고한씨 잘하고 있어요~~응원할께요 ^^

  • @janettemarshall-dowdy8682
    @janettemarshall-dowdy8682 Месяц назад +91

    I am so sorry Gohan and yes people can be so judgemental and they haven’t walked a day in your shoes!! I want you to know that yall have to do what’s best for you and your children!! You are not hated Gohan everyone makes mistakes so keep your head up and be a good dad for your boys!! Don’t let those negative comment bring you down!!

  • @Mariesimmer4
    @Mariesimmer4 Месяц назад +253

    Do whatever makes you, Gohan and the kids happy. We are rooting for y’all to succeed in life.❤

  • @WindowShopper22
    @WindowShopper22 Месяц назад +88

    👋🏽 Gohan, you have opened and poured your heart out. Most men can or will not do this. I’m so proud of you and excited about your future with your family. Your ability to articulate your words and your emotions are top tier. Continue to follow your heart because you are truly on the right path. Don’t be influenced by social media for the most part isn’t real, this is your life. (Both) Understand sometimes people want let go of YOUR past because it makes THEM feel better about their present. Everyone watching is not watching because they genuinely care, so don’t base your movements on how others may feel. You guys have a beautiful family and I hope you guys can work it out together as a couple. Gohan, you’ve manned up and all is forgiven. I see your growth and your willingness! God bless you young man!🙏❤️

    • @joebtt
      @joebtt Месяц назад +3

      Amen!!!❤

  • @SaladinL
    @SaladinL Месяц назад +93

    I got you, Gohan . I'm praying for you and your family. You doing good 🎉❤

  • @MissFinesseeLord
    @MissFinesseeLord Месяц назад +53

    Gohan made me cry😭we see you. from the time he came back (although i love Cerose down like she’s my friend) i’ve felt for him as well. i know from experience that sometimes the things people do to others or lack there of is because of things we ourselves never had to endure. sometimes it takes the hard hits to really see and appreciate what we have. NONE of us are perfect and we all have a story that defines us! i’m rooting for yall 🤍keeping going!

  • @hardworkingbum-o4k
    @hardworkingbum-o4k Месяц назад +166

    It hurts realizing that the reason why you guys parted is because of trauma from the past. It just makes sense, we all go through hardships in our lives. I pray that the both of you recieve love 10x more than what you had! With one another, or with someone else, you will be enamored. God bless and heal. ❤

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад +63

      for sure! believe it or not. Gohan and I don't have in depth conversations about all the things that happened. it's very surface level and kind of passive or blameshifty most of the time. so it was interesting to see him open up like that! god bless!

  • @rumoocl
    @rumoocl Месяц назад +27

    You're an incredible mother, wife, and woman. I'm honestly learning so much from your videos and life journey. Thank you for sharing such real and personal moments with us.

  • @suelee9778
    @suelee9778 Месяц назад +78

    Gohan made me cry man. He has grown so much. Cerose you are a gem.

  • @danigirl9069
    @danigirl9069 Месяц назад +165

    Your choices !!!!
    Forgiveness is key!!!!
    Love your whole statement.

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад +10

      thank you so much!

  • @vennessabaugh534
    @vennessabaugh534 Месяц назад +61

    Cerose, I’ve been a subscriber since you had 15k, and I still remember your first video. It’s incredible to see how far you've come, and I’m so proud of your journey. Your resilience is truly inspiring, and I’m here supporting you every step of the way.
    Gohan, I see your growth too. You both deserve all the peace and happiness you’ve worked so hard for.

  • @KyDarknight
    @KyDarknight Месяц назад +126

    Aye,girl!!! We got you! Gohan keep working on yourself. We are all human!

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад +7

      I know you do! love you! and thank you so much!!!

    • @TheDeviantMom
      @TheDeviantMom Месяц назад +8

      Both of you keep doing what you feel is best for your boys. When my husband and I were separated we stayed in the same home just stayed in separate rooms. I a lot of my friends questioned that and I lost a few friends, but my ride or die’s understood. Conveniently my bestie for life was renting our basement apartment while she and her hubby saved money to buy a house. On my husbands days off and the hours before he went to work, I’d be with her in her space while my husband had time with our kids. We made sure to remain friendly. For us, couples therapy helped us to get back together. Whatever your outcome as a couple is, keep doing what you both feel is best for your boys.

  • @paigeelise8396
    @paigeelise8396 Месяц назад +30

    Be patient with yourselves, be kind to yourselves. Watching you guys grow as individuals and as parents has been such a blessing, I wish you both and your beautiful family nothing but the absolute best. Cerose, you are a ROCKSTAR, your strength and ability to simply keep going is UNMATCHED and will NEVER go unnoticed. Gohan, don’t be letting these people get to you! Forgiveness is not for us, that belongs 100% to Cerose& your family. As long as you know you’re doing right by your children and their mother, the crap that comes out of the mouths of yappers are just words on a screen. We never stop growth and we never stop learning. Thank you both for continuing to share your very real lives with us ❤

  • @MayowaSensei
    @MayowaSensei Месяц назад +4

    Dang this video had me crying. Listen, Cerose, you were insanely honest and transparent in this video which we do not necessarily deserve but I can’t express how much it touched my heart. There of course is a part of me that feels protective of you even as an Internet friend but I’m also like trusting of your heart and instincts and of course I want the best for Gohan. Gohan crying just sort of broke me and I started crying too because there IS this intense genuine effort and as a totally uninvolved 3rd party simply watching you through a screen it’s crazy I got this emotional but it just means the feeling is all real. I truly want the best for you both and I love you both so much (dang I’m crying again) I think I also want the best for myself despite my own challenges I’ve been through where I’ve also been mistreated but it’s so important to be present to the good. Love you❤

  • @RelatableShayla
    @RelatableShayla Месяц назад +136

    Girl!!! ( And Gohan) I've always said, since day 1, you don't owe us anything!! Create the family dynamics that work for you and your babies. You definitely have things to work on. But you are a family, nonetheless. It may end up being something that people question, but you the right to navigate those waters. And I'll say it again, time...time...time. Time Heals and reveals. Love y'all!

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад +13

      love you!😍

    • @RelatableShayla
      @RelatableShayla Месяц назад +17

      @@jinju1998 Oh and Gohan, thank you for being so vulnerable with us. None of us are perfect. You just are giving through your personal development and dark knight of your soul, publicly. I'm excited to see your growth and Cerose as well.

  • @user-qb5tz2ci9y
    @user-qb5tz2ci9y Месяц назад +41

    고한씨 어린시절 결핍 세로즈 옆에서 채워나가면서 극복하고 아이들에겐 좋은아빠 되어주세요
    둘다 항상 응원합니다 ♡

  • @fishfish7070
    @fishfish7070 Месяц назад +31

    This was so beautiful and pure. I hope you both continue to work and grow as you have been doing. I know its not easy for either of you but it shows in the videos that you guys are trying y'alls best. 🌺
    P.S Cerose you been looking so good girl! And Gohan keep up the great work sir.

  • @Lucky_E82
    @Lucky_E82 Месяц назад +42

    The Cerose Takeover😅😅 I love you guys!! Forgiving takes strength 💪🏾 You got this Cerose! Gohan your amazing, Keep showing up for what’s yours ❤yaw!

  • @ralphydvincy365
    @ralphydvincy365 Месяц назад +25

    I am so proud of you seros. A lot of people put themselves first and the children are left to suffer. Such a powerful woman even at your age , you deserve the world. I really hope you guys can come to letter as an awsome team and do those boys justice even if you don’t get back together

  • @692_debbie3
    @692_debbie3 Месяц назад +15

    Gohan, Good job for willing to changes n want to change for the better. ur a good daddy hope u know that. And to the beautiful lady, thank u for sharing your love n working on forgiveness. You two r great people.

  • @elizabethlafountain5591
    @elizabethlafountain5591 Месяц назад +409

    I am not going to lie, but I cried during this video. You guys keep healing and allow God to do what he is doing. If God calls you two to be back together at some point in the future, that's cool, and those who love you guys will be there to support you.

    • @kladies3021
      @kladies3021 Месяц назад +19

      Sometimes people have a hiccup in their relationship and then they get back together and they come back stronger. Not in all cases but definitely in a relationship built upon relying on God.

  • @tabby3378
    @tabby3378 Месяц назад +7

    You said something very powerful...."From what went wrong to how we can all support positive change." It takes a lot to admit mistakes and move forward together. You are a great example of how co-parenting should be.

  • @lovepeoplealexander8596
    @lovepeoplealexander8596 Месяц назад +8

    You got me Gohan ! That truly was a man doing internal inventory! Good for you , because if you don’t acknowledge where you’ve been or even where you are in your thinking or feelings you won’t know where you want to go! You ..are .. moving.. forward young man ! You both went through this and both came out much stronger ! Keep growing you are not alone! Jesus has your back and is moving you into a much better future! And for what it’s worth this granny is praying you be very successsful in feeling whole, loved and family! Blessings 😊🤗

  • @Becca766
    @Becca766 Месяц назад +72

    Guys, take it easy on this man, he may not express himself in the way we all expect him to but allow him to be and let him make the mistakes we all make as human. Please be kind cuz if you keep pushing , pushing something, it eventually moves, meaning , if you keep bashing him over and over how are you supporting him spiritually, you are breaking him inside. He might not show it cuz his trying his best to make amends but it hurts. His taken full responsibility and never denied his past mistakes.
    So, everyone typing some negative comment please allow him to live his life and if they decide to reconcile than it is their life. Let them vest their lives to us and if we choose to watch and continue to support them then let’s do that 👋 HI, G&C, you both are living the life you show us, please, don’t let people’s comments influence your effort to better your life and of your family. Gohan, don’t give up on yourself. No one knows the life you lived and only you and GOD know the life you want now . Focus on that !!!!!!
    Everyday we experience different emotions.Let’s focus on now and tomorrow we live it to GOD 😊

  • @CiC3P0
    @CiC3P0 Месяц назад +3

    Gawd, I love this so much 😭 I’m bawling rn… thank you guys for being so vulnerable…. This is love. It’s not pretty, it’s not easy, but it’s humbling and I’m so amazed by your guys’ growth! You guys will raise great children!

  • @PrincessPuddles
    @PrincessPuddles Месяц назад +18

    You both look happier & healthier than ever just glowing inside and out.

  • @뿌뿌-w3t6o
    @뿌뿌-w3t6o Месяц назад +38

    변화하고 긍정적인 방향으로가는 모습좋아요
    앞으로도 이런 심도깊은 대화를 통해서
    서로가 많이 맞춰나갔으면 좋겠어요
    이런문제는 이 채널 주인장들에게만 일어나는
    문제들은 아니니까 사람들에게 이런 방향도 있다는걸
    알려주셨으면 좋겠네요

  • @tashenimakumbimonk
    @tashenimakumbimonk Месяц назад +6

    Listen Gohan, it is only a real man who can one through and really talk about his feelings and what he wants especially when it comes to family life, to break from the norm and put yourself up everyone to hear what your children need to hear and also accept the wrongs and what you have learnt. For me, you have shown your vulnerability and you have shown that you will fall but it is the way you get up and accept responsibility and decide to move towards the positive. It is not only about the two of you now, it is about those beautiful boys and your wife. I am happy you went to military and I am happy you did not grow wings but grew wisdom, compassion,real love and being humble.
    Continue communicating healthily lovingly and progressively. Remember women, we can talk like hell, but I see you, quiet, patient and agreeable and accepting and appreciating what your wife went through. The grass is not greener on the other side, always remember that. Harness what you have.
    CEROSE you have grown so much and oh what wisdom you have. Look after each other. I love you always. Those babies are the luckiest boys. Stay true to each other.

  • @kittywatchesyoutube
    @kittywatchesyoutube Месяц назад +10

    This was so beautiful I’m really proud of both of you and you are 100% right God has got you!

  • @Zsarar_zichi434
    @Zsarar_zichi434 Месяц назад +10

    Its okay to be vulnerable Gohan, thay shows growth . You are indeed maturing.

  • @elourdepierre7936
    @elourdepierre7936 Месяц назад +22

    I’m in tears seeing Cephur crying for his parents.😢😘🤗🥰❤️💕

  • @TheZebraTribe
    @TheZebraTribe Месяц назад +7

    You guys remind me of my husband and I. We got married at 19 and 20 and will be celebrating 21 years of marriage in a few months. Putting God in the Center of your marriage is key because marriage is difficult. I love witnessing both your growth. Keep being patient and loving with one another and always be willing to correct your mistakes for the betterment of yourselves and your relationship because there will always be ups and downs. I adore you both. ❤

  • @so-cb4df
    @so-cb4df Месяц назад +19

    누구나 실수는 할수 있는데 반복하지 않고 지금처럼 노력한다면 보기좋을것같아요. 살아가는길이 쉽기만한 사람은 없을거예요. 그래서 더의미가 있는거구요. 두분의 선택이 가족을 웃게만드는길이 될꺼라 믿어 의심치 않아요. 함들때도 많겠지만 마음으로 응원할께요.

  • @hyerieyoon6970
    @hyerieyoon6970 Месяц назад +18

    고한은 상처가 많아서 세롬과 세필한테 너무 큰 사랑을 느낀거에요. 고한이 무책임하거나 나쁜사람이 아니라 너무 어린나이에 느껴보지 못한 사랑을 느꼈고.. 느껴보지 못했던 사랑을 줘야한다는 것에 대한 부담도 있었던거 같아요.. 고한이 정말 사랑을 많이 느끼고 행복했으면 좋겠어요. 뉴욕에 사는 누나가.

  • @raquellesalvary8215
    @raquellesalvary8215 Месяц назад +3

    I love how heavily you are relying on God and allowing His word to bring you comfort: forgiving and choosing to do what is right and desired in the sight of God despite who says you look stupid or goofy will always lead to you being blessed. Move in obedience and see what God has in store. As you said no matter what happens in the future God got you and He will see you and the babies through it with joy and peace. I support your decision having experienced something similar in my own life. And even though I support you I will be the first to say my opinion really doesn’t matter nor does anyone else’s but God Himself.

  • @estherkang1634
    @estherkang1634 Месяц назад +8

    Oh my goodness, hugs Gohan! ❤❤ I also feel you two loved each other and like I said before, you guys were just kids. Give yourselves room to grow and forgive yourself for your mistakes, you are trying to make up for them and learn from them ❤ hang in there guys, it takes a lifetime to figure some things out but I definitely see the love between you both, whether it’s romantic or friendship or both it’s there. Love u guys ❤

  • @Kunstenaarus
    @Kunstenaarus Месяц назад +3

    Did NOT think I would’ve been sobbing watching this video. Wow. Gohan has really grown a lot and I think that’s really important to acknowledge. Let God lead you and guide you both to what’s right for your family. God bless ❤

  • @meanmouse
    @meanmouse Месяц назад +5

    I feel you Gohan… I connect with you when you talked about how lonely you felt in the states although you have your family here with Cerose and kids. I am like you. I left Korea for my husband and moved to the states, settled here, got a good job, started a family and all but always had this empty feeling inside that I was *alone* in this country. I missed my parents, my friends, and even the country back home. My husband really helped me fill that void with resilience and his love and I am doing well now. Hope you find a way to fill that in your own way. 잘 해쳐나갈거에요. You are a good person. You were a scared person before but you’ve changed a lot.

  • @prettygirlpandora
    @prettygirlpandora Месяц назад +2

    Gohan, even when I was upset with you. I still prayed for you. I could recognize you were/are incredibly young, struggling with your mental health, pressure to provide for a family, achieve your own goals, legal responsibilities in two countries, a wife & 2 small children in a foreign country. As someone who became a parent in their early 20's who has experienced mental health, PTSD & trauma I see similarities in us & I want to assure you that you can be redeemed. You can find redemption & come out on the other side. One day it happens & you don't even notice it, the darkness recedes & you learn to coexist with it & not let it consume you. You learn to accept & believe you deserve happiness & love & parts of your inner child start to heal & become whole. Life is extremely hard in itself, being a parent is hard, being married has rough spots & sometimes even the concept of being loved is hard. I am proud of you for preserving through the vicious comments. You didn't come out unscathed, but you made it through the other side to show up for your boys & that takes a lot of strength. Be diligent in prioritizing taking care of your mental & physical health.

  • @dripdrip08
    @dripdrip08 Месяц назад +11

    damn it's really hard to watch him cry man - he got me crying my skincare off along with him😭

  • @estherkang1634
    @estherkang1634 Месяц назад +14

    You all need to realize that these two were just kids themselves when they met and started having children. They are still trying to figure out life. Cirose, you have been a champ through everything but Gohan deserves forgiveness, they are trying to make it all work and I give you both credit for everything you are doing. Take the time to heal and grow, you are both doing a great job 👏 I don’t care what anybody says, you both deserve to live your life and that comes with making mistakes and learning from them. Keep up the positivity and loving your babies, all I see is live when I see your videos, every one needs to settle down and let you guys live ❤ thank you for sharing your lives with us!

  • @kimone99
    @kimone99 Месяц назад +5

    Cerose, forgiveness is truly divine, you are a great Mama.

  • @OA-sj9jt
    @OA-sj9jt Месяц назад +4

    가족이라는 틀안에서 점점 서로 성숙해져가는 모습이 보기 좋아요. 세상에 완벽한 사람은 없어요 누구나 실수를 하고 성장해 나가는거죠..둘다 아직 20대인데도 불구하고 상대방을 용서하고 이해하려는 마음이 너무나 아름답습니다.
    항상 영상 보면서 많은것들을 깨우치고 배우는것 같아요 고맙습니다

  • @avissmith4300
    @avissmith4300 Месяц назад +4

    Very authentic! It’s no ones business what your relationship is or isn’t! I pray you two figure it out for your family!! Do you, work together and most of all put God first and everything will be what it’s meant to be. I pray blessings to both you and your boys❤❤❤

  • @amandabynes5993
    @amandabynes5993 Месяц назад +5

    i can relate to you gohan. at the same time cerose you are such an amazing, strong, kind woman. i hope to have as much grace and forgiveness as you

  • @saraeltahir1419
    @saraeltahir1419 Месяц назад +5

    This made me cry waterfalls 😭😭😭. I feel so bad for Gohan and Cerose for what they had to go through. I believe the only way out is through enormous amount of love, understanding and forgiveness. Doesn't mean that what happened is justified but to allow yourselves to heal from it and move forward happily. ♥️
    Rooting for the two of you to have the best relationship ✨♥️

  • @deskclerk
    @deskclerk Месяц назад +1

    I am so incredibly impressed by your wisdom and ability to communicate it so eloquently! Family is blessed to have someone like you!

  • @chandravinning1933
    @chandravinning1933 Месяц назад +6

    God gives us grace on the daily so we have to give each other grace. God doesn't break families. Satan does, but God can repair what's broken. You two were very young and mistakes were made, but with time and age, we start to mature and acknowledge our past mistakes. Give everything to God and let him guide you. It's always about forgiveness. I love the progress that Gohan has made. Please continue to work on yourselves and allow God to lead.❤❤❤

  • @cynthialfreeman5156
    @cynthialfreeman5156 Месяц назад +8

    From a parent and single parent, you are doing great!

  • @iamkyanaa__1998
    @iamkyanaa__1998 Месяц назад +22

    Omg him crying made me cry stoppppp🥺🥺🥺😭

  • @Papaya_in
    @Papaya_in Месяц назад +32

    Regardless of what Gohan did,let’s be real no one is perfect and looking at him trying to be there for his kids,
    trying to a better person
    Is surely something
    commendable.
    Cerose i always loved her since day one and i wish nothing but happiness for her.💞

  • @ShawnReed-Blackwell
    @ShawnReed-Blackwell Месяц назад +4

    Good morning to you both. I love the fact Gohan is speaking his truth in front of the world of RUclips. Watching this video as he express his true feelings. the love and respect he has for you. I watched the video of him apologizing to you as well. I was heartbroken seeing you two split up, but you what they say, if it's meant to be, God will bring it back better then before. Congratulations to you both for finding your way back, and living your truth out loud. For those who like to see people fail, that's their own insecurities hiding behind their ugly words. No one is perfect, it doesn't exist. You made me cry watching you Gohan become emotional. I can see how much you love and adore her and your children. I'm so happy to see the two of you make it back to each other. No one else negative opinions matters at this point. What matters the most is you two who are willing to grow together and weather many more storms together for the better. While apart Gohan had to discover who he is, and what's next although that wasn't easy for either of you. While apart you two had to figure out how your situation would shape you as parents moving forward. FORGIVNESS is key. I'm so proud you Gohan, children learn what they lived. As a child what you live does shapes us, our character as a human, that's what you are HUMAN. You didn't have to get on RUclips and share anything about what happen between you two. The fact that you did knowing people will always judge no matter what you do or don't do shows strength, and great character of the man, and father you want to be, for their mom, and your two boys. Although this is still pretty heavy for you being vulnerable in front of so many people waiting to convict and judge. Again it shows your growth and accountability which a lot of people can learn from. You did good when it came down to the one you love, and have share children with. She supports you emotionally, and allowing you to feel safe in doing so. She's a amazing person, woman and mom as well. Your two boys when they become men will see this video and become more in love with the man you always been, their father. This is also a teaching moment for other couples, and men of your culture as well. Don't allow the haters on this platform dim your light. They can't, your light is forever bright. Stay forever blessed to you Gohan, the both of you, and your beautiful boys.

  • @dondeebb1379
    @dondeebb1379 Месяц назад +2

    We as a society have been told/taught that men should always be tough. It’s so hard for men to talk about mental health because they take it as a sign of weakness, but it’s not. It takes a real man to realize when he needs help or when yhey feel vulnerable. Nobody should ever feel ashamed, we need to speak more about this.
    In regards to the relationship of you two, I am glad you are both getting along and making it work for the kids and for yourselves. Everyone benefits when there is a happy home environment.

  • @LotusDolly
    @LotusDolly Месяц назад +3

    Gohan, I see your pain and effort. You're a good man who is also learning. Have peace having bared your soul. You will be alright. Proud of your efforts! Keep going. Stay balanced and just radiate love and your innate gifts.

  • @jayparnesto
    @jayparnesto Месяц назад +4

    I found this video very meaningful, wholesome, real yet very hopeful! Been watching yall for a hot minute and just appreciating this part of your season/journey. Love and praying for yall to have a Christ centered family relationship! God bless ❤

  • @HunnieDropsStudio
    @HunnieDropsStudio Месяц назад +2

    yall friendship that yall are cultivating is going to be the stepping stone to yall sons healthy look on relationships you doing a banging job.

  • @adinah615
    @adinah615 Месяц назад +2

    Gurl! 🙏🙌🙌🙌 YES 100%. Gohan, stay strong, and please keep up the excellent work for YOU! And remember that you have enough to do this to continue to be the best partner and father, which will only allow you to be the best version of yourself. NOW, dont get twisted. I WAS SO ANGRY at all you did to my sista, but you both are the master of your life, and I hope you both continue to work and grow together. And please keep GOD the center of your universe. OX to my little nephews..💙💙💚💗. I'll continue praying for all the best for today and your tomorrows.

  • @ajitsunade
    @ajitsunade Месяц назад +23

    ever since gohan has been back i havent been commenting anything, because at first i was feeling a way (on the behalf of cerose and the kids), but then i seen the growth he has done and how he’s working on himself to be there for the kids and to be co-parent with cerose. and i just think that’s beautiful, you gotta give props when it’s due. i know it’s not easy, we’re all human, but to see that y’all are trying that’s an amazing thing. i love it. y’all are blessed to overcome the issues and to gather the emotions and strength to co-exist with one another. i’m so happy that the kids get to have both of their parents in their lives. xoxox i love y’all always, ride or die periodt 🤍
    side note: i would watch cerose hold bible studies because i was feeling it !! can we make that a thing ?? god is good yall

  • @AfrocentrikQueen
    @AfrocentrikQueen Месяц назад +1

    It’s so beautiful seeing you both be vulnerable with your good, bad and ugly. We all make mistakes but first step to grow is admitting our shortcomings and doing better. Continue healing and doing what you can for your family. Glad Gohan now knows and sees the love you were able to give him and he’s allowing himself to feel and knows what love is. ❤all the best to you all.😊

  • @elizainesse5521
    @elizainesse5521 Месяц назад +1

    Damn never thought there would be a day I would cry at a video of Gohan because those were raw emotions and you can see that he’s truly trying. I just pray for yall to heal and do what is right for your babies. Whether it’s getting back together or just co parenting. As long as it’s for those precious babies. I hope yall use that love you once had for each other and be better versions of yourselves for your babies. ❤

  • @_bl00my
    @_bl00my Месяц назад +2

    After hearing Gohan really open up, I can understand how overwhelmed he was and that’s completely normal! If there’s one thing I learned about in my own relationships, it’s that communication is SO SO important 🥺 just talking about your struggles to another person you love and trust can take some of the weight off your shoulders and even strengthen the bond of the relationship

  • @Tabbie072
    @Tabbie072 Месяц назад +16

    I love you guys ... ❤❤ The fact that Gohan is trying to be someone better it says alot i love u too Cerose😢❤

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад +3

      love love love you!

  • @vip5hawol-deehirota
    @vip5hawol-deehirota Месяц назад +22

    we love you too, cerose ♡ !
    you really took me with the age drop 😭 time is a lie

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад +5

      RIGHT?! LIKE WHAT?! WE WERE JUST BABIES!!!

  • @Zsarar_zichi434
    @Zsarar_zichi434 Месяц назад +26

    I can relate with Gohan, coming from a home where my birthwasnt really celebrated, i stopped bothering and dont even mention my birthdays, it passes like any other normal day to me and I've got used to it.

    • @girlwiththemagicpen
      @girlwiththemagicpen Месяц назад +2

      Your birth was not a "normal" day. Your very existence is wonderful. Even if no one else celebrates you, celebrate yourself. You are part of something so much greater than you know. Keep shining 🌟

  • @susannewhite6817
    @susannewhite6817 Месяц назад +4

    Forgiveness takes a strong person to let go of bitterness. If both of you are willing to work on your relationship, it's between you all and God. Those two precious boys love their daddy, so find the fit that makes your unit a family

  • @michellev4439
    @michellev4439 Месяц назад +3

    Cerose looks amazing!! She is beautiful and glowing

  • @johnnyjoestar7143
    @johnnyjoestar7143 Месяц назад +36

    I'm crying with Gohan, I know how it feels to have life paralyse you and block you from the good things. I'm always running from the good, I go places I know will hurt others and myself. I don't know why and I hope to find the answer too

  • @prithachakrabortyy
    @prithachakrabortyy Месяц назад +6

    have been following for quite a while. seeing y'all happy makes my day. all the warmth and light to youuu❤

  • @athomewithvicky
    @athomewithvicky Месяц назад +2

    Sending a big sister hug to Gohan❤ I’m a reck crying with you this was very powerful testimony. On God I’m rooting for you guys may the Lord continue to Bless you guys ❤️🙏🏾

  • @christinamassey5850
    @christinamassey5850 Месяц назад +3

    I really needed this today so much is going on in my life right now but watching this is shedding light

  • @ATLDARKCHOCOLATE
    @ATLDARKCHOCOLATE Месяц назад +2

    OMG, Gohan is really showing growth and emotion and vulnerability. I literally am crying. You hang in there Gohan. I believe in you.❤ Keep praying and pushing and you two and the handsome boys will live the life meant for you.

  • @PinkLadyNews
    @PinkLadyNews Месяц назад +22

    I like that Gohan is back.

  • @janetmoore3003
    @janetmoore3003 Месяц назад +4

    You go Girl!! You and Gohan please continue to live your best lives!!

  • @jaybird1301
    @jaybird1301 Месяц назад +3

    Gohan so proud of you sir, we all make mistakes and when we realize what’s important is family. Then we’re able to be better. Putting your children and their mom first is what’s up. Yall got this.

  • @actonic124
    @actonic124 Месяц назад +6

    Did I full out bawl with gohan.. yes I did. I pray for both your healing and strength

  • @shainabolden1541
    @shainabolden1541 Месяц назад +1

    Girl I'm actually so proud of you. I literally said at the beginning of the video, this is someone who has found Christ (just from the way you spoke about forgiveness) and lo and behold you started breaking out scripture. I was like yasss - you seem to be in such a better place. God bless ya'll!

  • @Jin-cr2zw
    @Jin-cr2zw Месяц назад +28

    초창기 때부터 영상을 봐왔지만 댓글은 처음 달아봐요. 영상 보고 고한님한테 공감이랑 이입이 돼서 눈물이 나왔네요.. 우리 모두 인간이기 때문에 잘못과 실수를 저지를 수 있다고 생각해요. 물론 과거는 없던 일이 될 수 없지만, 그럼에도 앞으로 어떻게 하느냐가 중요하다고 봅니다. 세로즈님이 고한님을 용서하고 더 나은 미래를 선택하신거에 대단함과 현명함을 느꼈습니다. 앞으로 두분께서 서로의 부족함을 채워주면서 같이 성장하시면 좋을 거 같아요. 그러면 자연스레 아이들도 많은 것을 느낄거 같습니다:) 응원합니다!

  • @dawnmitchem1613
    @dawnmitchem1613 Месяц назад +5

    Love you guys. Hang tough stay strong in the Lord and love conquers all!!

  • @brandiarmstrong4015
    @brandiarmstrong4015 Месяц назад +3

    Girl, you and Gohan are TEACHING the world how to heal in a slow, steady, and healthy way!! Too many children coming from broken homes these days. If healing and building a bridge back together is a possibility, then who are we (those on the outside looking in) to judge? We all make mistakes, and it is the capacity to mature, heal, and move on from that that often strengthens a relationship. I pray for your family, and I am happy to see the change in both of you. Your little babies are watching, too.
    On a personal note, coming from a woman who was betrayed by her own husband, I will tell you that we were able to build a bridge back to each other. It took time, love, a lot of forgiveness and communication. It wasn't easy, there were tons of people who had something to say about it, but we did what was best for us and our family. In the end, you and Gohan do what is best for yours. Together or apart, I pray blessings upon blessings over you, Gohan, and the boys. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @rbenitez6140
    @rbenitez6140 Месяц назад +4

    I am so Happy you said that Cerose 😁! You both are better together !!! I raised my daughters by myself. Now that my girls are grown he is around and I am pissed !! He wasn't around when I was working he shared no responsibly..
    I was telling my daughter that I like watching family dynamics with both parents. I love seeing your together than apart.
    You are very mature and intelligent Cerose. GOD BLESS YOU AND THE FAMILY!!!!ONLY THE BEST SUCCESS!!!😍❤

  • @0BlueZephyr0
    @0BlueZephyr0 Месяц назад +9

    Honestly, I can't speak for everyone else, but all I cared about was that you were OK, Cerose. It’s not my life. I loved you both so much, your content, your family, everything. Your videos together were hilarious and refreshing.
    The things that Gohan did was layered. What he did to you and the children, of course. But in addition to that, he played into harmful stereotypes against black women, along with his brother.
    That being said, everyone deserves a second chance to make up for past mistakes. Not a second chance at being back with you, but at being a great father.
    I really felt Gohan's pain and regret. You're both still young, and should be given grace to grow. So, I will work on fixing my resentment towards him.
    Sending you both love, and uber love to the boys. Thank you for caring about how we feel, and seeing how we as a community love you and will always ride for you. Our feelings don't matter in the equation, but you still considered us.
    Love you both. 💙

  • @natashalyder
    @natashalyder Месяц назад +4

    He made me cry I felt him it's ok love everyone makes bad decisions forgive yourself and move on everyone deserves to be happy ❤❤❤😊

  • @anab6057
    @anab6057 Месяц назад +65

    Girl F them ppl actually mad abt Gohan coming back into his kids lives. That's a blessing and they're just haters at this point
    I been a silent watcher for years. I was upset when everything happened and I understand the annoyance but after watching the last few vids i can see that there's genuine effort from him!❤ i love it yall.

  • @hirutnegash5819
    @hirutnegash5819 Месяц назад +1

    Stay together
    You guys are great. I see maturity and humbleness on Gohan and I am so proud of him as very old person. Relationships have up and downs , it is sometimes struggle to fix but if you mean it it its worth trying. You mama are strong woman keep it up . I root for you baby girl. ❤

  • @speakingheaven
    @speakingheaven Месяц назад +8

    Sharing “the real Jin &Juice” with us, I get it, but keep some stuff for just the two of you which makes your bond even more cohesive. Idea- what do your moms think about you two working on yourselves for the boys OR do they want to stay out of it?🙏🏽 peace and♥️love.

  • @WheezusChrist
    @WheezusChrist Месяц назад +10

    Honestly, live your lives. If you believe that this is the right choice for you, go for it. I genuinely hope that things turn out well! 🙏❤️

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад

      thank you! love you!

  • @elainekim1506
    @elainekim1506 Месяц назад +3

    고한이 한층 더 자란(?)것같네요. 아이가 성장하며 부모도 성장하는법이죠.. 어린시절 누구나 잘못도 하고 되돌릴수없을 것같은 실수도 하지만 진정한 용기는 그것들을 피하지않고 마주하고 반성하고 반추하며 앞으로 나아가는일이라고 생각합니다. 진앤주스가 아이를 하나씩 얻고 가정을 만들어가는 모든과정을 함께했는데 고한의 마음까지 옅본것같은건 오늘이 처음인것같네요. 지금의 모습을 응원해요 두분!

  • @onka3895
    @onka3895 Месяц назад +15

    People are just nosey... I am too.😂 But I know how to care and respect your decisions at the same time.
    Co-parenting is a great option and shows your maturity.
    It's ok to tell your "supporters" when they are completely out of line. Just because you share your life with us doesn't mean the frustration of random viewers is appropriate or valid. They're not in your shoes. I'm rooting for you and I'm patiently waiting for more music. 🎶 💜 😉
    Btw, I'm sorry for your loss.

    • @jinju1998
      @jinju1998  Месяц назад +4

      HELLO!!! me too! im nosey asl!!! I would be able to, but there's not a lot I can disagree with! it's true and I feel like I would be giving my friend the same advice that I see on here! so I get it! it's not easy for me to be in this situation so I can only imagine how hard it must be for people to watch!
      okkaaay! music is what you want? music you shall get!
      thank you so much!!! I appreciate you!

  • @demigreen6495
    @demigreen6495 Месяц назад +2

    I love Gohan ❤ ppl make mistakes and you can see he’s grown so much from the military. Family life is complicated but as long as you both put ur children first it’ll at work out ☀️😌

  • @fabtastic8988
    @fabtastic8988 Месяц назад +2

    Im rooting for what is best for you guys. Thanks for sharing your family. Continued blessings to you, your family and everyone