GIRL TALK: 5 SIGNS THAT YOUR FRIENDS ARE FAKE AND TOXIC! MUST WATCH

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  • @jasxaigner
    @jasxaigner  4 года назад +12

    Have y’all ever had to cut off a “friend”? 🥴 If so, WHY? We are all ears 👂🏽

    • @brittanyscruggs3720
      @brittanyscruggs3720 4 года назад +2

      I have a friend she’s my best friend and yeah that fourth one describes her perfectly she doesn’t force me to do anything but it’s always a hype vibe but I truly love her it’s just too much all the time

    • @dnechellellc4459
      @dnechellellc4459 4 года назад +2

      Last year I let a “friend “move in my home with me my husband and my son. Her energy was so toxic and she had a jealous spirit. I didn’t listen to my intuition the day I picked her up from the train station. Within 3 weeks of her being here I had lost 3 dance contracts and a modeling contract because of her. She would sit outside my room door while me and my hubby fuck and giggle like a petty child or make comments like “ooh I wish that was me” Me and my husband was getting into it all the time cuz of her and we ain’t that couple!! I even offered her a piece of my business.This caused me so much stress and depression Because I tried everything to uplift her while she did slick, passive shit to tear me down. I finally stopped trying to pacify the situation and gave her an eviction notice. I got another “friend” who I ONLY hear from when it’s some drama!! She has NEVER supported any of my business ventures! She has never came to any performance or fashion show I’ve ever done and we’ve been friends for over 12 years. I love her and I’ve put distance between us but she’s used to popping in and out on me when it’s convenient for her. I know I need to end this cycle but im her kids God Mom and I know she’s been through a lot so it’s guilt and the love I have for her that’s been preventing me from cutting her off.😩. My brother and sister, just TOXIC ASF!! But that’s my blood and it’s been tough letting them go.

    • @ciara9930
      @ciara9930 4 года назад

      Hi i ordered off your other video the thing you were selling and it charged my account but didn't give me any information

    • @julianacheriza1575
      @julianacheriza1575 3 года назад +1

      @@dnechellellc4459 never let a friend move in with you

  • @emmarhondawilson7071
    @emmarhondawilson7071 4 года назад +17

    Was married to a hater. Husbands can be jealous too ladies!! Watch out for that. Also watch out for girls who always want to hang out with you and your man. That is their way of sliding in under the radar. Be aware and stay woke.

  • @stacyannjtv
    @stacyannjtv 4 года назад +29

    My ex bestfriend of 15 years was very envious. Once I cut her off my life started to glow hunny God is good hunny. We have mutual friends and every time I enter the room her energy shifts; Why do I have that much power over you to shift your mood.

    • @snazzey14
      @snazzey14 4 года назад +4

      Yes mam! He used to always compare how much money I got to his bank...and how nice my car was.... how nice my house was. Once I cut him out I lost 20lb and my spirit is so much lighter!!!!

    • @stacyannjtv
      @stacyannjtv 4 года назад +1

      Pinknikki damn jealous men are even worst I’m so happy for you congratulations 🥳 it feel amazing doesn’t it !?

    • @AmaLovelyy
      @AmaLovelyy 4 года назад +2

      TRUST ME ... WE JUST CUT THEM OFF BABE ....

    • @snazzey14
      @snazzey14 4 года назад +2

      Stacyann J TV sis yes! I’m reaching a new level of success and for the first time in a long time I don’t have to question if everyone around me is actually happy for me. Lol peace be hitting way different!❤️😩

    • @stacyannjtv
      @stacyannjtv 4 года назад +1

      Pinknikki Amen to that positive vibes only 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @liz01castm31
    @liz01castm31 4 года назад +12

    Girl I fell like I have no friends every time I want to start a friendship I notice all the funny shit and have cut it off..I feel lonely but I don't want the problem it like everyone just want to use me

    • @divinecocoon6534
      @divinecocoon6534 4 года назад +1

      Empathe issues lol...you're not alone. Just be grateful you can feel the energy

    • @Laurittta2014
      @Laurittta2014 4 года назад

      Same sis same I only have like 3 friends

  • @mauiclav1803
    @mauiclav1803 4 года назад +14

    Sis... cut it cut it cut it! I don’t play now my whole mindset and my life has been changed because of bad friends!! I’m able to pick up bad energy quick the length of friendships don’t matter! Periodt!

  • @likklebaby5854
    @likklebaby5854 4 года назад +4

    lol and having a man jealous of you is an absolute no go. I didn't think it was possible, until i went through [and am still going through it].Distance is key! Jealousy is a unpredictable and chaotic energy. *Protect yourselves*

  • @dnechellellc4459
    @dnechellellc4459 4 года назад +4

    💯💯💯💯 It’s tough cutting off the ones you love but you have to choose yourself first! Everything you said was on point! I’m STILL dealing with the process of identifying and cutting off TOXIC friends/Family! It got a easier once I started to heal myself and recognize the trauma bonds I had with people and then I realized outside of that trauma bond I didn’t really like who they were as a person and no longer wanted anything to do with em🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @iamlacyg
    @iamlacyg 4 года назад +5

    Yesss. I cut many off. Early twenties I was going through it. No reason to hate. Never understood but I stayed distance myself. I can feel peace now and find myself again.

  • @pamcolechadwell1302
    @pamcolechadwell1302 4 года назад +2

    You are so right, I'm 54 yrs old and this is all right. 30 yrs ago my best friend was the sweetest woman ever but when we would go out she would drink .she was a mean drunk. Here I really don't drink maybe I was a one drink sipper. anyway, she was so mean and loud just embarrassing to be out with. I quit my job and we parted ways. All that was uncalled for period. She would apologize over and over she knew what she had done. I mean I have been drunk I never was like her. So people like that know they're being embarrassing. They can stop if they wanna.

  • @mauiclav1803
    @mauiclav1803 4 года назад +7

    The holographic nails and shoes in the background okay now 😍😍

  • @theearkandcovenantofbeauty4685
    @theearkandcovenantofbeauty4685 4 года назад +6

    Yes, dead weight jealous and envious got to go !! I tell you people that all the time hunni ! Be it family or Naw.

  • @nalugyathomas2645
    @nalugyathomas2645 4 года назад +4

    U are a god sent cause lord knows I needed to see this video, I knew it had to be done but u just motivated me to cut off some people offffffff

  • @AmaLovelyy
    @AmaLovelyy 4 года назад +1

    I AM 100% AGREEING ..... BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN REMOVING PEOPLE LEFT RIGHT AND CENTRE ....

  • @kimoramicheal8353
    @kimoramicheal8353 4 года назад +3

    I only want Boss Baes rocking with me on my team! 💪🏽

  • @ndodier
    @ndodier 3 года назад +1

    I had a person who I considered my best friend we had our ups and down, but when I got engaged it was my wake up call. I was excited and told my “best friend” the news and and the first thing she said was not omg gurl congratulations or let me know if I can help... the first thing she said was please don’t ask me to help with you the planning but I’ll come to the wedding. Call me petty but I would not do that if the roles were divorce.

  • @Younique2011
    @Younique2011 4 года назад +1

    I congratulated my friend on her success. She kept talking about what she doing and how much money she spending on what she doing...i felt like she was rubbing her success in my face. I was down and out. Needing a job. Mind u ive been down the job road with her more than once. She would have me quit a job and to work somewhere with her to car pool. Then she would quit that job and leave me hanging and make promises to me and change up. How about when i encouraged her or asked her to ask me for my input on her business, she would flake up like she didnt want my input. If im happy 4 my friend and showing her im there 4 her and she dismiss me

    • @Laurittta2014
      @Laurittta2014 4 года назад

      Aww sorry babes she is not a friend your friends don’t use you you will feel happy when you are doing awesome.

  • @therealkoolaidandkale
    @therealkoolaidandkale 3 года назад

    I would also say a "friend" who doesn't wanna help you grow, especially if they have the knowledge on something you're trying to achieve. Some people are quick to call everyone their friend. I categorize folks into 3 general groups: real friends, acquaintances/ associates and people I'm just cool with. Sometimes we try to force a square peg into a round hole giving somebody from category 'c' benefits and expectations of somebody in category 'a'.

  • @thenuancequeen
    @thenuancequeen 4 года назад +4

    What do you do if you have a friend that copies your every move, you post a picture she post something similar you get a hairstyle, the next day they got the same style you post your man next thing she do is post her man and sis it ain’t no coincidence like she’s literally copying you please tell me am I tripping or what

    • @lashay9768
      @lashay9768 4 года назад +7

      She’s in secret competition with you . Cut her off that is obsessed with you

    • @thenuancequeen
      @thenuancequeen 4 года назад

      Thank you!

  • @amournikaa3887
    @amournikaa3887 4 года назад +1

    Yes. Thought I Was Going Crazy 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @sabiakhatun3446
    @sabiakhatun3446 3 года назад

    I really enjoyed this video. Everything you mentioned was appsalutly true & it brought back experiences of how people can be so negative & toxic.
    Life is to short to be dealing with those low lifes. ❤

  • @chloet.3458
    @chloet.3458 4 года назад

    Girl. So in 2017 was the year i cut off all toxic friends. Baby, its not worth it. Currently working on getting rid of toxic family. Yes i cut off my mother, a sister, a brother, moms family, dad's family. They aint shit. Me and,My kids and my businesses are my life.. My kids are my cheerleaders and #1fans. U are who u hang around. Fine business minded ppl like u who have the same goals and determination as you.

  • @msjayyb
    @msjayyb 4 года назад +2

    Gurl!! This is so REAL!!

  • @theearkandcovenantofbeauty4685
    @theearkandcovenantofbeauty4685 4 года назад +2

    You are one of my favorite/top RUclips Boss Bae sis !! If you say it I know it's gold sis for real 💯

  • @mydebby2hot
    @mydebby2hot 4 года назад +2

    U r on the 💰💰

  • @naisulalekuye6912
    @naisulalekuye6912 4 года назад +2

    You are so beautiful love from kenya 🇰🇪

  • @justoneonly2254
    @justoneonly2254 4 года назад +1

    Damn you hit the nail on all youger years of friends with nothing females...I wish I would've paid attention back then...thank God for new days

  • @gypsytheepolequeenshow
    @gypsytheepolequeenshow 3 года назад

    Yes sis I felt this. I am new to RUclips and you motivate me even more with my YT channel.

  • @theearkandcovenantofbeauty4685
    @theearkandcovenantofbeauty4685 4 года назад +1

    You are on point with this chile !!!

  • @18sweethang
    @18sweethang 4 года назад +1

    Can you do a story time on the people you know who got killed over jealously?... that ought to be interesting 🤔

  • @bettieharris3999
    @bettieharris3999 4 года назад +1

    You are so right young lady!!!

  • @Thatfinegirldorcey
    @Thatfinegirldorcey 4 года назад

    Yes number 3 , and they outta my life for Good !! Can’t trust no one. ✌🏽✌🏽

  • @TheFashionWhisperer
    @TheFashionWhisperer 4 года назад +1

    Girl you is glowing

  • @goratamlalazi5831
    @goratamlalazi5831 4 года назад

    Jasx Aigner is like the Big Sis I never ever had. God bless you more Bossss Baaaaeee 💕💕💕

  • @Babyface_bree
    @Babyface_bree 3 года назад +1

    New subscriber 😙

  • @stress2wealth
    @stress2wealth 3 года назад

    Hmmm now I have to do a purge. I already see I'm going to be with no friends and probably no family. I'll be alright but it's necessary

  • @julianacheriza1575
    @julianacheriza1575 3 года назад

    Also if someone says you think your better than me and you know for a fact you didn’t brag or show off or do anything that shows that your better than them RUN 🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 because that right there shows their jealous of you and that what they are saying is I think your better than me

  • @mydebby2hot
    @mydebby2hot 4 года назад +1

    So they don't never smile and u always smile

  • @kimoramicheal8353
    @kimoramicheal8353 4 года назад

    Miami trip is litty 🔥

  • @iriefari.2427
    @iriefari.2427 4 года назад

    This year alone I cut off two friends .. one because of jealousy as in she literally told me about posting my food and job and that she didn’t like my bf because he take up my time and I take long to respond to her messages .. the second is because she always comes with drama it literally surrounds her and she feeds off of it and that is too much for me and my peaceful life

  • @jalissalabria8576
    @jalissalabria8576 4 года назад +1

    I love this ♥️

  • @mydebby2hot
    @mydebby2hot 4 года назад +2

    She don't answer her call and het mad went i don't answer my phone I just look

  • @aheartolove
    @aheartolove 3 года назад +1

    🎯

  • @mydebby2hot
    @mydebby2hot 4 года назад +2

    It be ur so call friend

  • @QueenMarre
    @QueenMarre 4 года назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @anniehutchiexo
    @anniehutchiexo 4 года назад +1

    Yesss

  • @kimoramicheal8353
    @kimoramicheal8353 4 года назад +1

    Hey Jasx! I sent you an email the first day you opened your Academy. 😊 Looking for to that reply Sis!

    • @jasxaigner
      @jasxaigner  4 года назад +1

      My team handles the customer service emails. If you haven’t received a response yet, please resend.

  • @mydebby2hot
    @mydebby2hot 4 года назад

    Tel them no dice

  • @mydebby2hot
    @mydebby2hot 4 года назад

    For real 😁😎

  • @mydebby2hot
    @mydebby2hot 4 года назад

    For real 😁😃