GIRL CHAT VAULT: Dressing Up as Your Plan B Job Choice

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @QueenEra33
    @QueenEra33 5 лет назад +660

    “Be an expert at something”, Adrienne you are correct

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 5 лет назад +6

      Exactly

    • @user-si6gs3ne8l
      @user-si6gs3ne8l 5 лет назад +4

      yeah and i love that she gave that perspective since she was succesful in the entertainment industry

    • @alaasusername
      @alaasusername 5 лет назад +5

      People who call her negative are annoying, she’s just down to earth

    • @thetashway1876
      @thetashway1876 Год назад

      Living on Adrienne statement

  • @zainababubakar7242
    @zainababubakar7242 5 лет назад +462

    “Have something to to fall back on” what Adrienne was saying ! That’s not hard to understand 😂

    • @LGSN96
      @LGSN96 5 лет назад +5

      She should have explained it better tbh

    • @fanfictionfanatic4637
      @fanfictionfanatic4637 4 года назад +18

      adrienne and Tamera both were making sense, have something to fall back on

  • @belfari9775
    @belfari9775 5 лет назад +585

    Trying to go against what Adrienne was saying like they didn’t know wtf she was talking about. You should always have a plan B even the ladies sitting at the table have side hustles aka a plan B 🙄

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 5 лет назад +3

      Exactly

    • @kP-ii1lb
      @kP-ii1lb 5 лет назад +10

      I'm so sorry, I've been watching the real for 3 years now and adrienne's delivery doesn't hit a lot of the times. Like I literally wait until someone else on the panel clarify's for her so I can understand point she's trying to get across.

    • @kP-ii1lb
      @kP-ii1lb 5 лет назад +11

      Also I kinda have to agree with Tamara that "don't judge people who don't have a plan B don't judge people who do have one"

    • @belfari9775
      @belfari9775 5 лет назад +11

      k P You’re so right! But On this topic, I feel that what she’s saying isn’t hard to understand at all. I would absolutely want my children to go after their dreams but I would also want them to be realistic. You have to eat In the meantime. Nothing wrong with having a plan b.

    • @belfari9775
      @belfari9775 5 лет назад +1

      k P Absolutely!

  • @kwilliams6707
    @kwilliams6707 5 лет назад +749

    All the kids living their dream 80% will not be successful. For every Will Smith there are 5 million Won't Smiths. Adrienne is the only one making sense.

    • @ltd8461
      @ltd8461 5 лет назад +96

      K Williams “won’t smith” 💀

    • @LGSN96
      @LGSN96 5 лет назад +21

      Doesn't mean you give up one what you really want. The chances might be small, but that doesn't mean they can't do it. That kid might be that next one. Yes, have a back up plan, but for the love of God, *dream* big. I'm with Jeannie 1000%

    • @sweetrisse
      @sweetrisse 5 лет назад +12

      It's about allowing kids to dream and encouraging them to discover their purpose. That creates greatness.

    • @lisakaye3919
      @lisakaye3919 5 лет назад +11

      EXACTLY.... what’s wrong with being a teacher, nurse, doctor, or lawyer!! Everyone is not gonna be beyonce, cardi b, lebron james! Always have a plan b

    • @eveevolution1607
      @eveevolution1607 5 лет назад +3

      Let’s not place your perception on others! For every basic their are 10x doing greatness! For every doubter their our 20% who believe in self. Maybe if we would stopped being raised by mothers who held your mind frame more would live to their potential! I feel sorry for your children and most of all I pity you! With that self talk and belief system it’s no wonder you sit at the bottom! Please rise above this low mentality she is oh so boring and basic it no wonder nothing spectacular has happened within her own existence! We are what we believe ourselves to be do not be like this common commentator please!

  • @PennyParkerTV
    @PennyParkerTV 5 лет назад +332

    I agree with Adrienne. God, I WISH I had some doubt that I wouldn’t be an actress because I put all my eggs in that basket and I am suffering now.. I never went to college and at 30 I have to start all over again! Listen to your parents! You have your whole life to live out a dream like being an actor. Go to school and you’ll be able to use those skills in your craft later. ♥️ Don’t want anyone experiencing what I am now. ♥️

    • @anneyoum4063
      @anneyoum4063 5 лет назад +12

      Penny Parker I hope you’re in a better place able to pursue acting. I decided to get two degrees bc my parents said I had to and I am grateful bc I am now in a better place to be able to afford all the things needed to be an actor! See you on the big screen 🎭

    • @PennyParkerTV
      @PennyParkerTV 5 лет назад +4

      Anne Youm so awesome girl! Good for you!! Let me know when your first movie comes out, I wanna make sure to support you! All the best! ♥️

    • @anneyoum4063
      @anneyoum4063 5 лет назад +2

      Penny Parker Thank you 😁❣️Feel free to follow me on Twitter @ActorAnneSY. I’m following you 🤩

    • @golayla69
      @golayla69 5 лет назад +2

      You will be okay you have life skills and you will get a career.

    • @hexmaniacgabby5160
      @hexmaniacgabby5160 4 года назад +2

      I feel this I made the same mistake you can't chase your dreams with no skills or money

  • @namiahajarah3473
    @namiahajarah3473 5 лет назад +200

    Loni what are you saying !!! Adrienne you are so right... like you gotta earn money.. then you can pursue your dream

  • @BATOOLESK
    @BATOOLESK 5 лет назад +90

    adrienne means A LIFE SKILL not ENTERTAINMENT skill , iam with u adrienne

  • @BaileyBlurbs
    @BaileyBlurbs 5 лет назад +367

    I’m 26 and I still don’t know what I wanna do sheesh. Let them kids be kids and dream!!

    • @nolor8397
      @nolor8397 5 лет назад +17

      I'm also 26 and I want to be a full-time RUclipsr

    • @kamicam2988
      @kamicam2988 5 лет назад +32

      I'm turning 31 in a cpl weeks and still clueless as to what I wanna be when I grow up. 😂 Don't worry it's not unusual

    • @BK-se6yh
      @BK-se6yh 5 лет назад +24

      Same I’m 31 now had multiple careers and I just now have realized I dont want to work in health care... which was something that was pushed in my my whole life!! I wanna be a baker lol

    • @youheartmel
      @youheartmel 5 лет назад +14

      I’m 28 and in dental but I hate it. 😫 I just want to write

    • @BK-se6yh
      @BK-se6yh 5 лет назад +8

      Melissa T get it girl!! You write your heart out! I love writing as well but growing up I have worked in restaurants until I landed a job at the hospital and I just remember the good old times I had in the kitchen. I would like a cafe/sandwich shop but focused more on baked goods

  • @Hey-Mr.DJ_PlayThatSong
    @Hey-Mr.DJ_PlayThatSong 5 лет назад +142

    Adrienne is fine, she’s just saying go to school so you don’t fall on your face.

  • @reneeramoleta6262
    @reneeramoleta6262 5 лет назад +160

    I’m with Adrienne on this one

  • @melilara4194
    @melilara4194 5 лет назад +54

    Adrienne is right! And Tameras mother needs to right a parenting book she raise happy, beautiful,smart, God fearing men and woman! And I need this for my children!

  • @raestay7530
    @raestay7530 5 лет назад +151

    I am currently going to school to teach then during summers I'm going to work on my cake skills to open my own bakery:)

    • @Houzaimati
      @Houzaimati 5 лет назад +6

      Rae Stay you go girl ! Wish you the best

    • @melilara4194
      @melilara4194 5 лет назад +3

      That's awesome! I wish you the best of luck!

    • @amandakaren6379
      @amandakaren6379 4 года назад

      yay... u hav our support

  • @06050010631
    @06050010631 5 лет назад +271

    Imagine one day they upload a Girl Chat Vault with Tamar because they start to run out of older videos 😂

    • @Houzaimati
      @Houzaimati 5 лет назад +6

      Cacophonous 11 you just killed me

    • @blackbeauty5676
      @blackbeauty5676 5 лет назад +6

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cwchris_
      @cwchris_ 4 года назад +3

      I almost feel like they waited to start posting these until they could have a steady supply without her 😭😭

    • @mrexecutive
      @mrexecutive 2 года назад +6

      You predicted the future 😂💀

  • @alormz8738
    @alormz8738 5 лет назад +70

    Yes ,glamorize beeing a doctor or a nurse or a educator ..lets glamorize careers that will show us so many things...There is more to life than TV and IG.

  • @kendall452
    @kendall452 5 лет назад +111

    They never said to dress up as role models. I agree with Adrienne and also it’s easy to put a jersey on and dress up. The school just wants them to think about careers they just gave a bad explanation.

  • @Indraparadise
    @Indraparadise 5 лет назад +49

    I agree with Adrienne. It's good to have dreams but you have to be realistic about it. Not everyone is going to become huge like the people they mentionned. These people became who they are because, along with the determination, the belief, the talent, the hard work, they also had the good timing, the universe had those plans for them. So, it's better to be practical. I love photography and wanted to become one but the truth is that is really hard to make photography as your main profession. No matter how good you are. So, i work on that as a passion and I also do studies in law on the side. You need to have more than one dream. I know a girl who wanted to be a succeful model. She worked as model but also worked in hotel management as a plan b. At some point, the modeling world required that she does a certain things (compromise) if she wanted to work with BIG fashion designers. She was not comfortable with that so she continued her way in hotel managment.

    • @alaasusername
      @alaasusername 5 лет назад +1

      I 100% get you on that, I would have become a photographer but now I’m an interior decor student instead. Funny enough I have the highest photo grade in the college [98%] and profs always ask me why I didn’t choose it as a main profession

    • @Indraparadise
      @Indraparadise 5 лет назад +1

      @@alaasusername I was told the same at an internship in a tourism office but it's too risky. Unfortunately, one can't make a living on photography. That's why one has to hustle. I think no parents should tell their kids this unrealistic idea that you can be anything you want. It's dangerous

  • @Msladyrae92
    @Msladyrae92 5 лет назад +143

    Come one Loni , you know what Adrienne was saying 🙄nothing wrong with dreaming but if you’re trying to be a Star but don’t have star power then what are you going to do?
    even the brightest of stars need a plan b , plan b doesn’t always mean college. Like Adrienne was saying “ a skill-set” . Go to a trade school and get that under your belt. I’m sorry but there’s nothing wrong with getting an education in an capacity. No one can ever take that from you.

    • @Honeyyy.b_
      @Honeyyy.b_ 5 лет назад +8

      literally what I said. if she would've let her finished talking she would've known or understood

    • @OrdinaryAviator
      @OrdinaryAviator 5 лет назад +3

      Agreed but then again Loni is the golden girl so she might not want to listen to anyone's feelings or opinions othet than herself.

    • @bambi7563
      @bambi7563 5 лет назад +4

      Rae Baylor it’s literally just dressing up tho it’s not making a permanent decision of what the kids career is gonna be it ain’t that serious. Nothing wrong with having big or crazy dreams in this instance idk why y’all acting like it’s the real deal

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 5 лет назад

      Exactly

    • @Churros1616
      @Churros1616 5 лет назад +2

      That is what Loni did, but deep down inside she wanted to be a comedian. She worked 8 years as an engineer even though that was not her dream. Sometimes your plan B, becomes your plan A, thats what she means. Dont waste your young years. Follow your dreams and Plan A first. If you fail? You can always go to college at an older age. Or go to a trade school at an older age. At least you know from the age of 15-25 you put all your effort into your plan A.

  • @actuallyterry
    @actuallyterry 5 лет назад +79

    The thing with becoming an actor or singer is that someone else decides if you're gonna become those things at least on a large scale. If noone hires you for roles, that's it, career over.

    • @Paola-jf2qf
      @Paola-jf2qf 5 лет назад +1

      Terry H Or you could always get famous on RUclips.

    • @mimia.4810
      @mimia.4810 4 года назад +1

      Paola Valtierra It's not that easy, there is a lot of struggling youtubers.

    • @mckenzie.8653
      @mckenzie.8653 4 года назад +3

      Yes and no. A lot of very very successful actors created their own opportunities and the industry came to them. Matt Damon, Ben Affleck, Tina Fey, Issa Rae, Donald Glover. All people who created their own opportunities.

    • @jessenyambe4798
      @jessenyambe4798 3 года назад

      @@mckenzie.8653 spot on bro. There is room for everyone in the world you just have to create your own opportunities. We get stuck because we want to be given an opportunity instead of work our way to our dream. We all have purpose, passions + talents and those are the tools we should use to live a life of service.

  • @dem3413
    @dem3413 5 лет назад +216

    When you so famous that Beyoncé is job field

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 5 лет назад +2

      Lol yep

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 5 лет назад +4

      fairy eyes I agree with you 100% 👏🏽👏🏽💯💯

  • @Crc7798
    @Crc7798 5 лет назад +234

    Idk why Loni talks to the others like they’re wrong all the time. They can have different opinions.

    • @MissMBA
      @MissMBA 5 лет назад +12

      Yup, sometimes she comes off that way. Perhaphs it isn't malicious tho.

    • @TonyellevilleTemple
      @TonyellevilleTemple 5 лет назад +1

      C C I think they are going to have a different perspective because if they didn’t believe in themselves they wouldn’t be on TV now. And they probably heard their entire life they wouldn’t be where they are now

  • @melaninnoir735
    @melaninnoir735 5 лет назад +91

    I'm 100% with Adrienne

  • @dhrachth1
    @dhrachth1 5 лет назад +39

    As a librarian I see kids all the time doing these kinds of projects, not based on what they wanted to do, but what would be easy or look cute. Like a kid who dresses as Beyonce, but never sings a note because they just like Beyonce and have a yellow dress. They don't want to be a singer. Or they dress up as a sports star because they've got a jersey, not that they ever get off the couch and play sports.
    If I were a teacher I'd do like a lot of teachers do book reports. Give them a list and tell them to pick one. That way it's an actual project.

  • @OrdinaryAviator
    @OrdinaryAviator 5 лет назад +12

    Ade and Jeannie's insights are so insightful! And that skillset factor is really an eye opener.

  • @yasminejasmine4368
    @yasminejasmine4368 5 лет назад +25

    I think everyone should have a plan B.. I agree with Adrienne. I’m teaching my kids to.

  • @katiejaneisthename
    @katiejaneisthename 5 лет назад +47

    im currently an esthetician making thousands a month but am also doing youtube and selling things on the side cause youtube is my dream :)

    • @VinnyTheMan2
      @VinnyTheMan2 4 года назад +5

      katherine perrin you have no videos girl wyd

  • @ladyhamiltonxoxo3137
    @ladyhamiltonxoxo3137 5 лет назад +31

    I am 100% with Adrienne. You need to have a plan b in order to work. Not everyone can be the new Beyonce or simply achieve their dreams, at that point what you gonna do? People need to stop with this storytelling, yes it's important to have dreams, but keep in mind that not EVERYONE will be able to do what they wanted to do.

  • @victoriashubskaya2188
    @victoriashubskaya2188 5 лет назад +11

    Awww Kobe

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 5 лет назад +18

    I’m glad we had this topic because I recently watched an episode of one of my favorite shows “ Facts of Life “ and it was an episode where Tootie’s dad had came to Eastland and when he found out she wanted to own a salon with Natalie... he made a big deal out of it because it wasn’t what HE wanted her to do in life... which is why as a parent you need to break the curse of “ well since my parents did it and I did it , my child has to do it too “ & continue this legacy of doing something they aren’t passionate about... Also realize that your 11 or 12 year child may end up changing their mind on what career field they want to be in by the time they are 16... but you have to allow them to ! Let your children develop and make their own decisions and choices and trust them !

  • @mtm7532
    @mtm7532 5 лет назад +74

    Jeannie gave so much insight in this situation

    • @jadaforsee1820
      @jadaforsee1820 5 лет назад +8

      tijonnay williams she always does. She is so so smart.

    • @oliviawallenstein5922
      @oliviawallenstein5922 5 лет назад +1

      Kay You yes they do😂 that’s why the people she listed are VERY successful

  • @dgarcia061811
    @dgarcia061811 4 года назад +8

    Adrienne and Tam are absolutely right. It doesn’t have to be college. Recognize your child’s talents and build from there.

  • @user-om8lu4nq4v
    @user-om8lu4nq4v 4 года назад +3

    Loni is the perfect example of this. Life goes on while you’re pursuing your dreams. You need to be able to take care of yourself and family while working on your dream in preparation for your “big break.”
    I’m with Adrienne and Tamera’s mom 👍🏿

  • @kareenbradford8721
    @kareenbradford8721 5 лет назад +23

    They all look so stunning....that red dress on Jeannie fits her, I just love Adrienne, Loni's top is pretty and Tam's white is great

  • @cdale211989
    @cdale211989 5 лет назад +11

    Yes everyone should have a plan b. Because when people don't ”make it ” they get depressed and become unproductive in society. Just have a backup plan

  • @divachiquita714
    @divachiquita714 5 лет назад +9

    Honestly, I WISH schools would be more realistic. I grew up thinking I could do anything, but no one tells you the arts are completely money based. Don't tell them they can't do it. Tell them it still be hard as hell but go for it if they REALLY want it.

  • @naheeda13
    @naheeda13 5 лет назад +21

    You know how many people end up homeless or working at Starbucks their entire life because they never had a plan B thinking they were going to be an “actress”...
    And to the point of a “degree sitting on the shelf catching dust”, formal education will change you and give you fundamental skills that you can use every single day. There are multiple reasons why people don’t/can’t pursue higher education, so I don’t want to undermine someone’s struggle but most of the time you can CLEARLY tell when you speak to someone who hasn’t gone to college, and that alone is a major differentiator.

  • @RubyRim
    @RubyRim 5 лет назад +15

    8:20 I wanted to be a lawyer which I thought was a great field but the family wanted me to be a nurse and I HATE HOSPITALS. Long story short, I took multiple major and racked up student loans so now I'm a dropout (for now) with student loans.
    I just wanna make fashion items and help people.

    • @anneyoum4063
      @anneyoum4063 5 лет назад

      RubyRim I’m a nurse myself and hospitals are stressful AH

    • @RubyRim
      @RubyRim 5 лет назад +1

      @@anneyoum4063it's a noble job, thank you for what you do.

  • @julieemeid71
    @julieemeid71 5 лет назад +8

    I can see Jeannie being a motivational speaker !

  • @emilyparr2747
    @emilyparr2747 5 лет назад +23

    I always love Jeannie’s advice

  • @Dilenga23
    @Dilenga23 5 лет назад +7

    I love Adrienne’s hair like this this

  • @nehapatel9533
    @nehapatel9533 5 лет назад +6

    It IS ridiculous. My first thought was, to even assume there are only a FEW jobs in the world that are so hard to achieve is ridiculous. So glad Tamara spoke my mind on that bit.
    Secondly, I 100% agree with Adrienne about still having a hustle and with Jeannie for saying a kid should be able to dream it before all the realities really hit them. There will be enough factors in the world to deter them or encourage them later on. You can teach your kids about falling off of the ladder but don't stop them from climbing it to begin with.

  • @itsamandanaomi
    @itsamandanaomi 5 лет назад +8

    I guess it’s easier for them to say because they’ve become successful in their dreams but not everyone makes the cut! Always have a plan b!!!

  • @crystalmorrison1616
    @crystalmorrison1616 5 лет назад +14

    *My dream is to be an actress not because of fame nor money but as Tamara said.. it's my passion and I'm good at it.*

  • @soyunik7979
    @soyunik7979 5 лет назад +7

    Adrien just gave away a clue for the masked singer....went to medical school lol

  • @NANiiSOfREShh
    @NANiiSOfREShh 5 лет назад +2

    Adrienne’s hair is gorgeous!!! Wow that volume and curls 🥰😍

  • @cwchris_
    @cwchris_ 4 года назад +2

    Growing up I never could figure out what I want to do on a serious note. I never had a passion. I was jealous because my brother seemed to have his life figured out so young and so did his fiancé. Now, it’s switched. I know what I want with my life finally and my brothers changed his mind and going back to school. Everyone finds their path!!

  • @nreynolds75243
    @nreynolds75243 5 лет назад +1

    I agree with what Tamara said. Her mother didn't discourage them from their dreams. She supported them in what they wanted but encouraged them to get an education just in case. That way you have something to fall back on. This is a great balance. You may have that degree sitting on the shelf however, when your fame is gone, then you have that degree to fall back on. You're not just stuck. Always have a back-up plan.

  • @amethystwolf24572
    @amethystwolf24572 5 лет назад +4

    This is a very, very good thing. Part of the problem I and many millenials had is that we didn't start doing the hard work of figuring out what we *actually* wanted to do until college. Its important to acknowledge dreams and encourage them, but also encouraging them to have a Plan B. Being a doctor isn't the same thing as being an entertainer. There's a clear path to that career, and there is never a dearth of doctors - we always need more. Jeannie's thing about degrees that you don't want or use...that's solved by encouraging kids to do the hard work early - by encouraging them to be other things. And Adrienne is right, most people wanting to be a pro sports player or singer only want it because they have an unrealistic idea of that entails.
    Let's be clear: these women are victims of survivorship bias. They're letting all the people who made it and ignoring the hundreds of thousands of people in LA, Atlanta, Nashville, NYC and Seattle RIGHT NOW who have been doing the work for a decade or two, but haven't gotten anywhere.

  • @pep1823
    @pep1823 4 года назад +4

    Have a wise Plan B. I like Adrienne’s example about music engineering to lead to producing. They relate. Don’t say I want to be a music producer, but I’ll go study biology as a backup.

  • @nurulillyana
    @nurulillyana 3 года назад

    ❤️ Each and every one of these beautiful ladies are soooo inspiring, so supportive, soooo lovingly encouraging. ❤️

  • @AK33M
    @AK33M 5 лет назад +4

    I think you have to follow your "passion". Most people don't have a passion. They have interests.
    Also, a lot of these are examples of very exceptional instances. 100 people might make it, but millions fail, even if they're great at it.

  • @anasatassi1758
    @anasatassi1758 5 лет назад +88

    I guess these old girl chats will do.🤷🏻‍♂️😂

    • @liouting
      @liouting 5 лет назад

      Anas Atassi 😂😂😂😂

  • @ed857
    @ed857 5 лет назад +1

    Why is it that pop stars, youtubers, and tv personalities don’t get credit for all the hard work they put into their craft? I’ll never forget when a teacher asked us to write down our dream job on a paper and then had us turn it in, then read them in front of the entire class and when it came to reading mine I wrote down “dancer” and she said in front of the entire class “how about something realistic” and it crushed me, at a young age if you limit kids dreams you limit what they believe that they can do.

  • @witchf4ce310
    @witchf4ce310 5 лет назад +46

    Then I’d dress up as an escort lol I literally considered that in the past when I was drowning in debt and had no job. Thank GOD I didn’t do it though, I don’t think I would be able to actually do it but I thought about it for a while there 😶

  • @yesmellspence
    @yesmellspence 3 года назад +1

    This is some of the reason why we have no teachers, social workers, doctors, garbage men/women, etc. Etc. Everyone now wants to be into beauty and traveling. Where are the young politicians and and young surgeons? The movie stars, athletes, entertainers are a small subset of the population. We need to be realistic with these young kids.

  • @marissarodriguez3163
    @marissarodriguez3163 5 лет назад +5

    Your job as a parent is to make your kids the best THEM they can be, not the best YOU. Don’t make them fulfill what was your dream. Help them fulfill theirs.

  • @MasterGlam
    @MasterGlam 5 лет назад +1

    Like Lonnie said you need a hustle. Ways to make money. Whether it is considered professional or not. When I was younger all I wanted to do was be a nurse and move up in my field. But now that Im 29 Im looking to purchase my first real estate property and Im a licensed cosmetologist which has many avenues (sales, stylist, educator, influencer, business owner, salon owner, etc.) I could have done these things years ago. We dont have to limit ourselves.

  • @Lifewithgeda
    @Lifewithgeda 4 года назад +1

    Adrienne is right. Not everyone who wants be an actor, doctor, teacher, lawyer, singer will be that. Cause if no one wants to hire you, what r u going to do? Of course u can create your own opportunities but think of something else that u like as a plan be to fall on if your own opportunities dont work.
    A lot of people wants to be this and that but end up in somebody's basement because of no plan.
    Make the plan, execute the plan.

  • @EddieDoezit2
    @EddieDoezit2 2 года назад

    I am literally giving applause to Jeanie... I literally stood up in my living room and applauded her... I agree with her 100%!

  • @camilal.9595
    @camilal.9595 5 лет назад +13

    I am 100% with Adrienne 🙌🏼 Loni and Jeannie are delirious (and I’m saying that being 21 and very modern and all that stuff)

  • @Neema.kitchen
    @Neema.kitchen 5 лет назад +15

    They need to have a profession. It is easier to go for your dreams if your can still eat and sleep in a house. It is important. We need to have a generation that is educated and talented. Jeanie got it wrong this time

  • @erykahimanbrown
    @erykahimanbrown 5 лет назад +1

    this is why i love this show! ugh, i feel so inspired!!

  • @MynameisAdji
    @MynameisAdji 5 лет назад +5

    It did not push you back 8 years Loni. We are all exactly where we are meant to be WHEN the time is right.

  • @camilal.9595
    @camilal.9595 5 лет назад +4

    RIGHT !! WE DONT GLAMIRIZE being teachers, doctors, lawyers, journalist, etc...
    we glamirize pop stars, models, influencers (damm🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️), so that’s that (and yeah, I’m saying that being obsessed with Instagram, BUT I’m studying marketing 🙌🏼✨)

  • @kiemgallagher9670
    @kiemgallagher9670 5 лет назад +1

    Everyone's missing the point... they're not telling the kids you cannot be a pop star or a sports star... they're telling the kids have a back up plan so you don't have to live under a bridge eating from the bins if your music/film/sports career doesn't take off.

  • @henriettaiwuji
    @henriettaiwuji 5 лет назад +1

    The only thing I'm gonna say is that most celebrities are only now chasing after professional degrees. And I agree with Adrienne, we do not glamourise these professional courses and instinctively humans wanna take the easy route out. Going to college and getting a degree is hard, and I am adamant about the fact that college prepares you for a lot of things and teaches you a lot of transferable skill set.

  • @candiceodoi3136
    @candiceodoi3136 5 лет назад +1

    I am from the UK and my secondary school forced us to follow these rules. Singer, actor, entertainer, psychologist, artist graphic designer, postman, bin man and dancer were not accepted as an occupation.

  • @stephpowell7648
    @stephpowell7648 5 лет назад

    Adrienne kills it every week. She looks incredible!

  • @elsaromero4743
    @elsaromero4743 5 лет назад

    True, with parents having the responsibility to notice their children's talent. My daughter loves art, all kinds and she's 5 she is sculpting now, I buy her paint, pastels water colors, canvases, clay we're tapping into every type of art and she is so crafty and if her passion changes we will tap into it. 😊

  • @NorryaParsa
    @NorryaParsa 5 лет назад +1

    Many people don't know about side hustles.... To me, side hustles are "Plan B"! My parents taught me having more than one stream of income is very beneficial! We should be teaching youngsters about financial success!!

  • @nananyanba
    @nananyanba 5 лет назад

    The way the drink that cocktail, like they drinking gold 😂

  • @jennifernguyen357
    @jennifernguyen357 3 года назад

    Without the allowance of people stepping out of the traditional boundaries we wouldn’t have you all represent real talk for the all of us 🤗

  • @jessicajess9771
    @jessicajess9771 5 лет назад

    We are so conditioned to think we should be something else rather than what we are truly passionate about. If we are more like Will Smith and Bruno Mars who followed their dreams, then there would be more successful people like them. Just like Gene mentioned, the majority of the population is not happy with their jobs. The reason why is because these people were conditioned from when they were little from family or society that their dreams were not possible or would not make them money. Like Oprah says
    “ Follow your purpose and success will follow”. This is why I am passionate about guiding people on finding their purpose. Well said Tam and Gene and Loni. Adrienne love you too Doll, I just think that Tam and Gene have very valuable points. Why can’t their be more Will Smith’s? I think it is possible.

  • @herviews6491
    @herviews6491 5 лет назад +5

    I agree with Adrianne 100%

  • @hawjinkhidir5906
    @hawjinkhidir5906 5 лет назад +5

    Why are not the kids allowed to dream big it sends out wrong signals to them that they won’t be able to be whatever they want to be.

    • @laurak4897
      @laurak4897 5 лет назад +2

      Hawjin Khidir Yeah I agree

    • @vvvvccc7613
      @vvvvccc7613 5 лет назад +1

      Hawjin Khidir Yeah whats up with that

  • @StellaBella0408
    @StellaBella0408 5 лет назад +7

    I completely agree with Adrienne 👏🏾 Loni shut up lol

  • @RuurdWoltring
    @RuurdWoltring 2 года назад

    I agree, let kids be themselves and dress up how they want.

  • @chantalreneehayles7976
    @chantalreneehayles7976 4 года назад

    so many parents robbed their children of not only a childhood but an adulthood and a life as well. tamera made a really great point about parents having a responsibility to pay attention to and identify what their children are good at, interested in and have a natural talent for so they can help cultivate that child's particular skill(s) etc. so many parents don't care about those things and now their children grow up and struggle to find their passion or talent later in life.

  • @annet1551
    @annet1551 5 лет назад +10

    Tam looks good asf🥰

  • @michaelaklenzo6191
    @michaelaklenzo6191 2 года назад

    Tamera & Adrienne stole the first topic and nailed it on the head. Thank you guys.

  • @ChynnaADavis
    @ChynnaADavis 5 лет назад +1

    Adrienne makes sense. Loni always tries to make her own point more right than the next. I wish for one time she would not be so defensive stating her own opinion. Take. Lessons. From. Jeanie. Cause she always has a great delivery.

  • @crystalmorrison1616
    @crystalmorrison1616 5 лет назад +7

    *kim saved his life by not following on time*

  • @liyah9430
    @liyah9430 5 лет назад +3

    I’m 21 and I have no idea what I’m good at 🤦🏽‍♀️ I feel like I really have no talents .

  • @OfficialJessikaStarr
    @OfficialJessikaStarr 5 лет назад +1

    I wonder if they film the "Friyays" in the mornings? I don't think I could drink that early lol i'd be ready for a nap midshow lol

  • @hannahrobinson946
    @hannahrobinson946 3 года назад

    I struggle with this, because obviously they are going to say ‘shoot for your dreams’ because they are all ‘made it’. We never hear from the multitudes who tried to make it in the entertainment industry for years, and didn’t make it, and had to choose a different path.

  • @hummingbird8654
    @hummingbird8654 5 лет назад

    Here I am googling it....and these chicks are coming with the facts! Love it!

  • @whatchahowsya8688
    @whatchahowsya8688 5 лет назад

    I understand what they're saying but I agree with Adrienne. Have dreams and aspirations but also keep expectations realistic. It's not easy working in any profession, but how our world is set up, we can have countless attorneys or doctors, etc. It requires a lot of work but the goal is realistically there if you put in the effort. However, to be an entertainer, singer or performer you have to be lucky and connected. You can work your behind off and have the most talent, but your chances of success is 1 in millions. If everyone could follow a formula and be a Beyonce then we'd have tons of Beyonces right now. But that doesn't mean you give up that dream. If you have it takes, work for it but have at least a plan B and those plan B's should be instilled early on.

  • @Hey-Mr.DJ_PlayThatSong
    @Hey-Mr.DJ_PlayThatSong 5 лет назад +4

    Their wording in the letter seemed mean, the school clearly didn’t want talent focused careers. The school letter was TOO STRICT.

  • @huckleberrywinn
    @huckleberrywinn 5 лет назад +1

    I swear to God, if my family tries the "be a doctor, medical assistant etc" thing again, I will cut them off.

  • @daniella5163
    @daniella5163 4 года назад

    girl i dressed up as a pop star in grade 2. and now im going to music school to teach music... some dreams just come full circle in other ways

  • @Yumira.
    @Yumira. 3 года назад

    Since I was Eight I fell in love with acting and music at that time I had won a contest at my school .managers were holding auditions kept calling my mom many times a week afterwards because they were interested in me . when I was 11 I found out about all of this and a felt really sad and really mad because she really knew it was my dream. Since then I’ve never tried to go for my dreams because I realize at the moment if my parents don’t see it in me why I’m i ? I’m just trying to say always support your children and what they want to do!!

  • @mrsturner8532
    @mrsturner8532 5 лет назад

    Everyone needs a safety net to fall into if their dream job is at the top. But kids should understand that dreaming big is great but it will take perseverance and drive to get you there. Help them develop skills needed to succeed.

  • @ivyyang7752
    @ivyyang7752 3 года назад

    They should let the kids dress up as whatever they want to be and ask them “how did you become a pop star?” So they know that there’s work that has to put into becoming a pop star. Afterwards, hit the kids with the reality of “it’s really hard to become a singer, if you can’t, what else would you be?”

  • @keymeko95
    @keymeko95 4 года назад +1

    I think I big thing for schools is also to encourage kids to think about going on to college. I think there is a stigma that those big careers like famous singer or even youtube influencer don't require and education and so it encourages students not to care about school. I dont think this is necessarily true and plenty of big youtubers have degrees and have gone through higher ed. But they also had other jobs before blowing up on RUclips.

  • @PapaGilbert18
    @PapaGilbert18 5 лет назад +10

    I’m confused by Loni’s statement of being behind a bit. You’re sitting at a table with sister, sister and a cheetah girl. And on a show that is a first of its kind. A group talk show with nothing but minority women. I mean I know she wants her own show but like sis you aren’t behind.

    • @heatherlynsey5438
      @heatherlynsey5438 3 года назад

      You can be on the summit and still feel like you haven’t left the bottom. Damn 😭

  • @celestesharp6120
    @celestesharp6120 2 года назад

    Remember, that they are children. Children often have many dream jobs at the same time, and they change often.

  • @cassandraamani3404
    @cassandraamani3404 4 года назад

    "Win at being yourself"... Yes Jeannie!!

  • @wendyromero8712
    @wendyromero8712 4 года назад

    I agree with Jeanie , my son told me that he doesn't need a plan B,because that takes energy from his plan A.

  • @wcai3421
    @wcai3421 5 лет назад +1

    A lot of times people dream of being the Beyonce or basketball players but fall into a line of working in that industry as a coach or maybe a computer programmer for a sports league.

  • @janetsbff5974
    @janetsbff5974 5 лет назад

    Anybody know what kind of lipstick Loni has on?!?! Love it!!! Also this video is giving me dejavu...😆🤣

  • @annachante8852
    @annachante8852 5 лет назад +1

    yasss jeannie!!! she always comes through!