Business executives often use English, rather than their own native language , to much sure "everyone is on the same page". This blunt type of outlining of who is to do what and why is used because saying the equivalent in their own language could be culturally inappropriate and impossibly rude.
@@ootts456irrelevant to specificly Japanese speaking different languages changes your personality. Scientificly proven. You ofc will think you are the same. It is like hearing your own sound for the first time. You need to observe yourself from external perspective to understand it.
I would not say it truns your personality, it just changes your tone to a softer one. I think that is becuase the Japanese sounds themselves are soft. Anyway, you are still the same person. That will not change just because you sound softer because of Japanese language.
Sometime ago I heard that learning a new language makes your brain function differently. I believe this is also true when you speak a different language. In particular, Japanese spoken by women makes their voices sound much softer and more feminine.
Many people code-switch their personalities/behavior when speaking a different language (though it might depend on which languages they are). My mother is quite prim and proper in English, but gets markedly more animated and rough when speaking Acadian French. And I code-switch exactly the same way this woman does between English and Japanese. It just feels natural somehow.
this conservatism is indoctrinated into Japanese kids from birth, they were taught to speak that way and scolded when didn't. Canadians have far less societial rules and shows in the expression of our language.
I actually think different when I think in English. I did a expirement with myself. I did a detective quiz online. First i was thinking in my native language (dutch) and I couldn't seem to solve the mystery. But than I switched to English and all the clues became so clear to me and i started to solve the mystery I geuss I'm more deductive when I think in English but when I think in dutch I'm more social
100% understand what she means after seeing her also towards the end speak and introduce herself in Japanese it was much softer but she still seems like a very brave person 😁💯
I really enjoy watching these interviews of yours because I’m half Japanese and Australian and can relate to a lot of these people and feel less alone.
Yes, me too!! I’m not mixed race but I identify a lot with experiencing the world with two or more cultures. I’m grateful for the diversity we have around world.
Yeah however notice both of versions are herself. Actually it depicts very well what Japanese women are on the outside at first and then after the closed doors and what’s inside their minds and how actually strong and cold they are. Just beware of Japanese women okay they are NOT as sweet as they seem😅 but it’s okay if you don’t believe me and marry one you’ll be weeping hard 😂🎉
Tbh I have heard that from a few ppl that most of them they show to the world this sweat innocent persona, but behind close doors they are very cold,disconnected l, some very mean and kinds of don't give a fuck, but the worse is that they don't speak their minds or expect ppl to read their minds or figure how they feel without talking about it, which is crazy coz that's not how shit works, not in the real world u know.
@@miyumiyu12 it's the Canadian in her, growing up in a society that doesn't expect women to cater to man and be ultra soft and feminine. You don't find that in other Japanese women unless they lived abroad and learnt to stand up for themselves.
English is more expressive in culture where japanese typically has its own social/cultural underatanding. Code switching. Its more acceptable to speak your mind in English in japanese its collective thoughts and formality
I still get annoyed when people speak their mind so much in english. Living here and understanding Japanese makes me hate it even more. So many pointless arguements over stupid little things in western culture because people don't shut up and just keep the peace. It just makes people stressed out. I'm so relaxed here.
But she said herself she likes her open English version. That’s what her mind actually is. Japanese society imposes that “docile”(but fake, fake!!😂) veil on women
@@pietwarkawani9616 Not agreeing or disagreeing with the comment, but although he said veil, based on context clues he meant 'façade.' Nothing to do with clothing-he meant Japanese essentially wear a façade in public, at jobs, school, and that a façade of a higher level of demureness from women in public is somewhat expected, etc., although being demure isn't (necessarily) in their true nature. They remove the façade when they're alone. When they're alone and they can relax with no façades-THAT's who they truly are, with no forced politeness, fear of judgement, etc. Of course, some people are naturally born very polite, and so for them it may be no façade, but for most born an average amount of polite, the *degree* to which they are polite in public, is a façade. Some women will act more demure in public, but alone are a more bossy person, or are still demure, but a little less demure in private. I think everyone's façade has some of the real them in it-but it's only the 'publically acceptable parts' of the real them in the façade-the rest is a false self or filler they put towards the public (and sometimes even their friends and family). Not sure if you were trolling, or if English isn't your first language, so I approached the confusion of the word 'veil' with sincerity. If you were just trolling however, I hope you can still appreciate my sincerity to help someone and respond with politeness yourself, since you wish more places had the kind of politeness Japan had.
@@user-ek9oy9ws1h Beauty is subjective. Just the idea of you generalizing a race as beautiful or not is inadvertently calling others not beautiful. It's like saying I want my kids to be boys because boy's are smart is saying girls are less smart. Do you understand the logic behind it?
You can tell that even though she’s fluent in Japanese, and probably grew up with Japanese speaking parents at home, her dominant language, for her brain/ language processing is English. If you look carefully, she still has to think about what she is saying, which has an effect where she is thinking about her words rather than her feelings and emotions.
It’s definitely because of her lack of vocabulary in Japanese, I’m sure. I’m also Japanese-English bilingual, and thanks to my parents’ effort, I read tons of Japanese “heavy” books and watched Japanese TV show. Thanks to that I’m very confident both in Japanese and in English…
No, it's a known thing that people's personalities adopt the cultural traits and attitudes of the culture when they switch to speaking another language. It's called code switching and it's really interesting. People act differently in different languages even when they're completely fluent.
It's more that she's aware of Japanese culture and mannerisms rather. When you learn a language through absorption and seeing real people talk and interact you tend to absorb the body language and mannerisms when speaking that language as well. If someone just studies from books and robotic language teaching videos I highly doubt it would have the same effects.
Of course what you guys are saying is partly true, definitely when we switch languages our tone of voice and the way we move our body changed immediately. But I would say it doesn’t affect the core of your personality but just the way you express your idea. And actually I am learning Hindi as a third language in India now, I can relate to her that I’m feeling non-confident in Hindi cuz I can’t express my idea clearly and can’t have discussion of high context, which I can in Japanese and English.
Me master 3 languages? "I" is the subject of a sentence. "Me" is the object of a sentence. "I, who have mastered 3 languages, have different personalities when speaking each language." There...fixed it for you.
I’m a trilingual and my mannerism changes amongst them. Can relate to this. The softest version of me comes when I speak Chinese, which is quite weird in a sense.
Love how you people were nonexistent 10 years when the same exact thing was happening then. There's a reason why it's being reported now than before sheep.
Love how you people were nonexistent 10 years when the same exact thing was happening then. There's a reason why it's being reported now than before sheep.
Got friendly with a Japanese businessman who was staying at the same hotel in Manila a couple of years ago,he was fluent in English and during several conversations he told me about a lot of the social attitudes of Japan, still very reserved, conservative,but that is part of the culture and what them so ,in my opinion,very pleasant people and this young woman is a stunner
honestly im surprised theres no comments and more views here but I've never felt so seen and heard in a video like you put all my emotions and thoughts into words. im literally your personality and words and i know it defeats the entire point of the video but do you want to be friends?
Another thing to add, I am born in Argentina, and lived in Canada for 10 years, I was told when I speak English, I sound serious, mature, balanced, yet confident. But when I speak Spanish I sound bright, expressive, passionate, and overly confident 😂
It all about her body language, English speaking she has her hands open and kind of holding herself firm, faster hand talking more action as she speaks. When she switches to Japanese speaking she folds her hands in front of her and has her hands together for most of the time she’s speaking. Body language says a lot, I don’t know if I’ve seen much hand talking with any Japanese speakers, but I’ll definitely be paying more attention now!
This is why Japanese people say people from western countries are friendly, because in Japan it is not necessarily a good thing to "stand out" and be your own person, it is all about fitting in.
Speaking Japanese always turn Ur personality by 180° unintentionally
Business executives often use English, rather than their own native language , to much sure "everyone is on the same page".
This blunt type of outlining of who is to do what and why is used because saying the equivalent in their own language could be culturally inappropriate and impossibly rude.
Cap. I speak both japanese n english but my personality stays the same. You shouldn't use the term "always" if you're unsure about the things
@@ootts456irrelevant to specificly Japanese speaking different languages changes your personality. Scientificly proven. You ofc will think you are the same. It is like hearing your own sound for the first time. You need to observe yourself from external perspective to understand it.
I think it’s only because her English is a bit better than her Japanese🤷♀️
I would not say it truns your personality, it just changes your tone to a softer one. I think that is becuase the Japanese sounds themselves are soft.
Anyway, you are still the same person. That will not change just because you sound softer because of Japanese language.
Crazy her mannerisms and body language change completely between both languages
Sometime ago I heard that learning a new language makes your brain function differently. I believe this is also true when you speak a different language. In particular, Japanese spoken by women makes their voices sound much softer and more feminine.
Many people code-switch their personalities/behavior when speaking a different language (though it might depend on which languages they are). My mother is quite prim and proper in English, but gets markedly more animated and rough when speaking Acadian French. And I code-switch exactly the same way this woman does between English and Japanese. It just feels natural somehow.
this conservatism is indoctrinated into Japanese kids from birth, they were taught to speak that way and scolded when didn't. Canadians have far less societial rules and shows in the expression of our language.
Such is the power of language and the mentality it carries
I have no reservation against either side. I wish she was in my life!❤
This is why it's good to learn a foreign language. You're not actually learning a foreign language; you're discovering another version of yourself.
XD
Nicely put.
Well said 😊
So true, and so fun!!! 🎉❤
So true. And you can connect with a new world of people and their wisdom.
Language carries energies that indirectly affect our thinking and the way we carry ourselves
Absolutely.
Didn’t know that until this channel.
Perfectly said.
I actually think different when I think in English. I did a expirement with myself. I did a detective quiz online. First i was thinking in my native language (dutch) and I couldn't seem to solve the mystery. But than I switched to English and all the clues became so clear to me and i started to solve the mystery
I geuss I'm more deductive when I think in English but when I think in dutch I'm more social
How?
100% understand what she means after seeing her also towards the end speak and introduce herself in Japanese it was much softer but she still seems like a very brave person 😁💯
We wouldn't consider it "brave" in Japan. Something else, I'd rather not write.
@@yo2trader539shouldn’t have written that piece either then
Brave is good for someone breaching the beaches of Normandy. For a woman otoh, not so great.
@@pahakuutti …huh?
@@yo2trader539I’m not Japanese, but i think i know what you might mean. In english her personality sounds like nails on chalkboard. 😖
Takashi you’re a legend on RUclips now 👍🏼
And you sir are the reason why simps exist 🙄
She's absolutely adorable 🥰
Yes, and this is the all purpose of this channel !
Jesus Christ how sad and pathetic
@@AC-LING666
You can only wish you were 1/2 as adorable 🥰 as she is
Ohh 😲 my! Your jealously is showing
@@user-hm2vs3zf1jstop being cringe lil bro
absolutely a-bust-inside-able
I really enjoy watching these interviews of yours because I’m half Japanese and Australian and can relate to a lot of these people and feel less alone.
Yes, me too!! I’m not mixed race but I identify a lot with experiencing the world with two or more cultures. I’m grateful for the diversity we have around world.
She is gorgeous
For real but pretty sure if she doesn't wear a make up people would think she is a minor
@@chchgas💀
Ahmed stop commenting about cute Japanese girls on RUclips. You sound creepy.
Beautiful, yep!
Is there any Japanese girl you dont find gorgeous..she's pretty average
I saw the shift as soon as she switched to from English to Japanese
Maybe just because she feels more confident speaking English, that’s all.
Wow crazy she sounds so sweet and nice in japanese, but she is right she sounds more confident speaking English.
Yeah however notice both of versions are herself. Actually it depicts very well what Japanese women are on the outside at first and then after the closed doors and what’s inside their minds and how actually strong and cold they are.
Just beware of Japanese women okay they are NOT as sweet as they seem😅 but it’s okay if you don’t believe me and marry one you’ll be weeping hard 😂🎉
Tbh I have heard that from a few ppl that most of them they show to the world this sweat innocent persona, but behind close doors they are very cold,disconnected l, some very mean and kinds of don't give a fuck, but the worse is that they don't speak their minds or expect ppl to read their minds or figure how they feel without talking about it, which is crazy coz that's not how shit works, not in the real world u know.
@@miyumiyu12 it's the Canadian in her, growing up in a society that doesn't expect women to cater to man and be ultra soft and feminine. You don't find that in other Japanese women unless they lived abroad and learnt to stand up for themselves.
@@MaryHLewis
She's close to perfection 🤓
@@miyumiyu12 you can also say that some Japanese women are cool outside but sweet inside like me lol
English is more expressive in culture where japanese typically has its own social/cultural underatanding. Code switching. Its more acceptable to speak your mind in English in japanese its collective thoughts and formality
I still get annoyed when people speak their mind so much in english. Living here and understanding Japanese makes me hate it even more.
So many pointless arguements over stupid little things in western culture because people don't shut up and just keep the peace. It just makes people stressed out. I'm so relaxed here.
@@jOeLwAlByExactly.
@@jOeLwAlByyou’re so quirky
She’s still very confident when she speaks Japanese
れいこさんだ！！昔ICUの動画めっちゃ見てた！！
I’ve noticed something similar with my wife when she speaks Swahili or English. Almost a different person
She's beautiful
Can’t wait to see the next one. Planning to visit next year!
I prefer the Japanese version cos she smiles, when she did English she was so serious.
But she said herself she likes her open English version. That’s what her mind actually is. Japanese society imposes that “docile”(but fake, fake!!😂) veil on women
@@miyumiyu12 how about germanic countries imposed the male image on women?
@@miyumiyu12what? Veil on women?
Japan is not a Muslim country 😂
@miyumiyu12 I think Japanese society is not fake but they are educated to be more polite
@@pietwarkawani9616 Not agreeing or disagreeing with the comment, but although he said veil, based on context clues he meant 'façade.' Nothing to do with clothing-he meant Japanese essentially wear a façade in public, at jobs, school, and that a façade of a higher level of demureness from women in public is somewhat expected, etc., although being demure isn't (necessarily) in their true nature. They remove the façade when they're alone. When they're alone and they can relax with no façades-THAT's who they truly are, with no forced politeness, fear of judgement, etc. Of course, some people are naturally born very polite, and so for them it may be no façade, but for most born an average amount of polite, the *degree* to which they are polite in public, is a façade. Some women will act more demure in public, but alone are a more bossy person, or are still demure, but a little less demure in private. I think everyone's façade has some of the real them in it-but it's only the 'publically acceptable parts' of the real them in the façade-the rest is a false self or filler they put towards the public (and sometimes even their friends and family).
Not sure if you were trolling, or if English isn't your first language, so I approached the confusion of the word 'veil' with sincerity.
If you were just trolling however, I hope you can still appreciate my sincerity to help someone and respond with politeness yourself, since you wish more places had the kind of politeness Japan had.
Growing up in North America (particularly the west coast or East coast), will change your personality from soft to -bossy- confident.
That trouser is so cute, I’m looking for the same one
The Japanese language has a lot of cute sounds that make it sound like cartoon which is where the calm and nice tone come from
Neuron activation
Wow wow wow wow..easy man.
Because in English it’s straight forward
Who else is waiting for her at the very end after she spoke Japanese to speak English in a very aggressive over the top manner! 🤣
wait till she learns German!
she is so charmful
I wish I could change personalities when speaking another language
I just stay the same LMAO
Me too. I don't change. 😆 I think it's more that she's aware of the Japanese culture and manners than something to do with the language itself.
@@goyam2981you have a good point.
It’s the translation later in her brain taking up more cpu power
Even when I speak English I become more aggressive although I can't understand English.😂
Yups, feel so soft to hear sound of Japanese languange. So calm & good & nice & polite
Let me guess
Vancouver?
That west coast accent 💀
I'm not watching the show but Rubina's enthusiasm is something to watch. I also like deep dialogues, expressions...maybe I'll try it out.
She is stunningly beautiful....
sizle down
Bro just go to Japan, this is average
@@dmr3e Lol, that would be a dream come true…
@@easyalpha1 make it come true. Save up money and go bro. It’s not so hard, you can do it!
Loved her outfit
Saame it's simple nd cute
Maybe It's her own brand.
Its true... When she speaks japanese... So soft and calm.
Gorgeous and confident
That's normal. You are as many people as many languages you speak
I love her style, like sophisticated hippie😊
With spaghetti straps?
not seeing sophisticated
Not seeing hippy either
Lol, neither of those. 😅
I can really see her personality changing as soon as she started speaking Japanese 😅
She is so pretty…
she’s too beautiful 😊
I think you are right
@@litaibai8686she really is
Canadian + Japanese = beauty
She never said she is hafu though.
are you saying pure japanese or pure canadian = not beauty?
Her parents are japanese and her second dad is Canadian. So 100% japanese
@@sunen7129 This is a bad use of logic you need to learn to read
@@user-ek9oy9ws1h Beauty is subjective. Just the idea of you generalizing a race as beautiful or not is inadvertently calling others not beautiful. It's like saying I want my kids to be boys because boy's are smart is saying girls are less smart. Do you understand the logic behind it?
The Japanese personality melt hearts…
She is both wonderful in her Japanese and English ❤
Is this Reiko from Tokyo Young Boss?
❤ She’s pretty!
Japanese accent is so cute😊
Japanese sounds very respectful and it's true
She does sound aggressive in English
And that’s what her mind in fact is
Love you brother ❤ from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳 🗾
You can tell that even though she’s fluent in Japanese, and probably grew up with Japanese speaking parents at home, her dominant language, for her brain/ language processing is English. If you look carefully, she still has to think about what she is saying, which has an effect where she is thinking about her words rather than her feelings and emotions.
Both Japanese girls born or raised in the US or Canada both have said they like their English self more. 😊
It’s definitely because of her lack of vocabulary in Japanese, I’m sure. I’m also Japanese-English bilingual, and thanks to my parents’ effort, I read tons of Japanese “heavy” books and watched Japanese TV show. Thanks to that I’m very confident both in Japanese and in English…
Maybe she just prefers to be more blunt?
No, it's a known thing that people's personalities adopt the cultural traits and attitudes of the culture when they switch to speaking another language.
It's called code switching and it's really interesting.
People act differently in different languages even when they're completely fluent.
It's more that she's aware of Japanese culture and mannerisms rather. When you learn a language through absorption and seeing real people talk and interact you tend to absorb the body language and mannerisms when speaking that language as well. If someone just studies from books and robotic language teaching videos I highly doubt it would have the same effects.
I myself tend to nod a lot when speaking Japanese because that's what I see Japanese people do when speaking. You automatically copy that.
Of course what you guys are saying is partly true, definitely when we switch languages our tone of voice and the way we move our body changed immediately. But I would say it doesn’t affect the core of your personality but just the way you express your idea.
And actually I am learning Hindi as a third language in India now, I can relate to her that I’m feeling non-confident in Hindi cuz I can’t express my idea clearly and can’t have discussion of high context, which I can in Japanese and English.
You better come back and pay those taxes
😂😂😂
When you speak English = masculine
When you speak Japanese = feminine
Ok, but the subtle hair flip when she said "I like the English side of me better"?😍😍😍😍
True.. Me who master 3 language.. Have different personalities when speaking each language.. It is mainly because language is identic to its culture..
Me master 3 languages? "I" is the subject of a sentence. "Me" is the object of a sentence. "I, who have mastered 3 languages, have different personalities when speaking each language." There...fixed it for you.
I’m a trilingual and my mannerism changes amongst them. Can relate to this.
The softest version of me comes when I speak Chinese, which is quite weird in a sense.
My former japanese boss was opposite, she sounds so strict when speaking in japanese but so calm and friendly when speaking english.
She was not so happy speaking English
She was so happy speaking English
Those jeans look so clean and perfect. Im so used to seeing Japanese people with the really old thick poorly fitting jeans lol
Been almost 20 years since I been to Japan. I gotta go back
To where?
Humble , beautiful language and people ❤❤❤❤ Japan forever ♥️
Japanese side = soft and delicate, Canadian side = assertive and confident. Love the cultural comparison
Why? Her Japanese side is so much cuter
Nah it’s pleasant to the receiver of course but beware she’ll not be like that after closed doors
She's sweet🥰 like her bossy side better too😅😂😂
She’s absolutely beautiful and confident educated woman 👏♥️
You make Canada proud.
Very cool woman
Don't forget Palestine 🇵🇸✌️
Palestine is free 🇵🇸💕
Love how you people were nonexistent 10 years when the same exact thing was happening then. There's a reason why it's being reported now than before sheep.
Love how you people were nonexistent 10 years when the same exact thing was happening then. There's a reason why it's being reported now than before sheep.
結合東方+西方的美，但是更西方一點，笑得好甜甜好開朗❤❤
She’s gorgeous
Got friendly with a Japanese businessman who was staying at the same hotel in Manila a couple of years ago,he was fluent in English and during several conversations he told me about a lot of the social attitudes of Japan, still very reserved, conservative,but that is part of the culture and what them so ,in my opinion,very pleasant people and this young woman is a stunner
_i love you Reiko_ 💐💚
確かに性格はどうしても”大和撫子目指し”に変わってしまう😂😂😂
honestly im surprised theres no comments and more views here but I've never felt so seen and heard in a video like you put all my emotions and thoughts into words. im literally your personality and words and i know it defeats the entire point of the video but do you want to be friends?
Another thing to add, I am born in Argentina, and lived in Canada for 10 years, I was told when I speak English, I sound serious, mature, balanced, yet confident. But when I speak Spanish I sound bright, expressive, passionate, and overly confident 😂
Japanese version definitely the best version
When I speak Spanish I feel much more enthusiastic and passionate than when I speak English. That's why I love Spanish.
She looks old but beautiful than many young Japanese being interviewed
Their friends really knows her well 😂✅
She went full kawaii desu ne when she switched to japanese lol
Eastern / Asian languages somehow make you softer..
She is absolutely stunning 😍 ❤
Girl in Japanese: 🦋
Girl in English: 🐲
It all about her body language, English speaking she has her hands open and kind of holding herself firm, faster hand talking more action as she speaks. When she switches to Japanese speaking she folds her hands in front of her and has her hands together for most of the time she’s speaking. Body language says a lot, I don’t know if I’ve seen much hand talking with any Japanese speakers, but I’ll definitely be paying more attention now!
when she started using Japanese, she began to stutter more in expressing herself, a noticeable difference, incredible
We don't think of canadians as strict or confidents. They're almost as soft and polite as Japanes.
She is so sweet
Interesting seeing a lot of ppl who speak english and japanese saying they prefer themselves when they speak english because they feel more expressive
she is very good girl , helped in subway and we talk about pandas and china
Is it just because she smiles more when speaking japanese? because honestly you can smile more when speaking english too.
The top she is wearing, tell me you didn't grow up in Japan..without telling me you didn't grow up in Japan.
This is why Japanese people say people from western countries are friendly, because in Japan it is not necessarily a good thing to "stand out" and be your own person, it is all about fitting in.
Language is like your ultimate operation system.. 😂
I like the girl speaking Japanese better 😄
I'm from Pakistan i love Japanese
You can clearly see what her friends was saying when she speaked in Japanese. 😂
Her smile came out in Japanese.
The interviewer is more interested in this interviewee than any other iv seen him interview lol
The language makes her prettier too.