same i always cry in the bathroom because everwhere else there are people and i don't want them to see me so they don't ask why i am crying so yeah same..
I don’t think I picked up any bad habits from childhood Got used to being given up on because of my fear of showing emotions and given to different family’s in the Foster System
Night is safe. Night is good. There is no bad night, only bad day. Just make sure to listen for footsteps, because the night is for sleeping and nothing else. Night doesn't like to be interrupted. Night doesn't like to fake being asleep. Night doesn't like to share. But night always gets sad when it turns out nobody was there.
“I dont think I picked up any bad habits from my childhood” Gets so clingy when meeting a guy that actually cares to the point I can’t leave their side, or go a day without talking to them..
"I didn't pick anything up from childhood." Showing little to no excitement because I was told I was being "obnoxious" "Grades are more important" Putting everyone's needs before mine Anger issues
For me it's the being real sensitive to an incoming/current bad mood of someone, a bad mood is like a prelude to an arguement or lecture. I always try to behave myself and make myself completely out of their way as much as possible. Eating quickly to leave early, speaking only when talked to, not make eye contact. Anxiety would eats me inside until I'm alone in my room. But sometimes my bad mood radar gets janky and end up just causing me too much stress, giving me indigestion.
"No i don't think i picked up any bad traits from my childhood " I express my negativ feelings (ex. Sadness, helplessness, frustrations) into anger wich results into people misjudging me and misunderstanding along other things For people woundering why i used to cry a lot as a normal child would do my parents would tell me to shut up or say im a scaredy cat (BLOOD ma'm every child would cry!!) And anger was the only thing were i got responses well now im 13 completly messed up and only cry for seconds siletnly Seriously dont make ur kid ur slave or try to make UR responsebility into theirs!! I got my first younger sibling at the age of 8 i was when ever could near him giving him his milk (mother doesn't breastfeed), playing with him, trying to teach him how to draw to speak, changing diaper mother then made me do everything moving forward with 10 i got my 2nd brother who i also have to take care of on top of my proplems and stuff, house hold (evenso she is a house wife)... even adults think im acting like a adult and Constantly look tired the problem is children protect service isn't doing anything until u are black and blue all over ur body 24/7 i have panic attacks bc of that woman! I can't handle loud noises or very fast or very fast agressiv movements it came so far that i cutted myself in front of my classmates bc of everything i alawys do that alone and were u couldn't see it (ex.shoulders, very up on ur leg )
@@camila-um4nd im sry to hear that, my parents dont alow me to say what happens at home too but since they dont speak any langauges beside german how do they wanna know?i also recently spoke to my aunt who says im allowed to move in when i turn 18 since she can't do anything currenly or my mom would beat me again.. Do u wanna talk about ur experince?
“i didn’t pick up any bad coping mechanisms from when i was a kid” shuts down emotionally and mentally when overwhelmed + seeks out toxic relationships because it’s easier to be lied to and know you’re not really needed than it is to be relied upon for genuine support
0:41 MOST RELATABLE ONE BY FAR. I OVEREXPLAIN EVERYTHING BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE I AM ALWAYS CONFUSING EVERYONE OR EVERYONE IS JUDGING ME (not me over explaining that too)
Some of these are so accurate and I didn’t even realize, I always thought it was normal and I didn’t need to talk to people about my problems but maybe it’s time I work on getting a therapist instead of crying and just taking it.
Bro so many of these call me out bc I grew up doing these an unHEALTHY amount, and I still do some of these. I think one of my main toxic traits is how badly I isolate and I’m very quick to detach from others and cut them off once I feel like they’re bored of me, basically “leave before they leave you” kinda deal. Since I moved around a lot, I never really grew up with stable and solid friend groups, and since I had the mentality that I was gonna move anyways, I never felt the need to keep them around, even if it probably would’ve been better for myself to keep them around. I often used maladaptive daydreaming to cope with my loneliness, so since I also knew that I could in some regard “create” the people I’ve always wanted to be friends with, cutting people off didn’t hurt as much, but it’s probably hurt me in the long run
"I didn't pick up any bad habits from my childhood" Talking really loud all the time cause if I didn't no one heard me Never telling my mom things cause she always had a reason / dismissal
My bad childhood trait I picked up was bathrooms are safe. Nobody will get me in the bathroom. That and I have to do it myself, I’m weak if anyone helps me.
“nah I don’t think I picked up any bad traits from my childhood” not physically being able to say the word ‘help’ or express when I am in distress for years.
i didn't pick up any bad traits from my childhood... talking fast so i don't get interrupted and have to raise my hand for 5-10 mins before i get noticed and can talk.
I will hold everything in until I just can’t take it anymore and I scream and throw things bc it feels good to bit after I feel drained and nobody wants to talk to me.
Haha! The thing for me is 99% of my personality is from my childhood let's go! Anger issues (little brothers) Attachment issues (my mom) Abandonment issues (my dad leaving) Daddy issues (My dad leaving.) Mommy issues (she was kinda toxic) Hiding from problems (DAD) Too dependent (mom) TOO MANY.
“I really don’t think my childhood was that traumatic, I didn’t pick up any unhealthy thought patterns or anything…” like 43% of my personality: 👁👅👁 EDIT: actually I think it’s kinda cringe of you to cut out the watermarks and not credit the creators in any other way
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I just felt the “hiding in the bathroom until I feel ok”. That one’s a little too accurate for me.
Same
😜
bathrooms and lying on kitchen floors for me
same i always cry in the bathroom because everwhere else there are people and i don't want them to see me
so they don't ask why i am crying so yeah same..
I don’t think I picked up any bad habits from childhood
Got used to being given up on because of my fear of showing emotions and given to different family’s in the Foster System
Night is safe. Night is good. There is no bad night, only bad day. Just make sure to listen for footsteps, because the night is for sleeping and nothing else. Night doesn't like to be interrupted. Night doesn't like to fake being asleep. Night doesn't like to share. But night always gets sad when it turns out nobody was there.
i love night
That is beautiful and true🤍
i liked that. thank you.
"I didn't pick up any bad habits from my childhood"
Not knowing how to express my sadness
Crying whenever someone raises their voice
Shutting down
“I dont think I picked up any bad habits from my childhood”
Gets so clingy when meeting a guy that actually cares to the point I can’t leave their side, or go a day without talking to them..
"no I didn't pick up any bad traits from childhood"
Uses sarcasm and laughter instead of having to explain my true thoughts or feelings
"I didn't pick anything up from childhood."
Showing little to no excitement because I was told I was being "obnoxious"
"Grades are more important"
Putting everyone's needs before mine
Anger issues
For me it's the being real sensitive to an incoming/current bad mood of someone, a bad mood is like a prelude to an arguement or lecture. I always try to behave myself and make myself completely out of their way as much as possible. Eating quickly to leave early, speaking only when talked to, not make eye contact. Anxiety would eats me inside until I'm alone in my room. But sometimes my bad mood radar gets janky and end up just causing me too much stress, giving me indigestion.
"No i don't think i picked up any bad traits from my childhood "
I express my negativ feelings (ex. Sadness, helplessness, frustrations) into anger wich results into people misjudging me and misunderstanding along other things
For people woundering why i used to cry a lot as a normal child would do my parents would tell me to shut up or say im a scaredy cat (BLOOD ma'm every child would cry!!) And anger was the only thing were i got responses well now im 13 completly messed up and only cry for seconds siletnly
Seriously dont make ur kid ur slave or try to make UR responsebility into theirs!!
I got my first younger sibling at the age of 8 i was when ever could near him giving him his milk (mother doesn't breastfeed), playing with him, trying to teach him how to draw to speak, changing diaper mother then made me do everything moving forward with 10 i got my 2nd brother who i also have to take care of on top of my proplems and stuff, house hold (evenso she is a house wife)... even adults think im acting like a adult and Constantly look tired the problem is children protect service isn't doing anything until u are black and blue all over ur body 24/7 i have panic attacks bc of that woman! I can't handle loud noises or very fast or very fast agressiv movements it came so far that i cutted myself in front of my classmates bc of everything i alawys do that alone and were u couldn't see it (ex.shoulders, very up on ur leg )
same, and most of the time my parents wouldnt let me show anything. which is why i bottle things up and then everything just explodes out.
@@camila-um4nd im sry to hear that, my parents dont alow me to say what happens at home too but since they dont speak any langauges beside german how do they wanna know?i also recently spoke to my aunt who says im allowed to move in when i turn 18 since she can't do anything currenly or my mom would beat me again..
Do u wanna talk about ur experince?
same. i cut myself so that people could see the physical marks
“i didn’t pick up any bad coping mechanisms from when i was a kid”
shuts down emotionally and mentally when overwhelmed + seeks out toxic relationships because it’s easier to be lied to and know you’re not really needed than it is to be relied upon for genuine support
0:41 MOST RELATABLE ONE BY FAR. I OVEREXPLAIN EVERYTHING BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE I AM ALWAYS CONFUSING EVERYONE OR EVERYONE IS JUDGING ME (not me over explaining that too)
Instantly bursting into tears once expressing myself and telling people how I feel, I can relate to that one but once I do people just laugh
Some of these are so accurate and I didn’t even realize, I always thought it was normal and I didn’t need to talk to people about my problems but maybe it’s time I work on getting a therapist instead of crying and just taking it.
Bro so many of these call me out bc I grew up doing these an unHEALTHY amount, and I still do some of these.
I think one of my main toxic traits is how badly I isolate and I’m very quick to detach from others and cut them off once I feel like they’re bored of me, basically “leave before they leave you” kinda deal. Since I moved around a lot, I never really grew up with stable and solid friend groups, and since I had the mentality that I was gonna move anyways, I never felt the need to keep them around, even if it probably would’ve been better for myself to keep them around. I often used maladaptive daydreaming to cope with my loneliness, so since I also knew that I could in some regard “create” the people I’ve always wanted to be friends with, cutting people off didn’t hurt as much, but it’s probably hurt me in the long run
"I didn't pick up any bad habits from my childhood"
Talking really loud all the time cause if I didn't no one heard me
Never telling my mom things cause she always had a reason / dismissal
"I dont think I picked up any bad habits from my childhood”
afraid to make simple mistakes, like dropping a glass
I just realized a bad habit tht I have is staying up till 1/2 just so I can I sleep through half of the day and not deal with family bs
My bad childhood trait I picked up was bathrooms are safe. Nobody will get me in the bathroom.
That and I have to do it myself, I’m weak if anyone helps me.
1:53
Off topic but the birds on her collarbone reminded me of the tattoo tris got on divergent
0:46 im always prepared. Currently waiting for the person I have now to realize im not good enough.
"I don't think I picked up any bad habits from my childhood"
Shuts down after every minor convenience
0:05 tatakae
wait..... "its me against the world" ... thats bad? and the "i dont need help i can do it myself"
"I don't think i picked up any bad traits from my CH"
constantly feeling like no one wants me around
“nah I don’t think I picked up any bad traits from my childhood”
not physically being able to say the word ‘help’ or express when I am in distress for years.
i didn't pick up any bad traits from my childhood...
talking fast so i don't get interrupted and have to raise my hand for 5-10 mins before i get noticed and can talk.
the first one is so true for me
I don’t think i picked up any bad traits from my childhood..
*addicted to fantasy themes and media*
I will hold everything in until I just can’t take it anymore and I scream and throw things bc it feels good to bit after I feel drained and nobody wants to talk to me.
3:52 struck me a little too personally
I did not pick up any thing from growing up
Thinks before they say anything so not criticized or laughed at 😔
I have learned that if I cough relight before I sob it releases the pressure and I’m not as loud
i compulsively lie for no reason. even if it doesn’t help me in anyway.
I'm still a child and half of these explain me :/
Haha! The thing for me is 99% of my personality is from my childhood let's go!
Anger issues (little brothers)
Attachment issues (my mom)
Abandonment issues (my dad leaving)
Daddy issues (My dad leaving.)
Mommy issues (she was kinda toxic)
Hiding from problems (DAD)
Too dependent (mom)
TOO MANY.
“I really don’t think my childhood was that traumatic, I didn’t pick up any unhealthy thought patterns or anything…”
like 43% of my personality: 👁👅👁
EDIT: actually I think it’s kinda cringe of you to cut out the watermarks and not credit the creators in any other way
Tired of seeing childhood trauma being boiled down to astrology signs 😐
overexplaining is a big one for me