The hardest thing about being in your 20's, at least in modern Western culture, is that for the first time you have no "assigned" peer group and usually no assigned path to walk. You navigate through true freedom and, while liberating, it's also scary.
"Western Culture" you "Americans" tent to see the world as your belly button ignoring that there's no one culture in the whole western hemisphere. Seeing the world as your own and appropriating an entire continent as your own calling yourself "Americans". I'm from the western hemisphere and I'm an American too but completely different in standards, culture, illusions and likings. Your 20's is our 18's and nothing is the same for us. "Western culture" you say. 😂
@@lordarchon2572True to some extent but you don’t have to follow society’s expectations of you. You are totally free to do what you want as long as you are not harming anyone. Be true to your true self, everything will flow from there.
School isn't meant to teach you life skills. It's meant to prepare you for higher education and, basic functions like math reading and, history. Your parents are meant to teach you life skills. And, if they don't it's your responsibility to learn them yourself.
I think between 15-21 is the best time to invest in experiences like service abroad or community, martial arts, and learning the fundamentals of financial resilience and sustainability through exploring entrepreneurial opportunities and how they can benefit the needs of the people in your state by learning about different marginalized groups and the diverse financial and legal leandscapes they are challenged by and how to better those solutions, how to innovate, how to create work opportunities, how to promote education and social justice to preserve dignity and equity so that society can thrive as a whole and celebrate its diverse talent and strengths that exist in its community.
Try to do it in a different country aside the USA and you'll see how idealism is not what your comfort life has give you... Wake up, the World is wider than You think.
I'm sorry, I disagree with this speaker. You are in your growing ages. You are finding yourselves. Enjoy your life. Have fun. Find laughter. Make a difference. Young people need to put down your phones, and look what's around you that is real. Find your talents. Be grateful. Be humble. Be thankful, for life could be so much worse. Have hope, because there are so many amazing things going on. Be a part of something good. Make a difference. You are our future. For that, you have a purpose. You are important. May you find the best you. Make it easy. Joy and peace is found in gratitude. Start by being grateful for your sheets. 👍🏻
@@weesnaorc1203 .......and that is important in your late teens, early 20's. They were locked up during '19, and all they heard was 'fear'. People need to hear that there's hope and laughter available. Emotions are needed, not feelings. Just because you feel something, doesn't make it so. That's what these young minds are being told. Some of basic psychology is responding to situations. Emotions and feelings are used interchangeably, but they are different. Developing emotional awareness can help prevent reactivity and false beliefs. This is my point, and part of the spkr.
We are Not the future, our present is what makes us what we are not the illusion of a future that may not happen. With all due respect you sound like those selfhelp charlatans with zero idea about real world issues. Come abroad and see what is really to live a life without all the advantages dollars have and try to laugh whilst your country tries to take away from you the illusion of education, a stable job, a safe space to live.
Teach kids about philosophy like Stoicism. Don't force them to follow it...but give them the idea that things like that exist if they ever want to explore it. I'm saying this because no one taught me about it at school.
If you really understand what's stoicism about, you wouldn't think is the same for all stoic philosophers. Those TikTok videos you think are about stoicism are just selfhelp with a low comprehensive level of philosophy. 😂
@@joshuareynolds23 As bold as it is. Stoicism wasn't meant to be taught as other philosophical "schools". One can't take a personal diary as your guide because it wasn't meant to be such thing. The fact that the other comment didn't define it it's because there's no one stoic "school" but a series of personal perspectives about life.
The hardest thing about being in your 20's, at least in modern Western culture, is that for the first time you have no "assigned" peer group and usually no assigned path to walk. You navigate through true freedom and, while liberating, it's also scary.
The problem is we navigate the illusion of freedom
"Western Culture" you "Americans" tent to see the world as your belly button ignoring that there's no one culture in the whole western hemisphere. Seeing the world as your own and appropriating an entire continent as your own calling yourself "Americans". I'm from the western hemisphere and I'm an American too but completely different in standards, culture, illusions and likings. Your 20's is our 18's and nothing is the same for us. "Western culture" you say. 😂
@@lordarchon2572True to some extent but you don’t have to follow society’s expectations of you. You are totally free to do what you want as long as you are not harming anyone. Be true to your true self, everything will flow from there.
@@AtrozGrimaAre you from Colombia?
@@donpitera ???
What a lovely speaking. I just turned 24 and made my radical decision. It was reaaally hard and long to decide. But worth it 🎉
Decision making includes spending too much time on one's phone
Yes! I learned f all about actual life skills in school.
School isn't meant to teach you life skills. It's meant to prepare you for higher education and, basic functions like math reading and, history. Your parents are meant to teach you life skills. And, if they don't it's your responsibility to learn them yourself.
Truest Ted Talk
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This is me in this clip👋 if you’re interested I go more into depth about navigating your 20s on my channel.
Repeal the 19th amendment.
I think between 15-21 is the best time to invest in experiences like service abroad or community, martial arts, and learning the fundamentals of financial resilience and sustainability through exploring entrepreneurial opportunities and how they can benefit the needs of the people in your state by learning about different marginalized groups and the diverse financial and legal leandscapes they are challenged by and how to better those solutions, how to innovate, how to create work opportunities, how to promote education and social justice to preserve dignity and equity so that society can thrive as a whole and celebrate its diverse talent and strengths that exist in its community.
And learn how to use full stops
Try to do it in a different country aside the USA and you'll see how idealism is not what your comfort life has give you... Wake up, the World is wider than You think.
Brilliant !
Tell the truth
I start to wonder why people start saying Ted talks changed? but a question raised, is it Ted talks or the veiwers, I mean look at the comments 💀
I'm sorry, I disagree with this speaker.
You are in your growing ages. You are finding yourselves. Enjoy your life. Have fun. Find laughter. Make a difference. Young people need to put down your phones, and look what's around you that is real.
Find your talents. Be grateful. Be humble. Be thankful, for life could be so much worse. Have hope, because there are so many amazing things going on. Be a part of something good.
Make a difference. You are our future. For that, you have a purpose. You are important.
May you find the best you.
Make it easy. Joy and peace is found in gratitude. Start by being grateful for your sheets. 👍🏻
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Much of what you explained is emotional skills.
@@weesnaorc1203 .......and that is important in your late teens, early 20's. They were locked up during '19, and all they heard was 'fear'.
People need to hear that there's hope and laughter available. Emotions are needed, not feelings. Just because you feel something, doesn't make it so. That's what these young minds are being told.
Some of basic psychology is responding to situations.
Emotions and feelings are used interchangeably, but they are different. Developing emotional awareness can help prevent reactivity and false beliefs.
This is my point, and part of the spkr.
We are Not the future, our present is what makes us what we are not the illusion of a future that may not happen. With all due respect you sound like those selfhelp charlatans with zero idea about real world issues. Come abroad and see what is really to live a life without all the advantages dollars have and try to laugh whilst your country tries to take away from you the illusion of education, a stable job, a safe space to live.
@@Anne2usounds like youve either never been to America or, like someone whose never been anywhere else.
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Teach kids about philosophy like Stoicism. Don't force them to follow it...but give them the idea that things like that exist if they ever want to explore it. I'm saying this because no one taught me about it at school.
If you just teach it not many will actually follow it.
If you really understand what's stoicism about, you wouldn't think is the same for all stoic philosophers. Those TikTok videos you think are about stoicism are just selfhelp with a low comprehensive level of philosophy. 😂
@@AtrozGrimathat's a bold assertion considering he never once described it. So you really don't have any clue what he knows about it.
@@joshuareynolds23 As bold as it is. Stoicism wasn't meant to be taught as other philosophical "schools". One can't take a personal diary as your guide because it wasn't meant to be such thing. The fact that the other comment didn't define it it's because there's no one stoic "school" but a series of personal perspectives about life.
So gorgeous girl 💯❣️😘😘
In the past women stayed home and always had time for their children. Nowadays both parents have to work and kids have to raise themselves.
I was distracted by the suit it looks like it is off somebody's size 4 times bigger than her😢
Just work hard and be a good person. Your 30s will thank you and you can watch everyone suffer in shame in regret.
Socially I struggle so socially
I get no bitches
Isn’t that chandler’s suit?
I was completely agreeing until I heard the word radical. Being radical at anything is really almost never the answer. Too bad.
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Lol being radically responsible for your own health is not the answer? You lost the message because of your own stigma over a word? 😂
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I was almost certain the clothes, especially the trousers, were on someone else’s body🤦🏽♀️
And also like her movements that move left and right. She'd be better off standing still.
Holy frump