Romanticize Your Life - How to Be the Main Character of Your Life

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  • Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025

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  • @MayoUtuk
    @MayoUtuk 3 года назад +78

    Gratitude turns what we have into enough.
    I lost my mother 8 years and she left me a house,several times I tried selling the house,i couldn't wait to make enough money to be able to move out of here.
    I was forced to live here because I had no choice .i hated it here I felt stuck and I was so unhappy.😢
    It wasn't until I started watching your videothat I began to see the good in my situation . You made see the value in living simply and my life and I am so grateful to be here and am glad I didn't sell my home because now I proudly document it and share it with the world. Thank you 🌈🌿☀️

  • @jsavannah123
    @jsavannah123 3 года назад +33

    People are so afraid of death, I find it such a relief. I am thankful my time will inevitably end, it gives it meaning.

  • @gabriellabreezwind
    @gabriellabreezwind 3 года назад +61

    "Reality is far more interesting than fairytales" Wow, thank you! This made me gasp because it's so true! 💗🌷🦋

  • @patstoen3738
    @patstoen3738 2 года назад +1

    I found this video this morning. Thank you as it was such an awakening tor me. I am slowly changing things in my life. You are such a beautiful soul. . Everyone should listen to what you have to say, You are so alive.

  • @AlexBlank
    @AlexBlank 3 года назад +36

    I like that you mentioned that being joyful is a skill. It seems as though so many people feel like failures because it doesn't come "naturally." It really does take a lot of strength and intention to lead a happy life, though everyone's capable of it :)

  • @maryannrogers8675
    @maryannrogers8675 3 года назад +1

    Such an amazing video. I have not always been the main character in my life. I was always a daughter, sister, wife and mother first. Now after getting a divorce and my children are grown I’m finally deciding that I’m important enough to be the main character in my life. I love your slow living and slow travel videos. I’m finally slowing down and feeling so much more at peace with myself. Thank you

  • @HoeBitch-qn5sl
    @HoeBitch-qn5sl 3 года назад +1

    Our exams are over. Me and my friends promised we would hang out, but we haven’t. They have other things to do. I feel lonely. But I realised how dependent I am on others to feel joy in life and how I need to stop this. I need be okay with being alone and I need to do simple things like ordering food by myself. I need to take control and I will take control

  • @aliciamarielavoie
    @aliciamarielavoie 3 года назад +15

    "REALITY IS FAR MORE INTERESTING THAN FAIRYTALES."
    So true, Helena! I got goosebumps when I first heard you say the above words in this video. Be the main character in your own fairytale, your own story. Thank you for sharing!

  • @VerenaSatriani
    @VerenaSatriani 3 года назад +50

    I adore every scene here, sea, hills, sky, sunrise, sunset and all. They remind me how beautiful life is. And you are the true beauty between them all, Helena. Thank you for this amazing piece

  • @kimcartwright8111
    @kimcartwright8111 3 года назад +11

    I just love this, so beautiful. You are right time is currency. I get annoyed daily at the loss of time, and how it is wasted with toxic people and mundane chores etc. I always say to myself maybe tomorrow and tomorrow turns into next week, then next month etc. Soooo, since my situation is not changing anytime soon, I am trying to change my perspective. I am thankful for hot and cold running water, food to eat, a roof over my head , my daughters' laughter/joy (because they are not the happiest most of the time) so when I hear that my heart is so full. I have little time, but I started reading fiction again and am getting lost in that. I feed the birds bread every morning and they are there waiting for me. I love that. I enjoy gardening and taking care of my houseplants. What I do is not much to others, but I am slowly creating or finding me. I am the main character of my life and I want to be happy. I can't have a redo on my life at this point, but I would like to write/create the rest. Thank you for your video. Have a great day!

  • @gabizinhalima6181
    @gabizinhalima6181 3 года назад +7

    you are a gift in my life, seriously. im struggling w anxiety and depression, and you dont know how important you've been this week!!!! God bless you!

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад +2

      thank you

    • @liz_21
      @liz_21 3 года назад +1

      Couldn't have said it better. ♥️

  • @flapdoodlecacklberry
    @flapdoodlecacklberry 3 года назад +16

    This video is a total work of art! 🌈 I am overflowing with tears of joy as I write this!!! 💝🎵 Thank you so much dear one! 🌟💖🐿️🌺

  • @alotlikelife
    @alotlikelife 3 года назад +14

    France is one of my favorite country in the world. The way you describe life, I have always felt it but have never seen anyone describe these simple joys this beautifully. Keep creating beautiful videos, love binge watching your channel

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад +3

      Wow thank you! So glad you can relate and we can connect with one another! 😊💞

  • @rebeccal.672
    @rebeccal.672 3 года назад +8

    Loved all the scenes and your message. We need to be more positive. It has been d**n hard with Cooties 19, civil unrest, and lock down. Thanks for sharing.

  • @mariannehartner-godown7292
    @mariannehartner-godown7292 3 года назад +1

    This is the best video I’ve seen on this topic. Most of the advice I keep hearing is things like “Take pictures of the beautiful things in your life and post them on social media”, or “Treat yourself and buy something you don’t necessarily need, but you think would make you happy”. That’s fine if you want to do those things, but I think they miss the point! Thank you for this. 😌

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад +1

      totally!! It goes so much deeper than that 🥰

  • @gingersal8052
    @gingersal8052 3 года назад +5

    Gorgeous images and message! "The complexity of life is what makes it beautiful" I quite agree!

  • @kanzul4256
    @kanzul4256 3 года назад

    the complexity of life is what makes it beautiful 💛

  • @anitaanita7162
    @anitaanita7162 3 года назад

    Phenomenal! This video should have millions of views... can’t wait to see this going viral. 👏😃 Hi from North Carolina 🇺🇸

  • @TJ-kz1ul
    @TJ-kz1ul 3 года назад +6

    This is beautiful. Life is a gift. Many people have struggles in life, and yet are still able to make their life beautiful. There is a Zen prayer I try to remember to chant every evening before bed. It's called an evening gatha--- "Life and death are of extreme importance, time passes by and opportunity is lost, each of us should awaken, take heed, do not squander your life" --Dogen

  • @donnawoodward3163
    @donnawoodward3163 3 года назад +7

    Excellent messages, love your dresses you look so lovely in them. I'm probably the age of your grandma and I just want you to know I smile throughout your videos just so happy you are so wise and "bien dans ta peau" at such a young age. Many live their lives never feeling well in their skin like I. It's a beautiful, beautiful thing for me to see you creating your beautiful life. You give me hope for this screwed up world. I think if your generation and those younger ones all bring such wisdom and unique beauty and kind respect to themselves and others and the world around them wonders will unveil and love may yet prevail.🌺😘🕊️✨💝🎶🧚‍♀️✌️

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад +3

      Thank you for sharing your generous words and light with me Donna 🤗 I agree - there’s a lot of darkness in this world, and it why I felt so inspired and motivated to start this channel about the simple joys a year ago. We need more people to stand up and share their light. Joy is contagious. Light is infectious! And spreading it to one single person is profound. It’s like a ripple effect 💫🌙

    • @donnawoodward3163
      @donnawoodward3163 3 года назад +1

      @@helenawoods 💝🌠🧚‍♀️

  • @charlescurtis853
    @charlescurtis853 3 года назад +4

    I so appreciate this message. Follow your joy, be a deliberate creator. Stand back from mind and feel the universe flow through you, marvel at what is appearing. And use the appearance of what is, as a way to see where you are. Life is a gift in all its facets.

  • @jenniferbeach1484
    @jenniferbeach1484 3 года назад +5

    You and your channel are a refreshing delight. The cinematography is so high quality. I find your philosophy about life and courage so inspiring.

  • @beverleyroberts1025
    @beverleyroberts1025 3 года назад +1

    Yes, only you get to decide, only you get to make choices and only you get to value yourself.x 😊

  • @nathaliebourre3578
    @nathaliebourre3578 3 года назад +2

    Recently discovered your channel via the recommendation of a crafting one ... my first foray in your company was in Strasbourg, city I know very well and where my sister still lives with her family... purposely slowly watching your episodes, most of them a couple of times... And as for lipstick, just like you, I put some on everyday despite wearing my mask over it for I am sure it makes all smiles prettier! With warm thanks from North Yorkshire, England 💄🤗

  • @humbleviewpoint
    @humbleviewpoint 5 месяцев назад

    It is evident that you are the product of what you teach. I know that requires strength and focus, which I want to thank you for.

  • @carolynramos7224
    @carolynramos7224 3 года назад +6

    When I close my eyes I can truly absorb your words. They are inspirational and calming in equal measures ❤

  • @debburns9187
    @debburns9187 3 года назад

    I love the way you meld simple living with spirituality. Not in this video but binging on your older videos as I iron and prepare for a trip back to New Zealand to see my family after 18 months of closed borders.

  • @lovelyliviamay
    @lovelyliviamay 3 года назад

    I really enjoy the sound of your voice, it's so comforting to listen to. Your videos have brought me a small piece of a joy, as if I found something special, precious, and delicate. Your words, and thoughts, sharing them with all of us here, the way they've touched me personally, they're a comfort to the person I wish to be. The one that hides beneath the exterior others see, of this strong willed, busy, exhausted, and occasionally depressed mess. I've been working so hard internally for many years to find myself, and lacking the environment to thrive as the person who just wishes to be content with life itself, and the many wonders it offers. Just as I began to feel more exhausted and frustrated with the journey to get to where I want to be, I found your channel. It's been inspiring and comforting, watching your videos. I'm so grateful you're here, and for everything you've shared as you grow, and simply live. I hope you and your family are all doing well during this time. 💗🌷

  • @manuariasm
    @manuariasm 3 года назад +1

    Wow... I should watch this video right after I wake up every morning 🌅

  • @joea8650
    @joea8650 3 года назад +2

    Beautiful reminders...everything is temporary and life is fleeting...working toward embracing each day with gratitude!

  • @julianagranziera5329
    @julianagranziera5329 3 года назад +2

    Nature and the right choice of words. You are so creative and spontaneous. Love your vídeos. LOL from Brazil.

  • @oxanaburdenkova2627
    @oxanaburdenkova2627 3 года назад +1

    The yellow fits you excellent!

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад

      Thank you Oxana!! My favorite color!

  • @fruitloopygurl
    @fruitloopygurl 3 года назад

    Amazing video 🥰🥰 you are so right that it is easier to be pessimistic and critical than joyful. It’s a choice we have to make each day. Life is beautiful and full of good- we just need to look for it.

  • @minniezurbano879
    @minniezurbano879 3 года назад +3

    Hi Helena 🙋‍♀️
    Before i start work each day, i always try to listen to anything that will create calm and peace in me. Finding your video was like having a piece of heaven. Thank you for bringing color and beauty in my eyes before i get to face work again. I wrote many lines in my journal from what you said. I shall keep them in mind.
    Have seen a few of your videos...and today...i am subscribing! 💞
    Take care.

  • @kateemmerson3891
    @kateemmerson3891 2 года назад

    I just found and LOVE your channel. It feels like I found my best friend. Thank you Diana Cuthbert

  • @jill8121
    @jill8121 3 года назад +2

    This video made my day🙂 I'm so happy that I found your channel. You are truly inspiring and a sweet and lovely person.

  • @ileanacardona2248
    @ileanacardona2248 3 года назад +5

    Lovely video. In the times we’re living, it’s easy to forget to enjoy the simple things in every day. Thank you for reminding us! Sending you a big hug from Puerto Rico. ❤️

  • @smellofpaints9219
    @smellofpaints9219 3 года назад +5

    This fed my soul 💕

  • @11bluerosexoxo
    @11bluerosexoxo 3 года назад +1

    I felt the warmth of the sun and the kiss of the Breeze, I am relaxed and refreshed:)!

  • @draugustadorning
    @draugustadorning 3 года назад +5

    Great content in the context of self awareness and taking responsibility! Cinematography one of my favourites of all your work!

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад +2

      oh thank you Augusta!! :) That means the world!

  • @DiskFlow
    @DiskFlow 3 года назад

    I love your feedback on France, you are a bubbly happy person , natural, as I always love France, visited many times from the UK. Hopefully one day I can move to France.😊👍🏼

  • @KristenMelissa
    @KristenMelissa 3 года назад +1

    This was the most gorgeous thing to wake up to!! 😍 The color of the sea and the sunlight!! 🌞 Wow! 💗 I woke up and started feeling down, then I noticed my thoughts were focusing on "what I don't have or haven't done" so I turned my thoughts around to focus on what I do have (Sun outside! Spring is nearly here! And I get to be here!) and I felt much better. Then I saw your Beautiful video. Yes, it takes conscious effort to "be the main character", but it is so worth the effort! Thank you as always, for your light, Helena. 💛

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад +2

      How beautiful, Kristen!! Oh this makes me so happy to hear!

    • @KristenMelissa
      @KristenMelissa 3 года назад +1

      @@helenawoods 💗💗💗

  • @liz_21
    @liz_21 3 года назад

    I don't why but i cried watching this video of yours. The journey that i am on rn is somewhat similar to what you have talked about and i felt each and every words of yours. So, thank you for this. ♥️♥️

  • @honorablelady1590
    @honorablelady1590 3 года назад

    Soo true! Effort to choose to enjoy life!

  • @MameysMedley
    @MameysMedley 3 года назад +2

    Wow, it looks so warm where you are...I am in NY still buried in snow. Dont get me wrong, I love the snow and the drastic change of seasons where I live but the sea is my fav place to visit. Great video!

  • @user-sg5tr6jt3y
    @user-sg5tr6jt3y 3 года назад

    i just got shown your channel and I LOVE IT. Since forever I’m trying to surround myself with positive people and consume positive content and I could never find anything and then I finally found what I was looking for. I am so happy right now thank you ❤️🌷🫖☀️

  • @katiemynette4285
    @katiemynette4285 3 года назад

    Heart of Kentucky. Hi Helena/Simple Joys. I have once again watched this video. I'm about to watch it again!! Katie.

  • @gloriaowen9941
    @gloriaowen9941 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful. Inspirational. Profound. Thank you.

  • @sofiacosta1897
    @sofiacosta1897 3 года назад +2

    Wise words Helena👏. Absolutely love your dresses😊 and this video is gourgeous. Drone images add a beautiful touch.👍👍 😘

  • @Teenaadventure
    @Teenaadventure 3 года назад +1

    Amazing scenery...yes.we live once.enjoy your life, don't waste it..😍😍

  • @nicolafigini784
    @nicolafigini784 3 года назад +3

    This is really good. Both the production and the content. Thank you for spreading your message about simple joys in such a beautiful way.

  • @ursulatraynor
    @ursulatraynor 3 года назад

    Another beautiful example of your talent for film making and inspiring others in the process.
    Thank you 🙏

  • @michellef4645
    @michellef4645 3 года назад +1

    Don't have anything to say except your videos bring me joy

  • @fogalmazasgatlo849
    @fogalmazasgatlo849 3 года назад

    I cried while watching. So inspiring

  • @MyName-fh5ik
    @MyName-fh5ik 3 года назад +1

    I love that you taught me to train my eye to enjoy the mundane things and to know that remaining in a state of gladness is a trained skill that takes practice. It doesn't just come when something else happens in life. I'm starting now and I plan to remain in a happy state more and more each day as I start to embrace my role as the main character. Thank you 💕

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад

      This brings me so much joy to read!! Thank you for sharing your light with me, Dena :)

  • @pumpkinspice9751
    @pumpkinspice9751 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for your words of inspiration 😀👍

  • @abdulmustaffa8660
    @abdulmustaffa8660 3 года назад +1

    So inspiring...i keep watching most of your post and i feel so uplifted...thank you for sharing these wonderful and meaningful post....thank you so very much :)

  • @mariyarahman26
    @mariyarahman26 3 года назад

    You are so amazing and everytime i got so inspired watching your videos. Learn how simple and beautiful life can be. The music and your ideas are great including those beautiful lines and the beauty of the nature. My soul is getting healed by watching your videos. Tons of ❤️ for you.

  • @LiveFree123
    @LiveFree123 3 года назад +1

    You always put a smile on my face.☺️ beautiful you❤️

  • @gillwoolley6515
    @gillwoolley6515 3 года назад +1

    Thank you lovely. Your vlogs help to ground me. Those few minutes in the day make such a difference. As a mature viewer,I realise I have allowed others to take the the lead in my life,but during recent times I have finally learnt to become my own boss. Sending love from England ❤

  • @NilDreams
    @NilDreams 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful video to wake up to. ❤️

  • @alinaadamut
    @alinaadamut 3 года назад +1

    My heart is smiling ... Thank you, beautiful Helena!

  • @ckitch10
    @ckitch10 3 года назад +1

    Wow this was powerful. I love it. Thank you

  • @alishasanders6282
    @alishasanders6282 3 года назад

    Your voice makes me feel good

  • @gathercreatelivewithleslie8340
    @gathercreatelivewithleslie8340 3 года назад

    One thing that may add enjoyment to your writing is a fountain pen. I have started a collection of beautiful pens with wonderful inks with shimmer and it makes me smile every time I use them. There are cheap ones all the way up to very expensive. I'm currently using a Conklin Endura mother of pearl fountain pen with a forest green ink. Where you I've you should be able to find some fabulous pens. Almost everything in America is imported from Japan, Germany, France, China and Russia. Inspiring video

  • @michellevolland5443
    @michellevolland5443 3 года назад +1

    Hello Helena 🙋🏻‍♀️ started my day watching this beautiful uplifting video. It’s going to be a magical day whatever comes my way. Thank you 🌸

  • @dulcepires
    @dulcepires 3 года назад +1

    Wise!

  • @SaraLevasseur
    @SaraLevasseur 3 года назад +1

    What a beautiful video and message. ❤️

  • @mignonettealfajaro6982
    @mignonettealfajaro6982 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful place. I really enjoyed watching the nature and the sceneries. Wonderful cinematography. I'm a fan. You're so good at what you do.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад +2

      Thank you kindly!! I'm so glad to hear you liked it :)

  • @desiringless
    @desiringless 3 года назад

    I’ve watched this many times it really touched me! You are a breath of fresh air. You will inspire so so many.

  • @Therobynnicole
    @Therobynnicole 3 года назад

    Your content is so necessary and truly blesses my soul…thank you for your contribution to the world!

  • @coachdebby564
    @coachdebby564 3 года назад +1

    This is very nice pairing of wisdom and visual footage. 💗

  • @chrismahieu5352
    @chrismahieu5352 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Helena for bringing joy into my life. Every video is so uplifting. Can't believe how wise you are at this stage in your life. You are truly an old soul. I'm a new subscriber and I am kind of binge watching your videos.

  • @ForeverImanee
    @ForeverImanee 3 года назад +1

    Love your storytelling ♥️♥️♥️

  • @bluebird4594
    @bluebird4594 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful video. Love that yellow and blue dress. Love those quotes. Going to write them down so I don't forget them. 🙂

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад +1

      Glad you resonate with them! They had a powerful effect on me as well!

  • @marir1508
    @marir1508 3 года назад +1

    Scene is amazing. 💕

  • @SlowTravelColin
    @SlowTravelColin 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful video Helena. Heartwarming and inspirational. Thank you 😊

  • @lyndasmith6801
    @lyndasmith6801 3 года назад +1

    Love this video. My favorite style of videos that you make. Such a wonderful topic that we all need reminded of. Thanks for the reminder with gorgeous scenery and voice💗

  • @sarahbrandon7107
    @sarahbrandon7107 3 года назад +1

    Wow I love everything about this video! I love your content! 👏🏻🤗

  • @stargazerbird
    @stargazerbird 2 года назад

    Corsica is one of the most beautiful places on earth. Easy to do slow living there.

  • @n.m.3393
    @n.m.3393 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this reminder at this tender time in my life. You are making a difference, my dear. Inspiring! 🙏

  • @tracysouders8338
    @tracysouders8338 3 года назад

    This may be one of the most inspirational videos I've seen on RUclips. Thank you!

  • @catherineduchesne5548
    @catherineduchesne5548 3 года назад

    Only just came across your channel, but am so glad I did. Loved this video ... that quote about reality that's far mor interesting than a fairy tale ... damn, it sparked something inside of me! Loved your smile near the end of the video...some pure joy in your eyes. Thx for sharing your experiences and insights with the world!

  • @kathleenroberts7972
    @kathleenroberts7972 3 года назад

    Gorgous!! And love anything Paulo Coelho writes!

  • @goodvibeslovin
    @goodvibeslovin 3 года назад

    Great video!! You have a great way of provoking thoughts and pointing out simple concepts that sometimes we tend to overlook.

  • @minhkhacuocsongmy4274
    @minhkhacuocsongmy4274 3 года назад

    Thankyou so much for all your video. You are very me, I love the way you dress,the way you talk,The way you see thing.For fifty years of my life I can see myself different than most people in my family,my friends,my coworker,That for the women when we grown up we married and MUST have children,if not people look at me like the weirdos.Sometime I ask myself why am I like this.But,now I have the answear for myself,that I am not alone.This is me,this is who I am,my true self.😁😁😁JUST Want to be happy.

  •  3 года назад

    beautifully shot - such vivid colors and calmness:) happiness is a choice somedays it's more of an effort, but we really do have a choice:) beautiful video:) bisous

  • @k.hudson4610
    @k.hudson4610 3 года назад +1

    Amazing video!!

  • @nayaneebasu3984
    @nayaneebasu3984 3 года назад

    Thank You 👍💐

  • @marimacovei387
    @marimacovei387 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for your perspective on life. I loved the quote at the end, somehow reminded me to pause and find the answer to that question. Thank you so much for being a part of this Universe that amazes me when I get all caught up with life. Somehow, your question resonates as if it was my own voice asking. I am so greatful for today's post. 🤗

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 года назад +1

      Your words really touched my spirit, thank you Mari 🙏🙏 thank you for sharing your kindness and light with me today, I appreciate it! 💕✨

  • @CapturingSpain
    @CapturingSpain 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this!

  • @erika641
    @erika641 3 года назад

    Such a beautiful video ! You are so inspiring 🤗

  • @thelittlestbuddha
    @thelittlestbuddha 3 года назад +1

    That was so beautiful and inspiring 💕 Thank you 💗

  • @pianosongbook
    @pianosongbook 3 года назад +1

    beautiful video!

  • @jsavannah123
    @jsavannah123 3 года назад +1

    Your really do such an incredible job making these videos.

  • @carlotapedro6695
    @carlotapedro6695 3 года назад

    Great sayings great place

  • @simoneeveliseharnisch6047
    @simoneeveliseharnisch6047 3 года назад

    You make me see and understand the good things of Life. I had always said that I am an essencialist! I fiel pleasure with The nature and simplicity. I really enjoy and like very much your videos. Thanks FOR ALL tips and your calm voice too! 😊😉
    God bless you!🙏

  • @suzyking9973
    @suzyking9973 2 года назад

    Thank you this has really helped me

  • @candiceshah
    @candiceshah 3 года назад

    You are so talented! Your videos are so stunning and you have such a great positive energy!

  • @zariashah5847
    @zariashah5847 3 года назад

    This was beautiful.