I get it though, she wanted to make her momma proud. However, her parents are not together, Phaedra getting pregnant before marriage is no different than the lying, sin is sin
And watching this scene is how I knew why Phaedra’s dates weren’t adding up. She simply just lied about having a baby at 6/7 months just so she wouldn’t disappoint anyone about having premarital sex. Like honestly it may not be encouraged in the Bible but it’s not like it’s uncommon so it’s still silly to lie about that in my opinion.
BetterThanEmril It makes sense for her to lie because her mom definitely seemed to have a strong opinion about having children out of wedlock so she probably didn't want to disappoint her overly-religious parents. At the same Phaedra is a grown woman and she should have just been honest because there's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage (if we are taking religion out of the equation.)
"In my family you can't have a baby unless you're married momma's rules." "How many grandkids do you have? " granny "9" fakedra " "and I'm the only 1 married" somebody don't know the rules lmaoooo.. Bravo was Petty for airing this scene 😂😂😂
I wouldn’t be rushing off too get married if I became pregnant, when you leave home in late adolescence ‘momma’ ain’t got no rules with me and my life period!.
I just don't understand how a women in her 30's lies about her due date. like did she also lie and say she was a virgin up until then? and 9 grandkids and none of the parents are married sounds like mama should've got over her outdated rule and just had been thankful for the new addition
a lot of religious people believe that having sex before marriage is a sin, so that’s why she lied about her due date. i grew up going to a Catholic school so I understand. We were taught abstinence above everything else.
1 Corinthians 6:9 Romans chapter 1 These scriptures are about sexual immorality so READ the scriptures for yourself. Phadrae should have done that herself instead of trying to impress her mother like her mother is above the almighty GOD.
Phaedra is so dramatic, you can't even feel anything when you get a C-section, but once those drugs ware off after the delivery, well that's another story. lol.
I had a C-section,and it's nothing nice. The recovery is the worst part, u barley can move, w/o being in pain, and have to learn how to pull yourself up and walk again,and it can take several years for all the scar tissue to completely heal. I 'll take vaginal any day.
I said the same thing when they put my baby in my arms without washing him off lol 😂 I didn’t mean ewww like that just like an awww eww lol 😂 she didn’t mean it like !!!!
@HabeshaQween Having a C- section is consider a major surgery. I don't know anyone who would prefer getting cut open several times. I was stuck in the hospital for a little over a week,and with vaginal deliveries most mothers are out two to three days tops. If anything most doctors are giving these mother's the drug to start the contractions, which interferes w/ the unborn child, and cases the stress level to rise, which results in an emergency C section.
@blahblahblah mememe It's pregnancy itself not just vaginal birth that causes vaginal changes, plus c-sections tear through your abdominal muscles which support your pelvic region, there are studies that show that women with multiple c-sections have more sexual discomfort issues than those who gave birth vaginally
It depends on the person. I've had 2 csections and was out of the hospital within 2 or 3 days. I had to get up and walk around. So it really depends on the person.
Yes c-section is the only major abdominal surgery where a patient is expected to walk right after. Sometimes they don't even wait until the mother is fully numb they just start cutting and tugging regardless. Childbirth can really go left even in hospitals.
@@dijauneaiymuan9834 why some want to keep repeating the same cycle over and over again keep Getting pregnant all that morning sickness and those contractions why repeat that over and over again its to much why just not have 1 child and thats it!! I no some arent planned but why repeat it some cant even afford daycare bearly for 1 child why have more and more its a waste!
@Mika20 I agree, she's full of herself. But, she had me rolling when she said that she won't be screaming like a wolf and pooping on the table while giving birth, LOL.
John 3:16New Revised Standard Version (NRSV) 16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.
Well she went from an ex-con to a heart surgeon! I realized that in life most people have 2-3 soulmates throughout their adulthood. The first one around early to mid 20s, then the next soulmate around mid-thirties to forties. Then the final and hopefully the longest lasting soulmate around 50-60s. That’s just the way I see it.
So how is it that Phaedra mom has 9 grandkids already and Phaedra was the only child married but she said in their family you have to be married to have kids? Did they all get divorced? Am I missing something? Cuz the math aint mathing🧐
So sad that she couldn’t have a better and honest relationship with her parents. I call bull . Her parents know darn well she’s been having sex, please.! How old are they 😝 Just a way to get Old boy to marry her lol... 😂
@Mika20 I agree that if a C-section is needed during birth then it's ok. But, I was incorrect in what I wrote. I meant that a lot of women in Europe, Asia, Australia, and Canada have natural births and have less infant deaths compared to the U.S, which has the highest rate in the world. These days many women request to have C-section and I wouldn't be surprised if Phaedra asked for it.
I think its so funny how people are so quick to judge other people when they have done and settled with even lower standards. People can always smell everybody else's shit but their own, it doesn't smell like roses either. And another thing....settling with someone who may not be on the same level with you is not a "black" thing! Get it right!
@HabeshaQween Girl she was so ridiculous about her pregnancy to begin with. All that stuff about what she won't do,...it's nature. I think she got te C-section because she wanted to, not because it's required so that she can avoid giving birth naturally.
@daniellandgrens Atlanta rich is so much different than Miami, Chicago, New York and even LA rich.. First answer... Second. If you watch the real housewives of Jersey and all of the others they do not have black people on the shows and all of the cities that the housewives are taped in have a large number of rich black people in them.. Your questions are very ignorant but now maybe you have a better insight on America. With respect from the U.S.A.
@HabeshaQween I think if a C-section is needed in any circumstance of the birthing process, then that's fine for doctors to do that procedure. But just because it's easy and painless for her sake and desire, then the doctor should just say no and induce her so she'd shut the hell up about it. On the off topic part, that is sad to women who give birth at home instead at the hospital.
And that's the way it supposed to be,a woman don't suppose to get pregnant unless she is married.Bc God did say multiple meaning be married Male nd Female it's God's law not man.Anything outside of that is sin,it's the same as a male and nd female don't supposed to live together is what old school ppl calls it Shavking Up.In God"s word it is called Fornication which is sin nd against God
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This is why you have to live your life for you and not your parents.
P&J LOVING LIFE That was her downfall, trying to impress her parents.
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I get it though, she wanted to make her momma proud. However, her parents are not together, Phaedra getting pregnant before marriage is no different than the lying, sin is sin
I remember this the Dr came in a bust her bubble by telling her she's 10 months full term she talking about she's 6-7 months pregnant 😂😂😂
40 weeks to be exact!😂😂😂
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@@soso-b7n2n yea c section
10 months?? It only takes 9 months
@@millymilly8264 yes full term pregnancy 40 weeks = 10 months
Kandi figured it out why she was lying so much about her due date
And watching this scene is how I knew why Phaedra’s dates weren’t adding up. She simply just lied about having a baby at 6/7 months just so she wouldn’t disappoint anyone about having premarital sex. Like honestly it may not be encouraged in the Bible but it’s not like it’s uncommon so it’s still silly to lie about that in my opinion.
BetterThanEmril she should’ve been more embarrassed with who she was pregnant by
zaria winter a scammer
@ a criminal
@@alamoja oooo
BetterThanEmril It makes sense for her to lie because her mom definitely seemed to have a strong opinion about having children out of wedlock so she probably didn't want to disappoint her overly-religious parents. At the same Phaedra is a grown woman and she should have just been honest because there's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage (if we are taking religion out of the equation.)
"In my family you can't have a baby unless you're married momma's rules." "How many grandkids do you have? " granny "9" fakedra " "and I'm the only 1 married" somebody don't know the rules lmaoooo.. Bravo was Petty for airing this scene 😂😂😂
I picked up on that myself, lol, confusion factor?
@Kelly Day lmao damn
She said how many grandkids and the answer was "none" bc phaedra was the only one married
Like your mama going to be around watching you 24/7 making sure you ain't getting it in, really really typical Phaedra throwing shade on her siblings
I wouldn’t be rushing off too get married if I became pregnant, when you leave home in late adolescence ‘momma’ ain’t got no rules with me and my life period!.
"I'm the only one that's married" wow Shadera that is your siblings 🙄
I think she was hinting, Im pregnant now Im married!
Kandi did that hat come with the hair ? LOL
😭😭😭
🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️
😂😂😂
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She rocked it.
Poor Phaedra's biological clock was ticking like a time bomb, so she snatched up the closest ex con she could find.
😳😳🤣😂
Yeah it was so obvious
Looking back, she could ve had anyone but Apolo she was into him a lot and deep when she was in heat. And then she was just over him smh
Yep
It was the Lightskin and the light eyes
I've met Phaedra's mother before here in Athens. Her mother is very nice and welcoming.
I just don't understand how a women in her 30's lies about her due date. like did she also lie and say she was a virgin up until then? and 9 grandkids and none of the parents are married sounds like mama should've got over her outdated rule and just had been thankful for the new addition
They dont have the same rules for the men, I bet those 9 are by the sons!
Omg people she said NONE! not 9!
a lot of religious people believe that having sex before marriage is a sin, so that’s why she lied about her due date. i grew up going to a Catholic school so I understand. We were taught abstinence above everything else.
It's not what religious people believe. It's what the word of God says
1 Corinthians 6:9
Romans chapter 1
These scriptures are about sexual immorality so READ the scriptures for yourself. Phadrae should have done that herself instead of trying to impress her mother like her mother is above the almighty GOD.
well she wasn't married before she got pregnant so who's the hypocrite?
No, she wasn’t! That why the whole reason that she lied !
Phaedra is so dramatic, you can't even feel anything when you get a C-section, but once those drugs ware off after the delivery, well that's another story. lol.
I had a C-section,and it's nothing nice. The recovery is the worst part, u barley can move, w/o being in pain, and have to learn how to pull yourself up and walk again,and it can take several years for all the scar tissue to completely heal. I 'll take vaginal any day.
I feel any of that after my C section... i moved around with no problem only thing I hated was the staples and constipation
To be honest I couldn't believe she said "eww" after her son was born......
Rel0520 lol phaedra shades
I said the same thing when they put my baby in my arms without washing him off lol 😂 I didn’t mean ewww like that just like an awww eww lol 😂 she didn’t mean it like !!!!
Only Phaedra 😂🤣😂
"Cant talk about nothin w her" LOL!!!
@HabeshaQween Having a C- section is consider a major surgery. I don't know anyone who would prefer getting cut open several times. I was stuck in the hospital for a little over a week,and with vaginal deliveries most mothers are out two to three days tops. If anything most doctors are giving these mother's the drug to start the contractions, which interferes w/ the unborn child, and cases the stress level to rise, which results in an emergency C section.
@blahblahblah mememe It's pregnancy itself not just vaginal birth that causes vaginal changes, plus c-sections tear through your abdominal muscles which support your pelvic region, there are studies that show that women with multiple c-sections have more sexual discomfort issues than those who gave birth vaginally
It depends on the person. I've had 2 csections and was out of the hospital within 2 or 3 days. I had to get up and walk around. So it really depends on the person.
Yes c-section is the only major abdominal surgery where a patient is expected to walk right after. Sometimes they don't even wait until the mother is fully numb they just start cutting and tugging regardless. Childbirth can really go left even in hospitals.
@@dijauneaiymuan9834 why some want to keep repeating the same cycle over and over again keep Getting pregnant all that morning sickness and those contractions why repeat that over and over again its to much why just not have 1 child and thats it!! I no some arent planned but why repeat it some cant even afford daycare bearly for 1 child why have more and more its a waste!
l loved when Kandi Phaedra and Porscha was good friends!!
Lawd what did you upload this video with... a potato? 🧐
@Mika20 I agree, she's full of herself. But, she had me rolling when she said that she won't be screaming like a wolf and pooping on the table while giving birth, LOL.
I love Kandi hair like this
John 3:16New Revised Standard Version (NRSV)
16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.
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I guess she just didn't want to disappoint her mother.
I love the Real Housewives of Atlanta, can't wait for the next season.
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How about "I hope he is healthy", not "omg you weren't married". She is already pregnant, what do you want her to do?
Kandi went to visit to take the news back to the others
Well she went from an ex-con to a heart surgeon! I realized that in life most people have 2-3 soulmates throughout their adulthood. The first one around early to mid 20s, then the next soulmate around mid-thirties to forties. Then the final and hopefully the longest lasting soulmate around 50-60s. That’s just the way I see it.
So how is it that Phaedra mom has 9 grandkids already and Phaedra was the only child married but she said in their family you have to be married to have kids? Did they all get divorced? Am I missing something? Cuz the math aint mathing🧐
She said none of
Phaedra used make herself look older than her age
Ruth Frank how lol
She sure did!!🤣🤣
@@angeljohnson6665 her hairstyle and dress sense
Her Mother said NONE NOT NINE!!! 🙄 Turn you damn volume up, people. 🤦🏽♀️
Didn't know those 2 were that close, pity how reality show can break a friendship like that (where tf is the finger snap emoji).
So sad that she couldn’t have a better and honest relationship with her parents.
I call bull . Her parents know darn well she’s been having sex, please.!
How old are they 😝 Just a way to get Old boy to marry her lol... 😂
Ok.... Now we all know why phaedra was lying so hard about when got pregnant and when that baby was going to be born
her first pregnancy wasn't easy, she was lying cuz she didn't want them in her biz
TheImagine91 No she was lying because she got pregnant before she married. Her and Kandi just discussed that in this video.
@Mika20 I agree that if a C-section is needed during birth then it's ok. But, I was incorrect in what I wrote. I meant that a lot of women in Europe, Asia, Australia, and Canada have natural births and have less infant deaths compared to the U.S, which has the highest rate in the world. These days many women request to have C-section and I wouldn't be surprised if Phaedra asked for it.
this is true
I think its so funny how people are so quick to judge other people when they have done and settled with even lower standards. People can always smell everybody else's shit but their own, it doesn't smell like roses either. And another thing....settling with someone who may not be on the same level with you is not a "black" thing! Get it right!
It’s a woman thing, we get taught from birth how to live our lives by falling into other people around us and it’s sad
@HabeshaQween Girl she was so ridiculous about her pregnancy to begin with. All that stuff about what she won't do,...it's nature. I think she got te C-section because she wanted to, not because it's required so that she can avoid giving birth naturally.
I love Phaedra's strippers 😋. I have new respect for her after watching this season. She's on point most of the time.
@Mika20 I thought I was the only one who noticed that. I think that's just weird
My gmom was pregnant with my mom before she got married...
Hot mess Phaedra is!
@daniellandgrens Atlanta rich is so much different than Miami, Chicago, New York and even LA rich.. First answer... Second. If you watch the real housewives of Jersey and all of the others they do not have black people on the shows and all of the cities that the housewives are taped in have a large number of rich black people in them.. Your questions are very ignorant but now maybe you have a better insight on America. With respect from the U.S.A.
@HabeshaQween I think if a C-section is needed in any circumstance of the birthing process, then that's fine for doctors to do that procedure. But just because it's easy and painless for her sake and desire, then the doctor should just say no and induce her so she'd shut the hell up about it. On the off topic part, that is sad to women who give birth at home instead at the hospital.
We should have known she was a liar then
She was pregnant when she married Apollo that’s the truth
Before* 😂
This when kandi started getting thick and I like it
Ewww
I like that
Kandi did wrong to Phaedra
Black women, as a black man, I would not date some of these poor examples of womanhood. My mother has more class in her pinky toe.
And that's the way it supposed to be,a woman don't suppose to get pregnant unless she is married.Bc God did say multiple meaning be married Male nd Female it's God's law not man.Anything outside of that is sin,it's the same as a male and nd female don't supposed to live together is what old school ppl calls it Shavking Up.In God"s word it is called Fornication which is sin nd against God