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Completely agree with you. I have in last 30 years been shifting homes and cities and schools and colleges due to parent's PSU job. Post retirement, my dad only gave me 1 advice for my future as I crossed 30 years - "Stay at one place for life ! "
I can very well relate to your words. Both my parents are in Group A service and I have changed 5-6 schools till class XII. As of now, all 4 members of the family are in different cities and have hardly stayed together for a few years. Even my parents haven't stayed together except for few weekends, occasions, holidays etc etc. This has also lead to many family issues and bad relations.
@@2.0JUSTDOIT This is exactly what the matrix is. The rich and powerful people always push us into such kind of paths which would lead to a never ending loop, they make everyone believe that these things are worth going after. As Amit ji said that rich never disclose their secrets of earning money and creating generational wealth. Families are not staying together anymore, it obviously increases consumerism which ultimately benefits the rich, they get richer and we live paycheck to paycheck.
@@2.0JUSTDOITwhat we can do then those belonging from lower middle class don't have any option we can't leave that job just for the welfare of our loved one. BCS in today's world it's very difficult to sustain without a job security
Sango ji, my family has been living in hyderbad since the last 3 generations, i always wanted to leave and start fresh in banglore or somewhere, where the saying is you grow in new cities, but this perspective is much needed too! thank you!
Aaj ke zamane me agar bache ko kaamyaab karna hai toh maa baap ka financially stable hona sbse jyada jaruri hai nahi toh agar parents financially stable nahi hai toh bache par itna mentally pressure pdhta hai Aaj ke world me ki koi samajh nahi sakta hai sirf uss bache ke alava
Mai iska ek example hu.. mere padhaye bache aj 15-20 lpa per hai ..central government job me hai ..or kafi successful hai.. lekin Mai na to utha successful na hi jyada kama rha as meri family condition was not good
Very true. It saves a lot of money and also reduces unnecessary expenses which one has to bear if living away from family. At the end of the day, at the back of the mind, one feels that something is missing. If you don't see your kids growing and don't get involved in their day to day activities, then what is their in life.
You are right. My father was in transferrable job, I suffered so much that I got the fear of unknown to venture new things. My husband have chosen Chennai as a base so that our children gets the opportunity to feel settled.
Sir you are right, this is true, 15 years ago nobody was there to tell you what is good, being a government servant I know all the points very well, it is not a small thing to relocate the home, your family, friends, will be left behind at the end you are alone, no money no relations and everybody will think that we are enjoying life
I am cognizant with your thoughts,, living in a place reaps unseen benefits in long term in term of relationship, community building, and sense of security. But in private job north indian are moving to South or in Pune due to one reason the salary package is high and opportunities are vast ,, in Hyderabad, Bangalore,, but again after 3-4 years they struggle as rental cost and other cost of living becomes high.. plus you lacks security, you have to face challenges alone in terms of language barrier etc,, I was in Bangalore just after graduation,, but had to come back to birth place Ghaziabad,, I am a TL in MNC in gurgaon,, earn enough good, yes it is less if I compare with package in Bangalore, Pune, Hyderabad if I would be there i could be earning 5-8lakh more, but it average out to same which I am earning in Delhi,, as I am living with family, i feel secure, i have friends to hang out with etc
Bhai pls give me insight to choose city... I'm also north Indian and working in MNC (8+ years of experience) based out in Bangalore, however thanks to COVID for WFH...now I am working from my native ( located in a town near good district, exactly 250 km from ur hometown Ghaziabad) from last 2 yeras in the same MNC...but everyday I'm keep thinking what if company asked to come Bangalore and work from office 😢... Actually I love my hometown and family and happy to work from here only... Buy at the same time I sometimes use to think what will happen when my children grow up...How my children feel when they go out for higher studies or job in other cities....
@@ashishraina5637 bhai to be honest Money is imp but after covid it is proven belongingness and closeness with family is much more important,, you can settle in Noida or in New Gurgaon,, 1) try to negotiate permanent wfh 2) find a job who provides wfh or atleast close to your native place like in Chandigarh, Noida, Gurugram has IT and non it industry cost of living is less also less salary perhaps in compare to Bangalore but you have peace of mind, people who could understand you in Hindi,and you will be close to family just 3hrs drive 3) if money is important and you can live after wfh is over, you can certainly try for Pune which is better in terms of salary, almost same as Bangalore, nearest than Bangalore , good weather and you can't have to struggle with North Indian food, language difference etc. Hope I am able to answer
@@krishnaaveersinghhada9220 Haan bhai... answer to aapka kaafi sahi lga mujhe... Agar company permanent WFH mil jaye to mai yahi apne district me hi settle ho jau...ek zameen buy krke 2-3 manjila ghar banwau aur aaram se rahu... Metro cities me rent pe rehne se to chutkara milega
This is a very good experience that you've shared. I have been in dilemma because the emotional & social support is all back in hometown while the focus & hard work on my career has made me to stay away from closed ones. And after half a decade of staying away, things are not looking as bright in all fronts that I imagined..
My father and husband both were in defence. Now that we have retired and settled, as I compare myself to my college types and i compare tje kids, i feel we are far more adaptable , smarter and non judgemental.
I totally agree with you Sirji. I am working in a PSU Bank. Frequently changing locations is taxing, financially as well as emotionally. Living away from your beloved ones is very difficult. Maintaining more than one establishment is expensive also.
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Guruji, Bilkul sahi. I took vrs at age of 47 and stayed in one place for last 15 yrs and achieved a lot thoughvnotbfifnanciallybbut from children's education and marriage of daughter and settlement of my son professionally.
Lot of girls don't want to marry in the same city..they want to stay away from in laws and girls parents also prefer girl stays not in the same city but works in big city, earns for herself...the guy wants to come back to old city but girls and girls parents are planning to shift to big city post marriage to support their daughter
Banglore, Pune, Hyderabad me office to Ghar ke distance hi itne zada hai ki log office ke pass Ghar rent par leke rehte hai kyonki khud ka ghar office se dur hota hai and traffic me ghanto nikal jate hai. And rest family owned house me rehti hai and weekend par ghar Kate hai family ke pass.
Absolutely correct, I can relate as I grown up in 4 cities as father was working with CO-op bank. Rajkot, Surat, Anand and Pune. Family wants to stay now at Rajkot however I want to move to Surat permanently as i completed my schooling from there. Guruji is also right on driving skills in Gujarat. we have worst traffic sense.
was a bit confused..but now keeping.lumbai as base with 44 yrs of base makes sense and the wholenecosystenm developed is supportive.. huge professional and growth opportunities a big plus factor with education..water ..electricity.. retail market and healthcare
Kaafi sahi baat kahi hai. Base to ek hi hona chahye. At 32, I felt I've become too rigid and mei move nahi kr sakta hu kahin bhi (I'd an option to move to bangalore) . Per apka pespective sun kr laga raha hai mei rigid nahi hu ye normal hai.
Just last week i was thinking that i switched 5 schools in 12 years, and that has had an effect on how i make relationships, partnership, friends in my life now.
I completely agree with your points however I think it is not always practical to stay back in your base city. I too wanted to stay in Pune only but opportunities have led me to a foreign country where I am staying for last few years. But I still feel Pune is my base city where I'll go to when I go back to India, may be when my kids are big enough to join school.
Interesting subject, well explained. Thanks sir! One request to not compare your topics with others, they simply get fame when you quote them 😋 you're unique your regulars already appreciate it and thankful.🙏
Believe me we as nuclear family gave a thought about it and considered these same factors then reached to the decision that relocation for 30% to 40% growth in career
I so much want to do this in my life. Life seems to go haphazardly when you are changing your location almost every year. It is most difficult when you have a family to shift along with you. btw I m working in a PSU bank. Does anyone relate themselves to this.
I don't agree. Many army kids study in different schools that gives them exposure to multiple cultures and temperaments, which makes them more confident than others and hence more likely to become more successful professionally. Similarly, global exposure in one's profession is highly valued as compared to an employee working in a single company for many years.
@@sangramraje5667being isro scientist is success? What parameter are you using here to define success? Money? Impact? Something else? In all the parameters, a lot of these professionals are ahead of the isro scientists in the present tense.
I think the children who move every 2 years to a new placw are the best.These children have no adjustment issue .They are the best fit in any situations
Sir kindly share your thoughts for those who are in IT industry (Primary office location is Bangalore) but doing WFH from their native place (like small town/district) and they are quite happy with WFH...
Its not always true ... we left India and have lived in 3 cities and 10 flats abroad since the last 10 years . Yet both of us today can say we own homes in both countries and are more secure than our friends & siblings who stayed back . But also the process of transformation was quite intense and painful .Sometimes we had doubts in our mind during the journey . With hardships also came many blessings.
Sir with all due respect, pls concentrate on yourself and your family. If you are worried about the whole world, im afraid you haven't understood what guruji has been trying to say
Absolutely it’s very beneficial to stay in one place It’s compounding definitely in various aspects of life Such phenomena are invisible to maximum people because of obvious reasons Mr Sangwan It was good topic useful to your viewers
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How is Bangalore as karam bhumi for Maharashtrian person born in pune...?
Completely agree with you. I have in last 30 years been shifting homes and cities and schools and colleges due to parent's PSU job. Post retirement, my dad only gave me 1 advice for my future as I crossed 30 years - "Stay at one place for life ! "
Bankers are the worst affected. After every 2 to 3 years we have to shift with our families.
I can very well relate to your words. Both my parents are in Group A service and I have changed 5-6 schools till class XII. As of now, all 4 members of the family are in different cities and have hardly stayed together for a few years. Even my parents haven't stayed together except for few weekends, occasions, holidays etc etc. This has also lead to many family issues and bad relations.
@@2.0JUSTDOIT This is exactly what the matrix is. The rich and powerful people always push us into such kind of paths which would lead to a never ending loop, they make everyone believe that these things are worth going after. As Amit ji said that rich never disclose their secrets of earning money and creating generational wealth. Families are not staying together anymore, it obviously increases consumerism which ultimately benefits the rich, they get richer and we live paycheck to paycheck.
@@2.0JUSTDOITwhat we can do then those belonging from lower middle class don't have any option we can't leave that job just for the welfare of our loved one. BCS in today's world it's very difficult to sustain without a job security
Sango ji, my family has been living in hyderbad since the last 3 generations, i always wanted to leave and start fresh in banglore or somewhere, where the saying is you grow in new cities, but this perspective is much needed too! thank you!
Aaj ke zamane me agar bache ko kaamyaab karna hai toh maa baap ka financially stable hona sbse jyada jaruri hai nahi toh agar parents financially stable nahi hai toh bache par itna mentally pressure pdhta hai Aaj ke world me ki koi samajh nahi sakta hai sirf uss bache ke alava
Aapne bht sahi kaha
Mai iska ek example hu.. mere padhaye bache aj 15-20 lpa per hai ..central government job me hai ..or kafi successful hai.. lekin Mai na to utha successful na hi jyada kama rha as meri family condition was not good
So true
@@thefacts9326what you could've done differently?
Best one. Yeh baatein baad main hi samajh aati hai. I am in same situation.
Very true. It saves a lot of money and also reduces unnecessary expenses which one has to bear if living away from family. At the end of the day, at the back of the mind, one feels that something is missing. If you don't see your kids growing and don't get involved in their day to day activities, then what is their in life.
You are right. My father was in transferrable job, I suffered so much that I got the fear of unknown to venture new things. My husband have chosen Chennai as a base so that our children gets the opportunity to feel settled.
You are right. Rolling stones gather no moss
You are correct, my father was in transferrable job. Family life ruined, my father though no more I didn't feel connected to him
Sir you are right, this is true, 15 years ago nobody was there to tell you what is good, being a government servant I know all the points very well, it is not a small thing to relocate the home, your family, friends, will be left behind at the end you are alone, no money no relations and everybody will think that we are enjoying life
Sir aapke topic you tube pe chaa rahe hai sare so called influencer is repeating your topics
Which influencer and if you could share the to their video?
@@vikasen6what do u want to say ...he is not correct?
Inka bilkul original rehta hai.Baaki log inki copy karte hain.
@@jitendrakumarsharma2159 yes
@@SurajSingh-eo3lz nah bro , I want to report and call out those influencers for stealing content.
I kept my wife n daughter set in tier3 city n being govt emp. transfer every 3 yrs in area 15 to 60km in last 10yrs
I am cognizant with your thoughts,, living in a place reaps unseen benefits in long term in term of relationship, community building, and sense of security. But in private job north indian are moving to South or in Pune due to one reason the salary package is high and opportunities are vast ,, in Hyderabad, Bangalore,, but again after 3-4 years they struggle as rental cost and other cost of living becomes high.. plus you lacks security, you have to face challenges alone in terms of language barrier etc,, I was in Bangalore just after graduation,, but had to come back to birth place Ghaziabad,, I am a TL in MNC in gurgaon,, earn enough good, yes it is less if I compare with package in Bangalore, Pune, Hyderabad if I would be there i could be earning 5-8lakh more, but it average out to same which I am earning in Delhi,, as I am living with family, i feel secure, i have friends to hang out with etc
Bhai pls give me insight to choose city... I'm also north Indian and working in MNC (8+ years of experience) based out in Bangalore, however thanks to COVID for WFH...now I am working from my native ( located in a town near good district, exactly 250 km from ur hometown Ghaziabad) from last 2 yeras in the same MNC...but everyday I'm keep thinking what if company asked to come Bangalore and work from office 😢...
Actually I love my hometown and family and happy to work from here only...
Buy at the same time I sometimes use to think what will happen when my children grow up...How my children feel when they go out for higher studies or job in other cities....
@@ashishraina5637 bhai to be honest Money is imp but after covid it is proven belongingness and closeness with family is much more important,, you can settle in Noida or in New Gurgaon,,
1) try to negotiate permanent wfh
2) find a job who provides wfh or atleast close to your native place like in Chandigarh, Noida, Gurugram has IT and non it industry cost of living is less also less salary perhaps in compare to Bangalore but you have peace of mind, people who could understand you in Hindi,and you will be close to family just 3hrs drive
3) if money is important and you can live after wfh is over, you can certainly try for Pune which is better in terms of salary, almost same as Bangalore, nearest than Bangalore , good weather and you can't have to struggle with North Indian food, language difference etc. Hope I am able to answer
@@krishnaaveersinghhada9220 Haan bhai... answer to aapka kaafi sahi lga mujhe...
Agar company permanent WFH mil jaye to mai yahi apne district me hi settle ho jau...ek zameen buy krke 2-3 manjila ghar banwau aur aaram se rahu... Metro cities me rent pe rehne se to chutkara milega
This is a very good experience that you've shared. I have been in dilemma because the emotional & social support is all back in hometown while the focus & hard work on my career has made me to stay away from closed ones. And after half a decade of staying away, things are not looking as bright in all fronts that I imagined..
My father and husband both were in defence. Now that we have retired and settled, as I compare myself to my college types and i compare tje kids, i feel we are far more adaptable , smarter and non judgemental.
Hata off Sir 🙏 The knowledge you are guiding the people with is amazing. You are making people self reliant and smart . Thank you so much.
Sab ki compounding ki value dekhiye, kya baat hai Sirjee
I totally agree with you Sirji. I am working in a PSU Bank. Frequently changing locations is taxing, financially as well as emotionally. Living away from your beloved ones is very difficult. Maintaining more than one establishment is expensive also.
I completely agree... every person should choose one base in their life...
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Guruji,
Bilkul sahi. I took vrs at age of 47 and stayed in one place for last 15 yrs and achieved a lot thoughvnotbfifnanciallybbut from children's education and marriage of daughter and settlement of my son
professionally.
Bahut hi badhia content
Very much correct sir myself dealing with these issues of transfer every few years and now fed up of it no permanent friends remained in life
Lot of girls don't want to marry in the same city..they want to stay away from in laws and girls parents also prefer girl stays not in the same city but works in big city, earns for herself...the guy wants to come back to old city but girls and girls parents are planning to shift to big city post marriage to support their daughter
Apni marzi mat chalaao.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 matlab???
@@MrMaverikpro Matbal yeh ki yehan karmbhumi chunne ki baat ho rehi hai.
@@shrishri8898 higher class tu kucch bhi mat kar.
True
true. i've experienced this as a child.
Thanks for sharing this valuable knowledge.❤
I was just thinking of changing my base in hope of a better future Now, you have made me think whether I should move out of country with family...
Banglore, Pune, Hyderabad me office to Ghar ke distance hi itne zada hai ki log office ke pass Ghar rent par leke rehte hai kyonki khud ka ghar office se dur hota hai and traffic me ghanto nikal jate hai. And rest family owned house me rehti hai and weekend par ghar Kate hai family ke pass.
Best advice i got in last several years
Absolutely correct, I can relate as I grown up in 4 cities as father was working with CO-op bank. Rajkot, Surat, Anand and Pune. Family wants to stay now at Rajkot however I want to move to Surat permanently as i completed my schooling from there. Guruji is also right on driving skills in Gujarat. we have worst traffic sense.
Completely agree 👍
सत्य वचन ।
Utmost helpful for me personally. Thank you so much
True. I myself can feel this
Uncle aapka har content fresh approach ke saath hota hai.
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Thankyou very much guru ji
I am from udaipur very beautiful city
I very well agree with you on this topic. Nicely presented by you. Very helpful.
Wow....fantastic video...
You are great sir in RUclips love from pakistan 🇵🇰
Sir you make so much sense. Thankyou so much
Nice content
Completely agree,You need to select Base place then it develop eco system around it,It helps carreer to grow.
was a bit confused..but now keeping.lumbai as base with 44 yrs of base makes sense and the wholenecosystenm developed is supportive.. huge professional and growth opportunities a big plus factor with education..water ..electricity.. retail market and healthcare
Super gyan 👌🏼👌🏼
Kaafi sahi baat kahi hai. Base to ek hi hona chahye.
At 32, I felt I've become too rigid and mei move nahi kr sakta hu kahin bhi (I'd an option to move to bangalore) . Per apka pespective sun kr laga raha hai mei rigid nahi hu ye normal hai.
To a great extent Good
Just last week i was thinking that i switched 5 schools in 12 years, and that has had an effect on how i make relationships, partnership, friends in my life now.
बहलाना और बहकाना बेस्ट ऑप्शन इन इंडिया😂😂😂😂वही तो हो रहा है
Loved this video.
I completely agree with your points however I think it is not always practical to stay back in your base city. I too wanted to stay in Pune only but opportunities have led me to a foreign country where I am staying for last few years. But I still feel Pune is my base city where I'll go to when I go back to India, may be when my kids are big enough to join school.
Very True.
Really helpful sir.
Yes, I am facing the same situation
11:02
Such an important point.
Its very advisable that you marry within your city.
Great sir👍
Waiting gurujii
Sir this is too good 🎉 thanks for sharing
Interesting subject, well explained. Thanks sir!
One request to not compare your topics with others, they simply get fame when you quote them 😋 you're unique your regulars already appreciate it and thankful.🙏
Very real talk 🎉
Sir your topics and examples are Bang on. And the complete view of life can be seen through your glasses which we cannot think of.
Superb video
Best video
Sir. This is a solid topic ...
Very good topics
Real good video
Great advice
Believe me we as nuclear family gave a thought about it and considered these same factors then reached to the decision that relocation for 30% to 40% growth in career
Bilkul sahi kaha..
Bilkul sahi h bhai
Rolling stone gathers no moss.
I so much want to do this in my life. Life seems to go haphazardly when you are changing your location almost every year. It is most difficult when you have a family to shift along with you. btw I m working in a PSU bank.
Does anyone relate themselves to this.
Wonderful insight
Mei sir aaj aapka fan hogya ye kasmkash 9 years se thi mere dimav mei kya pakda hai aapne
Sir you are unique
This is so true.
Guruji's Saturn transition through 3rd house. 😊
I don't agree. Many army kids study in different schools that gives them exposure to multiple cultures and temperaments, which makes them more confident than others and hence more likely to become more successful professionally.
Similarly, global exposure in one's profession is highly valued as compared to an employee working in a single company for many years.
Because they have no option.
@@sangramraje5667being isro scientist is success? What parameter are you using here to define success? Money? Impact? Something else? In all the parameters, a lot of these professionals are ahead of the isro scientists in the present tense.
Koi jabardasti thode bol Raha hai ki ek hi jagah raho....ghumte raho bhai mana kaun kaf raha hai
@@shrishri8898 higher class yehan exam ki baat kaise aa gayi?
@@damanraaj3496 Well said.
Indeed a very insightful Talk/ Topic and very well delivered.... much of it is true but most people understand it a bit too late..... Kind Regards
I always love your content because it is real and authenticate.
I think the children who move every 2 years to a new placw are the best.These children have no adjustment issue .They are the best fit in any situations
Ok whatever makes you feel reassured 😂
I have taken this idea from you sometime ago. And I am finding it very helpful.
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This was really good
Thank you sir ...for clearing my confusion
Right
Sir kindly share your thoughts for those who are in IT industry (Primary office location is Bangalore) but doing WFH from their native place (like small town/district) and they are quite happy with WFH...
Sir's video is incomplete without warikoo ji😂
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Assi tussi - was very deep ❤😂😂😂
Its not always true ... we left India and have lived in 3 cities and 10 flats abroad since the last 10 years . Yet both of us today can say we own homes in both countries and are more secure than our friends & siblings who stayed back . But also the process of transformation was quite intense and painful .Sometimes we had doubts in our mind during the journey . With hardships also came many blessings.
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Sir please make video for clarity of things to do for not destroying the planet Earth.. For all classes
Sir with all due respect, pls concentrate on yourself and your family. If you are worried about the whole world, im afraid you haven't understood what guruji has been trying to say
@@doncorleone3901 💤💤
There is no growth in career if one stick to a single place.
Depends. If you live in a metro city you can switch to different companies every few years.
😂😂 Sir apse kabhi expect hi nhi krte ki warikoo jaisi excel sheet bna kr dikhaoge ......real fact ke liye hai ye channel
Nice video
Absolutely it’s very beneficial to stay in one place
It’s compounding definitely in various aspects of life
Such phenomena are invisible to maximum people because of obvious reasons
Mr Sangwan It was good topic useful to your viewers
Bariya
Very nice video sir
Sr eye opening topic.
Can u make video on topic of skills to be taught to students