Love Is Blind’s Micah TEARS UP Discussing Her Portrayal on the Show (Exclusive)

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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
  • 'Love Is Blind' star Micah Lussier chats with ET's Will Marfuggi about how she was portrayed on the show and breaks down in tears discussing her journey. Plus, Micah reacts to season 2 alum Natalie Lee accusing her of not being 'genuine' on the series. 'Love Is Blind' season 4 is streaming now on Netflix.

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  • @TheDawnofVanlife
    @TheDawnofVanlife Год назад +1342

    We met Micah’s real life friends who were just as messy as Irina, which says a lot about her. She basically said ‘I was so absorbed into what I wanted, I didn’t care why other people were hurting.’ That’s a huge reflection of who you are.

    • @TrashyRealityShowJunkie
      @TrashyRealityShowJunkie Год назад +35

      Yet, she calls herself an empath 🙄 she behaved which is the exact opposite of an empath.

    • @AlwaysAlicia2991
      @AlwaysAlicia2991 Год назад +4

      Exactly I said the same thing

    • @spongebobuniverse
      @spongebobuniverse Год назад +26

      Micah was nasty and messy without her friends. She thought she had the upper hand on Paul. She sized up his lifestyle, disrespected him and looked at him as a dork. She thought she was better than him and because of that she felt like he was a for sure thing.

    • @jesscthevision
      @jesscthevision Год назад +2

      how was your experience with her friends ? 😮

    • @RessurrectionGraves
      @RessurrectionGraves Год назад +1

      THIS!!!! The only comment that matters.

  • @corenthiajohnson306
    @corenthiajohnson306 Год назад +2433

    Her friends were mean and rude to Paul. So I'm pretty sure that how she operates because the company you keep is a reflection of yourself.

    • @AlwaysAlicia2991
      @AlwaysAlicia2991 Год назад

      Yup because when she was in the pods she buddied up with Irina another mean girl with a nasty personality

    • @leyjam3788
      @leyjam3788 Год назад +77

      That one friend was a complete nut.

    • @betty3014
      @betty3014 Год назад +106

      And she told Paul that he should care what her friend thinks of him…um..no ma’am. Im glad Paul said he didn’t care.

    • @kat64470
      @kat64470 Год назад +9

      I couldn't understand what her friends were saying. What did they say to piss Paul off?

    • @betty3014
      @betty3014 Год назад

      @@kat64470 i honestly can’t remember exactly I’ll have to watch that part again but it was nothing bad he was just talking and the friend said something like I don’t know about that or if I like that or something and he said he didn’t care and Micah got after him and was telling him he should care and not to be like that

  • @betty3014
    @betty3014 Год назад +2329

    The fact that she’s still friends with Irina says a lot.

    • @SittinNBitchin
      @SittinNBitchin Год назад +42

      I agree completely 😊

    • @Sadie1067
      @Sadie1067 Год назад +13

      Sooooo true fr

    • @runnerX007
      @runnerX007 Год назад +60

      Not to mention her bff from home-clearly attracts a certain type of person: the company you keep says a lot…

    • @reemarimz6830
      @reemarimz6830 Год назад +49

      ​@@runnerX007 this one is worse that Irina even. I don't even think any of them were happy for her. They seemed happier when she got rejected at the altar

    • @joannawrzelikowska3273
      @joannawrzelikowska3273 Год назад +13

      And Shelby omg

  • @peeerlyb.7762
    @peeerlyb.7762 Год назад +498

    Paul dodged a huge wrecking ball- he is logical and he said he could not see her as a loving and nurturing woman. He was right. She is not. Her friends are horrible too.

    • @beffis1980
      @beffis1980 Год назад +8

      Absolutely nailed it! I swear she’s Cersei’s evil twin from Game of Thrones.

    • @King_2ya
      @King_2ya Год назад +2

      FACTS!!!

    • @JoshyJosh
      @JoshyJosh Год назад

      They BOTH dodged a bullet tho. Paul is a POS too. Stop trying to make him a saint just cause he has a dumb face.

    • @jasminecontreras7341
      @jasminecontreras7341 Год назад

      What I don’t get is why was he even interested in dating her in the first place? Did he just want to be on the show? I don’t believe he ever saw himself being with her long term

    • @peeerlyb.7762
      @peeerlyb.7762 Год назад +2

      @@jasminecontreras7341 he fell for her without seeing her and that’s what the show encourages but in real life m, he had to see certain things are not to his linking…

  • @JV-jc7ci
    @JV-jc7ci Год назад +648

    *spoiler* After seeing how her mom reacted to Paul’s answer at the altar, the way she blamed and convicted him for a genuine answer made me realize why Micah is the way she is. An only child, obviously spoiled rotten and pacified in every moment in life that should be a learning opportunity instead of teaching her to accept downfalls like an adult. Maybe if you’d raise your daughter to be a better and more nurturing being, a smart and good soul like Paul would have said yes. And then the way Micah’s friend scoffed and celebrated at the fact she got rejected shows how toxic and disingenuous the kind of friends she associated herself with. I don’t think she has a decent, good hearted person in her life which is a reflection of her own self and preferences.

    • @gabym5546
      @gabym5546 Год назад +25

      Yessss this scene was very telling

    • @gizemguney2433
      @gizemguney2433 Год назад +17

      Yes! This!

    • @roo_blueplaylist
      @roo_blueplaylist Год назад +18

      thisssss I thought like you when I saw her mom's reaction to that situation. after Paul said no

    • @genesisautumn
      @genesisautumn Год назад +7

      This!!! I blame the mom

    • @jlind3891
      @jlind3891 Год назад +5

      Or lack of self esteem. Maybe she doesn’t think she deserve better or think that’s how everyone is

  • @Renay8072
    @Renay8072 Год назад +275

    She saw nothing wrong with her behavior prior to this point when she says in this interview that she didn’t expect any backlash to anything she did.

  • @AlwaysAlicia2991
    @AlwaysAlicia2991 Год назад +797

    You're not fooling us Micah you showed your true colors at least stand on it. Stop with the crocodile tears

    • @bethany7785
      @bethany7785 Год назад +16

      She's been getting death threats, they probably are real. She is still human.

    • @Jsarmy87124
      @Jsarmy87124 Год назад +1

      She entertain you though

    • @AlwaysAlicia2991
      @AlwaysAlicia2991 Год назад +22

      @@Jsarmy87124 two things can be true at the same time. Yes she was entertaining and yes her behavior was DISGUSTING. Be careful how you choose to behave.

    • @ShebaSync
      @ShebaSync Год назад +1

      This right here!!!!!! she's crying because she's got caught and dragged

    • @solomoon3083
      @solomoon3083 Год назад

      Absolutely.

  • @kibbleandquibble1732
    @kibbleandquibble1732 Год назад +533

    It's incredible that she can cry with sobs so big she's gasping for air, for 5 minutes without smudging any of her makeup.

    • @jiujuntang
      @jiujuntang Год назад +34

      I wonder what brand it is

    • @chisuwochabu250
      @chisuwochabu250 Год назад +14

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @chisuwochabu250
      @chisuwochabu250 Год назад +6

      @@jiujuntang 😅😅😅😅😅 I caught that

    • @jiujuntang
      @jiujuntang Год назад +5

      @@chisuwochabu250 thanks for catching that 😉

    • @tracy488
      @tracy488 Год назад +4

      @@jiujuntang Maybe she'll get a contract with a makeup company.

  • @Ashleyunfiltered
    @Ashleyunfiltered Год назад +227

    She’s just embarrassed. Her friends exposed her just as bad as she exposed herself. This is what happens when Bad people go on reality television and then get completely rejected by the public because of it so now it becomes a rude awakening and they have to do interviews like this to prove they aren’t a bad person
    But the truth is… you were just exposed

    • @e.c.9231
      @e.c.9231 Год назад +1

      Yes and nothing makes someone change more than everyone shitting on them online 😂

    • @Ashleyunfiltered
      @Ashleyunfiltered Год назад +1

      @@e.c.9231 you call it shitting, I call it a spade. Call a spade a spade. It is what it is. She has a lot of ground work to do because my one comment won’t stop the millions of people she has affected with her terrible behaviour.
      Don’t play nice, won’t get nice. My comment was simply stating facts. Happens time and time again

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 Год назад +3

      ​@@e.c.9231 Her "changing" is no one's responsibility but her own.

    • @SleepinWithKarma
      @SleepinWithKarma Год назад

      I agree.

  • @newchapters600
    @newchapters600 Год назад +409

    Those tears are manipulative . She wants people to feel sorry for her

    • @cynthgonz
      @cynthgonz Год назад +15

      or maybe she's crying because ppl have taken it way too far and have said more hateful and mean girl things than Micah or Irina ever did. How are y'all coming for these ppl when you're all being worst than them?? make it make sense. look at yourself plz.

    • @RR-mv1vr
      @RR-mv1vr Год назад +3

      Totaly agree!

    • @ff2154
      @ff2154 Год назад +20

      That is is a small minority of people who are going after them unjustifiably. Most people are rightfully calling out their inappropriate mean girl behaviors....so not sure how we are the bad guys here?

    • @ThatGmoney
      @ThatGmoney Год назад +1

      @@cynthgonz I think it’s more of she’s not skilled at dealing with the public. Micah does show remorse, she even mentions she has a long way to go. People with strong personality disorder traits, blame blame blame blame or they would use words to dismiss. It’s always a controlling game.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Год назад +5

      I wonder if there’s some shock and sadness of having that mirror pointed back at her and seeing just what a truly sh*tty person she is; Regina George 2.0 is hurtful to everyone caught in her web. That pool scene with her all over Kwame will go down in LIB history- they make Cole look like a choir boy in his mild flirtation with Colleen.

  • @rw7567
    @rw7567 Год назад +352

    Paul dodged a big bullet. She says it herself. She is no empath. She’s just selfish. Even when she’s dealing with Paul, she is incredibly selfish and self-absorbed. I blame her parents. Now she’s gotta grow up. Yeah girl, that mirror can be harsh!

    • @jlind3891
      @jlind3891 Год назад +6

      In the show she said I’m an empath

    • @rw7567
      @rw7567 Год назад +5

      @@jlind3891 I was referred to this interview in which she acknowledges that she was only thinking of herself.

    • @amplelola23
      @amplelola23 Год назад +6

      funny how her mum said Paul was in the way and didn't let her meet someone else after he said no to her when Micah was the one who got in the way of what could've been between Paul and Amber. her mum too encouraged this behaviour of hers from what I noticed.

    • @nananichole
      @nananichole Год назад +4

      @@amplelola23 exactly. I had a feeling about her mom when they all met for lunch but especially at the wedding dress fitting. Like you don’t have to be totally on board with your kid doing something like this, I get that. But the was she spoke about Paul at the dress fitting gave me a undertone mean girl vibe herself and that was her MOTHER. I’m not shocked Micha turned out the way she did.
      It’s clear Micha’s been told “she’s pretty and smart and can have anything and anyone she wants because she’s MICHA” her entire life. It really shows

    • @solomoon3083
      @solomoon3083 Год назад +2

      Hell yeah. I’m an empath for animals. I can’t stand humans.

  • @yemio1005
    @yemio1005 Год назад +251

    I said it before Micah is a GREAT actress. I couldn’t believe the change up from being this mean girl in the beginning to then being this totally loved up gal. It was weird! Honestly something ain’t right with her and I’m very happy Paul said no

    • @r.j1323
      @r.j1323 Год назад +30

      She ain't even that great of an actress, no one's buying it.

    • @delrey874
      @delrey874 Год назад +11

      She was a terrible actress from start to finish. It was obvious from the beginning that she had no intention of getting married and just joined the show to get attention and followers.

    • @gl2461
      @gl2461 Год назад

      Bad cringey acting yikes

  • @reign4723
    @reign4723 Год назад +181

    So taking away the sugar coating that she’s trying to do here, she’s basically saying that she was too self-absorbed to care what others were going through as her only focus was her own happiness and she didn’t care who she stomped along the way to get it.
    Pretty much what we all had already gathered about her. She needs some growing up to do before trying to get into another relationship let alone marriage.

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife Год назад +8

      Yes! Her excuse is that she couldn’t see past herself. So very self-absorbed.

    • @erindouglas01
      @erindouglas01 Год назад +13

      But she’s an eMpaTh

    • @reign4723
      @reign4723 Год назад +2

      @@erindouglas01 😂😂

    • @lauradominguez2160
      @lauradominguez2160 Год назад +5

      True, but the fact that she could recognize that about herself, at least shows some introspection and self awareness, so maybe she has a chance of becoming a better person if she really wants to change that about herself, I hope she does.

    • @lillyrose3545
      @lillyrose3545 Год назад +3

      She is crying because she was unaware that she is a nasty person until the show and how people reacted to it. I doubt she will grow from it. What I actually see happening is that she finds someone else that has her character. Like attracts like. …her and irina, her and her friends.

  • @phoebenaguit
    @phoebenaguit Год назад +125

    The only reason I have a hard time believing her is that she speaks with a "crying" voice a lot in this interview but there was actually no tears for the bulk of it.

    • @plutoniumcore
      @plutoniumcore Год назад +8

      Omg yes. The broken crying voice attempt. It sounds forced.

    • @floflo8153
      @floflo8153 Год назад

      So you'd believe her if she wasn't speaking in a crying voice?

    • @phoebenaguit
      @phoebenaguit Год назад +3

      @@floflo8153 Maybe, I would have to re-listen to what she actually said because the crying voice without tears just made everything sound disingenuous.

    • @maribelpav
      @maribelpav Год назад +1

      shes embarassed. wouldnt you be if everyone hated the person you simply are? Everyone's so different, by shes not evil just immature.

  • @alexciasommerville9514
    @alexciasommerville9514 Год назад +70

    You need an Oscar girl! This is literally trying to save face. You can apologize without the fake crying smh same thing she did at the wedding, acting like she crying, the whole time no tears smh ppl fake cry in apology so others can feel sorry for them and ultimately make them the victim.

  • @amplelola23
    @amplelola23 Год назад +45

    the first thing she said when we saw her was "if nobody likes my insides, I'd be pissed, but yeah that would make so much sense" meaning she knows how she is. plus her real life friends and their interaction also showed us she was portrayed correctly.

  • @kennedyseaton7606
    @kennedyseaton7606 Год назад +39

    she's crying cause she never thought the entire internet would catch on to the fact that she's a mean girl! the scenes don't lie

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Год назад +233

    This is literally what Micah has wanted. That influencer type lifestyle....she's eating this up! Lol.

    • @TheMemoryPolice
      @TheMemoryPolice Год назад +1

      It's difficult to be an influencer if people hate you though. People will follow and buy products from Tiffany and Brett because they are loved. Who is gonna listen to Micah?

    • @elielelwy
      @elielelwy Год назад +4

      @@TheMemoryPolicemean girls who also sympathize with her. she shouldn’t have a platform, period.

    • @mmm555m
      @mmm555m Год назад +2

      @@TheMemoryPolice people still follow along cuz they’re intrigued. Plus now she gets to have a “seeing the light” phase where she “turns herself around” and can show her “fans” her character development.

    • @TheMemoryPolice
      @TheMemoryPolice Год назад

      @@elielelwy - that is true, the mean girls are gonna follow her and the girls who hate all men

  • @ArtByHazel
    @ArtByHazel Год назад +87

    Micah may this be your wake up call to become a better version of yourself.
    Watching her and Irina laughed at someone’s pain was hard to watch. The mean girl vibe was so intense with those two. Because. Deep down they too have their own insecurities whether they admit it or not.
    Their lack of self-awareness is clear and they have a lot to learn going forward.
    I hope she feels the pain of having to see her behaviour affected people the way.

  • @janetgibson5779
    @janetgibson5779 Год назад +68

    Yes, she is SINCERELY the person portrayed on the show. That was her. Her words, her actions. Shocking that an educated person doesn’t have the wherewithal to think of others. Is she a bad person? NO. Immature? Yes. Quintessential portrait of white privilege.

    • @Joshpower57
      @Joshpower57 Год назад

      It's not white privilege, it's literally modern young women. They've been raised to be manipulative princesses. That's her, the manipulative princess. Yes, she is a horrible person. Girl actively tried to ruin people's relationships

    • @beffis1980
      @beffis1980 Год назад +1

      Yeah, she reminds me of Cersei from Game of Thrones! Irina is definitely her evil twin

    • @khayaaa5285
      @khayaaa5285 Год назад +2

      RIGHT

    • @Yentra163
      @Yentra163 Год назад

      It has nothing to do with her race. People of ALL races have trash like this. And people of all races have worthwhile folk.

  • @theworldsonheroin
    @theworldsonheroin Год назад +55

    i dont think Micah knows who she is. She seems to constantly seek validation from others and insecure people usually attract insecure people. It's not wonder her friends are who they are and how she gravitated towards Irina.

  • @valeriamoreno9024
    @valeriamoreno9024 Год назад +97

    She's so good at fake crying and great with her words....

  • @JM-pi2vc
    @JM-pi2vc Год назад +52

    Kudos to Paul for seeing her shortcomings! Paul said early on that he was used to down to earth, hippie-type, outdoorsy girls. I guess he couldn't handle all the pretentiousness, plus he peeped she was not caring and compassionate enough, and I'm sure her so-called friends were too shallow and rude for him too.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Год назад +7

      I don’t think he ever once saw her without full hair & makeup, including those massive caterpillar falsies on her eyelids. Scottsdale Barbie is the polar opposite of the crunchy PNW hippie chicks it sounds like are his preference. Good on him for giving her a chance but seeing through the facade.

  • @Cosmicles
    @Cosmicles Год назад +142

    On the show, that’s her true self😂😂😂😂😂

  • @makeblackcommunitiesgreata6496
    @makeblackcommunitiesgreata6496 Год назад +77

    🐊 😭 Now she's worried about her image worldwide.
    😂 🤣 PR Damage Control.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Год назад

      Honestly this entire interview seemed like PR damage control, well rehearsed and scripted

  • @benmac2112
    @benmac2112 Год назад +56

    That pool party pretty much appears to be telling of her character. It appears that she is a natural flirt but does not understand boundaries. Also, there were quite a few incidents in the dorm that gives the mean girl vibes and she appears to want to be the center of attention or be the most popular girl among the men. Too bad, she has to learn her lesson the hard way.... public scrutiny and publicly being called out. Before coming to the show, am wondering if she had some people or friends called her out on some of her behaviors. Or when they do, how does she respond to those criticisms.

  • @r.j1323
    @r.j1323 Год назад +35

    I feel bad for Paul, he fell into this trap when he could have had a sincere woman. And Zach originally fell too but was able to recover. I hope men see and learn from these types of females.

    • @GhislaineMutombo
      @GhislaineMutombo Год назад +3

      Sorry for Paula? Why? He made a choice, he is a grown man who chose this woman on his own accord. Y'all are capping hard, allegedly could have been having a thing with her bf too. So none of these grown ups are dainty & helpless. They chose their paths.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Год назад +6

      Notice a theme here…men fall for the manipulative, bitchy, hot girl over sweet, supportive, and steadfast (which is better life-partner material)! Men (and some women) want “fireworks” til they get home & realize you could blow up the whole house

    • @purplespaceship3050
      @purplespaceship3050 Год назад +1

      Society is to blame for a lot of this. We validate and reward these people by giving them a level of attention most normal people never have. Even before going on the show girls like Micah and Irina already have large social media followings because we reward people for their looks and not their character. We promote and nurture these kind of negative behaviors. Meanwhile the people who are actually genuinely good human beings go totally unnoticed.

    • @Furina-s2u
      @Furina-s2u 2 месяца назад

      A lot of ppl need to hear this​@@smartmarketing173

  • @llauoykcuftube
    @llauoykcuftube Год назад +53

    she is not good enough for Paul obviously, he is intelligent, good guy and she is just superficial mean girl

    • @ff2154
      @ff2154 Год назад +2

      Paul likes those qualities or he wouldn't pick her

    • @MoroccanSama
      @MoroccanSama Год назад +4

      ​@@ff2154 I don't think he was aware she was like that. He prob was in shock too watching it back.

  • @yoda12121
    @yoda12121 Год назад +95

    When you actually look in the mirror and see yourself of how you really are to people and that sh*t make you cry lol

    • @Ragnheiour_Olafurdottier111
      @Ragnheiour_Olafurdottier111 Год назад +2

      Aka why no one ever wants to self reflect. Only time will tell if she wants to change for herself... but by then we'll all move on😅

    • @yoda12121
      @yoda12121 Год назад

      @@Ragnheiour_Olafurdottier111 true! Lol

    • @lillyrose3545
      @lillyrose3545 Год назад

      You have to see the problem if you want to change. She didn’t see the truth that her friends are and she didn’t see it.
      I doubt she will change.

    • @susangivenrod656
      @susangivenrod656 Год назад

      She should not be giving interviews. She can’t recover from this. She showed her ass to all of the world, now deal with it!

  • @bambooblue74
    @bambooblue74 Год назад +36

    Woman up Micah! Take accountability for your actions. Here’s your chance.

    • @beffis1980
      @beffis1980 Год назад

      I don’t believe there’s any chance she’s a narcissist! She knew she was crying. She knew Amber was crying. She knew Amber was sad. She is a Cersei from Game of Thrones.

  • @dashag2342
    @dashag2342 Год назад +8

    True definition of: "Show me your close friends and I'll tell you who you are".

  • @crystalharris4142
    @crystalharris4142 Год назад +59

    Crocodile tears🥴 She’s trying to save face, but the damage is done as she showed her true self on the show. When someone shows you who they are believe them. Not buying it boo boo.

  • @superwomae
    @superwomae Год назад +26

    Her true self really comes out when she’s around her friendssss. I guess you are what you surround yourself with.

  • @TheAliciaky
    @TheAliciaky Год назад +18

    Definitely that Paul made a good decision. From the beginning she was interested in Kwame, but it's a good thing he chose Chelsea, because she seemed honest, humble and really in love with Kwame.

  • @angelmushahf
    @angelmushahf Год назад +15

    Micah’s story was karma at its finest. She and Irina laughed at Chelsie, Bliss and Jackie, especially, Amber when Paul rejected her. Then Shelbie and the gals laughed at Micah when Paul rejected her. And don’t forget that Irina tried to pursue Paul during the honeymoon. Micah needs better friends. If you hang out with hyenas, don’t be surprised when those same hyenas eat you alive.

  • @ssr6731
    @ssr6731 Год назад +33

    She and her friends made so much fun at Paul was just horrible... She said like she wanted to change him and dress him, like she was too good for him..

  • @Kiki-xd3sn
    @Kiki-xd3sn Год назад +9

    I’m furious that at the reunion she was not held accountable for ANY of her behavior but they grilled Irina so much, and she genuinely seemed ashamed.

    • @trulyyoursish
      @trulyyoursish Год назад

      True. She played Kwame and that's hurting Kwame, Chelsea and Paul.

  • @SpellTube
    @SpellTube 10 месяцев назад +2

    I feel so bad for Micah! She was so sad to a point where there were no tears at all when she’s crying 😭

  • @genestarolle2810
    @genestarolle2810 Год назад +12

    Paul made a smart move.

  • @serina9455
    @serina9455 Год назад +56

    Lmao nobody cares that she’s crying because it’s fake😭💀

  • @mazzyg6186
    @mazzyg6186 Год назад +17

    So crazy how her face is dry but she’s crying sooo hard

  • @lolacookie453
    @lolacookie453 Год назад +7

    Notice how when narcissists/BPD people cry, it NEVER elicits an emotional reaction from other people. This is a perfect example of it in case any of you are wondering why your body isn’t reacting in an empathetic manner watching her cry.

  • @marsargoxmiso1695
    @marsargoxmiso1695 Год назад +7

    I was absolutely disgusted with how her drunk friends were nasty and rude to Paul, she didn’t take his side she took theirs it’s ridiculous that at that age your allowing your friends control now you feel about a decently nice partner like y’all in middle school, I’m glad he said no in the end she needs to grow up.

  • @barbaramelady110
    @barbaramelady110 Год назад +4

    She cry because She was revealed!Paul was smart ,highly intelligent Man who make perfect choice to walk away ,BRAVO to HIM.

  • @ifyouweremeforreal
    @ifyouweremeforreal Год назад +21

    Accountability is hard for some folks

  • @rebeccaaa9994
    @rebeccaaa9994 Год назад +25

    The people you are around are a reflection of you so this is concerning considering all of her friends are mean like they were so rude to Paul for no reason. She cares too much about other people’s opinions and is too scared to be by herself which in its self is not good because it means she cannot be alone

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Год назад +17

    With friends like Shelby who needs enemies?

  • @cedii_x
    @cedii_x Год назад +28

    This was funny and pathetic. They (her & Irina) wanted to be influencers and famous from this. It’s hard *not* being yourself. Her real personality shined through in each episode & it’s really funny that she actually described herself as an empath but… well you know 😏 nothing of the sort. Mean girl with mean friends, doing mean things. Nothing new.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Год назад +1

      She’s the main character, or so she thought, and had her bubble burst hard because I doubt she’s ever not gotten what she wants in her entire life

  • @wilsonjoshwilson
    @wilsonjoshwilson Год назад +2

    Paul a scientist. Man’s calculated everything and made the right choice lol

  • @katet8639
    @katet8639 Год назад +5

    Micah crying: *World tiniest violin playing*

  • @cathyhall3955
    @cathyhall3955 Год назад +2

    How Paul and Kwami can think micah is sweet and kind is beyond me

  • @Antibeautyguru
    @Antibeautyguru Год назад +6

    To be honest I think she’s someone who takes on the personality of those she hangs out with and she’s super insecure so she hangs out with mean girls who make her feel important and like she’ll never be bullied and then she acts like a bully to fit in and feel superior so she won’t ever feel inferior again. I think she’s just a follower.

  • @Alicewunderimland
    @Alicewunderimland Год назад +5

    I mean, Paul just said “I can’t imagine her being a mother, that this nurturing part is missing” I mean 90% she criticised his clothes… 🤦🏻‍♀️ instead of developing some quality communication…

  • @guoshanhui
    @guoshanhui Год назад +11

    I hope she learns a lot from this experience! I applaud her for not overusing "like" in this interview. At least there's been an improvement in that area

    • @annaymous
      @annaymous Год назад +1

      Omg thank you, I’d start a like count in my head for her.

  • @marou55ia_
    @marou55ia_ Год назад +6

    As she said -- she was TRYING TO GET her happy ending. It did not seem like she had genuine intention to open her heart & be vulnerable. She was clearly trying to force things to happen & control the outcome & it failed. Sometimes it's best to let go of trying to control, and just receive love & understand that some things you can't control. Tiffany for example was open but not forceful.

  • @shabrinaz9877
    @shabrinaz9877 Год назад +26

    She is quite masterful in this. Theres expertise to the method of madness. 😅

    • @msmarsaya
      @msmarsaya Год назад +4

      It's called The Karen 😂

  • @peonyflowers23
    @peonyflowers23 Год назад +1

    Micah, that girl you call your best friend is a frenemy. She sat there and laughed as you were hurt. Forgive yourself, commit to doing better and CHANGE THE COMPANY YOU KEEP.

  • @c_louie670
    @c_louie670 Год назад +11

    I forgot in th show she said she was an empath, she clearly wasn't. I don't believe her tears. I wish her the best but I really hope netflix doesn't invite her to new shows.

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife Год назад +5

      Being so caught up in yourself that you don’t notice hurting other people is the opposite of being an empath. 🤣 I forgot Micah said that.

  • @francinesanchez5402
    @francinesanchez5402 Год назад +8

    I don’t know Micah, but I do know that she approached Chelsea to apologize after the pool.
    We saw some reflection from her during the show. Sometimes we are insensitive or unkind. If we apologize to the people we hurt and make amends and they accept it, then that’s that. It seems like she was doing that DURING the process. But her actions triggered a lot of viewers that she didn’t have the opportunity to apologize to until now (and most won’t believe her anyways).
    I get the feeling that she isn’t aware of how bad the mean girl stuff. She seems like the “nice one” out of her friends. Her friends said horrible things and were inappropriate. Her long time friends and Irina…. When you hang out with those people, 1) you are nice in comparison 2) you don’t understand how inappropriate that behavior is.
    It seems that she gets excited with the gossip.
    Either way, Jackie and Chelsea said mean things about Zach and Tiff didn’t stand up for him. There was a LOT of mean girl behavior on the season and it doesn’t seem like we are falling out the other girls. We HAVE to understand how edit plays a part.
    I think Micah fulfills a certain stereotype for many of us that we don’t have peace about. I wish her the best in her journey for growth. I saw her making mistakes, but trying to make amends along the way.
    I was triggered watching it too, but I think she is probably a pretty nice person who has some work to do (more than anything evidenced by her very mean friends - her lack of awareness on their behavior is def a place for growth).

  • @emilyp8266
    @emilyp8266 Год назад +12

    she's only "sorry" because she got caught and revealed who she really is. Where are the tears Micah? Lol

  • @Honeybulldog
    @Honeybulldog Год назад +53

    Cocodrilo tears

  • @jasminetaylor34
    @jasminetaylor34 Год назад +4

    Wow, these comments are super harsh. I think she's sincere in taking accountability. I'm 56. Across the board, women my age look back at their early years and talk about being appalled at a multitude of their own behaviors. It's called youth. Growth expands across a lifetime, as it should.
    I'd wager most of the people passing judgement in the comment section wouldn't hold up so well under a microscope.
    I'm also the mother of a 30 year old, with whom I watch the show as a Mom/daughter bonding activity. If you want a basis for her true character and nature, look at the fierceness with which her Mom embraces her. It's not a shallow relationship.
    Give a little Grace.
    #teammicah

  • @Bamgeutcutiepie
    @Bamgeutcutiepie Год назад +17

    sooooooo i guess this means she didn't get married....?

  • @bbrandon5567
    @bbrandon5567 Год назад +3

    Girl you were def a mean girl… I mean, Shelby LAUGHEDDDDD when Paul said no and that’s your BFF…

  • @user-dt5wo5ju1p
    @user-dt5wo5ju1p Год назад +7

    Every girl watching this video knows a girl like Mica we’ve all been bullied relentlessly by girls like Mika and we all see how they act when they get caught. She’s not fooling anyone she and Irina deserve the worst and I hope they get karmic shit that’s coming their way.

  • @charlottelee259
    @charlottelee259 Год назад +3

    Micah is a mean girl. Paul dodged a bullet.

  • @tseringtsomo5049
    @tseringtsomo5049 Год назад +8

    An empath shows their character through their actions. They observe and understand and emphasize about the other person who maybe hurting at the moment and they don't hide behind the "I laugh because I am nervous " excuse. Maybe it's true but I am find it really hard to believe her.

  • @Missbaelee
    @Missbaelee Год назад +9

    "That's not who I am"
    Even though it's exactly how I acted 😢
    This girl... still friends with that irena and her long time friends SUCK! that is her. She's just sad it's her reality. Time to change!

  • @Karen-hl4lx
    @Karen-hl4lx Год назад +2

    She needs to reflect on her friend choices. Shelby can say she’s looking out for Micah and just cares about her, but she was right off the bat snooty, rude and judgemental. She basically was saying that Micah’s experience and feelings weren’t real and she didn’t trust her own friend’s feelings. She knew better. She’s not a good person.

  • @mamabirdie734
    @mamabirdie734 Год назад +3

    Micah’s blonde friend Shelby was a mean girl to Paul from jump so was her friend Ruby and Micah loved being a mean girl with Irina and that’s w/ the camera’s on. Birds of a feather flock together. Paul probably sensed deep down she was a shallow, vapid, self absorbed bully who not only lacked compassion for others but delighted in their pain…Her friend Shelby was also completely classless and carried herself without any sense of sophistication.

  • @elouiseee
    @elouiseee Год назад +6

    Yeah, she’s sorry but she’s not going to stop posting her modeling pics in expensive luxury brands, money grabbing and worshiping her own image.
    Doesn’t really say, “I’m working on myself,” but to each their own.

  • @Musihousehold1
    @Musihousehold1 Год назад +9

    Being hateful towards someone like Micah doesn’t make her who you want her to be, people like Micah and even Irina need grace & forgiveness.

    • @jessicaramirez1955
      @jessicaramirez1955 Год назад +3

      yeah, it is bad enough that the show acted as a mirror for them and is documented for ever

    • @Ashleyunfiltered
      @Ashleyunfiltered Год назад +2

      How does that make someone hateful to comment on how TERRIBLE they treated people. When you act like a bad person, you get treated like a bad person.
      And unfortunately because it’s public, and they themselves made the choice to act that way in front of MILLIONS of people, this is what happens.
      If she acted like a mean girl people will think of her as a mean girl. Doesn’t matter what she actually is like in real life that’s what she showed. She’s gonna have to do a lot of ground work to fix this

    • @Musihousehold1
      @Musihousehold1 Год назад +3

      @@Ashleyunfiltered I’m not saying excuse the actions, I’m saying when people send her death threats and make fun of her physical appearance and come for her life, dox her that is hateful. I’m not saying people have to like her lol. Take care xo

    • @Musihousehold1
      @Musihousehold1 Год назад

      @@jessicaramirez1955 no literally!!!

    • @Ashleyunfiltered
      @Ashleyunfiltered Год назад

      @@Musihousehold1 I understand what you’re saying but let’s also be realistically, the world we live in is super critical and judgmental. You can’t show yourself acting like that and not expect repercussions.
      But I get what you’re saying ✨

  • @MissHimbeere
    @MissHimbeere Год назад +2

    An empath would never say he is an empath. Girl you are so self-centered. Empaths would never.

  • @sarahsayed2012
    @sarahsayed2012 Год назад +3

    On her extended interview with ET she says she doesn't regret anything she did because that was her true self and I believe her.
    She seems like a manipulative and sneaky person.

  • @NewCreationInChrist896
    @NewCreationInChrist896 Год назад +1

    Bless her heart.
    1 John 1:9

  • @rice2329
    @rice2329 Год назад +7

    Micah is not as bad as Irina and Jackie

  • @TheSLme
    @TheSLme Год назад +6

    If this is her state now, I can't imagine how the reunion will go.

  • @DrLauraRPalmer
    @DrLauraRPalmer Год назад +3

    She is no where near ready for marriage. Not only is she a narcissistic type mean girl, she’s a drunk and can’t even speak without slurring her words. Her and her friends speak “drunk” (slurring words) 24/7 which proves/shows she’s OFTEN drunk. I think she has a lot of growing up to do bc she acts like low hanging fruit at this point. He made the best decision and he knows it.
    Hopefully she’ll get there.

    • @MAGACOPP
      @MAGACOPP Год назад

      She will never be wife material.
      Certainly not mother material.
      Paul was right.

  • @maribelpav
    @maribelpav Год назад

    I can see her heart and what an incredible quality to be able to say "I'm sorry" and I'm wrong." Everyone in the comments with judgments, you're all just talking about your own self. When a person is being bashed time and time again why would you ad to it?

  • @TRUTHbomb2.0
    @TRUTHbomb2.0 Год назад +1

    Thank God Paul said no to her.

    • @MAGACOPP
      @MAGACOPP Год назад

      He got to clapp that from the back tho
      😂
      That’s all I’d want.

  • @mayalorbetskie624
    @mayalorbetskie624 Год назад +10

    Girl bye! You need to do some self reflecting instead of deflecting.

    • @Noname-hs5lx
      @Noname-hs5lx Год назад

      She’s saying that. She says that.

  • @taraedge
    @taraedge Год назад +1

    I can't believe why comments are so rude towards her. Like obviously she has made mistakes but if she learns from them and can change and grow than that's all you can ask for. Seriously everyone makes mistakes just that most people's aren't aired publicly for millions of people to see

  • @kdh1830
    @kdh1830 Год назад +11

    Are Karen tears a thing? Or Becky tears? We should coin one of those phrases because it’s definitely a thing.

    • @lolacookie453
      @lolacookie453 Год назад

      They are referred to as narc/BPD tears of manipulation

  • @nader85021
    @nader85021 Год назад +7

    Practicing for the reunion. I am sure she is watching this with her PR agent to get feedback for the reunion.

  • @yaya3416
    @yaya3416 Год назад +1

    Her friends sucked! Super toxic! Her saying she couldn’t answer first meant she didn’t want to be the 1 to say “I don’t” she set herself up. I wouldn’t have married her either. Paul dodged a bullet for sure!

  • @DailyCards
    @DailyCards Год назад +3

    Her mean friends laughed after she got rejected. But she was also mean. Karma got her

  • @kawball
    @kawball Год назад +6

    This comment section gets it 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @kristinacollins8380
    @kristinacollins8380 Год назад +4

    I have a hard time feeling any ounce of empathy for Micah given she acted the way she acted - this is who she is. I feel empathy for the victims though - Chelsea and Paul in particular. I hope they are OK and I commend Paul for saying "no." Micah, instead of tears, use this experience to try and be a better person. Reflect on why you feel a need to gossip, make others feel bad, laugh at another woman's pain and compete for another's love interest for the sake of winning? Why keep friends who laugh at your pain instead of sharing in your sorrows?

  • @Jowanad
    @Jowanad 11 месяцев назад

    It’s better not to make excuses just be accountable. She should have checked her friends.

  • @tabithagrace2314
    @tabithagrace2314 Год назад +3

    Not gonna lie… in the beginning I was NOT a Micah fan, but as the show progressed she became one of my favorite people!! ❤

  • @anordinarygurl9642
    @anordinarygurl9642 Год назад +3

    Girl- why she teary like that? No real tears are coming out. The way she immediately just resumes talking like nothing after cleaning her face is just so fake. She just looks so off. Besides, we've seen her friends too and I think we've seen her true character. Even at the alter when she asked Paul to go first. I was like what? Her and Irina do deserve each other and they can save their "apologies"🙄😒

  • @WhereTheRainbowEnds1111
    @WhereTheRainbowEnds1111 Год назад +2

    I do not feel bad for her in the least. She was fake & shady from the start, toxic from the drop & is trying to pull some PR stunt with this "feel bad for me" shit so she can get cast on another show in the future. Micah, you solidified your role as the evil person on the show- sit in it, if you wanted to be famous you should have been kinder & not such a nasty human being. Flirting with Kwame & choosing Paul because he was into another woman was foul. Women like Micha put a bad name out for a genuine experiment

  • @Plvltchick
    @Plvltchick Год назад +2

    actually being so affected by everyone else’s attitudes and moods is the true definition of a empath. Even the mean ones affect empaths and they find themselves acting like them because they are empathizing with their negative feelings. Micah actually genuinely seems to have reflected and not just back tracking where as Irina is a true mean girl. A cold fish.

  • @ariellewht
    @ariellewht Год назад +5

    Of course she’s crying , but we don’t care. Just own it, why do people always say “that’s not me” the friends you have also give mean girl vibes .

  • @Grace_ingrid
    @Grace_ingrid Год назад +19

    She had so much to own up to 😮 she never faced that she could be the villain. Hopefully she can grow from this and can lean to treat people better and finds happiness 🙏

  • @elouiseee
    @elouiseee Год назад +2

    The reason she upset people so much, especially women, is because THIS archetype of pretty, rich, mean girl wreaks misery onto normal girls.
    These are the girls who bullied normal girls with snide comments, laughter, and ostracism.
    These girls were popular with boys. Just like she plays two men.
    Girl like most viewers have dealt with girls like this. They made us feel bad, bullied us, and lorded over the social hierarchy.
    And even though normal girls saw how ugly their personalities were, they were always rewarded by society for being pretty.
    Well guess what?
    Now the world saw how these girls behave behind closed doors, we saw the bullying in real time, we saw the manipulation, playing both sides, etc.
    And it’s ugly. People don’t like it when they can see the inner workings.
    I’m glad she’s getting a reality check, if she was really sorry, she’d go private on instagram instead of still posting her headshots.

  • @walelu777
    @walelu777 Год назад +3

    Sort of off topic but has anyone noticed Netflix has the most unflattering lighting? It makes everyone look 10 years older than they are. Isn’t the point of lighting on a tv show/movie to make people look decent?

    • @jovanaavalos174
      @jovanaavalos174 Год назад

      Yes oh my god. The light did not do Micah or Irina any favors.

    • @walelu777
      @walelu777 Год назад

      @@jovanaavalos174 that’s what I thought too but I wasn’t gonna say that 😂 seriously though, it made everyone look awful. You shouldn’t be able to see someone’s pores from an interview lol

  • @Rebecca.xoxoxo
    @Rebecca.xoxoxo Год назад +1

    I think people need to show Micah some grace. I’m the beginning she was playing the game and dating just like everyone else. Of course there would be a little drama. Her true colors started to show a bit once she got the guy and she was actually much nicer. I don’t get bad vibes from Micah at all. The real villain is that mean malicious JACKIE!!!

  • @ano070602
    @ano070602 Год назад +15

    What do people expect? When you put yourself on TV. They are going to get the comments they don't want. You have to have a thick skin.

  • @Fluffy288
    @Fluffy288 Год назад +3

    on one hand I do feel bad for Micah and she sounds somewhat genuine, but on the other hand what you portray yourself on screen is a reflection of your character. you don't just change that because you saw how people are reacting to you.