asmr Sleeping on your girlfriend’s chest [heartbeat] [2 hours] [soft breathing]

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

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  • @kenr4709
    @kenr4709 3 года назад +9926

    My girlfriend passed away December 1, 2020, and I have not been able to sleep, this was very relaxing and I felt loved again and I could relax. Thank you

    • @ZakkariPlays
      @ZakkariPlays 3 года назад +1122

      I’m so sorry, I hope you’re doing okay

    • @kenr4709
      @kenr4709 3 года назад +921

      @@ZakkariPlays thank you, it’s still very difficult and I’m still having a very hard time sleeping. But I know it will get better eventually.

    • @oli709
      @oli709 3 года назад +566

      I'm sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace

    • @justinwall5249
      @justinwall5249 3 года назад +397

      @@kenr4709 I’m so sorry, my friend. I will say a prayer for you.

    • @bonniethebunny7325
      @bonniethebunny7325 3 года назад +204

      Sorry to hear that RIP to you girlfriend

  • @abransaenz8991
    @abransaenz8991 4 года назад +4541

    Them: "Do you feel lonely right now?"
    Me: "Not entirely"
    Them: "would ya like to?"

  • @cran7731
    @cran7731 4 года назад +8892

    Remember there's no shame in listening to this ❤
    Humans need this type of thing, it's just hard to find now unfortunately

  • @notLL5
    @notLL5 4 года назад +2468

    Her: asleep
    Me: trying to breathe at the same pace, suffocating myself because i cant do it

    • @basket9611
      @basket9611 4 года назад +64

      The body breaths slower when in 1 stage of sleep

    • @TheAroVII
      @TheAroVII 4 года назад +97

      wait, am I the only one hyperventilating trying to keep up with her breathing?

    • @highwaybaby4166
      @highwaybaby4166 4 года назад +28

      I can do this no prob but then again I’m a girl

    • @something8851
      @something8851 4 года назад +4

      bruh

    • @conniethecommie6372
      @conniethecommie6372 4 года назад +2

      Sameee

  • @Zenriesz
    @Zenriesz 4 года назад +9167

    I'm glad the internet exists, so I can pretend I'm not alone.

  • @graham4023
    @graham4023 4 года назад +2248

    the dislikes are from people who were upset it was only 2 hours

    • @Aloeevaa_
      @Aloeevaa_ 4 года назад +14

      Yes, i need more 😔

    • @arandomseal6663
      @arandomseal6663 4 года назад +25

      Loop it.
      If your on phone put this in its own Playlist and loop it from there, that's what I'm doing

    • @raviolidamn97
      @raviolidamn97 4 года назад +2

      Dislikes from females

    • @raviolidamn97
      @raviolidamn97 4 года назад

      @BrOkEn_Gta_KiNg 😞

    • @missbosskitty1196
      @missbosskitty1196 4 года назад +3

      @@raviolidamn97 Are you sure about that? 👀

  • @Au79Bricks
    @Au79Bricks 2 года назад +143

    I laid in bed and listened to this for what felt like 10 minutes, then I woke up the next morning and had the best sleep I have had in months. No nightmares, just peaceful sleep, thank you.

  • @aydengriffin4605
    @aydengriffin4605 4 года назад +4584

    This just called me single in 20 different ways

    • @satorii4903
      @satorii4903 4 года назад +151

      I hate to admit it but yes, yes we got called single in 20 different ways and she was just breathing

    • @revanelfkiller826
      @revanelfkiller826 4 года назад +78

      I felt that in my very soul so yeah another night of sleeping alone and feeling miserable whilst insomnia and being overly self critical destroys what little self worth i do have and leads me to crying for the next 2 hours before going to sleep. Whoop dee fucking do 😔

    • @holeesheet6807
      @holeesheet6807 4 года назад +11

      @@revanelfkiller826 pretty lit man 😗

    • @Bumblebee2361
      @Bumblebee2361 4 года назад +4

      :)

    • @derick115_1
      @derick115_1 4 года назад +4

      @@revanelfkiller826 I feel that I really do

  • @lemonyanva1976
    @lemonyanva1976 4 года назад +3296

    No......I actually have to cry now.....you went out of your way to make sleeping sounds for 2 hours to put all of us to sleep...while dealing with your life and school and everything......thank you so much..I just got this 4 foot tall teddy bear that I'm gonna hug now....... You have such an adorable voice......I wish covid would end so I could go out and get a real girlfriend or something......);

    • @Joe-im6rq
      @Joe-im6rq 4 года назад +111

      Words of wisdom

    • @lemonyanva1976
      @lemonyanva1976 4 года назад +39

      @WhatsGoingOn your mom is Bart Simpson

    • @imatoastydino
      @imatoastydino 4 года назад +21

      Words of a prure person

    • @squ1b
      @squ1b 4 года назад +27

      ahahahaahah ill never be loved :)

    • @coffeedvdrw
      @coffeedvdrw 4 года назад +9

      simp

  • @gerfield1570
    @gerfield1570 4 года назад +5005

    Boy I sure hope I don’t go insane from listening to that heartbeat, leading me to reveal the corpse that I have hidden under my floorboards

    • @junhansguitar1036
      @junhansguitar1036 4 года назад +330

      ishsjsjajwk i love edgar allen poe

    • @JoeSwanson9
      @JoeSwanson9 4 года назад +334

      ahahaha you sneaky dog, i understand that reference and im a failing disappointment in school.

    • @quill7889
      @quill7889 4 года назад +203

      For those who dont know, Edgar Allen Poe, A Tell Tale Heart

    • @afellowhuman3473
      @afellowhuman3473 4 года назад +44

      Thank you this is perfect

    • @AllTrickss
      @AllTrickss 4 года назад +101

      You just made me have flashbacks to english class

  • @nandinichmelik163
    @nandinichmelik163 3 года назад +493

    This is so comforting, I have a great relationship with my girlfriend, she's absolutely adorable and I love her so much, but I have a constant problem of expressing the way I feel and I'm pretty emotionally distant because of past issues involving attachment. She might never really know how much she means to me, and how much I would love to be in her company every second of the day, I would love to hold her in my arms, listening to her soft breathing like this.

    • @kenr4709
      @kenr4709 3 года назад +62

      Many guys have that same issue, it would make your relationship deeper if you start to break down those walls and tell her how you feel. Good luck! And take care!

    • @Fenvey
      @Fenvey 3 года назад +21

      @@kenr4709 Was about to say the same thing. While im no guru to be listened to, i think both of you will go off better if you truly open up to her, and talk about your needs and feelings. fingers crossed!

    • @soilthestillborn4949
      @soilthestillborn4949 3 года назад +8

      You could bring it up with her and you two can get a psychiatrist to help break down those walls for you, let a professional try to help and get the process going, you gotta find the roots and heal them one by one until eventually you can express those feelings

    • @nandinichmelik163
      @nandinichmelik163 3 года назад +13

      @@soilthestillborn4949 thank you for the advice, I have been trying to work on this for a long time, even before meeting her, but it is hard not to fall into familiar patterns, you get me? I let myself open up to her a little, small baby steps, a few times it came out wrong, but I know it will get better.

    • @lilbluridinghood6296
      @lilbluridinghood6296 3 года назад +22

      Show her this comment.

  • @adensingh3091
    @adensingh3091 4 года назад +1136

    This reminds me so much of Heather, when she would hold me close just after I got back from Afghanistan and she'd tell me that everything is alright.
    She was such a kind and loving woman and she always insisted that I slept with my head on her chest, so I could hear her heart beating with love fo rme.
    Unfortunately an accident took my love away from this world, and I now have to listen to ASMR videos to even get close to these feelings again, though I cry everytime I do because nothing can replace my Heather Gordon.
    R.I.P. Heather Gordon (1997-2019) I love you, and I'll miss your beautiful voice, your soft and slightly sweaty hands, your relaxing nature and how you always had something nice to say about everybody, even if they wronge dyou. I love you and I miss you.

    • @yourmom6955
      @yourmom6955 4 года назад +27

      How’d she die?

    • @adensingh3091
      @adensingh3091 4 года назад +77

      @@yourmom6955 a car accident just North of Lymington.

    • @laurelhell
      @laurelhell 4 года назад +104

      I'm so sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace :( please stay safe and take care

    • @lola-xd7ne
      @lola-xd7ne 4 года назад +38

      bless you 💙

    • @Hadfield15
      @Hadfield15 4 года назад +32

      My condolences, lad

  • @KL_VA
    @KL_VA 4 года назад +582

    .....cozy.... I think imma cry. We didn't deserve this

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  4 года назад +143

      Nooo crying, only sleeping 😴

    • @tunnelcrawlerwaluigi2690
      @tunnelcrawlerwaluigi2690 4 года назад +58

      @@cozyasmr0 are you adopting us? not complaining, just asking

    • @bacca1748
      @bacca1748 4 года назад +14

      @@tunnelcrawlerwaluigi2690 wouldnt that be nice

    • @tunnelcrawlerwaluigi2690
      @tunnelcrawlerwaluigi2690 4 года назад +9

      @@bacca1748 very nice

    • @bacca1748
      @bacca1748 4 года назад +8

      @@tunnelcrawlerwaluigi2690 one day... For now lets drink away and comfort each other

  • @vantablack3831
    @vantablack3831 4 года назад +3085

    I swear, if she had randomly whispered "I love you", I wouldn't be alive to write this comment.
    I would've drowned in my tears. 😂

    • @up0nastar0
      @up0nastar0 4 года назад +148

      bruh we need that

    • @rerug
      @rerug 4 года назад +261

      Write that down write that down

    • @jockey7779
      @jockey7779 4 года назад +30

      @@rerug lmaoo

    • @butterbagelgaming3654
      @butterbagelgaming3654 3 года назад +67

      it feels good to cry sometimes

    • @johnbaker1879
      @johnbaker1879 3 года назад +21

      Same like am I weird for this stuff you know or am in just lonely

  • @cegman1113
    @cegman1113 3 года назад +693

    To anyone who is listening to this, Goodnight. I will see you tomorrow

    • @kisamada1693
      @kisamada1693 3 года назад +25

      guys i think they're dead, they haven't said goodmorning in over a month

    • @a_true_generic_gamer1104
      @a_true_generic_gamer1104 3 года назад +5

      Thank you. Sure it's 11 in the morning, but I've become nocturnal.

    • @lottadixonner8994
      @lottadixonner8994 3 года назад +2

      Yes, you probably will bc life is lonely..

    • @3rdst
      @3rdst 3 года назад +1

      When will I see you again friend?

    • @cegman1113
      @cegman1113 3 года назад +11

      Trust me guys, I'm still here.

  • @darkestproject4626
    @darkestproject4626 4 года назад +2199

    *Closes Book then chuckles* Like thats ever gonna happen.

    • @Patriotusa44
      @Patriotusa44 4 года назад +22

      XD I feel ya

    • @gigapope6977
      @gigapope6977 4 года назад +16

      Layers.

    • @something8851
      @something8851 4 года назад +12

      first of great meme second i like ur profile pic

    • @veteranweeb7787
      @veteranweeb7787 4 года назад +13

      Not gonna lie when I read this it hurt like hell to know how lonely I am

    • @iisaxx
      @iisaxx 4 года назад +19

      Somebody once told me the wor- (gun shot)

  • @Atomic_Thomas
    @Atomic_Thomas 4 года назад +1061

    What's amazing is that I actually get to experience this for real tomorrow.
    Me & My Girlfriend are going to cuddle & I'm gonna rest my head on that soft chest of her's & listen to that heavenly heartbeat.
    I Love Her

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  4 года назад +189

      Atomic_Thomas awww that’s sweet

    • @skippydinglechalk7579
      @skippydinglechalk7579 4 года назад +141

      I wish I could have what you have😭

    • @jxkeys
      @jxkeys 4 года назад +107

      @@skippydinglechalk7579 pain.

    • @skippydinglechalk7579
      @skippydinglechalk7579 4 года назад +49

      keys _ true pain

    • @jxkeys
      @jxkeys 4 года назад +42

      @@skippydinglechalk7579 i just started high school, maybe i can find somebody who'll end that pain.

  • @hghplndrftr7646
    @hghplndrftr7646 4 года назад +1523

    It’s sad that I’ve become so lonely that my life is listening to these

  • @ramenking150
    @ramenking150 3 года назад +213

    this lets me pretend i'm sleeping next to my gf and helps me cope with my extreme separation anxiety and lets me sleep at night easier, thank you!

  • @isaiahzamangaka218
    @isaiahzamangaka218 4 года назад +519

    Two hours...you’ve truly transcended my expectations. I shall sleep well tonight. Thx for the video as always cozy.

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  4 года назад +43

      Isaiah ZaMangaka aww thank you!

    • @satorii4903
      @satorii4903 4 года назад +13

      @@cozyasmr0 just by watching this i have acquired godly level's of loneliness p.s: lub ur boice stay safe

  • @aubreyskipper9642
    @aubreyskipper9642 4 года назад +755

    is this how the real ones cope with being touch deprived?

  • @RickyVv
    @RickyVv 3 года назад +2589

    imagine you're cuddling with your girlfriend and when she lets you lay your head on her chest she says "i love you" and you slowly fall asleep with a smile on your face.
    now read the first word 😔

  • @skibiditoiletrizz67
    @skibiditoiletrizz67 3 года назад +4157

    im not sure how i ended up here since i’m a girl but seeing boys in the comments talking about there crushes and them imagining holding them is literally super cute omggg i hope u all find someone !! i promise theres a girl out there that will love u sm and youll find her eventually it just takes time

    • @Overlysarcasticfox
      @Overlysarcasticfox 3 года назад +299

      And now I’m feeling self conscious....

    • @palakpatel9014
      @palakpatel9014 3 года назад +53

      I'm a girl, I would rather prefer a sister

    • @Overlysarcasticfox
      @Overlysarcasticfox 3 года назад +271

      @@palakpatel9014 as someone with a sister I must deny this claim

    • @yoongskasa
      @yoongskasa 3 года назад +49

      I'm a girl too, now I'm thinking of anime characters and my crush ✋

    • @saderen2171
      @saderen2171 3 года назад +13

      Awww, thanks!

  • @khae7726
    @khae7726 3 года назад +1291

    Top 2 sounds of heaven:
    1: Your mother's voice.
    2: Your lover's heart beat.

    • @Leo-jo7uh
      @Leo-jo7uh 3 года назад +148

      My mother is the devil💀

    • @mitsumi_tanuki2353
      @mitsumi_tanuki2353 3 года назад +28

      Honestly when I hear my moms voice that's how i know she is still alive and i want to protect her and loud voice dad

    • @khae7726
      @khae7726 3 года назад +3

      @@mitsumi_tanuki2353 indeed my friend

    • @mitsumi_tanuki2353
      @mitsumi_tanuki2353 3 года назад +4

      @@khae7726 I'm glad you agree my friend

    • @brendansimmons3712
      @brendansimmons3712 3 года назад +33

      I lost my mother and my lover 4 months ago, not throwing a pity party or being a downer just letting you know you’re absolutely right. Please never take anything you love for granted, all of you please hug your mothers.

  • @howl7600
    @howl7600 4 года назад +345

    I’ve got my first day of college tomorrow and this is really gonna help me to sleep so thank you cozy ☺️☺️
    Thank you for everyone’s good wishes it has gone really well

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  4 года назад +31

      Howl good luck!

    • @controchip9582
      @controchip9582 4 года назад +4

      Good luck

    • @howl7600
      @howl7600 4 года назад +2

      cozy asmr thank you ☺️

    • @howl7600
      @howl7600 4 года назад +1

      Contro Chip thank you

    • @spookyy4923
      @spookyy4923 4 года назад +3

      Congrats man, I have said this a lot because I am the youngest child (13) and both of my siblings are around the age of 25 and done with college lol

  • @lillegitimate
    @lillegitimate 4 года назад +366

    nobody:
    the telltale heart: *THUMP THUMP THUMP THUMP THUMP*

    • @batthepunny7277
      @batthepunny7277 4 года назад +16

      THE FLOORBOARDS

    • @refundforafrozendove6575
      @refundforafrozendove6575 4 года назад +10

      I loved the old man...
      BUT HIS EYE

    • @flipfilmproductions9472
      @flipfilmproductions9472 3 года назад +7

      Yes police officers,please sit in these chairs on top of these floor boards that definitely don't have a body underneath it

    • @aly4067
      @aly4067 3 года назад +5

      PLEASE MY EIGHTH GRADE ENGLISH PAPER IS YELLING AT ME RN

  • @tonylapoa5342
    @tonylapoa5342 4 года назад +507

    That moment when you realize you never had a girlfriend once in your life

    • @Iwaffle88
      @Iwaffle88 4 года назад +61

      Pain
      Nothing but pain

    • @Michael-jj4ol
      @Michael-jj4ol 4 года назад +4

      true

    • @jorgeantonioarreaga4674
      @jorgeantonioarreaga4674 4 года назад +24

      Trust me when I say that you should count yourself as lucky. Least you don’t have to go through the pain of having lost that feeling. Not yet anyway. Enjoy your youth. Do I regret having a gf? No. But when I tell you I felt pain seeing her with someone else. It drops you. Good luck sir/madam. 👍:)

    • @anormalguy-t42
      @anormalguy-t42 4 года назад +5

      it's better than loosing a girlfriend...

    • @kishanchali8752
      @kishanchali8752 4 года назад +7

      @@jorgeantonioarreaga4674 You don't need anyone else to fulfill your if you're happy with yourself.

  • @irradiatedpacific
    @irradiatedpacific 3 года назад +294

    I like this. it's like a nice little guide for me to focus my breathing and heartbeat on, so i can forget about the stuff that happened the day before. really relaxing!

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  3 года назад +32

      I'm so glad!

    • @angelo95234
      @angelo95234 2 года назад +1

      @@cozyasmr0 You forgot the images of Melanie Mallard On GTA Chinatown wars.

    • @angelo95234
      @angelo95234 2 года назад

      @@cozyasmr0 I Said You forgot the images of Melanie Mallard On GTA Chinatown wars

  • @ricksanchez6497
    @ricksanchez6497 4 года назад +189

    I can't stop imagining that I sleep wearing a stethoscope

  • @sofiaholleman577
    @sofiaholleman577 4 года назад +259

    Hey girl here just wanna say this is surprisingly accurate down to like even the fast paced breathing and the little grunt-squeaks.

    • @sofiaholleman577
      @sofiaholleman577 3 года назад +8

      @@blabbermouth7018 yeah actually

    • @dizzyr699
      @dizzyr699 Год назад +2

      Can you tell me it’s gonna be okay can you tell me I’m a good person..

    • @normiekiller3818
      @normiekiller3818 Год назад +2

      ​@@dizzyr699 You're going to be okay; You are a good person, darling. You are so loved and cherished.

  • @davidnagy8535
    @davidnagy8535 3 года назад +1248

    *turns up the speakers
    *hugs body pillow
    *r e l a x (and cry)*

    • @nisinoyayu5539
      @nisinoyayu5539 3 года назад +19

      I am doing the same

    • @chunkyavacado3529
      @chunkyavacado3529 3 года назад +16

      doing that rn

    • @fromiv2006
      @fromiv2006 3 года назад +19

      I dont cry and don't do that. See i was sweating from my eye's. So there.

    • @goblinthetargetpractice6049
      @goblinthetargetpractice6049 3 года назад +13

      @@fromiv2006 damn, and i. With my mother, sneaking into my room and chopping onions for the rest of the night.

    • @Goto_Xdubgames
      @Goto_Xdubgames 3 года назад +3

      awww I hope you get a girlfriend one day

  • @mikkalamassey8938
    @mikkalamassey8938 3 года назад +52

    unlike many of the people in there comments, i have a girlfriend so why don’t i just cuddle her? well we met in a psych ward and she’s still there and i miss her cuddles so much so this is my life now. thanks for coming to my ted talk. fr though this remind me sm of her with the little grunts and urgh i just love it

    • @nathanlong624
      @nathanlong624 3 года назад +1

      Good luck and hope she comes home soon🙂👍🏽

    • @Leo-jo7uh
      @Leo-jo7uh 3 года назад +1

      How did y'all get to see each other? I thought you weren't allowed contact with other people in a psych ward or is that like the maximum security ones where they put you in straight jackets and stuff? Anyway hope she comes home soon :)

    • @thearmoredgeorgian2736
      @thearmoredgeorgian2736 3 года назад

      @@Leo-jo7uh My guess would he they encourage it, of course it’s probably monitored in a way though

  • @LukasHugo
    @LukasHugo 3 года назад +218

    My Friends wanted to see my RUclips History and then they saw this and called me a Loser.
    But i dont give a fuck what they are talking about, this is a great feeling for me when im listening to this 😌

    • @meh9677
      @meh9677 3 года назад +45

      Fuck their opinion. They're not real friends if they talk like that about you! You do you!💜

    • @L1terally_Me
      @L1terally_Me 3 года назад +12

      You can disable history

    • @jackborman8176
      @jackborman8176 3 года назад +1

      Jesus aren’t u not supposed to say that

    • @mollym477
      @mollym477 3 года назад +2

      Same except I wasn’t called a loser it’s how I accidentally outed myself 😍

    • @kisamada1693
      @kisamada1693 3 года назад +7

      they're the loser for saying that you're a loser, you're trying to feel comfortable goddamnit

  • @CalculatedTheory911
    @CalculatedTheory911 4 года назад +89

    with all this quarantine stuff, i haven’t been able to see my gf NEARLY as much and its got me down lately especially since her dads super strict. so this, THIS made my freaking year. I will be saving this and i will be coming back to watch it every. single. night. probably isnt healthy that i miss my gf this much but ill have to deal with that for now lol.
    NOT THE HERO I DESERVED,
    BUT THE HERO I NEEDED
    EDIT: my gf broke up with me today, bc im moving away for 6 months. really thought she was the one. now im sitting here high as fuck eating hot pockets at 1am

    • @Eighteentoast
      @Eighteentoast 4 года назад +2

      Bro I got depressed with the lack of seeing my SO/person (we aren’t actually dating) I didn’t think I missed her that much until I texted her. It was like she lifted me from my dark abyss. I hope it gets better for you

    • @Eighteentoast
      @Eighteentoast 4 года назад

      Well like it did for me

    • @CalculatedTheory911
      @CalculatedTheory911 4 года назад

      Fort Nite it gets better when im able to facetime or talk on the phone, texting is good and all but its a terrible way of showing emotion. but i leave soon to go to a different state so now ill have to see if this relationship can withstand long distance (even though it feels long distance now lol)

    • @jorgeantonioarreaga4674
      @jorgeantonioarreaga4674 4 года назад +1

      I’d hug ya if I could brother. I’m sorry. Stay strong. 👍

    • @CalculatedTheory911
      @CalculatedTheory911 4 года назад +5

      @@jorgeantonioarreaga4674 thanks! Im tryin to, it comes in waves, ill be fine for most of the day then i see something that reminds me of her and i tear up. but today was better than yesterday and tomorrow will be better than today so im just living off that mentality right now.

  • @Cedar_Treess
    @Cedar_Treess 3 года назад +90

    Just found this recently. I’ve been feeling very lonely lately and this helps.
    I am not ashamed and you shouldn’t be either. Sending hugs to y’all!
    💚🦕

  • @TrisFireblood
    @TrisFireblood 3 года назад +58

    It sounds so natural and peaceful, I can’t tell if this was acting or if you actually recorded the sounds of yourself sleeping, although I am highly inclined to believe the latter. It helped me sleep last night feeling as if I was with my girlfriend ❤️

  • @hongmeiling8219
    @hongmeiling8219 3 года назад +127

    It’s a real problem if I am so starved of affection that just general heartbeat noises makes me think I am being held and floods my brain with dopamine

  • @adamvile9104
    @adamvile9104 4 года назад +103

    4 minutes in i realised that my heartbeat synced up with this. It's that comforting to listen to!

    • @kellapeer
      @kellapeer 4 года назад +4

      46 min in and now I relies it 🥺

    • @Overlysarcasticfox
      @Overlysarcasticfox 3 года назад +2

      You can hear your own heartbeat?

    • @Crownslayer115
      @Crownslayer115 3 года назад +1

      @@Overlysarcasticfox Probably if it’s quiet enough, but there’s also fingers to neck and whatnot

    • @VeeOasis
      @VeeOasis 2 года назад +2

      @@Crownslayer115 I can just feel my heartbeat through my chest no need to feel or anything it gets annoying at times but rn I'm at peace with this video playing

    • @ahmetsar3824
      @ahmetsar3824 2 года назад

      Same!

  • @ShockSurge
    @ShockSurge 4 года назад +231

    The first thing that came to mind when it started was "Is this really what it's like?"

    • @thecore6658
      @thecore6658 3 года назад

      answer not really

    • @darring3580
      @darring3580 3 года назад +3

      Hopefully you'll know soon enough

    • @a_true_generic_gamer1104
      @a_true_generic_gamer1104 3 года назад +3

      Sort of. Unfortunately i wasn't able to know for long, as Abuse was a thing I got to experience. But it was sort of like this. It was nice

    • @friendlyfire9991
      @friendlyfire9991 3 года назад +3

      Kinda, my girlfriend snores a little but yes it's like this and a little bit more of movement. Good nights

    • @ShockSurge
      @ShockSurge 3 года назад +3

      @@friendlyfire9991 if you have a girlfriend then why are you here lmao

  • @ryanbray8531
    @ryanbray8531 3 года назад +207

    BOYS I DID IT, found a girl that loves me and can actually feel this in real life I’m so grateful and I wish anyone who reads this luck with getting with anyone you want to :)

    • @rittis013
      @rittis013 2 года назад +16

      Congrats man, now lives your life to the fullest and never look back.

    • @CodeineCoffee
      @CodeineCoffee 2 года назад +4

      Proud of you bro! Enjoy every moment

    • @lelahLovelylife
      @lelahLovelylife 2 года назад +2

      Good job! 🎉

    • @Starclipss440
      @Starclipss440 2 года назад +3

      Proud of you bro. U living a life many of us wish to have 🥲

    • @Yuki-qs5mt
      @Yuki-qs5mt 2 года назад +1

      Jesus loves you

  • @rinsekai
    @rinsekai 4 года назад +172

    I used to be annoyed when my parents did this. Now I miss it...

    • @skeletorbishop7470
      @skeletorbishop7470 4 года назад +32

      Oh god what I would to to hear my mom's heartbeat and hold my dad's hand again. This is a GF asmr but still

    • @matteoshulze5761
      @matteoshulze5761 3 года назад +7

      Completely normal for humans to need attention and the need for love

  • @urphat4686
    @urphat4686 4 года назад +200

    the pain has evolved to agony :)

    • @ThetrueSpork
      @ThetrueSpork 3 года назад +2

      D:

    • @pgtv14
      @pgtv14 3 года назад +11

      Dont worry, you get used to it.

    • @marshalllonigan1950
      @marshalllonigan1950 3 года назад +3

      Time to get hopelessly addicted to opiates

    • @mothslug4387
      @mothslug4387 2 года назад +1

      i am clinically addicted to several illicit substances

    • @SnowingFox
      @SnowingFox 2 года назад

      Just abuse hard drugs, then the agony turns in a cool, hardened, and dull emotion that is indescribable despite me just describing it.

  • @badwolfscousin
    @badwolfscousin 3 года назад +73

    According to one study done at Eindhoven University of Technology, hearing someone's heartbeat has the same connecting effect as looking in someone's eyes. The more you know . . .

  • @V26587
    @V26587 Год назад +8

    I've been without physical contact for about 4 years now and this just about brought me to tears. Never underestimate how important loving connections are

  • @secondchance8446
    @secondchance8446 3 года назад +43

    I haven't had a full night rest in months, but I put this on and went to sleep, and for once in so long I finally felt like I had gotten proper sleep. Having the company there makes the world of difference. Thank you for making this video!

  • @shokoruka4693
    @shokoruka4693 3 года назад +12

    my parents aren't fighting anymore once i play this, thanks cozy 💕

  • @bennet9353
    @bennet9353 3 года назад +57

    This video: *I master 93 different ways of making you feel alone*

  • @avoreia
    @avoreia 3 года назад +90

    I’ve become so lonely and isolated I just think that this is my gf 😞

    • @avoreia
      @avoreia 3 года назад +4

      Sad me

  • @skelewolf23-.-75
    @skelewolf23-.-75 4 года назад +119

    I can’t wait till I will be able to get into a relationship and cuddle with my girlfriend until we both fall asleep not giving a care in the world just sleeping and feel comfortable... well that’s if I ever get into one...

    • @anthonygregoric4336
      @anthonygregoric4336 4 года назад +13

      hang in ther champ

    • @ornate_addiction
      @ornate_addiction 3 года назад +4

      Bro samee :")

    • @Hello-ko6yh
      @Hello-ko6yh 3 года назад +7

      Just don’t get your heart broken by a girl who doesn’t deserve it in the first place big lad.

    • @UnknownServant
      @UnknownServant 3 года назад +4

      you can if you try 👍, i have been rejected 30 times in a row without even coming close to a relationship :) wasted like 17 years from when i was 13 till now and i got nothing out of it... believe me you are not the same as me, but you just gotta try your best and hope for the best ! good luck

    • @averyepicguy
      @averyepicguy 2 года назад +2

      @@anthonygregoric4336 very poor choice of words

  • @Bananika16
    @Bananika16 4 года назад +245

    YOOO WE SLEEPING WELL TONIGHT-
    Anyways...tysm cozy! I’m a lonely lesbian *yearning* for some form of physical contact *with anyone.* so atleast with this I get to have a mock-girlfriend 🥺
    Also, how are you? Have you been eating and drinking enough, go get a snack and something to drink! >:3 take care! ❤️

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  4 года назад +32

      Bananika_16 - aww thank you and I’m doing well! You make sure to take care of yourself too!

    • @ilovewomenpleasepegmemaam692
      @ilovewomenpleasepegmemaam692 4 года назад +22

      Omg I'm a lonely lesbian too 🥺

    • @ella_bunno
      @ella_bunno 4 года назад +18

      Lonely lesbians unite

    • @bubblyg.4685
      @bubblyg.4685 4 года назад +4

      Same

    • @halley8079
      @halley8079 4 года назад +7

      lonely lesbian here too XD

  • @AdhdCr1TiKaL
    @AdhdCr1TiKaL 4 года назад +131

    Me: I don't wanna date anyone
    Also me: Watches this video

    • @Vanitystudios1045
      @Vanitystudios1045 4 года назад +2

      Also you: wants to date

    • @CleopatraKing
      @CleopatraKing 3 года назад +9

      Such a fucking mood.
      Dating is a fuck hassle BUT
      *CUDDLES*
      is it worth it?
      *yes*

    • @raulrosas5068
      @raulrosas5068 3 года назад

      nice Dodge pfp

    • @AdhdCr1TiKaL
      @AdhdCr1TiKaL 3 года назад

      @@raulrosas5068 what dog pfp?

    • @raulrosas5068
      @raulrosas5068 3 года назад +4

      @@AdhdCr1TiKaL not that dodge the dodge car

  • @arekmcnatt4785
    @arekmcnatt4785 3 года назад +11

    Ive used this to sleep for the past week and now i sleep better and cant fall asleep without it also i have insomnia and this REALLY helps... So thank you for essentially making the sleep part of my life 10 times better... And also by the way thats pretty much not an exaggeration. This is now my favorite video on youtube and i have over 2500 hours on this app. I absolutely love this video.

  • @melldoesva
    @melldoesva 4 года назад +12

    I remember using asmr to help me sleep but now, I cant stop listening. Its helped me get through so many tough times from school work all the way to suicidal thoughts. Honestly, if it werent for these, I would've given up on everything such a log time ago. I want to thank you from the bottom of my lonely heart.
    Thank you

    • @baconrolls5206
      @baconrolls5206 3 года назад

      HEY MR FORK DID U POST SUM ON JOJO ASMR OR R U SOMEONE ELSE

    • @melldoesva
      @melldoesva 3 года назад

      @@baconrolls5206 I didn't

  • @agdaboss3281
    @agdaboss3281 4 года назад +147

    Wanted to destress between assignments accidentally fell asleep

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  4 года назад +30

      ag daboss it be like that

    • @internetperson573
      @internetperson573 4 года назад

      だめですねえ@ag dabossべんきょしますください

    • @derick115_1
      @derick115_1 4 года назад +5

      @@cozyasmr0 sometimes it really do be like that

  • @Selenaniii
    @Selenaniii 3 года назад +32

    when she lives across the world and your time zones are completely different but you still want the comfort as if they were there

    • @lottadixonner8994
      @lottadixonner8994 3 года назад +3

      When she lives in a different dimension or "goes to a different school" so you act like SHE exists

  • @iancole2279
    @iancole2279 3 года назад +94

    What I wouldn’t give for just a moment
    Even if it’s based on a lie, I just want a moment of intimacy. Where I can feel like I mean to you the same world you mean to me.

    • @notimportant3235
      @notimportant3235 3 года назад +10

      ...go out and find the one then
      It's the best feeling you'll ever have....it was for me before we broke up...
      But doesn't matter when or where just shoot your shot and show them your all. Nothing is stopping you man. Nothing.

    • @luxaval
      @luxaval 3 года назад +1

      @@notimportant3235 thats sweet! I hope ur doing okay after the breakup though.

    • @coworker4391
      @coworker4391 2 года назад

      ​@@luxaval judging by his username, no.

  • @AaliyahIsis
    @AaliyahIsis 3 года назад +160

    I think I am just beyond lonely at this point

    • @xoyolo2846
      @xoyolo2846 3 года назад +2

      Same 😔

    • @CottonMouthJoe
      @CottonMouthJoe 3 года назад +8

      ah yes, the dissociative bleak numb void. someone take me out pls

    • @SamuelBlack84
      @SamuelBlack84 3 года назад +2

      If I have to be lonely for the rest of my insufferable life then I don't want to live.

    • @morlin7808
      @morlin7808 3 года назад +2

      All people that have choosen to watch this are like you, that means you are actually not lonely cause we all have kind of this bound of loneliness that sticks us together. Or something like that

  • @Angelo.937
    @Angelo.937 3 года назад +9

    i just appreciate you and this community so much..no one judges..we are all in the same boat!

  • @thebaserail1102
    @thebaserail1102 5 месяцев назад +3

    Ive been turned down in some of the worst ways possible, and honestly, i accept all hope is lost... this audio is probably my only reassurance ill ever get in life. Thank you for making it.

  • @extrphat2233
    @extrphat2233 3 года назад +28

    I wish I could lay on that special person in my life like this and listen to their heartbeat:(( all I want is cuddles man

    • @lottadixonner8994
      @lottadixonner8994 3 года назад +1

      Damn man i feel that to much, maybe bc each time i got a gf (twice in my life ever) either she did somethin i heard about or i fucked something up since im new to dating and talking to girls lol

    • @nilepurple8714
      @nilepurple8714 6 месяцев назад

      I gotchu bro, who needs women anyways when you got the boys😂 (socks stay on)

  • @moistfarticles6211
    @moistfarticles6211 4 года назад +15

    I started listening to this just to try it out, but then had the hardest time stopping. Honestly Sent shivers through my body and made me feel more content than I have in three years.

  • @luukgordijn7409
    @luukgordijn7409 4 года назад +17

    I started playing this every night, it makes me feel less alone less isolated. I just want to thank you for making this and i am alot of people here like me cant thank you enough for making this so we feel less alone

  • @fridge8330
    @fridge8330 3 года назад +9

    this relaxes me and makes me nervous at the same time, I usually play horror games and the heartbeat reminds me of the moment when you are being chased or close to dying

  • @heyitsme9378
    @heyitsme9378 3 года назад +22

    Soooo. I've had nightmares for the past 6 months or so every single day. I found this (along with others) a week ago, and I haven't had a nightmare sense.

  • @justinbrowne7393
    @justinbrowne7393 4 года назад +44

    I’m going to sleep like this every night from now on while crying.

  • @fougazy2399
    @fougazy2399 4 года назад +4

    It's been a week since my classes started and I never had the strength to get there, it's though feeling alone while in a crowded place. Thanks to you I don't feel alone even in my room, and I swear it gives me enough strength to get there tomorrow.
    Thanks Cosy

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  4 года назад +1

      Fougazy stay strong and you got this!

  • @bradpearson7918
    @bradpearson7918 2 года назад +11

    After an abusive relationship this is exactly what I needed for my insomnia and to calm my anxiety down thanks so much for the audio and thanks for the good nights rest I've gotten thanks to this

  • @Toast_Post
    @Toast_Post 10 месяцев назад +2

    Even though it's been a couple of years since this came out, I still really appreciate it existing. I was really stressed out last night, but this audio made it much easier for me to fall asleep.

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  10 месяцев назад +1

      glad it was able to help!

  • @cupnoodles4286
    @cupnoodles4286 4 года назад +108

    i put 2 shirts into my pillow and hugged it so i felt like i was hugging a girl while listening to this. im so lonely :)

    • @basket9611
      @basket9611 4 года назад +10

      With room mates will be wierd if they see he doing this

    • @jeffersonoliveira351
      @jeffersonoliveira351 4 года назад +1

      yes

    • @Mabufu381
      @Mabufu381 4 года назад +7

      If I’d want it to be like my gf I’d have to put a chopping board under my pillow... this really doesn’t work with flat girls lol

    • @neon1250
      @neon1250 4 года назад +4

      everyone watching this video is v lonely

    • @cupnoodles4286
      @cupnoodles4286 4 года назад

      pepehands ;-;

  • @MC-ns8gb
    @MC-ns8gb 4 года назад +9

    For the first time in quarantine I slept well, also two hours? Wow you're amazing cozy

  • @R1ce_C
    @R1ce_C 4 года назад +243

    Hah I’m not lonely
    Proceeds to watch Asmr girlfriend heartbeat and cry’s himself to sleep 🙂

    • @vince863
      @vince863 3 года назад +18

      I’m not lonely 😀
      I’m not lonely 🙂
      I’m not lonely 🥲
      I’m ..not lonely😢
      I’m .. not .. lonely🥺
      I’m lonely😔

    • @Niiidil
      @Niiidil 3 года назад +2

      @@vince863 get yo shit together u got a life to live for XD, but I do hope u r not lonely.

    • @ghostline1461
      @ghostline1461 3 года назад +1

      @@vince863 we all are love🥲

  • @sebastianstansimp4248
    @sebastianstansimp4248 3 года назад +8

    I miss my girlfriend every single night even though we see each other the next day lol. This helps me sleep, and I'm borderline insomnia. Thank you for all you do. It's such an amazing job. Keep up the good work 💚

  • @z-3097
    @z-3097 4 года назад +11

    Thank you! I can listen to this when I can’t see my girlfriend.. I usually fall asleep on her chest because it makes me feel safe and happy but sometimes she can’t be here because of school :C

  • @earwurmss
    @earwurmss 2 года назад +8

    I feel really lonely right now, but this helps me sleep so much better than I normally do. Thank you so much for going out of your way to make this, It's really comforting. ^^

  • @neuro7594
    @neuro7594 3 года назад +16

    The sound of another human's heartbeat is beautiful isn't it?

  • @Thck3b
    @Thck3b 3 года назад +2

    I listened to this while writing my book and fell asleep. This was more powerful then I expected, I tried to go to sleep with this playing through headhpones considering I have sleeping issues and it helped so well. This is what I listen to on a daily basis now to go to sleep. Thank you for making this. It helps me a lot in my dark times. I didn't even listen to this to pretend I have someone I only did it because I wanted to try something to keep me calm and this helped more than I could ever ask for so thank you.

  • @saniyacrap7520
    @saniyacrap7520 4 года назад +12

    Ways to loop this if its just to short for you and u want more then 2 hours
    1:make a playlist
    2:keep saving this video to that one playlist of yours you created
    3:go to playlist and play the video
    And that will make it loop, bye. Also great video😁

  • @Limbambo
    @Limbambo 4 года назад +318

    People of the internet
    I wanna know
    Is there a girl out there who doesn’t care how you look
    Is there a girl out there who doesn’t care about how your brain functions
    Is there a girl out there who will give you snuggles and cuddles and all that is sweet
    Is there a girl out there that doesn’t care about sex, and only about love.
    That’s the girl I want, to bad I go to a British high school so all I have are a bunch of chavs.
    Feels bad man.

    • @beanstalko3o720
      @beanstalko3o720 4 года назад +71

      doesnt care how you look - yes definitely, attraction is individual and subjective. im sure theres plenty of ppl that will find you attractive/not care at all
      brain functions - as long as you're not like racist, homiphobic, sexist, etc. then i think youre fine pff being "smart" could be attractive to some but i dont think it should ever be a deal breaker. also himbo/bimbo fetishes lol
      cuddlessss - who doesnt like cuddles bro like :')
      doesnt want sex - asexuals!!!!!! asexuals!!!! and ofc not everyones sex drive overwrites their romantic one
      ofc its hard to find people though :/ im just trying to fill your half empty glass, i feel you. im a lesbian and you can only imagine how hard it is to find some1 else especially where i live (majorly conservative/full of old obese trump supporting men 🤢) we're on the opposite sides of the same coin here :( heres to hoping we both find someone one day, you can do it, fellow stranger! 💞

    • @Limbambo
      @Limbambo 4 года назад +22

      @@beanstalko3o720 thank you fellow stranger

    • @neon1250
      @neon1250 4 года назад +15

      YOOO I FELT THE CHAV THING ON A SPIRITUAL LEVELLLL

    • @mintybliss6240
      @mintybliss6240 4 года назад +36

      I am one of those girls
      Looks don't matter to me
      I love personality
      Snuggles and love are amazing 🥺
      I am ace, so I dislike sex and believe it isn't necessary to keep a relationship going
      Of course these types of girls exist 😌

    • @kira-vy4es
      @kira-vy4es 4 года назад +7

      I found a girl like that but I lost her cuz in stupid I just hope it will be ok and me and her will be together again

  • @stump9167
    @stump9167 4 года назад +5

    this has helped me so much, cause i used to have such a difficult time sleeping, and this actually helped, just the slow breath and the heartbeat helped me wind down and destress so i can sleep easier

  • @delta1o1
    @delta1o1 Год назад +2

    Hearing the soft whispers and tiny grunts over the phone really helps relax me now that I have no one to sleep next to anymore

  • @cupiid_cam_asmr
    @cupiid_cam_asmr 4 года назад +33

    yo, it started playing, and i kid you not, i cried and fell asleep in five minutes.

  • @faerierain7536
    @faerierain7536 4 года назад +23

    Accidentally went full volume with earbuds, and damn I could hear my heart pounding too O-O

    • @kellapeer
      @kellapeer 4 года назад +1

      Your heart said: “EaRhT QUAKE!!” 😂

  • @killerharmony
    @killerharmony Год назад +3

    i just wanted to thank you for making this. i have had many tragic events happen in my life and this makes me feel so loved. i know you have a life too and you went out of your way for this ❤ thank you so much

  • @rickrader
    @rickrader 3 года назад +12

    Reading through only a fraction of these comments and realizing the amount of people feeling alone is honestly wild, I didn’t think it was something that’s THIS common. Thought I was only one of the few😮‍💨. For anyone that’s reading this right now and to anyone who will see it, you are not alone nor are you unknown. I know it sure feels like it at times and no amount of words can really touch the emotions behind craving that physical and intimate contact with somebody. Love yourself and love others, the energy you put out will circulate back towards you eventually. You don’t know what people go through behind a closed door, Please be kind to others and be kind to yourself.

    • @babatuda5353
      @babatuda5353 3 года назад

      This comment didn't age well for me 🙃

  • @XHUIZU
    @XHUIZU 3 года назад +3

    This is the first time that i could actually sleep well... its so comforting and nice... to have someone by your side when your alone...

  • @1thousandteeth
    @1thousandteeth 4 года назад +555

    the wlw/nblw in the comments rn yearning for a gf: ❤️👄❤️

    • @kaylovesyou444
      @kaylovesyou444 4 года назад +80

      I JUST WANNA KNOW IF SHES INTO GIRLS OR NOT CAUSE LIKE THIS SHITS GENDER NEUTRAL 🕴️

    • @Cat-hz7yd
      @Cat-hz7yd 4 года назад +52

      its me im the wlw

    • @katyalumi
      @katyalumi 4 года назад +20

      must like.. but mustn’t ruin 69 likes.. fuck

    • @SapphicSaffron
      @SapphicSaffron 4 года назад +9

      ;-; it hurts so bad i miss this so much

    • @lottadixonner8994
      @lottadixonner8994 4 года назад +3

      Wlw???? Whats that

  • @dedemianmia9854
    @dedemianmia9854 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for this! This is the first time I’ve actually fallen asleep while listening
    I miss my girlfriend so much because we are quarantined at different homes and this is so cozy

  • @ariventiuscrane4843
    @ariventiuscrane4843 3 года назад +1

    Best thing to sleep to. Ever. I’ve tried so very many ASMR videos. And found some real good ones. But all of them end up keeping me awake after a few nights instead of helping me sleep. This one, while not the most tingly, is absolutely the most relaxing. And exactly what I need to sleep. And even just to relax in general sometimes.

  • @absbee98
    @absbee98 3 года назад +27

    This is probably the closest I'll ever get to doing this. Thank you cozy.

  • @inkziii
    @inkziii 3 года назад +8

    2nd night in a row of using this video as comfort to sleep, was honestly embarrassed asf that I came back to this but I just feel so happy closing my eyes and having this on, thank you for helping me sleep 🖤

  • @SmokeTrees04
    @SmokeTrees04 4 года назад +25

    2 hour long? This night gonna be great!

  • @theasiandestructor8801
    @theasiandestructor8801 2 года назад +1

    Honestly never thought I’d listen to these but I’ve been in a relationship with a girl for over a year now and she lives out of state. We always wanna cuddle and stuff but obviously can’t. Listening to this has helped me fall asleep much more easily and calmly. Just listening and imagining. I also suffer from some sort of sleep disorder and this has also helped with that. Thank you!!

  • @fishyfinnley
    @fishyfinnley 3 года назад +10

    I'm currently listening to this because my girlfriend had to move away and I haven't been able to physically interact with each other so this helps a lot

  • @VoidR9
    @VoidR9 3 года назад +5

    This helps me sleep, my ex broke me and I haven’t slept good in about 2 weeks. I felt loved. Thank you.

  • @mango7736
    @mango7736 4 года назад +29

    I can't believe she sat there and breathed in the mic for 2 hours.

    • @SoggyAsdaBag
      @SoggyAsdaBag 3 года назад +4

      No she was actually asleep

    • @thecore6658
      @thecore6658 3 года назад

      loop

    • @thecore6658
      @thecore6658 3 года назад

      @@SoggyAsdaBag i doubt

    • @SoggyAsdaBag
      @SoggyAsdaBag 3 года назад

      @@thecore6658 I don’t think we’ll ever find out 🤷‍♂️

  • @hammadahmad1137
    @hammadahmad1137 Год назад +6

    The little noise she makes are just too adorable

  • @moochii8598
    @moochii8598 4 года назад +13

    I was drop-dead laughing when I first read the title. On my phone, it cuts out some of the words on the screen. And so when I saw the title, it said, "Sleeping on your girlfriend"
    lul

  • @robin9321
    @robin9321 4 года назад +7

    I don't know whether or not these are real heartbeat sounds, but the fact that it sounds like they influence the breathing makes it sound so amazing!

  • @kawaiipotatoe8317
    @kawaiipotatoe8317 4 года назад +14

    have I been listening to this for 4 nights straight? yes. has it been helping me sleep the whole night without having nightmares? yes
    thank you for this

    • @cozyasmr0
      @cozyasmr0  4 года назад +1

      I’m glad to help☺️

  • @iMakz07
    @iMakz07 Год назад +2

    Seriously thank you, i've been hugging my pillow since I woke up. I need this so much in my life yet I won't ever have it. Your videos always make me feel so warm inside. God bless you.