She's known him since he was 7 years old. She didn’t let him enjoy his young life, she kept him close to her and didn’t let him out of her sight. He was groomed.
That doesn’t sit right with me. I personally think that 18 years old is far too young to become a step parent. If it is true that she has known him since he was 7, that’s some major red flags.
Wow! He was a step parent at just 18? They should of at LEAST been dating to see if they were compatible. Not throw the kids at him and say here’s your new daddy :(
@@rikardandersson5582 yeah, what’s your point? The media still heralds lot of dodgy men too. That haven’t done anything ‘technically’ illegal. Are you going to act like the media criticises most men who date significantly younger women? Most of those men still have great careers just like Sam because they can use the excuse that their partner was legal
Nah he was groomed. He was underage when they met and also she was at a higher position of power than him (director; had a role in picking him in the movie so basically giving him a job). She basically manipulated him and now they’re married. I feel bad for him I hope he’s able to learn what she did to him was wrong
@doeatwhales not really as from everything I have found suggests that they only knew each other for a very brief period of time when he was 17 because he turned 18 pretty early in production
@@doeatwhales no there is 0 evidence to prove that everything suggests they first met when he was cast in nowhere boy her being a family friend is mere coincidence do you know how many 'family friends' my family has that I've never met
Yeah, that's really icky. I think once you're over 25, age gaps aren't as big a deal, but when an older person goes for someone younger than that there's a predatory aspect.
That is pretty weird overall, although they’re both adults and are free to make their own decisions. Again though, it is very strange that she casted him and immediately began dating him when he turned 18.
But people eating themselves into a state of obesity isn’t weird? Men claiming to be women, isn’t weird? Women claiming to be men, isn’t weird? Ya’ll really do like to cherry 🍒 pick what you deem to be weird and not weird, don’t ya?
@endershepard7117 ok you worded this so wrong... are you saying this in defense of the situation or are you saying this because you don't like the normalization of ţranś people and obesity?
I don’t know how true it is but I’ve it heard it a couple of times that supposedly she’s known him since he was a child. Also she was married with kids when they got together and when she left her marriage I believe they had a child together. I think he was 19/20?
Also, I think they got married in 2012, but their first child was born 2 yrs before they got married. You mean to tell me, a woman in her 40s who already has 2 kids doesn’t know how to NOT get 🤰? Even if he had NOT married him, she definitely still had a 🔒 on him getting knocked up when he was so young. It is really “shady” that STJ at her age got knocked up when she she did, at her age. Celine Dion had a similar situation with her former manager, who bec her husband, but they were still married for awhile BEFORE they had their children. I think Celine married her now deceased husband and former manager when she bec of age and Rene Angelil was 49 yo! Also Cher was 18 when she and her 1st husband, 30-something, Sonny Bonogot married. What was going on BEFORE Cher turned 18? Did she meet Sonny for the first time at 12:01 am on the day of her 18th birthday, then they got hitched a few days later? Further, people, especially men, suddenly understand groomer and predators when the gender/power dynamic is reversed. I just really peep nefarious intentions from STJ getting pregnant 🤰 at her age and existing status at as mother, so soon by ATJ. He is 🔒 in, even if the marriage ends. “Helping” to raise STJ older two kids, huh? 🤔 The human brain 🧠 isn’t done developing until age 26 or so. Tied up with 4 kids at she 26 and shacked to that woman! Yes, sir! He is tied to her!
honestly at this point they have a stable marriage, can people stop pulling this shit out of the mud, you think your helping him but your only going to ruin his life if you create all this turmoil while hes actually making a good living in hollywood rn
Believe it or not some guys just like older women. Idk if he was groomed or is a gold digger and it’s not my business. If they are a happy couple then good for them. Their relationship is more successful than any I’ve been in so who am I to judge.
@@alekszandorNah it’s about the fact he was a minor when they met. Leo isn’t meeting them underage and then dating them, he’s meeting them as very young adults and dating them. I don’t like any of it, i agree it’s tiring but there’s more wrong when one was underage when they met. It’s not grooming if they’re all adults
@@Catherine.Dorian. yes, when they met. But then it was stated they stared dating when he was 18. Without anything backing up a claim that something did happen before he became of age. That is a very dangerous path to take. Yes there is a public blindness when it comes to female predators and groomers, but it doesn't help with accusing a woman without evidence, as that might just lead to other victims not coming forward after seeing claims falling apart due to lack of evidence or fear of people thinking their claims are false just cuz the previous ones were.
@@alekszandor Oh, that I agree with. I don’t think people should be accusing her of grooming because there isn’t actual proof. Is it gross? Of course, it is when any 40 year old pursues an 18 year old - like are you trying to prove you’re still desirable? But unless he says it, I do agree it’s not grooming. Especially cause he was 17 when they met, he was basically almost 18 and I think age of consent is even 16-17? It’s still gross but technically nothings done wrong
I personally wouldn’t care if she didn’t know him as a literal child. However, since she’s known him since he was under age it’s a whole different story for me.
Quick everybody tell him he was groomed so that he can start reevaluating what to him might’ve been a great relationship, and now because of societal pressure he starts doubting everything he ever knew!
@@hyperdark22 that's a pretty narrow-minded perspective. What if I was talking to your 7 year old daughter then magically married her the second she turns legal?? You aren't gonna think that's weird? As I said I'm unfamiliar with the story but if it is true it's disgusting
I would like to hear more factual information before saying he was "Groomed". There are many times where a person will become engaged with or married to an older person. I think the likelihood of those younger people missed out with Dynamic relationships with their fathers or mothers and our subconsciously reliving their childhood vicariously like. Fast forward to the present, are they truly happy and healthy as individuals and as a family unit?
Why would anyone want to be in a relationship with someone more than even 5 yrs. Trust me, I'm 8 yrs younger than my spouse and it was fine for awhile but now that we are older it is proving to be apparent that we are from different mind sets.
The problem isn’t whether it was legal or not, it’s still the fact that he was groomed. If she did meet him when he was seven then that’s really icky. Another thing to note is that all the movies she directs have a recurring theme: toxic relationships.
If this is really true I hope that it is a real relationship I hope they are both in love I hope they're both happy and no matter what anyone else's opinion is it doesn't matter as long as they are happy and the children are well cared for and loved
When I was young, I used to think he seemed old for his age so maybe they really are compatible. The more I learn about this relationship, the grosser it feels. I’m not even at the age Sam was when they got together and I can’t imagine even thinking about a 19-year-old like that, let alone giving in to those feelings. Yes, this is wildly inappropriate.
I don't have a problem with the age gap... but your brain is still developing until about 25 or 26, so I feel like any huge age gap with someone younger than 25 is very questionable.
Where is all the outrage when it comes to older actors and young women and your actresses.. Richard Gere Alec Baldwin Al Pachino Even Leonardo Decapro never dating anyone over 25 he's nearly 50.. If your calling out one woman, would you like not to be sooo two faced and call out the 100 + Older actors shacking up with women with a 20, 30 40 plus age and still producing children or with women who are younger than there own children 😮
Its not creepy when its a man though loads of men in hollywood have dated 21 year olds who are only a few steps out of their teens, and mennin Hollywood have dated 18 year olds. Also, Leonardo Dicaprio dates very young women yet only this women is a groomer? Always sexism amd double standards in this industry.
Let’s not kid ourselves. Someone who has the majority of their life experience in childhood is not going to compare to a 42 year old. That has experienced a career, marriage and children. No matter how ‘mature’ that 18 year old there’s still a limit because some things only come with life experience. Not to mention she was also his director and gave him the role. The power imbalance is clear. Trapping a 19 year old boy (yes, I said boy) with a child is nasty work.
At first I was like who cares he was 23, but they met when he was 17? Yeeeaaaah, that's fucked up. If you're a whole ass adult you should never date someone that was underage when you met , shits straight predatory.
It’s so funny to me how ya’ll deem it totally okay to call people in consensual relationships “creepy” but if any of us calls someone “fat” we’re fat phobic. We’re body shaming.
Dude, stop trying to derail the conversation with talking about obesity. If you're so weirdly obsessed with talking about that, go to another video that talks about that.
She's known him since he was 7 years old. She didn’t let him enjoy his young life, she kept him close to her and didn’t let him out of her sight. He was groomed.
Really?! First time I heard this. Was she a family friend or something?
@@samhayet4286 She was yes.
@GamingAnimator1 these rumors are found to be baseless
I'm so glad other people are realizing this. Very weird, definitely grooming.
@@krazykaye8843 again there's no evidence to support that they knew each other since he was 7
A 41 year old boss dated an 18 year old subordinate. Don't dress it up with irrelevant stats.
Right?
That doesn’t sit right with me. I personally think that 18 years old is far too young to become a step parent. If it is true that she has known him since he was 7, that’s some major red flags.
Wow! He was a step parent at just 18? They should of at LEAST been dating to see if they were compatible. Not throw the kids at him and say here’s your new daddy :(
@@whitedragoness23they didn't get married till 2012 when he was 22
His body his choice
@@armandoortiz9114lol. So if he was 15 is it still his body his choice?
@@serenaaavyep. apparently he was dating young.
If a 42 old male celebrity dates an 18 year old hes deemed a pervert
She’s deemed her pervert as well. You should see the comments whenever her name comes up
@@feyrol42 Not by the mainstream media she aint
@@rikardandersson5582 yeah, what’s your point? The media still heralds lot of dodgy men too. That haven’t done anything ‘technically’ illegal. Are you going to act like the media criticises most men who date significantly younger women? Most of those men still have great careers just like Sam because they can use the excuse that their partner was legal
Tell that to Leo.
@@maxisussex He gets called out for it all the time, you morron
Nah he was groomed. He was underage when they met and also she was at a higher position of power than him (director; had a role in picking him in the movie so basically giving him a job). She basically manipulated him and now they’re married. I feel bad for him I hope he’s able to learn what she did to him was wrong
The age of consent in most European countries is 16. Under UK law their relationship is entirely legal, if not a little icky.
@@maxisussexthat’s still grooming
@doeatwhales not really as from everything I have found suggests that they only knew each other for a very brief period of time when he was 17 because he turned 18 pretty early in production
@@wintertrooper7918 she knew him when he was 7 years old she was a friend of his family
@@doeatwhales no there is 0 evidence to prove that everything suggests they first met when he was cast in nowhere boy her being a family friend is mere coincidence do you know how many 'family friends' my family has that I've never met
He was definitely groomed.
They would have only barely met by the time he was 18
@@wintertrooper7918She already had his child when he was 18! They married 2 years later!
There is nothing sexist or ageist to call out his wife
He can exchange notes with the President of France.
Yeah, that's really icky. I think once you're over 25, age gaps aren't as big a deal, but when an older person goes for someone younger than that there's a predatory aspect.
"Dude! You're gonna be batman!" - Joe Rogan
It’s a text book example, it’s basically another Mary Kay Leterno situation
That is pretty weird overall, although they’re both adults and are free to make their own decisions. Again though, it is very strange that she casted him and immediately began dating him when he turned 18.
But people eating themselves into a state of obesity isn’t weird? Men claiming to be women, isn’t weird? Women claiming to be men, isn’t weird? Ya’ll really do like to cherry 🍒 pick what you deem to be weird and not weird, don’t ya?
@@endershepard7117 thats a thing by itself، a 23 yr old gap is like 95% golddig
@endershepard7117 ok you worded this so wrong... are you saying this in defense of the situation or are you saying this because you don't like the normalization of ţranś people and obesity?
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You bring up a good point
I don’t know how true it is but I’ve it heard it a couple of times that supposedly she’s known him since he was a child.
Also she was married with kids when they got together and when she left her marriage I believe they had a child together. I think he was 19/20?
She IS a family friend but there is no evidence that they knew eachother at all before he was cast in nowhere boy
If Aaron was a woman this would cause a slight outrage
Also, I think they got married in 2012, but their first child was born 2 yrs before they got married.
You mean to tell me, a woman in her 40s who already has 2 kids doesn’t know how to NOT get 🤰?
Even if he had NOT married him, she definitely still had a 🔒 on him getting knocked up when he was so young. It is really “shady” that STJ at her age got knocked up when she she did, at her age.
Celine Dion had a similar situation with her former manager, who bec her husband, but they were still married for awhile BEFORE they had their children.
I think Celine married her now deceased husband and former manager when she bec of age and Rene Angelil was 49
yo!
Also Cher was 18 when she and her 1st husband, 30-something, Sonny Bonogot married. What was going on BEFORE Cher turned 18? Did she meet Sonny for the first time at 12:01 am on the day of her 18th birthday, then they got hitched a few days later?
Further, people, especially men, suddenly understand groomer and predators when the gender/power dynamic is reversed.
I just really peep nefarious intentions from STJ getting pregnant 🤰 at her age and existing status at as mother, so soon by ATJ. He is 🔒 in, even if the marriage ends.
“Helping” to raise STJ older two kids, huh? 🤔 The human brain 🧠 isn’t done developing until age 26 or so. Tied up with 4 kids at she 26 and shacked to that woman! Yes, sir! He is tied to her!
He actually met her when he was 13, his parents were friends with her. Effing gross.
But if that's was you. You won't say effing gross.. HIPOCRITICAL
People don’t know what being groomed mean’s any more.
You have Twitter to thank for that.
Idk but this entire situation is true it seems like grooming to me
Shes 33 years older than him, not 23
honestly at this point they have a stable marriage, can people stop pulling this shit out of the mud, you think your helping him but your only going to ruin his life if you create all this turmoil while hes actually making a good living in hollywood rn
So they started dating while filming right after he turned 18 for when it would be legal. Sure…………….
No they started dating WHILE he was 18 no clear confirmation on when
Believe it or not some guys just like older women. Idk if he was groomed or is a gold digger and it’s not my business. If they are a happy couple then good for them. Their relationship is more successful than any I’ve been in so who am I to judge.
Could be but I've personally never met a man into older women that hasn't been inappropriately touched in some way.
What about Leo DiCaprio and his girlfriends never getting older than 26?
all the feminist always point that out, so this could not be the case, just because she is women?
@@yocool123 I am all for a LEGAL age gap, but I am so tired of Older women dating Younger men getting more criticism that the other way around.
@@alekszandorNah it’s about the fact he was a minor when they met. Leo isn’t meeting them underage and then dating them, he’s meeting them as very young adults and dating them. I don’t like any of it, i agree it’s tiring but there’s more wrong when one was underage when they met. It’s not grooming if they’re all adults
@@Catherine.Dorian. yes, when they met. But then it was stated they stared dating when he was 18. Without anything backing up a claim that something did happen before he became of age. That is a very dangerous path to take. Yes there is a public blindness when it comes to female predators and groomers, but it doesn't help with accusing a woman without evidence, as that might just lead to other victims not coming forward after seeing claims falling apart due to lack of evidence or fear of people thinking their claims are false just cuz the previous ones were.
@@alekszandor Oh, that I agree with. I don’t think people should be accusing her of grooming because there isn’t actual proof. Is it gross? Of course, it is when any 40 year old pursues an 18 year old - like are you trying to prove you’re still desirable? But unless he says it, I do agree it’s not grooming. Especially cause he was 17 when they met, he was basically almost 18 and I think age of consent is even 16-17? It’s still gross but technically nothings done wrong
I personally wouldn’t care if she didn’t know him as a literal child. However, since she’s known him since he was under age it’s a whole different story for me.
He was absolutely groomed
Kickass always had poor taste in Women
This was a weird one
Grooming 100 %.
Damn he groomed? Didn’t know he could do haircuts
Quick everybody tell him he was groomed so that he can start reevaluating what to him might’ve been a great relationship, and now because of societal pressure he starts doubting everything he ever knew!
It lasted so everyone should mind their own business.
ThIs isn’t new. People were talking about this when he became popular due to Age of Ultron
So they met when he was a consenting adult. Got it.
May December vibes
So he went from a gold digger to being groomed? 🙄
How about let people live their life
This isn't the problem here. People don't like the chance he was groomed
@@jakob9323 If this between two consenting adults I can care less
@@hyperdark22 that's a pretty narrow-minded perspective. What if I was talking to your 7 year old daughter then magically married her the second she turns legal?? You aren't gonna think that's weird? As I said I'm unfamiliar with the story but if it is true it's disgusting
I would like to hear more factual information before saying he was "Groomed". There are many times where a person will become engaged with or married to an older person. I think the likelihood of those younger people missed out with Dynamic relationships with their fathers or mothers and our subconsciously reliving their childhood vicariously like.
Fast forward to the present, are they truly happy and healthy as individuals and as a family unit?
Why would anyone want to be in a relationship with someone more than even 5 yrs. Trust me, I'm 8 yrs younger than my spouse and it was fine for awhile but now that we are older it is proving to be apparent that we are from different mind sets.
AARON IS NO CREEPY HE JUST FOLLOW HIS HEART HE IS A WOKF A LEADER .HE DOESNT FOLLOW THE REST OF THE PACK ...GOOD FOR HIM
The problem isn’t whether it was legal or not, it’s still the fact that he was groomed. If she did meet him when he was seven then that’s really icky. Another thing to note is that all the movies she directs have a recurring theme: toxic relationships.
If this is really true I hope that it is a real relationship I hope they are both in love I hope they're both happy and no matter what anyone else's opinion is it doesn't matter as long as they are happy and the children are well cared for and loved
No, she knew him since he’s 13. She knew his parents they were dating before he was of legal age. Let’s be real here.
It is a little creepy.
Good for him, doubt he was groomed. Happy he’s had a happy marriage.
She's known him since he was seven she was a family friend
@@sushipbestdeck8995except there is no evidence to prove that
@@sushipbestdeck8995 that doesn’t equal grooming. Even if they knew eachother.
When I was young, I used to think he seemed old for his age so maybe they really are compatible. The more I learn about this relationship, the grosser it feels. I’m not even at the age Sam was when they got together and I can’t imagine even thinking about a 19-year-old like that, let alone giving in to those feelings. Yes, this is wildly inappropriate.
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He’s probably a weird guy in person and actually into this kind of stuff.
Way to victim blame…his wife has known him since he was a child, even before he hit puberty. She groomed him. Men can be victims of sexual crimes too.
You said it yourself, men do it all the time with yunger women
He's so nice to look at though!
This is definitely grooming
Hey.... Who gives a shit? how about that? If they happy, let em be happy. damn...
I don't have a problem with the age gap... but your brain is still developing until about 25 or 26, so I feel like any huge age gap with someone younger than 25 is very questionable.
Where is all the outrage when it comes to older actors and young women and your actresses..
Richard Gere
Alec Baldwin
Al Pachino
Even Leonardo Decapro never dating anyone over 25 he's nearly 50..
If your calling out one woman, would you like not to be sooo two faced and call out the 100 + Older actors shacking up with women with a 20, 30 40 plus age and still producing children or with women who are younger than there own children 😮
imagine the gender switch💀
Apparently 56-23 = 23 now, who knew?!
DOUGLAAAAAAAASSSSS!!!!!
Its not creepy when its a man though loads of men in hollywood have dated 21 year olds who are only a few steps out of their teens, and mennin Hollywood have dated 18 year olds. Also, Leonardo Dicaprio dates very young women yet only this women is a groomer? Always sexism amd double standards in this industry.
Wtf this actually ruins him for me shes like twice as older 😭😭😭😭😱😱😱💀
that math is wrong
I remember when ATJ was accused of cheating on Sam and the internet was just like "Cheaters are scum, but you're the exception Aaron."
Many old actors have wives more than 30 years old younger. Why nobody says anything then
How about we dnt care about age if both parties are consenting adults. Sime people are more mature than others!
But, he wasn't an adult. He was a minor. Were you listening?
Let’s not kid ourselves. Someone who has the majority of their life experience in childhood is not going to compare to a 42 year old. That has experienced a career, marriage and children. No matter how ‘mature’ that 18 year old there’s still a limit because some things only come with life experience. Not to mention she was also his director and gave him the role. The power imbalance is clear. Trapping a 19 year old boy (yes, I said boy) with a child is nasty work.
He seems pretentious to me so i think he married an older gal to feel more mature than he actually is.
Let people be happy
How can u be a gold digger when ur an actor
At first I was like who cares he was 23, but they met when he was 17? Yeeeaaaah, that's fucked up. If you're a whole ass adult you should never date someone that was underage when you met , shits straight predatory.
Tbf the tumeline suggests that they met very very shortly before he turned 18 like within a couple months
@@wintertrooper7918 just say you're a creep.
It’s so funny to me how ya’ll deem it totally okay to call people in consensual relationships “creepy” but if any of us calls someone “fat” we’re fat phobic. We’re body shaming.
Dude, stop trying to derail the conversation with talking about obesity. If you're so weirdly obsessed with talking about that, go to another video that talks about that.
What does this have to do with being overweight?
People use the word groomed way to lightly! If you’re a consenting adult, why does it matter as long as your legal!
Yikes
Eh, hes old enough to know what hes doing by now. Lad probably rolled with it, still wierd but he hasnt piped up about it.
Dude im unsubscribing.. either youre videos are reaching or click bait
Yes but no one will do anything because it’s a woman doing it
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Ayo
Sus
Who cares!
He's gay. Beard situation with older woman like Hugh Jackman.
Kickass always had poor taste in Women