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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
  • In the Northern Virginia Chapters of the National League of Junior Cotillions, we believe knowing better means doing better. See how the skills taught in Cotillion can help you become a more confident, caring person! Learn more about our program at: nljcnova.com

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  • @williamwilcox6964
    @williamwilcox6964 Год назад +6

    It’s not a bad thing to learn your manners and how to be polite. Sure they teach you table manners and how to dance, but they also teach how to look someone in the eye when they’re talking to you, when is the appropriate time/method to rebuff someone in public. Some teach you the manners of how ask the one person sitting alone at the party to dance with you.

  • @anasocorrob
    @anasocorrob 3 года назад +31

    i feel like someone would call me a racial slur and hate crime me if I went there 😀

    • @phillybeccio2782
      @phillybeccio2782 3 года назад +2

      You look whiter than they are

    • @anasocorrob
      @anasocorrob 3 года назад

      @@phillybeccio2782 shawty have you even seen me 🧍🏽‍♀️

    • @phillybeccio2782
      @phillybeccio2782 3 года назад +1

      @@anasocorrob you look like a pale ghost in your profile pic

    • @anasocorrob
      @anasocorrob 3 года назад +4

      @@phillybeccio2782 bestie... that isn’t even me LMAO 😭 you really tried 🏃🏽‍♀️

    • @anasocorrob
      @anasocorrob 3 года назад +1

      @@phillybeccio2782 look up quackity pfp eyeliner and you should find it LMAO 😳🤞🏽

  • @Townsle
    @Townsle 3 года назад +10

    dude my parents are forcing me to go but i have social anxiety so i really don’t wanna go and i have broke down over this 7 times

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад +1

      Yeah, it pretty much a waste of money

    • @zoeytundrawood7881
      @zoeytundrawood7881 Год назад

      same, except for the break downs and ai found out today Im going and atleast some of my rlly good friends r there to help me out and I also hate people and I don’t have any manners at all I just yell all day at my friend when we play video games together 😁 and I’m not nice to people half of the time

    • @zoeytundrawood7881
      @zoeytundrawood7881 Год назад

      @@unrealjokergbr6481 no it’s in Jacksonville

    • @Dino_Mommy
      @Dino_Mommy 4 месяца назад

      My mom threatened to send me when i was a kid because i 2asnt acting ladylike. Turns out i likely just had/have adhd. Today im 30 and i command a room in higher society situations, have the manners and the soft skills. Ive done all of that while still never giving up who i am. You dont need cotillion to learn how to handle yourself. Its a way for adults to mold children into who they want them to be, not what the child wants.

  • @OliveMule
    @OliveMule 3 года назад +15

    I'm so glad I bucked against going to cotillion. This is grooming for workers of iniquity. My life has been beneficial regardless and I have been invited to gala's and other social events. I learned societal etiquette in military school, it was a class.

    • @77Avadon77
      @77Avadon77 2 года назад

      🙄

    • @77Avadon77
      @77Avadon77 2 года назад +1

      If other learn class and manners you think that's a bad thing, because you have none.

    • @77Avadon77
      @77Avadon77 2 года назад

      @Jack Lu No.. just no

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад

      @@77Avadon77 it’s just extra manners that no one uses and dancing, every one knows manners people will learn how to dance on their own of go to a dedicated theater and dance class. It’s also a waste of money

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus Год назад

      @@unrealjokergbr6481 fr

  • @corndawg15
    @corndawg15 2 года назад +8

    I didn’t know I went to cotillion… I thought it was a summer camp 🤪🌚🤣

    • @77Avadon77
      @77Avadon77 2 года назад

      Well you probably turned out better for it

  • @havoc1zero
    @havoc1zero 3 года назад +9

    Rich people with nothing else to do with their money. Plus it’s easier to let someone else raise your kid and teach them how to be adults. I still haven’t had the experience of meeting a wealthy family who didn’t employ nannies in some capacity or other.

    • @colingreen5553
      @colingreen5553 3 года назад +4

      They’re not too lazy to teach their kids manners, the reason they send them to cotillion is to have professionals teach them manners in an environment best suited to do so in the presence of other children their age.

    • @Vanessabobessa10
      @Vanessabobessa10 2 года назад

      It does even cost that much lol

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад +1

      @@colingreen5553 everyone knows manners, this is just extra manners that no one uses.

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад +2

      @@Vanessabobessa10 mine was a couple thousand… yeah it’s a waste of money for something you could do for free.

    • @colingreen5553
      @colingreen5553 2 года назад +2

      @@QwentynErasmus Saying that everyone knows manners is certainly an optimistic outlook. I can tell you from experience a great many people don't. As for your other point if people aren't using these manners then they should. There's nothing wrong with putting the effort in to show respect to your companions by being well mannered.

  • @carolinaidkwhattodo2884
    @carolinaidkwhattodo2884 3 года назад +6

    is this program for teaching manners I mean have you ever been to europe i mean my parents taught me ettiquit at a really young age and it hadan't to be in dancing like haven't you heard that in europe manners are teached at a young age...BY THE WAY THIS MY OPINION OK THANKS FOR READING BYE!!!

    • @emilyroberts5388
      @emilyroberts5388 3 года назад +1

      That's what it's like growing up in the southern States, manners and social edicts are a must have. And every child learns them

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад +1

      @@emilyroberts5388 yes but EVERYONE knows manners and they just teach Extra manners no one uses.

    • @emilyroberts5388
      @emilyroberts5388 2 года назад

      @@QwentynErasmus well if you're rich like these people, you probably go to enough fancy social events to actually use these skills😬

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад

      @@emilyroberts5388 I went to one of these cotillions and my family has a couple million and we agree that it’s a waste of money

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад

      @@emilyroberts5388 and I don’t really go to party’s that often.

  • @graciegirl6045
    @graciegirl6045 Год назад +1

    I finally get to go to mine this year

  • @rajanrao
    @rajanrao 4 года назад +13

    "You had your chance at the cotillion you!"

    • @orthomansam
      @orthomansam 4 года назад +3

      I think it's great but not much diversity especially for an advertisement these days.

    • @ashoctobergracen
      @ashoctobergracen 2 года назад +1

      Uhhh...I couldn't find the remote!

  • @phillybeccio2782
    @phillybeccio2782 3 года назад +29

    That looks like a Klan meeting

  • @graciec.7268
    @graciec.7268 3 года назад +13

    I want to do this so bad!

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад

      Don’t, it’s a waste of money. Everyone knows basic table manners and this is just extra manners that no one uses.

  • @TruckEnthusiastYT
    @TruckEnthusiastYT 4 года назад +9

    OMG! They get cake?!!! My cotillion only has chick f la, cookies, and lemonade!

  • @melvinleopoo
    @melvinleopoo Год назад +1

    Mighty white

  • @punksnotdead4766
    @punksnotdead4766 3 года назад +3

    So glad I’m Scottish 😂

  • @cooperdavis9663
    @cooperdavis9663 4 года назад +17

    Summer camp for aristocrats

    • @olivialitton4145
      @olivialitton4145 3 года назад +1

      Yeah pretty much

    • @77Avadon77
      @77Avadon77 2 года назад

      @@olivialitton4145 all of these kids are going to be successful. If you could send your kid to go here it would be the best thing for them

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад

      @@77Avadon77 nah, this is just table manners and dancing, and you could do it for free instead of paying a couple thousand :/

    • @77Avadon77
      @77Avadon77 2 года назад

      @@QwentynErasmus okay well teach your child these kinds of manners at home. I don't see anything wrong with that either. But teaching your child some manners and Grace goes a long way

  • @horticasey
    @horticasey 3 года назад +3

    This is great 👌

  • @unity649
    @unity649 7 месяцев назад

    And y’all be lie because this they lie dig deep and research

  • @killertiger5276
    @killertiger5276 Год назад +2

    “ I fell in love after learning the dances” yeah dude that the only way girls will dance with you

  • @WoRm_WoRm222
    @WoRm_WoRm222 11 месяцев назад

    The nearest cotillion is an hour away from me 😅

  • @Fork434
    @Fork434 5 месяцев назад

    I’m not exited that’s all ima say

  • @SmdJohnny
    @SmdJohnny 3 года назад +2

    So, parents are to lazy to teach their kids manners so they send them here got it

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад

      Yeah, it’s just tables manners and how to do stupid dances. Parents can do it for free instead of paying thousands

  • @eightyseveneightyfive6280
    @eightyseveneightyfive6280 3 месяца назад

    😆😆😆😆

  • @alexandriaocasio-smollett5078
    @alexandriaocasio-smollett5078 3 года назад +2

    There is a significant part of the country right now who watched a video like this and have convinced themselves that something like this is actually a bigoted white supremacist convention🤦🏻‍♂️🤣🤣

  • @joshmcgootermier2301
    @joshmcgootermier2301 3 года назад

    This isn’t about the record label!

  • @punksnotdead4766
    @punksnotdead4766 3 года назад +10

    It teaches you how to be a dork 😂

  • @xDPx-zh7vr
    @xDPx-zh7vr 2 года назад

    My mom made me go to this shit when I was in junior high and I hated every minute of it. Awkward teenagers in their changing bodies don't long to be dressed up like clowns and thrown at another equally awkward teen. Plus there was only a handful of kids from my school so you better latch onto whoever you knew moderately as to not get stuck with some rando. Hated every minute, remembered nothing. 🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮

    • @QwentynErasmus
      @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад

      Yeah it’s a waste of money. Everyone knows basic manners and they just teach extra manners that no one uses…

  • @thexneo
    @thexneo 4 года назад +2

    lol jesus christ

  • @QwentynErasmus
    @QwentynErasmus 2 года назад

    Waste of money, just teaches you how to dance and extra random manners that no one uses, like don’t lean your back on a chair and other extra manners 🙄. I understand manners are important but they just add the most random manners that no one uses. And the dancing part is just useless. Just teach your children basic manners instead of paying thousands.