"You can be short, fat, bald and ugly as fuck and still pull all of the women you want it." Let us just take a minute of silence in memory of all men that self-deleted themselves after believing this line only to face reality soon thereafter.
If you have enough money, you can. Robert DeNiro and Al Pacino are super old and not very good looking men, but they both just had babies with much younger women. There is always a workaround.
@@VisiblyPinkUnicorn I mean there are tons of women who will date you just to spend your money. Just because a woman likes you for you doesn't mean the relationship is destined for success.
When women say they want a "nice guy" they mean a HOT guy who also happens to be nice. When they say they want a nerd, they mean a HOT guy with small degree of interest in mainstream nerdy stuff, not a socially awkward quiet ugly weirdo that never goes out of his basement who obsesses over anime, computers and extremely niche stuff you never heard about...
It’s not virtue signaling or ignorance. The reason they gave Austin an 8/10 but said friendzone is because women play a game called “reject him before he rejects me”. Most women know an 8/10 man won’t commit to them or find them attractive, so instead they say they don’t want him. It’s every womans home base to save their feelings. They even do it with other things. For example a childless woman approaching 40 will most likely say she doesn’t want kids not because she actually doesn’t want them but because she knows the likely chances of her having a healthy child at 40 is slim to none, so she instead says she doesn’t want any kids. Female logic 101
I actually agree with the reject them before they reject me thing but at the same time this is a woman being shown photos so she doesn’t have that to worry about. Unless her thinking is “this is going to be shown to an audience on the internet and I don’t want criticism”. But then if this is true wouldn’t it go against wheat’s point about how women think they are higher value and delusional? I know he isn’t arguing all women but if you are arguing that your theory is common enough to be a recurring thing lots of women do then that must mean lots of women are more insecure than people think.
Phone numbers are a joke, you can easily get many if you are persistent. If there is no sexual attraction she won't be texting you back or going on any dates with anytime soon.
@@LeveritableSelectoback in early 00s, it likely meant you were getting a home, landline phone number and her father was gonna answer the phone and fuck with you before putting her on, lol
"Just be yourself" is 100% true. The problem is that girls always think of Ultra Chad Thundercock when giving that advice, the rest of guys are invisible. Of course Ultra Chad just need to be himself, because he already has the approval.
As a guy with a thundercock, im telling you it is way WAY more about attractiveness, height, and confidence. My ex wife slept with tons of guys before we met and her friends would constantly sleep with one extremely attractive guy who had a small D but owned it
That’s actually giving them the benefit of the doubt that women have no other agenda. In reality, women telling men to “just be themselves” would make it easier for them to sort out the men if all men followed that advice.
As you said before, blue pill channels are more viewed and widespread than redpill channel and even less black pills channels , this is one of the main reasons, society needs to be blue pills to be stable.
There are more factors. First of all it is about the logarithms. Second, black pill channels are more honest and therefore are at 'risk' of saying some honest but harsh truth (for example, etnicity). Therefore, those channels with been seen as a 'somoething-ism' channnel.
It has been proven that once you choose a certain path on YT, you will be pulled more and more into that rabbithole, and this is also my experience. The algorithm wants to keep you on the platform, so why would it deny you content that it knows you'll want to engage with?
Women are actually far more into looks than men. Yes men do like beautiful women, but men have a far more diverse and broad spectrum when it comes to what they find attractive in a woman. There are men out there who like tall women, there are men who like short women, there are men who like blondes, and others who like brunettes or red heads. There are men who like Asian women, and men who like black or Latina women. There are men who like thin women, and other men who like curvy women, and yes there are even men who like big huge fatties, which I personally cannot understand. But those men who are into that do exist. Whereas with women, the spectrum is very narrow in terms of what they're attracted to in a man They really usually only find tall, muscular caucasian men attractive. If you don't fit at least one of those boxes, then women will treat you like you don't exist. The beauty standards they set for men are much more harsh than the one's men set for them. There are virtually no women who are into chubby men, or short men, or very thin nerdy men. There's a very narrow spectrum and you basically have to be tall, muscular, and have a good jawline otherwise you're out. The only time they'll look beyond your lack of looks is if you have money. But then they don't actually like you, they just see you as an ATM.
My ex (model tier looks, fr) actually liked chubby men and nerdy. she couldnt care less for average boring (meaning the normie personality) chad. her taste in men was definitely wide.
I was bluepilled up until recently at 22 years old. I wasted my teens/early twenties believing what i was told by all my female friends, tried so hard to 'be myself' and didnt look after myself. The redpill was exactly what I needed. I've put on over 15kg (i was extremely skinny and malnourished) and gym 6 times a week, have significantly increased my clothing style, take good care of my hygeine, am self-educating to potentially start my own business etc. Thank you for spitting straight facts, Wheat! 19 year old me would be so offended by it all, but I wish i heard it sooner.
My mom always told me I would meet someone when I stopped trying. It will just work out. like at a grocery store or something. Maybe that's the way it works out for girls. Not for guys. I'm in my 30s and she keeps telling me the same thing.
@@classical7370 I never take old peoples advice seriously on these things because they grew up in an entirely different era and the game was tutorial mode when they were playing it. I got sick and tired of their bs advice to the point where when a old man regurgitated the same crap I asked him “can I see you use your advice in real life” and he said that he was “too old” and “doesn’t want to play the game anymore” despite being a divorced mid-50’s man
@@pizzaslice3891 If your mom asks "How come you haven't got a girlfriend yet?", you have your chances with women. If she tells you "One day, you'll find a woman and make her happy.", well, I wouldn't bet on your chances.
I've tried to Red Pill some of my friends and coworkers. From my experience, most men won't accept RP, even when you slap them in the face with it. It just destroyed their Disney fairtale fantasy of women. Some guys have even gotten angry with me for spitting out some RP truths. I'm to the point now, I just quit trying. The answers are there for any man who wants to look for them.
nah depends on the culture. Most men I grew up with were redpilled by defaut (like 70%). I'm black and in the communities I grew up in, most men are the "go getter" types and recognize the importance of looks, game, money, etc. No one believed in that whole 'fairytale"bs. We were taught that if you wanted a woman, you had to have something to offer to women.
Don’t bother talking about this with normies and chads. These red and black pill beliefs come with personal experience, something they never had to deal with.
Not true. They care about money and frame and bad assness. They chase a feeling of protection and submissiveness to a dom not a physical attraction like us men do.
It's even simpler than that. In your calculations you forget that telling people harsh truths is emotionally painful not only for the listener but the teller. Women generally tend to avoid discomfort, and constantly tell each other comforting lies.
I find it funny because women do it with all their girlfriends, then when the back is turn they slag each other off. When they find out what each other has said it's like a war has began.
it really creates a cognitive dissonance when a persons long held beliefs are countered by facts and evidence. Their immediate reaction is almost always denial and rejection of those facts. Because no one wants to admit they were wrong, that they were a fool, that they believed nonsense because they were ignorant.
although this is true, its not true in all cases. I have women friends who are practical and listen to what I say about relationship dynamics. If a woman respects you as a man, she'll listen to what you have to say with respect. The problem is with the guys. Women don't respect many guys because of how the guys act.
My friend got black pilled when he got in shape, dressed better and got DMs from girls at his college. Got the receipts to prove it. Literally couldn’t believe it, he was mad that women didn’t want him because of his personality. He tried hitting on them, but he sucks at it because he has no experience being flirty with women. He was always considered a sub 5 for most of his life, but unintentionally looksmaxxed himself.
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 Want the ultimate blackpill? Edward Dutton points out that all wild animals suffer from extraordinarily high mortality rates compared with modern humans. Many, like wolves, even partake in active culling of sick or weak individuals. It turns out that such a high mortality rate serves as a pruning mechanism, trimming away the sick or dead wood from the genome. Dutton hypothesizes that such pruning is a necessary condition of optimal genetic health for the species as a whole, without which mutational load starts to accumulate, leading to ever more suboptimal mutant offspring. It is quite possible that women, like many higher mammalian species, have the correctives of this effect hard wired into their brains. And what is the major cause of the vastly lower mortality that modern humans enjoy? Civilization. Women therefore in the deepest roots of their hindbrain seek to destroy advanced society and regress back to the ancestral environment, in which their offspring would have had the highest chance of optimum genetic health. That may sound crazy. But look at their behaviors, and ask if the glove fits.
It's rough on Chad too. Trust me I have the ideal specimen 6'5"+, 200lbs+ lean, 6-7 face, hung like a pornstar, intelligent and game. He legit goes back into blue pill mode every 2nd girl. Accepting it wasn't his hard work learning game or that he gets away with his rudeness because of his looks just is too much of a weight to carry even for a winner. He can't see the reality that he can't find a keeper because of his financial situation and at the end of the day he's just one of many Chads they've had and if you have one feature that's not ideal you're out. After all it is 6 foot, 6 figures, 6 inches. He's working on it but for himself and in a Jordan Peterson way. Good for him but it's kind of sad to have someone who should be able to see something staring him so clearly in the face and doesn't, especially considering he's red pilled on most other things. In short even winners don't want to see how dirty the game actually is. Men are noble creatures and it's devastating to see the black pill for what it is, no man gets out without feeling very icky and it's a pit of doom that can swallow all you are when you realize it.
Women misusing "dad bod" and social media companies claiming they don't "shadow ban" are the same. The social media companies call it "visibility filtering" and "do not amplify" and they're essentially lying. Women say "dad bod" but really mean "the body of a pro athlete after he's been out of the league for 2 years" which boils down to "he spends 2-3 hours a day in the gym instead of 6."
I have no interest in dating but I find the information from Wheat Waffles content highly useful. Helped develop my understanding of gender dynamics and social relations. Destroying the bluepill narrative is imperative for men to make any kind of self-improvement.
Self-improvement? That's pretty blue or red pill, tbh. It's 90% looks, which means it's 75% luck. If you're short and ugly, there's no improvement you can make.
All of our lives we’ve been told that we are born equal but we’re not. Some win the genetic lottery and have the video game of life on easy mode. And so many people will never accept it because it’s too hard.
Correct. I'm a 6 ft 1 women. I accept that I can't get the same men average height women do. I can't cut off my legs. I get treated differently and that's just the way my life is whether or not I accept.
I have that lottery and lemme tell you how hard it is to explain guys it aint bout money yeah they fixed couple of bih with it but i pulled women in droves to an extent not wanting to see them day and night 24/7 and guys keep saying especially over traditional guys that u can pull the baddest baddie with a new jeans if it worked like that it would have already been done i always had this thought and knowinh it was looks giving me this guys asked me with much more unfortunate gens what i said and an honest answer was very difficult to give to them because u can say yeah u dont meet their looks par you arent on their gene level and if you look good you just get involved parties travel its called the halo effect where people constantly atribute more positive pre asumptions then what is fair coz u look to be eaten up women just wanna attack u i litteral had women say when i came in "oh im gonna fuck him" or" im gonna score him tonight" afterwards.
@MakinItHappen I like the tall guys but they usually don't like tall women over 6 ft. They usually go for shorter women. This is my experience. I don't mind being with someone 5 10 and over.
@MakinItHappen I think I am normal but I am trying to lose 20-30 lbs this year. I've been told by everyone that I'm attractive my entire life. But I want to lose extra body fat and become very fit.
I was reading on Quora the other day, and read a question "what's it like to be ugly"? There were a lot of short answers which evoked a bit of sympathy, and one long answer from a girl who said "like being invisible - I watch my attractive cousins get chatted up, nobody even tries to talk to me". She also said "please don;t give me glib advice about 'just be confident in yourself, I've tried all of this to no avail'" Along came a rush of sympathetic answers - and yes, plenty of the "just do this, just do that" ones, plus many "it's personality that matters, you'll find someone who loves you for what you are". It's like women and blue pilled men just cannot understand that some people really have features that the opposite sex finds attractive. Worse still, they won't admit that this leads them to being "filtered out" before anyone can get to know their warm inner personality. So yes - women and blue pilled men lie, or at least fool themselves with comforting myths. Myself, if ever I see a question like this, I advise the person to do three things 1. Get fit and toned 2. Get your teeth fixed 3. Get a decent hair style 4. See if 1-3 are enough. If they don't work, consider plastic surgery as a last resort AND be absolutely realistic about what you want from it and what can be achieved. If you do the first two, it will extend your life and health hugely (and I know from experience that oral infections can get into the blood and need a heavy course of antibiotics) so I don;t feel guilty at all about this - everyone should strive for fitness and good teeth, for themselves as Point 4 may sound less noble - but it does sometimes happen that there's an fit and shapely person with a facial feature that makes them ugly. Rhinoplasty made a huge difference to a friend of mine - his nose went from "north face of the Eiger" to "smooth and shapely". Did his confidence no end of good. I'd far rather tell people the truth than give them some comforting lie which will sap their will to change things for more years of their precious life.
first guy is delusional if he thinks a short fat guy can get any girl he wants, only if hes successful can he do that and at that point girls aint with you for your personality OR looks.
You are completely correct on women not knowing what they are talking about. "Dad bod" to them means exactly like the pic you showed: A muscular guy on the edge of getting shredded (that pic I would say, that dude looks around 20% bf). That's the MAX bf a guy can be and still be physically attractive to women, BUT he has to be muscular. It's like when they say "I like geeky guys", and what they mean is a dude that looks like Joseph Gordon-Levitt, or Tobey McGuire in their primes ("geeky" C h ia ds)
A dad bod is an overweight, but muscular, guy who also happens to 6'2. If youre tall and strong they'll be OK with a little extra flab. But not if you're under 6'.
It was those virtue signalling women who made me realize how wrong the bluepill is They all want men to be bluepilled till they have to get in a relationship/one night stand with one,then bluepilled men are completely ghosted
To be fair, in her era that WAS the thing- looks not too priority because they had to get a provider. Women now are independent (and somehow brave🤔). Anyway, now they can go for best looks n body cause they pay their own bills. The dynamic has shifted and now only Chads get the women. Simps can get some as long as they kiss ass, but the women are always ready to monkey branch. Not gonna be that guy.
You know the sad part is , even at middle school young women care about looks. You wont get one if you're not popular or cute , I've seen plenty of proof, just from seeing them speak. The world is so unfair for men.
"Just be yourself" is terrible advice in all aspects of life. I guarantee you: If you ever want to achieve any level of success in anything that involves the real world, you WILL have to change who you are and become someone else, at least for a period of time. Sometimes you'll have to change only slightly, sometimes you'll need a complete transformation.
@@ellisthejerk8018 correct! also, more willing & likely to listen to friends and be influenced by family members about following the status quo or bad dating advice(toxic girlfriends etc)
That's a disingenuous statement. Yes, looks matter to everyone but men more or less are extremely compromising when it comes to looks. Which is why sex is easier for wmn than it is men.
@@lorenzoreynolds2512 Yeah, i learnt the hard way over time. Blue Pilled when i was a kid, grew up wondering why girls never liked me, but they often liked my friends. Always thought they had some secret way of talking with girls, or that i had "bad Game" then later on in life i tried all these silly games like not texting girls right away etc etc , thinking that they will somehow help which obviously it didnt. It was then i realised it was all down to my looks. Experience eventually teaches us everything and shows us the hard true facts. the Sad thing is many guys spend years feeling confused, sad and lonely and not understanding why theyre always rejected by women . We really need to move away from this unhealthy blue pill culture that teaches us guys "personality matters more than looks" becasue it actually does more damage than good,!. I wish i was just told the hard true facts when i was younge. At least then i would have put less attantion on women , but rather just focused on other things in life to make me happy career, hobbies etc..
The best dating advice I can give a man is to get fit and healthy and lower your bar in looks. A nice average-looking woman will be a better wife than a pita hot woman. Don't chase women, when you're attractive, they will chase you.
Honestly as shallow as it may sound, DON'T SHARE THE BLACKPILL with blue pilled people. Every time i tried to talk to guys/women about the blackpill and the importance about looks in today's day n age i get almost 100% the same repond: ,,Oh i know a guy...Guys that are unattractive are better with women because they compensate with being funny" etc... And i came to the point where i realized and Wheat said in the video that dating is a competition, and being blackpilled teaches how important looks are and looksmaxxing, therefore the less guys are looksmaxxing, the less competition for us.
@@runningkago4793 bro some guys have pretty almond shape eyes with good thick Long hair genetics so these guys have higher chances of becoming a pretty boy
you cant choose to be a chad.. you just are. unless you get height surgery and steroids + facial surgeries. your going to have a hard time trying to be a chad and it will be obvious to everyone.
Looks is the MOST important thing for a man. And I really mean the most. Women don't compete for reproduction only for social status. But men compete for the chance to reproduce. Always has been like that and it's true across the animal kingdom. If you're a Chad she' wants your genetics, that's what she's attracted to. Everything else like money, status and religion is really an opportunity for ugly men to get a chance to reproduce. But even that's not guaranteed because there's always a risk she might cheat with Chad. So if you're a Chad it's really hard to lose but if you're not it's really hard to win. But we live in a society which tells that women's looks matter but men's don't. It's crazy.
That's why enforced monogamy and slut-shaming was invented. Not that it was perfect, but society had a system to limit Chad's ability to acquire multiple women and also restrict women to only one man.
But when we say "Looks" for is basically an "average" looking girl. And to be honest men have very lax look standards, have you seen the good year blimps that men have impregnated walking around in Wal-Mart?
@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 Yes but there's an entire industry for women to looksmax while men are being bombarded with messages that looks don't matter. So not only women standards for male beauty are very high but also most men don't looksmax. This doesn't make any sense especially in a society in which women get to choose.
@@Didi-yv7df wmn are not looksmaxxing for men though. Men are not telling wmn to go out and put bisquick on their faces. That's other wmn telling you to do that.
I feel so lucky to be fully blackpilled and looksmaxxed at age 21 cause of channels like yours. If only this stuff was more popular a few years ago I could've looked like I do now when I was 16. Brutal
But this guys advice was true. I started showering, spent most of my money on clothes, jewelry, and an expensive vehicle, even lied about having a white collar job. Now I have my pic of the 9’s and 10’s.
Lol. For real? You 'started showering'? What were you doing before? Lol. Dude, jewellry doesn't get you attractive women unless you using it to pay for hookers.
I’ve lost a fair amount of weight and have gotten pretty ripped. I barely talk to girls anymore. The last few dates have been spent me sleeping on the beach then the next date is them making me dinner at their place. Done and done… seriously. Barely a sentence ever even uttered.
You're either the rare Chad or a Normie Beta Provider. If you went to a small or medium size high school, you knew who Chad was. He was that one guy who was basically ever girls 1st choice. But once a woman thinks she has a Chad on lock down, that's when she'll start making demands & expecting Chad to also become a beta provider. So Chad thinks, "why deal with her demands & BS when all these other girls wanna sleep with me." Chad will always get picked over the normies but if Chad turns out to be a total dud who's not very bright she'll eventually leave him & "settle" for a normie.
Just go MGTOW, guys. The game is over, unless you want to keep up with "the burden of performance" forever for something that is hardly worth the squeeze. Just play video games, watch pr0n, and make sure you don't lose your true friends.
I think people who do meet the height requirement, for example guys 6ft and above, they never had to experience this issue. Then you get guys saying man just get over your insecurities and move on etc... There is no getting over anything..lol. Unless your celebrity status and/or have LOTS of money, not just 6 figures, your height will either make or break your life as a man. Id say 80% of guys I see on a daily basis I look "better". Body and face. But my height at 5'7 keeps me from getting the girls I want. Someone in shape and looks in the mirror and sees that they are nice looking will not be attracted to overweight people or someone that doesnt take care of themselves. It's a hard thing to explain but just because someone is short shouldn't rule them out on being with a average to above average woman.
I love your content, my only complaint is that you add redpill (which is just as bad as bluepill but for reasons they tell men to wait till they are in 30's before chasing girls and to be Islami£). If a young Leonardo DiCaprio lookalike was in a bar and a high value man Andrew Tate (pre-prison) were in a bar, my money is on Leonardo DiCaprio lookalike getting all the girls. Not ET lookalike Tate.
@dnegel Height is very important to women, but there is a way out of it of you are small (only one way) and that is to be super good-looking in the face, aka Tom Cruise for example, otherwise yeah you screwed.
This is the worst lie about men peaking at an older age. Chads don't wait untill they are 50 to peak. Both men and women are the most attractive when they are young. Even if we talk about strenght and masculinity a young guy > older guy. The only advantage an old guy can have is more resources but that doesn't make him personally more attractive.
@Didi Yep, I agree, it's a dangerous lie that a lot of men are falling for, that's why I hate the redpill, in a lot of ways it's even worse than the bluepill.
@Andreas Ardent 😂 Game is cope. I knew a guy who was obviously on the spectrum, quite and shy but he was very good looking and he got all the girls. Looks trumps all.
The "just be yourself" advice is confused with "Be the best version of yourself!". It's actually good to follow your personal hobbies, to have a personal style and don't imitate other people for success, as long it matches you and your beliefs. But this has to come also with common sense that your style will not attract everyone and some entourages won't suit you.
Was bluepilled until my early 20's, then I became redpilled up until recently (37 now), when I started researching the blackpill. Now I am in between red and black, leaning more towards the blackpill. And I may have finally found some peace.
Another thing you would always hear is, "all women are different". Usually after I complain about them all being picky, "oh all women are different". Okay thank you, that helps tremendously, adding even more static and fragments into the situation by just saying "all women are random". It's just another way to move the goal post and terminate thought with cliches.
"If you tell a lie big enough and keep repeating it, people will eventually come to believe it." Ain't that the truth. We've observed this far too often in the recent years. Hell, my belief systems have totally changed in multiple areas multiple times due to how easily humans can be influenced. I actively put in effort to think critically nowadays.
Someone bluepilled me unfortunately. When I was 19 I had it on easy mode, all the women fancied me in college and even the older women, but unfortunately I took advice from a religious friend who kept telling me to ignore all there advances (even tho he still tried). Now aged 33 I get nowhere near the same attention and quality as I grew out of pretty boy looks, Don't know what happened? Am I now done/over at age 33?
Let me guess, this jealous loser friend of yours brainwashed you with Islam right?, Yeah, Muslim guys have very bizarre views on women and dating on general, I went to uni with loads and I know, it's no surprise to me that redpill is very popular with the male Islamic world. Avoid and look into blackpill /looksmaxing more.
@@maxpaws3977 it's not over but you have to realize everyone is selfish in this world including religious people. Think of it this way, when we die most people want to get there needs met. So they will make sure their food, relationships, and career need is met. So don't feel guilty for trying to yours met. Also there will be losers in the game of life. This usually are bitter ones in life. Don't be them!!! For you at the age of 30, you need to go out there and practice. Don't let up at all. Also understand your glory days might be over in terms of attracting women without trying. Just take it as life lesson to not listen anyone except yourself. Overall though you will be fine. You are at the prime time where women hound alot of men. Just work on your looks, game, and money.
I'm not even lying, I were legit on the train the other day on my way to uni, then there were these 2 girls who were about a 3 or a 4 at best. They were talking about which guy they would bang on that train. I shit you not, every guy were invisible to them apart from the 6 ft 2 Chad that was just sat down. They were only interested in him whilst every other guy were invisible to them. And I live in UK as well.
Not trying to be rude about what I'm about to say but the British girls on average are uglier than other European countries if so I still don't understand why they have such standards.
dude i was at uni once doing my work and i heard 2 noodle foids talking and one of them was like "i want a 6' guy even though im like 5' teehee!" and the other girl was like "if hes not 6'2 then hes not for you!" and they started giggling like schoolgirls so i went over to the hall to get a quick glance at what they were looking like saying that shit and they were literal 3's, like the super nerdy unattractive asian girls i was like holy fuck man, sad part is they'll probably get their 6'2 chad prince charming as well
I never rly latched on to any of the blue pill ideas, I was red pill for a long while and sort of became black pill through my own experiences and now discovering this channel is just all my own thoughts being given to me complete agreement for almost everything
Its so easy.. lookmaxx yourself, dress, look and smell nice (be a little vain), have a live, build a carreer in something and approach/date women who are on the same level of you and try to get better in conversations with women, dont be a simp and dont treat women as a queen or god but just like another human being. Challenge yourself to be great and dont challenge yourself to be great only for other people.
You touched on it however I want to amplify the massive propaganda through music. That is you give a girl everything she wants, she will appreciate it and love you and be yours.
I believe the reason some guys don’t know how it is for some average or below average guys struggle is because they maybe his above average believe everyone is having the same experience as themselves. Privilege is blinded by those who have it
@@mikeprice8307 saves me time & me-too bs & putting up with their bs & being used & no simping & saves me energy. I only simp for $. Renting is way more cheaper than buying let alone keeping your sanity in the process !
I remember years ago when I discovered that not only my grandmother and mother but also my sister gave me the exact same dating advice; they just used different words. Think being told that you run slower than your opponent versus being told that your opponent runs faster than you. The exact same thing, just slightly different words.
Man, where was this content and RUclips when I came of age in the 80s and 90? It's not fair that this generation of men get all the wisdom I've learned in only 15-Min, that took decades,.
It's a double edged sword since you could pair up with your look match back then and sh1t was to some degree "normal". But, overall I agree. I had this one Chad friend and I'm like "how do you do it?". Lol
@@malcolmapplet4313 Lol. Same here. I don't know how many times I've heard from women the "looks don't matter to us" nonsense, while they exclusively throw themselves, unshamingly, at the tall good looking athletic dudes, and getting hurt multiple times. It was only in my early 30s did I realize I was being lied to, the guys that rejected them aren't evil, and I was for the most part a sucker.
This is probably the only RUclips channel that I consistently watch nearly every content released from start to finish without skipping, fasting forward any part. Keep up the great work. You are doing an excellent job!
I was so UGLY 😢during chemo 😮 radiation ☢️, post checkup .. that year my face skin everywhere changed ! Men were rude to me Everywhere!!! Uber , store employees, checkout , restaurants….. street . 😅😅😅I was never ugly . For d first time I know what’s like to be treated as ugly women . Men do d SAME thing to women but actually way more unfiltered rude ! 😮 I gained my weight back , my face look. 😢normal again . Sort of . Then ppl kept hitting on me now . Most Uber guys r so nice outa sudden ! Elevator ppl r nice . Black pill is human nature !
@@birdtj82 Last Stage (4/4) LymphNode Cancer (T-NHL). It was 20 years ago, I was 17. Same situation like yours: Born to die ... haha I survived without any long term consequences ... beside having double hip replacement when I was 21, due to the high dosage of Cortisone treatment. If you want, write me dm. :)
@@dorn885 whaT dude, thats brutal, so everyone was at their prime, n like u get that at 17? how did u get thru stage 4. OMG….I was throwing my stuff away n selling them for cheap n just tossing stuff. I didnt think i would make it. Its like d messed up stuff.
@@dorn885 i thought Lymph Node cancer is like one of hardest to beat. IT spreads like wild fire. What did u do to beat it? U must be young, they give u MOST agreesive toxic treatment. Thats what they did. They GAVE me d MOST AGREESIVE RADIATION, n MOST Toxic cancer drug. I looked like those POST radiation sick ppl in Japan after Nuclear bomb. Yeah I was UGLY……and sick so i looked like a zombie in horror movie in real life for awhile. I have lost 2 good cancer young friends….its the eradication matters d MOST. So it wont come back. U honestly beat the odds.
well one reason he avoids that topic is because he does not want to be labeled a racists. and also he is in fact red pilled. the race bullet is a black pill category.
@Andreas Ardent Yeah, "just leave your job, friends and family to live in another part of the world" theory. Tell me which country goes crazy for Bangladeshi men.
I'm a sub 5, and Man I really really had enough from all that I want a live without any thinking about women I want to feel nothing about women / in sexuall or emotional way.. How I fix my self, go, ohhh just if there is a way to end all the sexuall and emotional Instincts, I really want to devote my life in something else, in work or in Science or in helping humanity .... Fuck all that
As overweight person i don't care anymore ik im meant to be alone ive made peace with it woman don't matter to me anymore once you accept it the better it is
Men care 80% about looks 20% about personality Women care 50% about looks 50% about personality But LOOKS = PERSONALITY So, Women care 100% about looks
understand that there is a clear difference between what a girl says she wants, and what she actually responds to, i.e, a girl says she wants a nice guy who will treat her nice, but responds to the DMs of the toxic asswhole that treats her like a doormat and only uses her for bedroom fun. what type of guy do you wanna be gents? guy who gets what he wants, or guy who gives everything he has?
Censorship part is factual. Happened to me on Reddit, bunch a girls were rubbed the wrong way by my comment that men and women can’t just be friends. Got called a misogynist, they’re so pathetic. Only validating people like WW points.
Of course what you think women like you for muscles or something which actually been proven by science to make men look more attractive it obvious you have a very nice personality all jokes aside good job hitting the gym and improving yourself love to see it
@@GoatHolyfield Well she better either start paying for my living expenses, or blowing me whenever I demand, cause that's pretty unfair I have to look just as good as her but still pay for her. I need a R.O.I man.
Blue pill is exactly like the Sirens of Odyssey which according to Greek mythology:"Siren is a creature half bird and half woman who lured sailors to destruction by the sweetness of her song." Brittanica et al. Stay away from the sirens.
Women don't know what they want in my experience, or they do and don't want to say it to a guy. Usually, she will tell you things that will get you friendzoned forever. Keep your cool if you get rejected, getting emotional or reacting badly is only going to make you look bad. Being able to control your emotions, shows your mental toughness, and if most guys react badly to her rejecting them, but you act like it was nothing, that will stand out. I feel like being able to control your emotions and handle things logically and rationally is the best for men, especially with women. Sometimes they bust your balls to test you, see how you handle it, if you get bent out of shape, it'll be obvious, but if you bust her balls back, well you get..
This is truth right here; if a man acts irrationally or 'out of hand' with women, they *will* 100% be HOSTILE towards you... It's not even about trying to look cool or be a badass but rather maintaining composure like you said because it makes no sense to get mad over something you didn't have in the first place IMO
I was smart enough never to be blue-pulled kind of a guy but than again I was celibate by choice for most of my life. Women gravitated to me not caring for them and at same time being a nice guy. Being nice guy should be a default but it doesn’t mean you suppose to be a doormat.
The issue in these discussions is there needs to be a consistent criteria of a what an ugly, average, decent, good, or great looking person is. Without that you don’t really go anywhere like the last discussion with PWF. You have to steelman the opponent and figure out why they believe something different than you. The answer in this case save for rare outliers is that the woman isn’t as universally attractive as they’re claiming and or the guy isn’t as bad looking. It only qualifies as an outlier when you’re 2 ranks apart
I really appreciate your honesty and truthfully you're one of my favorite RUclipsrs because you don't sugarcoat shit. It shows me where I need to improve and accept things that can't be changed based on genetics. I feel less frustrated with myself now that I have come to accept myself.
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"You can be short, fat, bald and ugly as fuck and still pull all of the women you want it."
Let us just take a minute of silence in memory of all men that self-deleted themselves after believing this line only to face reality soon thereafter.
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If you have enough money, you can. Robert DeNiro and Al Pacino are super old and not very good looking men, but they both just had babies with much younger women. There is always a workaround.
@@rgn87654 Yeah, if for "having a girlfriend" you mean "hiring a freelance", of course you can.
@@VisiblyPinkUnicorn I mean there are tons of women who will date you just to spend your money. Just because a woman likes you for you doesn't mean the relationship is destined for success.
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When women say they want a "nice guy" they mean a HOT guy who also happens to be nice.
When they say they want a nerd, they mean a HOT guy with small degree of interest in mainstream nerdy stuff, not a socially awkward quiet ugly weirdo that never goes out of his basement who obsesses over anime, computers and extremely niche stuff you never heard about...
@Dimebag Dirty A good looking man.
@dimebagdirty5127 based kekw
Obviously no one wants a basement weirdo
@Dimebag Dirty A chad*
I've spoken with these women. Money, looks and nice in that order is a common trend.
It’s not virtue signaling or ignorance. The reason they gave Austin an 8/10 but said friendzone is because women play a game called “reject him before he rejects me”. Most women know an 8/10 man won’t commit to them or find them attractive, so instead they say they don’t want him. It’s every womans home base to save their feelings. They even do it with other things. For example a childless woman approaching 40 will most likely say she doesn’t want kids not because she actually doesn’t want them but because she knows the likely chances of her having a healthy child at 40 is slim to none, so she instead says she doesn’t want any kids. Female logic 101
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@@coolbasedgigachad6820 Dude this is not Reddit
@@samuelcontador6737 i will make sure that it will be
I actually agree with the reject them before they reject me thing but at the same time this is a woman being shown photos so she doesn’t have that to worry about. Unless her thinking is “this is going to be shown to an audience on the internet and I don’t want criticism”.
But then if this is true wouldn’t it go against wheat’s point about how women think they are higher value and delusional? I know he isn’t arguing all women but if you are arguing that your theory is common enough to be a recurring thing lots of women do then that must mean lots of women are more insecure than people think.
This guy is so bluepilled he’s getting rejected by 3s and still thinks getting a phone number is a success
lol !
Phone numbers are a joke, you can easily get many if you are persistent. If there is no sexual attraction she won't be texting you back or going on any dates with anytime soon.
@@adamg6711 It meant a lot probably 30 years back but yes now that's an utter joke that doesn't mean anything
Phone number = blocked.
@@LeveritableSelectoback in early 00s, it likely meant you were getting a home, landline phone number and her father was gonna answer the phone and fuck with you before putting her on, lol
"Just be yourself" is 100% true. The problem is that girls always think of Ultra Chad Thundercock when giving that advice, the rest of guys are invisible.
Of course Ultra Chad just need to be himself, because he already has the approval.
As a guy with a thundercock, im telling you it is way WAY more about attractiveness, height, and confidence. My ex wife slept with tons of guys before we met and her friends would constantly sleep with one extremely attractive guy who had a small D but owned it
Facts
That’s actually giving them the benefit of the doubt that women have no other agenda. In reality, women telling men to “just be themselves” would make it easier for them to sort out the men if all men followed that advice.
@@basedlifeform5413 that's also a good theory.
@@fred_g7802 w pfp
As you said before, blue pill channels are more viewed and widespread than redpill channel and even less black pills channels , this is one of the main reasons, society needs to be blue pills to be stable.
Man you better tell Hamza to chill out with the wealth/success traps, yet telling guys they ALL can be him...
There are more factors. First of all it is about the logarithms. Second, black pill channels are more honest and therefore are at 'risk' of saying some honest but harsh truth (for example, etnicity). Therefore, those channels with been seen as a 'somoething-ism' channnel.
Actually I think blue pill is the reason society will fall appart.
It has been proven that once you choose a certain path on YT, you will be pulled more and more into that rabbithole, and this is also my experience.
The algorithm wants to keep you on the platform, so why would it deny you content that it knows you'll want to engage with?
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A woman always looks for personality
I am talking about a chads personality, if you are not a chad its over
Right
@@-qwer-8507 the first half of what ?
Got me lol
I don't understand why parents would teach their kids that looks don't matter.
Cause they know their children are ugly and they don’t want to hurt their feelings
Imagine telling a kid: You're ugly, your life is over.
Well, girls are being taught that
Women are actually far more into looks than men. Yes men do like beautiful women, but men have a far more diverse and broad spectrum when it comes to what they find attractive in a woman. There are men out there who like tall women, there are men who like short women, there are men who like blondes, and others who like brunettes or red heads. There are men who like Asian women, and men who like black or Latina women. There are men who like thin women, and other men who like curvy women, and yes there are even men who like big huge fatties, which I personally cannot understand. But those men who are into that do exist. Whereas with women, the spectrum is very narrow in terms of what they're attracted to in a man They really usually only find tall, muscular caucasian men attractive. If you don't fit at least one of those boxes, then women will treat you like you don't exist. The beauty standards they set for men are much more harsh than the one's men set for them. There are virtually no women who are into chubby men, or short men, or very thin nerdy men. There's a very narrow spectrum and you basically have to be tall, muscular, and have a good jawline otherwise you're out. The only time they'll look beyond your lack of looks is if you have money. But then they don't actually like you, they just see you as an ATM.
Yes, men are way more compromising when it comes to looks standards.
My ex (model tier looks, fr) actually liked chubby men and nerdy. she couldnt care less for average boring (meaning the normie personality) chad. her taste in men was definitely wide.
@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 its fun that there are only scientific studies that confrim the other way around.
fucking facts
@@DrSamE how so?
I was bluepilled up until recently at 22 years old. I wasted my teens/early twenties believing what i was told by all my female friends, tried so hard to 'be myself' and didnt look after myself. The redpill was exactly what I needed. I've put on over 15kg (i was extremely skinny and malnourished) and gym 6 times a week, have significantly increased my clothing style, take good care of my hygeine, am self-educating to potentially start my own business etc. Thank you for spitting straight facts, Wheat! 19 year old me would be so offended by it all, but I wish i heard it sooner.
That's blue pill though. Self improvement & self validation.
@Broom Self improvement is blue pill? No. The answer to that is no.
@@jaythenihilist4689 Whatever I'm just a lurker here and that's what I did as a blue piller lol
@@Scrungge
Blue Pill is believing that women will accept you without improving and that they will accept you as you are.
@@TheShowOff2I That feels a bit like a charicature but okay I see it
My mom always told me I would meet someone when I stopped trying. It will just work out. like at a grocery store or something. Maybe that's the way it works out for girls. Not for guys. I'm in my 30s and she keeps telling me the same thing.
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She's coping
never hear advice for women and old people
@@classical7370 I never take old peoples advice seriously on these things because they grew up in an entirely different era and the game was tutorial mode when they were playing it. I got sick and tired of their bs advice to the point where when a old man regurgitated the same crap I asked him “can I see you use your advice in real life” and he said that he was “too old” and “doesn’t want to play the game anymore” despite being a divorced mid-50’s man
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If your mom asks "How come you haven't got a girlfriend yet?", you have your chances with women.
If she tells you "One day, you'll find a woman and make her happy.", well, I wouldn't bet on your chances.
I've tried to Red Pill some of my friends and coworkers. From my experience, most men won't accept RP, even when you slap them in the face with it. It just destroyed their Disney fairtale fantasy of women. Some guys have even gotten angry with me for spitting out some RP truths. I'm to the point now, I just quit trying. The answers are there for any man who wants to look for them.
These pills choose you. You can't force it.
nah depends on the culture. Most men I grew up with were redpilled by defaut (like 70%). I'm black and in the communities I grew up in, most men are the "go getter" types and recognize the importance of looks, game, money, etc. No one believed in that whole 'fairytale"bs. We were taught that if you wanted a woman, you had to have something to offer to women.
It’s just like Zyzz said.
“You don’t find Zyzz, Zyzz finds you”
Don’t bother talking about this with normies and chads. These red and black pill beliefs come with personal experience, something they never had to deal with.
I showed my sisters some black pill videos. They agreed with it. Smart girls that are honest know the thruth but they lie to men by habbit.
I've learned that women care about looks way more than men do however they are not as open and honest about it as us men are.
They think it but don't want to come out and say it.
exatamente meu mano
It's the very last thing they will admit to. They admit to liking tall men and sometimes even bad boys. But pretty boys? "I'm not shallow teehee"
@@Gigaover lol facts
Not true. They care about money and frame and bad assness. They chase a feeling of protection and submissiveness to a dom not a physical attraction like us men do.
It's even simpler than that. In your calculations you forget that telling people harsh truths is emotionally painful not only for the listener but the teller. Women generally tend to avoid discomfort, and constantly tell each other comforting lies.
I find it funny because women do it with all their girlfriends, then when the back is turn they slag each other off.
When they find out what each other has said it's like a war has began.
it really creates a cognitive dissonance when a persons long held beliefs are countered by facts and evidence. Their immediate reaction is almost always denial and rejection of those facts. Because no one wants to admit they were wrong, that they were a fool, that they believed nonsense because they were ignorant.
Men with women behavior is worse than lier women
@@rob-123 i really dont like these type of women, not all actually do this, those are like tier 0 habits with no care for self improvement mentally
although this is true, its not true in all cases. I have women friends who are practical and listen to what I say about relationship dynamics. If a woman respects you as a man, she'll listen to what you have to say with respect. The problem is with the guys. Women don't respect many guys because of how the guys act.
My friend got black pilled when he got in shape, dressed better and got DMs from girls at his college. Got the receipts to prove it. Literally couldn’t believe it, he was mad that women didn’t want him because of his personality. He tried hitting on them, but he sucks at it because he has no experience being flirty with women. He was always considered a sub 5 for most of his life, but unintentionally looksmaxxed himself.
Women being attracted to muscles and good lucks is digestible. Their attraction to bad boys is what throws me off
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 Want the ultimate blackpill? Edward Dutton points out that all wild animals suffer from extraordinarily high mortality rates compared with modern humans. Many, like wolves, even partake in active culling of sick or weak individuals. It turns out that such a high mortality rate serves as a pruning mechanism, trimming away the sick or dead wood from the genome. Dutton hypothesizes that such pruning is a necessary condition of optimal genetic health for the species as a whole, without which mutational load starts to accumulate, leading to ever more suboptimal mutant offspring.
It is quite possible that women, like many higher mammalian species, have the correctives of this effect hard wired into their brains. And what is the major cause of the vastly lower mortality that modern humans enjoy? Civilization. Women therefore in the deepest roots of their hindbrain seek to destroy advanced society and regress back to the ancestral environment, in which their offspring would have had the highest chance of optimum genetic health.
That may sound crazy. But look at their behaviors, and ask if the glove fits.
It's rough on Chad too. Trust me I have the ideal specimen 6'5"+, 200lbs+ lean, 6-7 face, hung like a pornstar, intelligent and game.
He legit goes back into blue pill mode every 2nd girl. Accepting it wasn't his hard work learning game or that he gets away with his rudeness because of his looks just is too much of a weight to carry even for a winner.
He can't see the reality that he can't find a keeper because of his financial situation and at the end of the day he's just one of many Chads they've had and if you have one feature that's not ideal you're out. After all it is 6 foot, 6 figures, 6 inches.
He's working on it but for himself and in a Jordan Peterson way. Good for him but it's kind of sad to have someone who should be able to see something staring him so clearly in the face and doesn't, especially considering he's red pilled on most other things.
In short even winners don't want to see how dirty the game actually is. Men are noble creatures and it's devastating to see the black pill for what it is, no man gets out without feeling very icky and it's a pit of doom that can swallow all you are when you realize it.
Women misusing "dad bod" and social media companies claiming they don't "shadow ban" are the same. The social media companies call it "visibility filtering" and "do not amplify" and they're essentially lying. Women say "dad bod" but really mean "the body of a pro athlete after he's been out of the league for 2 years" which boils down to "he spends 2-3 hours a day in the gym instead of 6."
Those are perfect examples.
Well said
I have no interest in dating but I find the information from Wheat Waffles content highly useful. Helped develop my understanding of gender dynamics and social relations. Destroying the bluepill narrative is imperative for men to make any kind of self-improvement.
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No interest in dating 😭😭😭😭 incels like u make red and black pill look bad
Self-improvement? That's pretty blue or red pill, tbh. It's 90% looks, which means it's 75% luck. If you're short and ugly, there's no improvement you can make.
@@sphincterlicker69 It's all about looks.
@@someonesomeone25 Self improvement can go beyond dating market but I understand your point.
"you are cute, im pretty sure there is a girl that into you" my fave cath phrase 😂
All of our lives we’ve been told that we are born equal but we’re not.
Some win the genetic lottery and have the video game of life on easy mode.
And so many people will never accept it because it’s too hard.
Correct. I'm a 6 ft 1 women. I accept that I can't get the same men average height women do. I can't cut off my legs. I get treated differently and that's just the way my life is whether or not I accept.
I have that lottery and lemme tell you how hard it is to explain guys it aint bout money yeah they fixed couple of bih with it but i pulled women in droves to an extent not wanting to see them day and night 24/7 and guys keep saying especially over traditional guys that u can pull the baddest baddie with a new jeans if it worked like that it would have already been done i always had this thought and knowinh it was looks giving me this guys asked me with much more unfortunate gens what i said and an honest answer was very difficult to give to them because u can say yeah u dont meet their looks par you arent on their gene level and if you look good you just get involved parties travel its called the halo effect where people constantly atribute more positive pre asumptions then what is fair coz u look to be eaten up women just wanna attack u i litteral had women say when i came in "oh im gonna fuck him" or" im gonna score him tonight" afterwards.
@MakinItHappen I like the tall guys but they usually don't like tall women over 6 ft. They usually go for shorter women. This is my experience. I don't mind being with someone 5 10 and over.
@MakinItHappen I think I am normal but I am trying to lose 20-30 lbs this year. I've been told by everyone that I'm attractive my entire life. But I want to lose extra body fat and become very fit.
@@MakinItHappenn facially I've been told an 8 or so. I'm not saying this to boost myself up. It's what I've been told.
I was reading on Quora the other day, and read a question "what's it like to be ugly"?
There were a lot of short answers which evoked a bit of sympathy, and one long answer from a girl who said "like being invisible - I watch my attractive cousins get chatted up, nobody even tries to talk to me". She also said "please don;t give me glib advice about 'just be confident in yourself, I've tried all of this to no avail'"
Along came a rush of sympathetic answers - and yes, plenty of the "just do this, just do that" ones, plus many "it's personality that matters, you'll find someone who loves you for what you are".
It's like women and blue pilled men just cannot understand that some people really have features that the opposite sex finds attractive. Worse still, they won't admit that this leads them to being "filtered out" before anyone can get to know their warm inner personality.
So yes - women and blue pilled men lie, or at least fool themselves with comforting myths.
Myself, if ever I see a question like this, I advise the person to do three things
1. Get fit and toned
2. Get your teeth fixed
3. Get a decent hair style
4. See if 1-3 are enough. If they don't work, consider plastic surgery as a last resort AND be absolutely realistic about what you want from it and what can be achieved.
If you do the first two, it will extend your life and health hugely (and I know from experience that oral infections can get into the blood and need a heavy course of antibiotics) so I don;t feel guilty at all about this - everyone should strive for fitness and good teeth, for themselves as
Point 4 may sound less noble - but it does sometimes happen that there's an fit and shapely person with a facial feature that makes them ugly. Rhinoplasty made a huge difference to a friend of mine - his nose went from "north face of the Eiger" to "smooth and shapely". Did his confidence no end of good.
I'd far rather tell people the truth than give them some comforting lie which will sap their will to change things for more years of their precious life.
are you swiss?😂
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Looks are important
But so is personality
Both play an important role
@@dude9318talking to you is like talking to a deaf person dude. Personality only matters when you’re handsome.
first guy is delusional if he thinks a short fat guy can get any girl he wants, only if hes successful can he do that and at that point girls aint with you for your personality OR looks.
So lost and disillusioned
@@TwistedLullabies true, the poor guy has no idea what he’s in for
You are completely correct on women not knowing what they are talking about. "Dad bod" to them means exactly like the pic you showed: A muscular guy on the edge of getting shredded (that pic I would say, that dude looks around 20% bf). That's the MAX bf a guy can be and still be physically attractive to women, BUT he has to be muscular. It's like when they say "I like geeky guys", and what they mean is a dude that looks like Joseph Gordon-Levitt, or Tobey McGuire in their primes ("geeky" C h ia ds)
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tobey maguire was not a chad 😭
A dad bod is an overweight, but muscular, guy who also happens to 6'2. If youre tall and strong they'll be OK with a little extra flab. But not if you're under 6'.
women bash dad bod's and in the same breath admonish you for NOT drooling over Lizzo.
@@josealexi5141 aint NOBODY drooling over lizzo
Over for bluepillcel
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Never was under!
Not for Bluepilled Chads
Shadow ban is real. When you search the person, it won't show up, but if you follow him already, you can still see their posts.
You’ll be the top g drinking sparkling water
@@ShitBagSPC tate fanboy
@@kyblit
*Human trafficking supporter
“Chasing success gets you more women than chasing women.”
-Stirling Cooper💯
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False, you can be rich and lonely still jiji
@@nausiac exactly
@@nausiac yeah then do something about it rather than moaning to yourself why are you still lonely lol
The sex that cares the most about their looks doesn't care what you look like! HAAHAHAHA
It was those virtue signalling women who made me realize how wrong the bluepill is
They all want men to be bluepilled till they have to get in a relationship/one night stand with one,then bluepilled men are completely ghosted
This guy is a nut . Your channel is great and to the point .
He’s a nut?
1st guy will definitely take your "nut"
He is right. Women want safety and afraid of angry men. They sh** test men to see if they are triggered on a masculinity test to see if he is worthy
My mother would tell me women only wanted a nice friendly guy to chat to. Took me into my twenties to shake that bull off. Thanks for f all mother.
Lol I'm a girl but I can't believe it took you so long to realize 😂 sorry it's kinda funny
To be fair, in her era that WAS the thing- looks not too priority because they had to get a provider. Women now are independent (and somehow brave🤔). Anyway, now they can go for best looks n body cause they pay their own bills. The dynamic has shifted and now only Chads get the women. Simps can get some as long as they kiss ass, but the women are always ready to monkey branch. Not gonna be that guy.
@@hanalala3164how many tall hot white guys have you slept with in the past 6 months?
Women hate nice guys but they sure do love Raising them
Never ask a fish how to catch a fish
You know the sad part is , even at middle school young women care about looks. You wont get one if you're not popular or cute , I've seen plenty of proof, just from seeing them speak. The world is so unfair for men.
"Just be yourself" is terrible advice in all aspects of life. I guarantee you: If you ever want to achieve any level of success in anything that involves the real world, you WILL have to change who you are and become someone else, at least for a period of time. Sometimes you'll have to change only slightly, sometimes you'll need a complete transformation.
Just be yourself is the best advice if you want to live normally, the only thing that matters is looks, no one cares about your personality redpiller
LOOKS MATTER TO EVERYBODY !!!!!!!
Looks matter more to women than men, change my mind.
@@ellisthejerk8018 correct! also, more willing & likely to listen to friends and be influenced by family members about following the status quo or bad dating advice(toxic girlfriends etc)
That's a disingenuous statement. Yes, looks matter to everyone but men more or less are extremely compromising when it comes to looks. Which is why sex is easier for wmn than it is men.
Yes, but 99,9% of women lie about it
To fool us to think they are better and smarter and so on... Hypocrisy.
Nice try foid, trying to make us men look as shallow as YOU!
The more you text a girl the more she loose attraction from you
correct thats why this chick i haven't texted in 3yrs must be completely in love with me. i can feel it...
If you are a Chad, you can do whatever the fuck you want.
All of this texting bullshit is irrelevant cope.
it dosent matter if you text or not . if you're not attarctive, she wont care either way
@@AmbientWanderer facts
@@lorenzoreynolds2512 Yeah, i learnt the hard way over time. Blue Pilled when i was a kid, grew up wondering why girls never liked me, but they often liked my friends. Always thought they had some secret way of talking with girls, or that i had "bad Game" then later on in life i tried all these silly games like not texting girls right away etc etc , thinking that they will somehow help which obviously it didnt. It was then i realised it was all down to my looks. Experience eventually teaches us everything and shows us the hard true facts. the Sad thing is many guys spend years feeling confused, sad and lonely and not understanding why theyre always rejected by women . We really need to move away from this unhealthy blue pill culture that teaches us guys "personality matters more than looks" becasue it actually does more damage than good,!. I wish i was just told the hard true facts when i was younge. At least then i would have put less attantion on women , but rather just focused on other things in life to make me happy career, hobbies etc..
The best dating advice I can give a man is to get fit and healthy and lower your bar in looks. A nice average-looking woman will be a better wife than a pita hot woman. Don't chase women, when you're attractive, they will chase you.
keyword: when you are attractive.
Let’s face it, everyone wants a hot partner
@Asana I actually don't, an arranged marriage to a landwhale is looking like the best bet atm.
@@TwistedLullabies Not true. Everyone wants to have sex with hot people, but to have them as a life partner? No thanks!
@@rogersevers123 Landwhale probably not a good long-term bet, TBH.
Honestly as shallow as it may sound, DON'T SHARE THE BLACKPILL with blue pilled people. Every time i tried to talk to guys/women about the blackpill and the importance about looks in today's day n age i get almost 100% the same repond: ,,Oh i know a guy...Guys that are unattractive are better with women because they compensate with being funny" etc... And i came to the point where i realized and Wheat said in the video that dating is a competition, and being blackpilled teaches how important looks are and looksmaxxing, therefore the less guys are looksmaxxing, the less competition for us.
most people don't want to deal with it anyway
Bro your content is very logical and harsh but 99% true
Do make a video on how can someone choose a preety boy route or a Chad route
2 minutes into the video you haven't watched it yet and you know the content already?
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You cannot choose to be Chad or a prettyboy. Either you have the genetics or don’t.
@@runningkago4793 bro some guys have pretty almond shape eyes with good thick Long hair genetics so these guys have higher chances of becoming a pretty boy
you cant choose to be a chad.. you just are.
unless you get height surgery and steroids + facial surgeries. your going to have a hard time trying to be a chad and it will be obvious to everyone.
Looks is the MOST important thing for a man. And I really mean the most.
Women don't compete for reproduction only for social status. But men compete for the chance to reproduce. Always has been like that and it's true across the animal kingdom.
If you're a Chad she' wants your genetics, that's what she's attracted to.
Everything else like money, status and religion is really an opportunity for ugly men to get a chance to reproduce. But even that's not guaranteed because there's always a risk she might cheat with Chad.
So if you're a Chad it's really hard to lose but if you're not it's really hard to win.
But we live in a society which tells that women's looks matter but men's don't. It's crazy.
That's why enforced monogamy and slut-shaming was invented. Not that it was perfect, but society had a system to limit Chad's ability to acquire multiple women and also restrict women to only one man.
But when we say "Looks" for is basically an "average" looking girl. And to be honest men have very lax look standards, have you seen the good year blimps that men have impregnated walking around in Wal-Mart?
@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 Yes but there's an entire industry for women to looksmax while men are being bombarded with messages that looks don't matter. So not only women standards for male beauty are very high but also most men don't looksmax. This doesn't make any sense especially in a society in which women get to choose.
Indeed. But sexbots will remove the issue.
@@Didi-yv7df wmn are not looksmaxxing for men though. Men are not telling wmn to go out and put bisquick on their faces. That's other wmn telling you to do that.
I feel so lucky to be fully blackpilled and looksmaxxed at age 21 cause of channels like yours. If only this stuff was more popular a few years ago I could've looked like I do now when I was 16. Brutal
you're still very young, 16 is still a child
Why what change did you make?
But this guys advice was true.
I started showering, spent most of my money on clothes, jewelry, and an expensive vehicle, even lied about having a white collar job.
Now I have my pic of the 9’s and 10’s.
Lol. For real? You 'started showering'? What were you doing before? Lol. Dude, jewellry doesn't get you attractive women unless you using it to pay for hookers.
I'm happy for you bro
Yea that’s called BETA BUXXING my dude
Started showering??!?!?....ayoooo?🤔
Good luck simpin' and entertaining those crazy 304s. Again, good luck.
I’ve lost a fair amount of weight and have gotten pretty ripped.
I barely talk to girls anymore.
The last few dates have been spent me sleeping on the beach then the next date is them making me dinner at their place.
Done and done… seriously. Barely a sentence ever even uttered.
mr silent.
They make you dinner holy shit
Chadddd
"Making me dinner" slow down there chad save some women for the rest of us 😂
I cant even listen bluepill it make me sick in my stomach.
For real
You're either the rare Chad or a Normie Beta Provider. If you went to a small or medium size high school, you knew who Chad was. He was that one guy who was basically ever girls 1st choice. But once a woman thinks she has a Chad on lock down, that's when she'll start making demands & expecting Chad to also become a beta provider. So Chad thinks, "why deal with her demands & BS when all these other girls wanna sleep with me."
Chad will always get picked over the normies but if Chad turns out to be a total dud who's not very bright she'll eventually leave him & "settle" for a normie.
Just go MGTOW, guys.
The game is over, unless you want to keep up with "the burden of performance" forever for something that is hardly worth the squeeze. Just play video games, watch pr0n, and make sure you don't lose your true friends.
You have to meet her height requirement before anything. Before money, status...anything. Height is the number one thing.
6'5 inkwell here - it's not quite that simple.
Face > Neurotypicality > Race > Height ❓
@@nobbynobbynoob Height above race
@@spidermanlift4527 I'm not saying you're wrong, but my goodness if that's true then my face is definitely PSL3 or I'm fully-on autistic, LOL...
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I think people who do meet the height requirement, for example guys 6ft and above, they never had to experience this issue. Then you get guys saying man just get over your insecurities and move on etc... There is no getting over anything..lol. Unless your celebrity status and/or have LOTS of money, not just 6 figures, your height will either make or break your life as a man. Id say 80% of guys I see on a daily basis I look "better". Body and face. But my height at 5'7 keeps me from getting the girls I want. Someone in shape and looks in the mirror and sees that they are nice looking will not be attracted to overweight people or someone that doesnt take care of themselves. It's a hard thing to explain but just because someone is short shouldn't rule them out on being with a average to above average woman.
I love your content, my only complaint is that you add redpill (which is just as bad as bluepill but for reasons they tell men to wait till they are in 30's before chasing girls and to be Islami£). If a young Leonardo DiCaprio lookalike was in a bar and a high value man Andrew Tate (pre-prison) were in a bar, my money is on Leonardo DiCaprio lookalike getting all the girls. Not ET lookalike Tate.
depends how tall the Leonardo look alike is.
if short then no.
@dnegel
Height is very important to women, but there is a way out of it of you are small (only one way) and that is to be super good-looking in the face, aka Tom Cruise for example, otherwise yeah you screwed.
This is the worst lie about men peaking at an older age. Chads don't wait untill they are 50 to peak. Both men and women are the most attractive when they are young. Even if we talk about strenght and masculinity a young guy > older guy. The only advantage an old guy can have is more resources but that doesn't make him personally more attractive.
@Didi Yep, I agree, it's a dangerous lie that a lot of men are falling for, that's why I hate the redpill, in a lot of ways it's even worse than the bluepill.
@Andreas Ardent
😂 Game is cope. I knew a guy who was obviously on the spectrum, quite and shy but he was very good looking and he got all the girls. Looks trumps all.
Another beauty of a breakdown. MI6 needs to hire WW to do analytics.
The "just be yourself" advice is confused with "Be the best version of yourself!". It's actually good to follow your personal hobbies, to have a personal style and don't imitate other people for success, as long it matches you and your beliefs. But this has to come also with common sense that your style will not attract everyone and some entourages won't suit you.
If looks didn't matter i wouldn't be trying so hard to get a nose job
Same bro puberty ruined my teenhood
The first lie was santa.. then it was god.. then the final one was love. Now welcome to reality and begin to live.
Was bluepilled until my early 20's, then I became redpilled up until recently (37 now), when I started researching the blackpill. Now I am in between red and black, leaning more towards the blackpill.
And I may have finally found some peace.
Another thing you would always hear is, "all women are different". Usually after I complain about them all being picky, "oh all women are different". Okay thank you, that helps tremendously, adding even more static and fragments into the situation by just saying "all women are random". It's just another way to move the goal post and terminate thought with cliches.
"If you tell a lie big enough and keep repeating it, people will eventually come to believe it." Ain't that the truth. We've observed this far too often in the recent years. Hell, my belief systems have totally changed in multiple areas multiple times due to how easily humans can be influenced. I actively put in effort to think critically nowadays.
Women willing to share a man, especially if he's misogynistic, says a lot about their mentality too.
Someone bluepilled me unfortunately. When I was 19 I had it on easy mode, all the women fancied me in college and even the older women, but unfortunately I took advice from a religious friend who kept telling me to ignore all there advances (even tho he still tried). Now aged 33 I get nowhere near the same attention and quality as I grew out of pretty boy looks, Don't know what happened? Am I now done/over at age 33?
I reckon I've seen this comment before on WW's videos. Is this a copy-paste?
if your white go to asia or latin country you will have no shortage of women hitting on you. if your anything else.. well good luck.
@@RandomGuyyy No. It's rephrased, I asked a different angle/response last time.
Let me guess, this jealous loser friend of yours brainwashed you with Islam right?, Yeah, Muslim guys have very bizarre views on women and dating on general, I went to uni with loads and I know, it's no surprise to me that redpill is very popular with the male Islamic world. Avoid and look into blackpill /looksmaxing more.
@@maxpaws3977 it's not over but you have to realize everyone is selfish in this world including religious people. Think of it this way, when we die most people want to get there needs met. So they will make sure their food, relationships, and career need is met. So don't feel guilty for trying to yours met. Also there will be losers in the game of life. This usually are bitter ones in life. Don't be them!!!
For you at the age of 30, you need to go out there and practice. Don't let up at all. Also understand your glory days might be over in terms of attracting women without trying. Just take it as life lesson to not listen anyone except yourself.
Overall though you will be fine. You are at the prime time where women hound alot of men. Just work on your looks, game, and money.
I’m a woman. Looks matter first and foremost. You’re all deluded if you thinks a man’s looks matter last 🤡
Thank you for being honest
The blue pill list cracked me up .
Ohh there's someone for everyone!! I promise... TEE HEE!!..
I'm not even lying, I were legit on the train the other day on my way to uni, then there were these 2 girls who were about a 3 or a 4 at best. They were talking about which guy they would bang on that train. I shit you not, every guy were invisible to them apart from the 6 ft 2 Chad that was just sat down. They were only interested in him whilst every other guy were invisible to them. And I live in UK as well.
Not trying to be rude about what I'm about to say but the British girls on average are uglier than other European countries if so I still don't understand why they have such standards.
dude i was at uni once doing my work and i heard 2 noodle foids talking and one of them was like "i want a 6' guy even though im like 5' teehee!" and the other girl was like "if hes not 6'2 then hes not for you!" and they started giggling like schoolgirls so i went over to the hall to get a quick glance at what they were looking like saying that shit and they were literal 3's, like the super nerdy unattractive asian girls i was like holy fuck man, sad part is they'll probably get their 6'2 chad prince charming as well
@@pingeee they will get chadded, then ghosted.
I never rly latched on to any of the blue pill ideas, I was red pill for a long while and sort of became black pill through my own experiences and now discovering this channel is just all my own thoughts being given to me
complete agreement for almost everything
Hes literally the "just take a shower bro" guy
“Only personality matters” is what my siblings have told me is a lie it’s not even about redpill anymore they are clearly lying
Its so easy.. lookmaxx yourself, dress, look and smell nice (be a little vain), have a live, build a carreer in something and approach/date women who are on the same level of you and try to get better in conversations with women, dont be a simp and dont treat women as a queen or god but just like another human being. Challenge yourself to be great and dont challenge yourself to be great only for other people.
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100% true
or be a woman, dont get to fat and have a buffet of options without trying.
none of that will work for guys who are 5'0ft.
except being rich.
It's even easier than that. Just be good looking. Easy.
You touched on it however I want to amplify the massive propaganda through music. That is you give a girl everything she wants, she will appreciate it and love you and be yours.
I believe the reason some guys don’t know how it is for some average or below average guys struggle is because they maybe his above average believe everyone is having the same experience as themselves.
Privilege is blinded by those who have it
The problem is the below average and average women still dates up regardless. Not really fair if you ask me.
Haven't you seen women simping over a fuckinn murderer just because he looks handsome... 😔😂
I gladly and proudly pay to play.
🙋♂️ too!
@@mikeprice8307 saves me time & me-too bs & putting up with their bs & being used & no simping & saves me energy. I only simp for $. Renting is way more cheaper than buying let alone keeping your sanity in the process !
@@matchhunter7012 if it floats, flies or f#(ks, rent it! 😀
Based
Just out of curiosity how much do you pay
Talking to blue men is like talking to a brick wall.
Wheat Waffles you are wise beyond your years. Keep it up brother. You are helping guys more than you know.
Copium is one hellova drug.
There is nothing better than to be a blue-pilled chad, you treat your gf nice like a Supreme Gentleman did, and she still adores you.
Only problem is they give terrible advice. "Just be yourself, bro"
@@MakinItHappenn I don give a fck who I am, it is easy for me to get laid where I live - Ukraine. 6`2, jacked, dress and smell nice, np.
Until she cheats on you with the "bad boy"
@@Barni2212 : B-B-B-B-BINGO!!!!!!
Only for a while.....
''not just this 9/10 woman'' bro this is a straight up 10/10
more like an 8/10
desperate incel
@@mega1chiken6dancr9 my apologies, roblox chad
That's a 6/10 and being generous.
You crearly have no clue on how rating works.
@@arturoroldan4839 2.5/10 comment
"Just be yourself" Looooooolllll
Hey Wheat Waffles can you make a video that examines Female Movies like 50 Shades of Grey, The Notebook, Titanic, etcetera.
I remember years ago when I discovered that not only my grandmother and mother but also my sister gave me the exact same dating advice; they just used different words. Think being told that you run slower than your opponent versus being told that your opponent runs faster than you. The exact same thing, just slightly different words.
Man, where was this content and RUclips when I came of age in the 80s and 90? It's not fair that this generation of men get all the wisdom I've learned in only 15-Min, that took decades,.
It's a double edged sword since you could pair up with your look match back then and sh1t was to some degree "normal". But, overall I agree. I had this one Chad friend and I'm like "how do you do it?". Lol
@@malcolmapplet4313 Lol. Same here. I don't know how many times I've heard from women the "looks don't matter to us" nonsense, while they exclusively throw themselves, unshamingly, at the tall good looking athletic dudes, and getting hurt multiple times. It was only in my early 30s did I realize I was being lied to, the guys that rejected them aren't evil, and I was for the most part a sucker.
You would never ask a fish how to catch a fish.
This is probably the only RUclips channel that I consistently watch nearly every content released from start to finish without skipping, fasting forward any part. Keep up the great work. You are doing an excellent job!
This isn't gnorant at all, this is absolute truth, and only salty dudes are the ones who don't realize this
Based as usual wheat
The delusion this person has is off the charts.
I only started attracting women after i lost weight, built muscles and grew a beard... Also, i guess being 6,2ft tall and light skinned helped a lot.
You sound like quite the chad my dear boy good shit
I was so UGLY 😢during chemo 😮 radiation ☢️, post checkup .. that year my face skin everywhere changed ! Men were rude to me Everywhere!!! Uber , store employees, checkout , restaurants….. street . 😅😅😅I was never ugly . For d first time I know what’s like to be treated as ugly women . Men do d SAME thing to women but actually way more unfiltered rude ! 😮
I gained my weight back , my face look. 😢normal again . Sort of . Then ppl kept hitting on me now . Most Uber guys r so nice outa sudden ! Elevator ppl r nice .
Black pill is human nature !
What kind of cancer? I had too.
@@dorn885 throat . It was stage 4 so I was like prep to die . 5 yrs ago today I’d be in mids treatment .
I hope u r okay ? What type is yrs ?
@@birdtj82 Last Stage (4/4) LymphNode Cancer (T-NHL). It was 20 years ago, I was 17. Same situation like yours: Born to die ... haha
I survived without any long term consequences ... beside having double hip replacement when I was 21, due to the high dosage of Cortisone treatment.
If you want, write me dm. :)
@@dorn885 whaT dude, thats brutal, so everyone was at their prime, n like u get that at 17? how did u get thru stage 4. OMG….I was throwing my stuff away n selling them for cheap n just tossing stuff. I didnt think i would make it. Its like d messed up stuff.
@@dorn885 i thought Lymph Node cancer is like one of hardest to beat. IT spreads like wild fire. What did u do to beat it? U must be young, they give u MOST agreesive toxic treatment. Thats what they did. They GAVE me d MOST AGREESIVE RADIATION, n MOST Toxic cancer drug. I looked like those POST radiation sick ppl in Japan after Nuclear bomb. Yeah I was UGLY……and sick so i looked like a zombie in horror movie in real life for awhile. I have lost 2 good cancer young friends….its the eradication matters d MOST. So it wont come back. U honestly beat the odds.
Amazing how WW still evades the race pill: Just accept your race matters
well one reason he avoids that topic is because he does not want to be labeled a racists. and also he is in fact red pilled.
the race bullet is a black pill category.
@Andreas Ardent Yeah, "just leave your job, friends and family to live in another part of the world" theory. Tell me which country goes crazy for Bangladeshi men.
@Andreas Ardent You on the biggest black pill channel talking about game. Next you gonna go to a church and talk about islam.
@Andreas Ardent Where did you get that those countries like Bangladesh men any better than their own?
It does but how you look is still more important. There’s too many white incels
They 100% remove comments that use "illegal" keyword, regardless of the context.
I'm a sub 5, and Man I really really had enough from all that
I want a live without any thinking about women
I want to feel nothing about women / in sexuall or emotional way..
How I fix my self, go, ohhh just if there is a way to end all the sexuall and emotional Instincts, I really want to devote my life in something else, in work or in Science or in helping humanity .... Fuck all that
I want to see a woman comment here and admit to tell the truth
Good luck with that 😂😂😂
@@danielslota85 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Anonymous-zn3se check woman forums about attractivenes of their guys, they tell each other the truth
As overweight person i don't care anymore ik im meant to be alone ive made peace with it woman don't matter to me anymore once you accept it the better it is
redpill is just as big of a cope as bluepill
Men care 80% about looks 20% about personality
Women care 50% about looks 50% about personality
But LOOKS = PERSONALITY
So, Women care 100% about looks
i cringed so hard at the first video especially when he said u can be bald, ugly and still pull women, so embarassing and cringe
understand that there is a clear difference between what a girl says she wants, and what she actually responds to, i.e, a girl says she wants a nice guy who will treat her nice, but responds to the DMs of the toxic asswhole that treats her like a doormat and only uses her for bedroom fun. what type of guy do you wanna be gents? guy who gets what he wants, or guy who gives everything he has?
Censorship part is factual. Happened to me on Reddit, bunch a girls were rubbed the wrong way by my comment that men and women can’t just be friends. Got called a misogynist, they’re so pathetic. Only validating people like WW points.
Me: Gets treated poorly by women, later starts lifting a barbell for 3 months and all of a sudden now girls like me.
Yes looks totally don't matter.
Of course what you think women like you for muscles or something which actually been proven by science to make men look more attractive it obvious you have a very nice personality all jokes aside good job hitting the gym and improving yourself love to see it
@@GoatHolyfield Well she better either start paying for my living expenses, or blowing me whenever I demand, cause that's pretty unfair I have to look just as good as her but still pay for her.
I need a R.O.I man.
Blue pill is exactly like the Sirens of Odyssey which according to Greek mythology:"Siren is a creature half bird and half woman who lured sailors to destruction by the sweetness of her song." Brittanica et al.
Stay away from the sirens.
Women don't know what they want in my experience, or they do and don't want to say it to a guy. Usually, she will tell you things that will get you friendzoned forever. Keep your cool if you get rejected, getting emotional or reacting badly is only going to make you look bad. Being able to control your emotions, shows your mental toughness, and if most guys react badly to her rejecting them, but you act like it was nothing, that will stand out. I feel like being able to control your emotions and handle things logically and rationally is the best for men, especially with women. Sometimes they bust your balls to test you, see how you handle it, if you get bent out of shape, it'll be obvious, but if you bust her balls back, well you get..
This is truth right here; if a man acts irrationally or 'out of hand' with women, they *will* 100% be HOSTILE towards you... It's not even about trying to look cool or be a badass but rather maintaining composure like you said because it makes no sense to get mad over something you didn't have in the first place IMO
I was smart enough never to be blue-pulled kind of a guy but than again I was celibate by choice for most of my life. Women gravitated to me not caring for them and at same time being a nice guy. Being nice guy should be a default but it doesn’t mean you suppose to be a doormat.
The issue in these discussions is there needs to be a consistent criteria of a what an ugly, average, decent, good, or great looking person is. Without that you don’t really go anywhere like the last discussion with PWF. You have to steelman the opponent and figure out why they believe something different than you. The answer in this case save for rare outliers is that the woman isn’t as universally attractive as they’re claiming and or the guy isn’t as bad looking. It only qualifies as an outlier when you’re 2 ranks apart
The guy is delusional, maximum blue pill .
I really appreciate your honesty and truthfully you're one of my favorite RUclipsrs because you don't sugarcoat shit. It shows me where I need to improve and accept things that can't be changed based on genetics. I feel less frustrated with myself now that I have come to accept myself.