Principles (NOT A BLUEPRINT) for Building Your Dream Marriage // The Story of Marriage //
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- Опубликовано: 9 окт 2022
- So many go into marriage with unrealistic expectations, and then come face to face with reality: Marriage is hard. You are merging two worlds, two histories, two families, into a shared destiny. That's no small task! Is it still possible to build a dream marriage in 2022? YES. But how do you build a marriage that not only survives, but thrives? How do you go from "I can't stand you!" to "I can't stand to be without you!"? It's possible. We firmly believe that a dream marriage is something you build, not something you find. In this video, we share the building blocks (not a blueprint) of a successful, fulfilling, passionate marriage. This is part 1/2, so stay tuned next week for more-and make sure to subscribe and turn on notifications so you don't miss it!
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I am so passionate about marriages and I believe that one day I'll be in John and Lisa's shoes leading marriages to Christ just as they did . Thank you Lord .
Amen! I have that same desire and prayer as well. I'm patient bx the world today has so many negative messages of acceptance. HE lives within me . 🙏💗🙏
#Gr8rIsHeInMe
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I believe we need to be very careful with finding our identity in enneagram personalities. I know it’s helpful to some degree but I find too many people make excuses because of their number. We conform to Christ, no our personality profile. ❤
Should use them at all. Demonic
I don't believe in them, I don't see anywhere in the bible that would justify using them. I almost stopped listening when I heard them talk about it but I do believe everyone has their own road and I am not the judge. Jesus is much kinder than me 🙏 ❤️ I take what works and leave what doesn't resignate with my spirit
I really appreciate your Vulnerability John and Lisa and I thank you guys so much for yielding yourselves to Jesus, I felt so moved by how much you both were willing to obey Jesus and surrender your marriage to him. Thank you for this great example that has impacted so many lives and through this many marriages will be saved . I appreciate you both so much, God bless you
Wow!!! This is where I'm at right now😢😅. Look at John laugh. Thaank you for being so down to Earth about your experiences Lisa and God bless you both in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🏾😂❤
Thankyou for this amazing session and for being so open Liza and John ❤. How I long I could hear the Holy Spirit in my life too. Some weeks bk I was hurting and wanting so much space and time frm my husband and at some point God put this in my heart that He is enough, He is more than enough..and the joy and freedom that gives me to honor God and my husband. Wonderful wondeful reminders for a blessd marriage and walk with the Lord. Ty,ty, thankyou!!
A marriage will never work IF the husband cannot follow God's first instruction "to leave, cleave, ane be one" with his wife; otherwise, it's a divided house. That doesn't work.
Yep.
This is for real. It also doesn't help much in healing the wounds of the inner child in each of the married couple.
💯% agreed
What if my husband is not walking with God lately- he is down in life mad at God… I’m believing God walking with him- trusting God to restore our marriage- husband questioning his love - can this still work? Please pray for us!
@@janegriffin3872Father we pray for healing over this home and marriage. Let your love revive this family in Jesus name, Amen!
Amazing Teaching. Is there a link for the second part?
This was soooo good. Thank you so much for your transparency, it is very much appreciated. God bless you and keep you two. You are changing pre-marital relationships and marriages. 🙏🏽
*marriage is a contract based on Love and/in all its attributes. as the vow says through thick and thin. we had a default concept of marriage as blissful but right through the years we realize it's not always the case .. without Christ it is either very difficult or impossible to keep.* Praise The LORD Amen! 🙌
Very very well explained thank you for this beautifully said God is Good 💯🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amazing couple! My first time to watch your preaching Pastor Lisa Bevere! Great!🙏♥️
Thank you John and Lisa for sharing! Empowered by the message!
Just came across this and it was so so good. But I can't find part 2. Is there a link? I've look everywhere. So powerful! Thank youi
This is a remarkable piece. There was a book I read with like content that had a profound impact. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
yes never compare your marriage
I reckon with your testimony ma'am, I believe that if God can bless you with a successful Christ centered marriage inspite of your background then he is preparing a Godly man who will lead me right and point me to the creator of my life every step of the way and together we will raise Godly seeds that'll love and serve the Lord all the days of our lives together.
God bless and keep your family always and forever...amen!
Truth!
Very nicely explained ,thank you John and Lisa !
This video is such a blessing, but here is my thing. I would love someone to dress a marriage that you live w/a toxic person who is unwilling to get the help. I've been married for 37 yrs and my spouse starts off vaping first thing in the morning, comes home from work pulls in his garage and stays out there for an hr at least before he comes in to say hello w/a beer in his hand. Through out the evening he's getting high and drinking. The verbal and mental abuse is to much to handle at times. I've gone so much work within myself not to hold offense and just love. I feel like my spouse takes advantage of God's grace and mercy. My heart feels so closed off.
only God can get you through and keep you satisfied in a situation like this. so thankful He is all that we need. no matter what.
Unfortunately the evangelical Christian complex as I call it, will tell people in your position to endure in love and treat your spouse as you would Christ but which often times gives carte blanche to the one in the wrong. Forgetting the children who grew up in such toxic environment and then believe that its the way to behave or a accept the toxic behavior of others and unsurprisingly continuing the cycle of unhealthy relationship.
As much as I believe in God's power, the human being remains free willed and you can't force God to change someone's free will ( if the spouse is unrepentant) .
So seek help everywhere you can even if it means help outside of the Christian community.
@@vikumugisha1635 I finally found a book by Lisa Terkeurst about boundaries that really has helped me since I posted my comment. Another book is The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick.
I came from an alcoholic family (dad) and was out on my own by 16. Swore I would never put myself there again nor my kids when I had them. And I was that statistic, I didn’t break that cycle 😩. I’m understanding we need to guard our heart at all cost. We can’t enable when we stay if they are unwilling to get the help they need.
My 3 siblings and I endured a home with an alcoholic father. To this day my mother is still with him, who has been mentally and physically abusive. I still think that she and us children would have been better off if she had take us and left. There are a lot of emotional scars and trauma as a result thatI have found that I brought into my own marriage.
wow wow wow!
thank you, such a blessing!!!!!!!!!!!!!! praise God thank you Lord!
Preach!
Wow this is so, so good!! ❤thank you!
that's right Amen totally agree
Thanks for this .. very powerful.. stay bless
Thank you very much 🥰 HALLELUJAH ❤️
Where is part 2? I’m invested! 🙂 Love all of part 1! Thank you for your transparency. ❤
This was very helpful and timely to me
yes
very true your responsibility to get what you want from your partner
I’m blessed by this message. I’d like to know if there’s a way to get mentorship.
oh yes giving the input oh yes
Դուք Ձեր ընտանիքով Տիրոջ կողից հրաշքներ էք։
Beautiful family had to pause and stare 😊
In search of part 2 please! Such an excellent teaching
Hi, did you find it?
Kindly please help me too
@@Siso_Mnguni nope… 😞
@@amyhandel1 txns
When will Part 2 be out??
Same, waiting on part 2!! I wonder what church this is, maybe it’s on their YT page…
I feel bad for the time that you were all alone taking care of the boys as a single Mom. How could God want that for you and your son's? I think you guys are awesome ....still I question that part???God bless both of you fir your shared Godly wisdom shared.
Дякую❤
Why dabble in the enneagram? That's rooted in darkness. What does light have to do with darkness?
Came to say this, praying that the truth is revealed to them. It's so sad to see so many good preachers falling for these lies :(
Lisa and John ,this is really good and helpful 👏 👍
I've noticed that there isn't a television show that reflects Godly roles of husbands and wives. Even family programs such as Young Sheldon are backwards... the husband is weak, disrespected, and doesn't lead; the wife runs the show; and the kids see it.
It's just pathetic.
So sad
It is a great idea to have something like this in soaps. Couples and families living the word of God amidst trials.
Yep. Why does the person who is hurt in the process.... have to be the one to be humble? To forgive? To expect nothing?
When they say that leaving mariage is desacrating it's appaling. Men an women are being abused physically , mentally and sexually and are not seeking help in the fear of not desecration, or even when they seek help in church they are told they have to pray more and endure.
Leaving an abusive spouse is not equal to loosing salvation.
People are making mariage into an idol which is resulting in more broken mariage because they have to uphold the altar of the idol they created.
yes joint errors
Do you mean “joint heirs”, as in Romans 8:17?
50:20
So what about the women living her mom and dad? Because it says a MEN is to leave his mother and father
I have no marriage I'm not involved with anyone
I love you John Bevere though sometimes there’s some harshness in your demeanor that I find concerning.
"Any area that you fear...it's an area you haven't given to Me, you still own it."
Fear is a horrible horrible counselor that makes you do stupid things!!!!!!!!!! 😢😢😢
🛐🙏❤💓💗💕💗💞💖💖😭Heavenly Father JesusGod, I know that I am a sinner. I know that I deserve the consequences of my sin. However, I am trusting in Jesus Christ as my Savior. I believe that His death and resurrection provided for my forgiveness. I trust in Jesus and Jesus alone as my personal Lord and Savior. Thank you Lord, for saving me and forgiving me! In JesusMightyGod's holy name, Amen!"
I do not really like that she is using the MSG bible…
Lisa Bevere (yup) teach about what it means to be dressed modestly as a Christian woman. That is badly lacking in the American Christian culture and church. I see women and young Christian women dressed provocatively in church and preaching as well. It’s wrong in front of God and it’s making men unnecessarily lustful. Too much looseness, everything goes in American churches, dress and look any way. I say this as someone who grew up in an Eastern European Evangelical Christian church where decency was also (not only) prioritized. By and large too many American church have become so diluted in all ways. Divorce flies and too many things fly in the American culture. By way, your husband has been to my country a few years ago. Do what is right. Being Americans you guys have a big influence even on other nations. Think about that. Of Italian ancestry : )).
I love your ministry, but goodness me what an awful translation of the scriptures! Some serious liberalities taken in this translation that is quoted multiple times.