She's emotionally checked out is standard female phraseology to condone, and, or excuse their behavior. In other words. If a man does it he's a dog. If a woman uses this phrase...it's understood, accepted.
@@tinytt854 right. Because it's probably her place and he pressured her into 50/50 that turned out to be 70/30 😂. Hope sis gets the best revenge by living and being loved well
Why do men think that when a woman is unbothered, they automatically think she's cheating or gpnna cheat? When really, it means that she's done with you & preparing her exit. Nothing you do will surprise her or hurt her anymore.
The male perspective is always sexual, especially when they attempt to speak from our perspective. Most married women won't do that and they know this but yet they keep making these wierd ass comments.
What it means is she's about to get her "get back" with at least THREE of your opps BEFORE she replaces you with her new man. And yes, you're gonna cry in the car, my guy.
Not necessarily. I put my husband out over a year ago. I'm not interested in stepping out. He showed up last week. He mentioned that I still wore my band. Asked if he could stay the night. The answer was "NO". He left. No luck for him either.
Having someone else lined up is what men do before they leave. Women committed to a man leave him just to get away from HIM. Most of the time, we don't want to deal with another man and a different set of issues. Lol
As a woman, let me speak her language. It means she has no longer care about you and what you do. The emotions for you are gone. And was waiting for something big to push her to leave. She’s tired my boy. She knew you were cheating.
Exactly. All these kids in comments saying, cheat back or "fight" are stupid. A real woman wakes up and then puts him out. Of course she knew. We always do.
They’ve mentally and emotionally been through with you, this is just the cherry on top for them to cut.. you just made it that much easier and smoother to finally leave your ass I would know because I’ve been there lol
Yep. Not even sexual. I told my husband of 15 years that for months. I put him out last year. Hadn't spoken to him in 8 months or so. He showed up last week. He stayed for 5 minutes and left.
LADIES… some dudes WILL PURPOSELY find out WHAT you tolerate and don’t tolerate AND the TIMELINE for it ALL. Don’t tell some of these dudes what your ex dude did or didn’t do [example: “How long were y’all together?” 💅🏼: “Oh… so and so.” “But what happened? Why aren’t y’all together?” 💅🏼: “Because… during our relationship. So many months in. After awhile. Blah blah blah.”] Boom 💥. Now… the new dude knows YOUR timeline, what happened, how long you put up with shh 🤫… so he knows how long you’re potentially gonna put up with HIS SHIT. Don’t do it to yourselves 💁🏼♀️. And, if you start asking these dudes about their pasts, ALL theirs ended cause “she was tripping…” Ask more questions of THEM. Shhh 🤫 starts getting interesting. For sure. Learning a thing or 2… 😂🫡🌹
I did this when my ex-husband came to me in shock for the millionth time and told me he got fired from his job. I kept playing my video game and shrugged, “Okay. Sucks to be you.” He got so pissed off he unplugged my console and I told him my game was auto-saved anyway. 3 months later I had enough money saved to leave him and he still accuses me to this day for being the bad guy. I also found out when I filed for divorce he cheated on me. 🙄 He was still mad and accused me of leaving him because he believes I cheated on him when I never have. I was just tired of his BS and didn’t want to waste energy on him anymore.
If I was him, I would sleep with one eye open. Remember the song, "It's a thin line between love and hurt?" She is singing that song each and every time she looks at him. Between him sleeping and him eating, he better watch his back.
It means she may not necessarily be preparing to give it to another man but she's not giving it to you anymore. She already has suspicions and she's been checking out.
That means she already knew what you just confirmed! She checked out on you mentally a while ago, yet you didn’t even notice. All I’m gone say is, just ask her to go easy on you and have some grace and mercy for you!!
It doesn’t necessarily mean she’s cheating. It means she knows he ain’t ish, and this is giving her the out. She’s ready to go. Emotions are disconnected.
That means the get back is gon hurt.😂😂😂😂 That means when she caught you. Your best bet would've been to keep on walking.😂😂😂😂 I bet she was thinking this dude think I'm a toy. I got him.😂😂😂 Run dude, run!
What he is doing is no longer her concern now she's on the ''Heard it All Before'' tour. In her Sunshine Anderson voice. 😂😂😂😂 she already knew she was just waiting for confirmation.
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It means that you no longer have the ability to hurt her. She don't care because you don't matter.
YES!
And that’s how you treat these lying cheating ninjas. They simply don’t matter
It means I’m unbothered because I’m leaving you anyway….
Yep done
Agreed
That's EXACTLY what it means
And she's already cheating back. She been moved on.
@@peacebalance8067 you don't have to cheat to "move on" she mentally moved on from him
That means she already two steps ahead 😂
I was looking for this 😂
At least 2 steps.
7 steps🤷🏾♀️
@@angellg25 on GOD😁
She planned her exit the day she found out.
She emotionally checked out
She's emotionally checked out is standard female phraseology to condone, and, or excuse their behavior. In other words. If a man does it he's a dog. If a woman uses this phrase...it's understood, accepted.
Al loooooooooooong time ago!
Yes sir!@victoriousmuscle8632
Big Facts😂😂😂
The emotional exit
is the tail tail sign that things are about to crash and burn!🔥
She assumed he was cheating already. He just confirmed it. She already checked out emotionally, now she’s about to be gone physically.
If he don't know what means, he abt to find out!😂🤪🤣
BINGO
This exactly!!!!
Yup!
Mentally and Emotionally 😂
Whewwwwww Sir she bouta make your entire whole chest hurt. I bet you didn’t know you had asthma.😂
He bout tah find out quick
Lol
😂😂😂
Not the asthma diagnosis!!! 😂😂
@marynelson1977 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I got asthma now too.....
She already made plans that didn’t include you. You just solidified her decision. ✌🏾
That part....
It means she was on the fence about a decision and you just helped her get down on whatever that decision was
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
It means we aren’t crashing out anymore. She’s quietly packing and leaving with her dignity intact and closing the door gently behind her.
Or giving him his walking papers.
That part
@@tinytt854 right. Because it's probably her place and he pressured her into 50/50 that turned out to be 70/30 😂. Hope sis gets the best revenge by living and being loved well
Why do men think that when a woman is unbothered, they automatically think she's cheating or gpnna cheat? When really, it means that she's done with you & preparing her exit. Nothing you do will surprise her or hurt her anymore.
The male perspective is always sexual, especially when they attempt to speak from our perspective. Most married women won't do that and they know this but yet they keep making these wierd ass comments.
Factsss! It means "you ain't even worth me fussing, you mean nothing to me".
Because they don't have the ability to see past their own narrow view of everything and they think we operate the same simple way.
I like to think they want the man to think she found something better
Exactly because I'm leaving with my morals and dignity no offense to anyone 😂
It’s not even about cheating back.. You just get tired of caring…
That part
Yep. Married 15 years. I put him out last year.
I woke up. He changed for the worst. I fell out of love. No like there anymore either.
Facts
No truer words have ever been spoken...you just get tired of caring.
This!!! Then they want to gaslight you and say it's cause you want to cheat. Foolish men
"It's cool. I ain't even trippin".
Translation: "Not only is this relationship over. But, the pain train is coming, and ur gonna feel it."
Well said
Pain train.🤣
She doesn't want him anymore. She's been done. She waiting for him to just leave.
Doesn't have anything to do with another man. She just done.
Yep. Finding someone at all, let alone someone else, cis not that simple.
What it means is she's about to get her "get back" with at least THREE of your opps BEFORE she replaces you with her new man. And yes, you're gonna cry in the car, my guy.
I love that the men know what she REALLY means
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Exactly 💯
He knows EXACTLY what that means!!😂😂😂
Right! Why is he asking questions 🤷🏿♀️
Yep, that is why his spirit is bothered 😂😂
Yep boo he do 😅
Accurate. 😂😂
You just unlocked the secret level after "I'm fine", she is not fine, and it indeed ain't cool, prepare for Armageddon.
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Best comment 😂 😂🎉🎉
Nah some women don't care
@@elongaabigail8636 maybe, but that's not a line you're going to hear from the one's that don't care.
She been getting prepared to leave....
Or put him out 😂😂😂😂
@@dianep6791
That's what I did. 15 years of marriage. I put him out over a year ago. 👋🏿
It means “ you did what was best for you and I’m cool on it. Now please be cool when I do what’s best for me”!
Stand on business big dawg!! 😂😂😂😂
it means leave her alone or you’re gonna experience “The Big Payback” James Brown style! 💯
😂😂😂 exactly right about it
I'm crying 😭😭😭😭😭😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Or 👉🏼Al Green Style 👈🏼...🤔
big payback - revenge! the b-side.
It’s about to be” I have no idea why she left “. She’s going to do it was quietly and safely.
😂
It means somebody bouta be a lucky man. She's about to go get active 😂
Word! 😆
Not necessarily. I put my husband out over a year ago.
I'm not interested in stepping out.
He showed up last week. He mentioned that I still wore my band. Asked if he could stay the night. The answer was "NO".
He left.
No luck for him either.
@tinytt854 You're still wearing the band though, it's only a matter of time 😅
@@tinytt854 nahh stay strong don't let the std farm back in your house.
Having someone else lined up is what men do before they leave. Women committed to a man leave him just to get away from HIM. Most of the time, we don't want to deal with another man and a different set of issues. Lol
That means, just go head & clock out. Your services are no longer needed. 😅😂
"You been steppin out, someone else been steppin in!"
@williesweetjr8713 Yes Sir sumbodi else already been stepping up & stepping in... these comments made my bad day soo much better😃
Like the way you said that!!!! LOLLL
C'mon now Z. Z.!
Uh oh😮
Luv this !!!!!!💜
It means that he’s about to reach the Find Out portion of the destination.
It means she emotionally checked out of the relationship and waiting for the right time to leave, physically.
Or waiting for him to get out
It means thank you for showing me exactly who you are
That means sleep with one eye open 😅😅
Agree 💯💯 😂😂😂😂
A thin line between love and hate
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Naw she’s out ✌🏽
Not at all. Means you no longer exist to me and ain’t worth another thought.
BUCKLE UP IT'S ABOUT TO GET ROUGH!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
REAL ROUGH 😂😂😂😂😂
LOL!! It means she has a plan and is already working on it.
She knew before he mentioned it 😂🤣😂
IT'S OVER, my guy! 🤣
Shuler isn't lying...
"The person I'm finna lay these cookies on." 😂😂😂😂😂😂
He so right though.
😂😂😂😂🍪🍪🍪
But he said brisket b4 that. I have hollered😂😂😂😂
@@NapturalDiva I knew i had a cookie 🍪 but i didn’t know i had a brisket 🤔 well damn, I’m a bad bih 😉😂😂
@missa3157 exactly! Hollering😂😂😂
She already knew and she was wasn’t gonna do anything until they said the magic words. Cuz she’s about to tear the town up.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 WOMEN ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN PLAY A REAL DIFFERENT GAME HOMIE. I'M JUST SAYING
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I didn't play any games.
My husband loved liquor more than me. 15 years. I put him out last year.
We dang sure do.
No lies detected here.
What game? Ain’t no game played or to be played. There’s just nothin more to say after a certain point. Only what’s left to do: leave.
Shuler said "they been broke up with you". 🤣🤣 I was weak. 😂😂😂😂😂
♥️🤍💚When she's silently chuckling, yo ass is in trubba!🫵🏾✌🏾💯🤍💚♥️
😂😂😂
As a woman, let me speak her language. It means she has no longer care about you and what you do. The emotions for you are gone. And was waiting for something big to push her to leave. She’s tired my boy. She knew you were cheating.
Exactly.
All these kids in comments saying, cheat back or "fight" are stupid.
A real woman wakes up and then puts him out. Of course she knew. We always do.
She got her exit paper . She just needed the code..
It means, don’t be cutting up once you find out what she’s either been doing or about to do.😂
You helped her to get out of the relationship quicker. She's relieved
It could mean a lot of things, well said Shuler.
This is the energy you need. No yelling. No cryinh. No begging. Not worth it.
They want to hurt you.
It means she's DONE DONE. She checked out a LONG TIME AGO.
👍🏿
The means you’re relieved of your duties 😂😂….he is about to need counseling
They’ve mentally and emotionally been through with you, this is just the cherry on top for them to cut.. you just made it that much easier and smoother to finally leave your ass I would know because I’ve been there lol
My exact thoughts. And she probably already knew he was cheating but she was already on the way out so it didn’t matter what he said.
Why do men think we are so anxious to replace a problem with a problem?
Means do you boo 😮, because im doing meeee. Duuecces ✌️ 😁😅😅😅 !!!!!!
Yep. Not even sexual. I told my husband of 15 years that for months.
I put him out last year. Hadn't spoken to him in 8 months or so. He showed up last week. He stayed for 5 minutes and left.
LADIES… some dudes WILL PURPOSELY find out WHAT you tolerate and don’t tolerate AND the TIMELINE for it ALL. Don’t tell some of these dudes what your ex dude did or didn’t do [example: “How long were y’all together?” 💅🏼: “Oh… so and so.” “But what happened? Why aren’t y’all together?” 💅🏼: “Because… during our relationship. So many months in. After awhile. Blah blah blah.”] Boom 💥. Now… the new dude knows YOUR timeline, what happened, how long you put up with shh 🤫… so he knows how long you’re potentially gonna put up with HIS SHIT. Don’t do it to yourselves 💁🏼♀️. And, if you start asking these dudes about their pasts, ALL theirs ended cause “she was tripping…” Ask more questions of THEM. Shhh 🤫 starts getting interesting. For sure. Learning a thing or 2… 😂🫡🌹
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Too true❤❤❤
@QuirkeeBunny this needs to be a poster, t shirt bumper sicker & key chain charm...🙄
@ Bumper sticker might be a bit unsafe. Cause… that would be a lot of reading required while driving next to someone. 👀🤷🏼♀️😂
That means move TF out now.😊
😂
That Part
Yep. It does.
You can never play a player when a player is playing you.❤😊
“It’s a thin line. Between love and hate.” 🚑
Not even hate. She is just done with him.
It’s a line from an oldies song that had a similar topic. Great song btw! 🙂
😂😂😂Yasss❤A woman's intuition is the truth!
To the Woke ⏰️ Brotha it means GET TA STEPPIN cuz she bout to show you how it's done. 😆
😂😂😂
That means stick around and find out
@ghostdmv7462 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 all thez comments are soo accurate .
It means you already got got 🤣🤣🤣
It means she's been working on her exit plan or she's not impressed enough with your bedroom performance to care.😂
It's on. She doesn't care anymore.. She's out...
That means she’s already got her a side piece and now she doesn’t feel bad about it.
Not at all...what I'm doing is actually necessary
It means she doesn't care what you do anymore i.e. IDGAF and you 2 won't be together much longer.
Exactly
That means she's doing the same thing, he just doesn't know that's all.
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That part😂😂😂
Word
Not always
It means that relationship ain't ever mattered. If y'all lived together, y'all just roommates now. Keep it pushing
She's already planned her exit strategy.
He has eaten your bread, drank your wine and he shall betray you 😂😂😂😂😂
You are 100% accurate!!! The desperate calls I receive.🤦🏾♀🤦🏾♀🤦🏾♀ Lol #therapistlife #StopPlayingwithPeoplesEmotions 🛑
TLC said it best in their song, "Creep." 🎵🎵🎶😂😂
I did this when my ex-husband came to me in shock for the millionth time and told me he got fired from his job.
I kept playing my video game and shrugged, “Okay. Sucks to be you.” He got so pissed off he unplugged my console and I told him my game was auto-saved anyway.
3 months later I had enough money saved to leave him and he still accuses me to this day for being the bad guy. I also found out when I filed for divorce he cheated on me. 🙄 He was still mad and accused me of leaving him because he believes I cheated on him when I never have. I was just tired of his BS and didn’t want to waste energy on him anymore.
It means she's at least SIX chess moves ahead of you. Buckle up, pardner! 😂
If I was him, I would sleep with one eye open. Remember the song, "It's a thin line between love and hurt?" She is singing that song each and every time she looks at him. Between him sleeping and him eating, he better watch his back.
"The person that I'm about to give this Brisket too...the person that I'm about to lay these cookies on"😅😂
It means she may not necessarily be preparing to give it to another man but she's not giving it to you anymore. She already has suspicions and she's been checking out.
She been waiting and so has the other man😂
RUN!!!!!!!!!
Say THAT young man!! Nothing BUT the truth!!
LOL THat Whistle though 😆3:22 that means she been Broke up witchu, LOL Felt That one😌
Brisket 😂😂😂😂😂
Scrolling to see who appreciated brisket like I did 😂
I HOLLERED😂
Didn’t even know I had one 😂😂😂
Bet! "I've got to run out to the supermarket. Be back in a while. "
That means she already knew what you just confirmed! She checked out on you mentally a while ago, yet you didn’t even notice. All I’m gone say is, just ask her to go easy on you and have some grace and mercy for you!!
Yep
Means you did her a favor, for real, she's so over you, she ain't even mad! Bye Boy!
Yes ma'am.
😂😂😂😂. Yep it's going to get crazy. 😂😂
She's already stepping out 😅
😂😂😂
We don't all get crazy and/or step out.
I didn't.
It doesn’t necessarily mean she’s cheating. It means she knows he ain’t ish, and this is giving her the out. She’s ready to go. Emotions are disconnected.
Yeah. This.
Checkmate!!!💯😂👍🏼😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
She’s definitely saying “you know him”
If they're living together he better call a couple of friends and book a U-haul.
Yep.
I think he better call Tyrone…
Can y'all say : " Backup Plan?"😂
ABSOLUTELY 💯😁
"You might even know him." Facts 😂😂👏🏿
😂😂😂😂😂 this me 😂😂😂😂 it's cool baby😂😂😂😂 she letting that paranoid get him, cause he don't if she doing it back or being faithful 😊
She took it for a test drive...and decided she liked the ride....hit the road jack!
If she say she ain’t trippin & DONT TRIP u outta there……she sicka u she was lookin for the green light and he just gave it to her 😂😂😂😂
That means the get back is gon hurt.😂😂😂😂 That means when she caught you. Your best bet would've been to keep on walking.😂😂😂😂 I bet she was thinking this dude think I'm a toy. I got him.😂😂😂 Run dude, run!
Not what in the "I'm finna get my lick back Lisa"😂🤣😂
What he is doing is no longer her concern now she's on the ''Heard it All Before'' tour. In her Sunshine Anderson voice. 😂😂😂😂 she already knew she was just waiting for confirmation.
Sis already knew. She was waiting on confirmation so she can start doing her😂
That message means this relationship ended a while ago. He is just getting the memo. Thoughts and prayers.
I just wanna know who else other than me died when he said brisket 😂😂😂 hilarious 😂 😂 !!!!
2:12 speaking facts.
That’s means just leave the key on the kitchen table. Best of luck
Yep
No luck tho. She doesn't care anymore.
It means, "A man is going to do what a man is going to do." I ain't stupid. My people taught me that as a kid. Now go to work & pay these bills.
😂yeah , it means you just gave me the green light . My ex got at me for not getting mad at him for cheating on me .
🤣🤣🤣🤣It means run fool and do not even look back or contemplate staying.