"Have encountered the 'mean gay' in his Natural Habitat." One of the most telling statements I've ever heard (on this subject) and so spot on. Thanks for sharing your encounter.
I am sooooo sorry that you went through this. So ugly! I had a bartender stand up for me when someone tried to follow me to the bathroom. I know the feeling. Keep your morals as they are. Stay kind.
I have never felt comfortable at bars, gay or straight. I probably feel more uncomfortable at gay bars because I never feel good enough to be there. I was hit on once at a gay bar and it was not a good experience. I think, like a lot of things in the gay community, you have to be good looking to have fun at gay bars or anything gay related. I'm not good looking or rich (plus I don't drink) so in my experience being at anything gay related can be a very lonely experience.
I understand where you’re coming from as I Don’t drink myself am only able to carry my own weight financially and do feel like I’m not good enough for these spaces(maybe I should make a video on this sometime)...but I’m really shocked that you think you’re not good looking! You’re extremely handsome from what I can see on your profile picture! I’m not exaggerating when I tell you that you’re a 10/10
I don't consider myself good looking but I've always done (or rather, 'did', I'm 74 now) well at gay bars/clubs. However I always could figure out what obscured my worst bits and accentuated my best - what styles suited me and which didn't etc. One time I was approached by an extremely good looking guy and I asked him why he came up to me (after we'd done the deed, I don't self-sabotage). He said that he'd noticed that everyone around me always seemed to be having so much fun. Since being a small, skinny, spotty, poor kid I learned that making people laugh makes you popular and being able to shut someone down with a smart put down soon stopped people picking on me. Self deprecating jokes are something people also enjoy. Attractiveness and self-confidence (fake it till you make it - it's a self-fulfilling prophecy) are in the eyes of the beholders and takes many forms. Find your strengths and play to them. We all have them. My self-confidence grew as I spent as little time as I could in front of mirrors since I never liked what I saw. I always zeroed in on my lifelong acne. Instead I took my reflection from other people's reactions to me. In the end I was never as ugly as I thought I was or as attractive as others thought I was. Find You. Be You. Like You. There will always be someone there who likes You if you show them who You are.
@@Russ_Keith - Thanks. Good, strong comment and advice. In my 20ties i was pretty but insecure. In my 40ties looking ok but cocky. Guess when they were running after me. When young i was too afraid to approach a guy i liked. Mature i approached anyone. 9 Out of 10 complied. Now i’m 65. Still doing ok bút i really want a relationship with my own age group. Have always wanted a man. That remains a big problem and i fear more loneliness.
The amount of courage you have is amazing. All I feel like doing is crying when I see someone like you from our culture actually living life. Glad someone is.
When i entered my first gay bar James Brown`s song "Living in America" was being played very very loudly. I will never forget that, nor will i forget how nervous i was. Unlike you i was not happy to be gay at all. With time i learned to accept my sexuality and live my life as a happy, healthy, gay man. I enjoy your videos, keep letting them come. Stay strong, healthy and give and take much love.
A note on gay friendships. I've often thought I had close gay male friends until I depended on them. Rarely did they want to be inconvenienced when I asked them to help me out. There are always exceptions but they are rare. The other side of that coin was friends who would be dating my so-called friends seem to think it was OK to hit on me when their partner's backs were turned. I've never had a gay friend behave how I would have behaved had the situation been reversed.
There is alot of promiscuity in the gay community. Men sleeping with whoever and whatever they come across. Everyone is viewed as a sex object and they are never satisfied. It's a bottomless pit of overindulgence and sexual deviance. The goal is to get laid not form bonds and meaningful friendships. One gay guy said he stopped dating because "men ain't shit ". I'll say men without integrity and moral compass will only seek self gratification and not know how to show love to others.
good story - thanks - I find it refreshing to hear a young gay guy aware of his boundaries and holding himself with such a chill manner. You have much to offer and a strong sense of your Self. May these things never erode or change for you except to grow stronger and warmer; you have warm inviting presence.
I remember my first gay bar experience! I hadn’t been out all that long, and a few acquaintances of mine took me to this one bar, propped me up on a stool and said, “Okay, just sit here awhile and observe.” They did check in on me a few times, but after 45 minutes, they asked, “So, what do you think?” I replied: “Take me home. I’ve wasted an entire evening here - I could have been practicing (I’m a pianist) or reading. I don’t belong here.” No one - aside from my acquaintances - spoke to me. No one tried to drag me off to the restroom - hey, if someone had, at least I could have told Mrs. Strakosh that things were looking up. Obviously, I never went back. Don’t do bars - don’t drink, absolutely despise small talk and can’t stand the noise. My husband’s story is rather similar. We’ve been together 22 years and legally married for 18 - and no, we didn’t meet in a bar. Oh, that bar I was taken to closed a long time ago - I would imagine the AIDS epidemic did that place in.
Your storytimes are really good and low-key inspiring. It shows people like us who live in a country where you can't express yourself that you can go out and live out your life without any judgement. Thanks for that❤❤
Thank you for telling me this, it means so much to me to know that I’m doing something for you and helping you in someway by posting these❤️ I actually have way more from when I was still in iran😂 if you want me to tell you those stories as well let me know forsure!
Although I grew up in New York City, I went to college in a hick town. My roommate, as it turned out, was gay. I didn’t even know what “gay” meant - I thought it was where you go to great parties, and people look like Fred Astaire & Ginger Rodgers! It was the 1970s, completely different from the situation in 2024, and I didn’t know anything at all. He and his friends invited me along to a gay bar, where I thought I’d meet guys and girls who were dressed very sophisticated! I was good-looking when I was young (that was a LONG time ago), so everyone was checking me out, and I didn’t understand why. There were no seats/tables remaining, so I stood by the wall on the dance floor, and then I noticed the guys were dancing with the guys! Ok, no problem, especially since my roommate was dancing with a guy too. So I finally realized what’s a gay bar 😂 Then another guy slides up beside me, and asks me to dance. I said, no thanks, I’m just here with some friends. He didn’t give up though, so he tried to make a conversation: what are you studying? I said, finance-accounting. He said, oh, you mean Jewish Engineering. I walked away. Many MANY years later, I went on a tour of Italy, and some of the other tourists were gay (I am divorced), and they wanted to stop at a gay bar. I hadn’t been to one since 1974, so I thought this oughta be a riot! My “companion” that evening was a young fit Australian, and when we walked in, all eyes turned to him. I’m sure they were wondering what he was doing with a fat old geezer like me! I went back to the hotel after a few minutes because I’m sure he wanted to meet somebody, and I didn’t want to “cock block,” is that the right phrase? Looking back, these stories are still funny to me 😅
Great story!!!!loved reading it😂 you know what’s funny? The first time I went to a gay club a guy asked me to dance with him but I felt shy and told him I have a boyfriend😭 still to this day I regret lying and not dancing with him! I Don’t know if you regret walking away at that time or not but it was cool to see the experience was somewhat similar😅 personally I, and many other guys find having lots of experience and lots of beef at the same time very attractive so maybe you shouldn’t have left to the hotel and had some fun for yourself! And cock block is the right phrase yes😂 thanks for sharing❤️
@@matraeisi I was afraid that I droned on too long, so I’m glad you liked it! No, no regrets at all. I did some experimenting in college, but I’m (mostly) straight, and even have grandchildren! No regrets about the Australian friend in Italy - at my age, “fun” is getting a good night’s sleep, no hanky-panky. Those days are in the past, so enjoy it while you’re young. Btw, I am still good friends with my college roommate. He married that same boyfriend when it became legal, and they’ve been together for 50 years. That’s way longer than my marriage, but that’s a whole different story!
First off, love the lighting, etc. for the video. Looks good and you look handsome as always. Now back to the story you shared. Man that must have been awkward! Not cool that you got put into that situation but luckily dude wasn't going to be able to get you into that bathroom. I remember when I first walked into the "biggest, best" Gay bar in town when I turned 21. (Even though I was able to get in to other bars before then with my doctored ID). I was this short Twink that looked young for my age and was amazed at all that I was seeing. Within minutes of being in there I get introduced to a couple of drag queens. One of them asked me: "Do you pluck your eyebrows?", Me: "No...", Them: "B*tch!'" and just walked away. It's how I knew I was home.
My bar/club period was the early 80s specifically 1982-1985. I had a blast, several hookups, but mainly I went to dance!!! The music of that period was fabulous..... disco and hiNRGY.
The music in the 80's was fantastic! Hi nrg, Eurobeat, Italo Disco was the main music playing on the scene. I still listen to it. Lime, Fancy, Modern Talking, Divine, Sylvester, Ken Lazlo, Spagna, Grant Miller, Bobby O, Miquel Brown, Fun Fun and Hazell Dean. Great music memories :)
Shaunie, I have a lot of those artists on gay dance classics CDs and blast them in my car. I also loved Take a Chance on Me by Waterfront Home (not the ABBA classic), the Flirts, the Flirtations, Company B, and so many more!!!
@@tlw1950 Great music choices! Hi nrg is so uplifting and happy music. I've heard that song take a chance on me, was it a Bobby Orlando production? I'm from the UK, and there was some great record companies doing hi nrg. Passion, Nightmare and Record Shack. Ian levine. Have you heard Shout it Out by Astaire it's great!
You are extremely handsome! Your beard, your face, your personality. I'm looking forward to binging all your past videos and new ones 😎 P.s. I like your topics too!
Not all gay bars are the same. They vary a LOT in clientele, themes, etc. But, in general, I love gay bars--it's really nice to be with our community. 🙂
Great story Matin! I can picture the guy trying to drag you to the restroom and you hanging on for dear life jaja 😁 . I have social anxiety as well and am intimidated by gay bars . So how did you find your circle of gay friends? social media?
I’m glad you liked the story!! My circle of gay friends is actually mostly you guys😂 Irl I’m mostly either training, working, eating, and sleeping on repeat😅 Also just like you I’m highly intimidated by gay bars and clubs so I understand💀
You are doing great , so adorable , there’s much more then this story as you know , the man that catches you in a net of love will be very lucky The best to you from USA , NY , I assume you are in Toronto, enjoy there is so much to enjoy ♥️
Definitely true about the heads turning to see who just walked in. But I would say the effect is somewhat increased when you’re like 7 feet tall and gorgeous ✨👀
I'm not able to focus on his words when I'm watching him .damnn he has super cute way of talking stay blessed nd lv u lemme see your cuteness once again❤
I have to say that being with a "Mean gay" can drain your energy out fast. You can feel your eye's bag tired and your brain just numb. In that situation, you just need to be at home in your bed sleeping like a baby. He pulls your hand insisting to follow you to a bathroom, that's like a child's attempt to force someone. What is this, Mama? I would just drop it and leave the place dramatically hahaha Really love your transition act at @2:00 so natural. This would be the future of acting.
Hey, Matin! Hope you're doing fine. You've been inactive on your socials(atleast on instagram I suppose) Please let us know how you are. Judging by the video dates on your channel, I guess you upload just when time permits or if you're in the mood, so I don't think I have to worry too much. But wherever you are, have a wonderful day! And Happy Ramadan!!
Oh... did you mean... when MY boyfriend uploads?! 👁👄👁 You better watch out, i'm gonna fight you for him 💀 (Just kidding 😅... but still... he's MINE! 👹)
In my experience, gay bars remind me of highschool. I haven't been to one in years and don't plan on it. I never got pulled into a bathroom but I have experienced the mean judging, side eyes, and cattiness. It's nasty. I thought they would be more welcoming, I was very wrong.
OMG, that's basically sexual harassment or an attempted oral rape! I'm glad you stood your ground. The way that guy behaved was beyond pathetic and desperate lol
It is so awful when anyone is ill treated in public spaces like these. This is why it is good to have company around, if possible. Take care, God bless.
I’ve watched a couple of your videos, thank you but I keep wondering how you learned English. I wouldn’t think you learned in Iran. You speak beautiful English.
Hi, thanks for the support even if you didn’t understand the video🥹❤️ i hope technology advances in the future so they can add auto subtitles so that you can enjoy the videos as well!😘
@@matraeisi Thank you, I will try to understand your video and I decided to learn English. I would be very happy if someone could help me learn English. Best regards.
Really need advice. Iam in my early 30s been through some realtionshits, thought i wanted nothing to do with love anymore, but recently i stumbled upon someone out of the blue, we started talking and we had some real chemistry mentally n physically, we have been communicating for about two weeks now, just learning about each other, i feel like this could really work but somehow i feel he is holding back so i pull myself in aswell.... He doesnt ask me much personel questions so i feel like i dont want to inavde his privacy either, hence i end up giving like 5 minutes before i reply to his text because i dont want to seem too clingy, i get mixed feelings from him and i dont know if he is getting the same mixed feeling from me too because of the way i give him his space, i really like him alot but dont want to invest emotions n end up getting hurt, iam invested yes a little part of me but confuses too, should i pull out now, or wait for him to make his mind up... Need ur advice.
I love your content man! You have an awesome personality! You help make me get comfortable in my own skin. What are the chances of me getting your number? Hahaha jk Keep up the good work 😆
Well you are brave and good on you for standing up for yourself and to what you strongly felt about not going to the toilet , obviously you have alot more class so good for you like I always say your a Angel 😇
In my very early days I went to a pub/disco near my home; a good friend came in on his very first visit to a gay disco uand he nearly died when he saw me there. He left in a hurry before I saw him. He phoned his wife and asked her advice; she said 'Well, he's got to know eventually so you had better go back in!'.
I have a friend who I kinda sorta suspect wants to drag me into a gay bar and see what happens next. Not for his sake by the way, he's straight and implied several times during our conversations that he wanted to do the matchmaker or the wingman for me. The thing is that I'm an introverted (and probably on the spectrum) guy who doesn't like crowds, noisy places, small talk, and have no idea how to flirt. Also I never set a foot into a gay bar, I probably don't belong there anyway... But I do wonder what would happen in this situation.
Oh you poor baby, you had to fight off a sexual assault, gained a stalker, and had a bad blind date all within 45 minutes. I have been to four gay bars here in NYC a handful of times, and each time it terrible experience for me. I prefer the straight bars, myself.
so adorable. would be surprised if he didn't have a line of stalkers, although admittedly creepy to have the power taken from you by a stranger. Not sure that the stalker was a mean gay...more like an obsessed and horny gay. thank god I'm now old and not having to rely on bars.
I will always remember my 1st time. I went out scared so with some gin inside me I ventured out. It was so good I went out the next night (without the gin)and had a really good time.
Sad to hear this was your experience but if it will somewhat make you feel better, I personally find men over 50 to be really attractive and always turn my head!(genuinely)❤️
I don't know ur standards are too High. Or ur conditions are so complicated. I don't think people like u don't have a boyfriend. What an amazing personality u r! I would love to date a person like u. Not only handsome, mature but ur naughty mind 😂😂oh.....
If he really liked you he should have asked you out on a date rather than trying to get in your pants. For me the most fun thing to do at a bar is dance; because it is such a stress reliever.
Did you rhyme pants and dance on purpose? Because it was genius😆 And I definitely agree! I myself actually always only dance in clubs as it’s the most fun thing about them especially if the DJ is good😍
Oh gurl that was a chop wtf is that! I've been in your shoes quite a bit myself and I'm also a big guy so no one's pulling anyway but damn! The audacity! The audacity these men have
My first time in a gay bar was so terrible first time when I walked in so many guys were looking at me and I didn’t know how to react to it I just turned around and walked away
I think you’re a really great storyteller. I think it comes with being an art major. You’re also very handsome and good looking I’m sure you’ll find love with a HOT MAN very very soon especially at the rate you’re becoming popular as a vlogger. Remember sex sells so keep it up cutie! 🎉
You look very cute from what I can see on your pfp and I’m pretty sure you’re a really great person❤️ I’m in no way better than you for you to feel jealous🥺
I love your stories so much! If I was fixed up with a gorgeous 6’4” tall muscular Persian man, I would be desperate to have you want me as well. I wouldn’t be stupid enough to try to pull you anywhere that you didn’t want to go as I’m 5’8” and 160 pounds!
@@matraeisi One of my Persian friends is now studying for PhD in Montreal, Canada. He couldn’t be happier getting out of his oppressive country. He is a free citizen now but he is not a free man until he graduates. It’s something in electronics that I don’t understand. He will be able to visit the USA once he’s free of Iran. He is a great friend and is so very kind. He is going to learn Canadian French when he has more time. His English is almost as good as yours. He’s also a Bisexual top with a preference for men. He is a very, very hairy man.
Hiii👋🏼Thank you! Love you so much more🥰 you’re always so nice to me, and I really appreciate you for that🥹also I’m pretty sure you’re very cute yourself❤️
I have never felt more judged than in a gay bar. Awful. This doesn't happen to me in straight bars, so I haven't been back to a gay bar for more than 12 years.
"Have encountered the 'mean gay' in his Natural Habitat." One of the most telling statements I've ever heard (on this subject) and so spot on. Thanks for sharing your encounter.
Thanks for being here to listen❤️
I´m imagining how it looked when he was trying to drag you in the bathroom and I can´t stop laughing LMFAOOO
It was really bad I was so red from embarrassment🤣😭
Matin, I am grateful that you have chosen to share your stories. It helps others who may just be coming out.
You are a sweet man.
Thank you John, I really appreciate your love and support! It Means so much to me🥹 you’re the sweetest yourself❤️
@@matraeisi ❤️ thanks for taking the time to personally respond. Be well. And don’t let the anxiety win.
where did you go?😭
I keep looking everyday 😫
I am sooooo sorry that you went through this. So ugly! I had a bartender stand up for me when someone tried to follow me to the bathroom. I know the feeling. Keep your morals as they are. Stay kind.
Omg I’m so glad amazing people such as that bartender exist and that you were protected! Also Thanks for sharing❤️
@@matraeisi you’re right. It is nice to know there are good people in this crazy world we live in. Be well my friend.
Your sense of humor is awesome!
Thank you🥰 I’m glad you think so❤️
It's almost six months without any videos , where are you dude ?🤔
I have never felt comfortable at bars, gay or straight. I probably feel more uncomfortable at gay bars because I never feel good enough to be there. I was hit on once at a gay bar and it was not a good experience. I think, like a lot of things in the gay community, you have to be good looking to have fun at gay bars or anything gay related. I'm not good looking or rich (plus I don't drink) so in my experience being at anything gay related can be a very lonely experience.
I understand where you’re coming from as I Don’t drink myself am only able to carry my own weight financially and do feel like I’m not good enough for these spaces(maybe I should make a video on this sometime)...but I’m really shocked that you think you’re not good looking! You’re extremely handsome from what I can see on your profile picture! I’m not exaggerating when I tell you that you’re a 10/10
Eating food at a gay bar is like eating gas station sushi! 🍱🤣
I saw your profile picture. Hot,sexy, the perfect daddy ánd …. you knów it. Or is that not you or did you beautify while aging ? Also possible.
I don't consider myself good looking but I've always done (or rather, 'did', I'm 74 now) well at gay bars/clubs. However I always could figure out what obscured my worst bits and accentuated my best - what styles suited me and which didn't etc. One time I was approached by an extremely good looking guy and I asked him why he came up to me (after we'd done the deed, I don't self-sabotage). He said that he'd noticed that everyone around me always seemed to be having so much fun.
Since being a small, skinny, spotty, poor kid I learned that making people laugh makes you popular and being able to shut someone down with a smart put down soon stopped people picking on me. Self deprecating jokes are something people also enjoy. Attractiveness and self-confidence (fake it till you make it - it's a self-fulfilling prophecy) are in the eyes of the beholders and takes many forms. Find your strengths and play to them. We all have them. My self-confidence grew as I spent as little time as I could in front of mirrors since I never liked what I saw. I always zeroed in on my lifelong acne. Instead I took my reflection from other people's reactions to me. In the end I was never as ugly as I thought I was or as attractive as others thought I was. Find You. Be You. Like You. There will always be someone there who likes You if you show them who You are.
@@Russ_Keith - Thanks. Good, strong comment and advice. In my 20ties i was pretty but insecure. In my 40ties looking ok but cocky.
Guess when they were running after me. When young i was too afraid to approach a guy i liked. Mature i approached anyone. 9 Out of 10 complied. Now i’m 65. Still doing ok bút i really want a relationship with my own age group. Have always wanted a man.
That remains a big problem and i fear more loneliness.
The amount of courage you have is amazing.
All I feel like doing is crying when I see someone like you from our culture actually living life.
Glad someone is.
You are the only MAN who can bring PEACE to the MIDDLE EAST! Matin...!
I hope I get the power to do that someday…Lgbt people, and women there deserve so much more than what they have to go through😭
Lgbtqrstuvwxyzzzz people haven't brought peace to them selves how will he bring it to the middle East.
When i entered my first gay bar James Brown`s song "Living in America" was being played very very loudly.
I will never forget that, nor will i forget how nervous i was.
Unlike you i was not happy to be gay at all. With time i learned to accept my sexuality and live my life as a happy, healthy,
gay man.
I enjoy your videos, keep letting them come. Stay strong, healthy and give and take much love.
A note on gay friendships. I've often thought I had close gay male friends until I depended on them. Rarely did they want to be inconvenienced when I asked them to help me out. There are always exceptions but they are rare. The other side of that coin was friends who would be dating my so-called friends seem to think it was OK to hit on me when their partner's backs were turned. I've never had a gay friend behave how I would have behaved had the situation been reversed.
Never experienced this myself but I’ve actually heard it a lot and it’s really really concerning…
There is alot of promiscuity in the gay community. Men sleeping with whoever and whatever they come across. Everyone is viewed as a sex object and they are never satisfied. It's a bottomless pit of overindulgence and sexual deviance. The goal is to get laid not form bonds and meaningful friendships. One gay guy said he stopped dating because "men ain't shit ". I'll say men without integrity and moral compass will only seek self gratification and not know how to show love to others.
yup gays for ya@@matraeisi
I am missing this nice guy and his intelligent stories, hopefully he will be back some day, I guess I am not the only one 😐
good story - thanks - I find it refreshing to hear a young gay guy aware of his boundaries and holding himself with such a chill manner. You have much to offer and a strong sense of your Self. May these things never erode or change for you except to grow stronger and warmer; you have warm inviting presence.
I remember my first gay bar experience! I hadn’t been out all that long, and a few acquaintances of mine took me to this one bar, propped me up on a stool and said, “Okay, just sit here awhile and observe.” They did check in on me a few times, but after 45 minutes, they asked, “So, what do you think?” I replied: “Take me home. I’ve wasted an entire evening here - I could have been practicing (I’m a pianist) or reading. I don’t belong here.” No one - aside from my acquaintances - spoke to me. No one tried to drag me off to the restroom - hey, if someone had, at least I could have told Mrs. Strakosh that things were looking up. Obviously, I never went back. Don’t do bars - don’t drink, absolutely despise small talk and can’t stand the noise. My husband’s story is rather similar. We’ve been together 22 years and legally married for 18 - and no, we didn’t meet in a bar. Oh, that bar I was taken to closed a long time ago - I would imagine the AIDS epidemic did that place in.
Your storytimes are really good and low-key inspiring. It shows people like us who live in a country where you can't express yourself that you can go out and live out your life without any judgement. Thanks for that❤❤
Thank you for telling me this, it means so much to me to know that I’m doing something for you and helping you in someway by posting these❤️ I actually have way more from when I was still in iran😂 if you want me to tell you those stories as well let me know forsure!
Hi, hope you're okay. I've always wondered if you have a boyfriend like present day. Do you? If you do, is it okay if I could like see him?🤷🤷
Hey bro where are you .
I miss you alot❤😢
Although I grew up in New York City, I went to college in a hick town. My roommate, as it turned out, was gay. I didn’t even know what “gay” meant - I thought it was where you go to great parties, and people look like Fred Astaire & Ginger Rodgers! It was the 1970s, completely different from the situation in 2024, and I didn’t know anything at all. He and his friends invited me along to a gay bar, where I thought I’d meet guys and girls who were dressed very sophisticated! I was good-looking when I was young (that was a LONG time ago), so everyone was checking me out, and I didn’t understand why. There were no seats/tables remaining, so I stood by the wall on the dance floor, and then I noticed the guys were dancing with the guys! Ok, no problem, especially since my roommate was dancing with a guy too. So I finally realized what’s a gay bar 😂 Then another guy slides up beside me, and asks me to dance. I said, no thanks, I’m just here with some friends. He didn’t give up though, so he tried to make a conversation: what are you studying? I said, finance-accounting. He said, oh, you mean Jewish Engineering. I walked away. Many MANY years later, I went on a tour of Italy, and some of the other tourists were gay (I am divorced), and they wanted to stop at a gay bar. I hadn’t been to one since 1974, so I thought this oughta be a riot! My “companion” that evening was a young fit Australian, and when we walked in, all eyes turned to him. I’m sure they were wondering what he was doing with a fat old geezer like me! I went back to the hotel after a few minutes because I’m sure he wanted to meet somebody, and I didn’t want to “cock block,” is that the right phrase? Looking back, these stories are still funny to me 😅
Great story!!!!loved reading it😂 you know what’s funny? The first time I went to a gay club a guy asked me to dance with him but I felt shy and told him I have a boyfriend😭 still to this day I regret lying and not dancing with him!
I Don’t know if you regret walking away at that time or not but it was cool to see the experience was somewhat similar😅
personally I, and many other guys find having lots of experience and lots of beef at the same time very attractive so maybe you shouldn’t have left to the hotel and had some fun for yourself!
And cock block is the right phrase yes😂 thanks for sharing❤️
@@matraeisi I was afraid that I droned on too long, so I’m glad you liked it! No, no regrets at all. I did some experimenting in college, but I’m (mostly) straight, and even have grandchildren! No regrets about the Australian friend in Italy - at my age, “fun” is getting a good night’s sleep, no hanky-panky. Those days are in the past, so enjoy it while you’re young. Btw, I am still good friends with my college roommate. He married that same boyfriend when it became legal, and they’ve been together for 50 years. That’s way longer than my marriage, but that’s a whole different story!
You're not posting anymore ? :(
Same on Instagram. I hope he hasn't been harmed!
The voice over was the best part 🤣
UM. thank god you weighed more than him cause that is assault!! lmao jesus. I would've started shouting😰😰
its so scaryy
Right, would've ran out of there as soon as that happened
FACTS !!!!! I was thinking the same things. You'll be surprised how many guys get raped in those bars.
I was so shocked that I couldn’t do anything else, I kinda froze💀 Also, I was afraid of making a scene when I shouldn’t have been😭
I actually thought about running out🤣
First off, love the lighting, etc. for the video. Looks good and you look handsome as always. Now back to the story you shared. Man that must have been awkward! Not cool that you got put into that situation but luckily dude wasn't going to be able to get you into that bathroom. I remember when I first walked into the "biggest, best" Gay bar in town when I turned 21. (Even though I was able to get in to other bars before then with my doctored ID). I was this short Twink that looked young for my age and was amazed at all that I was seeing. Within minutes of being in there I get introduced to a couple of drag queens. One of them asked me: "Do you pluck your eyebrows?", Me: "No...", Them: "B*tch!'" and just walked away. It's how I knew I was home.
You are amazing and inspiring for all ❤❤ you deserve lots of love n fame ❤
Thank you! It flatters me that you find me inspiring🥹 you deserve the world and I wish you only the best of the best❤️
hi dude, hope you're ok and safe. Please update us.
I love that club story. You had a little stalker in your mist. Take care.😆
Glad to hear you loved the story it means a lot🥹❤️ and yes but I wasn’t scared I’m always prepared(almost)🤣You take care as well!
My bar/club period was the early 80s specifically 1982-1985.
I had a blast, several hookups, but mainly I went to dance!!! The music of that period was fabulous..... disco and hiNRGY.
The music in the 80's was fantastic! Hi nrg, Eurobeat, Italo Disco was the main music playing on the scene. I still listen to it. Lime, Fancy, Modern Talking, Divine, Sylvester, Ken Lazlo, Spagna, Grant Miller, Bobby O, Miquel Brown, Fun Fun and Hazell Dean. Great music memories :)
Shaunie, I have a lot of those artists on gay dance classics CDs and blast them in my car.
I also loved Take a Chance on Me by Waterfront Home (not the ABBA classic), the Flirts, the Flirtations, Company B, and so many more!!!
@@tlw1950 Great music choices! Hi nrg is so uplifting and happy music. I've heard that song take a chance on me, was it a Bobby Orlando production? I'm from the UK, and there was some great record companies doing hi nrg. Passion, Nightmare and Record Shack. Ian levine. Have you heard Shout it Out by Astaire it's great!
You are extremely handsome! Your beard, your face, your personality.
I'm looking forward to binging all your past videos and new ones 😎
P.s. I like your topics too!
Not all gay bars are the same. They vary a LOT in clientele, themes, etc. But, in general, I love gay bars--it's really nice to be with our community. 🙂
Great story Matin! I can picture the guy trying to drag you to the restroom and you hanging on for dear life jaja 😁 . I have social anxiety as well and am intimidated by gay bars . So how did you find your circle of gay friends? social media?
I’m glad you liked the story!! My circle of gay friends is actually mostly you guys😂 Irl I’m mostly either training, working, eating, and sleeping on repeat😅
Also just like you I’m highly intimidated by gay bars and clubs so I understand💀
Hey matin where are you now??
You are doing great , so adorable , there’s much more then this story as you know , the man that catches you in a net of love will be very lucky
The best to you from USA , NY , I assume you are in Toronto, enjoy there is so much to enjoy ♥️
Definitely true about the heads turning to see who just walked in. But I would say the effect is somewhat increased when you’re like 7 feet tall and gorgeous
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Keep going love your videos !❤️🔥
Thanks for the support!! Love you so so much!❤️
I'm not able to focus on his words when I'm watching him .damnn he has super cute way of talking stay blessed nd lv u lemme see your cuteness once again❤
I have to say that being with a "Mean gay" can drain your energy out fast. You can feel your eye's bag tired and your brain just numb. In that situation, you just need to be at home in your bed sleeping like a baby. He pulls your hand insisting to follow you to a bathroom, that's like a child's attempt to force someone. What is this, Mama? I would just drop it and leave the place dramatically hahaha Really love your transition act at @2:00 so natural. This would be the future of acting.
Well to be honest I can’t blame that guy for trying to get you in that bathroom!!! You’re so gorgeous and great personality. Love you 😘
Thank you, I really appreciate it! You sound like a pretty great person yourself and I’m sure you’re extremely handsome too, love you more❤️
Let me know when you’re in Pennsylvania. Love to meet you 😘
Hey, Matin! Hope you're doing fine. You've been inactive on your socials(atleast on instagram I suppose) Please let us know how you are. Judging by the video dates on your channel, I guess you upload just when time permits or if you're in the mood, so I don't think I have to worry too much. But wherever you are, have a wonderful day! And Happy Ramadan!!
Love you brother! Thanks for your stories.
You must start a career in acting! You are incredibly talented and handsome
P.S: I hope I will find someone like you😊 You are so cute!
You missed the great age of discos in Toronto. Chaps, Boots, Katrina's, Cornelius, Fly, The Barn... we danced all night.
always love it when my boyfriend (he doesn’t know it yet 🙄) uploads ❤️
Oh... did you mean... when MY boyfriend uploads?! 👁👄👁
You better watch out, i'm gonna fight you for him 💀
(Just kidding 😅... but still... he's MINE! 👹)
Lol😂love you so much❤️
Plssss Don’t fighttt😂 love you too😘❤️
War lol
it's all based on looks and good body if you don't have this then goodbye,most are so vain,it's a lonely depressing life based on looks
Your story was interesting to hear. Glad you stood your ground with that guy. Any way enjoy your videos, handsome.
Thanks for the support I really appreciate it❤️ also pretty sure you’re really handsome yourself😘
Wasn't ready for the plot twist😂. Amazingggggggggggggg
I wasn’t either when it happened💀my world turned upside down😂
Wow, I am glad you are fine after that terrible experience! Take care!
Cute story from a cute man although I’m way past my first Gay bar experience😊 Mine was pretty funny also😂
Thank you! I’m pretty sure you’re very cute yourself!❤️And glad you also had a funny experience😆
In my experience, gay bars remind me of highschool. I haven't been to one in years and don't plan on it. I never got pulled into a bathroom but I have experienced the mean judging, side eyes, and cattiness. It's nasty. I thought they would be more welcoming, I was very wrong.
That feeling of going to a gay bar for the first time 😂🥴
We have to go together some other time so it can “beshoore bebare” this shitty experience😭😂
Matin is so appealing and funny. He is a total UPPER.
I was so invested in this entire story 😂😂😂😂
Matin, you’re an excellent story teller!
This English teacher approves. ❤
Thank you, Michael🥹I'm really glad you liked the story and approve of it😁It feels great coming from you❤️
Would it be okay if I add you on IG and/or TikTok? Or is that weird? haha@@matraeisi
OMG, that's basically sexual harassment or an attempted oral rape! I'm glad you stood your ground. The way that guy behaved was beyond pathetic and desperate lol
It is so awful when anyone is ill treated in public spaces like these. This is why it is good to have company around, if possible. Take care, God bless.
I’ve watched a couple of your videos, thank you but I keep wondering how you learned English. I wouldn’t think you learned in Iran. You speak beautiful English.
Hello, I don't know English but I'm watching your video.
Hi, thanks for the support even if you didn’t understand the video🥹❤️ i hope technology advances in the future so they can add auto subtitles so that you can enjoy the videos as well!😘
@@matraeisi Thank you, I will try to understand your video and I decided to learn English. I would be very happy if someone could help me learn English. Best regards.
Where are you? 😢
Agha e Raessi , love , respect and regards from Pakistan 🇵🇰. . Love u so much ❤
Thank you, I send so much love and respect to you as well❤️
Really need advice.
Iam in my early 30s been through some realtionshits, thought i wanted nothing to do with love anymore, but recently i stumbled upon someone out of the blue, we started talking and we had some real chemistry mentally n physically, we have been communicating for about two weeks now, just learning about each other, i feel like this could really work but somehow i feel he is holding back so i pull myself in aswell.... He doesnt ask me much personel questions so i feel like i dont want to inavde his privacy either, hence i end up giving like 5 minutes before i reply to his text because i dont want to seem too clingy, i get mixed feelings from him and i dont know if he is getting the same mixed feeling from me too because of the way i give him his space, i really like him alot but dont want to invest emotions n end up getting hurt, iam invested yes a little part of me but confuses too, should i pull out now, or wait for him to make his mind up... Need ur advice.
I love your content man! You have an awesome personality! You help make me get comfortable in my own skin.
What are the chances of me getting your number? Hahaha jk
Keep up the good work 😆
What a disgusting experience ! I'm so glad you had the wherewithall to oppose that jerk ....
Matin I said a question but the question is vanish. Is it wrong question for community guidelines?
Well you are brave and good on you for standing up for yourself and to what you strongly felt about not going to the toilet , obviously you have alot more class so good for you like I always say your a Angel 😇
In my very early days I went to a pub/disco near my home; a good friend came in on his very first visit to a gay disco uand he nearly died when he saw me there. He left in a hurry before I saw him. He phoned his wife and asked her advice; she said 'Well, he's got to know eventually so you had better go back in!'.
When is your birthday?
I have a friend who I kinda sorta suspect wants to drag me into a gay bar and see what happens next. Not for his sake by the way, he's straight and implied several times during our conversations that he wanted to do the matchmaker or the wingman for me.
The thing is that I'm an introverted (and probably on the spectrum) guy who doesn't like crowds, noisy places, small talk, and have no idea how to flirt. Also I never set a foot into a gay bar, I probably don't belong there anyway...
But I do wonder what would happen in this situation.
Oh you poor baby, you had to fight off a sexual assault, gained a stalker, and had a bad blind date all within 45 minutes. I have been to four gay bars here in NYC a handful of times, and each time it terrible experience for me. I prefer the straight bars, myself.
I’m sorry you always had a terrible experience😭 hope you have fun if you ever decide to go to one again❤️
@@matraeisi The clubs are let down (or at least the ones I have been, too), they are boring, overpriced, and not what they used to be.
gurllll i miss u sm!!!! love you take care boo
Miss you more girly! Love you too and you take care as well❤️
We need a sexy gay bar story that actually worked out now!
Please upload moreeeee talk moreee story time moreeeeeee 😩
Your videos are my therapy 🤍
Thanks for always being here hamza🥹❤️
so adorable. would be surprised if he didn't have a line of stalkers, although admittedly creepy to have the power taken from you by a stranger. Not sure that the stalker was a mean gay...more like an obsessed and horny gay. thank god I'm now old and not having to rely on bars.
I will always remember my 1st time. I went out scared so with some gin inside me I ventured out. It was so good I went out the next night (without the gin)and had a really good time.
Glad you had a really good time your first time😁 thanks for sharing❤️
If my sentence is wrong please do understand.
WHEREEEEEEEE ARE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUU????????????? MWAH
Let's hope he's safe and sound. I wondered if he was exposing himself too much.
after 50 you disappear, no more heads turning in your direction as you enter the bar, enjoy it while you can. ;-)
Sad to hear this was your experience but if it will somewhat make you feel better, I personally find men over 50 to be really attractive and always turn my head!(genuinely)❤️
no not sad - just a light at the end of the tunnel if head turning troubles you.
I don't know ur standards are too High.
Or ur conditions are so complicated.
I don't think people like u don't have a boyfriend.
What an amazing personality u r!
I would love to date a person like u.
Not only handsome, mature but ur naughty mind 😂😂oh.....
If he really liked you he should have asked you out on a date rather than trying to get in your pants. For me the most fun thing to do at a bar is dance; because it is such a stress reliever.
Did you rhyme pants and dance on purpose? Because it was genius😆 And I definitely agree! I myself actually always only dance in clubs as it’s the most fun thing about them especially if the DJ is good😍
I can't take credit for that it just happened lol. Years ago I use to go out and dance for 3 hours and then go home.@@matraeisi
Matin give vlog quickly .I am waiting for your vlog .
Me thinking you said “He got the ji*z” but you actually said “He got the jest” after I played it again to hear better lol
Oh gurl that was a chop wtf is that! I've been in your shoes quite a bit myself and I'm also a big guy so no one's pulling anyway but damn! The audacity! The audacity these men have
Not us going through a similar thing😭 fr the audacityyyyy of these men🤣💀
My first time in a gay bar was so terrible first time when I walked in so many guys were looking at me and I didn’t know how to react to it I just turned around and walked away
Love you ❤️
Love you more❤️🥰
I think you’re a really great storyteller. I think it comes with being an art major. You’re also very handsome and good looking I’m sure you’ll find love with a HOT MAN very very soon especially at the rate you’re becoming popular as a vlogger. Remember sex sells so keep it up cutie! 🎉
You are so pretty
You should make vlogs too ☺
Would you really be interested in that? If so, Forsure!❤️
Obsessed.
Rn I'm jealous of u and admiring u at the same time.
You look very cute from what I can see on your pfp and I’m pretty sure you’re a really great person❤️ I’m in no way better than you for you to feel jealous🥺
@@matraeisi Awwwwe. No u're cute. U just know how to impress n u never stop.
What is your you tube subject?
I love your stories so much! If I was fixed up with a gorgeous 6’4” tall muscular Persian man, I would be desperate to have you want me as well. I wouldn’t be stupid enough to try to pull you anywhere that you didn’t want to go as I’m 5’8” and 160 pounds!
Thank you!! You flatter me❤️
@@matraeisi It’s true, I gay Persian men! I follow many on Instagram and they are so friendly.
@@matraeisi One of my Persian friends is now studying for PhD in Montreal, Canada. He couldn’t be happier getting out of his oppressive country. He is a free citizen now but he is not a free man until he graduates. It’s something in electronics that I don’t understand. He will be able to visit the USA once he’s free of Iran. He is a great friend and is so very kind. He is going to learn Canadian French when he has more time. His English is almost as good as yours. He’s also a Bisexual top with a preference for men. He is a very, very hairy man.
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Omg yessss!
you are beautiful!
Do trust those friends
They got no close
lezzzzz goooo
You are so sweet and cute. Best of luck.
Hello ✨️
Hiiii✨😘
Awwwwwwww soooooo cuuuuuuute hi mati i love You so much You are the cutest guy in the world you are my dream boyfriend 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
@@chickensoup4080 same to you
Hiii👋🏼Thank you! Love you so much more🥰 you’re always so nice to me, and I really appreciate you for that🥹also I’m pretty sure you’re very cute yourself❤️
@@matraeisihi how are i miss you ❤❤❤❤❤ hope you doing well ❤
How are you ❤❤
Can we marry?😂😅
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I have never felt more judged than in a gay bar. Awful. This doesn't happen to me in straight bars, so I haven't been back to a gay bar for more than 12 years.
I’m sorry you felt that way☹️ straight bars are always chill and a good choice!