Has parenthood affected our relationship?

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  • Опубликовано: 31 янв 2025

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  • @RoseAndRosie
    @RoseAndRosie  Год назад +22

    Don't forget the first 100 people to use code ROSEANDROSIE will get 60% off Incogni by clicking the link right here 👉🏻 incogni.com/roseandrosie It's such a valuable tool, my inbox has never looked cleaner! 🥹

  • @ARINELSON93
    @ARINELSON93 Год назад +127

    Me realizing I’ve been watching you guys on and off since you were 21 😳 honestly though, seeing how you guys have thrived and experienced all the ups and downs of life and still manage to be a glimpse of the kind of love I’d want to have someday is so inspiring. Especially as a queer person! You guys are a beacon of positivity in the queer community you’ve created & I’m just so happy to see it and wish you guys nothing but the best in your journey. And I cant wait for the world to witness & embrace the beautiful human you guys are raising bc I know Ziggy is going to be one hell of a human! Much love to my Gemini Queens!!♥︎♥︎♥︎

    • @RoseAndRosie
      @RoseAndRosie  Год назад +12

      What a lovely comment 🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️

    • @ARINELSON93
      @ARINELSON93 Год назад +2

      meant every word!!

    • @florbalsamo4727
      @florbalsamo4727 11 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@ARINELSON93 Wow, you couldn't have said it better! I was gonna write a comment but didn't know where to start, and your comment is exactly how I feel.
      I love how they've grown and that is the kind of love I would love to have. Right now I'm about to have a baby on my own, so about to experience the biggest love. But definitely would love this type of relationship in the future ❤

  • @bigstronkgorl2138
    @bigstronkgorl2138 Год назад +53

    It’s so insane how I’ve been watching yall since I was probably 13-14 & I’m 25 now. Yall have made me laugh too many times to count. Thanks for helping me, yall are the best :)

    • @arijeanz
      @arijeanz 10 месяцев назад +2

      me too, i remember watching them because i was so lonely being queer in a small town and i was desperate to see happy, adult, successful gay people, and now I'm grown and i feel so much less alone and happier and im so glad to see rose and rosie still going strong all these years

  • @lennonbrooks1083
    @lennonbrooks1083 Год назад +83

    Seeing the evolution of your relationship has been such an honor and delight

  • @kelliscatlett9459
    @kelliscatlett9459 Год назад +57

    Having children does change a relationship. The focus on yourself morphs onto your child. It's important to get your shine back and put work into each other.

  • @MissTwilightHater
    @MissTwilightHater Год назад +12

    I don't know anyone who suits a ponytail as much as Rose

  • @deblordoutdoors5783
    @deblordoutdoors5783 Год назад +21

    I can totally relate to what Rose said about letting go of perfection. I moved in with my wife after living my own life and having no responsibility, into a relationship where I was a step-parent to a 2 year old. Having a toddler rifling through my things, sitting on my knee while I was trying to do my make-up, waking me up at 5:30 in the morning, spilling things in my car, was all a pretty tough learning curve, but I wouldn’t change it for the world. 16 years later we have a beautiful 18 year old who just went to uni, and who is independent, intelligent, funny, and kind. And I’m learning for the first time what life is like WITHOUT a child in the home every day! It’s definitely an adjustment the other way round too. X

  • @alexd9551
    @alexd9551 Год назад +15

    I bet Rose loved having the chance to put in that "running away from Rosie" clip. 😂

  • @bertieborough
    @bertieborough Год назад +24

    You are both, just such a breath of fresh air, I know Ziggy is going to have an incredible childhood.

  • @erin_6o3
    @erin_6o3 Год назад +34

    It’s obvious you both are KILLING IT as parents. That boy is so sweet, so smart and so kind. You’re also an amazing couple. You should be really proud of how far you’ve come.
    More importantly though, how is Rose 80, but looks 25??? ❤😂

  • @makylie5247
    @makylie5247 Год назад +3

    Speaking of unrestricted internet access, I've been watching your guys' channel ever since I was 11 years old and now I've just turned 18... You guys have been in parenthood for way more than two years lmao you've got this

  • @qquack1950
    @qquack1950 Год назад +4

    “I was like get me off this tractor” killed me

  • @SewFrancine6120
    @SewFrancine6120 Год назад +7

    Couples have the hardest time when their kids are 11+ months. It’s a delicate time, the physical effort it takes from the primary caretaker and they get tuckered out and overwhelmed by so much physical contact. We also want to remember that you both watched different marriages growing up, some parts you liked some parts you didn’t, your partner saw different marriages and took the plus and minus and brought them to your marriage. So remember to be kind, parenting and marriage really puts a test to your ability to communicate your actual needs….
    Stay Safe, Happy, be amazing communicators and don’t go to sleep grumbly..
    Peace, love and faith.

  • @A2daM2daZ
    @A2daM2daZ Год назад +1

    I think its beautiful that you acknowledge you'd like more time to connect w each other, and talk about things other than your child, while also saying that you love talking about your child and that specifically the task of parenting together is so enjoyable. I think that's fine if both people in the relationship agree. It's true that people change, but so long as they both have the same general interests, or priorities in the relationship, it doesn't have to be a "problem" that you are less intimate, or that your lives are more centered around your child for a period of time. It's only a problem if you don't communicate and you aren't on the same page about it all.
    This all coming from a single person lmao. Keep living the dream for me.

  • @agirlsarahandherhuskyluna
    @agirlsarahandherhuskyluna Год назад +5

    After watching the video of Zig bashing the egg basket on the wall, I'm really looking forward to seeing how he deals with his threenager and fournado years 😂

  • @sevcandogruyol6537
    @sevcandogruyol6537 Год назад +8

    I just love it when you upload a video and I open it to see it's one of the old school couch videos 🎉 Hugs to you and Zigmond, Ziggery, and of course sir Zigzag

  • @leeadler8401
    @leeadler8401 Год назад +3

    Trying to protect Ziggy into his teenage years will be challenging, but I think with both of you by his side, he’ll be ok. Of that I have no doubt x

  • @cariiinen
    @cariiinen Год назад +3

    Having time to (continue to) get to know each other is so important!

  • @LovelyDancy
    @LovelyDancy Год назад +4

    Been watching you since dating era to getting engaged, getting married, pregnancy, birth of ziggy until this day. You keep slaying ❤🎉

  • @nick_jh61
    @nick_jh61 Год назад +3

    You have both transitioned into parenthood so well. ❤ Ziggy is a credit to you. You have so much to look forward to. Honest. 😊

  • @Moongayze42024
    @Moongayze42024 Год назад +3

    Having my son Gatsby and becoming a mom is the best thing I've ever done and no I can't remember life without him I don't want to. I used to be so much more depressed and I'd feel the need to go out all the time cuz I didn't want to be stuck in a house but now half the time I think about going out and I'm like nah I want to stay in with Gatsby and we have a great time playing ghost busters and pretending to go buy happy meals and pizza he's 3 but he makes me laugh so much everyday cause of the way he lives life and expresses himself ❤

    • @annglavin3139
      @annglavin3139 Год назад

      Thank you for taking the time to talk about your family.i appreciate it.👍

  • @AlisonLove-c8b
    @AlisonLove-c8b Год назад +4

    The crayon on the wall is just a part of having a family. Take care guys 👍🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @annglavin3139
      @annglavin3139 Год назад

      Yes it is, just sand paper it off and paint over it a couple of times 👍

  • @shelbietodd
    @shelbietodd Год назад +1

    Best parents EVER!!! ❤️✨

  • @peternoone8483
    @peternoone8483 Год назад +2

    Both looking lovely

  • @cecemontemayor9696
    @cecemontemayor9696 Год назад +1

    Thank you Rose and Rosie for being a safe space for queers and for taking us with you on your journeys

  • @NoisyTumbleDryer
    @NoisyTumbleDryer Год назад +2

    12 years! Holy wow I had no idea was that long! We're at 7, and your 100% bang on with your assessment, so, guess getting wiser with age, age comes wisdom 😂 but also got hotter! 😂 trying make you feel better, is it working 😅

  • @AnaJulia-kg8en
    @AnaJulia-kg8en Год назад +4

    Hello!! love you guys, all the love from brazil

  • @jackvandersluis1723
    @jackvandersluis1723 Год назад +2

    I think you 2 are very resposable parents! Making the best from your mariage! And with Ziggy makes it just the best! 👍👍❤️❤️

  • @claudiapena723
    @claudiapena723 Год назад +2

    Amo la hermosa familia que han logrado!

  • @billythekid634
    @billythekid634 Год назад +2

    Nothing will make you grow up more quickly than having children.
    You both are doing a great job with Ziggy, if or when you have another child it will be a doddle for you lol…. Seriously I think in the future safety online will be much better than now,the only thing that worries me is what sort of world they will be living in going forward.

  • @alisonxra
    @alisonxra 10 месяцев назад

    I started watching you guys when I was 21. I’m 30 now 😅

  • @annamontezuma8501
    @annamontezuma8501 11 месяцев назад +2

    “Or is bisexuality just a phase” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @iris6935
    @iris6935 Год назад

    Merry Christmas guys.....💙

  • @lulucolby8882
    @lulucolby8882 Год назад +8

    You’re not other people’s monkeys - Who cares if some rude folks are asking you to kiss more etc.
    You are both perfect, just living your lives.❤

    • @lulucolby8882
      @lulucolby8882 Год назад +1

      I’m feel’n so good, if I felt any better, the US GOP would try to make it a sinful crime! Lol

    • @lulucolby8882
      @lulucolby8882 Год назад +1

      How are you fwogsrule3?

  • @lukeskywalker5418
    @lukeskywalker5418 Год назад +7

    1 view and posted 22 seconds ago... I just know that I will never be this early again in my life.

  • @oliviajake378
    @oliviajake378 Год назад

    Great vid ladies!

  • @Lightworker87
    @Lightworker87 Год назад +2

    Phone prison is wild 😂

  • @mwernli2886
    @mwernli2886 Год назад

    4:46 ROSE! 😂.

  • @HPerm.
    @HPerm. Год назад

    I love your videos!!!

  • @agincourtdb
    @agincourtdb Год назад +2

    EXCELLENT choice of question but let’s set that aside for a moment and marvel at how pretty you both look in this video who IS (are) SHE (they) ❤️🐸

  • @scubagoldfish45
    @scubagoldfish45 Год назад

    Great TED talk!!

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 Год назад +3

    😎😃😊😜😍😘💖🌹You are truly excellent role models. If I had daughters, gay or not, I would have them watch ALL 10+ years of your videos.

  • @bnshark87
    @bnshark87 Год назад +3

    You go from "terrible twos" to "threenagers" to "f you fours" ...and then they go to kindergarten.

  • @LindaSullivan21.
    @LindaSullivan21. Год назад

    Loved the video frogs…see you soon..🎉

  • @gabriellesantos835
    @gabriellesantos835 Год назад

    ❤❤ Love this

  • @caitlynskiff2001
    @caitlynskiff2001 Год назад +3

    That tractor guy was sooooooo wrong about not sleeping in the same bed. My parents don't sleep in the same bed and they have been married for 40 years. It all depends on the relationship.

  • @howardcohen4845
    @howardcohen4845 Год назад

    ❤ you two are wonderful ❤️ 😊😅

  • @tyreesetjjoyner1995
    @tyreesetjjoyner1995 Год назад

    Good video, ladies

  • @graceygrumble
    @graceygrumble Год назад +8

    "You said you wouldn't catch my poo!" - Rosie, very, very pregnant and hormonal.
    "I spoke in haste!" - Rose was traumatised by the fact that Rosie was feeling genuinely vulnerable about what she had said. The fun, piss-taking, comedic persona of Rose evaporated.
    They breath life into each other. They brought another life into the world.
    Through all of the fun, piss-taking, comedic, embarrassing, mental health issues, confidence, insecurity, spoken views, beliefs, challenges, attempts, agro, upsets and joy, one thing has remained constant - their love for each other.
    If they ever split up, they would both be shattered husks. But, that isn't going to happen, so sit back and relax and keep an eye on one of the most entertaining, anthropological studies you will find.
    Love, a toad.

  • @rosieima2311
    @rosieima2311 Год назад

    احبكم ❤❤❤

  • @monkeyzuncle1
    @monkeyzuncle1 Год назад

    I feel very different having married my wife. It feels...sacred. Like walking into a Cathedral. (we're not religious and gay AF).

  • @shainajoseph5040
    @shainajoseph5040 Год назад +1

    I just see there are 99 comments and i want to make it 100.

  • @andgainingspeed
    @andgainingspeed Год назад +1

    Rose and Rosie are mum and mummy? That tracks. BTW - If anyone else, besides "the boy", approaches one of Rose's wall with a crayon ... 💀

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 Год назад

    💜💜💜💜

  • @annikaculhane3596
    @annikaculhane3596 Год назад

    DIFFERENT SPON?? 🤨

  • @BSDMSlaveUK
    @BSDMSlaveUK Год назад

    You're right gold fish

  • @Oneness298
    @Oneness298 Год назад

  • @sevyabonin-briginshaw6500
    @sevyabonin-briginshaw6500 Год назад

    The audio seems a bit harsh / tinny - but maybe it's just me! :)

  • @ioanagabrielapopescu4101
    @ioanagabrielapopescu4101 Год назад +1

    The way i clicked so fast

  • @susanmiller6023
    @susanmiller6023 Год назад

    I would have loved to have children, but I couldn't have children.

  • @Fifferz
    @Fifferz Год назад

    no crumbs left

  • @danielmorrissette4757
    @danielmorrissette4757 Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cher_lloyd_by_cher_lloyd
    @cher_lloyd_by_cher_lloyd Год назад

    Does PO Box 1156 Helmeiser St, Kennington UK SE11 still exist?

  • @Kayrosa22
    @Kayrosa22 Год назад

    Gen Z could never! Lol 🤣🤣🤣 Truer words have never been spoken

  • @AlyssaMarie1
    @AlyssaMarie1 Год назад +2

    First!!!

  • @giftgiftzy1
    @giftgiftzy1 Год назад +1

    Second!!!!!

  • @dimwitdove3813
    @dimwitdove3813 Год назад

    1 min

  • @matthewwhittington-jk9ep
    @matthewwhittington-jk9ep Год назад

    No

  • @13thAMG
    @13thAMG Год назад

    Well, growing up if I had tried to put my phone down or in my pocket, people would have stared at me like I was nuts and probably would have had me psychologically examined ...
    because the phone was wired to the wall and the size of a fucking Toaster! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mariam-ss8xl
    @mariam-ss8xl Год назад

    i love watching y’all, and sharing experiences in life together on videos. been watching since i was 15 and i’m 18 now and don’t plan on stopping 🫶🏼