@@justsayin1991 I really don’t. It’s an assumption. It sounds like a seven week girls trip. It’s a generalization, I’ll admit that. A man would likely be cheating if he did the same. Mid-life crisis. The grass is always greener on the other side. Sometimes.
If she was in love, she wouldn't be able to go a day without him......7 weeks ...that is one shy of boot camp.......If she can girl trip for THAT long, the husband is just the bill payer, yard mower, and grocery getter.
Several years ago, my wife claimed that she was now retired and no longer needed to work. Against my wishes, she let her medical certifications expire and started traveling all over including foreign countries and I was expected to foot the bill. Fast forward to today, my ex-wife is struggling to maintain her lifestyle and still doesn’t have a job and cannot pass the latest certification test so she cannot work in the medical field. She doesn’t get any alimony or child support.
That's on her! Kudos. I am glad I never got remarried. Been single since 2017. Been divorced since 2012. Own my own place, my own vehicle ( no mortgage or car payment). Everything is paid off. I work from home. I don't blame you one bit.
I was with you until you said no child support🤔 do you have children with her and if so who takes care of them? I was just trying to follow along and not make assumptions.
Her gal pals all convinced her it would be ok. He would just be thrilled to.see her when she got back. Her devastation is because she knew it was wrong but thought he would forgive her.
7 week vacation? No dude. That was no vacation. He was absolutely right to dump her. And any woman that goes on a girl’s trip or girl’s night out should be dumped immediately. No discussion. No second chance. That’s her looking for another man. There is no other reason for that.
No , it takes a genius to get them to admit it and take accountability for what their actually doing and just not lie about it until they're fucking nailed down with the truth and evidence and shit
A girl's week trip is something that girls do when they're single, not in a relationship. In other words, that's a red flag for a high percentage of unfaithfulness coming up.
The gaslighting they often use is you are insecure, don't you trust me, and you are controlling. Never fall for gaslighting. Hand her divorce papers before she even goes on vacation
I am French, I have officially almost 8 weeks of vacation I never ever take more 4 at once and always with family. 7 without him and the kids to see old friends? Come on... That s not a red flag it is may first parade in a communist country!
Translation of what actually happened: she had a dude lined up to cheat with on this 'vacation'. He railed her for the duration, but had zero intent on anything serious with a married mother of three. It all came crashing down and now she's back and wants to resume him financing her life for her and at least her kids. Jury's still out on whether they are his as well
I suggest all men DNA test their kids just as a standard. You don't have to tell your wife if you think it will cause drama but I tell any woman I'm serious with that if we have kids, I'm DNA testing them. Its not about not trusting her but Before I sign any legal document, I like to make sure I dot all my i's and cross all my t's. I ain't signing no birth certificate without all the relevant information.
Not sure why anyone gets married anymore. There is no real benefit to the man these days. And I know this is a bit cliche, but if said person is not religious, then who cares to get married? And if I were to ever get married, I'd rather be married by Elvis in Vegas to be honest. LOL. So isn't it all just a joke nowadays? If I want to stay with someone the rest of my life, I will. And if there are kids, we'll work it out if it ends. That's all.
@@SocialistWorkerDroneI have a better idea, why worry about finding the right woman, just don’t get married, marriage is one less stressful headache you have to deal with, women want something nowadays that’s never existed, a man who will bust his ass for them and put up with their impossible demands, they tend to always look at another person’s relationship and feel like the one they’re in doesn’t measure up, ever notice how they always complain about what you’re not doing instead of appreciating what you’re doing, a smart man would never marry it doesn’t benefit you 😉
Good for the husband on filing for a divorce. A 7 week vacation?! This is one of the reasons why men don't ever want to get married anymore. And for a wife to take a 7 week vacation, is a major red flag!!
Why you say men, men in the US. Not rest of the western world. But its ok for the husband to go on a 6 weeks vacation right? And bye the way the husband told her to go😂😂
@kennethjsvold9212 OP was fine with her going for a couple weeks, not seven. The person paying all the bills AND helping take care of his own kids needs breaks too and she dumped 100% of everything on him for 7 weeks. Seriously jeopardized their family with her selfish bullshit, she deserves to be divorced. Now she can get a taste of OPs life.
Sounds like she spent 7 weeks trying to find another guy to replace her husband and no one wanted a single cheating mother of 3 so she came back to him.
It reminds me of a dating profile I came across once. She was fairly attractive and then I read her bio and she said that she had five kids. I was like "Yeah, gonna pass on that."
In short. She disrespected her husband, her kids, her marriage. I don't feel weird about him not feeling it anymore. She's showed her lack of respect for her own selfish needs. When you have two beautiful kids, you just don't do that.
She was stayed at home wife, he worked full time, but she's the one feeling tired by taking care of their kids and in need of vacation so he can keep both working( so she has money for her vacations) and on top of that taking care of kids she's so tired of...
@@jamesadams2334 yea, each of them worked and each of them had their job, she took care of kids, he took care of money, but only she ended up so tired and overworked to need weeks long break from everything including her family and only he ended up filling the gap and doing both his and her job. wonder how she would react if he said he's overworked and need to go on hols without her, would she kept her mouth shut and just stepped in and start earning money for both of them while still caring for the kids?
7 weeks of her sleeping around with other men! These women are always clever in pretending they are good. She just doesn't' want to lose her resource provider.
The man fell out of love because he saw what his wife was really about, which was herself. She in essence, divorced her family for 7 weeks and then wanted everything to go back to normal. No commitment in life works that way.
I would eject her no good behind, and until she was out I'd neither be intimate nor show any signs of affection whether verbally or physically. She'd be relegated to merely roommate & coparent status.
Even if she was not sleeping around, she abandoned the family so she could go play. NIW she is devastated because she is going to have to get a job. I don't think.she gives a rats about her husband or kids.
Just reading the title reminded me of one reddit story : girl goes on a 6 weeks vacation to Europe with her college friends while the wedding is supposed to be a month after her return, declares out of the blue that they'll be on a break just after her fiancé accompanied her at the airport, ghosts him during those 6 weeks without any explanation and she was still shocked he cancelled everything, told his POV to everyone (including mutual friends and her family, who didn't know what was going on) and the fact that he was not interested about what she did during her vacation but why she said they have to be on a break just before her departure... Some people really think they can do anything without any type of consequences... 🤦🏾♂️😧
She may or may not have been. But she was covering her tracks just in case. That was the biggest red flag in all this. The first thing she wanted to do after 7 weeks was get her husband’s love offering?
Or she got pregnant by the mailman and needed to get a "procedure" so her husband wouldn't find out. Seven weeks allows for lots of recovery time, and still mess around when she's feeling better. He should DNA test his kids and arrange a lengthy lie detector test (as an alternative to marriage counseling). He's better off without her.
Quite likely. I'd be dna testing the kids too. Even if she wasn't pregnant, it was an attempt to love bomb him as a fake apology and to show what a dutiful wife she was after having her back blown out for 7 weeks.
My ex from 12 years ago tells me one day that she was going to Myrtle beach for a week, so I tested the situation and said "That's fine. I'll just go to Ocean City Maryland the same week you go S. Carolina." And of course she got upset with me, so I dumped her right then cause I AM NOT PLAYING THAT GAME with anyone. She was literally as bright as a broken light bulb, and easy to read. Then for fun I sent her pics of the 2 women I dated while I while in Maryland. I still sometimes see 1 of them to this day. She never went to Myrtle Beach cause she thought she was gonna borrow the money from me. SMH. Can you believe that? They want so much, and yet they are always broke. I ain't no ones bank. Get your own. And that all actually happened.
So she plans a single vacation for A week and was expecting you to foot the bill. Did she think you were insane? I had a work buddy who's fiance was doing a four day weekend to Vegas with the girls. He was ok with it until.he offered to fly in Saturday morning and they could do.some shows. She got pissed and told him NO! The girls and her had already made plans up to Sunday night, then fly back Monday morning. Well when she returned they were no longer engaged. Her trip was a disguised hook up with her college BF. She decided she liked him better. In the end he found a much nicer gal. One that would never go on a girls trip.
@@ronhall5395 When us men are in relationships, every vacation is to be together. And yeah, she thought she could get the money from me as I pretty much paid for everything anyways. Thing is I've never been a sucker, or whipped for any woman. And I believe in equality. So I use that quite often. As in this case. To bad they don't. They cry about it all the time, yet never do anything equal to us men. Remember, you're the prize, and what Women have offer, there are Millions of other women that have the same thing.
His love was replaced with resentment, then his resentment got replaced with indifference You go LADIES!! YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL!! NO CONSEQUENCES! KEEP IT UP!
If you want to know how women truly feel about this, ask them about the exact same scenario, but flip the genders. That‘ll tell you all you need to know. 7 weeks? FOH!
This is exactly what I do with every girl that argues with me. Girls can't help but be honest. The ones that usually don't agree and lie on that reverse scenario are usually broken af.
First of all, what is a real man? Exactly how is he supposed to stop her? I’ll tell you what a real man is, a man that will not stop a woman whose intent is to destroy a relationship for her own selfish needs. A “real” woman would never do such a thing.
Give me a freakin break. She took almost 2 months away from her husband on a girl's trip? Naww that was an open your legs fest for her. His mistake was marrying her in the first place. This is a prime example as to why men file for divorce. It has to be an egregious reason like this before most men will give up on the marriage and file. Unlike women who file for divorce 80% of the time for reasons like "I'm just not happy anymore" or "I'm BORED with him". More power to him for standing on business and divorcing her disrespectful ass.
@kennethsjvold9212 yep he pays the bills n works he provides a family and maintains it she just pooped out the kids, plus imagine the collective 3 yrs of pregnancy where he was getting no box
My wife got the opportunity to do this nursing training program in the Caribbean for a month... She immediately called me and asked if I could talk to my work about it and come with. Otherwise, she was going to turn it down. I got permission to go and work remote for that month. Scheduled to go this next july. I appreciate that she wouldn't even consider choosing to be away from me for that long. I feel the same way, especially in a foreign country.
Had a friend who’s wife went to Vegas with her friends. He didn’t say anything. He just listened to me and bugged and apple air tagged her purse, her favorite shoes, and her car. I helped. He was clam as heel when she got back. We went through the data and he was pissed. I had to take his weapons he was so pissed. I went to the divorce lawyer with him and we took the recordings and gps data. She got nothing in the divorce. Her kids don’t even talk to her. I used to record my ex wife. You really can’t trust people. “Trust but verify.”
Wow... That's a very patient man. I'm surprised that not only did he wait for her to come back from the 7-week trip but also waited another couple of weeks. I believe most men would have started filing for a divorce in the 2nd or 3rd week.
If not for the kids I am sure he would have put a for sale sign on the house and moved out. It sound like she was not in communication with him either.. That is abandonment.
Exactly. She was from then onward stained, tainted, polluted, and in no way any longer fit for her purpose as a wife. She was now damaged goods, and defiled.
My first wife told me about this new dude at her office had asked her out to lunch. I said okay and? She said it’s just lunch so in my mind she was going. I knew everybody at her office (real estate) and all the guys knew me and I owned a construction / remodeling business so I was the guy you don’t mess with. I said just let me know when you’re going. She asked why in a strange tone. I replied so I can change the locks before you get home. She was shocked and said it’s just lunch. I told her I’m not stopping you, I don’t play games and I have no time for the shenanigans. Your choice, my mind is already made up. I always went to the office to take her to lunch if I was working close by and her bosses knew me cause I’ve done work at their houses. A few weeks later I went there and met the new guy. I think I scared him.
You know, I was GOING to say there's nothing wrong with 2 coworkers going to lunch together . BUT then I thought to myself... how does cheating in the workplace start? People certainly don't just decide to bang in a broom closet because they walked past each other and have compatible equipment. It usually starts innocently enough..like with a lunch. So you're probably right reacting like you did.
@Cole-ui8bi It doesn't really matter if one or both are married, people regardless of gender just don't have any shame. Even if the AP is single it doesn't matter. He sees it as a challenge to get a married woman to break her vows. She sees it as doing something naughty and dangerous. So many women caught cheating do it for the thrill. The sex may not even be that good but she'll keep doing it for the thrill.
The single father had 7 weeks to see he was autonomous with the kids. He did not need a woman not invested into the family. Basically, all he needs is a part time baby sitter to replace the contribution the low grade wife. She did not really care about the kids and probably will not get custody.
@@scarletlady3727 Oh yes, the desperate loser who thinks we are not living in the real world. Oh no that is me!!! Please let me dream some judge will see the clues this women is unfit to care for the children.
The dude is not in the wrong for dumping his 304 wife. His only mistake was not divorcing her 7 mins after she left on her “proper garden tool” trip. She should have come back to changed locks, divorce papers and her belongings outside the garage in garbage bags
I would never go away for 7 weeks and leave my family. I have gone away for a 3 day weekend without my family and I miss them the minute I leave.That is terrible. I don’t believe she didn’t cheat on him. Seven week girls trip = trouble. He IS NOT the A-hole!
I remember I had three week's vacation, I asked for two weeks at one time. He said if I could be gone that long, he did not need me! This woman found out the same answer. he did not need her!
This really backfired on her. After seven weeks, the husband realized he really didn’t need her around, that he could handle the kids, and his job, on his own. He’s definitely NTA!
Sex with chad is often very unsatisfying as they do not care about your pleasure at all and are often a little disgusted with fucking someone significantly beneath them. She may have genuinely been missing her lovey dovey beta after 2 months of being used by chad.
She wanted to experience what is like to be single temporarily so the husband decided to make it permanent. Self respecting men only give you one chance only!
My wife went 40 days in December w kids , didn’t talked to Me . Kid where w relatives while she was busy at other personal .. well I was out when she came back ..
A girls' trip is a cover for, "I was to have other guys." The minute she dropped that bomb was the time she declared the marriage was over. Other girls' trips follow. When she walked out with her suitcases, he should have had the rest of her stuff out in the yard. A girl's night out is a red flag, a time for them to meet Chad. Seven weeks, I would have changed the locks and filed before her first hour away.
I think 7 weeks just gave him time to stop missing her and to realize he is happier when she is not around. He probably didn't really love her for a way longer period of time. He just didn't realize it because she was always there.
She goes away on a seven week vacation, but you say he probably didn’t love her? What person that loves someone would purposely separate themselves for seven weeks especially when they live together, have children, and are married!
@@doublepromo8240 I am not saying that what she did is ok. But if you really love someone 7 weeks is not long enough to change it. But it is well enough to come to realization that in reality maybe you were not loving that person anymore but you were comfy with that person around. But now when they are not around you are happier, maybe more at peace, maybe less angry, maybe less tired.
@@korinogaroyou're definitely in the minority here. It's not only the duration of her "vacation" that's an issue. These girls trips are often cover for cheating. She said she wanted to hang out with high school friends in several different states. I guarantee you she was sleeping over different guys houses during that almost 2 month period. She didn't miss her kids or her SOLE PROVIDER husband that whole time. It's naive to think someone would go on a 7 week vacation in different states and nothing inappropriate occured.
The guy who's wife took a 7 week vacation is not an a-hole for wanting to end his marriage. He's an a-hole for asking any one if he's right for wanting to get rid of her. This guy will take her back. Only a guy who's wife would even consider taking a 7 week vacation on her own and leave her husband with 3 young children is a guy with very poor judgement in his choice of wife.
No. She will resent you for not allowing her to go. Resentment builds up, then she will start accusing you of being an abusive and controlling husband. Always give her a choice, but you make sure that you do not even hesitate to sever ties with her when she goes thru with her plans. If your woman loves you, she wouldn't even be thinking of abandoning you for so long in the first place. Why need to stop her from going when clearly she doesn't love you ?
She had men shooting loads in there for 7 weeks and then tried to get her husband to do her the first night back so she could pin the pregnancy on him!
She was devastated because she wasn't the one who initiated legally the divorce. She wanted counseling so she could divorce him later, after all, why would go on 2 months vacation without your husband if you really love him.
Thirty years married 2 Adult children.Wife left to go interstate to see HER grandson 3 years ago.Occasional phone call That,s it .Happy ? i got a get out of jail card. Don,t give a stuff if she never comes back. Got a great life Dating apps for nearly 60 yr old is great
She didn't deserve a first chance, what the heck was she thinking taking a 7 weeks girls vacation? I'd bet most of them were single and managed to 'persuade' there wouldn't be any problems
What parent can blow off their family for 7 weeks? The husband is justified in being hurt. Could a weekend not been enough to refresh? Wow. And if I understood correctly his job lets her stay home with the kids. Now he has to manage the house work and kids for almost 2 months?
I agree with the husband, especially with the kids involved. 7 weeks away vacation from your children doesn't sound like motherly material for me. I was away from my family for at least 3 weeks and I'm already homesick and missing my siblings. And if the mother of your children can handle 7 weeks, is she really a mother?
I can see why she needed a break. Raising kids can be taxing. But 7 weeks? Her husband not only had to handle the things she was doing in the marriage but all the things he was responsible for too... including work. 7 weeks would start to feel like she abandoned her family at a certain point. And while sometimes "absence makes the heart grow fonder"... too much of it could work against her... as he might start to notice there are benefits to her not being around too. And who funded this extended trip? And would she be okay if he took a guy's trip with his friends for 7 weeks? It probably would have been better to seriously scale back the trip to a week or 2 at most)... or go on a family vacation together instead.
As a single father of 2 that also works in the oilfield. Stay at home parenting is legit one of the easiest jobs I've ever had in my entire life. It's not taxing. Tripping pipe with -67 wind chill is taxing, hanging with my kids is vacation.
@@YamGarageWas it really that easy... doing both things (at work and in your home with kids)? Or did you have help to do that? After kids get to be a certain age... it definitely gets easier... because they can do more for themselves. But when they're little... they're clingy and they want attention. I can see why someone might want a break.
@@davidharding1299 Yup, their mom decided to sneak to the bar and bring a guy home where she proceeded to cheat on me 10 feet from our sleeping daughter, in our front yard... Was it easy doing both? No, but if my only job was to be a parent, parenting is quite literally the easiest thing I've ever done in my life. It's not work when they're your kids man. I don't know why everyone screams parenting is so hard. Love your kids more than yourself.
@@YamGarage I'm sorry to hear that. It must have been devastating to go through. At least your daughter still has you. I guess I would add that there are lots of stories of parents who should never have become parents. Not everyone has the mental toughness to deal with life as a parent. This just may be another one of those stories. And of course, we only got to hear one side of the story (which is what nearly always is the case with these videos). Her vacation may have been as much about seeing if the grass was greener elsewhere... as it ultimately was for him. She may just have not quite been all the way there yet when she got back after her 7 weeks "girls trip".
The guy was already just going through the motions. He resented her and that is never just a one off. He resented her before that because he was carrying 100% of the financial responsibility. The 7 week vacation just put that resentment in overdrive!
This guy has no nuts if my wife would’ve said she was going on a seven week trip without me she would’ve been handed her divorce papers before she left
Good choice, my brother. Good choice. She was no longer your wife the minute she left. She was everyone else's DNA dumpster. She went back to her old ways. She missed her old life.
Seven weeks away from her children doesn't indicate that she's a strong woman, but rather it indicates a weakness that she felt that she had to have this time free. Parents who remain with and caring for their children with little or no break are the strong ones.
A 7 week vacation is not a red flag, it's a checkered flag - game over.
Black flagged. You are disqualified and out.
@@OK753 strikes your out glad he divorced her it’s a home run for him.
@@mikehawkins4752
You know she had feminist friends who put her up to it. Now she can go anytime she wants after she finds a babysitter and the funds.
@elonever.2.071 Now she's on the streets where she belongs, and he's a free man. I can feel his relief.
Checkered flag.... I'mma have to remember that one. 😅
She abandoned the marriage to ride the carousel with her "girls". She returned to a divorce.
Her friends were for sure not married. Misery loves company.
@@anthonymiles1446 not for sure, they could have just been cheaters like her too.
@AndyViant your guess is as good as mine regardless misery loves company and birds of a feather flock together
Indeed!
We all know what happens when they go on the "all girls" trip.
It's not all girls.
She cheated on him at least a dozen times on that trip. Yet spreads her used legs and thinks what’s wrong?
She's been cheating the entire time they've been together. A wife who actually loves her husband wouldn't want to be away from him for two months.
And you know that how?
@@justsayin1991 I really don’t. It’s an assumption. It sounds like a seven week girls trip. It’s a generalization, I’ll admit that. A man would likely be cheating if he did the same. Mid-life crisis. The grass is always greener on the other side. Sometimes.
@@justsayin1991bruh 🤦♂️
Cuck or woman?
The wife believed she had a seven week pass to get her back blown out as often as she could. The ex-husband was right to return her to the streets.
Thats literally the only reason to go on one..
If she needs 7 weeks away from him, she doesn't really love him.
or her kids!
If she was in love, she wouldn't be able to go a day without him......7 weeks ...that is one shy of boot camp.......If she can girl trip for THAT long, the husband is just the bill payer, yard mower, and grocery getter.
How many guys did get railed by during those 7-weeks vacation
Yes, very true!!
7 Days is pushing it... and that should be for family emergencies.
Several years ago, my wife claimed that she was now retired and no longer needed to work. Against my wishes, she let her medical certifications expire and started traveling all over including foreign countries and I was expected to foot the bill.
Fast forward to today, my ex-wife is struggling to maintain her lifestyle and still doesn’t have a job and cannot pass the latest certification test so she cannot work in the medical field. She doesn’t get any alimony or child support.
Great win!!!!
That's on her! Kudos. I am glad I never got remarried. Been single since 2017. Been divorced since 2012. Own my own place, my own vehicle ( no mortgage or car payment). Everything is paid off. I work from home. I don't blame you one bit.
@@pimphandstrong6620brilliant 😂
Karma is a bitch
I was with you until you said no child support🤔 do you have children with her and if so who takes care of them? I was just trying to follow along and not make assumptions.
Women breaks vows and then gets shocked when she faces the consequences.
Nothing new at all...
What vow??
@@kennethsjvold9212 Marriage vows, perhaps? 🤡
@@kennethsjvold9212wedding.
7 weeks away, with old college friends, ditching him?
She cheated
@@venomslair137 her gfs will tell her, “ you go girl “
Her gal pals all convinced her it would be ok. He would just be thrilled to.see her when she got back. Her devastation is because she knew it was wrong but thought he would forgive her.
7 week vacation? No dude. That was no vacation. He was absolutely right to dump her. And any woman that goes on a girl’s trip or girl’s night out should be dumped immediately. No discussion. No second chance. That’s her looking for another man. There is no other reason for that.
Girls trip/vacation is a code that men have figured out.
I figured that out when I was 13 and I am 49 at this moment. It doesn't take a genius to figure that out.
No , it takes a genius to get them to admit it and take accountability for what their actually doing and just not lie about it until they're fucking nailed down with the truth and evidence and shit
@@truethat15 i would hack her phone, she would never know but i would know everything
@@truethat15 You basically have to threaten to upload all that evidence to social media.
And also, girls night out
A girl's week trip is something that girls do when they're single, not in a relationship. In other words, that's a red flag for a high percentage of unfaithfulness coming up.
The gaslighting they often use is you are insecure, don't you trust me, and you are controlling. Never fall for gaslighting. Hand her divorce papers before she even goes on vacation
I am French, I have officially almost 8 weeks of vacation I never ever take more 4 at once and always with family. 7 without him and the kids to see old friends? Come on... That s not a red flag it is may first parade in a communist country!
hahaha right! a million red flags
That sounds crazy who took that long for a vacay, ok now reverse it let him take 7 weeks vacation then!
American people work. They are lucky if they get 4 weeks of vacation per year. Taking a 7 week vacation is insane
@@ronRon-fl1qw That is why Americans have the highest standard of living. The productiveness of American workers is unrivaled on this planet.
True
Married women don't get to take trips like that. Even a single committed woman shouldn't get away with that.
Translation of what actually happened: she had a dude lined up to cheat with on this 'vacation'. He railed her for the duration, but had zero intent on anything serious with a married mother of three. It all came crashing down and now she's back and wants to resume him financing her life for her and at least her kids. Jury's still out on whether they are his as well
I would definitely get DNA's on all three of them during the divorce process.
She might give him sex, but it won't be for her pleasure... it would be for his contentment. She would just do it to shut him up.
Better to be safe than sorry.🤷♂️
@@elonever.2.071yep 7wk vacation let's me catch up on my sleuthing
I suggest all men DNA test their kids just as a standard. You don't have to tell your wife if you think it will cause drama but I tell any woman I'm serious with that if we have kids, I'm DNA testing them. Its not about not trusting her but Before I sign any legal document, I like to make sure I dot all my i's and cross all my t's. I ain't signing no birth certificate without all the relevant information.
That's not a vacation that's abandoning your family.
Once you know you know
That's my thought as well.
100 percent agreed.
Yup
His biggest mistake was to get married
Not sure why anyone gets married anymore. There is no real benefit to the man these days. And I know this is a bit cliche, but if said person is not religious, then who cares to get married? And if I were to ever get married, I'd rather be married by Elvis in Vegas to be honest. LOL. So isn't it all just a joke nowadays? If I want to stay with someone the rest of my life, I will. And if there are kids, we'll work it out if it ends. That's all.
24 years with the same woman, just pick the right woman and it is not a problem.
@@SocialistWorkerDrone 👏👏
@@SocialistWorkerDroneI have a better idea, why worry about finding the right woman, just don’t get married, marriage is one less stressful headache you have to deal with, women want something nowadays that’s never existed, a man who will bust his ass for them and put up with their impossible demands, they tend to always look at another person’s relationship and feel like the one they’re in doesn’t measure up, ever notice how they always complain about what you’re not doing instead of appreciating what you’re doing, a smart man would never marry it doesn’t benefit you 😉
@@SocialistWorkerDrone Not enough right women to go around.
if a husband and kids can live their lives without their mom/wife for 7 weeks,......... they apparently don't need her
And she made it clear to them, that she was not needed there
Bars sir
Absolutely
I would call it abandonment.
Good for the husband on filing for a divorce. A 7 week vacation?! This is one of the reasons why men don't ever want to get married anymore. And for a wife to take a 7 week vacation, is a major red flag!!
That's not a red flag. That's abandoned the marriage.
Why you say men, men in the US. Not rest of the western world. But its ok for the husband to go on a 6 weeks vacation right? And bye the way the husband told her to go😂😂
@kennethjsvold9212 OP was fine with her going for a couple weeks, not seven. The person paying all the bills AND helping take care of his own kids needs breaks too and she dumped 100% of everything on him for 7 weeks. Seriously jeopardized their family with her selfish bullshit, she deserves to be divorced. Now she can get a taste of OPs life.
@@GLoLChibs read the full story. She paid the bills not him. And he went on a 6 week vacation alone.
@@GLoLChibs lol how stupid you are, they are not divorced 🤣🤣
She was married, she needed to act like it and not like a teenager. What an a$$!
That was a 7 week 304 fest. Bravo for him not taking that tainted stuff probably saved him a trip to the dr.
She cheated so if she possibly got pregnant on the trip she can say it'd his that was her plan
7 weeks of a lot of Chad sausages
@@mikef2811 Chad, Tyrome, Miguel, Chang, Rosa, Brenda, La Fonda, Mei....
@@Nick_Nightingaledon't forget Tiffany. People always forget Tiffany
@@winchestersons6258 lol Went with Brenda but could be Tiffany. Les 3 way.
Sounds like she spent 7 weeks trying to find another guy to replace her husband and no one wanted a single cheating mother of 3 so she came back to him.
It reminds me of a dating profile I came across once. She was fairly attractive and then I read her bio and she said that she had five kids. I was like "Yeah, gonna pass on that."
In short. She disrespected her husband, her kids, her marriage. I don't feel weird about him not feeling it anymore. She's showed her lack of respect for her own selfish needs. When you have two beautiful kids, you just don't do that.
Don't forget. He also asked her to cut it short and she said no
7 weeks of riding the carousel with her ex high school and college roster. Leave her back on the street.
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7 weeks is crazy. It also gives the partner time to reflect on the relationship and come to realise you don’t miss them or love them anymore.
Yea women don't think further than the moment
She took an almost two months long cheating trip. I'm glad he saw through it.
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She was stayed at home wife, he worked full time, but she's the one feeling tired by taking care of their kids and in need of vacation so he can keep both working( so she has money for her vacations) and on top of that taking care of kids she's so tired of...
He worked at home too.
@@jamesadams2334 yea, each of them worked and each of them had their job, she took care of kids, he took care of money, but only she ended up so tired and overworked to need weeks long break from everything including her family and only he ended up filling the gap and doing both his and her job.
wonder how she would react if he said he's overworked and need to go on hols without her, would she kept her mouth shut and just stepped in and start earning money for both of them while still caring for the kids?
@@rehurekjfuuuuuuck no!!!
@@rehurekjonce you know you know
@@jamesadams2334the point was he doing two jobs while she only had 1 and she still need a 7 weeks break
She was cheating….period
7 weeks of her sleeping around with other men!
These women are always clever in pretending they are good.
She just doesn't' want to lose her resource provider.
She wanted a 7 week trip so she could run through all her old friends with benefits. She asked for the single life now she gets it.
The man fell out of love because he saw what his wife was really about, which was herself. She in essence, divorced her family for 7 weeks and then wanted everything to go back to normal. No commitment in life works that way.
Yep. Go sleep around for 7 weeks, then come back to live a SAHM life until her next trip paid for by the husband.
I would eject her no good behind, and until she was out I'd neither be intimate nor show any signs of affection whether verbally or physically. She'd be relegated to merely roommate & coparent status.
Even if she was not sleeping around, she abandoned the family so she could go play. NIW she is devastated because she is going to have to get a job. I don't think.she gives a rats about her husband or kids.
Just reading the title reminded me of one reddit story : girl goes on a 6 weeks vacation to Europe with her college friends while the wedding is supposed to be a month after her return, declares out of the blue that they'll be on a break just after her fiancé accompanied her at the airport, ghosts him during those 6 weeks without any explanation and she was still shocked he cancelled everything, told his POV to everyone (including mutual friends and her family, who didn't know what was going on) and the fact that he was not interested about what she did during her vacation but why she said they have to be on a break just before her departure...
Some people really think they can do anything without any type of consequences... 🤦🏾♂️😧
Because our society mollycoddles and readily victimfies women so they never have to take responsibility for their actions
She probably was pregnant and tried to initiate love making to cover her tracks. Sad.
That's an excellent observation. I didnt even think about that. Damn.
She may or may not have been. But she was covering her tracks just in case.
That was the biggest red flag in all this. The first thing she wanted to do after 7 weeks was get her husband’s love offering?
It’s a common occurrence women do pin the affair child on the husband.
Or she got pregnant by the mailman and needed to get a "procedure" so her husband wouldn't find out. Seven weeks allows for lots of recovery time, and still mess around when she's feeling better. He should DNA test his kids and arrange a lengthy lie detector test (as an alternative to marriage counseling). He's better off without her.
Quite likely. I'd be dna testing the kids too.
Even if she wasn't pregnant, it was an attempt to love bomb him as a fake apology and to show what a dutiful wife she was after having her back blown out for 7 weeks.
You decided to have multiple children. There are no "trips". Oh yeah, she cheated on him only a zillion times during that trip too.
When the Cat is away the mouse will play , she got ran through on her holiday
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There is no way she wasn't getting some strange on that girls trip, I don't blame the guy he did the right thing.
My ex from 12 years ago tells me one day that she was going to Myrtle beach for a week, so I tested the situation and said "That's fine. I'll just go to Ocean City Maryland the same week you go S. Carolina." And of course she got upset with me, so I dumped her right then cause I AM NOT PLAYING THAT GAME with anyone. She was literally as bright as a broken light bulb, and easy to read. Then for fun I sent her pics of the 2 women I dated while I while in Maryland. I still sometimes see 1 of them to this day. She never went to Myrtle Beach cause she thought she was gonna borrow the money from me. SMH. Can you believe that? They want so much, and yet they are always broke. I ain't no ones bank. Get your own. And that all actually happened.
That's alpha!
And on top of the insult, she wanted to borrow money to fund her trip? Getting rid of her was definitely no loss.
So she plans a single vacation for A week and was expecting you to foot the bill. Did she think you were insane? I had a work buddy who's fiance was doing a four day weekend to Vegas with the girls. He was ok with it until.he offered to fly in Saturday morning and they could do.some shows. She got pissed and told him NO! The girls and her had already made plans up to Sunday night, then fly back Monday morning. Well when she returned they were no longer engaged. Her trip was a disguised hook up with her college BF. She decided she liked him better. In the end he found a much nicer gal. One that would never go on a girls trip.
@@ronhall5395 When us men are in relationships, every vacation is to be together. And yeah, she thought she could get the money from me as I pretty much paid for everything anyways. Thing is I've never been a sucker, or whipped for any woman. And I believe in equality. So I use that quite often. As in this case. To bad they don't. They cry about it all the time, yet never do anything equal to us men. Remember, you're the prize, and what Women have offer, there are Millions of other women that have the same thing.
she needed the "tyrell"
His love was replaced with resentment, then his resentment got replaced with indifference
You go LADIES!! YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL!! NO CONSEQUENCES!
KEEP IT UP!
Consequence was divorce. Tf you mean?
If you want to know how women truly feel about this, ask them about the exact same scenario, but flip the genders. That‘ll tell you all you need to know.
7 weeks? FOH!
@@nasis18 without husband? even asking is red flag...
This is exactly what I do with every girl that argues with me. Girls can't help but be honest. The ones that usually don't agree and lie on that reverse scenario are usually broken af.
@@nasis18BS
When the 304 wants to act like single, give her what it wants immediately 😂
@@nasis18No any vacation away from her husband is unacceptable, especially with her single lady friends.
100%
Being away from your young children for 7 weeks is not a bit much, it is OUTRAGEOUSLY STUPID!
No REAL man would let their wife go on a fking 7 week vacation without you!!! You know she was cheating!
First of all, what is a real man? Exactly how is he supposed to stop her? I’ll tell you what a real man is, a man that will not stop a woman whose intent is to destroy a relationship for her own selfish needs. A “real” woman would never do such a thing.
@@doublepromo8240 -He stops her by saying, if you take this trip, it's over!! See, that was easy!
@@commonsenseisntcommon1776 With divorce paper in hand the moment she steps out of the house. Tell her not to come back.
@@mikef2811 -Amen!!! Who abandons their kids for 2 months?? I'll bet it was a hook-up with some Chad!
@@mikef2811exactly stay gone 🙎🙎🙎
She apologized after she had her "solo" fun for 7 weeks.
Give me a freakin break. She took almost 2 months away from her husband on a girl's trip? Naww that was an open your legs fest for her. His mistake was marrying her in the first place. This is a prime example as to why men file for divorce. It has to be an egregious reason like this before most men will give up on the marriage and file. Unlike women who file for divorce 80% of the time for reasons like "I'm just not happy anymore" or "I'm BORED with him". More power to him for standing on business and divorcing her disrespectful ass.
But it was ok that he tok a 6 week vacation alone right???
@kennethsjvold9212 yep he pays the bills n works he provides a family and maintains it she just pooped out the kids, plus imagine the collective 3 yrs of pregnancy where he was getting no box
My wife got the opportunity to do this nursing training program in the Caribbean for a month...
She immediately called me and asked if I could talk to my work about it and come with. Otherwise, she was going to turn it down.
I got permission to go and work remote for that month. Scheduled to go this next july.
I appreciate that she wouldn't even consider choosing to be away from me for that long. I feel the same way, especially in a foreign country.
If your wife going on a girls night out or girls trip just make sure she signed the divorce papers before departing....
Had a friend who’s wife went to Vegas with her friends. He didn’t say anything. He just listened to me and bugged and apple air tagged her purse, her favorite shoes, and her car. I helped. He was clam as heel when she got back. We went through the data and he was pissed. I had to take his weapons he was so pissed. I went to the divorce lawyer with him and we took the recordings and gps data. She got nothing in the divorce. Her kids don’t even talk to her. I used to record my ex wife. You really can’t trust people. “Trust but verify.”
Whats in recording
@@ShaneGrimes-pi3vf Moaning 😜😂 a lot of Moaning
I let mine go out w her friends all the time I go w mine 😂 way more than I do …..i don’t mind the compromise 😂
A night out to the movies and it's all married women I trust is one thing. A night out with single women I don't know would be totally different
Wow... That's a very patient man. I'm surprised that not only did he wait for her to come back from the 7-week trip but also waited another couple of weeks. I believe most men would have started filing for a divorce in the 2nd or 3rd week.
@@purika8324 1st day not week. Wives don't leave on solo vacation.
If not for the kids I am sure he would have put a for sale sign on the house and moved out. It sound like she was not in communication with him either.. That is abandonment.
If the genders in this scenario were divorced, nobody would question the woman for wanting to divorce her husband.
I think you meant "reversed," but, yeah.
No is questioning the man either
Yup, divorce would have happened and she would be praised for it.
Oh she cheated with many men and expected him to want her....nah!
Exactly. She was from then onward stained, tainted, polluted, and in no way any longer fit for her purpose as a wife. She was now damaged goods, and defiled.
7 week vacation away from husband and kids? Sounds toooo ridiculous to be true. NEXT.
49 nights of fuck with Chad...🤣🤣
My first wife told me about this new dude at her office had asked her out to lunch. I said okay and? She said it’s just lunch so in my mind she was going. I knew everybody at her office (real estate) and all the guys knew me and I owned a construction / remodeling business so I was the guy you don’t mess with. I said just let me know when you’re going. She asked why in a strange tone. I replied so I can change the locks before you get home. She was shocked and said it’s just lunch. I told her I’m not stopping you, I don’t play games and I have no time for the shenanigans. Your choice, my mind is already made up. I always went to the office to take her to lunch if I was working close by and her bosses knew me cause I’ve done work at their houses. A few weeks later I went there and met the new guy. I think I scared him.
How could a wife accept a lunch date with another man and say the words “it’s just lunch”. Crazy
You know, I was GOING to say there's nothing wrong with 2 coworkers going to lunch together . BUT then I thought to myself... how does cheating in the workplace start? People certainly don't just decide to bang in a broom closet because they walked past each other and have compatible equipment. It usually starts innocently enough..like with a lunch. So you're probably right reacting like you did.
Has your wife or anybody informed that guy that he's talking to a married person?
I want you as my boss shit lol
@Cole-ui8bi It doesn't really matter if one or both are married, people regardless of gender just don't have any shame. Even if the AP is single it doesn't matter. He sees it as a challenge to get a married woman to break her vows. She sees it as doing something naughty and dangerous. So many women caught cheating do it for the thrill. The sex may not even be that good but she'll keep doing it for the thrill.
The single father had 7 weeks to see he was autonomous with the kids. He did not need a woman not invested into the family. Basically, all he needs is a part time baby sitter to replace the contribution the low grade wife. She did not really care about the kids and probably will not get custody.
Nope, she will get full custody and he will pay alimony and child support
@@scarletlady3727 Oh yes, the desperate loser who thinks we are not living in the real world. Oh no that is me!!! Please let me dream some judge will see the clues this women is unfit to care for the children.
@@scarletlady3727 And despite knowing that is the likely outcome, he is still willing to go through with all that ... damn that says a lot
@@scarletlady3727 You could be right. But then, that truly spells the end of her 7-week 'vacations'.
The dude is not in the wrong for dumping his 304 wife. His only mistake was not divorcing her 7 mins after she left on her “proper garden tool” trip. She should have come back to changed locks, divorce papers and her belongings outside the garage in garbage bags
I would never go away for 7 weeks and leave my family. I have gone away for a 3 day weekend without my family and I miss them the minute I leave.That is terrible. I don’t believe she didn’t cheat on him. Seven week girls trip = trouble. He IS NOT the A-hole!
All she did is prove that her daily isn't important to her, as far as I'm concerned she abandoned them.
Thankfully young men have realized the ROI on marriage is a bad business deal.
At the moment she's got out their door.. he should file for divorce.. 7 weeks on a trip by herself being marriage isn't something anyone should do.
I remember I had three week's vacation, I asked for two weeks at one time. He said if I could be gone that long, he did not need me! This woman found out the same answer. he did not need her!
The smile on her face said it all!! She was definitely in a " GANG BANG" !!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
This really backfired on her. After seven weeks, the husband realized he really didn’t need her around, that he could handle the kids, and his job, on his own. He’s definitely NTA!
She was getting raw dogged and tried to hedge her odds on the 1st night back
Sex with chad is often very unsatisfying as they do not care about your pleasure at all and are often a little disgusted with fucking someone significantly beneath them. She may have genuinely been missing her lovey dovey beta after 2 months of being used by chad.
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She wanted to experience what is like to be single temporarily so the husband decided to make it permanent. Self respecting men only give you one chance only!
She got her back blown out period
My wife went 40 days in December w kids , didn’t talked to Me . Kid where w relatives while she was busy at other personal .. well I was out when she came back ..
Well that's really extreme because the last time I checked there were only 31 days in December.
@@johngray7297LOL she left in December
A girls' trip is a cover for, "I was to have other guys." The minute she dropped that bomb was the time she declared the marriage was over. Other girls' trips follow. When she walked out with her suitcases, he should have had the rest of her stuff out in the yard. A girl's night out is a red flag, a time for them to meet Chad. Seven weeks, I would have changed the locks and filed before her first hour away.
I'd have let her start her trip then changed the locks and told her parents to come and pick up her stuff.
Yeah sure I'm going to pretend SHE didn't got SEVRELLY RUN TRHOUGH this 7 week Trip 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She doesn’t regret the trip. She regrets the consequences of that trip and the fact that there’s nobody to clean up her mess.
She would have divorce papers waiting on her when she returned
He served her with the consequences of her actions. She is probably genuinely wondering why this is happening. The delusions of the modern women
So who was working, paying the bills, AND taking care of the kids while she was gone? Yeah, that's what I thought.
She was, not him bye the way. Read the full story
I can guarantee that she wasn’t faithful to her marriage vows
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My wife and myself would never even think of taking a vacation with out each other or the kids when they were at home.
You weren't worth a second chance and now you know why!
She is NOT “a strong women,” she just doesn’t care.
I think 7 weeks just gave him time to stop missing her and to realize he is happier when she is not around. He probably didn't really love her for a way longer period of time. He just didn't realize it because she was always there.
She goes away on a seven week vacation, but you say he probably didn’t love her? What person that loves someone would purposely separate themselves for seven weeks especially when they live together, have children, and are married!
@@doublepromo8240 I am not saying that what she did is ok. But if you really love someone 7 weeks is not long enough to change it. But it is well enough to come to realization that in reality maybe you were not loving that person anymore but you were comfy with that person around. But now when they are not around you are happier, maybe more at peace, maybe less angry, maybe less tired.
He fell out of love because he knew she was cheating and came to terms with it.
@@korinogaroyou're definitely in the minority here. It's not only the duration of her "vacation" that's an issue. These girls trips are often cover for cheating. She said she wanted to hang out with high school friends in several different states. I guarantee you she was sleeping over different guys houses during that almost 2 month period. She didn't miss her kids or her SOLE PROVIDER husband that whole time.
It's naive to think someone would go on a 7 week vacation in different states and nothing inappropriate occured.
@@odog76543 I am showing my good will. He didn't say he though she was cheating so I don't assume this was part of his thinking.
The guy who's wife took a 7 week vacation is not an a-hole for wanting to end his marriage. He's an a-hole for asking any one if he's right for wanting to get rid of her. This guy will take her back. Only a guy who's wife would even consider taking a 7 week vacation on her own and leave her husband with 3 young children is a guy with very poor judgement in his choice of wife.
Too many dudes has this fear of telling NO to their woman and enforce rules.
NO YOU CAN'T GO, if you do, we're done. Easy job.
Better speak up before she leaves period
@@DSrDavis-tq9qp That's the speaking "You can't go. If You go, we're done". Is her choice
No. She will resent you for not allowing her to go. Resentment builds up, then she will start accusing you of being an abusive and controlling husband. Always give her a choice, but you make sure that you do not even hesitate to sever ties with her when she goes thru with her plans. If your woman loves you, she wouldn't even be thinking of abandoning you for so long in the first place. Why need to stop her from going when clearly she doesn't love you ?
He did the right thing getting rid of her how disrespectful was most likely with another dude.
Many other dudes
She had men shooting loads in there for 7 weeks and then tried to get her husband to do her the first night back so she could pin the pregnancy on him!
She was devastated because she wasn't the one who initiated legally the divorce. She wanted counseling so she could divorce him later, after all, why would go on 2 months vacation without your husband if you really love him.
Thirty years married 2 Adult children.Wife left to go interstate to see HER grandson 3 years ago.Occasional phone call That,s it .Happy ? i got a get out of jail card. Don,t give a stuff if she never comes back. Got a great life Dating apps for nearly 60 yr old is great
So yours is on a 3 year trip so far?
She went to meet someone and it didn't work out. I'd bet on it.
He doesn't need to Snoop on what she did on a vacation he knows who never get the full truth one of her friends got to let him know😢
She didn't deserve a first chance, what the heck was she thinking taking a 7 weeks girls vacation? I'd bet most of them were single and managed to 'persuade' there wouldn't be any problems
What parent can blow off their family for 7 weeks? The husband is justified in being hurt. Could a weekend not been enough to refresh? Wow. And if I understood correctly his job lets her stay home with the kids. Now he has to manage the house work and kids for almost 2 months?
I agree with the husband, especially with the kids involved. 7 weeks away vacation from your children doesn't sound like motherly material for me. I was away from my family for at least 3 weeks and I'm already homesick and missing my siblings. And if the mother of your children can handle 7 weeks, is she really a mother?
I can see why she needed a break. Raising kids can be taxing. But 7 weeks? Her husband not only had to handle the things she was doing in the marriage but all the things he was responsible for too... including work. 7 weeks would start to feel like she abandoned her family at a certain point.
And while sometimes "absence makes the heart grow fonder"... too much of it could work against her... as he might start to notice there are benefits to her not being around too. And who funded this extended trip?
And would she be okay if he took a guy's trip with his friends for 7 weeks?
It probably would have been better to seriously scale back the trip to a week or 2 at most)... or go on a family vacation together instead.
As a single father of 2 that also works in the oilfield. Stay at home parenting is legit one of the easiest jobs I've ever had in my entire life. It's not taxing. Tripping pipe with -67 wind chill is taxing, hanging with my kids is vacation.
@@YamGarageWas it really that easy... doing both things (at work and in your home with kids)? Or did you have help to do that?
After kids get to be a certain age... it definitely gets easier... because they can do more for themselves. But when they're little... they're clingy and they want attention. I can see why someone might want a break.
@@davidharding1299 Yup, their mom decided to sneak to the bar and bring a guy home where she proceeded to cheat on me 10 feet from our sleeping daughter, in our front yard... Was it easy doing both? No, but if my only job was to be a parent, parenting is quite literally the easiest thing I've ever done in my life. It's not work when they're your kids man. I don't know why everyone screams parenting is so hard. Love your kids more than yourself.
@@YamGarage I'm sorry to hear that. It must have been devastating to go through. At least your daughter still has you.
I guess I would add that there are lots of stories of parents who should never have become parents. Not everyone has the mental toughness to deal with life as a parent. This just may be another one of those stories. And of course, we only got to hear one side of the story (which is what nearly always is the case with these videos). Her vacation may have been as much about seeing if the grass was greener elsewhere... as it ultimately was for him. She may just have not quite been all the way there yet when she got back after her 7 weeks "girls trip".
@@davidharding1299 That is a fair point! One must hear both sides.
The guy was already just going through the motions. He resented her and that is never just a one off. He resented her before that because he was carrying 100% of the financial responsibility. The 7 week vacation just put that resentment in overdrive!
She spent 7 weeks getting her back blown out by Chad and 48 others. Bye bye.
When the Husband initiates a divorce he's a bad guy. When the wife initiates a divorce, "You Go Girl".
After some ploughing from exes et al,she wanted him again. No,thx.
This guy has no nuts if my wife would’ve said she was going on a seven week trip without me she would’ve been handed her divorce papers before she left
Good choice, my brother. Good choice.
She was no longer your wife the minute she left. She was everyone else's DNA dumpster.
She went back to her old ways. She missed her old life.
Sorry. As a woman I am not going on ANY girl trips. Or vacations without my boyfriend. Let alone if we were married.
That girls trip was too long by 7 weeks.
Seven weeks away from her children doesn't indicate that she's a strong woman, but rather it indicates a weakness that she felt that she had to have this time free. Parents who remain with and caring for their children with little or no break are the strong ones.
"It's easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission." Well, how did that work out for you?😂 she had a lot of "fun." Yeah, I bet. 🙄
Giving up a 8 year relationship for a seven week “girls trip” is wild. She definitely never cared about her husband or their children.
You need that long to get tested and clean of STDs before returning
He definitely was 🧢 when he said he didn’t love her anymore after 2 months. But a 7 week vacation is absolutely crazy . He should not stay with her.
7 weeks is 14% of a year. Absolute insanity.