People Getting REJECTED *embarassing* - REACTION
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Hey guys, today on my channel we are covering a topic I know all too well, rejection! I'm going to share with you some embarrasing rejection stories shared to twitter by people. I feel like I'm going to regret this....
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Friend rejections are more heartbreaking than any relationship rejection.
i agree
1000%
for sure, with a romantic option you expect it, with friends you feel safe
Can confirm. Had a friend who was engaged, I was her bridesmaid, we were going to concerts and she wanted me to get a job with her and move in with her temporarily. One day she just drops outta nowhere. I get a message from a friend of hers( but an enemy for me) messages me and tells me she's been cheating on her fiance with her friends landlord. I asked her what was going on and she pretty much said that her and I had been growing apart for a while and that it was time for us to move on in our lives. It wouldve been fine but I had just lost my son and on top of that, I lost my only true best friend. So while I'm happy she's happy, I will always hurt because we never really had a real conversation, she just ghosted me.
Wait until you hear about parent's rejection
That slumber party one was triggering... Oh that's not okay.
I know what a horrible thing to do to a child.
@@helenmilchling368 Who says it was a child? :D
I saw on the news about a girls slumber party where it was a bunch of blonde white teenagers & just 1 black girl. So they pretended to be friends with her by inviting her, only just to murder her in the end. The police ended up finding her body in the backyard when her parents was looking for her. Between the bunch of them, they thought it was a good idea to just toss her body in the backyard!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Right
Idk. Did the kid do something? There's kids I wouldn't allow in my house, and if I came home and found one of them, I'd ask them to leave. Wouldn't be so slimy about it, but they would not be spending the night or eating my food. Especially some 7th grade girls are straight up bitches.
I actually prefer rejection over ghosting. When you're rejected, you actually get answers. Ghosting keeps you wondering.
The Nightingale 🤔 true ... then we know not to look back anymore . That chapter is closed , on to the new one .
100% agree, the least someone could do is be honest
true, rejection gives an immediate answer meanwhile ghosting would take days if not weeks for one to realize he/she was rejected.
true I can respect a person more with being to the point and allowing closure then being a selfish cad and just thinking they don't need to be proper. cause it may come back later to bite them in the ass. they regret their choice. they meet someone you know etc etc.
Being ghosted by your work and friends is the worst! Family have to stick around... cuz, family.
In 1988 I worked the door at a nightclub in my home town. Two ladies came in regularly. I was attracted to girl #1 and, after several weeks, got the courage to ask her out. Her response was a disgusted look and a demeaning "Ew, no." To save face I pivoted to girl #2 and said, "Actually, I was talking to you." She agreed to go out with me. We've been married for 32 years this June.
does she know she was the second choice
@@cayleemc She was standing right there, and they were room mates, so I'm gonna say yes. And obviously the second choice was the better choice. We just passed 33 years together. I hope you find someone to share your life with like I did dude. Sincerely I do.
I've been in your wife's situation ,my friend wanted a guy,and wanted us to compete who gets him,and me,not being like that and not competing for a guys attention,didn't do anything ,and the guy chose me.. She was pretty angry and stayed that way for years.. I married him.. Have been married for 20yrs now . Best decision ever! I'm not friends with her anymore . But she passed away a few years ago ,to an od sadly ..
Things happen for a reason, you were supposed to be with your wife for sure. I'm happy for you and your wife. Very cool.
EPIC!!! Well played! And congrats!
My harshest rejection: The 'leader' of our group of friends told me that none of them wanted to be my friend anymore (after 6 or so years), because I was boring. My best friend was standing behind her and when I looked at her, she just shrugged before all of them walked away. We were 12.
That shit sticks with you for your entire life.
It does 😥
My ex friends told me I was too depressing to be around
I am so sorry that this happened to you. I was quiet, never had a friend until I moved to a different state, as a sophomore, had great friends still with girls I met at two different schools.
are u still boring? jk. but why does it matter anymore? thats so long ago and kids are dumb anyway. i have my stories that bother me but in hindsight i dont give a shit. they werent friends anyway.
Please, don't let it stick forever. Make an effort to let go. Once you learn people who don't want to be with you are better dealt with by letting them go totally, your life will improve a lot. Having these grudges are like going through life carrying a useless load; and so ot is keep friends with these horrible people. In the end they are doing ypu a favo, by keeping you from expending valuable time on worthless hacks. People are not that important really; not the ones who let you down anyway. You do better without these ones.
The mom that took the one girl home WHAT A FREAKIN KAREN!!!!!!.
That's a textbook Karen move right there.
It was the Mean Karen subspecies...
Did I imagine the chorus of "Beeetch!" in several mother tongues?
No. She's a heartless bitch not a karen. There's a difference. Bitches hurt on purpose. Karens are entitled.
Laura Marble I totally agree with you that a bitch does things for the sake of cruelty and to hurt others to feel superior, and then a current is somebody who is high maintenance, demanding, with a sense of entitlement. Two entirely different creatures!
I used to live with a guy, my boyfriend of nearly a year. He vanished for three days once and I was worried sick (before cell phones). He came back married to another girl. Yeah, I didn't have commitment issues after that lol.
Oooof! Did you get him a spine as a wedding gift?
@@littlewoodimp Nope, I gave him a shock by congratulated him, gave him a month before the divorce, and left. I was wrong, they lasted three months.
@@CourtneyDixonDesigns Ahhhh you went the classy route.
@@littlewoodimp Still didn't help the commitment issues, but I did feel a bit taller lol
@@CourtneyDixonDesigns I wish you happiness and joy!
I had a guy break up with me because his mom didn't like the fact that my dad was "just a farmer." My parents at the time owned over 1600 acres of farmland free and clear of any debts. A year later his parents had to declare bankruptcy and lost their business. I wasn't too upset because I had realized he was a momma's boy and I was trying to figure out how to end things with him.
Glad to see you were lucky enough to dodge that bullet! 😅
Farming is extremely hard work. 🥰
@@cd9400 yes it is and I spent a good amount of time doing everything from hauling hay, shoveling seed wheat, driving grain trucks to the grain elevator and and plowing fields. Grain trucks and tractors always had really crappy radios and this was long before iPods and XM-radio. But I survived and am better for having the experience.
@@Roblyn2020 WOOT WOOT fellow farm girl here. I loved growing up working on the farm. We grew soy and corn. We also had a large scale pig farm. I Longed for the city growing up (moved to Seattle, St. Louis, and a few other states) and now I am older and back in the country where it's peaceful. lol
@@cd9400 and rewarding when done right!!!
I was out to dinner once and the “couple” next to me, the girl literally just looked at her phone the whole time. I felt really bad for the guy. He went to the bathroom, and ditched her. I don’t blame him. The best part was when 20 minutes later, she looked up from her phone and realized. Front row seats.
...what if she was doing it on purpose??
@@aeoligarlic4024 OFC THE WOMAN GETS THE BEENEFIT OF THE COUBT. AS A WOMAN, STOP KISSING OURASS SO MUCH!
@@pineddew as a female, you gotta calm tf down luv
Happened to me once, she was there but obviously not with me as she never looked up from her damned phone, I left and wondered how long before she realized that I was no longer there.
@@pineddew I agree with you completely!!
There was one valentines day that I was single for and decided to take myself out for sushi when the guy I was interested in asked to join me. I naturally assumed it was a date because it was valentines day and we had only hung out once prior to this. But during our meal he made it clear we were just two people spending our valentines alone together. I would much have rathered to eat alone than eat with someone who just didn't want to be alone.
I don't know how much hearing that from some random guy over the internet should mean to you... but you don't look like the kind of girl that there is even one single guy out there who wouldn't be interested to take on a more than just a dinner together on Valentine's Day. Not sure what game your romantic interest was playing, but he botched it big time :) Oh well, happens even to the best (and much more often to the worst) of us.
That guy is so pathetic. He sounds like that type of person who KNOWS he has a lot of options and keep those people hang around close enough but that's just that. That's the only source of his validation, really a valueless human being
That's on you.
When I was in 5th grade I was waiting for my best friend next to her locker while she packed her bag at the end of the day. The boy who had his locker next to hers was one of my bullies and she knew that. When he said "you're not really friends with HER?" She replied "no I only walk home with her". As we were walking home she told me "I hope you understand ". We had been friends since we were 4 years old. I thought of her as my best friend and she broke my heart. After that moment I started to question all my friendships and relationships. Even to this day I have trouble accepting new people in my life because I feel like they might not be genuine or just using me. It saddens me sometimes but I have never had that awful feeling of being used or being an embarrassment to my "friends". At least I learnt a lesson that day. Choose your friends wisely and keep the great ones close to your heart.
Another fun one. 15 years old, English class, my crush (who had found out from a "friend" that I had a crush on him) looked at me straight in the eyes and sang out loud, "fat chicks ain't gettin' nada..." He was a douche anyway and had a crush on my said "friend" but she had a thing for his friend, which I thought was pretty funny. Ahhh the dramas of the teenage years lol!
I'm still chubby today but I found a man who loves all my curves. I don't have many friends but the ones I do have are the best! These shitty moments and many others have taught me important lessons. Yes, they can be heart breaking but in the end they are enlightening. Don't let people use or hurt you, sometimes being alone is much healthier for your soul.
Wow. That friend was a shitty friend 😳 I've learned you can only trust two things; yourself.... and wine 🍾🥳
I’ve decided I’m much better off alone. I’m bipolar and no one can deal with my mood swings. So, unfortunately I will live out my days by myself.
Karen Higgins I'm bipolar too, and even though my moodswings can be hard for others, I'm still happily married. It CAN work ❤️
Trude congrats! I’d love to be remarried. But my first marriage was so bad I’m scared of being mistreated again so if I see any red flags I get scared and leave. Or I get scared of being hurt so I don’t let anyone in. I’m 51so I’m ok being alone.
Karen Higgins I'm sorry you were in such a bad relationship before 😔 that doesn't help with mental illnesses on top of that 😔 I was maybe lucky, my husband is a very calm guy, so we don't have any big arguments outside of when I'm not doing well mentally. I hope you at least find someone you can be friendly with and have good company. At least don't feel like you can't get it bc of your mental illness. That wasn't our choice, we were just the (un)lucky ones ❤️
At some point, I got tired of being rejected and decided it wasn't worth the hurt. I'm in my 50s and there are a lot of things worse than being alone. I have a job, my own place with an affordable mortgage, my health, my family - good things. Sometimes you have to appreciate the little things in life and let the hurt go.
47 and same her. It’s just not worth it 😊
I’m 69 and alone for 16 years and very jealous of my privacy. I was more alone by being married (for 25 years) than to be by myself.
THIS 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I rather have ALL OF THOSE THINGS than be in a relationship where I have none!!! 💕💕💕
@@jo-annbastings that’s good to hear you’ve gotten your solitude for the last 16 years 💕 I was in a relationship like that for 5 years and eventually felt non existent.
I used to be bothered by rejection. The older I got, the more I started realizing people rejecting you just make room for better people in your life. I have a great guy in my life now, who also got rejected many times and he honestly raises the bar, so thank you to everyone who ever rejected me because if you hadn't, he wouldn't be in my life now.
After my divorce, my best friend introduced me to his Cousin from the West Coast. We immediately hit it off. I was very vulnerable having just been dumped by my wife of 8 years for another guy. I was starving for female attention (not sex) and she made me feel like maybe I wasn’t as bad as my wife had led me to believe. She invited me to visit her in LA for a long weekend and I accepted. I purchased a plane ticket and made plans to spend the weekend with her thinking I had found love. When I arrived in LA, she picked me up from the airport along with Clyde the boyfriend. I spent that long weekend being the third wheel and sleeping on the couch all while trying to be polite and act as if everything was cool. When I boarded the plane to fly home, I stared out the window and cried the entire flight home.
Awwwwww..... I'm sorry that happened
Been there, brother.
In my first year of university, I was dating a guy for a few months. Everyone knew about it since we were in the same circle. A day before my birthday ( I also had a big test the next day) my friends and i were studying in the food court. He walked up to me and announced in front of everybody that we were never dating. That I had just assumed the whole thing and he's getting back together with his ex. I couldn't hold back my tears. His friend recorded this and put it up on Snapchat for the whole college to see. I was bullied by his friends for several months after that to the point that i considered dropping out. I've never been that hurt or embarrassed in my life and don't think I'll ever be able to forget it.
That's just terrible
Hope you will be able to forget it soon
🤬🤡🤡🤡🤬
I am SO sorry you had to endure that type of hell!
It is PARASITES like him, that makes me wish I could create a website and the reason for the website is the following...
OP* < =Original Poster< can submit their story including:
name, photos, location and exactly what the POS did to OP!
Then, I would upload ALL of it (story & deets about the POS) and post it to website!!
The whole point of website would be to *WARN other people* about the sorry SOB and be able to not only KNOW exactly the type of person they are.. but also decide if you REALLY want to pursue that person!
Again.. I WISH I could actually DO this, but I guarantee there would be too many legalities..
Oh yeah! 😂😂
I would name the website:
*ONE ⭐ STAR*
⭐ ✨⭐✨⭐✨⭐
Ya know... Because 🤡🤡 like that, would only get a ONE STAR review!! 😉😉
Worst ever rejection? I've gone through a few. The worst one that I had was my first ever date ever. Starbucks. I get there about like 15 minutes early. I wait for him. time keeps going, I had ordered myself a drink. 2 1/2 hours go by. He never shows up. The barista felt so bad fo me cause I was crying cause i got stood up and so they gave me a free ice coffee. Which was very nice of them. Anyways, I decide to leave. It was clear the guy was not showing. So i exit the starbucks and head to my car.
Now it should be known that this was one of those two restaurants that share the same building, but are seperated by a wall. On the other side of the starbucks next door is a fire house sub. As i'm walking by it. I see him, the guy making out with another girl next door. He had doubte booked his dates and decided to go out with who he thought was the prettiest of the girls So of course, I march in, and proceed to dump my iced coffee, on his head. And to tell him off for leaving me hanging like that.
You shoul
Sorry, my cat was helping. I meant to say that you should have punched him. I would have, no doubt.
He definitely deserved that iced coffee. Totally rude.
Waste of coffee, but sounds like you were caffeinated.
@@suzi_mai 😂 I understand that all too well! My cat helps me type too. Usually without my permission.
My ex promised me that he’d come with me to my grandpa’s funeral bc I didn’t want to go alone. He “slept in” and I couldn’t get ahold of him. Then he called me a few days later and dumped me. And I wish I could give every person on here a hug, cuz I feel them
When you're young, your feelings are so big. Things that hurt then still sting now.
I hope if painful experiences in your past still sort of stick with you (for anyone who hasn't gotten over it 100% maybe, not necessarily you maybe but anyone who happens to read this who might need to hear it, who knows?) just know that some of the best people I've known were treated really sh*ttily as kids, bullied and made fun of.. and it made them remember that feeling and never want to make anyone else feel bad, so they are some of the most compassionate people I know!
I'm not gonna lie, though, sometimes petty revenge stories are hilarious too!
If someone deserves it and someone else chooses to take that small revenge (within reason, of course), hopefully, they re-evaluate how they treat others, or even if their hearts are not changed, hopefully they at the very least learn that you never know when someone will have the upper hand and stop treating others poorly, even if it is only in selfish self-interest, I suppose it's better than continuing to hurt people.
I would hope that they would take an honest look at themselves and try to understand their motivations, subconscious or otherwise, like why they enjoy causing others pain (in many cases kids are acting out because they feel scared and have no control at home or are beaten themselves, but some kids are just assholes or sometimes it is just as simple as making fun of the kid who is different so they don't get made fun of themselves or social hierarchies, or simply the unknown is scary and the kid who is a bit different I guess represents the unknown.. girls can be crueler in some ways than boys cutting down their "friends" (or fren-emies) self-esteem or saying really ugly things to other girls or boys... boys usually are more physical which is it's own special hell for kids not knowing when they will decide to wail on them... but I think maybe the nicknames and taunts will stick with kids longer because it shapes how they see themselves and messes up their personal identity in many cases.
This is true.
Maybe because our innocent young minds expects too much. We are not aware of the concept of backstabbing or breaking trust etc which adults have an idea of.
I don't know. I think "EEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!" would hurt at any age.
The slumber party thing happened to me at a Friendsgiving. I brought flowers for the host and everything. I genuinely don’t know what I did that made everyone want me to leave. But yeah, they said it was over, I got driven home, then saw photos of everyone without me on social media a few days later. They have tried to text me since then but it’s been almost 3 years and I’m not inviting that shit back into my life
I definitely prefer rejection over ghosting. I can live with a "Hey, I feel like we just don't match, sorry". But ghosting is just mean.
Well that's a civilized rejection, the ones on this thread would give you ptsd 😬
Ghosting is the absolute coward’s way out.
3:03 that 6th grade lunch petition story actually happened to me in 6th grade too! I feel for that kid.
I used to sit with a group of 3 other girls at a table then one day we were waiting in line for lunch when one of the girls came up to me with a piece of notebook paper with all the girls' names signed on it, and was told that they took a vote and it was decided they didn't want me to sit with them anymore, because I would ask them every day if there was any lunch they didn't want and they got tired of it and decided it would be better to vote me out, than directly ask me to stop. What was nice was some other girls saw me sitting by myself and asked why. When I told them, they were disgusted by what the other girls did and invited me to sit with them ^.^ so that story had a happy ending!
Rejection is part of life, but so is confrontation. Problems don't just go away if you hide from them.
Who in the HELL rejects Charlotte? Have they lost their mind? Their loss. She is AH-MAZING! Love you queen
I personally think that freckles are cute and thats why those "influencers" are putting fake freckles on their faces. Just saying 🤷🏻♀️
Gonna do this, post haste! and then post. Influence's make $ right?
A quote I put into my son's scrapbook: "A face without freckles is like a night without stars".
I think freckles are adorable and make you more unique
I have freckles. Not so much on my face, but on my arms and legs. I like my look
@@erincosta565 lucky you. I wish I had freckles too 😩💔
My rejection was work related. I was up for a promotion the Head of my department quit, before she left she recommended me as her back up to replace her. Everybody agreed that I was the best qualified for the promotion. But the manager didn’t want to train someone to take over my job so he hired from outside our shift. He didn’t want to admit that so he said I was passed over because I’m a pushover. His actual words. “You’re kind of a pushover and if a problem arises everyone will walk all over you.” I’ve been the back up for nearly 15 years and been taking control over the department while they have been making their decision and doing interviews, never once has anybody walked on me, they just do what I say. Which is why I’m looking for a new job during a pandemic.
I was madly in love with a guy who was part of my group of friends. When I had the courage to tell him, his response was: ''I love you too, but I would be too scared of what people would say about me if I had to date a fat girl''. I already didn't have a lot of self-esteem, but he managed to shatter what I had left. I haven't fallen in love again since.
Honey, he wasn’t worth your time if he was worried about public perception over happiness. He would’ve made you miserable. As a fat girl myself, a good match won’t put another’s opinions over your heart.
@@WorldTree33 I know now but When I was 16 it was very destructive. I was very in love with him for 3 years. Nowadays I realize he was superficial, as ironic as it is, since he was a nerd.
You dodged a bullet babe!!! Please 🙏 tell me you have fallen in love since this. I've just discovered it and realised how long ago it was but felt to comment. Never give up on love or let someone make you feel like that again. You are worth so much more xx
When I was younger, I was the guy that girls used to tease other girls... I would constantly hear "You like Mark! HAHAHA", quickly followed by "No I don't! Ewww" from the girl they were teasing. Definitely hurt my self esteem to this day.
Sorry that happened to you. I worry about young boys, there is so much pressure on them it's insane. I can't imagine the usual fear of rejection, but add on top of that society puts you down saying you're privileged. Too much stress...
Thanks. I ended up getting really lucky. In high school I met this girl, she liked me, I liked her. We dated and things were just easy. We just clicked. Ended up dating through the end of high school, and all through college. After graduation I asked her to marry me and she said yes. Its been almost 20 years since that day and I still consider myself the luckiest guy on the planet. I also agree that there is a lot of pressure on all of us. The best we can do is raise our kids right, teach them to be kind and respect others, and believe in themselves.
@@TeamScorpioRI Sounds like we are about the same age! Been with my husband for 21+ years. Glad you found someone.
@@TeamScorpioRI this ending makes me happy. Kids are such monsters.
@@TeamScorpioRI the ending being your happy marriage I mean obviously, sorry idk if that was clear
The fact that Charlotte Dobre, the gorgeous Potato Queen herself, gets rejected too makes me feel much, *much* , better.
I don't believe it.
Charlotte is human too!
@@msp_isyourteacher6139 Stop Kelly!
J/k ... you do you boo-boo.
Why is she called the potato queen tho
I was dating this guy and while I was visiting a friend in another state he texted he met someone and wanted to see where things were going... Lol, I am now married to his friend :) and we have now been together for 7 years ;D
P.S the guy is still single HAHAHAAAA
That_Chic *Nic karma!!!😂😂😂👌🏾🤞🏾👌🏾
Well he deserved it 😌💅
He was definitely a scumbag for doing that but...the fact he's single doesn't mean he's not happy lol. Weird kind of thinking smh
I had a really close male friend. I crushed on him hard.
He said “you know, you’d be perfect if you weren’t fat.”
(Of course down the road I lost weight but I wasn’t unhappy with how I looked back then at that level.)
“Ever think someone is cute until you get up close and realize they just have a lot of freckles?”
Ever think someone is cute until they open their mouth and realize they’re dumber than a box of rocks?
🤣🤣🤣from some freckled Girl!
Much ❤️ from Austria 🇦🇹
My heart goes out to all of these people. Charlotte, I'm still petitioning for more of your wonderful singing and maybe another cameo appearance of your Dad :)
Am a fan... Charlotte has a great voice. Also, her dad cracks me up!
In High school the guy I was dating started dating his ex girlfriend secretly. He would make excuses for every little thing.. like when I asked him to catch up for a movie or get lunch. HE HAD THE LAMEST EXCUSE FOR EVERY SODDING THING. Weeks passed and I was so naive to notice that we barely spoke anymore. However, I was so delusional and kept assuming that we are still dating. One fine day his best friend who just couldn’t deal with his monstrosity anymore confronted me that he is dating his ex now and has no plans of telling me about it. They kept their relationship a big arse secret. When he asked him to at lest let me off the hook and stop 2 timing me.. he responded with saying that he likes to have options. Jack-arse!!! I confronted him publicly and dumped him for my own good. Soon after that he broke up with his gf and came back begging and apologising to me. Zero self respect!
That was a rollercoaster ride at the end there! Good for you for dumping him.
And thank you for 'Jack Arse', never heard that one before.
littlewoodimp yes, it was indeed. However, I was chuffed to dump his sodding arse. Very satisfying!😋
My first boyfriend, was a neighbour and we started dating during Summer break. We went to different schools, and a couple of months later he never had time for me (we lived in the same freaking building) and a friend tells me that he has a new girlfriend at school. Never told me about it. Broke my heart. But the worst thing is, following year during Summer break guess who was back begging to date me? Apologizing. Making promises... Guess who was dumb as a rock and believed him... Never forgave myself for being so dumb when I was on 7th grade.
@@margaridaferreira8029 We live and learn eh?
@@littlewoodimp it took a while, but thankfully I learned from that mistake.
Ok the mom who drove home the child and said "there is no slumber party." Just awful.! I have no words except to say what excuse could you as a grown woman have for hurting a child? Oh this has to be a KAREN
Yeah!!! She is definitely a despicable woman who taught a group of girls it is okay to exclude peers in such unkind and manipulative manner. At the same time, I am not really surprised because, in my experience, an apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, and horrible kids often seem to have equally horrible parents…
I think the daughter did not want to have this girl on her party and all others knew that!
@@bibbi9316 yes, we get that. That's still horrible and the parent is a bad parent for this action.
@@bibbi9316 she said she was invited there and she didn’t have to go home till the mom got home from work so It’s definitely the mom who didn’t want her there
9 years ago I packed a suitcase and headed several hours away to an interview for a job teaching English in Japan. I got rejected, which crushed me. I never knew what made them reject me.
But it’s the best thing that ever happened to me, because a few months after that I got a dating app account and met the guy I would later marry. 3 years of dating, 5 years of marriage, and we’re still going strong!
As an empath who is totally phobic about rejection, this is killing me inside. I actually physically feel bad.
Omg-- this is bring me back to middle school 🤦🏻♀️
My “friends” made bets about what I’d wear that day bc I was poor and had 2 jeans and 4 shirts.
And then squeal in the lunch room when they got it right 😢
💔💔
Thalassa C That’s horrible. I’m so sorry.
Thank you guys for your kindness :) it was a tough life lesson, but I’m glad I learned mine young.
If they learned theirs, they were likely older and it was more acutely learned /guessing
Thalassa C I’m glad you’ve found a light in an experience like that ♥️ much love for you
I feel you. I didn't have many clothes either.
i'm a highly decorated veteran of rejection.. 2 quick examples.. 1.. in the first grade.. the boys and girls all gave out valentines day cards to each other.. i gave out several.. i got none in return.... i was the only one.. that got none in return.. i hated valentines day for a long time after that.... ok 2.. when i was about 10yrs old ALL of my friends got invited to chuck e. cheese for a kid named justin's birthday party.. except me.. wasn't a mistake.. the kid's mom thought i was a troublemaker.. she always mistook me for a different kid in the neighborhood.. none of my "friends" spoke up for me either.. that was a very lonely day....... there's a few more but.. 2's enough.. Lol.. peace and love potatoes!!!
i dated a guy for about a year… we were super serious, talking about getting married and like long term goals. then unexpectedly i got super sick, i was in the hospital for two weeks- he was there every night with flowers or fresh underwear or whatever. really kind and supportive. about two weeks after this, after getting out of the hospital, i get a message from him around lunch saying that he wanted to talk but was working super late. i was like okay whatever, maybe he found a job or like his dad was sick idk breaking up wasn’t even in my head. that night i meet him outside at like a park around 1am. i knew there was something something wrong when he didn’t return my hug but i never expected him to sit down and just blurt out, ~ i got a job offer that involves me moving. i accepted the offer. also i’m not interested in a long distance relationship ~ he got up and drove away and i’ve never heard from him since. the kicker? he moved about 45minutes away and started dating a coworker. oof. haven’t dated anyone since haha
Wow. Omg!!
Wooooowwwww
I was like 13 or 14 I caught my "Boyfriend" 17 in bed with another boy . He blamed me for his choice saying if i had given him sex he would not have resorted to being with a guy. I do not consider this a rejection. I remember telling him at the time i just dodged a bullet and walked out.
The slumber party reminds me of something that happened to me about a year ago.
I was over at a supposed friends house with a few of her other friends for a fun day and slumber party. Long story short- one of her brothers friends was rude to me and made me have a panic attack, and everyone kept on trying to send me home or tell me to get over my feelings quickly (I have trauma with suppressing my emotions so them saying that made me even more upset). When I kept refusing to leave like they wanted, my friends parents and family members LIED and told me the whole party was canceled cuz the friend was going to Disney and everyone had to go home. My dad picked me up, and I had a bad dream where everyone at the party was laughing and said they tricked me to leave. Woke up, checked their insta, and saw that it was a lie.. the friends were still there, they went out to eat the next day, seemed like they had fun. Called her out and she told me that she just wanted to enjoy her bday and didn't want to worry about what had happened (she went along with the lie too).. it still fucking hurts
My daughter´s best friend´s boyfriend lives in Germany, we live in Switzerland. One day her girlfriend went to visit her boyfriend on the weekend (as always), when she arrived he opened the door and told her to leave. No explaination why. He had his new girlfriend there.She drove over 5 hrs... and then again 5 hrs home in the middle of the night... crying all the way. Poor girl
the school ones killed me. Took me back to middle school. I was rejected by so many so called "friends". Still painful to think about.
My worst rejection came when I was 16. Let me start by saying I was a skinny, geeky, socially awkward teenager to begin with. But a friend and were talking one day and the conversation turned to girls. He told me about the girl he like and I told him who I had a crush on. We were heading back to class and he told he was going to tell Janet (the girl I liked) that I liked her. I told him I didn't care... I figured what's the worst she could do say no? Well it wasn't the worst thing she could do. We had science class together and I sat behind her and her clique. The torment started there. They would look back and start snickering... I was depressed... but the real torture happened on the school bus. She and her friends proceeded to humiliate me in front of the entire bus. The bus driver even got his jabs too. By the time I got home I just wanted to die. She crushed my spirit and it affected my life greatly throughout high school and into my late 20s. I still bear the scars of this and I'm 53 years old.
Yep and the tormentors don't even remember it, but the scars are deep in the tormented. I'm 38 and it still haunts me.
I had experiences like that too, specifically the bus, the bus was awful!!!
Oh Darin, I'm so sorry you had to go through that! What a terrible experience! Sending you a warm hug full of compassion and love ❤️
@@sandysani6045 thank you!
@@darinoaks you are welcome and once again it's horrible that you had to go through all of that. Stay safe and be as happy as you possibly can 😊, kind regards.
I've been rejected so many times when I'm not even trying to flirt, I just think "does my presence bother you that much?"
I still remember my bullies and I'm in my 50's 😠
Never been rejected romantically, but friend wise a few times, worst was high school, I hung out with a bunch of guys, we had lunch each day, waited for the bus after school, had most of our classes together so when it was one guys birthday, let's call him steven, he expressly said he wasn't doing anything, which is cool, I don't like birthdays either, but then on monday I was late and came to our area and it went silent, turns out they all had a party at a bowling rink, I never got invited, it was super awkward after that, we never really hung out and thus began my life of solitude, don't feel bad I like being alone, now I only have a few good friends, fuck everyone else.
Bruhhhh I know exactly how you feel I used to try so hard to make friends but they just never liked me because I don't have any social media or tiktok and I don't follow dumbass trends ...I'd try my hardest to help and please them and received betrayal back but now I realise I only have space in my life for three friends...me, myself and I
charlotte’s eyebrows are on point!damned with that eyebrows if you get rejected what about us poor potato souls😂😂😂🤭
My hooded eyes can never achieve her eyeliner wing awesomeness.
Sidebar, who has rejected someone, and they bother you with the whys? Dude, I just don't feel it. What kind of form of torture do you want me to put you through? I have met perfectly wonderful people who I just don’t click with. Or they are bad kissers. You can never tell someone that!
@@msp_isyourteacher6139 I've been called a bad kisser, my ex tried to "teach me", been doing this a long time, babe... but everyone is different. I got a little mind-fucked. I think it's a matter of taste... and timing.
@@msp_isyourteacher6139 Also, my Ex was named Kelly ... so that stings a bit.
Aeoster sorry honey! Not all Kellys are bad!
I also realize that could be read as passive aggressive. I honestly didn't mean it like that. I really am sorry.
Whenever I wanna skip an ad I think "the boat, the boat"
Exactly she can't unsay that. Why did autocorrect make me type u ns any 20 times?
😂😂😂😂
If you watch the whole ad does she get paid more?
@@mediocresunshine yeah
My worst rejection story is when I was in Girl Scouts, and the girls I thought I became friends with made an entire club dedicated to hating me. I ended up going home crying my eyes out. Most of them, their moms forced them to apologize to me the following day, but the damage was done. I ended up leaving Girl Scouts and as did my mom. She was an activity leader in Girl Scouts so they lost a ton of educational activities.
the text below was sent before I was finished. One older girls stated loudly that no one wanted to stand behind me because I was to ugly. I just wanted die, and held back the tears until I went home and cried so hard I had to stop because I couldn't see for the tears. I turned 75 in August and have never forgotten this, my husband had told me they were crazy because I turned into a swan.
I hugged my tablet so hard when you hugged your camera that I accidentally turned my tablet off
Lmao!
i feel you :(
You're adorable. 👏👏👏
now the tablet needs some space :P
(couldn't resist, was up there, waiting for me to say it)
@@Cerevisi 🤣🤣🤣
The story about the slumber party happened to me. I was in Girl Scouts and the Girl Scout leader wouldn't let me do any extra stuff at her house, she had a pool, a trampoline that she wouldn't let me use. Not that the other girls did either (that is until I found out that the mom waited till after I left for the girls to be allowed to use those items.) Long story short, me and my mom only found out because each time we had a meeting we would rotate who would bring snacks, it was my turn to bring snacks and in my hurry to get out of there (I cant remember why exactly but I know it was school related) I forgot the Tupperware container at the Girl Scout leaders house and we were already halfway home. We turned around and went back to be let in by the husband and saw the girls unloading sleeping bags from another room into the living room. Needless to say she tried calling over and over the next few days to 'apologize' I'm not quite sure what happened after that but the girls in my troupe seemed to disappear from my life. I was so hurt so I never bothered to ask, but I hope my parents talked to like the Girl Scout ... leaders of the area or something?
That's so awful ! A grown a$$ doing that to a girl..just terrible . Well we can all imagine what type of person she is and will be,and it ain't pretty ! Wishing you all the best ! You are worth more and everything !
EHarmony sent me an email and said they were refunding my money because there were ABSOLUTELY no matches for me....
It was because they were not good enough for you.😁
That's horrible. Who came up the idea to sent out an email like that? I would guess most people would rather not get the refund. Also, it probably says more about the other people on eHarmony than it does about you.
I got the same email... and refund, hard to find people like us.
Wtf?!
I took the eHarmony test. Nope, don’t care about their religion, ditto for race, etc. At the end of the test they told me that I was in the 2% of people that they can’t match. This bothered me until my cousin, who is a seriously basic bitch, found a man with them right off.
The only thing worse than experiencing rejection is watching your child experience it. My youngest daughter has autism, and she experienced rejection over and over growing up, from both kids and adults, even from her own father and grandmother. She started out as a lively, outgoing little girl and I watched her become more and more withdrawn as the years went on. I defended her whenever possible, but, in reality, I was completely helpless to keep this from happening to her. She never had behavioral issues. Her only "crime" was being different.
i know this kind of dissapointment. my best friend (to 4 years) swore we will meet at the playground at the second big break to see each other after switching to next school level (different schools, located right next to each other) . i was waiting every day for half of a year, she never came to see me. after that i found out she was just my friend to copy my homework and secretly, from time to time, steal some of my pocket money. after such a lesson you know better who to trust in
These bring back so many bad memories 😂🙈. For my 16th Birthday I went out to dinner with all my friends, which my mum paid for. They then said they were all going home so I got picked up. The next day I found out they had all gone bowling without me. The one and only time I told a guy I liked him (close friend) he said “it freaked him out” and we didn’t speak for a year, luckily we are still friends now though. Finally, my long term boyfriend at 16 wanted to dance with another girl for the one and only slow song at my high school prom. Turns out he had been cheating on me and we broke up a month later 😂 all things that have stuck with me to this day, nearly 15 years later.
I think there is a worst type of rejection that friendzoning, and it is called jajazoning (in Spanish, you may call it Lolzoning in English if you will). It is when you try to say nice things to the other person (you are cute, I like you, I would like to see you again, etc), and their response always includes (or only consists of) a "jajaja" or LOL.
Ah yes, I’ve gotten that response before when I was in high school but wasn’t exactly sure what it meant.. lol
@@DiamondSlut In high school someone told me "I'd like to meet someone just like you, just not you". I also had a guy ask me out to dinner because he wanted to date my sister.
I’m Mexican but I’ve never heard of this 🤔
In middle school, my friend group created a “We Hate (me)” list and all signed it and gave it to me. That sucked a lot.
Middle school students can be awful. Just brutal.
People fucking suck...some kids and parents and just humans overall. I'm honestly Surprised that something hasn't ended the human race...smh
Read how the kids in n school treated Elon Musk. Not only hated him, but beat him up, and threw him down the stairs. Perspective...
I'm sorry you went through that. Kids can be so cruel.
Silver Tulip I appreciate that :) I fully subscribe to the idea that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger and I managed to survive that and worse to become a well-rounded adult.
That party thing happened to my special needs sister. She was friends with these 3 sisters (triplets) all through middle school. In high school, she wanted to bring them gifts for their bday after asking if they had anything planned that day and they said no. My mom drove her to their house to drop off the gifts and they were CLEARLY having a party there, and tried to play it off like that wasn't what it was, but I knew what was up. Kind of glad it just went over my sisters head, but I was still pissed about it
I got a similar rejection letter from a government job I applied to in Oregon. They completely disparaged me and I was so crushed. It was the most brutal thing anyone has ever said to me about my character before even speaking to me. I cried for days.
My whole life is one big rejection. I was bullied all through, even have ptsd from all of it. I was SUPER shy. But the guys I did have relationships with in the past really tore me to shreds... figuratively speaking.
I was bullied too. School and at home. I had abusive relationships.
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@@hummingbird4235 💗
I love shy people. You see, I am super friendly and talk a lot and then get more chill as we get to know each other.
Whereas the shy girl is quiet while laughing at my jokes and me doing all the talking actually helps her feel more comfortable.
Then as we get to know each other she starts chatting more until we just reach that wonderful moment when we just…I dont know…kinda get each other.
According to my daughter, there's nothing meaner than a 7th grade girl.
According to me, freckles are cute.
My own story: When I was a junior in college, one day about halfway through Fall term outside my statistics class, I saw a cute girl waiting to go in. Wondering if she was friendly, I smiled at her. Engineering college, small female student population, she looked at me like I was a fish rotting on the beach. Not a word was spoken between us. Nope, not friendly... About a year later, she's in one of my advanced chemistry classes. Her boyfriend had dumped her over the summer, and she was looking at me a mite more favorably. Long story short, we've been married 35 years next month. She claims she doesn't remember I was in statistics class with her, but I still regularly tease her about it.
David Hansen Sweet story. Thanks for sharing. I was in a bar with 3 girlfriends. We had made note of two hotshots throwing lots of money around. Tipping waitresses a lot, being loud, you know. When the band went on break the female singer came and sat on one of the men’s laps. When the band began to play that same man made it over to our table and asked me to dance. I said no thanks. He said come on, one dance. I said f*** off. He claims he feel in love with me on the spot. We have been married for 39 years.
Maybe she was thinking about something else when she looked at you and wasn't even looking at you if you know what I mean> Either way, you got the prize.
Precious!
Sweet stories
All this gives me hope.....
Great and sweet story! Also she might have just developed "resting fish-rotting-on-the-beach face" from being a cute girl in a situation where girls were in short supply anyhow. It gets old being hit on when you are young and just trying to study or live your life.
Years ago, I'd met a pretty nice guy on some dating site or another. Another couple friends were headed down, so I invited him to join. As we were hanging out, the friends I'd invited over started making out, and things got awkward. Date went to use the bathroom. One of the friends leaned over and whispered loudly, "IS HE GAY?" I shook my head and gave her that "STFU" look. Date comes out of the bathroom, and asks to speak to me in the hallway. We go out there, and he says, "I'm not comfortable. And I don't do things that make me uncomfortable. So I'm leaving now," and he turned around and left. I honestly don't blame him, because my "friends" were being really creepy. Thankfully, I haven't spoken to either of them in years.
That’s sucked…maybe they did it in purpose to ruin your date?
I was a really introvert and closed girl, never made the first move, but there was a guy that I really liked and that was unusal for me. I decided to make a move on him during a party, being comfortable with the place, having a bit of magic water by my side and knowing he was my friend and an introvert himself, so I believed rejection couldn't be that brutal. I danced with him, had fun, and he seemed to like when we started slowdancing, but then he suddenly got away pissed off without saying anything. I wasn't sure what happened, so after a bit I went on the couch with him, not too close in case I was bothering him or something. I didn't want to make him uncorfortable so I talked only about party stuff and he was talking to me, but never looking at me and at some point he stood up and left the party still pissed off. I spent the rest of the party cuddling a cat that was there and questioning all my life choices. I felt too humiliated to insist and I didn't hear from him for months, and even later I didn't meet him that much. And *four years later* it happened that we were talking about common ex-friends, and he casually complained about *that time they made me hit on him at a party* .
the f***er believed I was interested in him because other people (not even present at that party) pushed me to do it. And in the days after, instead of talking to me, he was hiding behind his sisters to try to investigate my reasons, but sure about what he already believed. in his mind I was just a brainwashed idiot, those people were scheming about his love life and he was being "fair" to me not to talk about it because I was some poor victim of the situation and not accountable for that. well man, IMAGINE IF PEOPLE HAD THE AUTHONOMY, THE FREE WILL AND THE DESIRE TO LIKE YOU
I SO needed the "check in" and the "hug" Charlotte did at the beginning of this video! It absolutely made my day today (and today is a day from hell) 🖤
Let’s see a pic of you when you were a kid ! Tell us more about your bullies and any other stories from your childhood . I’m intrigued now
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me by explaining that he's gay and I helped him realise that and that I was like a little sister to him.....we had dated for 2 Fudgeing years.. Erased that butt from my life for the little sister sh*t
The worst he cheated on you with boys
Sorry
I have a couple of gay friends, they are still friends with their exes... turns out it's hard for them to "come out". Hang in there!
@@Cerevisi do you mean to say that its's okay to lie to another person and string them along because of your own personal reasons, but it's not okay for the person that has been entirely mislead and cheated on to feel upset about being used that way?...
OMG this all makes me so sad. I thought when I rejected my life was over, but these are just so very heartbreaking!!
I really needed that hug in the beginning of this video. Thank you, Charlotte. ❤️ You should do more of those in your new videos.
I endured a lot of romantic rejection over the years which entirely destroyed my self confidence. I later felt utterly worthless despite being relatively intelligent, well spoken and reasonably good looking (but I am in no way a male model either). Just before my 35th birthday I had decided to remain single and just be my nephew's cool uncle. A week later I met the woman who is now my wife and the mother of our 2month old daughter. I am still deathly afraid of rejection, but in hindsight: had I not been rejected all those times and been told "you are like a brother" I would not have met my wife and been a dad to a perfect little girl. I have to add that I am still a cool uncle, "cool dad" has just been added also.
Some of these were heart breaking. I feel really bad now. The one from Cooper with the guy JUST WANTING TO CUDDLE...he couldn’t get it up, made the just be friends excuse.
That first one hit home when I was in grade 6 I had handed out bday invites to my party we were going to chuck e cheeses and my stepsister grandma brought her mini schoolbus to take us all there so I am waiting in the lobby so excited and 5 mins pass and then 10 no one shows my dad says I don't think anyone is coming long story short no one came I went to school Monday everyone made fun of me and when this one girl found out I was having my bday party she decided to throw a party and make fun of me. After that I never ever had a party again I was bullied so bad back then but thought that prehaps someone would show , it just goes to show how cruel people can be and I feel so awful for that first one where the mom drove her home and then took everyone back to her house! SHAME on the mother i mean your teaching your child that thats okay, why even invite her.
When someone rejects you especially for petty reasons just be glad you dodged a bullet. Charlotte you are the queen of reactions not the queen of Petty
The slumber party reminded me of how my best friend growing up was popular and I was unpopular and she used to have separate birthday parties for just her and me and another one for her popular friends.
66 yrs old. Dnw but was bullied all through grade and high school. Catholic school and same kids. Why on earth would the reunion committee invite me knowing some of them were the bullies???
Stays with you for life!!
Some years ago, I asked a young lady to marry me, gave her the engagement ring and all, went to work (I worked offshore, seven days away, seven days home). When I got back in, I found out she had married someone else. I killed a fifth of cheap tequila, fortunately, the owner of the bar knew me and took care of my passed out self.
I don't know if this story belongs here.. Back in my high school days, I'd hang out with another girl named "Carla". I thought we were, at least, cool friends. But suddenly she's ghosting me, and there are rumors I'm gay floating around. Traced the source and found out that her Black friends (I'm white and "Carla" is Black) shamed her for hanging with me. So she dropped me like a disease and started the rumor. I was devastated and came home early in tears. (It was high school - everything is drama. LOL)
One of my brothers was living with us at the time, and when he found out, he raced over there and confronted her. Or - tried to. Of course, the cops were called. He tried to stand up for me. :o)
TornSparrow1974 Well you got rid of the trash & confirmed your brother is a sweetie.
@@cplmpcocptcl6306 Thanks. He was. :o) .. It was a small town, and, thankfully, a melting pot of races. So why her friends had trouble with my skin color, I'll never know. But, at least, I can remember the good times before she turned on me. :o)
I was actually having a really awful day today, and watching this genuinely made me a lot happier. Potato Queen is phenomenal. Love you Charlotte ❤️
Charlotte anyone who rejects you must not have a brain! You are beautiful inside and out! I think you are the whole package and then some!!! I'm going through some horrible stuff right now, getting ready to be homeless with my 23yo daughter and her 3 yo daughter, so your videos are the highlight of my day!! Thank you!!!!!
I was the “popular girl” all through school, as an adult, reconnecting with my school mates that I was acquaintances with in school- they thought my life was a fairy tale… and I always saw them as having true friendships as opposed to my “social circles” that truly traumatized me… the “cool kids” at least from my perspective, were the absolute worst! And honestly messed me up far beyond graduating high school and college (I’m 31).. I WISH I would have hung out with anyone other than my “popular” circle.
I’m sure that’s the plot to a teen movie haha but for real I hated my life and I was head cheerleader and dated every “head” athlete. I was depressed and insecure for years.
"Gala guy"--That's an easy one. Guy needed date for Gala, 1st date was recon, introducing as "I wish she was my sister" is code for "Gala's gone, ur gone"
Ghosting is still the most boneless and worst kind of rejection.
Yeah but then, they want to know why. Sometimes there isn't a clear why. I would never want to ruin someone’s self esteem. I would rather they feel like I am a jerk actually.
Kelly Pogue then just tell them there is no clear why. You just don’t feel it anymore. There is nothing wrong about it. Ghosting also ruins someone’s self esteem. It’s only easier for yourself.
Gerrit I hear you. It is just I always say it just like that. I think I have a personal problem. I am 36 and still single. Yes, there have been relationships. Just as you would assume, I have had some damage. Dudes never want to hear, it's not you, it's me. Sometimes that is actually the answer and not an excuse. Don’t torture me into tearing you apart due to my past. I hope this gives you some peace from those who have ghosted you. You are probably 100% awesome. You just need to find the right partner!
Agreed. Just tell the truth. Ghosting is awful.
I had what I thought was a good date with a guy. He was local, already knew my background etc. He's a good 100 lb overweight, shorter than me, has a skin condition- but I really liked him. Ghosted. I finally did the 'nice to meet you guess you didn't feel it' text a week later. He says he was busy with family (got back with ex??). That's it. No more. Talk about feel utterly awful.
I always hear how I am a great friend and too bad more women are not like me.
Even had a dude say man I wish I could find a girl just like you.
I said here I am.
He looks down my body and back to my face.
Hugs me and walked away
I hated myself for a long time because of that jerk.
Damn, you know you’re lonely when the intro puts a big smile on your face and you feel Charlotte’s digital hug! Only found you two days ago and I‘m a huge fan and devouring your videos. Definitely my kinda content through and through! Keep em coming babe! - Chris from Australia 😃
When I was first starting to flirt with girls and wanting to ask girls out on dates there was this girl that rode my bus and we would talk every now and then and joke around. I would tell my mom and dad that I wanted to ask her out but I was scared. They would say every time “don’t be scared the worst she can do is say no”. So I was having a good day feeling overly confident and when we’re on the bus on the way home from school and I finally got the courage to ask her if she would like to go out sometime (this is the first time ever asking a girl out) and she stares at me for a second then she giggles like it was funny to her I would think I would ever have a shot with a girl like her. Right then the whole bus broke out in laughter mocking me for trying. We were still a few miles from my house but I got off at the next stop and walked the rest of the way home. So saying “all she can do is say no” is stupid because she can do a lot worse lol....... bright side to this story is I was a fat kid at that time and after that I started lifting weights and walking a lot and lost all my weight and joined the military and I do believe I look good enough now that if she was to ask me out today I could laugh in her face lol but I wouldn’t because I know how much that hurts.
I've definitely had a guy set up a coffee shop "date" once and then ended up talking to me about their girlfriend and didn't think to buy me my own coffee even for making me leave my house to waste my gas to meet up with him. Turns out he wanted me to help him practice his French. I was so offended.. I don't give out free lessons, son.
I was going to post a time I was rejected. But then I thought there were just to many to choose from. Have to remind myself that your channel is not a therapy session. *sigh*
Back in elementary school there was this girl that had a HUGE crush on me. She would always talk to me, call me on the phone, and one time she kissed me on the cheek. Looking back it was very sweet and she was such a lovely girl. But, and that’s a really big but, my 10 year old self didn’t want that attention and didn’t really know how to handle it (I.e. crying on the phone while she talked to me because I didn’t know what else to do, am I still like that? Maybe... 💁🏽♂️). But anyways I decided to tell “the cool kids l” that I’d rather be with the kid people make fun of than her. She unfortunately overheard that and ran out crying. I felt terrible, I still feel terrible, and I’m sorry! 😭 😭
I don't think you were as wrong as you thought, as it was also her fault of acting like a FKing teenager too soon and not learning how to control and behave herself (regardless of intentions, any unwanted touch was assault, which was criminal offense if she was an adult) and you said were visibly uncomfortable and she chose to ignored all the signs (if a guy did it to me, I would've elbowed his face solely on reflexes just like being attacked by some murderer lol).
You were supposed to feel disgusted and repulsed by her unchildlike behaviour as any normal prepubescent kid who had not yet unlocked their sexuality would (her behaviour was ONLY ok if you were also obviously attacted to her). You were just not skilled of how to deal with it, like any kid would've. You could've asked an adult to tell her how much she made you feel uncomfortable and warned her parents about her behaviour.
If she chose to act much older than she should, she should also face the consequences of the mental age she chose to act with. Again what she did was technically assault. And it was psychological age that really mattered. I do not agree being a 10 year old child was an excuse of doing whatever she wanted. If the same behaviour happened in a work place, she could've at the very least disciplined. Hope you feel better.
You're adorable!! I'm shocked that you get rejected!! Just found your channel and I'm addicted! ❤️
I've always been heavy set, I asked a girl out when I was 15 and she said, "no, you're to fat". Saw her again in a few years as I was playing in a band and she was like OMG how have you been haven't seen you in years we should get together. I looked her right in the eyes and said, "I'm sorry, I only date hot women". I don't take rude rejection well. I may forgive but I will never forget and I will get my revenge.
I was bullied and left out at a slumber party......it was at my house for my 13th birthday........
Ghosting is just the inability to deal with adult life! I would never do that to someone. I at least have enough guts to tell someone I hate them to their face! Plus I’m a super loyal friend. I will never talk smack behind someone’s back and I will always have my friends backs. 👍🏻 BTW, many of these are bringing back tons of sad memories. I was bullied and had one of my best friends reject me in front of everyone at school.
Charlotte has talked about being an ugly duckling in several videos. I would like to see a throwback from this "phase she supposedly" had. Cause I definitely don't believe it....
Me either, a bet she was just as cute but small
Thank you Charlotte I needed that hug today. 🙏🏻❤️
I’m the same, even if I’m having an awful time or immediately realize they’re not my type I’ll stay and chat to them because they’re a PERSON with FEELINGS!!!
I think people wouldn’t be so afraid of rejection if the ones rejecting didn’t do it in such awful ways sometimes. I hate when women rudely reject nice guys. They scare them and make them too afraid to ask out the right girl.😢 visa versa for us girls.
Olivia Blackburn so true. Fair enough not liking someone, but being mean often isn’t necessary.
I had that happen to me a few times when I was younger and it really dented my confidence.
Steve S I’m sorry. I’ve been rejected in really weird and unnecessary ways. Even though I was not mean to them. I’ve seen guys I would have love to date get turned down in mean ways as well. But at least you know their true nature when they turn you down in a mean way. You know you dodged a psycho bullet 😂
I found the rude ones were best. They hurt, but you got over the girl faster. The ones that try to be nice by not being direct make you think there is a chance you can recover, and you waste more time.
...as I got older I learned there was "YES!" and anything else was a "NO!"
In fact (funny story, I hope) in high school, I asked a girl out and she gave a long story about how she was not available the upcoming weekend because her birthday was last weekend (which was true) and her birthday party was delayed because a hurricane came through the coast where her best friend lived (the hurricane was also true) so the party was moved to this weekend. Okay possibly true, but not helpful in knowing where I stood with her. so I thought for a second and then asked her, "ok...so should I ask you out again or just write you off my list forever?" she thought and said, "definitely ask me out again." we dated for 3+ years after that.
I learned that day if you are afraid of rejection, the best thing to do is to get in its face so closely that you can smell it's fetid breath and face it squarely. No is better than not knowing. RIP THAT BAND-AID OFF! I was fearless after that, and rejection was not fun, but it no longer had power over me.
The Over/UnderThinker yeah I prefer to be nice and direct at the same time. Like not evil but the guy knows I’m saying no. Sadly some guys refuse to be rejected and that’s not a good thing. No means no. Lol. I like that you asked her honestly if you should ask her again. Because it sounds like she really did like you
Yes. I have been rejected in cruel ways before and rarely look to go on dates now.
It was the whole leading me on and being really sweet and enthusiastic then cutting me loose when I actually asked to go on a date.
A person I knew used to make a noise like "huuurrggg" when ever they saw me because of my complexion. They just thought it didn't bother me or something. Later they repeatedly tried to be my friend...it was sooo satisfying rejecting them.
I've heard once or twice before that "the axe forgets, but the tree remembers" 💔
Good one... and ex, always remembers.
I absolutely love your energy/vibes & personality you are such a good person and you make my days better when I watch your videos
Charlotte you are such a sweetheart! Funny thing, I subscribed to Mike's account after watching gym bros, thinking what a funny great guy he is. Then for some reason I came across your videos on youtube and subscribed (and now chain watching your past videos) and loving both your humor and kindness. It was a pleasant surprise when I found out that you two are together! I'm so happy for you guys, especially as I watch you talk about being catfished and all. Wishing you all the best!