"Can you not sleep?" My heart just melted because he sounds so genuinely concerned. And then "Oh, I don't know." Dan sounds very matter-of-fact when he says that, which I the tone of my voice when i talk about things like that. Like, "I think I'm depressed" "Just imagine, though, each of us are just this tiny insignificant thing in the middle of the infinite universe which is just constantly expanding and what even is life? What gives people the ability to think? What does 'living' even mean?" "I don't like to sleep" And uh, yeah, I don't like to sleep.
Eudanoia *falls face first onto my couch and sits there for a while screaming* I literally did this and my mom walked into my room, stared at me for a couple of seconds, then slowly walked away.
Lily Seemann that's amazing. Considering that I literally spent all day waiting for angry replies on Facebook because I made a dramatic past to draw people in just to say "the game" at the end of it just to fuck with people who completely forgot about it for over 3 years. I feel like this should be the new "craft!"
Phil talking about why Dan was pacing was SO CUTE because he wasn't like 'no its annoying me stop it', he was like, 'maybe you need to consider it', like he was considering Dan and why he might be doing it and his feelings and whatever and it was just cute!
+Elena Sinitsyna He may not have a degree in psychology but you can tell he's worried/concerned about Dan and wants to figure out why he does it. it's adorable how much they care about each other
+Anesha Hamood this is probably because it's already takes a lot effort not to TALK out loud while pacing around at 5 a.m. you have no idea... neither does Phil.
I think it’s probably having to do with his depression, which we now know after that video. pacing sometimes helps distract from depressive moods/episodes. might not be that, but I also think that’s why phil was concerned about the sleeping problems (oversleeping and insomnia are both symptoms of depression).
I remember watching cartoons like Arthur and how the family always had normal clothes on just for the house and then I was questioning my family like: why so we stay in our pajamas all day? Is this normal? Are we supposed to get dressed for no reason? Lol
Alitzel Ortega EXACTLY! My family gets dressed and ready even if we aren't leaving the house. Like why put all that effort into looking good if you're just going to watch netflix.
maddy is my name that really happens in real life? I thought it was just fiction. Why do you guys do that? Doesn't it just waste more clean clothes for when you actually need them to go out?
I'm 100% sure they got home and were just like, "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU FORGOT MY MARIO KART" "WHATCHU TALKIN ABOUT YOU DESTROYED THE KITCHEN AND LIED ABOUT IT" because that's what friends do
Dan: could you stop eating my cereal? Phil: yeah I'll try and stop Phil: could you stop pacing your room at night? Dan: noOOooooo you cAnt maKe mE Lol Dan
can we just take a moment and realize how exhausting that must be for Dan, i mean i know he's trying to brush it off and be like "no no, i like pacing around my room at 5am thinking about the inevitability of death" but idk just from my own personal experience dealing with the exact same problem, its never been a pleasurable experience. & then for me, if it gets to the point of actively moving around, its not a good time at all. at fucking all. those thoughts get really really dark and twisted if you get sucked into that void for long enough and the longer you're there the harder it gets to get out of it and it can so easily spiral out of control and it just makes me really sad hearing him talk about it because i go through it quite often and its the scariest place my mind takes me and will often end in a panic attack/ pacing around quietly sobbing/ literal absolute terror. i can only hope he doesn't get it that bad because he is a precious soul and nobody should ever go through this, especially as often as makes it seem.
I think that's why Phil was worrying so much. I would worry too. I mean, it's not something that you casually bring up, so I think that Phil was glad that he could acknowledge it here.
+Kaylene Orr I do that to sometimes but for me it mostly ends with crying quietly in the toilet and swollen bloodshot eyes that I explains by claiming I stayed up all night to read fanfictions. I can see that Phil's clearly worried and wants to help. But I can understand Dan brushing it off, too. Because although I don't necessarily enjoy it, I still think it's one of the traits defining my character. It's been happening for so long that it's just something I do. Some people put on their socks before bed or send their girlfriend a goodnight message and I have a mental breakdown. I'm okay with it. I can live with it. And if I were put in a situation where my best friend+roommate asks me to stop and tells me it's not normal human behaviour I would probably react the same way Dan did. Hopefully, they sorted it out somehow. I think that, more than anything, hit Dan really hard and Phil looked like it troubled him as well.
people always go on about how much dan loves phil but people seriously underestimate how much phil loves dan. he is so genuinely concerned about him, and not only in this, on the radio show there was a thing where dan was looking sad and dint want to talk bout his bad week and phil said "okay we'll talk about it later then." He showed up to SITC even when he wasn't on the panel and didn't have to come to support dan-but he did- and honestly- you don't do those things for someone whom you don't love very deeply. (btw-i dont ship phan as a romance- i love their friendship so much and i love that they can be so close as just friends- but if they were in a romance i would be completely supportive although i don't think they are in one)but anyway, moving on- Phil loves Dan so deeply-as much as Dan loves him- and as a person who is a LOT like phil- i can honestly say that i am so sure that he really loves his best friend. The reason that people say that dan loves phil more than phil loves dan is because phil i much better at hiding his emotions. I recognize this because i also do this a lot- and i feel like a lot of people do. But you cant willingly live with a person for that long without loving them. And i firmly believe that Phil loves Dan as much as Dan loves Phil. Dan is not as good as hiding his emotions as phil i guess so you can see that he clearly loves phil through facial expressions ect- but for phil its a bit more complicated to see that. But it leaks out it little cracks- like when he genuinely is concerend for dans health, or complains about not seeing him for ten hours, or makes hot chocolate for him. I notice these little things because i guess i see that whole hiding emotions thing in myself too- and everyone has little leaks of emotion- no matter how much they try to hide that and this video is proof of that. thanks for reading- if you disagree, thats fine, plz don't start an argument in the comments below this is simply my opinion and I'm just stating it. have a lovely day.
Tessa William James Phil is definitely a caring person, but I feel that he sincerely wanted Dan to stop pacing since it probably woke him up. Phil is quite indirect when confronting people for the fear of offending them, but this will affect his health if he keeps things in all the time. Think more of yourself Phil!
thanks for saying what I thought :'( I'm like Phil so I totally understand about the way he acts, he is the kind of person that acts more than talk and good at hiding feelings, like about those things that happened in the past, the way phil dealt with them, he just did in silent, he hides very things inside n show out his beautiful smile like nothing happens.If u know what I mean. just a few people understand that, that makes me feel kinda sad for him :< but u know The most quiet and discreet person is always the most emotional person, so if phil doesnt show his feeling doesnt mean he doesnt love dan as much as dan loves him :)
I JUST REALIZED SOMETHING, in one of his YouNows there was a question asking if he (Dan) slept naked or in PJ's, and he said he sleeps in his boxers. So, if he stays in his pajamas all day, then he stays in his boxers all day. So, on days where Dan and Phil don't need to go anywhere, then he literally just hangs out with Phil in his underwear?
When he sleeps he probably wears boxers but when he gets out of bed he puts on clothes cause say that they're not dating don't you think it'd be kinda weird for him to walk around basically naked 😂 so yeah it's like a girl wearing a bra to bed then throwing on a top to go downstairs
I like how people are saying, "I'm more like dan." Or "I'm more like Phil." I'm just here like, "....Um.....am I the only hybrid of them both?! I'M 50% DAN AND 50% PHIL WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!?"
Foxy Howell Domestic are the little things that they do in their house. Like, it's so domestic or family like the cereal thing or that they know that kind of stuff of each other that you only get to know by living with the person
+Foxy Howell Basically the dynamics people share while living together. Little arguments over where to place the house plant, who should do the dishes, discussions on "Oh, should we have morning breakfast together today while watching our favorite anime?" All things fangirls melt over. ;)
+sassybabydancer24 breaking the ice is another way of saying getting to knows someone or getting past the awkward barrier that stops you from having a conversation. :)
There is a mirror in Phil's room, next to his bed, right beside a place where you can plug a straightner(Spell it however you want) in. If Dan did it any other place he would have to stand up, and we all know that he is too lazy for that. So that is why he does his hair in there. Proof is in one of the 'Day in the life' videos, where Phil is using the straightner and his mirror to get ready. Amen, I have contributed to the comments.
my mum: get dressed! me: why? we're not going anywhere! my mum: just because it's the right thing to do! Dan: well, if we're not going anywhere I don't see the need to get dressed me: THANK YOU
aw man in the first one phil really tries to let dan know that he's worried about the pacing and thinking and stuff. like yes sometimes you just need to think about these things but if dan's up at 5am every night with these thoughts bugging him, living a normal life can be really damn difficult. hope he's better now.
k- hitman Yeah, it's sweet, I've always seen their friendship as having sort of a older brother-younger brother dynamic. So, needless to say, the phandom with all the phans shipping them and writing graphic fanfics involving them kind of creeps me the fuck out.
***** well good for you i guess. as someone who firmly believes in them having at least had a romantic relationship in the past, i have no comment. people who are angered by shipping don't seem to understand the online community, and that's really not my problem to debate upon.
k- hitman It seems that you took my comment in a completely wrong way. Just because it creeps me out doesn't mean I'm angered by it or that I don't understand the fandom mania. I wasn't trying to start a debate. I was just agreeing with you and sharing my thoughts about how sweet I find their relationship.
***** that's fine but please understand "X creeps me the fuck out" does sound a little aggressive. it wasn't a nice thing to read, being a part of that side of the phandom, that's all. i appreciate you agreeing with my initial comment though.
They only have one pair of straightners, Phil used it last and Dan had to straighten his hair there so there wouldn't be a hassle moving it and plugging it in and moving it AGAIN.
is no one gonna talk about the fact that dan has left straightener burns on phil's bed? why is he getting ready and straightening his hair in phil's room ;)
they aren't together, if they keep saying it for all these years. It's not from embarrassment it's because they are telling the truth. Sorry to burst your bubble but we are just fans and they probably aren't together although there is a lot of "proof" from other fan girls, we don't know unless they verbally say it. Dan using his straightener in Phil's room doesn't mean they are together.... That's like saying "If you bought me a packet of crisps, it means we are married" .
I LIKE to think that dan and phil are together, but dan said before that he likes sleeping in his friend's beds, innocently, and I assume that they are just really really close best friends and flat mates that sleep in eachothers beds sometime,s and other evidence that they are dating could just as easily be normal for friends to do together.. except for the hickey thing?
when they talk about dan getting ready 5 minutes before they go somewhere and phil freaking out all the time all i think about is there trip to australia and that posstacio muffin
Phil: Dan,I wish I told you..... *looks in Dan's eyes* I love you." Dan: Phil ,I wish I told you, I love you. too." Phil: *leans in* *kisses* eXCUsE Me wHILe I crY iN ThE CORnER
Generally when you're depressed you don't give a shit about why you're here or what the world is or what the meaning of life is. Because everything looses meaning. The feeling is sucked out. Existential crisis is kind of the opposite...Dan seems like the type who is so aware of himself constantly that he can't turn his brain off. Most people don't have to - they just contemplate the universe and space and time for a bit, and then forget about it. We have to, simply to get through the day. The 5am thing is probably just when he is alone in the house, Phil is asleep, and so his brain can't push out the thoughts in the way it can during the day when he has distractions. Existential thoughts can be huge and terrifying, but they can also be liberating and humbling. Just my 2 cents on the whole clinical depression discussion.
"Did you learn a valuable lesson about thinking about how you're gonna make other people feel when you brag about holidays" - did anyone else think Dan was being sneakily jealous bc phil mentioned his old "best friends" and the holidays with them and such? I know this is absolutely wrong but this was literally the first thought that popped into my head. Don't kill me.
Not to brag but I live in central and have seen them a couple of times and talked to them both a once. They're really nice and quite private. I've also hugged them lol! (Super lucky) They hang out in central quite a bit. Xx
I could feel the awkwardness...I felt like at some point, they were a bit annoyed at each other but tried to hide it...it was a really nice video though, and yeah...it might have been goof for them to talk about things they felt bothered or guilty about.
it's 2016 and Phil still hasn't stopped eating dans cereal. in fact dan just caught him doing so and share it wit the whole internet. what a world tof lovery in.
omg dan is such an irritating person to argue with, when he was like "but I'm perfectly happy pacing around my bed room in the night" i was like "I'm literally going to punch you in the throat, this is phil's turn to tell you what bothers him your comfort isn't taken into consideration rn shut up" 😂😂 don't get me wrong i like dan and care about his comfort and issues too but you know what i mean. like omg imagine trying to prove a point with him about habits he has Jesus christ after 5 mins i would be choking him.
i literally don't see what you mean xD i act more like dan so, i want to know this for future reference. i don't see dan stating his wishes on the matters of his behaviour (that does not affect phil) to be wrong. Phil stated his issue, dan replied. He doesn't have to comply to things that discomfort him. the point of this is understanding, not forcing each other to do things when it's their "turn."
Nein A. i guess i didn't make what i meant clear 😂😂. i relate to dan more too. i don't think i know how to explain what i mean, but i know dan is just saying that to be a sassy little shit. and it doesn't make me actually mad, i know it doesn't affect phil in anyway and that they're just stating their habits to get a better understanding of each other. i have a friendship like that with one of my friends. I'm really sarcastically dramatic so thats probs why my comment came out wrong, but i know what you mean and i 100% agree with you. im just really bad at explaining myself 😂😁
ImThatSpeckOfDust hmm i guess xD it's hard to be sarcastic without using your voice, i understand. actually, ppl don't get my sarcasm WHEN i use my voice. it's okay though! when you find a way to explain it, i'll be notified
+Nein A. well it was like the thing about being late, like dan if you think your method of getting ready five minutes before it's time to go is good then prove it because to be honest if you are late maybe you should change
edd howlter well, are you just criticising his lateness? in which case your reply is pointless, because he actually said he'd try and get ready earlier for phil's sake. is that the annoying part? though neither he nor phil said dan in the end gets late, he merely infuriates phil by getting ready on the hour even though he does it pretty quickly. so no, i don't see what's wrong with dan here either.
3:09-4:38 Phil mentions the pacing, Dan laughs it off Phil asks why, Dan gets really defensive ("just walking", "I can sleep when I want") Phil seems concerned, Dan acts like it's normal ("just thinking about stuff like the inevitability of death") Phil wants to help, Dan brushes it off ("I don't think it's a problem") Then they go to another confession very quick. This is something really concerning and I hope that Phil addressed this in a private conversation afterwards because it's not normal behavior. And Dan reminds me so much of myself, because I react the same way about things that actually upset me and aren't normal.
Dan: It's the lies that hurt me, Phil. Phil: Okay I'll try to stop. Dan: Thank you. :) *later* Dan: If it keeps you from freaking out I'll try to get ready earlier. Phil: Thank you Dan, you have no idea how much this means to me. :D Now your saying this "as friends"?! Tell me now....how is that?! PSHHHHHHT....."as friends"......
I am so much like Phil. I'm stubborn and always think my way is better (even if we all know it's not) and I need things done my way. I freak out and get anxious when someone isn't ready to leave 10 minutes before he actual time to leave.
Jennifer Ann same, but i'm also like dan because i'm constantly thinking about how odd just the idea of life and problems are causing me to fall into a spiral of doom and existential crisis
Dan got really defensive when Phil was asking him about what he's doing at five am and Phil was like tentatively concerned but Dan was just kind of in a there is nothing wrong with that I can do what I want mood and then he quickly changes the topic with the milk thing and then moves on... I'm concerned now, too
Does anyone ever notice the slight tinge of anger (perhaps?) in both of their voices? It's not proven and perhaps it's just me, but still... it sounds as though there really is.
i think it's a kind of tension, like they want to go more in depth with their conversation and problems and stuff but they can't cos they're live on air. plus they're weirdly personal conversations to be having in the public eye
for gods sake just because dan left his straighteners in phil's room is not proof, if you lived with your best friends you wouldn't never go into their room, and if you did it doesn't mean you're dating. You don't go round your friends house and sit in the kitchen because god forbid you go into their room. Can you all just grow up amd stop taking every little thing and turning it into something huge. You can ship phan if you want thats great, i used to, but don't shove it in their faces and think every little thing is proof.
DAN recently said that he's not depressed, when asked why he was really hyper in a recent video and he said " I have to be really hyper or people think I'm depressed when I'm really not "
phil sounded so concerned with the pacing part and asking him if he had sleeping problems help
+Sarah Shepard and then phil goes on into an entire rant about things to help dan like a glass of warm milk its so great i thrive off of these moments
he generally cares about Dan
he cares for his boyfriend
They are bessssties!
+Sapphire NerdCupcake more like totally gay for one another boyfriends
Years later and Dan was super late for the airport and nearly blinded himself with a deodorant. Didn't improve much, did you Dan?
And Phil got caught stealing cereal!
**shakes head in disappointment**
some things never change
While watching this video I was thinking "Someone has HAD to make a comment on this". I wasn't disappointed.
Nightingale21 ikr
I love how Phil is worried about Dan's sleeping problems
"Can you not sleep?" My heart just melted because he sounds so genuinely concerned.
And then "Oh, I don't know."
Dan sounds very matter-of-fact when he says that, which I the tone of my voice when i talk about things like that. Like, "I think I'm depressed" "Just imagine, though, each of us are just this tiny insignificant thing in the middle of the infinite universe which is just constantly expanding and what even is life? What gives people the ability to think? What does 'living' even mean?" "I don't like to sleep"
And uh, yeah, I don't like to sleep.
Whoa
oh m god
Eudanoia *falls face first onto my couch and sits there for a while screaming*
I literally did this and my mom walked into my room, stared at me for a couple of seconds, then slowly walked away.
One year later and Phil is still eating Dan's cereal.
And Dan's still pacing
and I'm still crying
Don't comment
Cra- the game.
Lily Seemann that's amazing. Considering that I literally spent all day waiting for angry replies on Facebook because I made a dramatic past to draw people in just to say "the game" at the end of it just to fuck with people who completely forgot about it for over 3 years.
I feel like this should be the new "craft!"
+Lily Seemann hi
Phil talking about why Dan was pacing was SO CUTE because he wasn't like 'no its annoying me stop it', he was like, 'maybe you need to consider it', like he was considering Dan and why he might be doing it and his feelings and whatever and it was just cute!
He studied English Language and Linguistics though, he hasn't got a degree in Psychology
that was really cute
Elena Sinitsyna Really? Oops!! I thought someone said that he did but I guess not!! I'll edit the comment
aw ik
+Elena Sinitsyna He may not have a degree in psychology but you can tell he's worried/concerned about Dan and wants to figure out why he does it. it's adorable how much they care about each other
This is like couples therapy
lol
I WAS THINKING THAT!!
TheNgaioTree exactly
It is, actually, and Dan does this at the cost of his health
TheNgaioTree there is 666 likes and I don't wanna ruin it
let's be real, though - phan or no phan they're still a literal married couple...
CodeDarkBlue *metaphorical
CodeDarkBlue I know this is literally couples therapy
CodeDarkBlue even just platonically
That isn't what literally means.
little did we know...
I love how Phil tries to gently hint at Dan to stop pacing at 5 am without sounding rude and Dan just isn't having it
+Anesha Hamood this is probably because it's already takes a lot effort not to TALK out loud while pacing around at 5 a.m. you have no idea... neither does Phil.
Yumi Omura I think my friends and parents think I'm possessed sometimes.. :-)
I think it’s probably having to do with his depression, which we now know after that video. pacing sometimes helps distract from depressive moods/episodes. might not be that, but I also think that’s why phil was concerned about the sleeping problems (oversleeping and insomnia are both symptoms of depression).
Dan burnt Phils bed with his straightener once... what was he trying to do? Straighten himself?
omfg
Omg bye
BYEEEE
+phan trash OH MT GOD
+phan trash OH MT GOD
i feel like i just watched a married couples therapy session...
Same
+Jemnem x yep
omg.
haha yes
😂😂
"It's the lies that hurt me, phil. it's the 'what are you doing?' 'nothing'"
working on it lmao
+KaylaTheRaccoon lol
i read that when he said it...
when?
lol I did too
If I'm not leaving the House I don't see why I need to get changed out of my pjs, this is a valuable rule that I live by.
I remember watching cartoons like Arthur and how the family always had normal clothes on just for the house and then I was questioning my family like: why so we stay in our pajamas all day? Is this normal? Are we supposed to get dressed for no reason? Lol
Alitzel Ortega EXACTLY! My family gets dressed and ready even if we aren't leaving the house. Like why put all that effort into looking good if you're just going to watch netflix.
maddy is my name that really happens in real life? I thought it was just fiction. Why do you guys do that? Doesn't it just waste more clean clothes for when you actually need them to go out?
Alitzel Ortega exactly. If I'm home, I usually look like a slob unless I was out earlier/going out.
Me too
2 years later and phil still hasnt stopped eating dans cereal
i wonder if dan stopped pacing ?
+Haii A. Most likely not
lol
lol
Breakfast TV filip = phillip ;)
phil sonds so worried when he tells dan that he hears dan walking around
Ikr it's so cute
YOI!!! Fandom
"go to the bbc radio1 website to see dan and phil confessing to each other"
bbc ships it more than i freakin do
If you watch the custard punishment thing...
They're not even pretending in the description.
Nein A. Phil provides the custard, Dan provides the face.
lol
the most domestic thing I have ever seen in my life
+Zulmarie Vazquez trUE
Ikr
SUGAAAAA
They're actually a married couple oh my god
Waaaaaaaaat
they're not lol
+Amelia Lozano nothing is more true than this comment omg
+IndiePops • yes they areeee
AmeliaPanics yesyesyes
I'm 100% sure they got home and were just like, "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU FORGOT MY MARIO KART" "WHATCHU TALKIN ABOUT YOU DESTROYED THE KITCHEN AND LIED ABOUT IT" because that's what friends do
Lina B. couples*
Rawoon Fabulouis Frouples
Lina B. couples*
Lol "friend" ok
*Phan is not real*
and years later Dan catches Phil eating his cereal and takes pictures
exposed
UpsideDownLioness and he also sprays himself in the eye with Lynx, because he left everything until last minute 😂
lol 😄 not really surprised by his antics anymore
@UpsideDownLioness & @Megan xx Bless you two, I was just thinking this!
Dan: could you stop eating my cereal?
Phil: yeah I'll try and stop
Phil: could you stop pacing your room at night?
Dan: noOOooooo you cAnt maKe mE
Lol Dan
SEEIIKKOOOOO
+Amber Smith hi :3
SEIKOOOOOOOOOOO
I was literally just looking at Corpse Party AMVs...
+Banana Joe hello :3
Seiko Shinohara Hay :D
Can we please just appreciate the:
"How do you get warm milk?"
"From a warm cow"
no you get milk from Brendan urie and ryan ross-
@@rinn4535 oh Gods no *shivers thinking about milk fic*
@@rinn4535 that's where my mind went too so I mean
@@rinn4535 im not even fazed by that but *brendon
PHIL IS SO WORRIED ABOUT DAN ITS SO CUTE
YES VERY ADORABLE THE PHAN IS STRONGER THAN EVER THE FEELZ
can we just take a moment and realize how exhausting that must be for Dan, i mean i know he's trying to brush it off and be like "no no, i like pacing around my room at 5am thinking about the inevitability of death" but idk just from my own personal experience dealing with the exact same problem, its never been a pleasurable experience. & then for me, if it gets to the point of actively moving around, its not a good time at all. at fucking all. those thoughts get really really dark and twisted if you get sucked into that void for long enough and the longer you're there the harder it gets to get out of it and it can so easily spiral out of control and it just makes me really sad hearing him talk about it because i go through it quite often and its the scariest place my mind takes me and will often end in a panic attack/ pacing around quietly sobbing/ literal absolute terror. i can only hope he doesn't get it that bad because he is a precious soul and nobody should ever go through this, especially as often as makes it seem.
I think that's why Phil was worrying so much. I would worry too. I mean, it's not something that you casually bring up, so I think that Phil was glad that he could acknowledge it here.
Yeah and the way Dan answered... He seemed sorta bother by it actually. I'm worried about him :/
+Ellie Kay Let's just hope there was a conversation about it later...?
Alycat Fangirl yeah :/ maybe dan would be more comfortable talking to phil about it off camera
+Kaylene Orr I do that to sometimes but for me it mostly ends with crying quietly in the toilet and swollen bloodshot eyes that I explains by claiming I stayed up all night to read fanfictions.
I can see that Phil's clearly worried and wants to help. But I can understand Dan brushing it off, too. Because although I don't necessarily enjoy it, I still think it's one of the traits defining my character. It's been happening for so long that it's just something I do. Some people put on their socks before bed or send their girlfriend a goodnight message and I have a mental breakdown. I'm okay with it. I can live with it. And if I were put in a situation where my best friend+roommate asks me to stop and tells me it's not normal human behaviour I would probably react the same way Dan did.
Hopefully, they sorted it out somehow. I think that, more than anything, hit Dan really hard and Phil looked like it troubled him as well.
people always go on about how much dan loves phil but people seriously underestimate how much phil loves dan. he is so genuinely concerned about him, and not only in this, on the radio show there was a thing where dan was looking sad and dint want to talk bout his bad week and phil said "okay we'll talk about it later then." He showed up to SITC even when he wasn't on the panel and didn't have to come to support dan-but he did- and honestly- you don't do those things for someone whom you don't love very deeply. (btw-i dont ship phan as a romance- i love their friendship so much and i love that they can be so close as just friends- but if they were in a romance i would be completely supportive although i don't think they are in one)but anyway, moving on- Phil loves Dan so deeply-as much as Dan loves him- and as a person who is a LOT like phil- i can honestly say that i am so sure that he really loves his best friend. The reason that people say that dan loves phil more than phil loves dan is because phil i much better at hiding his emotions. I recognize this because i also do this a lot- and i feel like a lot of people do. But you cant willingly live with a person for that long without loving them. And i firmly believe that Phil loves Dan as much as Dan loves Phil. Dan is not as good as hiding his emotions as phil i guess so you can see that he clearly loves phil through facial expressions ect- but for phil its a bit more complicated to see that. But it leaks out it little cracks- like when he genuinely is concerend for dans health, or complains about not seeing him for ten hours, or makes hot chocolate for him. I notice these little things because i guess i see that whole hiding emotions thing in myself too- and everyone has little leaks of emotion- no matter how much they try to hide that and this video is proof of that. thanks for reading- if you disagree, thats fine, plz don't start an argument in the comments below this is simply my opinion and I'm just stating it. have a lovely day.
I agree with this 100%. You don't have to love someone romantically to love them deeply. I'm also more like Phil and stuff..
Tessa William James Phil is definitely a caring person, but I feel that he sincerely wanted Dan to stop pacing since it probably woke him up. Phil is quite indirect when confronting people for the fear of offending them, but this will affect his health if he keeps things in all the time. Think more of yourself Phil!
thanks for saying what I thought :'(
I'm like Phil so I totally understand about the way he acts, he is the kind of person that acts more than talk and good at hiding feelings, like about those things that happened in the past, the way phil dealt with them, he just did in silent, he hides very things inside n show out his beautiful smile like nothing happens.If u know what I mean. just a few people understand that, that makes me feel kinda sad for him :< but u know The most quiet and discreet person is always the most emotional person, so if phil doesnt show his feeling doesnt mean he doesnt love dan as much as dan loves him :)
:D
omg you're so right
and your comment was nice to read
c:
"maybe I will try to get ready earlier"
THEN MAYBE YOU WOULDN'T HAVE NEARLY BLINDED YOURSELF WITH SPRAY DEODORANT
Sammi Sydney 69th like 😏
That's what I was thinking the entire time...
Dan: "I did something stupid"
Me: "Dan, your entire channel is based on you doing something really stupid YEARS ago"
I swear this was like couple therapy. And the way Phil was worrying about Dan's sleeping was so cute.
IKr
YOUR USERNAME AND PROFILE OMG ARMY
YUS ARMY!!!!!
I JUST REALIZED SOMETHING, in one of his YouNows there was a question asking if he (Dan) slept naked or in PJ's, and he said he sleeps in his boxers. So, if he stays in his pajamas all day, then he stays in his boxers all day. So, on days where Dan and Phil don't need to go anywhere, then he literally just hangs out with Phil in his underwear?
THE PHANDOM NEEDS TO TALK ABOUT THIS MORE!!!!
When he sleeps he probably wears boxers but when he gets out of bed he puts on clothes cause say that they're not dating don't you think it'd be kinda weird for him to walk around basically naked 😂 so yeah it's like a girl wearing a bra to bed then throwing on a top to go downstairs
Emma Cassidy I know what you're saying (and you're probably right) but a phangirl can dream.
Emma Cassidy I used to hang out with my friends in just a bra and boy shorts
BasketBall Girl same I ship them romantically and platonically tho
I like how people are saying, "I'm more like dan." Or "I'm more like Phil." I'm just here like, "....Um.....am I the only hybrid of them both?! I'M 50% DAN AND 50% PHIL WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!?"
So, you're Dil?
LJ Summer holy crap, maybe i dunno or I'm their child that traveled back in time
LJ Summer if I am Dil then I'm the Mexican version of Dil :P
omg you're dil
Sophee Sauce yaaaaay I'm irl Dil 😂 FATHERS TAKE ME HOME TO MELAPPLES AND MY OWL SLIDE!!!
this whole video is so domestic i wanna die
+giulianafearless Sorry if I sound stupid asking this, but what would domestic mean in this situation?
+CuteCocoa Aj i don't know how to explain you but i think it's the way they treat each other and make them look like a cute couple
Foxy Howell Domestic are the little things that they do in their house. Like, it's so domestic or family like the cereal thing or that they know that kind of stuff of each other that you only get to know by living with the person
+Foxy Howell Basically the dynamics people share while living together. Little arguments over where to place the house plant, who should do the dishes, discussions on "Oh, should we have morning breakfast together today while watching our favorite anime?" All things fangirls melt over. ;)
I NEED YOUR PROFILE PICTURE
Dan tried to break the ice but he broke the tile instead
THIS COMMENT
Lol I don't get it can someone explain?(I'm new to the phandom btw heh.. )
+sassybabydancer24 breaking the ice is another way of saying getting to knows someone or getting past the awkward barrier that stops you from having a conversation. :)
Classic awkward Dan
Get out
There is a mirror in Phil's room, next to his bed, right beside a place where you can plug a straightner(Spell it however you want) in.
If Dan did it any other place he would have to stand up, and we all know that he is too lazy for that. So that is why he does his hair in there. Proof is in one of the 'Day in the life' videos, where Phil is using the straightner and his mirror to get ready. Amen, I have contributed to the comments.
Thank you envy
FireFistAce111 Always
Take that, demons
I was just thinking how close do you have to get to a person to smell that they ate cornflakes?
OMG
same xddd
thegermangirl not that close actually
Cornflakes have a surprisingly distinctive smell
WaIt wHat?
If this isn't couple therapy then I don't know what is.
Dan: "Might end in a fight, Phil?"
Phil:"yes, but a verbal fight!"
Dan:"Yeah, no touching!...Unfortunately"
+RoarFearlessly14 0:57
When Dan said he was just thinking about stuff I immediately thought:YOURE THINKING ABOUT PHIL ARENT YOU
or maybe its just and existential crisis
+Dil Howlter maybe Dil.
+Dil Howlter 🙌🙇🙌🙇🙌🙇
Sameeee
+squishyphaniero SAMEEEEE OMFG
my mum: get dressed!
me: why? we're not going anywhere!
my mum: just because it's the right thing to do!
Dan: well, if we're not going anywhere I don't see the need to get dressed
me: THANK YOU
THIS IS ACTUALLY ME AND MY MOM!!
Anika Wiebe
So true
Anika Wiebe *m E*
Anika Wiebe lol same
aw man in the first one phil really tries to let dan know that he's worried about the pacing and thinking and stuff. like yes sometimes you just need to think about these things but if dan's up at 5am every night with these thoughts bugging him, living a normal life can be really damn difficult. hope he's better now.
me too :(
k- hitman Yeah, it's sweet, I've always seen their friendship as having sort of a older brother-younger brother dynamic. So, needless to say, the phandom with all the phans shipping them and writing graphic fanfics involving them kind of creeps me the fuck out.
***** well good for you i guess. as someone who firmly believes in them having at least had a romantic relationship in the past, i have no comment. people who are angered by shipping don't seem to understand the online community, and that's really not my problem to debate upon.
k- hitman It seems that you took my comment in a completely wrong way. Just because it creeps me out doesn't mean I'm angered by it or that I don't understand the fandom mania. I wasn't trying to start a debate. I was just agreeing with you and sharing my thoughts about how sweet I find their relationship.
***** that's fine but please understand "X creeps me the fuck out" does sound a little aggressive. it wasn't a nice thing to read, being a part of that side of the phandom, that's all. i appreciate you agreeing with my initial comment though.
"If I don't need to leave the house then I don't know why I need to get dressed" THOSE ARE LITERALLY THE WORDS I LIVE BY
Why was Dan "straightening" his hair in Phil's bed?
I was just thinking the same thing..
AYYYYYYUYYYE
I was wondering that also lol
Lucy Mathews Scrolling through the comments to find this! He was in Phil's room... On his bed....
Trying to keep what little part of him he can straight.
watched this so many times, i can't get enough of it. Dan's defensive passive agressiveness is unreal lol
Is no one gonna question why dan was straightening his hair in phils bedroom?
A. Ham no, it’s too soon xD
They shared straighteners before
Nah
WAS HE TRYING TO STRAIGHTEN HIMSELF 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
7:58 Phil kinda states it, i guess idk
Basically BBC marriage counseling for Dan and Phil
am i the only one that wished someone would mention that dan said: 'when i tried to break the ice'...am i the only one who gets it?? :P
You are not.
Why is dan leaving his straighteners in Phil's room??? Getting ready in there?
To use Phil mirror because Phil probably in the bathroom ..?
They only have one pair of straightners, Phil used it last and Dan had to straighten his hair there so there wouldn't be a hassle moving it and plugging it in and moving it AGAIN.
The large mirror in Phil's room is next to the bed. You have to sit on the bed to straighten hair.
***** THIS NEEDS TO HAPPEN OMG. Someone, somewhere needs to make this a thing. *Google searches just to be sure*
Kristin Greenfield That would actually be adorable! X3
Dan is the pen
Phil is the highlighter
Dan drew the world
Phil made it brighter
Wow... This is amazing..
ooooooOoooOOOOOOOOooooOoooOOooOooOOooOOK
awwww
Wow original😂
💖👌
"Get it from a warm cow" well done, Phil, I appreciated that joke, even if Dan didn't
XD
Dan: "like losing the game"
THE GAMEEEEE
EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING. THE GAMEEEEE
***** DAMN YOU!
***** FUCK
I HATE YOU!!!
BISH I HAD A 2 HOUR STREAK
is no one gonna talk about the fact that dan has left straightener burns on phil's bed? why is he getting ready and straightening his hair in phil's room ;)
Ikr?!?!?!?!
ik but maybe he was using PHILS mirror?
they aren't together, if they keep saying it for all these years. It's not from embarrassment it's because they are telling the truth.
Sorry to burst your bubble but we are just fans and they probably aren't together although there is a lot of "proof" from other fan girls, we don't know unless they verbally say it.
Dan using his straightener in Phil's room doesn't mean they are together....
That's like saying "If you bought me a packet of crisps, it means we are married" .
I LIKE to think that dan and phil are together, but dan said before that he likes sleeping in his friend's beds, innocently, and I assume that they are just really really close best friends and flat mates that sleep in eachothers beds sometime,s and other evidence that they are dating could just as easily be normal for friends to do together.. except for the hickey thing?
+Cat Astrophy I agree I also feel like they might be in relationships With other people they wouldn't tell us because imagine the hate
'Can you not sleep?' That part killed me
Matty Rose He's so concerned! 'do you have a sleeping problem? Can you not sleep?'
am I the only one who thought Dan sounded really sad when Phil mentioned his "best friend"?
+Phoebe Cooper Well Phil was Dan's first and only best friend at first.
Phil is like being so honest and owning up to what he has done and then we have defensive Dan over here
couples therapy much
Girl1617 yup
when they talk about dan getting ready 5 minutes before they go somewhere and phil freaking out all the time all i think about is there trip to australia and that posstacio muffin
Phil: Dan,I wish I told you..... *looks in Dan's eyes* I love you."
Dan: Phil ,I wish I told you, I love you. too."
Phil: *leans in* *kisses*
eXCUsE Me wHILe I crY iN ThE CORnER
Don't cry
Craft
nOO XD
+Hailey Brav what what whWAT waHAT IS THIS AAH
+Gabzilla ITS EEEEEVRRYTHIIING
+Rachel Bower 😂😂😂
Generally when you're depressed you don't give a shit about why you're here or what the world is or what the meaning of life is. Because everything looses meaning. The feeling is sucked out. Existential crisis is kind of the opposite...Dan seems like the type who is so aware of himself constantly that he can't turn his brain off. Most people don't have to - they just contemplate the universe and space and time for a bit, and then forget about it. We have to, simply to get through the day. The 5am thing is probably just when he is alone in the house, Phil is asleep, and so his brain can't push out the thoughts in the way it can during the day when he has distractions. Existential thoughts can be huge and terrifying, but they can also be liberating and humbling. Just my 2 cents on the whole clinical depression discussion.
I felt like the whole time phil and dan were trying not to get *actually* angry at eachother because some of tht stuff actually upset them
The pacing thing really worried Phil it was super cute
*cough* Dan and Phil *cough*
for some reason i feel like im not supposed to be watching this??? like someone just filmed a private conversation
Same tho
"Did you learn a valuable lesson about thinking about how you're gonna make other people feel when you brag about holidays" - did anyone else think Dan was being sneakily jealous bc phil mentioned his old "best friends" and the holidays with them and such?
I know this is absolutely wrong but this was literally the first thought that popped into my head. Don't kill me.
Roman Zolanski Omigods same! I was thinking the same & I was waiting for this comment!
Dan always sounds so sad and jealous when Phil talks about other friends or previous good/best friends. It never fails to break my heart
think back to Phil's european tour and how they acted in the radio show when Dan asked him about it
Phil sounded so concerned about Dan's lack of sleep from the 5AM pacing
JUST GET IT FROM A WARM COW
"I just store it in my cheeks like a hamster!"
and every month, we buy a hamster
I didn't need those memories thanks
Oh god, the hat fic
sTOP
NOOO
did you just
3:12 I CAN HEAR YOU PACING THROUGH TH E THIN WALLS OF OUR BEDROOMS sorry I'll let myself out
Wait why Des this seem familiar?
@@kelztheemoqueen3426 2009 song
that song is stuck in my head now
I'm from Portugal and I've been in the same country as Phil, I've breathed the same air as him! Ok bye.
***** aww im sorry :( I would freak if I saw the. no way I would pass up the chance to take a pic and meet them
I'm breathing the same air now ;)
kelly mott maybe youll get to meet them one day too. They are so nice to meet!
Hopefully
Not to brag but I live in central and have seen them a couple of times and talked to them both a once. They're really nice and quite private. I've also hugged them lol! (Super lucky)
They hang out in central quite a bit. Xx
I CaN hEarR yOU pASinG thRouGh thE tHin WallS oF ouR beDrOoM
NO
+Set fire to the sun he didnt say that
Allison Morales ITS A REFERENCE TO 2009 DAMMIT
YUSS
I thought of that too
I could feel the awkwardness...I felt like at some point, they were a bit annoyed at each other but tried to hide it...it was a really nice video though, and yeah...it might have been goof for them to talk about things they felt bothered or guilty about.
Two years later....and Phil still eats dans cereal with his hands.
This is like the cutest Couples Therapy ~If Only~
knowing that they were literally together at this point makes this so fucking amusing like it's actual couples therapy
it's 2016 and Phil still hasn't stopped eating dans cereal. in fact dan just caught him doing so and share it wit the whole internet. what a world tof lovery in.
*to live in
3:11 I can hear you, paicing, throw the thin walls, of our bethroom.
Wrong pov 2009 is Dans PoV but ur right
+leisell valerin i still love you, yes I'm sorry. but i still love youuuuuuuuuuuuuu
.... Do you remember the time when we first met at the train station ....
what is this from???
+Jamie Walker 2009 Phan song
They are like a married couple XD
i with they were a married couple
you never know
Akemi homura likes phan... Sweeeettt
This is literally like couple therapy. This sounds like a couple confession thing. IT'S SO DOMESTIC. PHEELS
omg dan is such an irritating person to argue with, when he was like "but I'm perfectly happy pacing around my bed room in the night" i was like "I'm literally going to punch you in the throat, this is phil's turn to tell you what bothers him your comfort isn't taken into consideration rn shut up" 😂😂 don't get me wrong i like dan and care about his comfort and issues too but you know what i mean. like omg imagine trying to prove a point with him about habits he has Jesus christ after 5 mins i would be choking him.
i literally don't see what you mean xD i act more like dan so, i want to know this for future reference. i don't see dan stating his wishes on the matters of his behaviour (that does not affect phil) to be wrong. Phil stated his issue, dan replied. He doesn't have to comply to things that discomfort him. the point of this is understanding, not forcing each other to do things when it's their "turn."
Nein A. i guess i didn't make what i meant clear 😂😂. i relate to dan more too. i don't think i know how to explain what i mean, but i know dan is just saying that to be a sassy little shit. and it doesn't make me actually mad, i know it doesn't affect phil in anyway and that they're just stating their habits to get a better understanding of each other. i have a friendship like that with one of my friends. I'm really sarcastically dramatic so thats probs why my comment came out wrong, but i know what you mean and i 100% agree with you. im just really bad at explaining myself 😂😁
ImThatSpeckOfDust hmm i guess xD it's hard to be sarcastic without using your voice, i understand. actually, ppl don't get my sarcasm WHEN i use my voice. it's okay though! when you find a way to explain it, i'll be notified
+Nein A. well it was like the thing about being late, like dan if you think your method of getting ready five minutes before it's time to go is good then prove it because to be honest if you are late maybe you should change
edd howlter well, are you just criticising his lateness? in which case your reply is pointless, because he actually said he'd try and get ready earlier for phil's sake. is that the annoying part? though neither he nor phil said dan in the end gets late, he merely infuriates phil by getting ready on the hour even though he does it pretty quickly. so no, i don't see what's wrong with dan here either.
3:09-4:38
Phil mentions the pacing, Dan laughs it off
Phil asks why, Dan gets really defensive ("just walking", "I can sleep when I want")
Phil seems concerned, Dan acts like it's normal ("just thinking about stuff like the inevitability of death")
Phil wants to help, Dan brushes it off ("I don't think it's a problem")
Then they go to another confession very quick.
This is something really concerning and I hope that Phil addressed this in a private conversation afterwards because it's not normal behavior. And Dan reminds me so much of myself, because I react the same way about things that actually upset me and aren't normal.
Dan: It's the lies that hurt me, Phil.
Phil: Okay I'll try to stop.
Dan: Thank you. :)
*later*
Dan: If it keeps you from freaking out I'll try to get ready earlier.
Phil: Thank you Dan, you have no idea how much this means to me. :D
Now your saying this "as friends"?! Tell me now....how is that?! PSHHHHHHT....."as friends"......
Ganga Pradeep WHEN
I know black is Dan's thing, but Phil honstly looks SOOOOO freaking hot in black
"If I don't need to leave the house I don't get why I'd have to get changed out of my pjs" legit me everyday
Andrea Eat World but his pjs are his boxers *wiggles eyebrows*
I am so much like Phil. I'm stubborn and always think my way is better (even if we all know it's not) and I need things done my way. I freak out and get anxious when someone isn't ready to leave 10 minutes before he actual time to leave.
Jennifer Ann same, but i'm also like dan because i'm constantly thinking about how odd just the idea of life and problems are causing me to fall into a spiral of doom and existential crisis
Jennifer Ann sameeeeee
Dan, do you not remember that your microwave has a milk-function? :)
of course it has ;)
I'd like that, but there's 69 likes and I'm not gonna be the one that ruins that ;)
SandiQueenBee same tho
HOLY SHIT THE 100 LIKE!
I was tempted because it says 99 !
Mark Ark i didn't even read the comment
Dan got really defensive when Phil was asking him about what he's doing at five am and Phil was like tentatively concerned but Dan was just kind of in a there is nothing wrong with that I can do what I want mood and then he quickly changes the topic with the milk thing and then moves on... I'm concerned now, too
Does anyone ever notice the slight tinge of anger (perhaps?) in both of their voices? It's not proven and perhaps it's just me, but still... it sounds as though there really is.
+Kate Geyvee I thought the exact same thing and it's amazing how they kept it so professional and stayed such good friends. It was super intense imo.
+Kristi Doan i agree with you.
i think it's a kind of tension, like they want to go more in depth with their conversation and problems and stuff but they can't cos they're live on air. plus they're weirdly personal conversations to be having in the public eye
they are like platonically married
Sarah Kilby OMG YES THANK YOU
They are husbands)
3:30 phil being genuinely worried about dan's health
I'm crafting
i wish i told you "I LOVED YOUUU" ...anyone else hoping for that but never happened
I did something stupid. "Never told you I love you" haha
for gods sake just because dan left his straighteners in phil's room is not proof, if you lived with your best friends you wouldn't never go into their room, and if you did it doesn't mean you're dating. You don't go round your friends house and sit in the kitchen because god forbid you go into their room. Can you all just grow up amd stop taking every little thing and turning it into something huge. You can ship phan if you want thats great, i used to, but don't shove it in their faces and think every little thing is proof.
Preach 🙌
So true
I'm glad this was said
WAIT WHAT??? you USED TO ship phan. HOW THE HELL DID YOU ESCAPE!!!! THE PHANDOM IS A WORMWHOLE. NOONE EVER ESCAPES
Exactly !
with the late thing Dan is my mom and I am Phil
SAME
+Flamboyant. That's exactly me with my mom !!!
same. my mom gets really annoyed when I bug her about it.
SAME
And the I almost blinded myself Dan video shows that Dan has not changed his last minute ways, even tho it really bothers Phil.
Whether Phan is real or not, Dan and Phil undoubtedly has the best relationship ever.
this is basically couples counseling love it
IS NOBODY GONNA TALK ABOUT HOW DANS EXRESSIONS CHANGE WHEN PHIL TALKS ABOUT THE HOLIDAY. NOPE. OKE.
I never knew I used to ship them..
my life is a lie 😂
DAN recently said that he's not depressed, when asked why he was really hyper in a recent video and he said " I have to be really hyper or people think I'm depressed when I'm really not "
meanwhile in 2017
Dan: I have suffered from clinical depression
Leopard Dragon Meanwhile in 2018:
Dan: I’ve been very depressed lately
@@books2438 meanwhile in 2020: I am living my truth
This is rlly cute aw
that pic with that comment hahaha
When Phil says 'get it from a warm cow', I love how Dan doesn't even react; he must be so used to Phil's thought track
Aww... I thought it was a love confession... (pls dont hate)
SAME OMG
I was like.. yasssss love confession... and I was disappointed kinda after
OMG OMG SAME , I was like FINAAALLLYY
XD
IKR I WAS LIKE WTF IS THIS TROLL
Dan: I wish I told you I still loved you in 2012
JESUS CHRIST BE CAREFUL MY HEART
THIS IS NOT ALLOWED I AM FRAGILE
f for zerar
+PhandomTrash I'm sort of new here, are they dating now?
Kiz zie i dont really know tbh.
in my opinion, i think they are but they aint tellin
"I WISH I TOLD I'VE LOVED YOU FOR ALL THIS YEARS"
-All phangirls when they went to "I wish I told you"
I love how Dan brings up the cereal thing whenever possible
He still does. He's going to be bringing it up when they are old and grey too.
I guess you could say that Dan
Broke the ice to Phil.
gET OUT
exit stage left
trash can enters stage right, sings "Sugar We're Goin Down" in center staage
'Get it from a warm cow' - Phil's world is so simple and magical :D
they sound like an old married couple, like, they really do.