Being highly sensitive to other people's moods and behaviours is a trauma response, not just a quirk of personality. We focus so intently on the minutiae of their moods, tone and actions as a survival mechanism because we were likely raised in chaotic, violent households where our sense of safety and belonging was compromised every single day. We had to learn how to appease aggressive parents to avoid physical or psychological assaults. True story
I thought I was the only one. This put exactly what I am feeling into words. I haven’t experienced any kind of emotional trauma that I can remember, but I know growing up I had very few friends and I’ve tried to have an iron grip on them not wanting to lose the few people I’ve found that truly care about me. Thank you for sharing this, I’m gonna start talking to a therapist and now I know exactly how to talk about how I feel.
Your podcasts are awesome and very soothing to listen to 😊 I feel sometimes it's difficult to get out of my head and stop overthinking so much about so many situations.
That is so great to hear, thank you! We love Bianca's podcast In Your Feelings, as well as our other podcast Get Out Of Your Own Way by Brianna Wiest. Check it out & let us know what you think 🤗
Someone ended our friendship. I poured my heart to them. I tried to please them and make them happy and they ended our friendship abruptly and in so many words told me my love was not enough and that I don’t love like them. This is the second time they have did this to me. While they do suffer from trauma and bipolar I feel I didn’t deserve what they did. I was completely heartbroken the second time they did this to me. It was the worst pain ever. Anyways thank you for this video I needed hear this. Hopefully I be able to heal and trust and love again one day.
Great things have almost never come to me. People have held me back for being visually impaired and not having the intelligence themselves to see my potential. That hsrsh truth and the poverty forced on me by society, government and religion exist in stark contrast to whst i wanted for myself and what i deserve. The only thing i ever heard from anybody was that i was not giving enough to the world, and therefore am not enough.
Hi, beautiful and comforting message, thank you. Been outpouring for 2 decades, people keep leaving or taking advantage, felt like I fractured and the pain never let up so I just kept going feeling insane and continuing to love. I guess one question right now, right now I'm a little blindsided again, just wondering if you think people are even aware of the love, care, and appreciation I have for them. The person right now makes me wonder if that even comes across, or am I in a vacuum, then in top of things I feel alone and unseen. What do you think ?
Being highly sensitive to other people's moods and behaviours is a trauma response, not just a quirk of personality. We focus so intently on the minutiae of their moods, tone and actions as a survival mechanism because we were likely raised in chaotic, violent households where our sense of safety and belonging was compromised every single day. We had to learn how to appease aggressive parents to avoid physical or psychological assaults. True story
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I thought I was the only one. This put exactly what I am feeling into words. I haven’t experienced any kind of emotional trauma that I can remember, but I know growing up I had very few friends and I’ve tried to have an iron grip on them not wanting to lose the few people I’ve found that truly care about me. Thank you for sharing this, I’m gonna start talking to a therapist and now I know exactly how to talk about how I feel.
.... this podcast is amazing.
It's everything here.
.. thank you.
What she said, how she said it, how she made me feel. No words.
I loved this and really needed it
Your podcasts are awesome and very soothing to listen to 😊 I feel sometimes it's difficult to get out of my head and stop overthinking so much about so many situations.
That is so great to hear, thank you! We love Bianca's podcast In Your Feelings, as well as our other podcast Get Out Of Your Own Way by Brianna Wiest. Check it out & let us know what you think 🤗
Someone ended our friendship. I poured my heart to them. I tried to please them and make them happy and they ended our friendship abruptly and in so many words told me my love was not enough and that I don’t love like them. This is the second time they have did this to me. While they do suffer from trauma and bipolar I feel I didn’t deserve what they did. I was completely heartbroken the second time they did this to me. It was the worst pain ever. Anyways thank you for this video I needed hear this. Hopefully I be able to heal and trust and love again one day.
Omw you're amazing. Thanku thanku for been so beautiful and so tuned in. I needed to hear this so so much. Xxx
Great things have almost never come to me. People have held me back for being visually impaired and not having the intelligence themselves to see my potential. That hsrsh truth and the poverty forced on me by society, government and religion exist in stark contrast to whst i wanted for myself and what i deserve. The only thing i ever heard from anybody was that i was not giving enough to the world, and therefore am not enough.
This is amazing. I love this
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Hi, beautiful and comforting message, thank you.
Been outpouring for 2 decades, people keep leaving or taking advantage, felt like I fractured and the pain never let up so I just kept going feeling insane and continuing to love.
I guess one question right now, right now I'm a little blindsided again, just wondering if you think people are even aware of the love, care, and appreciation I have for them. The person right now makes me wonder if that even comes across, or am I in a vacuum, then in top of things I feel alone and unseen. What do you think ?
thank you sm
Thank you, this was pretty accurate.
Very much so! Her ability to accurately articulate so much of myself is unlike any other I've ever heard.
OMG it's like you are me!! So painful!
We are so honored to be a part of your beautiful healing journey 🌻☀️ Keep going, we are here for you 💛
Thank you so much for this. Definitely me in the moment :')
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Sending light & love to wherever you are Claudia ☀️💛
well f T_T
who's spying on me
..fr??