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  • @lilyisme7301
    @lilyisme7301 2 года назад +1931

    I mean he’s 100% right, but everyone in the comments are taking this too seriously when it’s probably just a skit. They’re just good actors.

    • @roseallday9934
      @roseallday9934 2 года назад +26

      THANK YOU

    • @leanisastay3781
      @leanisastay3781 2 года назад +23

      But you wouldn't believe the amount of ppl who actually live like this and or model their lives after videos like this not knowing that. At least if they read the comments (if they thought it was real) they would know its not good. No hate im just saying

    • @eavioli
      @eavioli 2 года назад +18

      FR LIKE- I SAW MORE THAN 5 COMMENTS WITH THOUSANDS LIKES SAYING HOW TOXIC THIS RELATIONSHIP IS BUT I FIND IT CUTE AF LIKE HE'S NOT OFFENDED OR ANYTHING AND THE GIRL IS NOT BEING MEAN OR TOXIC AT ALL WTF

    • @magikallysbluebonnets
      @magikallysbluebonnets 2 года назад +2

      Yeah.

    • @albanyrodriguez7598
      @albanyrodriguez7598 2 года назад +2

      @@eavioli well she kinda is (although as this video has said, it is most likely to be fake) She makes it clear that she thinks is the boss in the relationship because he does things for her

  • @betsyrobert4395
    @betsyrobert4395 2 года назад +4004

    He's absolutely correct. Such a sweetheart. Hope you find someone who appreciates all you do for them

    • @hanmira
      @hanmira 2 года назад +36

      yall don't have to this so seriously

    • @kiyosumi5623
      @kiyosumi5623 2 года назад +14

      Arent they engaged?

    • @magikallysbluebonnets
      @magikallysbluebonnets 2 года назад +8

      Arent they already together?

    • @emilykrey5319
      @emilykrey5319 2 года назад +4

      @@kiyosumi5623 god I hope not. Poor guy

    • @kiyosumi5623
      @kiyosumi5623 2 года назад +24

      @@emilykrey5319 The videos a joke and full of satire lol. Theyve been together for more than 3 years and theyve been engaged for almost a year. I dont watch them often but I think they do skits like this together. And hes looking at the phone so he knows.

  • @scrapdog2840
    @scrapdog2840 2 года назад +14150

    He's a beautiful person. Hopefully he finds someone who appreciates him.

    • @sauron9262
      @sauron9262 2 года назад +485

      😭😭😭 y'all so

    • @srutisathyamoorthi1380
      @srutisathyamoorthi1380 2 года назад +350

      damn 😬

    • @ubytuby5727
      @ubytuby5727 2 года назад +134

      I hope so too

    • @scrapdog2840
      @scrapdog2840 2 года назад +236

      Well. Seems like it's their "gimmick" for her to abuse him on camera. Buhut...gotta wonder 🤔

    • @flxcc4481
      @flxcc4481 2 года назад +53

      He already has a girlfriend

  • @denny.moiras
    @denny.moiras 2 года назад +407

    For everybody saying he deserves better and stuff: this is a joke. they are somewhat-recently engaged and since he proposed to her and also their other tiktoks together I think it’s pretty safe to assume they both love each other deeply

    • @mellnajih4544
      @mellnajih4544 2 года назад +3

      Nope never same to assume (GABBY PETITO CASE) everyone assumed never good

    • @constantnipples2428
      @constantnipples2428 2 года назад +1

      Yea but why is society okay with a woman talking to a man like this but if it was a man doing it then it's called toxic masculinity? We get its a joke but this is today's society

    • @ChandanSingh-ej2hu
      @ChandanSingh-ej2hu 2 года назад

      1. It doesn't matter if its a joke. They have a huge audience and they shouldn't be promoting toxic behavior like that.
      2. Just because he's still with her doesn't mean that she's not toxic or abusive. A lot of people are manipulated into staying in abusive relationships.

  • @mrmeatballtimebaby
    @mrmeatballtimebaby 2 года назад +3322

    He proved he’s the boss by being the mature one here

    • @flxcc4481
      @flxcc4481 2 года назад +7

      The mature one? Its a joke

    • @jvnee
      @jvnee 2 года назад +8

      @@flxcc4481 oh you again, replying to all facts comments saying its just a ‘joke’ of her

    • @flxcc4481
      @flxcc4481 2 года назад +1

      @@jvnee because it is but just because it was a girl she deserves the worst of course

    • @michaelbishopva
      @michaelbishopva 2 года назад +2

      @@flxcc4481 Wow, You really Do need help, don't you?

    • @jvnee
      @jvnee 2 года назад +3

      @@flxcc4481 a girl? Even if a guy did this he will 💯 get the same backlash as the manipulative gf in the vid. I’ve seen her other videos, she’s still like that. If you’re a fan just say so

  • @empresstheodora599
    @empresstheodora599 2 года назад +8057

    “Wearing the pants” doesn’t mean that they boss everyone around, it means they’re responsible and take care of everybody.

    • @gabb5
      @gabb5 2 года назад +258

      Literally, so he’s right

    • @katc6896
      @katc6896 2 года назад +226

      sad for this guy. She's useless.

    • @anantilaye5671
      @anantilaye5671 2 года назад +27

      @@katc6896 do you live with them and see them living OUTSIDE OF TIKTOK? no? great, so shut up and don't call people useless

    • @youyong20
      @youyong20 2 года назад +21

      @@katc6896 for all you know, she's the one with job and he takes care of the house. Only useless one is you, not open-minded enough to see more than what's presented. ^^

    • @mateoslab
      @mateoslab 2 года назад +17

      He deserves better

  • @louielarrie6916
    @louielarrie6916 2 года назад +428

    Just in case anyone was wondering what the words on his shirt mean
    勇- courage
    忠-loyalty
    爱-love

  • @sillychilly_
    @sillychilly_ 2 года назад +5390

    I hope he finds someone who values him more. He seems precious.

    • @tinasreang804
      @tinasreang804 2 года назад +187

      it’s a joke- and she obviously loves him if you look at their other tiktoks😐🤌🏻

    • @cat.lover..
      @cat.lover.. 2 года назад +38

      @@tinasreang804 oh. a joke? ahhaha ha ha omg such a funny joke lmaooo wow its so funny omg ahahah

    • @maxjill
      @maxjill 2 года назад +20

      @@cat.lover.. it's pretty funny

    • @bunniemels
      @bunniemels 2 года назад +78

      judging a relationship by a tiktok? People do this now? What the fuck

    • @cat.lover..
      @cat.lover.. 2 года назад

      @@maxjill NOOO FR😭😭😭😭😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

  • @Who_care_what-i-think
    @Who_care_what-i-think 2 года назад +7342

    Being lazy and manipulative doesn’t mean you wear the pants in the relationship. He is correct the one who holds it all down and pays the bills makes the choices .

    • @I_Ace
      @I_Ace 2 года назад +118

      She reminds me intuitively of someone I know with borderline personality. Im not saying she has it. But that childish manipulation aspect is there

    • @bobbobby5141
      @bobbobby5141 2 года назад +19

      so you're saying the person that wears the pants is lazy and manipulative??? she's just making a point even if the gender was flipped just the fact he called out her irregularity and tried to step up and complain about her not doing enough while complimenting himself as the bread winner definitely wouldn't be the boss of the house bc the boss of the house wouldn't have to explain in detail let alone waste time explaining

    • @I_Ace
      @I_Ace 2 года назад +67

      I like how she trys to do subtle power moves during this video. This boy needs to run. In a normal relationship there is no powerplaying and competition. Thats a red flag and a symptom of something potentially wrong or toxic that is going on or soon to come.

    • @sushmasahani3683
      @sushmasahani3683 2 года назад +1

      True

    • @maddysonng1924
      @maddysonng1924 2 года назад +8

      How do you know he pays the bills tho?

  • @robertmartinez5724
    @robertmartinez5724 2 года назад +3664

    But this guy is spitting facts , he’s doing everything a man should do , this girl is just proving his point as the video goes .

    • @RickJamesGhostGuns
      @RickJamesGhostGuns 2 года назад +7

      Are you trolling us?

    • @bladezzmf
      @bladezzmf 2 года назад +22

      So your telling me the man should do everything

    • @Whateverisayfax
      @Whateverisayfax 2 года назад +7

      Ur joking or to dead to Realize this is a skit

    • @robertmartinez5724
      @robertmartinez5724 2 года назад +3

      @@Whateverisayfax It’s a joke to go to the skid my boy

    • @samparkins6268
      @samparkins6268 2 года назад +5

      Wait, if the man does everything, what does the woman do?

  • @esmiasoundz
    @esmiasoundz 2 года назад +264

    Why is everyone getting so sensitive she’s just having a joke around.

    • @hanmira
      @hanmira 2 года назад +42

      THAT'S WHAT I THOUGHT. Like the one time no one's saying it's staged everyone is taking this so seriously.. bruh, they're already filing the divorce papers

    • @esmiasoundz
      @esmiasoundz 2 года назад +4

      @@hanmira DIVORCE PAPERS!

    • @AncyNusaifa
      @AncyNusaifa 2 года назад +1

      Yea

    • @successfulto-be.
      @successfulto-be. 2 года назад +4

      Underrated comment fr

    • @danjoshi
      @danjoshi 2 года назад +10

      Because we don't know her. Is she really joking around? Take it from my experience. I don't think my dad sees my mom as his equal and he keeps bossing her around. My mom always thinks what would happen to my dad if she wasn't around. I've seen this shit too much.

  • @indie7190
    @indie7190 2 года назад +10

    Why is everyone saying she’s abusing him... there literally having a sense of humour and joking around. And asking for water is NOT I repeat NOT abuse whatsoever do your research so people understand.

  • @diychad7268
    @diychad7268 2 года назад +2505

    The fact that she thinks bossing him around is wearing the pants in a relationship says a lot about this generation

    • @bigislandpyro8085
      @bigislandpyro8085 2 года назад +36

      Honestly I hope this is a skit or some this makes me blood pressure rise 😕😆this generation is sad

    • @onebiker2503
      @onebiker2503 2 года назад +25

      Women want to be on top of men, but they don't find men below them attractive so they look for men above them and then complain about gender equality...????

    • @I_Ace
      @I_Ace 2 года назад +48

      Its not this "generation," this girl as an individual shows a lot of signs of toxic traits in her videos

    • @LN-pz5ou
      @LN-pz5ou 2 года назад +3

      Wow guess u don’t what a joke is

    • @jechuthomas2866
      @jechuthomas2866 2 года назад +1

      @Lexi 93 Another meninist, im assuming lolol

  • @phanhlewlew.
    @phanhlewlew. 2 года назад +9415

    "I'm the boss" but he still washed dishes and got your drink 😂 You guys so cute!!

    • @aubrey264
      @aubrey264 2 года назад +23

      Look what the drink said 👀

    • @lia503
      @lia503 2 года назад +6

      @@aubrey264 ok

    • @lia503
      @lia503 2 года назад +4

      @@aubrey264 i didn't see what did it say

    • @phanhlewlew.
      @phanhlewlew. 2 года назад +1

      @Zade72 yes, that's a really good point

    • @emman8495
      @emman8495 2 года назад +4

      @Zade72 that's a leader not a boss

  • @UninspiredContent
    @UninspiredContent 2 года назад +3909

    Imagine being so toxic in a relationship that you don't appreciate when people do things for you. Then go out of your way to make fun of them for caring

    • @flxcc4481
      @flxcc4481 2 года назад +129

      Imagine not taking a joke

    • @UninspiredContent
      @UninspiredContent 2 года назад +84

      @@flxcc4481 lol imagine thinking toxic behavior is somehow okay

    • @flxcc4481
      @flxcc4481 2 года назад +44

      @@UninspiredContent imagine not taking a joke

    • @michaelbishopva
      @michaelbishopva 2 года назад +59

      @@flxcc4481 imagine being so desperate to get attention when the joke is not funny and is just sad rubbish 💀

    • @flxcc4481
      @flxcc4481 2 года назад +20

      @@michaelbishopva imagine not taking a joke just because its a girl

  • @maremiralte7296
    @maremiralte7296 2 года назад +1898

    Bossing around someone is not wearing the pants in a relationship. If you can't appreciate him for the things he did for you i'll gladly any day.

    • @hanmira
      @hanmira 2 года назад +39

      Okay but like why is everyone judging a relationship based off of one VIDEO? Like I thought this was funny, no big deal and then I go to the comments seeing all these people wishing better for him and already filing his divorce papers.. damn

    • @somewherefaraway3093
      @somewherefaraway3093 2 года назад +22

      @@hanmira ikr, people need to calm down and don't poke into other people's business like it ain't even that hard to just not comment but oh well

    • @eclipsed_rose9151
      @eclipsed_rose9151 2 года назад +2

      These are scripted, it’s a joke. Leave them alone

    • @sweetchocolate7113
      @sweetchocolate7113 2 года назад

      Nothing but facts

    • @sharks4life13
      @sharks4life13 Год назад

      Yeah well I don’t think he would want you anyway

  • @galleriet3185
    @galleriet3185 2 года назад +3847

    She’s just proving his point more by not being able to do shit for herself lmao

    • @MadTuning01
      @MadTuning01 2 года назад +24

      Broooo mad facts !

    • @ashgreen3574
      @ashgreen3574 2 года назад +34

      I mean she's able. Just finds it easier to manipulate him into doing it

    • @loganmccoy4950
      @loganmccoy4950 2 года назад +37

      @@ashgreen3574 wait until she finds a real man, and won't bend over for her bullshit

    • @sunstrikea4602
      @sunstrikea4602 2 года назад +12

      Y'all chill it's a tiktok. I'm sure he's comfortable doing the dishes as it is completely normal for men to also do them

    • @galleriet3185
      @galleriet3185 2 года назад +29

      @@ashgreen3574 This isn’t really manipulation though. He was already doing the dishes and kindly passed her a drink. She’s just being an ass on camera

  • @TopCheese79
    @TopCheese79 2 года назад +898

    So let me get this straight; he cooks, does the dishes, cleans the house, cares about you enough to not get mad when you criticize the way he was washing, and is willing to stop what he is doing to get you a drink that you are like three steps away from. And because of all this you are making fun of him because he doesn’t boss you around? You should feel lucky because he’s clearly way out of your league.

    • @Heyhowareya97
      @Heyhowareya97 2 года назад +42

      It’s honestly sad

    • @mi8148
      @mi8148 2 года назад +46

      Couldn't have said it better myself. As a girl, I can say she's lucky af!

    • @jalyshabrown5704
      @jalyshabrown5704 2 года назад +8

      It’s a joke why are you people looking so deep into it

    • @flxcc4481
      @flxcc4481 2 года назад +2

      Its a joke stupid

    • @jvnee
      @jvnee 2 года назад +25

      @@jalyshabrown5704 jokes are supposed to be funny but you probably have a suck humour so you do you

  • @arpitaanushreepatra9703
    @arpitaanushreepatra9703 2 года назад +314

    I never can understand how people can be so pathetic to such sweet mature people like him. He is so precious 🥺.

  • @soulthecelestial3882
    @soulthecelestial3882 2 года назад +170

    When he actually does wear the pants. It’s not about who says “do this” it’s about who actually puts the most work into it to keep things stable.

    • @I_Ace
      @I_Ace 2 года назад +14

      Yeah she is trying to do subtle power plays. Normal healthy relationships have no powerplays in them or the couple thinking of that. This is a big red flag

    • @riri1878
      @riri1878 2 года назад +6

      @@I_Ace yeah... It's kinda sad to see...

    • @hanmira
      @hanmira 2 года назад +2

      yall taking this way too seriously, it's kind of concerning

    • @riri1878
      @riri1878 2 года назад +3

      @@hanmira This video cut, is showing toxic behavior wrap in a joke. Those boy seem irritate by the question while the girl trying to prove she has more power over him.
      That's why I said it was kinda sad not funny.

    • @hanmira
      @hanmira 2 года назад +1

      @@riri1878 i mean yes this is toxic af but this is ONE video yall...

  • @austinhodroff9946
    @austinhodroff9946 2 года назад +2577

    He actually does, he did everything in his will to do something that he wasn’t planning for and still does the dishes. Lol

    • @jamaloliver6940
      @jamaloliver6940 2 года назад +3

      That's not wearing the pants bruh

    • @frillish1512
      @frillish1512 2 года назад +8

      @@jamaloliver6940 It is actually

    • @theurbangoose6918
      @theurbangoose6918 2 года назад +3

      @@jamaloliver6940 he is actually

    • @jamaloliver6940
      @jamaloliver6940 2 года назад +2

      @yoko. he do the things a woman does in the relationship wearing the pants mean your the boss which she clearly is

    • @jamaloliver6940
      @jamaloliver6940 2 года назад

      @yoko. 😂😂 what that doesnt even make sense because yet still u defending the guy who gets bossed around by his girl 😂

  • @walterjagielski8017
    @walterjagielski8017 2 года назад +76

    He's being nice because he cares about you. Doing what you ask is out of love, not because he's submitting to your orders. Don't get it twisted lady.

  • @ManojKumararch
    @ManojKumararch 2 года назад +63

    This is one of the most awesome backfires... Entitlement will never win Empathy

  • @ndiacarter6386
    @ndiacarter6386 2 года назад +16

    “YOU WOULDN’T SURVIVE 🌲 DAYS WITHOUT ME”😭😭

  • @grimmbigham5737
    @grimmbigham5737 2 года назад +52

    The one wearing the pants is the one who in a way has final say, takes care of everyone and is responsible. Don't mistake that for kindness

  • @natelolz11
    @natelolz11 2 года назад +55

    He definitely wears the pants in the relationship, if he up and left and you couldn't survive without him then that means you NEED him and also means he Ultimately makes the calls in the relationship but allows you to act like you in charge because he's a man who carries no insecurity or ego within. And that's the tea honey.

    • @I_Ace
      @I_Ace 2 года назад +1

      She on the otherhand seems like she has some deep insecurity problems and ego resulting in her manipulative beheviour

  • @ramisaahmed8531
    @ramisaahmed8531 2 года назад +25

    This video is just a reflection of how good of a person he is

  • @hyunjiniee3848
    @hyunjiniee3848 2 года назад +12

    This really raised my respect for men . He's just spitting facts 💯

  • @kenseihaup
    @kenseihaup 2 года назад +1879

    So you’re talking about gender roles. The person who “wears” the pants is the one who runs the household. Who grounds everyone.
    Not the person who tells someone else to do something. So he wears the pants ma’am.

    • @punambarat
      @punambarat 2 года назад +60

      Exactly.. bossing around is not "wearing" the pants 😂

    • @mattmcgrath3959
      @mattmcgrath3959 2 года назад +31

      I was about to say the same thing. I think she is the one confused about the meaning of "who wears the pants" lol

    • @lataurishacaldwell8334
      @lataurishacaldwell8334 2 года назад +2

      Really he's does everything that mean she don't do anything

    • @PinkBelt100
      @PinkBelt100 2 года назад +22

      @@shivanichauhan1638 implying that women dont wear pants? The line is outdated for sure. But applying the logic and literal understand of it that only men wear pants is also an outdated thought. Change with the times bro

    • @kieuware1990
      @kieuware1990 2 года назад +3

      @@PinkBelt100 💯

  • @mista_josh7072
    @mista_josh7072 2 года назад +90

    he’s doing stuff because he loves her not because she’s in charge of him

  • @gabeortizz7006
    @gabeortizz7006 2 года назад +13

    Everything he said is exactly true give that man his respect !!!

  • @rumeytee4550
    @rumeytee4550 2 года назад +39

    If I was him, I will never go out with a girl like that, he deserve better

    • @hanmira
      @hanmira 2 года назад

      it's a joke (even if it's not funny)

    • @smcalpha
      @smcalpha 2 года назад +2

      @@hanmira no he still deserves better

    • @clementinaendaya415
      @clementinaendaya415 2 года назад +1

      @@smcalpha and how do you know that? Do you live with them? Have you seen their videos? Do you know them well to realise that they have been together for 3 years and are getting married soon? Don’t snoop into another relationship and act like you know better.

    • @hanmira
      @hanmira 2 года назад

      @@smcalpha how do you know? it's a joke

    • @audience2
      @audience2 Год назад

      He is a big catch for her.

  • @charlesnorm4883
    @charlesnorm4883 2 года назад +2934

    Hopefully he wakes up and finds another woman that isn’t as lazy and mocks him for being caring.

    • @zhangkevin6748
      @zhangkevin6748 2 года назад +84

      I think maybe this is a joke

    • @rexarashy2036
      @rexarashy2036 2 года назад +28

      She work and he doesn’t, shit I need a women like that she can have the pants if she wan to 😂😂😂

    • @Abandoned2377
      @Abandoned2377 2 года назад +47

      @@rexarashy2036 I’m sure he cuts grass cooks cleans fixes the car. He’s the guy who gets up in the middle of the night to make sure everyone is safe… he wears the pants period.

    • @rexarashy2036
      @rexarashy2036 2 года назад +5

      @@Abandoned2377 she probably do the same, she got the pants 😂😂😂, when man works and women stay in the house doing same thing he does they call hem the man, so we can see the same thing going here.

    • @chewbacca3269
      @chewbacca3269 2 года назад +16

      @@rexarashy2036 You make no sense

  • @SimplyRapMusic
    @SimplyRapMusic 2 года назад +39

    He seems like a good dude. Needs to find himself someone more appreciative of that.

    • @soupafleye
      @soupafleye 2 года назад +1

      and someone who is childish and makes fun of his accent. she’s a weirdo

  • @TGRAM7
    @TGRAM7 2 года назад +13

    I love when he says “here ya goo” in the sweetest voice when handing her the drink 🥰

  • @mocchikkidraws
    @mocchikkidraws 2 года назад +4

    The patience of this guy, now that's called commitment

  • @cherryblossomsandwisteria855
    @cherryblossomsandwisteria855 2 года назад +249

    The girl should be lucky to have a guy like him, who takes care of her. Silly that she's debating about wearing pants in a relationship.

    • @tztech2382
      @tztech2382 2 года назад +18

      Yeah. I thought this was a little distasteful. So he's helpful and hard working. You ask him to help you. I don't see the correlation of who wears the pants???
      Honestly, it kind of seems like the recorder isn't pulling their weight. That's just a mooch...

    • @westlee1626
      @westlee1626 2 года назад +5

      If you as a guy gotta get up and baby your girl in the relationship. 🤦 that’s just a sad relationship. You’re carrying her like a child. Your in a relationship. Take care of each other and don’t let the other fucking baby you. Shit just won’t end well in the end.

    • @Jeff-fo3ck
      @Jeff-fo3ck 2 года назад

      Its obviously a joke

    • @undefeatableyt7
      @undefeatableyt7 2 года назад

      @@westlee1626 You're absolutely right

    • @tzviki102
      @tzviki102 2 года назад +2

      She doesn't deserve him

  • @emmaleebelle
    @emmaleebelle 2 года назад +121

    He’s so sweet I need someone like this! Luv y’all

  • @blackbearproductions708
    @blackbearproductions708 2 года назад +6

    The trolling between these two is something underrated

  • @GKIE
    @GKIE 2 года назад +3

    he deserves someone better for sure 💯💯💯

  • @kendrikhawk7436
    @kendrikhawk7436 2 года назад +284

    This is actually pretty funny, if he's not just playing along. I can't shit in these videos, anymore. Lol.

    • @kendrikhawk7436
      @kendrikhawk7436 2 года назад +14

      I don't remember writing "I can't shit in these videos, anymore.", nor can I figure out what I meant by that, if I actually did write it. 😂

    • @Boredxm
      @Boredxm 2 года назад +7

      @@kendrikhawk7436 I was just reading that and you replied to your own comment talking about that. I had to comment because that sentence was unexpected and made me laugh. 🤣🤣

    • @chewbacca3269
      @chewbacca3269 2 года назад

      Ummm. Were you drunk when you wrote this?

    • @ttime1603
      @ttime1603 2 года назад

      This is a world full of cardi bS she really thinks she runs shit 😭

  • @randomvideosontheinternet4582
    @randomvideosontheinternet4582 2 года назад +125

    This happened with my girlfriend when we were at my house but I was the one washing the dishes and getting the drink. Babe you ever see this love you and now know why you asked me that. 😂❤️

  • @joeysnarock6663
    @joeysnarock6663 2 года назад +8

    I don't dare to do that to my boy. We should appreciate each other fairly as how we love each other too. Life is too short. Make the best of it for both of you

  • @rohabnaeem5832
    @rohabnaeem5832 2 года назад +3

    The people who didn't get the joke🤦‍♀️😂😂😂

  • @amiragraceministry401
    @amiragraceministry401 2 года назад +65

    He’s definitely the man of the house. He wears the pants.

  • @Jen_Z_
    @Jen_Z_ 2 года назад +383

    He can be a boss and still do dishes and get you your stuff. He is literally the perfect Bf material.

  • @angelinachhakchhuak79
    @angelinachhakchhuak79 2 года назад +2

    She’s so shameless and he’s so kind and priceless

  • @hazelotula515
    @hazelotula515 2 года назад +1

    He's a keeper.

  • @oniccachaba401
    @oniccachaba401 2 года назад +28

    I still can't get over how he says three with that Irish Accent

  • @es6404
    @es6404 2 года назад +9

    The “here you go” voice 😂

  • @spaceboy1346
    @spaceboy1346 2 года назад +18

    He’s so precious, I hope he finds someone who loves him the way he deserves to be loved 💕

    • @clab9792
      @clab9792 2 года назад +2

      She does love him it's Scripted lol

    • @eclipsed_rose9151
      @eclipsed_rose9151 2 года назад +1

      It’s scripted, tell me why would she post something about her wronging someone this is satire and comedy. That’s just like me successfully committing a crime and calling the police on myself after, like it doesn’t make sense

    • @NotAsh_8
      @NotAsh_8 2 года назад

      ITS A JOKEEEE

  • @alien_girl900
    @alien_girl900 2 года назад +3050

    AWW... He genuinely cares🥺
    Where can u get a guy like this , he is a fictional character I swear ✨
    Edit: Everyone I'm just a 15 year old who reads fiction and made this comment. I'm an introvert and I have absolutely 0 dating experience. So PLS STOP bashing ME for YOUR toxic past.

    • @minecraftmaker6087
      @minecraftmaker6087 2 года назад +7

      Just look

    • @alien_girl900
      @alien_girl900 2 года назад +4

      @@minecraftmaker6087 um.. What

    • @angelicagutierrez2626
      @angelicagutierrez2626 2 года назад +13

      @@minecraftmaker6087 I- it’s not that easy

    • @lilyisme7301
      @lilyisme7301 2 года назад +23

      Care about the personality more than looks and other materialistic things, then you may or may mot find him.

    • @nuhuh258
      @nuhuh258 2 года назад +5

      Imma get a women like that 😏

  • @ishitmyself6772
    @ishitmyself6772 2 года назад +65

    So he’s caring and nice, that isn’t a reason to say he doesn’t wear the pants, it’s obvious if he left your life he would have a lot bigger of an impact on your life than you would on him.

  • @user-kt9nc1hz7r
    @user-kt9nc1hz7r 2 года назад +1

    they both are engaged ....i just love both of them😭😭

  • @iconicswiss7843
    @iconicswiss7843 2 года назад +2

    So him being nice and loving and doing things for you out of the kindness of his heart means ur his "boss"

  • @juanm9182
    @juanm9182 2 года назад +380

    His mannerisms are like that of a middle aged overworked stressed out mom. Much respect for him tho. Bet he’s just on autopilot looking after his unappreciative mocking wife.

    • @1hunnidpercent
      @1hunnidpercent 2 года назад +3

      Yea hope they're not married 😕 he'll lose his mind in a yr

    • @pat2100
      @pat2100 2 года назад

      @@1hunnidpercent somehow they been together 3

    • @pugness
      @pugness 2 года назад

      Mom's usually do wear the pants though so he ain't wrong

  • @urukramakaushal3452
    @urukramakaushal3452 2 года назад +103

    I don't understand why would you or anyone do that to such a simple and adorable human being who take care of you and do everything for you

    • @mercy8669
      @mercy8669 2 года назад +2

      Fr

    • @lynn991
      @lynn991 2 года назад +3

      He is such a sweet soul. She can be rough to him.

    • @Rosemary33399
      @Rosemary33399 2 года назад +8

      Right? All these people like “y’all so cute where do I find one like him?” is it really this normal to expect someone to do everything for you while not contributing anything yourself, then go ahead n feel free to reduce them diminish them down and patronize them and act like he’s your little bitch or something ? then film it put it on the internet? I don’t understand either. thought I was the only one thinking she’s manipulative she’s toxic, they’re toxic affff if this vid wasn’t staged, he should run

  • @bellapradeep5035
    @bellapradeep5035 2 года назад +2

    She's so lucky to have him

  • @aphrodite9675
    @aphrodite9675 2 года назад +1

    Ok but its so cute when he said “here you go”

  • @MariannaCrapisi
    @MariannaCrapisi 2 года назад +13

    He s definitely right. If you really need to define a boss in a relationship he would be that.

  • @inaramir7600
    @inaramir7600 2 года назад +44

    When ppl take a caring man like him for granted… annoying, especially when you don’t have one by your side 😹

  • @karinaa.2765
    @karinaa.2765 2 года назад

    All the clues were right in front of his face🤣
    The drink did it for me🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @annamarie5616
    @annamarie5616 Год назад

    When he said "hErE u Go" that was so adorable lol

  • @nothingbutsomething158
    @nothingbutsomething158 2 года назад +33

    She's literally proving he wears the pants lmao

  • @awoodpecker4922
    @awoodpecker4922 2 года назад +177

    The fact he was rolling with his and her joking around by “bossing” him around and not breaking character at all is pure class.

  • @GIRLYISMS
    @GIRLYISMS 2 года назад +1

    He seems like such a sweet person :(

  • @someoneyoudontknow8372
    @someoneyoudontknow8372 2 года назад +3

    I feel like if the roles were reversed the guys in the comments wouldnt be so pissy about it cuz thats what a lot of them are thought. But i say make it fair clean after yourself, take care of urself, cook for urself or one day one cooks the other cleans and the other day it’s reversed. There perfect balance :)
    Thats the kind of relationship i want
    And ik the video is a joke

  • @BEPPEJHA
    @BEPPEJHA 2 года назад +45

    He definetily "wears the pants" and he s just gentle with you
    To "wear the pants" means to be responsable and in charge of the house, you alone cant even take your drink

    • @dben9986
      @dben9986 2 года назад +1

      I remember the old western shows where the man works and come back, watch TV and drink beer.
      The woman does a ton of shit while the husband is working.
      And when she finally leaves him. His life goes to shit.

    • @BEPPEJHA
      @BEPPEJHA 2 года назад

      @@dben9986 yeah, also right now these roles are not consistent because most women work same hours as men

    • @dben9986
      @dben9986 2 года назад

      I'm not saying that this is the one and only way things can work out. But it works for me and my girlfriend, so far.
      I feel that no one person should be wearing the proverbial pants. In my opinion, being in a relationship, both parties should be familiar with each other's strength and weaknesses. I may do better in certain situations, my girlfriend will do well in others.
      So I guess the concept of "wearing the pants" should be fluid and situational 🤷‍♂️

    • @BEPPEJHA
      @BEPPEJHA 2 года назад

      @@dben9986 yeah

    • @brandonhill7016
      @brandonhill7016 2 года назад

      @@dben9986 No, that's what leads to the failures of relationships to begin with. Someone has to make the final decision. I'm sure some women are suited for that role, but scientifically and historically the man is most suited to this role. And even if she does take the role most of those relationships end. It's just a sad reality. This girl is just an ingrate, no questions asked.

  • @LetsGoBrandon247
    @LetsGoBrandon247 2 года назад +131

    She sounds like a keeper. Can't wait for him to cheat on her with someone who isn't full of herself

    • @pinu9233
      @pinu9233 2 года назад +1

      LOL

    • @thedifferenceincolour7341
      @thedifferenceincolour7341 2 года назад +11

      Yeah how about he dumps her first tho

    • @pinu9233
      @pinu9233 2 года назад

      anyway

    • @mikeyh4406
      @mikeyh4406 2 года назад +3

      She's a DEPRECIATING ASSET...
      ONLY A MATTER OF TIME TILL HE FINDS A NEWER , YOUNGER, BETTER MOD

    • @westlee1626
      @westlee1626 2 года назад

      😂😂😂😂 yea ok

  • @catkin840
    @catkin840 2 года назад

    The person who will do things for the person he cares about... that's the most admirable thing.

  • @alvifatimarizwi7018
    @alvifatimarizwi7018 2 года назад +2

    He is so cute and kind. I hope he gets out of this toxic relationship soon. ❤️

  • @sacredalien8011
    @sacredalien8011 2 года назад +49

    So by this woman’s logic, if she ever has kids, then they will be the ones wearing the pants. Because it will now be her duty to do some work for them as well and answer to their needs.
    Interesting

  • @SubliminalMessHunter
    @SubliminalMessHunter 2 года назад +21

    Women: wants a guy who washes dishes, cooks, cleans, etc.
    also women: makes fun of a guy that washes dishes, cooks, cleans, etc.

    • @popkb
      @popkb 2 года назад +2

      @@UnknownRED333 oh no no no no no no no. WOMEN need to stop treating their partners like this. It's not cool. First you get a perfect bf and then you make fun of them. It's just not cool.

    • @mikeyh4406
      @mikeyh4406 2 года назад

      She's a depreciating asset

    • @shashank9638
      @shashank9638 2 года назад

      @@UnknownRED333 yeah keep blaming men for everything

  • @valentinahidalgo8729
    @valentinahidalgo8729 2 года назад +4

    This is a skit, I hope everyone realizes it. Y’all they’re engaged 😭

  • @jailiay
    @jailiay 2 года назад

    he is the kindest person I've ever seen

  • @horselover3186
    @horselover3186 2 года назад +21

    Y’all are the absolute cutest

  • @mattmcgrath3959
    @mattmcgrath3959 2 года назад +12

    Y'all are commenting about how she's "taking advantage" and that she "doesnt appreciate" him, but Im almost positive this is just a joking around video that he is 100% playing into.

    • @lolanimationstudios906
      @lolanimationstudios906 2 года назад

      Its not that. its that it gives other people such as wrong advocates, boomers and millennial the wrong idea of doing shit around a functional household

  • @RuthS-fm8pc
    @RuthS-fm8pc Год назад

    Everyone: “he’s right”
    Me: “tree days” 🤣😂😂

  • @Hdjdbvsgwjandb
    @Hdjdbvsgwjandb Год назад

    He was completely oblivious 😂

  • @sandstew2697
    @sandstew2697 2 года назад +47

    Slacks dont matter, actions do...maybe you should pray he never.gets tired

  • @anothermadguywastaken
    @anothermadguywastaken 2 года назад +143

    Actually, I think its kinda ironic that she thinks he's a simp bcs he does all that shit, which means she knows that usually it's her job (not necessarily this girl's, just "Her"), and practically being sexist. And what's ironic is that she, as a part of all that anti-sexist libertarian movements, still unconsciously knows that it's usually her job lol

    • @nobi6990
      @nobi6990 2 года назад +1

      Truth

    • @Parth-gx1nw
      @Parth-gx1nw 2 года назад +2

      I didn't got a shit but I agree with u

    • @moeelza7816
      @moeelza7816 2 года назад +3

      @@Parth-gx1nw 😂

    • @anothermadguywastaken
      @anothermadguywastaken 2 года назад

      @@Parth-gx1nw yea i kinda expected that after I re-read that long shit

    • @ibnmohamed7916
      @ibnmohamed7916 2 года назад +1

      He's a certified simp what u talking about

  • @swadee_khraab2341
    @swadee_khraab2341 2 года назад +13

    everyone: he deserbes better bla bla bla bla bla
    meanwhile him: he is a complete adult he knows what he wants or what he deserve stop being the judge bruh

  • @sitcomperson5739
    @sitcomperson5739 2 года назад +1

    Isn't this the same guy from tiktok who literally rolled on the ground in anger when his girlfriend incorrectly mentioned the number of years they have been together? 😂He is really cool

  • @yaileenmaldonado6366
    @yaileenmaldonado6366 2 года назад +5

    I think you proved his point. He wears the pants b/c you can't take care of yourself.

  • @ezrahversary1286
    @ezrahversary1286 2 года назад +7

    Nah I feel like he was getting pisssed of while saying this 😂

  • @MrNealrathore
    @MrNealrathore 2 года назад

    This men is clearly raised by amazing parents
    Well manner and soft spoken about his thoughts and role in his relationship...

  • @adrianneguinzo
    @adrianneguinzo 2 года назад

    Awwwe! Such a sweet guy. The right girl is out there for you, man! 😊🤟🏼

  • @shawty_1451
    @shawty_1451 2 года назад +5

    Her : Who wears the pants in the relationship?
    Him: death stare

  • @V2Ta__
    @V2Ta__ 2 года назад +11

    If mah man ain't like this I dont want him-🤚🏻😫✨

    • @goku6560
      @goku6560 2 года назад +1

      Basically a slave to your whims and fantasies alongside doing the work at home if his actual job wasn't enough. Don't grow too comfortable expecting men like this.

    • @UnknownRED333
      @UnknownRED333 2 года назад

      Do you broads tell that to the one night stand guys you hook up with as well?

    • @V2Ta__
      @V2Ta__ 2 года назад

      @@goku6560 okayyy that was sarcasm no need to get that worked up-☠

    • @V2Ta__
      @V2Ta__ 2 года назад

      @@UnknownRED333 it was a joke sir-😃☠

    • @goku6560
      @goku6560 2 года назад

      @@V2Ta__ add /s next time you do that and maybe I won't get worked up as much

  • @RojaJaneman
    @RojaJaneman 2 года назад +3

    😱 his accent is sooooo cute!!!

  • @meghanwilliams7442
    @meghanwilliams7442 Год назад

    It’s a boss ass bitch’’ got me good😂

  • @garnetAwe-are-one_EXO
    @garnetAwe-are-one_EXO 2 года назад +3

    For me "wearing the pants in the relationship" pertains to the person who has their shit together and is more responsible in a relationship.

  • @kiingkiiwii5223
    @kiingkiiwii5223 2 года назад +3

    Dude he is that boss

  • @peaches5845
    @peaches5845 2 года назад +2

    How lovely, this backfired at her harder than that dude keeps their relationship together.

  • @adithyand8734
    @adithyand8734 2 года назад

    Dude he's so sweet 😂😂

  • @Herbmione
    @Herbmione 2 года назад +18

    Idk if this was a joke on her end but I can understand his frustration, Relationships should be 50-50, helping each other and growing with each other. If this is real I really hope she starts steeping up in the relationship and do stuff with him, doing things together saves so much time and no fighting about who did what.

  • @doveletters1
    @doveletters1 2 года назад +12

    Girl hes solid relationship material i mean a level class man. Be good to him sis.

  • @haveaniceday23
    @haveaniceday23 2 года назад

    This is so perfect. He's oblivious and thinks he has the upper hand. So perfect

  • @bobsam7870
    @bobsam7870 2 года назад +1

    Oh here KING you dropped this 👑

  • @krittikauppal2924
    @krittikauppal2924 2 года назад +113

    I love how he's trying to say that wearing the pants means handling the house and not just earning for the house cause I think it's high time that we got over this stupid gender stereotype that have been given to men and women for centuries and let them make their own choices regardless of gender

    • @alexanderoquendo243
      @alexanderoquendo243 2 года назад +1

      I would put my bets on the wisdom of thousands of years of experience over some stupid selfish idealistic girl whim.