Is It Possible to Have a Healthy Relationship with a Narcissist?
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You will NEVER get honesty from a narcissist. That's the sad truth. Thanks for the lesson.
When you truly understand this, you've taken the red pill ...and it's a hard one to swallow.
That doesn't mean they are like the Red Pill misogynistic incel groups however so please specify that 😊
All the best red pills are actually black pills.
I wish I would have heard this 20yrs ago.
'The lies you're telling yourself': realising this was the single thing that triggered a pivotal light bulb moment for me. Then I knew I had to look at the truth about a loved and close relative of mine. It seemed almost impossible to do because I couldn't face the emotional agony at first. Once I understood and fully accepted their self-centeredness and their lack of caring for me, I was able to let go of other toxic ties.
It's a long grieving process: letting go of your phantasy world and putting it to rest like someone who has died, is just as difficult. Watching your videos and listening to your merciless directness really helps me with my grieving and with moving forward. Thank you :)
You are welcome. Would love to help you on your healing journey. Check out this video to see if you connect: www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough
@@RawMotivations yes, will do, thanks!
Unless your partner is willing to be honest and valuable i would say no.
Your in for a emotional roller-coaster ride.
Thank you for speaking with passion...I need this!
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Yessss I am always asking how can I make this work
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How would you be able to get over the whole life changing experience…I don’t think they have self reflection to even acknowledge what they are let alone change…and once you see it you can’t forget.
I know I will also struggle to trust again and I find myself trying work out if peoples actions are genuine etc.
Some of the horrendous things they say to you and justify it with anger!!everyone has ups and downs but with a narc it’s something very different…..sadly.
I hate to bring it to you, but very frequently they have self reflection, they just pretend to be way dumber or more clueless than they really are.
Even the "justifying with anger" is a so called "gaslighting", trying to make you feel it's your fault instead of theirs.
As much as it hurts, it's good to see the situation for what it is. I know it's painful.
He couldnt compromise. He said either you decide or i decide. 😮
Also said:" doing things togetuer is overrated"
Or that: hes not going to "sing cumbaya"...
How many times have you cheated or betrayed her since you got back together...?
Zero
I’ve put more hope in the relationship than any care towards myself. I’m to the point I’m done. It’s been a long while I’ve been hoping and hope and even prayer doesn’t work on a man who loves himself and would never think of changing cause his toxicity allows him to get his supply from others constantly. I think that fact is the answer I’ve been needing so I can leave and know I tried.
I need this, I love this woman so much that I was ready to sacrifice everything including my own son.
Don't ever do this.
You should not ever go to the point where you're losing yourself, for the sake of someone else. Because once You start to compromise this much, you lose yourself. In your life, your connection to yourself, the sense of what's wrong and right and what's important. And without that you can't live life right - if you lose yourself.
I loved my ex so much. Just purely loved, nothing else.
I finally closed the relationship once after 12 years. It was unfinished. I just didn't want this anymore, so decided not to give him a chance anymore, when he'll decide to come back 3 months down the line. I had blocked all the channels, except 2: email and IG. I gave up hope, I knew what I wanted (a healthy relationship) but I couldn't bring it over my heart to close it down completely, because we were long distance and I knew the only option left would be for him to board a plane.
He was trying to contact me in the past 2 years repeatedly. I ignored it. But his messages seemed more real, more like genuine regret. But I can't be sure, because it did look like that in the past as well, and still things went back to what they were before.
Now, during these 2 years I worked on moving on, I was making progress. But something was still hanging on. Then when I wanted to remove that rear of my connection to him, he wrote me the next day. To call him. I was hesitating, but eventually 6 days later decided to give him/us a chance to talk. That we didn't have, because he didn't bother to do it at the end, because he wasn't being honest or have the balls to go there.
Unfortunately, I found out shortly after that that he had had an accident at that very moment and lost his life.
Now, I've been crying for 3 months. I don't know if he changed, I don't think he did yet. But I feel he may have admitted to himself his life situation.
And if I'm sorry for something is that I didn't walk away much sooner. I wouldn't have wasted all those years. Perhaps he would have woken up earlier and made the change. Or he wouldn't, and I would have been at a different point in my life now, having a life with someone else (for example).
By staying and by compromising you only enabled it, and you make them not realize things are wrong. Since they manage to lie to themselves even when things are very clearly wrong, imagine how it is when you pretend things are ok - by staying.
Don't ever do this.
You should not ever go to the point where you're losing yourself, for the sake of someone else. Because once You start to compromise this much, you lose yourself. In your life, your connection to yourself, the sense of what's wrong and right and what's important. And without that you can't live life right - if you lose yourself.
I loved my ex so much. Just purely loved, nothing else.
I finally closed the relationship once after 12 years. It was unfinished. I just didn't want this anymore, so decided not to give him a chance anymore, when he'll decide to come back 3 months down the line. I had blocked all the channels, except 2: email and IG. I gave up hope, I knew what I wanted (a healthy relationship) but I couldn't bring it over my heart to close it down completely, because we were long distance and I knew the only option left would be for him to board a plane.
He was trying to contact me in the past 2 years repeatedly. I ignored it. But his messages seemed more real, more like genuine regret. But I can't be sure, because it did look like that in the past as well, and still things went back to what they were before.
Now, during these 2 years I worked on moving on, I was making progress. But something was still hanging on. Then when I wanted to remove that rear of my connection to him, he wrote me the next day. To call him. I was hesitating, but eventually 6 days later decided to give him/us a chance to talk. That we didn't have, because he didn't bother to do it at the end, because he wasn't being honest or have the balls to go there.
Unfortunately, I found out shortly after that that he had had an accident at that very moment and lost his life.
Now, I've been crying for 3 months. I don't know if he changed, I don't think he did yet. But I feel he may have admitted to himself his life situation.
And if I'm sorry for something is that I didn't walk away much sooner. I wouldn't have wasted all those years. Perhaps he would have woken up earlier and made the change. Or he wouldn't, and I would have been at a different point in my life now, having a life with someone else (for example).
By staying and by compromising you only enabled it, and you make them not realize things are wrong. Since they manage to lie to themselves even when things are very clearly wrong, imagine how it is when you pretend things are ok - by staying.
What's wrong with you. You never give up on your children, ever.
@@cheryldemarco889 i know , she's giving me an ultimatum to modify my child custody.
Well how do you know then?!
Totally accurate!
NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In short, no.
Nope
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I really regret that before my wedding I didn't know anything about hidden personality disorders, especially narcissism and its consequences for people who get in its way.