1:43:51 Love Maps Questionnaire 1:47:29 The Love Map 20 Questions Game 1:54:29 Make Your Own Love Maps 1:56:56 Who Am I? 2:15:31 Fondness and Admiration Questionnaire 2:24:29 A Seven Week Course in Fondness and Admiration
After listening to this audio for just a few minutes by myself last night, I was able to implement understanding the request behind the emotion, and I got beautiful results. I know one night didn't fix everything, but I am confident that this information will continue to be useful in the future.
1. Partners best friend 2. Current stress 3. Irritating relatives 4. People irritating them right now 5. Some Life dreams 6. Relatives they like the least 7. Familiar with my partner current stress 8. Most stressful things happed as child 9. Knows My friends 10. Religious beliefs and ideas 11. Basic philosophy of life and ideas 12. Favrt music 13. Three favrt movies 14. 3 special times of life 15. Major current worries 16. What will do Suddenly won the lottery 17. I Perodically ask Her world right now 18. They know My current stress 19. Major aspirations and hopes in life 20. I think they Know me pretty well
00:36 Chapter 1 - Inside Seattle Love Lab 45:42 Happy Couple’s secret weapon 51:00 Chapter 2 - How I predict Divorce 55:54 The Four Horsemen 1:36:38 Chapter 3 - Principle 1 “Enhance your Love Maps” 2:05:45 Chapter 4 - Principle 2 “Nurture your Fondness” 2:34:29 Chapter 5: Principle 3 - Turn towards each other
00:00 Title and Introduction 00:34 1 Inside the Seattle Love Lab/The Truth About Happy Marriages 50:58 2 How I Predict Divorce 01:36:32 3 Principal One: Enhance Your Love Maps
A thought, financial insecurity, I imagine has a signaficant impact on verbal skill and emotional intelligence/skill. Just a thought, to invest in becoming financially savvie, build skill to grow wealth, must be closely linked to emotional well-being, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution. Did you see the resent stats on how many % of the world's population are ready to retire financially free at retirement age? Maybe the focus areas for healthy relationships needs to be widen?
bout an hour and a half in and it feels like all this has done is tell me, "okay, if you and your partner are doing this, this, this, and this.....(me, checks all 4) your marriage is already hosed. Does this ever turn around with a bit more optimism or give advice on positive adjustments that can be made to improve the situation?
I know this is an old comment but it's technically never too late to stop all bad habbits and develop new healthy ones if your partner is willing to do so. I would suggest focusing on what you can personally control in your relationship and seeing if they come around and reciprocate
Harsh set up: contempt-criticism, sarcasm, blaming If harsh set up at beginning of conversation, it will end on a negative note regardless if there are many attempts to make nice in between. You can predict outcome of conversation by the first three minutes of the conversation.
One of the best book. For couples who are COMMITTED to make their relationship work I see how it could help. Thanks for sharing.
Thank u lord for guiding me to this book when I meet my future wife we are going to play the 20 question love game. I really can’t wait.
It’s an amazing game! Played it last night on the couch. What a beautiful way to connect.
😂
Amen
Praise the Lord!
@@60secondrhymesthat’s what’s up im going to play it soon
1:43:51 Love Maps Questionnaire
1:47:29 The Love Map 20 Questions Game
1:54:29 Make Your Own Love Maps
1:56:56 Who Am I?
2:15:31 Fondness and Admiration Questionnaire
2:24:29 A Seven Week Course in Fondness and Admiration
Thank you
He doesn't talk about God in this book 🗑
After listening to this audio for just a few minutes by myself last night, I was able to implement understanding the request behind the emotion, and I got beautiful results. I know one night didn't fix everything, but I am confident that this information will continue to be useful in the future.
1. Partners best friend
2. Current stress
3. Irritating relatives
4. People irritating them right now
5. Some Life dreams
6. Relatives they like the least
7. Familiar with my partner current stress
8. Most stressful things happed as child
9. Knows My friends
10. Religious beliefs and ideas
11. Basic philosophy of life and ideas
12. Favrt music
13. Three favrt movies
14. 3 special times of life
15. Major current worries
16. What will do Suddenly won the lottery
17. I Perodically ask Her world right now
18. They know My current stress
19. Major aspirations and hopes in life
20. I think they Know me pretty well
00:36 Chapter 1 - Inside Seattle Love Lab
45:42 Happy Couple’s secret weapon
51:00 Chapter 2 - How I predict Divorce
55:54 The Four Horsemen
1:36:38 Chapter 3 - Principle 1 “Enhance your Love Maps”
2:05:45 Chapter 4 - Principle 2 “Nurture your Fondness”
2:34:29 Chapter 5: Principle 3 - Turn towards each other
00:32 chapter 1
51:00 chapter 2
1:36:32 chapter 3
2:05:44 chapter 4
chapter 5
3:13:15 chapter 6
chapter 7
chapter 8
chapter 9
06:54:58 chapter 10
chapter 11
chapter 12
chapter 13 - afterwards
CHAPTER 5 2:34:27
Principle 3: Turn toward Each Other Instead of Away
Can’t believe this is free on RUclips!
yes I love that. I bought the book to read along and highlight key points.
1:16:00 Men and Women Really Are Different- Ch.3-How I predict Divorce
1:20:56 The Fifth Sign: Failed Repair Attempts- Ch. 3- How I predict Divorce
Extremely relevant for all the couples, there's nothing but lessons to learn.
Thank you sharing this. ❤❤❤❤ going to put many principles to use. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Great book.thank you for uploading this.
You're the strangest looking Allen I've ever seen.😉
Very helpful 👌
Great book. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
CHAPTER 6 3:13:15
Principle 4: Let Your Partner Influence You
It’s not the inter course in the affair, it’s the emotional intimacy and friendship that makes one partner seek other relationships. (28 -> 33 min)
Wonderful insights 👌
my book has slightly different examples so far. i wonder if my copy is before or after this one.... it does say "revised" on the cover.
I'd be guessing newer then. What are the differences?
55:54 the four horseman
Love this book! It is totally awesome!!!
2:05:42 Chapter 4: Principle 2. Nurture Your Fond and Admiration
00:00 Title and Introduction
00:34 1 Inside the Seattle Love Lab/The Truth About Happy Marriages
50:58 2 How I Predict Divorce
01:36:32 3 Principal One: Enhance Your Love Maps
Thank you ❤️
38:01 the Evidencie please.
CHAPTER 4 2:05:44
Principle 2: Nurture Your fondness and Admiration
he also write 8 conversations it is a free audio on YOU TUBE too!
Chapter 2 51:00
Active listening and other myths (20 min -> 26 min)
45:42 happy couples secret weapon
51:04 chapter 2 how I predict divorce
Personal bookmark 4:42:35
4:09:15 The Two Kinds of Marital Conflict
4:32:03
4:57:41
5:52:07
5:54:06
6:11:57
A thought, financial insecurity, I imagine has a signaficant impact on verbal skill and emotional intelligence/skill. Just a thought, to invest in becoming financially savvie, build skill to grow wealth, must be closely linked to emotional well-being, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution. Did you see the resent stats on how many % of the world's population are ready to retire financially free at retirement age? Maybe the focus areas for healthy relationships needs to be widen?
CHAPTER 3 01:36:37
Principle 1: Enhance Your Love Maps
1:36:50 love maps
bout an hour and a half in and it feels like all this has done is tell me, "okay, if you and your partner are doing this, this, this, and this.....(me, checks all 4) your marriage is already hosed. Does this ever turn around with a bit more optimism or give advice on positive adjustments that can be made to improve the situation?
I know this is an old comment but it's technically never too late to stop all bad habbits and develop new healthy ones if your partner is willing to do so. I would suggest focusing on what you can personally control in your relationship and seeing if they come around and reciprocate
Were you able to make it work
@@AlondraGonzalez-m6f we're still together. Whether or not it's "working" is debatable.
@@Jaystub I’m glad yall are and I hope I’m still with mine too I’m will to put all the work into this
1:18:10 page 43
Moral of the story everyone should marry women 😅
Ummm. Not really.
55:00 harsh setup, criticism and complaint
Harsh set up: contempt-criticism, sarcasm, blaming
If harsh set up at beginning of conversation, it will end on a negative note regardless if there are many attempts to make nice in between.
You can predict outcome of conversation by the first three minutes of the conversation.
18:00 conflict
Time stamp 2:02:10
2:37:20 emotional bank account
2:40 important
3:00 important
Time Stamp
8:04:44
40:00 friends
48:30 50:05 downward spiral
Do you have a love map?
Chapter 4: 3:13:18
16:10
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Emotional bank account! Add to it! So in hard times you can have something to fall back on
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51:24
This does not follow along with the book I have
45:00
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19:04. Na 9
Secret: Communication and Conflict/Resentment Resolution/ Active listening (15 min)
@39 min
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4:15:00
5:00:00
5:22:58
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7:05:00
Very helpful 👌
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