Please this is not a discussion to have. It works for her based on her words, it may not work for someone else. Please let's be careful not to miss lead this young ones. I love this show so much but some topics from this angle are not necessarily. Marriage is not all about money o. Let's remember Alakija
Shade Okoya's marriage is a marriage based purely on finances $$...Who is asking nonsense questions when they see billions. It is called No Questions Asked marriage!🤣
Kudos to the Matriarch of the Okoya clan, Alhaja Kuburat, I'm not sure i got the name right. She set the template for Shade's acclaimed success in marriage today. She endured a lot. Role reversal, Shade wouldn't take it.
No romance without finance. One of the top reasons for divorce is FINANCE. That's not money or riches, FINANCE is a top reason. It could be personal finance, financial management or financial decisions.
You don't know the story of the okoyas.He had more than 10 wives.He had to severe his union with nine and retained is first wife only.Shade is only showing the good part to justify her decision.she can't never come out to tell you the ugly side
Donor forgot Okoya still has 3senior wives in the house wait till when he is no more then she will face those family that are with him from the beginning when he has only one shop inTinubu square.remember in polygamous family every children is to their mother.remember S.B.Bakarel today the family distroyed each other because Quran says you must treat your wives equally
Thank you morayo for this beautiful topic, I’m currently in this state now and I’m a single mum of one. There’s this man who wants to marry me as he’s third wife. He’s divorced with his first wife, the 2nd wife is still believing God for the fruit of the womb and she’s not ready to move down to Nigeria with her husband according to him. So he said he’s scared of his old age and he wants another wife. I’m so confused right now. Mind you the age gap is 36 years.
Beware. The question you should ask is why would he want to marry someone he is 36 years older than. From what you shared, he is from abroad because you said that's where his second wife is based. Do your investigation very well. People know people. Get to know people who know him to get the truth about his life because he may be being economical with the truth...
Pls, don't go into such a relationship with a wide Gap....I know it's not easy to be a single mom, lots of insecurities and men taking advantage of the situation...but with prayers and patience, the right person will come
Shade okoya case is different. He is a billionaire. The money is there. So as long as okoya create time fir her them it's a go ahead. As long as he is still able to make love to her then all good
The mariage is ehn. You can't know everything. If we keep researching before mariage. No one will get married. Lol. Everyone has one skeleton/weakness or the other.
There should be community services to prepare young people for courtship and marriage. When I first got married I went into the relationship blindly. My parents did not know that thye were supposed to prepare me and my friends and family members told me nothing, because they got trapped in the wrong marriages themselves. I wish that I knew then what I know now. I could not prepare my children either. They did not want to discuss those things with me. They always think that they know better than the generation before them. I would not know what to say to prepare my children anyway. They would listen more to a stranger than their parents, or even their friends and classmates. I made so many mistakes because I was not prepared. I am now on my second marriage.
I beg, love isn't the all in all o. It's not everyone u fall in love with that's marriage material, or ordained for u. Pls pray, pray & pray. Also listen to ur instincts & watch out for red flags. Shalom
Morayo! Everything is not about money. This is not an ideal marriage for this discussion. I think the producer of this program should know better what values are you trying to feed to the young ones?. You cannot speak for Shade Okoya.
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my courtship lasted for just 34 days, and the marriage is 19 years now and we are happy for those period
Hey lucky you, Love that, God bless your home, I pray I have my own good home on time,,in Jesus name,
Wow, that's amazing! It just goes to show that when it's right, it's right. Wishing you both continued happiness and many more joyful years together.
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Please this is not a discussion to have. It works for her based on her words, it may not work for someone else. Please let's be careful not to miss lead this young ones. I love this show so much but some topics from this angle are not necessarily. Marriage is not all about money o. Let's remember Alakija
Shade Okoya's marriage is a marriage based purely on finances $$...Who is asking nonsense questions when they see billions. It is called No Questions Asked marriage!🤣
There is no manual for marriage.
It is based on the individual/parent/goals in life
This is not a marriage to use as template for this conversation of courtship
You are 100% right. This is an exception
Absolutely right.
Kudos to the Matriarch of the Okoya clan, Alhaja Kuburat, I'm not sure i got the name right. She set the template for Shade's acclaimed success in marriage today. She endured a lot. Role reversal, Shade wouldn't take it.
You hot o o o
Nawa o o o
No romance without finance.
One of the top reasons for divorce is FINANCE. That's not money or riches, FINANCE is a top reason. It could be personal finance, financial management or financial decisions.
Get to know each other well, is good in start of relationship.
You don't know the story of the okoyas.He had more than 10 wives.He had to severe his union with nine and retained is first wife only.Shade is only showing the good part to justify her decision.she can't never come out to tell you the ugly side
I'm so sure Amaka was influenced in the conversation of marriage & courtship by our dear PBO (Pastor 'Bimbo Odukoya) of blessed memory...so sure!
No discussion needed here please. .this is a billionaire
Donor forgot Okoya still has 3senior wives in the house wait till when he is no more then she will face those family that are with him from the beginning when he has only one shop inTinubu square.remember in polygamous family every children is to their mother.remember S.B.Bakarel today the family distroyed each other because Quran says you must treat your wives equally
Every "child..."
Thank you morayo for this beautiful topic, I’m currently in this state now and I’m a single mum of one. There’s this man who wants to marry me as he’s third wife. He’s divorced with his first wife, the 2nd wife is still believing God for the fruit of the womb and she’s not ready to move down to Nigeria with her husband according to him. So he said he’s scared of his old age and he wants another wife. I’m so confused right now. Mind you the age gap is 36 years.
If you are actually thinking of marrying him, I guess you are not thinking of your old age hey? 36 years is a lot of gap.
Beware. The question you should ask is why would he want to marry someone he is 36 years older than. From what you shared, he is from abroad because you said that's where his second wife is based. Do your investigation very well. People know people. Get to know people who know him to get the truth about his life because he may be being economical with the truth...
Pls, don't go into such a relationship with a wide Gap....I know it's not easy to be a single mom, lots of insecurities and men taking advantage of the situation...but with prayers and patience, the right person will come
Shade okoya case is different. He is a billionaire. The money is there. So as long as okoya create time fir her them it's a go ahead. As long as he is still able to make love to her then all good
Pls somebody should ask madam okoya, if that man was not wealthy would she have married him still?
The mariage is ehn. You can't know everything. If we keep researching before mariage. No one will get married. Lol. Everyone has one skeleton/weakness or the other.
This lady is the Regina Daniel’s of her time imo 🤷🏾♀️
There should be community services to prepare young people for courtship and marriage. When I first got married I went into the relationship blindly. My parents did not know that thye were supposed to prepare me and my friends and family members told me nothing, because they got trapped in the wrong marriages themselves. I wish that I knew then what I know now. I could not prepare my children either. They did not want to discuss those things with me. They always think that they know better than the generation before them. I would not know what to say to prepare my children anyway. They would listen more to a stranger than their parents, or even their friends and classmates. I made so many mistakes because I was not prepared. I am now on my second marriage.
I beg, love isn't the all in all o.
It's not everyone u fall in love with that's marriage material, or ordained for u.
Pls pray, pray & pray. Also listen to ur instincts & watch out for red flags. Shalom
Morayo! Everything is not about money. This is not an ideal marriage for this discussion. I think the producer of this program should know better what values are you trying to feed to the young ones?. You cannot speak for Shade Okoya.
morayo's wig looks terribble