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ALL PEOPLE WITH AUTISM ARE NEURODIVERGENT, BUT NOT ALL NEURODIVERGENT PEOPLE HAVE AUTISM!!!! Things that are considered neurodivergent are ADHD, developmental speech disorders, dyslexia, dyspraxia, dyscalculia, dysnomia, intellectual disability, Tourette syndrome, bipolarity, and schizoaffective disorder. There are so many more, but just because you don't have autism doesn't mean you aren't neurodivergent.
YEAH! I show signs of adhd, autism and dyspraxia and I’m unable to get diagnosed due to my mental health shit rn and my parents not taking it seriously enough, but thanks, this was really validating! 🥺☺️
I'm almost 100% sure I have adhd and dyscalculia and I may be autistic too but my parents keep telling me "itS jUst HorMonEs" even though I've been having symptoms of adhd, autism and dyscalculia since I was a young child.
@@emotapw same here! My dad doesn’t want to believe something is ‘wrong’ with his kid and my mum listens to me but never helps me to actually get help, I’m not complaining because my mum is lovely and so is my dad, but I really wanna KNOW, yk?
@@googoogaga7986 ah yes, very lovely
Right! I have OCD and I'm going to get checked out for ADHD and Autism sometime this year. Only my mom and close family members understand this though in terms of my situation. When I bring neurodiversity into conversations to people like my teachers because of concerns/extra questions, they usually tell me it's just me being hormonal. I get that I'm a teenager, but that doesn't mean everything about me is because of puberty.
fun fact: there’s a type of gladiator named after fish because of the ridges on the helmets they wore and the way they were trained to move- quickly darting around
wait thats so cool-
where can i read about this? its important.
@@hauntedmuppets1470 the type of gladiators are called mermillos! i don’t know any specific books because my latin teacher told me about it
That's so cool tbh
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I looked into it and bruh their helmet looks like a fish too lmao
the one comparing biting your finger to executive dysfunction is so true holy shit that is exactly what it is like
I always wondered what was wrong with me cause I feel like I can never get myself to do hw or take baths or really even start doing things I like doing but I never really knew that executive dysfunction was like a thing so I just beat myself up over being lazy. Tbh idk if thats whats up with me id have to like figure it out but is similar so
I mean it’s a good metaphor but technically they’re wrong in that it takes a LOT of force to bite into your finger
@@andreah9587 no? Not really.
@@myraren1020 it actually does take a lot more force to bite through a finger than it does to bite through a carrot! It's physically impossible for most people to do so! :)
@@myraren1020 Even if my brain stops me from biting off my finger. I can bite my finger way harder than I can a carrot.
My "neurotypical" media: hunger games. I've only watched the first two, I watched the first one twice and zoned out at the end of the second
I feel like I need a NT media. But if I'm not thinking about it 24/7 my brain just goes "no it's boring find something better". But at the same time my therapist tells me I need a calming thing I can do because my brain needs to not be stimulated all the time because I need to do things like sleep and relax and not have anxiety. And literally the only thing I have is embroidery. And even then I can become obsessive over it at times. Just autism things.
I swear I must have a neurotypical media somewhere but I cannot for the life of me recall, because my current hyper fixation is driving all other thoughts out
I didnt watch it at all, i just cant force myself to do it😅
My NT media is probably Killing Eve, Miranda or Sherlock idk (are these even NT 😳)
I love the books and will infodump about them for hours. But action movies in general? I just zone out way too much....
In that last one, the person said “troubled it up a bit” and idk why but for some reason my brain really likes that phrase. One might even say it makes my brain go whoosh. :)
their entire way of speaking and accent makes my brain happy, idk if it's the way they like, idk put more effort into the words/sounds but it makes audio processing brain go "brr weewoop that's noises we know"
I know same :) also I just typed a text smiley face and that also makes my brain go whoosh
And so does the phrase “makes my brain go whoosh” xD
i LOVE the phrase " troubled it up a bit" im adopting it rn!
nroom likey brain likey alot
I WAS JUST THINKING THE SAME THING i wonder if there's a reason for that!!!
Practically every new nerodivergent bit I learn about I'm like "oh hey I got a bit of that kinda".
making me realize just how fucking weird normies are.
And my parents still e we not get me diagnosed with anything!
@Katherine Grebenc this stuff actually got me to go and get a screening. Because I'm largely high-functioning Wasn't enough for a diagnosis at the time but it's hard to tell how much of that is because of how I deal with a testing environment/how I describe things.
It's enough for me anyway as I don't want to medicate and Likely wouldn't even tell most people
@@unktheunk1428 did you even?? Watch the video?? And the countless tiktoks explaining why functioning labels are harmful??
@@dexternoch8803 I'm confused at what the contention here is
@@unktheunk1428 the entire video has tick tocks mentioning how harmful functioning labels are, just for you to use the label high functioning in a comment.
Fun fact: Vikings used to eat slivers of the Amanita Muscaria (Fly Agaric) mushroom before battle because it would get rid of their fear, this is why they were amazing warriors.
is that a drug-
Ok but actually this is super fuking cool I gasped-
Now I'm just imagining a warrior going "Yo is that a fuckin unicorn dawg?"
for anyone you scrolls past this an immediately has the urge to go to google and search it up, it's the iconic mushroom. like the ones in cartoons, minecraft. Red with white spots and a white stem. your welcome.
i bet you still searched it up. 😏
FINALLY i know the correct mushroom to stuff in my mouth the next time i'm off to fight god
Fun fact:
the first orange wasn't even orange
What was it?
@@user-io3ur7yy5g pale green or yellow
wait WHAT, i'm gonna need more info on that
@@jules8025 lol
@@lux2996 ahh cool! I will store this fact in my brain for later usage. Thank you for feeding the fact corner of my brain. Yum
Hearing all these terms that I realize I have makes me feel so less alien.. Even just doing a little research is making me feel like I actually belong somewhere, hearing the tiktok talk about what executive disfunction feels like made me realize that what I have is starting to get a name..
i know right?? executive dysfunction s u c k s though, i hope you can find a way to do your things easier soon.
@@KeruuKat thank you! and it really does..
Fun fact! There are actually different categories of executive functions (the exact number differs depending on how you slice it but I learned that there were 5)
The one people seem to most often refer to when they say “Executive Dysfunction” is “Activation”. That is, the spark that signals to your brain that it will now begin a task. (This can feel like yelling at your brain to get up and do a specific thing, but you just Can’t Start)
The second most common usage I’ve observed is when referring to the “organization and prioritization” of tasks. (This often seems to present as being unable to figure out what specific task or part of a task to start with)
Other Executive Functions include the regulation and control of Working Memory, maintaining Focus, Emotional regulation, Impulse regulation, and sustaining Effort
I’ve found it useful to map out to myself which Executive Functions I’m better at than others.
For example I am about an 8/10 at regulating my impulses, but a 3/10 in Activation. It just helps me understand my brain a little better
@@legoduckie woah! tysm for the information! im learning so much
Thanks for putting cc where the op didn’t. Im not deaf, i just can’t pay attention to audio only lmao
Yeah I noticed that and I too appreciate it
I have auditory processing disorder and captions are seriously so so so helpful. So yeah thanks for the captions!!!
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are you 33 years old
@@nohintshere I was bouta go off but then I had a t h o u g h t and I have to add- do you also stretch 15 minutes before, and after bed?
same
i just cant pay attention in general. always get yelled at for not paying attention or because i end up destroying things
glad to see i wasn't the only one who got excited that i could tick off one more thing in the "are you a demigod" quiz once i realized i had adhd
it was my special interest for literal years so i definitely did lmao
What book was that that the guy flipped through what is it called
@@maddieriggs9955 it's a book from the Percy Jackson series :) i think it's the first book? Not sure
@@siratlas8198 thank u
And here is my PowerPoint presentation of why I am a demigod, hades is my father, and hazel and nico are my siblings: (I actually made that)
Random fun fact about a hyperfixation: There's a version of Minecraft that runs on the Raspberry Pi mini computers. Try it out, it's a version meant to help teaching coding in. . .I think Python if I rememeber correctly
YOOO THAT IS SO SWAG
AAAAAAAH
we used that in coding club in elementary school! it was rad tbh
Woah thats actually really fucking neat
The pandemmy really made me realise that i should probably get tested for adhd or autism because im convinced that i may have either one or a lil bit of both
I’m now using the word pandemmy thank you
Also, I have extremely high functioning ADHD and really low functioning Autism (almost impossible to notice unless you know me extremely well)
pandemmy, i thought that was a real word and i was reading it all weird. i was about to search it up and them it hit me. right in the face. i feel dumb.
@@beatriceprior5914 I feel that
Yeah me too and I relate to a lot of the adhd/autism things in videos like these
That wine glass one *immediately* gave me the biggest grin when he made the noise
Yes! It made me grin and say oooooh in happiness. 😊 was very nice sound.
i physically did ALL the happy stims. like. the hand shakey, the giggles, burying my face in my hands. i like that noise too
Seriously! I'm in a sleepy state rn but the sound woke me up and made me happy (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)
my jaw DROPPED, that sound needs to be used in a song
fun fact! The US dropped a nuke in the arctic ocean on accident it didn't go off and despite several missions to retrieve it it was never recoveres
explain???
@@ianmcnichols934 they dropped a nuke in the ocean and it never went off
great! so it's just chilling down there?
OH OH!!! We've lost around 14 nukes and still can't find them! This is one *points up at comment*.
I have an ADHD test in two days.
Edit 1: tomorrow.
Edit 2: it’s in two weeks. Oops.
Good luck on the test?
@@dynamics_of_aro thanks?
I love the question marks at the end of these replies- 💀
Have fun?
I need one-
🥨 3:45 in case anyone is curious: if you're hand making them, you can sprinkle them with salt right after boiling them in baking soda water. If they're pre cooked soft pretzels, you usually put melted butter on them so the salt sticks. If that's not available, I use the tiniest bit of water and rub that on top 😆🥨
It’s true!! I’ve made them before! I used to always wonder about them and then I just decided to make them!
THANK YOUUU
2:15 I thought I was the only one who starts getting physically restless when I wanna infodump omg-
It’s like the vibezzz start leaking out of your body as you prepare the super special power up
Wait so I'm not alone either- like yesterday i was jus DYING to tell my friends about what just happened and i thought it was weird and bothering and bad and annoying or smt cuz i do that a lot and i can't help it but then they reassured me too many times and so i spilled EVERYTHING lol
No I totally do that
so who else cried after/during finding this video once they found out they weren't just picky/annoying/talkative/etc. and that you actually aren't alone.
its prob just me ok ill go now
like damn. its not just me? there are other people like me? whoahhsdvkfdfahaaaahhhhhhhhhhh
The system talking about making food was so sweet. Like “thank u for communicating with me in any way you can” and patting their head 😭😭😭 my heart
8:38 I try to always react appropriately because I know how it feels to be shut down and not get the reaction you wanted. I really don't want what happens to me almost everyday, to ruin someone else's day. Y'know?
YES!!! I DO TOO!! I do that all the time because I hate being shut down when I'm really interested in something and it really really hurts my feelings. I always try to exaggerate my reactions and try to seem interested when people talk about something they like even if I don't like it because it makes me feel terrible when someone brushes off something I'm passionate about. Same with responding with just 'okay' (sorry for this little rant)
Fun fact: succulents can store water in their leaves because they come from areas where it barely rains so when it does rain they store that water and drink (drink??) it over time! That's why their leaves are so thick.
I love succulents like- they're my mom's special interest so she tells me all this cool facts about them and it's just so amazing. Succulents are so wonderful
@@lunad2595 agreed! I do have a hard time keeping them alive though haha. But they are very cool :D. I think plants in general are amazing
Fun fact Brian from dream daddy hates being the little spoon. The main charcater from persona 5 wears fake glasses and can see fine.
wait, wtf!? thank you for that man!
i love brian.,..,., , ,
Girl at the end spitting straight FACTS
fun fact hello kitty's name is Kitty white, she has a twin sister named Mimmy. their parents being Mary and George White. shes in the third grade and shes british. i have a lot more but my fingies hurt from typing aghdflkjghsdkfj u can tells me if u want more tho
Does kitty have classmates this is essential information I must know
@@redacted1973 i dont really know ab that but im pretty sure, also i do know that she has a boyfriend named Dear Daniel who has been friends with her since they were babies and his sign is Taurus and they're the same age, so do with this knowledge what u will
my favorite is keroppi 👉👈
My sanrio obsession has never been happier!!!!
3:45 ive made pretzels a couple times and i think it could be cuz you put the pretzel in soda water and then add the salt,so its sticky!might be wrong tho
... Soda water...
I like.. Boiled mine. Just raw I guess? I thought it sticked because it was still hot and damp and the salt kinda glued onto it.
soda water? please elaborate with a power point presentation on what the honk soda water is
MMR I though you just put egg wash (the yellow part of an egg) on the top of the pretzel and then put salt on top if that.
The recipe I used said to lower the pretzel in a mix of warm water and baking soda for a few seconds
@@maple_13 s-soda water... That's already a thing
It's seltzer
NTs be like: you can be friends regardless of their views or mutual interests
me, with adhd and autism: No i cant vibe if the other person doesnt like gravity falls season 2 as much as me
Ok, thank u so much, I'm hyper fixed on the show I used to watch when i was younger (like 4 years ago) and that the show I talk about, I never known the name, and so, when I saw this comment, I go search what show it is( because I love watching show) and I see their face and was like : ohhh my good lord, I finally find the name!!!!!!!!!!!!! (That's literally 3 month I try to find the name of the show) and so, when I finish infinity train I'll re watch gravity falls because I love it so much and I want to know every single things about the universe and the characters, so, if u have any, can u tell me them pls?
Gosh that show is so awesome
3:18 literally the first thing i thought of was "tanzania". i have no idea where that is. i know nothing about that country. if someone asked me to list off every country in the world i don't think i'd even remember it. im genuinely unsure if it's a country. jesus CHRIST these tests to not work on me
I thought Cuba and immediately started questioning myself and then the word Cuba just kept replaying in my mind over and over and over
I thought of nothing cuz I blanked out
Mongolia was what I thought. Only cause I'm obsessed with the idea of traveling in Mongolia.
I jus went like Pakistan- it's my home country idek i-
I heard Tanzania and immediately wanted to tell you all about their flag
The schizophrenic UNO hallucination made him break the 4th wall😭
Fun fact that I probably should've known before: fish don't suck water in through their gills! The water goes in their mouth and filters OUT through their gills!!
stored! that's actually really really cool, thx for providing for my random fact corner :)
WHATTT THAT'S COMPLETELY NEW TO ME THANK YOU
I'm sooy but what did you all think fish opened their mouthes for lol
@@melanieg.9092 y'all don't ever just open your mouth randomly?
I’m 46 and only just beginning my journey to understand my neurodiversity. These young people are so self aware and will change our world over the next few years. Take everything you’ve learned and make this world a better place! You have a huge head start that I never had.
Yo I really agree with the one person that said that neurotypical people have the blandest friendships.
Throughout public school, trying to make friends was so hard. It was usually because everyone is the 'Don't-touch-me' type of friend and are very shallow.
Like dude-- can I have one friend that will allow my daily execution of random facts and bear hugs? Jesus Christ on a hammerhead shark.
@@superiorRats I have a book of 5000 facts, of course I have some lol.
My personal favorite are about animals. Did you know that the Bee Hummingbird is the smallest bird in the world? They weight just 0.07 oz, about the weight of 2 paperclips. :D
@@superiorRats Woah really?? That's really cool! I don't know that much about crows that is really interesting :D
@@superiorRats Hhhh that's awesome! A crow named Betty once figured out how to make a wire hook to fish food out a jar. They're pretty smart :]
@@superiorRats That's actually really cool! As I said, I don't know that much about crows/corvids so this is new information for me. Didn't realize they were so intelligent!
my volume kept going up and down throughout this, cool comp but pls try and make the volume the same for each one
Same, i think i just dont pay attention and lose hearing? idk I just zone out and then I'm deaf.
@@McFlurrArtt lol same
In the late 1800s mother's wouldn't want to breast feed their babies so instead they would bottle feed their babies with "formula". The formula was actually just some assortment of flour, so malnutrition was one of the common ways for babies to die. Also it was really common for people to boil themselves in their tub because of the tubs design with was just a fire place under the metal. And the common structure of stairs wasn't formed until this time because servants kept falling and breaking bones or dying. That's why when you go into really old houses their stairs and either be too short or too tall with wide or narrow platforms.
I have trouble watching these types of videos because the moment I see people with mental illnesses or people that have autism or adhd that makes them act "unusual" (sorry if this word offended you, I meant it like as what other people call those actions, I honestly don't even know what to call it myself) my tics can't help but be excited, I'm just watching these people, listening to them, and my tics go "YAY!!!" "WOOO" "A PERSON LIKE US" and I'm just like "chill they're just talking about picking a food, calm down gurl"
I think that's pretty cool, but also sad that it is so special for us too see people with similar a mind work
9:39 could someone explain this some more, like what are the specific differences. This is so interesting.
I wanna know 🤯
I feel like it makes sense but I don't know why or how to describe the difference sdkbskjh
i’m paying attention to this as of now and i hope i can give you a legitimate answer within a certain time lol
I feel like... neurodivergent people move their mouths more, like, horizontally? But I'm not sure. I know I move my mouth kinda horizontally but I'm not sure.
Okay so nt people have more expressive mouths and nd dont but thats just a theory A GAME THEORY
bruh wait the tiktok abt nt people’s friendships made me kinda sad. i’m a nt person and i’ve always thought that my friendships were pretty deep and meaningful and not shallow at all :(
That could definitely be true! It could just be that person’s perception of the nt people around them.
i was thinking the same thing as the person above me. i don't necessarily think that those relationships described in the tiktok are bad. they serve their own purpose in our lives and it's good! and just because you're nt doesn't mean your relationships are all shallow, necessarily. i think... nd people often approach relationships a bit differently- for example, i have extremely limited social energy, so the relationships i tend to maintain are really just my "best" friends (when it comes to friendships). but an nt person might be more capable of having a lot of friends, and this difference in energy might affect what relationships we choose to keep. it's kind of like... i have to strip it down to the essentials, but someone else may not need to.
i think the person in that tiktok just has a very specific view of the nt people around them. the way many (not all) neurotypicals go about relationships can be sometimes quite confusing to us nds, but i think it's mainly just misunderstanding based in our differences in how we function.
i don't know if any of that made sense, haha, but basically tl;dr: just because you're nt doesn't mean your relationships are all shallow! and even if you do have many friendships that match the description in the tiktok, that doesn't mean those friendships aren't worth anything. i hope you have a lovely day!
Yeah I’m nd but that came across as very condescending. And I agree with @olivia about different relationships serving different functions!
@@ollie3258 thanks! that makes a lot of sense :)
fully agree, i’m nd and i thought that kind of sucked. some people like to peddle this idea that nd people experience life in a more ~deep and meaningful~ way and it’s always grossed me out, because it seems to parrot the way some nt’s talk about us like we’re an alien species.
differing degrees of friendship are totally normal, even for neurodivergent people. some of my closest ride-or-die friends are nt, some of my most “distant” friendships are also on the spectrum. i’m sorry their careless words hurt you!
Okay so I know my brain would stop me from biting off my own finger, but could I bite off someone else’s finger???
u m
Rose Slade I need to know
Idk I think if u really wanted but I suppose u could also really want to bite your own. You’d have to override your brain to do it I think
Yes you could, your brain doesn't care about other people, i mean, your brain *barely* cares about you to begin with, it's a very strange sort of egotistic organ.
fun fact: i once had a dream about biting off a strangers finger who was in my school. the finger had a weird texture, like squishy on the outside, and then the bone, but it wasn't like fluffy-squishy, it was more like jelly-squishy
Your neurodivergent compilations make me so happy 😊
I hate this pandemic because I can no longer look at people's teeth while they're talking to me. I have nowhere to look but their eyes and it's uncomfortable. Although I am enjoying virtual learning because I can be in class and do my movement stims whenever I want, I kind of wish it was over just so I can start looking at people's teeth again
In my defense, Teeth are crazy to look at. Have you ever noticed how compact some people's teeth are?? How do they floss?? Something to think about
I am definitely not neurotypical. I have tics, executive dysfunction, I’ve spaced out multiple times a day for my whole life, I talk to myself making up scenarios for me to ignore reality with (it happened more when I was like 9 and below that, but I still do it sometimes) and I do even more than just that! I’m just not diagnosed with anything and it’s driving me insane :(
8:00 they’re not wrong, I hardly ever get that invested in a show where I continue to rewatch it because I get bored seeing the same thing. Except when I watched stranger things for the first time I got so invested in Millie Bobby Brown as an actress that I wanted to be her, I memorized so many facts about her and watch every interview she had done. Since then I have never been that invested. Kinda makes sense tho because I probably put all my anxiety and discomfort into that because at the time my brain was not doing well.
Those "Jude should have realized they were a system sooner" kills me because I DO THAT.
HECK.
4:57 IM LOSING IT THIS IS THE DAILY LIFE
7:16 too bye
yess more banger nd tiktoks
I do love the neurodiverget thing of referring to your brain and yourself as separate entities
Y'all know those challenges that are like "Say the first word that comes to mind" i NEVER think of words I always think of the image and then I have to stop and think about what the image was before I answer?? And its frustrating
anyone else here try to react out and explain all the hardships of ADHD/ADD and ED to your family, only to be shut down with "you're just handicapping yourself" or when you try to say why you have a missing assignment but they tell you "i don't want to hear excuses"?
yup! although I technically have genius iq, I am easily distracted and have very bad ED.
feeling ✨ validated ✨
so is it a normal adhd thing to imagine yourself as an imaginary character and wake up and look at your hands and be confused that you aren't the character and then trying to message people as them but still being like "you're gonna get called crazy" until you act like a human again or
you should probably get that checked out friend, it doesn’t sound normal
Sometimes
I’m not diagnosed because a diagnosis isn’t accessible for me at the moment and I’m not really down with self diagnosing . But I really feel understood with these Tiktoks, I feel less alone and weird . Is it wrong to enjoy and relate to these without a diagnosis ? I don’t want to trivialise anyone’s struggle .
self diagnoses witH research isn’t wrong, and it’s also not wrong to just Relate to People
Thank you for putting some System representation in here too. I feel like ADHD and ASD (which we also have) are often covered in these types of compilations, but DID/OSDD are not covered very often.
Just so y’all know, idk if this has been answered already but melted butter keeps the salt on pretzels :)
I had to drop out of college today due to mental health issues, unsure what's going on but I think it's executive dysfunction. This compilation is helping me feel like less of a failure. Thank you 💜
Pov: You are realizing alot about your neurodivergency and the fact that you are not alone.
Thank you for the subtitles!!! I’m with the rest of my family, so it’s hard to focus on just one sound rn, thanks for the comp!
5:22-6:20, I feel the same way! but I didn't connect it to other people being neurotypical. For most of my life I just thought it was because I moved so often that I never got the necessary social skills to make friends. Now I think it's because I have trauma?
i appreciate the inclusion of ocd tiktoks, because i have ocd, which is often, at least socially, right on the fence between being categorized as a mental illness, being categorized as neurodivergent, and being seen as a disability
“sally my whole life IDK WHAT TO TELL YOU”
LMFAO PLEASE I CANT
3:47 fyi it's usually butter. Like this melted butter. This has been true for ~95% of all soft pretzels I've eaten... That have salt.
✨Cinnamon sugar supremacy y'all✨
Didja know that wombats poop cubes and stack them up to mark their territories???
Quite genius of them. Maybe I should build a poop cube wall so i can be left tf alone.
For the last girl: GOOD FOR YOU WE STAN A QUEEN WHO DOESNT LET SOCIETY LIMIT HER
My neurotypical media: pirates of the Caribbean
I love the series and I’ve watched it a lot but I’ve never had any headcannons or joined any communities for it or anything like that
my nt media: wings of fire. I only ever read the fanfictions if they crossover with my non-neurotypical media
6:57 YES YES YES THANK GOD SOMEONE HAS SAID IT. “Reality check” is one of my least favourite phrases since my friend used to say it to me constantly to “wake me up” but it just made me feel like shit and less loved. People treat delusions or borderline delusional thinking like it’s a choice or a flaw in your personality and not a MENTAL HEALTH CONDITION. Stop telling me to just “stop” or “get over it.” If you wanna be a little bit nicer say “Get some help” or maybe just shut up 🥴
Fun fact: there is a word for the sound of the leaves rustling! It's called psithurism! Also, the word defenestration means 'to throw someone out a window'! It was coined around the 1618 when two people were thrown out a window in Prague Castle, starting the Thirty Year's War!
i knew the word defenestration but i never looked up how it was created. that's a fun fact indeed, thank you :]
Fun fact: to die from falling, squirrels would have to fall long enough to die of dehydration bc they can survive their terminal velocity
For the girl with the ducks: there is a cultural centre across from my Uni campus, which not only is an amazing place with cheap books and one of the greatest orchestras in the country, and also has amazing art galleries, it also has the most amazing gardens to ever exist. There are a LOT of ducks there, and two of them crossed the street and now live on my Uni campus. They just walk around and sometimes chase people :).
Fun fact: Sonic Adventure on the Dreamcast had multiple sets of seasonal DLC way back in 1999 and 2000, which did stuff like decorate Station Square (hub world) for Christmas and played special music when the extra bits were interacted with.
The one about expecting to have a conversation about ducks was so much like a concersation I had with my grandparents the other day. They were talking about the color brown and I was like “oh speaking of brown, I’ve been doing research on the Carmelites recently and it’s so interesting…” and I didn’t get much further than that because they expressed immediate disapproval
11:34 the relief to know functional does not equate healthy 😢 i kept myself from seeking help cause i figured why would i inconvenience anybody ever unless i literally can't help it
I let out an audible giggle when he hit that wine glass
6:58 THIS !! as someone with psychosis, this also applies for other delusions!! imagine having everything you thought was real crumble down on you, its a terrible feeling ,, and people not being educated on psychosis and reality checking people (intentionally) can be extremely harmful,
if you see someone say they are someone whos fictional in your mind , please just go along with it, if you think the person is in danger because of it, try geting them professional help :)
The air looks fuzzy and outdoors in the winter it looks crunchy, also in spring it looks and smells soft. Change my mind
OKAY BUT SUMMER AND HOT WEATHER IS POINTY.
it gives me joy (and jealousy) to see how other systems work in fronting and eating, the others dont front much in mine soit hard to talk with them, but we cant still talk luckilly
BRUH WHEN THEY TALKED ABT NEUROTYPICAL FRIENDSHIPS BEING SHALLOW AND SIMPLE IT HIT ME SO HARD
why are neurotypical people just able to. talk to people.
The compulsion one has me crying LMFAOO 😭 this is the first time I’ve ever seen an OCD tick took and it actually felt so nice to see
9:51 can i get an example of this this is really interesting
Yeah I sort of get what their saying, but I’m curious how it applies
for real though percy jackson was my favorite book series when I was like ten and so when I was diagnosed with ADHD i was fucking PSYCHED
(also i actually wanted to hear more about that weird duck that person was talking about)
This is so cool, because, if I remember correctly, Rick Riordan made the story up originally to help his son with ADHD feel less alone and to point out his strengths. Seeing people say this makes me go "cool, it worked!!" xD
@@hyperfocus1963 you are correct :)
The last one, I love how they talk
thank you so much for putting accurate subtitles, i hope you have an amazing day
Wait, you don’t go back in personality tests to put in other answers you strongly wanted to chose but there was another one that you also wanted to chose so you took it like 2-4 times to change and make sure you got everything you wanted down? Huh.
*I thought it was normal*
I do the same. But what does it mean? Please, somebody, help?
@@littlebigme2669 I don’t know what it means🧍🏽sorry
1:14 holy shit wait that's me
I wasn't expecting to see myself in a tiktok compilation
I have adhd and didn't sleep the whole night and thought that it would be a good idea to drink coffee because I have school today. Now just a reminder I usually don't drink coffee. When I tell you that I can't stand still for a second.
BUT HOW DOES THE SALT STAY IN PRETZELS????
they dip them in water, i think mixed with baking soda?? to make them sticky, then roll them in the salt
@@KeruuKat ohh
thank u for answering
Ohhhh because the only thing that went inside my head when I heard that was, "...butter?"
ABOUT SHOWER CHAIRS!!
so like im physically disabled and have one. but i also have like people who shower in my bathroom that arent disabled right?
And like. Even for them, the shower experience WITH a chair is so much better. Like chairs for showering are just good and you dont have to even HAVE a reason to have one. Like my friend who bought a shower chair for himself even though he doesnt "need" it. He bought because its Nice to have and it makes showering feel better. Like. You ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE STUFF BECAUSE IT FEELS NICER even if you genuinely dont need it.
Another example: i have a conditioner for clothes. Do i need it? No i can live without it just fine. But does it feel nice to have clothes that smell real good? YES. and its a reason enough
8:59 DID YOU KNOW THAT FRANK IERO TOOK ALL THE CRAYONS FROM A BOX AND WALKED AROUND TRADING THEM OUT FOR BLACK CRAYONS SO GERARD COULD HAVE A BOX FILLED WITH ONLY BLACK CRAYONS?
DID YOU ALSO KNOW THAT ONE OF THE FIRST MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE SHOWS WAS AT A PLACE CALLED THE LOOP LOUNGE AND NADA SURF POPULAR WAS ALSO PLAYING THERE?
OR WHAT ABOUT THE FACT THAT THE SONG "LEGEND" FROM TWENTY ONE PILOTS WAS WRITTEN ABOUT TYLER'S GRANDFATHER
AND THAT FRANK IERO CALLED CENTIPEDES "THE WORMS WITH THE LEGS THING"
THHHAAATS SO COOL THEBLACK CRAYONS WHJSDHJKDFJNDKML
9:38
... So I have always wondered why I had to look at people's mouths when they talk and also why talking in front of a mirror or seeing my mouth as I talked on camera was something I hated because I could see that the way my mouth moved was wayyyyy different from how, for example, my sister's moved. I understand now!!! I believe I am on the spectrum for autism and I see how it has been throughout my entire life now that I look back with all of this information. Your videos have really helped me on this journey of discovering what makes me different from "normal" people. Thank you 💖💛💖💛
more ND tiktoks pog :D
The one about friendships omg: I was trying to describe to my mom my relationship to this girl I who have a few classes with and talk to every day about random stuff, and my mom was like “so she’s your friend” and i just kinda nodded like “yea I guess I could call her that” but in my head I was like “we don’t talk outside of the classes we have together. We don’t do things together out of school time. If I were to rattle off a list of 20 of my friends, a) I probably couldn’t and b) her name probably wouldn’t come up.” Idk I have a more selective viewing of friendship ig
To answer the salt question pretzelquestion. Water. You spay the pretzel lightly which makes it sticky a little bit and the salt sticks and gently fuses to the pretzel then the water dries in the warmer
My shower chair is the best $45 I ever spent. It's gotten me through 7 surgeries, letting me shower a week before I would've been able to stand for long enough. Plus countless low energy days from my chronic illness and executive dysfunction. Can't recommend it enough.
Another metaphor I've heard for executive dysfunction goes like this: say you want to bake a cake. So you get all the ingredients together, mix everything up, pour the batter into the pan, stick it into the oven... But there's no way to turn the oven on. There's no button, no switch, nothing. You know exactly how to bake the cake, you know all the steps and are physically capable of following them, but if the oven won't turn on then there is no way you're going to be able to bake that cake. And no amount of yelling at the oven will make a button appear.
i believe salt stays on pretzels because the people making them apply a thin layer of raw egg before the salt, and then when it cooks it dries and holds on the salt !! at least that's how my sister does it ^^
i do this for candied violets as well, to make the sugar stay + help it dry better
7:10 To add though, if you’re suffering as the target of that delusion, always take care of yourself first.
Has EFD: doesn’t wanna take meds:
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The "my mom keeps telling me I have a lot of anxiety" is basically me during the latter half of quarantine in which things started getting worse on a familial level. I literally thought I was fine, but my mom was like: "No you're not" and finally referred me to a psychologist again after years of me keeping quiet and lying to get out fast because I thought if I felt I needed to go back I was wasting their money for "not healing quick enough".
Also, the whole "wasting my parents' money" thing I mentioned earlier is something I've always been worried about and IDK if that's a hypersensitivity/ND thing or a "my parents always told me that money didn't come from trees so I spent my whole childhood worried about it when in reality we were perfectly fine" thing
the person in the last tiktok speaks the way that my thoughts do and I have never had an easier time understanding someone ... I’m mind-blown rn
4:02 This was really helpful for me. I have really bad hearing and I've been hard of hearing all my life (I had corrective surely but it didn't work), but recently I went to the audiologist and I got a normal audiogram so I'm convincing myself slowly that I both don't need and am not allowed to use the accessibility stuff on my phone that I use to hear. Sometimes it's helpful to remember that I can use something if it helps me, even if it was originally designed for disabled people.
3:44 the salt sticks to the oil/butter that the pretzel is cooked in. They use that butter or oil to make the pretzel crispy and brown
ayy im getting my diagnosis tomorrow :D very excitinggg :)