Why Gisele Pelicot is so remarkable | James O’Brien - The Whole Show

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 19 дек 2024

Комментарии • 48

  • @MoonJumpingCow
    @MoonJumpingCow 12 часов назад +31

    I do not lack courage. I just have nowhere to turn. I tried. The police even had CCTV at one point but did nothing. Those monsters have gone on to perform at music festivals. I dread to think how many they've attacked.
    Justice came to Gisele and I'm glad for her, but that's unique.

  • @simpatico4004
    @simpatico4004 14 часов назад +25

    “I’m not a victim anymore, I’m a survivor.” I loved that woman’s testimony and input.

  • @thecy64
    @thecy64 15 часов назад +30

    Let's not forget more men were involved but not identifiable so it was more than 50.

  • @WestHamsufferer
    @WestHamsufferer 6 часов назад +6

    Brilliant episode. I’m American watching from the states and I wish we could have these heart wrenching conversations here but this story has barely gotten coverage. THIS is what listening to women looks like. Thank you for this episode!

  • @nimarosepiper6759
    @nimarosepiper6759 12 часов назад +16

    She did it for all women, before and after.

  • @Sherluck93
    @Sherluck93 11 часов назад +12

    10:48 This is quite disrespectful, to try to take the victim's mind apart... 'Why is she so strong?' is a weird question, like she's expected to be weak. Why would she be? Are all women still expected to be weak? Care more about justice and most importantly prevention! So why did he do this to her? It's got nothing to do with HER being weak or inferior. HE violated her SELF, body, marriage, trust, dreams, life trajectory, surely friends & family, too ...
    PS: But then, I've never understood the shame regarding this, they did nothing wrong! I can get maybe not getting enough support and healing, but the perpetrators and anybody who refused to help or looked away should be the ones to feel ashamed!

  • @tamhunter5025
    @tamhunter5025 11 часов назад +8

    Remarkable is to small a word for this woaman,may the rest of her life be wonderful

  • @tapankumarchatterjee2423
    @tapankumarchatterjee2423 7 часов назад +3

    This is a step often taken by someone who has lost everything and nothing more to lose so she just walks through fire. Also a MOTHER who sees the need to somehow protect her children and grandchildren, which only a mother can do.

  • @penelopehatfield3521
    @penelopehatfield3521 8 часов назад +3

    Brilliant show- all these women metaphorically taking their glasses off and letting their eyes resolutely shine. And hats off to Eleanor!!

  • @mariannehavisham8323
    @mariannehavisham8323 12 часов назад +8

    I think she is heroic but her being heroic doesn't make other victims not heroic. There are many ways to ro be heroic.

  • @sharonsmith1783
    @sharonsmith1783 16 часов назад +28

    Victiims might have more courage, if the convction rate ws higher.

    • @andrewstevenson118
      @andrewstevenson118 16 часов назад +4

      True dat

    • @susanplatt5331
      @susanplatt5331 14 часов назад +10

      They would have the courage if the police, lawyer's, court's and people, mainly male's, didn't retraumatise them.

  • @Sherluck93
    @Sherluck93 10 часов назад +2

    1:03:58 This woman knows what's up! The looking the other way out of respect but being misunderstood, being accused or deemed to not need help, trying to become independent citizens... Trying to keep up your courage and keep explaining. It's so hard and exhausting!
    Any traumatised person will be very defensive to protect themselves... For a reason.
    👏👏👏 She understood how it works! Support! All of this can be helped and rectified!

  • @sharonsmith1783
    @sharonsmith1783 16 часов назад +24

    Gisele Peicot has disowned the shame expeccted of wonen, and placed it where it belongs, with the perpetrators.

  • @romanaschwemlein2533
    @romanaschwemlein2533 12 часов назад +6

    Chosing between bear and man i will allways prefere the bear 😢

  • @Lulumac-p9l
    @Lulumac-p9l 11 часов назад +2

    She's absolutely amazing 😢

  • @joannamcdee9061
    @joannamcdee9061 5 часов назад +1

    Her honour: because that indicates strength of the body and spirit and mind…

  • @Sherluck93
    @Sherluck93 10 часов назад +2

    1:02:40 Break The Silence! That's right! 💜😊

  • @andal7404
    @andal7404 9 часов назад +2

    Principled dignity is part of the description.

  • @DMSJagXK
    @DMSJagXK 3 часа назад

    I loved the days when kids loved their parents, cops were respected and boys were boys and girls were girls. For many of us, that is still true.

  • @martinobrien7110
    @martinobrien7110 12 часов назад +2

    Tough Listening But Essential .

  • @helenab7390
    @helenab7390 4 часа назад +1

    Mysogony is everywhere,even judges asking a victim how they were dressed,women are hysterical all the innuendos women have to put up with,Women have had to explain themselves,did you lead the man on? Theres too many to mention,judged on any mental health issues in the past? Attention seeking..etc.,

  • @teresapimentel8432
    @teresapimentel8432 15 часов назад +9

    Goes all the way back to Adam and Eve. No one blamed the snake.

  • @jezzat3778
    @jezzat3778 3 часа назад

    Why in the uk is it a common thing that if you lose a child and get the right press attention you get to make a law. It’s not a solid way to govern

  • @chantalhughes4939
    @chantalhughes4939 55 минут назад

    The first court scene in the movie "the devil's advocate"traumatized me from first time saw it years ago till now..

  • @IanFoster-rg7ge
    @IanFoster-rg7ge 15 часов назад +4

    This particular story,just for once,should transcend the left versus right hostilites.

    • @susanplatt5331
      @susanplatt5331 14 часов назад +9

      It should. It should also make male's understand why women choose the bear. It should also stop male's making vile derogatory comment's about her and to all women, but it hasn't.

    • @Basic190
      @Basic190 13 часов назад +1

      Typical male response

  • @coco1252
    @coco1252 3 часа назад

    Years on , I still get scared of that mug. Either is James an elf or ... c'mon

  • @chantalhughes4939
    @chantalhughes4939 Час назад

    I feel for all these women and females that has been graped,$uxually assaulted but imagine the boys and men that got it happened to them by women..it was happening to a friend of mine in high school and we laughed at him because it was to us that women can't do it to boys/men and as teenagers boys that like a fantasy to having a mature,older woman come you but as an adult it happened to me and was laughing at by the police when I tried to make an report..so this is sad but so many victims of all genders has the society shame fear on us..

  • @andrewstevenson118
    @andrewstevenson118 15 часов назад

    ABTN is a very difficult issue. Never been in that place. But I ain't gonna tell you what you should do when I have a plank in my eye. (Jesus in Matthew 7.)

  • @gerardodwyer5908
    @gerardodwyer5908 15 часов назад

    "your language may be a little Anglo Saxon," says JO'B. Double - German then James.

  • @debbielessard4040
    @debbielessard4040 12 часов назад +1

    You use the work magnificent to describe these crimes...do not use words that have positive conotations. These crimes are horrific, devistating and mind boggling, there's nothing positive about this case.

  • @anilasharma2371
    @anilasharma2371 13 часов назад

    What's arva pati?

  • @StuartPacker
    @StuartPacker 12 часов назад +1

    Purely Mystery Hour question: Did we get an answer to the dog in the bamboo question? Cos just the day before my neighbour Jake said to look at Benji. The neighbour's dog was in a trance walking around some pampas grass, very similar to bamboo. It was odd. We put it down to something in dog's evolution. Appreciate any answer :)

    • @InsoIence
      @InsoIence 10 часов назад

      2:22:18 is your timestamp.

  • @Sherluck93
    @Sherluck93 10 часов назад

    48:22 Not shocked.

  • @denisburgess2966
    @denisburgess2966 15 часов назад

    @twisted dance7773 He mentioned it at the time.

  • @kojofour4328
    @kojofour4328 4 часа назад

    James, no one cares that you are sorry...it sounds so condescending, like it matters to anything that you are sorry!. No one needs your pity. A respectful silence will suffice.

  • @Exsubmariners
    @Exsubmariners 16 часов назад

    Did you eat that bloke in the thumbnail