Yup. It is always at the point of beginning disengagement that the fallout starts. The provocations and abuse become worse and worse during this time, the behaviors more and more contrary, bizarre, inconsistent, rude, and flat out nasty. Narcs will be all over the board, pulling away, pulling you back in, issuing silence for days after sending a suicidal text, making you worry, snapping when you bug them, ignoring you and only you after saying they can't wait to see you, talking to everyone else, breaking all levels of commitment at I opportune times, dropping hints about their lies in front of others so you feel upset but must hide it, putting their hands all over your body at totally inappropriate moments, but shaming you for trying to embrace them while they are crying.... And by "crying" I do mean turning away with shoulders shaking. I have never yet seen real actual tears. Disgusting. But then if you have a day when their rotten behavior gets you so down and confused you cannot stand to be around them, or if you break a commitment for any reason, they will crucify you. But they get to do whatever they want. It's ludicrous. Never again. Never never again. Five is five too many.
This is interesting. At the end, I started seeing that the arguments he started were empty... like he wasn't really as mad as he portrayed. Also, when he talked about things of the heart. I could tell when those conversations were empty too.
Now I understand why they always want to fight. They will make up things or fight over the most tiniest things. You can't do anything right in there eye's. You walk on egg shells with them .
"fuel" = dopamine, the same rush obtained by doing coke. Perhaps narcs should do the world a favor and just get hooked on coke, and leave us all alone. End the drug war! RE last point in vid: Self worth. Just how "self worthy" do you think a narc father feels, when he finds himself stealing from and sabotaging his own son?
Uncle Claw Coke is shit when compared to an ongoing argument!!! Example is starting an argument about something small like who empties the cat litter knowing fully that this argument will lead to the ultimate argument about whether or not we sell the cat on fb or simply throw it out and never let it back in again. We know that your emotions will go overboard when it comes to animals lol. To me they're a tool for an argument and that's why I buy her one. They're also a nuisance and are totally irrelevant.
The last point, about it not being really about winning the argument, is an interesting and counter-intuitive point. Don't narcissists like to describe themselves as always-winners and never-losers?
He would start firsts and I started to say "yes you're right, I know that" and it's worked for a while.. now he just keeps going and it ends up being about 11teen billion things, and most that have nothing to do with me but his ex or mom or sister or whomever. Lol
Mine once had a full on spazz attack because I didn't thank his brother immediately after he bought me a drink. No doubt if I had, the thanks wouldn't have been obsequious enough.
What about when someone else wounded the narcissist I have been on the receiving end of my narcissist after someone else wounded him it’s actually the worst I have seen him get he usually has some kind of control but that night he had none?
I dont understand the concept of fuel. What is this and how does it fill you? Is it just energy or control over the person gives you excitement? I have yet to wrap my head around what fuel is?
Soulsurfer it is energy to them narcissists. Brain food. Like being on drugs. Negative energy from fighting and positive energy from praise and compliments. Both are good for them. Hard for normal people like us to understand.
Narcissist do not change, unless backed up against the wall but even then I doubt it, it's a impulsive response. Does it matter if God exist, for most it doesn't for those who do believe, if believing enough or is there much more to believing in God?
Apparently somethings been erased cause I don't see what it is I'm supposed to repeat. But do I believe in God - oh I am God. I mean it gets a little complicated - I could be the God or I could be Jesus or I could be Lucifer...I could be God's Bitch or I could be Jesus and have my own bitch. Whoever I am - I can tell you that - I am somebody very very very BIG - cause I have the proof which says straight out that I am in the position to Be God.
NPD is a form of possession. It's the reason why these spirits do and say the same things across the globe. Yes I know the power of God and know they can receive deliverance but I feel they have to want to accept that something is wrong. My ex narc is an actual sunday school teacher and uses this attention for fuel. He is always in church yet demon possessed...he won't let the word of God penetrate because he sees NOTHING wrong with himself...scary.
jane - it's scary, I had a female doctor seduce me over several years. I was flattered actually, but when it came to delivering the good, she chickened out, yelling at me. Ironically she was let go, I never said a word, and I never would rat on her. She only did me favors, but I can feel the pain of being married to someone like that. I would be unbelievably in love with her and she could not give a damn. She could cheat without remorse. She was all an act. Luckily I didn't get in deep with her at all, it was only office visits and manipulations, control, domination and intimidations. But I can see how a man can fall for someone like her, obviously she was beautiful otherwise she couldn't pull off maneuvers like that. She's hit the wall now, and I pity the man who gets stuck with her, she will never be happy.
Cus some of us didn't get the closure we needed or we wanna know why? And how u moved on so fast without feeling bad n no remorse and not to mention forgetting about us! I mean how can they move on and we can't makes no sense does it?
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Yup. It is always at the point of beginning disengagement that the fallout starts. The provocations and abuse become worse and worse during this time, the behaviors more and more contrary, bizarre, inconsistent, rude, and flat out nasty. Narcs will be all over the board, pulling away, pulling you back in, issuing silence for days after sending a suicidal text, making you worry, snapping when you bug them, ignoring you and only you after saying they can't wait to see you, talking to everyone else, breaking all levels of commitment at I opportune times, dropping hints about their lies in front of others so you feel upset but must hide it, putting their hands all over your body at totally inappropriate moments, but shaming you for trying to embrace them while they are crying.... And by "crying" I do mean turning away with shoulders shaking. I have never yet seen real actual tears. Disgusting.
But then if you have a day when their rotten behavior gets you so down and confused you cannot stand to be around them, or if you break a commitment for any reason, they will crucify you. But they get to do whatever they want. It's ludicrous.
Never again. Never never again. Five is five too many.
This is interesting. At the end, I started seeing that the arguments he started were empty... like he wasn't really as mad as he portrayed. Also, when he talked about things of the heart. I could tell when those conversations were empty too.
Now I understand why they always want to fight. They will make up things or fight over the most tiniest things. You can't do anything right in there eye's. You walk on egg shells with them .
Kathy Venne I concur!!!
"fuel" = dopamine, the same rush obtained by doing coke.
Perhaps narcs should do the world a favor and just get hooked on coke, and leave us all alone. End the drug war!
RE last point in vid: Self worth.
Just how "self worthy" do you think a narc father feels, when he finds himself stealing from and sabotaging his own son?
Uncle Claw mine one does weed and now hooked to it and says he enjoys sex n weed with randoms
Uncle Claw Coke is shit when compared to an ongoing argument!!! Example is starting an argument about something small like who empties the cat litter knowing fully that this argument will lead to the ultimate argument about whether or not we sell the cat on fb or simply throw it out and never let it back in again. We know that your emotions will go overboard when it comes to animals lol. To me they're a tool for an argument and that's why I buy her one. They're also a nuisance and are totally irrelevant.
@@jaykingston2171 ur funny...
The last point, about it not being really about winning the argument, is an interesting and counter-intuitive point. Don't narcissists like to describe themselves as always-winners and never-losers?
I Never argue and nothing bothers me ever
You are actually awesome for sharing these HG gotta give that too you cheers 🍻
He would start firsts and I started to say "yes you're right, I know that" and it's worked for a while.. now he just keeps going and it ends up being about 11teen billion things, and most that have nothing to do with me but his ex or mom or sister or whomever. Lol
Mine once had a full on spazz attack because I didn't thank his brother immediately after he bought me a drink.
No doubt if I had, the thanks wouldn't have been obsequious enough.
I only know... that I don't want to live like that !! That is not what I expect... That is not what I deserve...So , stay away from me !!
But tells me I'm to good at fighting????? And I win all the time??? Narc's have lost their whole tool box!!
the energy a narc has to express to make this happen has to be exhausting to them. fek!!
What about when someone else wounded the narcissist
I have been on the receiving end of my narcissist after someone else wounded him it’s actually the worst I have seen him get he usually has some kind of control but that night he had none?
I dont understand the concept of fuel. What is this and how does it fill you? Is it just energy or control over the person gives you excitement? I have yet to wrap my head around what fuel is?
Soulsurfer it is energy to them narcissists. Brain food. Like being on drugs. Negative energy from fighting and positive energy from praise and compliments. Both are good for them. Hard for normal people like us to understand.
+Tony true man true!
can a narcissist change? do you believe in god?
Narcissist do not change, unless backed up against the wall but even then I doubt it, it's a impulsive response. Does it matter if God exist, for most it doesn't for those who do believe, if believing enough or is there much more to believing in God?
Apparently somethings been erased cause I don't see what it is I'm supposed to repeat. But do I believe in God - oh I am God. I mean it gets a little complicated - I could be the God or I could be Jesus or I could be Lucifer...I could be God's Bitch or I could be Jesus and have my own bitch. Whoever I am - I can tell you that - I am somebody very very very BIG - cause I have the proof which says straight out that I am in the position to Be God.
NPD is a form of possession. It's the reason why these spirits do and say the same things across the globe. Yes I know the power of God and know they can receive deliverance but I feel they have to want to accept that something is wrong. My ex narc is an actual sunday school teacher and uses this attention for fuel. He is always in church yet demon possessed...he won't let the word of God penetrate because he sees NOTHING wrong with himself...scary.
jane - it's scary, I had a female doctor seduce me over several years. I was flattered actually, but when it came to delivering the good, she chickened out, yelling at me. Ironically she was let go, I never said a word, and I never would rat on her. She only did me favors, but I can feel the pain of being married to someone like that. I would be unbelievably in love with her and she could not give a damn. She could cheat without remorse. She was all an act. Luckily I didn't get in deep with her at all, it was only office visits and manipulations, control, domination and intimidations. But I can see how a man can fall for someone like her, obviously she was beautiful otherwise she couldn't pull off maneuvers like that. She's hit the wall now, and I pity the man who gets stuck with her, she will never be happy.
Yes God Can change a Narcasist. 🙏 Just pray and believe.
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Hilarious pic lmao let him have it sister 😂
Adaline Proulx maybe she is the narcissist
why do y'all stalk?
Cus some of us didn't get the closure we needed or we wanna know why? And how u moved on so fast without feeling bad n no remorse and not to mention forgetting about us! I mean how can they move on and we can't makes no sense does it?
Do u mean the narc or the victims?