10 Things Your Father Should Have Taught You

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

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  • @dahuefillmore4244
    @dahuefillmore4244 Год назад +35

    This man gives soooo much info man I swear, Greatly appreciate all that he does man

  • @andreleverettejr3747
    @andreleverettejr3747 Год назад +63

    My dad taught me ALOT by not being there and showing me, how not to be.

    • @richporter238
      @richporter238 Год назад +6

      I respect where you’re coming from

    • @DonJuanDecepticon
      @DonJuanDecepticon Год назад +2

      I feel you.

    • @colossalgent
      @colossalgent Год назад +1

      Bars

    • @comichoarder2109
      @comichoarder2109 Год назад +3

      Same here. Raised by a single mother and I never wanted to be my father

    • @hawghawg381
      @hawghawg381 Год назад +1

      You better be the best dad on earth... or are you not having kids because of the fear of failure.

  • @frank_southwell
    @frank_southwell Год назад +31

    This is the topic list that I would love to see as he mentions them.
    1. How to Negotiate
    2. Manage Finances
    3. Style Matters
    4. Dependability
    5. Pursue.. not chase 👧
    6. Learn Car Maintenance
    7. Do challenging things
    8. Hang with smarter ppl
    9. Keep a good reputation
    10. Maintain relationships

  • @JohnTCampbell1986
    @JohnTCampbell1986 Год назад +4

    My dad taught me to negotiate. I picked up a lot of bad language at school that he (rightfully) didn't think a child of my age should be using. Whenever I wanted something (New expansion for game, new team jersey when a new season was coming around or whatever else) he'd say "If me and your mother don't hear you swearing for the next 2 months we'll get you it" I'd say "2 months is ridiculous, a week" and in the end we'd get down to 3-4 weeks, but I had to learn that I have to be prepared to give more than I want to. And the important part was he kept his word AND ENFORCED THE BOUNDARY. if I got to 3 weeks and someone cut as up when he'd drive me to school and I called them a stupid cunt, i'd have to start over from day 0 again.

  • @frank_southwell
    @frank_southwell Год назад +4

    Without argument, this clip is the BEST EVER by Style OG.
    The fact that this clip is now on my FB post to my 300 FB viewers confirms my rating of this clip.
    I still would love to see the topics listed when he mentions them. It makes remembering the lecture easier.

  • @Salazar824
    @Salazar824 Год назад +7

    Sir. When i watch your videos i feel like a father figure is talking to me. I hope you know that your videos are more than just that. They are valuable guidance for men like me who are trying to be a better version of ourselves. Thank you Jeff.

  • @503punxoioioi9
    @503punxoioioi9 Год назад +1

    Change your oil when it needs to be done. Check how often your cars needs it. Older cars are 5,000 miles or 6 months. Newer cars are 10,000 miles or every year, but don't worry if you go up to 14,000 miles or so. Cars are made to last. You can also learn how to rotate your tires. You can also take your car to Les Schwab and they can check your tires pressure and inflate your tires for free and tell you if you have enough tread and if you need to rotate your tires. I would suggest buying the best quality tires you can, they will last you for years. You can also buy used tires and get them cheaper that way as well, just, look up local shops. When buying a car don't buy something that uses a lot of gas or fancy cars that are hard to get parts for and need expensive repairs. Something like a Honda or Toyota that is easy to repair, gets good mileage, is reliable and gets you to and from work/daily commuter is a good choice. Had a lot of coworkers buy Mercedes or Volkswagens and other cars because they were fancy or in some cases they got them cheap and thought they were getting a good deal and then they have to keep putting money into the cars to fix them up which is most likely why the original owner sold the car or sold it cheap.

  • @pauljaikaran9790
    @pauljaikaran9790 Год назад

    Brother you are a man with real concern for people and that is why you have the mind and thought to speak on such sensitive and pressing topics......Salute.....

  • @broussi
    @broussi Год назад +4

    Jeff bout to have me shedding thug tears thinking about my pops and what he taught me from this list. Miss my pops every day

  • @dholmesjr
    @dholmesjr Год назад +1

    I can check a few boxes with this video. My dad is a great man... We actually watched this video together... Thanks again, Jeff. Salute.

  • @The7thStep
    @The7thStep Год назад +10

    RIP to Kevin Samuels. His video on what your father should have taught you changed my life. Simple but essential things that a young man needs to hear from a grown man. #Salute OG, appreciate your work and effort to better men everywhere one video at a time.

  • @Fresh360Waves
    @Fresh360Waves Год назад +1

    Had my dad in my life but I learned most of this stuff indirectly through observing not just my family but others.

  • @patrickpalomo323
    @patrickpalomo323 Год назад +1

    I wrote everything down. Great video. Thank you.

  • @cmoulden78
    @cmoulden78 Год назад +1

    Great content. You dropped some jewels. SALUTE!!

  • @BronxDad1977
    @BronxDad1977 Год назад

    Jeff has done it again. Good ish...

  • @ademibia7235
    @ademibia7235 Год назад +5

    As usual, great video style O.G. I particularly like the one of caring about your reputation. In all we do, we must always spare a thought about how our actions affect others and ultimately, how those affected would perceive us.

  • @cbrown610
    @cbrown610 Год назад

    Golden advice. If you grew up without a Father figure, embrace these and pass them down.

  • @poetryandpurpose
    @poetryandpurpose Год назад

    thanks for this - I've often thought about writing a book about all the things I learned and didn't learn from my father!

  • @thabisobaartjies3034
    @thabisobaartjies3034 Год назад

    Thank you Uncle Jeff

  • @jmorgan0829
    @jmorgan0829 Год назад

    Hummm very interesting.. great topic bro❤️ always love listening to your knowledge!!

  • @Wawaaaaajazz
    @Wawaaaaajazz Год назад

    ayyy thats love right there style o.g.

  • @craigwapples4200
    @craigwapples4200 Год назад +4

    We in here but imma need a spring fashion video to drop bro

  • @jamaldavis2450
    @jamaldavis2450 Год назад

    thank you Daddy o.g...

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 Год назад

    This is excellent content I hope this goes viral

  • @andrewawood3658
    @andrewawood3658 Год назад

    Another great video with priceless content. Thank you Jeff (style OG) for your contribution to uplifting men And guiding us to be the best versions of ourselves

  • @wynonasbigbrowndragon6121
    @wynonasbigbrowndragon6121 Год назад +3

    My Dad missed a good chunk of these. Jeff, I don't want to be like that for my son.
    I know this one goes outside of the realm of style a bit, but maybe we could get a video for Dads that want to do better? I want to tell my son all of these things, but because I never got it, the when and the how are unfamiliar to me

  • @JJDSports2012
    @JJDSports2012 Год назад

    This is really excellent advice. Young men, listen and hear.

  • @CKT1249
    @CKT1249 Год назад +1

    Eye appreciate this video. My father have never taught Me any of the things that You have mentioned. Some of the things Eye have picked up along in My life and Eye take with Me, and the other things Eye am still learning.

  • @patriceesela5000
    @patriceesela5000 Год назад

    I really wish somebody had sat me down 20 years ago,great video, big Bro

  • @ashleysmith1011
    @ashleysmith1011 Год назад

    Great content thank you.

  • @manny_r4077
    @manny_r4077 Год назад +1

    big unc game. keep goin, im always learning

  • @brent1387
    @brent1387 Год назад

    Top notch video and points O.G…..and a great looking jacket!!! Thanks!

  • @earlvsmichael
    @earlvsmichael Год назад

    Awesome advice and thank you good sir!

  • @zablonkerima4568
    @zablonkerima4568 Год назад

    One of the best videos from the O.G.

  • @jmorgan0829
    @jmorgan0829 Год назад

    Great video bro❤️

  • @BruceDragon-sf1tr
    @BruceDragon-sf1tr Год назад

    Good post brother 😎💯

  • @matthewcormier8744
    @matthewcormier8744 Год назад

    Ty style OG

  • @veemontana718
    @veemontana718 Год назад

    change a tire shouldve also been on the list

  • @Imhim247
    @Imhim247 Год назад

    Thank you so much! These are important skillset in life. One thing every men should use is masculinity

  • @cliftonsledge962
    @cliftonsledge962 Год назад

    O.G. your video is on point but we all know a father advice has to reach out to the community to keep it in line. It takes a village to raise child especially young men. Best thing thought by my father. Thank you and salute 🙏🏾

  • @rajc1382
    @rajc1382 Год назад

    Great video!!! Very informative....

  • @blackman9038
    @blackman9038 Год назад +1

    Yes you do right….. my only comment life insurance on family……If you can’t pay alone, get Family to pay plan that will ROTATE PAYMENTS.

  • @dameonr.dennis5412
    @dameonr.dennis5412 Год назад +1

    Thank you Style OG for blessing me with these nuggets of wisdom that my Father failed to deposit in my life, because you have made me better, I will bless those who follow me. SALUTE.

  • @bettt3rway
    @bettt3rway Год назад

    OG, I agree with everything except for leaving a group when you’re the smartest person. I think it’s OK to be a part of two groups. Being a part of a group where you’re not the smartest so you could be mentored….And be a part of a group when you are the smartest so you can mentor. Respectfully, what’s your thoughts?

  • @richardagee4896
    @richardagee4896 Год назад

    Appreciate the jewels Jeff. Your absolutely on point as always. Blessings👍

  • @leonardcroft1467
    @leonardcroft1467 Год назад

    Hey O.G.
    Always Enjoy Your Videos
    Thanks for information !!
    Love The Channel
    SALUTE

  • @vaslim80
    @vaslim80 Год назад +1

    Peace OG, I appreciate the content.

  • @Kamran.n04
    @Kamran.n04 Год назад

    Great information

  • @mngkyouGoD
    @mngkyouGoD Год назад

    Thank you Uncle Jeff 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🫡🫡🫡🫡

  • @nozone4109
    @nozone4109 Год назад +1

    Great video father❤️🙌🏾

  • @jeffreyhughes346
    @jeffreyhughes346 Год назад

    Always Love your videos and wisdom, Jeff. Hopefully it's not corny to make this request, but is there any chance I can get a birthday salute on March 2nd?

  • @callidus5586
    @callidus5586 Год назад

    Thanks unk

  • @veemontana718
    @veemontana718 Год назад

    wow my pops didnt teach any of these guess i need to teach my son these

  • @antonioavery9467
    @antonioavery9467 Год назад +1

    Uncle Jeff, once again you dropping nuggets like Curry dropping 3's!!!!! Ok fellas and (ladies) let's get this channel to one million for 2023 this is positive content that need to be shared with the masses.

  • @MrDonny27
    @MrDonny27 Год назад

    Really nowadays RUclips is my learning channel.

    • @scottbaron121
      @scottbaron121 Год назад +1

      There is much truth in this. I'm 54 years old and back in the day, the ONLY you way learned things was from your dad/family/friends. With the interwebz, you can learn nearly everything, virtually. Hell, I watched a RUclips video in order to learn how to replace the air pump on my old Bronco! I didn't know any mechanics, growing up. That would've been an AUTOMATIC trip to the mechanic. These days...you can many car repairs, home repairs, etc...just by watching RUclips. It's been an INVALUABLE tool that has saved me THOUSANDS of dollars.

  • @andrew1212w
    @andrew1212w Год назад

    Nice video OG (please send me a Salute next time!)

  • @rovercoupe7104
    @rovercoupe7104 Год назад

    Sometimes others show one how not to do things.

  • @KaNaanKjoku
    @KaNaanKjoku Год назад

    🤔 Now tht's were Uncle Jeff step's in 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣✊🏿💯💯

  • @SteveBurksMusic
    @SteveBurksMusic Год назад

    Solid.

  • @soloaprendo
    @soloaprendo Год назад

    Nice vid

  • @scottbaron121
    @scottbaron121 Год назад

    As a 50 year old that works with many 20-somethings, there are two that I'd like to add. If they haven't been already. (1) The importance of BEING ON TIME. Seems like it shouldn't need to be taught...but it certainly does. (2) HOW TO TIE A TIE. I have SEVERAL younger kids that have to ask ME to tie their tie for them. How in the HELL did this happen!? How are you 26 years old and NOT KNOW how to tie your tie!?

  • @scottbaron121
    @scottbaron121 Год назад

    It's unfortunate that in today's society, many people see life as a zero sum game. "Negotiating" and the art of it, have been long forgotten. There HAS to be a "winner" and a "loser". Damn shame, what we've become in this country.

  • @Rev03FFL
    @Rev03FFL Год назад

    And (perhaps not taught by the father figure): shave the traditional way; polish shoes; drive a stick; ride a motorcycle; games such as backgammon or chess; shoot competently, either hunting rifle or 45 ACP; bonus for scuba diving or basic flying instruction. And how to please your other half.

  • @tonylopes8446
    @tonylopes8446 Год назад

    Salute ✍️

  • @mikemacheese7174
    @mikemacheese7174 Год назад

    You should also learn to put gas in your car unless you live in New Jersey.

  • @franciscoramos7339
    @franciscoramos7339 Год назад

    Would add to the list... Learn how to protect yourself and your loved ones....

  • @dawniedee1071
    @dawniedee1071 Год назад +1

    A father cannot teach what he himself doesn’t know especially in the black community 🤔 I hope the fathers of today are teaching their sons accordingly now that more info is readily available 💯

    • @Thatbul
      @Thatbul Год назад

      The narrative of black fathers has been debunked so many times. It’s 2023, stop spreading false information.

  • @JayMac1717
    @JayMac1717 Год назад

    My dad didn't teach me not one of these shits lol. My dad taught me to drive defensively, that you had to work like a slave to make it as a middle class black man, and how to be a functioning alcoholic.

  • @flowstate6769
    @flowstate6769 Год назад

    I feel like I gave you the name Uncle Jeff 😂

  • @b4ph0m3tdk9
    @b4ph0m3tdk9 Год назад

    My dad ignored me for most of my life.

  • @tracywatts3587
    @tracywatts3587 Год назад

    Yessir!!!

  • @michaelbullock8011
    @michaelbullock8011 Год назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @southbound1969
    @southbound1969 Год назад

    I would argue that one should not "maintain" a credit card balance at all.

  • @kazmiller7820
    @kazmiller7820 Год назад

    I wish my father taught me sponsor

  • @skinfanjay
    @skinfanjay Год назад

    💯💯

  • @melanoidmarkus
    @melanoidmarkus Год назад

    👍🏾

  • @DonJuanDecepticon
    @DonJuanDecepticon Год назад

    PAY THAT CREDIT AND DON’T GET INTO UNMANAGEABLE DEBT. Your financial standing needs to look as good as you do boss.

  • @tripleooo7881
    @tripleooo7881 Год назад

    What if you didn't have a dad !!!!!

  • @oneal.e.k.o.
    @oneal.e.k.o. Год назад

    🌱♥️

  • @l-mac5105
    @l-mac5105 Год назад

    I recently had to replace the brake rotors and brake pads on truck. My father taught me how when I was a teenager.
    I would’ve replaced pursuing women with handling a firearm. I disagree with his opinion about pursuing women. We, men, are the prize. But men have been programmed for decades through music, tv, media, and school to believe that women are the prize. We’re the ones who provide protection and resources, at least we are supposed to be according to God’s natural order.

  • @davidcolon7826
    @davidcolon7826 Год назад

    First

  • @KaNaanKjoku
    @KaNaanKjoku Год назад +3

    🤔 Now tht's were Uncle Jeff step's in 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣✊🏿💯💯