Wish I Had Known This *BEFORE* Going Grey
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- I'm sharing things I wish I had known BEFORE starting my grey hair transition. Looking back almost three years later, I'm sharing what life is like with curly grey hair.
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Are you going grey? Where are you in your transition?
I'm a natural dark brown, but when I started graying I went blonde. It cut down on how often I had to color. Last march I decided to go gray. I had my stylist tone my hair darker in sections allowing for the gray to come in and blend as naturally as it could. All color is out in the back and only a bit remains in the front due to my style. I know it's what I need to do, but I do struggle sometimes with wanting to color it again.
I tried!! But ultimately decided I wasn’t ready. Was I right? Am I wrong? Neither. I just decided I wasn’t ready but my hairdresser uses a toner on my hair that keeps it dark, but tones my gray hair golden. Looks like highlights.....it isn’t real heavy dark, and still looks a little grayish at the roots. This has been the right decision for me, right now. I turned 50 in January and will be ready to transition at some point in the future. Thanks so much for sharing your journey. It’s inspiring to see your transition and all the in between!
You are beautiful!! Inside and out! 💖
I've always dreaded the day I would need to start coloring my hair, because I loved the variations in the colors. Up until my 50's, I had every shade of brown and red imaginable. It sometimes looked metallic. Now, it seems I've lost the variations. I've wondered if it might be time to color, since I no longer have those beautiful gold and copper tones. At this time, I'm still plucking the grays; but a lot less than I have in the past. I'm 57 years old and my silver is few and far between. My hair is probably the least of my worries, as for looking my age; and I probably should just let it grow. My skin is what causes me to look my age. I'd rather have grey hair than sagging skin.
I love my grey my curly hair..almost 50 ..happy for my transition 🤭
I’ll be 2 yrs this July that I went cold turkey and stopped coloring. It took about 10 months to have all my color cut out. Since last May I’ve just been growing it out and it’s finally past my shoulders. Now just trying to keep it from yellowing. I also use Joico purple shampoo but I also use Redken Detox hair cleansing shampoo (at Ulta) and it also helps take out pollutants and brighten my hair to white/gray. I love my hair. Just wish I would have done it sooner. Thanks for all your info, videos and topics you do I have learned a lot or have taken your recommendations. 😊
My wife quit coloring her hair years ago. Now it's white and she looks great!
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Lovely comment from a great husband!
You’re a doll❤️
It’s so nice of you to give her a positive complement!
Real me ride or die with their wives journeys as well as their own. All these films push abandonment or cheaters because of hardship or change. Thank you for sharing your thoughts:)
I am 77 and have been gray since my fifties. I honestly think you mentioning not caring what other people think is your best statement. Being myself was, and still is, the best feeling. I get more compliments on my hair now than I ever did when I had it streaked, bleached and highlighted! Aging is beautiful to me.....embrace it!
Yes!! The bleaching & hi lights & low lites.... AAARRGGHH! 😣🙄 I’d been doing this for 40 years & thought I’d never stop & then... I got very sick & lost ALL my hair. I am SOOO grateful it’s all grown back & I joke that “ I don’t understand! It’s grown back grey! How weird!” Not weird.....I’m 64 for goodness sake. Embrace the grey! Be free! Everybody’s doing it! And we are all the more beautiful because of it!
Thank you for this little talk. You & your lovely hair are so, so beautiful, what a delight!
Hugs from Northern California 😊🌼🌸🌺
I gave up dying my hair about six years ago, around when I turned 30, I have had some reactions to it! 😅
Quite a few people have told me I'm too young to dye my hair white, more have just been like Whyyyy? Then when I tell them that's it's natural colour they are usually shocked and impressed 😅😂
@@ashtrix8413 I had a friend when I was in my 20s who had that black hair with the silver coming in early. I thought that was so cool at the time and have always envied dark-haired ladies with natural curl. I've got the mousy brown straight fine hair that was a pain in the you-know-what to deal with back in the day (I'm near 70 now and retired). I did the frosting AND perming for body and hated the expense, tried to grow mine long but would usually end up tying it back since I'm physically active and hated hair in my eyes or mouth, lol. My mom was a platinum blond from the early 50s and did her own for years. She and my sister thought I was nuts when they saw my grey coming in, and my elderly aunt even gave me a bad time. I laughed at them all and told them they weren't fooling anybody and did my own thing. I cut my own hair, keep it shorter, do some old school rollers nightly and do some teasing and spraying; I like some of the vintage 50s and early 60s styles. I actually get compliments and have saved $$ over the years. No regrets.
I love it. You "transitioned" to your natural grey haircolor.
You are so right about days of neglect making you look and feel frumpy. Thanks for sharing the insight 👍🏽
Best thing I ever did was to stop colouring my hair...and letting my hair go white. Freedom!
Yes it is more beautiful to be your self I am doing the same and not caking the makeup on and taking better care of my self omg I feel young at 63 all that other stuff is a ball and chain
Yes, no more mess dye bottles.
Amen 🙌🏿 I love my hair!
@@phyillisowens6491 my hair was naturally light red with almost blond highlights. Now it is a platinum white. I used to be teased with my natural hair when young because of my olive skintone. Now people say what shade of color do you use to get that shade of white. I just say I don't bother at my age late 70's to color my hair and since I am allergy to makeup of any kind my face is natural. Never used it. Then they say you are kidding you hardly have a wrinkle and you look around 50. Then I just say my parents good genes.
I had no idea how much I was going to love it. So much better!
Thanks for this video. I am 63 years old. Was colouring my hair since 40. Now I came to visit my daughter in Sydney. She advised me to stop colouring and I immediately stopped not only colouring but stopped using lipstick, makeup, nailpolish. What a relief. May be I have gone a bit extreme but I feel very relieved.
Not having to worry about my gray roots showing every single month is like breaking out of jail! I am glad I stopped coloring after 20 years!
Must be nice
Im going through the root thing right now.
This is why I stopped. Within two weeks of a dye, my very white roots in the front were so obvious. We were leaving on a vacation four years ago, and I just decided I was done. I think I look okay. I get occasional compliments, but I love the freedom of not dyeing. Mine has never yellowed.
@@ms.annthropic4888 That’s probably bc people don’t smoke like they used to.
😂🤣🤣😅🤣😂
My hairdresser encouraged me to go grey years ago and showed me how it would actually act as a natural highlight, give a lift to my face and surprisingly, make me look younger. He was right and I get so many compliments, especially from men, who tell me they appreciate that I'm authentic and they find that attractive. Who knew!?
I’m 60 & have (longish) grey hair, and literally zero men had ever complimented me on the street until I went grey.
I wish theres a good hairdresser here that knows how to style grey hair like mine im still in my 40s and have many grey hair in my front hair than the back so its uneven
@@marika7848 Thank you !
I have been steadily going gray since I was 13 years old. I never colored my hair. When I was young others would think I had highlights. I am now 60 and have about 60% gray/40% dark brown hair. Like you I also have curly hair. I have been taking art classes with 20-year-olds for the last 4 years and I'm often asked "How did you get your hair to look like that?" I laugh and say "It grows that way." Be your natural self. Embrace the gray.
13yrd old, woe! Here I am at 16 I was dying it just so ppl would not think I was old. I finally stopped dying last month. And I'm so thinking about going back blonde again because, ppl I work with stares when they talk to me, which makes uncomfortable.
@@fullyinformed2241 We all need to do what make us feel good about ourselves.
I have friends who are older than I am who have chosen to not go gray. They tell me "You are lucky. You have the kind of gray that looks right with your dark hair and your skin color. Mine just looks wrong." Maybe you feel that way, like your gray hair just doesn't look right. There is nothing wrong with feeling this way or with thinking that the gray makes you look older than you are. If you feel that way you can fix it.
It has become the norm in our culture for women to dye their hair until they die. According to a survey done in 2008 by Clairol "75% of American women dye their hair. This same survey revealed that 88% of women feel that their hair has an effect on their confidence." So you are not alone. My mother dyed her hair until she died 10 years ago. I was convinced if she had lived longer I would eventually look older than she did. She hated her gray hair but I watched her struggle with it my whole life and I didn't want to feel that way. So I chose to accept the gray along with the dark hair.
If you like how your hair looks colored, if it makes you feel confident and attractive, if you are willing to spend the time and money to keep it that way, then You do You. Do what makes you feel good. To me the thought of dying my hair every time half an inch of gray was showing did not make me feel good so I didn't do it no matter how many hair stylists insisted that "You really should color that gray away Honey." We all make our own choices. Choose what makes you feel best.
It looks good.
"It grows that way" 😂😂
I always wanted to be blonde. I started going grey in my 40's. Now my hair is silver and people ask me what color I put on my hair. I love it.
Isn't that the best!!?? I love getting asked about my grey hair...everyone thinks I'm coloring it this way. And they're shocked when I tell them it's natural 😁
@@WelcomeToMyCurls I was about to say I bet that happens & ppl would pay good $$ to have your hair color & style. I sure would.. Too bad -We could never duplicate it. I' love how the silver highlights each curll and how thick it is. ! I:m going to watch the purple 💜 shampoo video- I turned my hair a light lavender by accident. My hairdresser said it was bc my hair is porous & I should dilute the shampoo. You have a young face which is probably why women think they can get in on your* hair secret*. II hope in the 💜 video or another that you discuss your hair *texture* & products if you use any to eliminate frizz. My hair is alll n a wave pattern and has fa lot if frizz but too much product would make it too flat
Also, I'm not solid gray &;the natural hair is not wiry like the grayy. Your haiir actually looks glamorous when perfectly styled. & I'd pay yo have your exact curls like yours. I used to be called Julia Roberts cc.mlsy of my features including her figure and hair were like hers. Now.tjatnIb 57 I have thinner hair that onlubmakesns waves Now, I can't where that style with the big cascade in front, it thinned, doresn,'t have the upper curly, thick pony tail., etc. I still wear the same size clothes but my butt flattened l
out some at menopause and my waist is not as defined and Idea)tnees to hold my stomach in.
I’ve been asked if My gray is professionally done. I’m at the 15 month mark-time really HAS slowed down for growth😫
@@WelcomeToMyCurls because your face is so young. It’s so cool when someone has a young face and their hair is gray like yours. You’re so pretty.
Fifteen years ago I tried going grey. I still had more pepper than salt. So I went back to dyeing my hair. Last year, after finding your channel, I decided to stop coloring again. I now have the most beautiful, white pixie cut hair. And like you, I’m embracing the freedom.
At 14 months I cut the color out and went with a pixie, one of my favorite cuts. I feel like “myself” after so many years chained to coloring my hair. Even gray, the pixie makes me look younger.
For years when people ask what color my hair was I would say "Nice and Easy 101". Now I'm grey and love it
LOL .......yay Mary!
Lol too funny xxx
There used to be a TV commercial for Clairol--"Only your hairdresser knows for sure."
I remember back in middle school, my classmates use to tease me, because my grey went straight through the middle of my head. There was a cartoon on tv back in the 80/90's the cat was named Peppie-le-poo. So funny, I didn't mind one bit. Love my grey hair.
@@zeemc2751 Middle school--that must be the record for going gray. The cartoon was Pepe-la-Phew. He was a skunk with a French accent who kept hitting on the beautiful cat who couldn.t stand him, but he never gave up trying to win her over and came up with all kinds of maneuvers to get her to fall for him. He had a French accent and would kiss her hand and up her arm--That cartoon was soooo funny. It was way over the head of little kids watching a cartoon.
I’m 43 and noticed I was going grey from 16. I dyed my hair for many years. But this year big chop and growing my greys in. Every time I think I should colour it. My husband reminds me that I’m beautiful and gives me the strength to keep going. Go grey ladies. It’s freeing.
Not every husband is the same. Not sure really where my husband stands. Anyway. I am the same age as you and I have only dyed mine every six months or so. I wear a head covering now but still there is the at home thing.
@@reflectionsinthebible3579 yes not all husbands are like yours but mine doesnt care if i have grey hair but he looks more younger than me coz of my grey hair his was shave so he does look younger more 😄😄
You're only 43, you talk like you're 70--don't push time!
I went gray when I list my hair to breast cancer. I am so happy that I allowed myself to stay gray when my new hair grew. After taking the cancer "poison treatments", I realized that I had to take care of myself and you are absolutely correct about being free. That was 7.5 years ago that I found my freedom from hair color and vanity. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank God you are alive and well.
That “poison” saved your life…. It saved my life too, but it was God’s elixir…..just my opinion!
I'm happy that you are well now! May I ask you a question? Do you use make up? I'm allergic to it... I really want to let my gray hair grow, but every woman that I know who left to grow her gray hair use make up... I can't use it (and I don't like it either...) Do you think I'm going to look good or just old and careless? Thank you very much.
@@manuelalonso8020try it. If you like it, keep doing it.❤
I’m so happy to find women like me with natural grey hair while still being young. Nice to see I’m not alone.
I'm 23 and I do not have a single strand of grey but here I am tuning in😂 But when I do become of ages I think I'll need this advice too. So the sooner I know the better 😅😂
Same here girl lol
I just turned 22. We just have to learn to embrace it when our time comes 💪🏾💪🏾
21 here, but already getting grey hairs 🙃 I'm still contemplating on eventually colouring my hair or not. Right now I don't think I will colour my hair but since I'm still so young I might, idk
Bruh same lol
I stopped coloring my hair about 4 years ago - I'm in my 60's - and my coloring is like yours - gray/white on top and dark underneath. And, YES - I don't care what others think of me. The decision came one day, when I looked in the mirror with my colored hair, and I said, "Honey - you're not fooling ANYBODY - you old!". Yes to Purple Shampoo - it's made such a difference in brightening up the gray. I think so many mature women look so glam and distinguished with their natural grays, silvers, whites and darks! Celebrate your age, and your aging process - so many in the world do not live past the age of 50.
I think your hair is GORGEOUS! The color variations just give it a beautiful depth, especially with your curls. Goals! 👍
Agreed!!
43 yr female allowing my natural hair colors to grow out and shine
Silver, gold and brown!!
I was embarrassed in the beginning due to harsh comments from both family and strangers, but I no longer let any of that bother me
If they don’t like it they can look away
It's their insecurities coz let's say u go grey and they are your age or younger, then many will figure THEY are the ones hiding their greys.
Strangers making comments. Can you believe it?!
Your own family? What jerks.
I get more compliments on my gray hair then I ever did when I colored it. I love it.
Same here! Go figure...
Same here!
Me too. I love my grey hair
You are adorable. I’m gray now and have been shocked at comments from men I’ve dated. I’m glad to here from other women who are strong enough to embrace loving who we are.
I'm curious, what you mean by "comments from men." Have they been overall positive or negative or a combination?
I've been working from home for just over a year. I understand about the frumpy feeling. People think I'm crazy for still wearing my work clothes. It's a mental thing. I feel good just dressing for myself. Thank you for your channel and you're openness and honesty. You've helped my mental health through this year, as well. It's like someone out there just gets it.
Hey Renee 💗 I completely agree...frumpy is no fun. Yesterday I just wore a simple t-shirt and shorts....but the fact that I took a shower, fixed my hair, put on some makeup, and earrings made all the difference in the world! I felt soooo much better!
i wear my work clothes and a dab of makeup. Being home doesn't mean letting yourself go.
Rene, I work from home, too. I too still get dressed everyday, put on some makeup and style my hair. I need this routine for my mental well- being.
Inhad to smile while listening to you. I'm gray, in my late 40's and at times people would let me feel bad about it, but I decided to embrace it and be the best me there is. No dying!!! THANKS!!
I get more compliments on my gray hair vs when I use to color it. My hair sparkles ✨
Awesome!
I went from coloring my blond hair red for 30 years to cover my white hair I’ve had since my 20s. Am now 53. Bleached it out in February and am growing out my white hair. Did a big chop and can’t wait to see how it looks once it’s all grown out! I love all your colors!!! Freedom yes! And my straight lifelong straight hair went curly with menopause! And I loooove it!
I am 87 and have been white for years..I had bleached it blonde since high school..noticed roots grew out white and lighter so had pixie cut that was easy to transition. Now I have not had haircut all year because of covid restrictions. It is long silver and silky not coarse..I am enjoying this new look even if old ladies usually have short hair!!
I started going grey at 16 and a few years back at 55 I decided to stop fighting. Three of my kiddos inherited my gene. I am 97% grey or white/silver. I remember the first time I went to a salon for a post grey haircut. An older lady told me she loved my hair and wished her grey was my white silver color. Everything you said is spot on. I never really wore make up and still don't so that is one less problem. I use the blue shampoo not purple, because it is so white, only around once a month. Grey hair can be brittle too. So don't over wash. My hair also still grows fast, even post menopausal. Love my grey!
I am 73 and I color my hair. A few years ago I decided to go grey completely and I let my hair grow out. It was a big mistake for me. I have very light, pale skin. I looked quite ill with grey hair, it did not go with my skin color. I saw how bad it looked and after keeping it for a while, thinking I might change my mind, I didn't and started coloring my hair again. I use dark blonde hair color and have a very natural light brown hair and because of the color differences in my natural hair color (dark brown, brown and light brown along with the grey) my hair color looks very natural, it's not all one shade and it's not dark, but a medium to light brown. It truly is very close to my younger days hair color. I dislike white roots coming in so every two weeks I color the top of my head since I have a bob with a side part and that keeps it looking good. I don't look 73, I look closer to 60 and I look healthy, not the way it looked when I let my grey grow out. I don't know how long I'll continue coloring my hair, but for now I love my 6N.
I have to colour mine too. I could never go blonde as the light colour washed me out and I looked ill ~ my face seemed to disappear! Exactly the same thing happened when I went grey. It was awful on me sadly. Lucky if you can go grey and look great.
Going grey isn’t for everyone.
Had too go gray! My hair is coming out do too alopecia so I cut it short and didn't want any more chemicals in my hair my only problem is my gray hair is coarser than my natural hair color any suggestions for a good conditioner I can use!
@@darleneharvey8648 Yes yes yes. My hair is coarser too. I use leave in Jaír conditioners. There’s a white one for hair growth and seems to be very nice. And also hair creams and vitamin k hair conditioner leave in. Just get some various ones of leave in sprays and creams for repair. Your hair will thank you.
@@reflectionsinthebible3579 thank you I will try that ❤️
I stop coloring my hair in 2020 and let me tell you I really really love my silver and white hair.
I feel sooo free!!
You have such great gray hair. I'm 1,5 years in now, not dying my hair. You have inspired me. Thank you.
I went grey some years back, and i've never regretted it. The other similar freedom I gave myself was not wearing makeup except at formal or professional events--talk about freedom! Thanks for your channel :)
Yesssssssssssss!!!!! Freedom. That's the best one. I am 61 and, since going grey, I actually feel younger. Much younger.
The possibilities are endless when you go grey. I finished my transition about 4 years ago. I've Grey and white hair since my teens, and began dying it when I was about 24 years old (I'll be 52 soon). My husband is very supportive of what I want to do, so last year, he gave me an undercut and shaved my sides. It was an awesome look! Since then, the meds I take have made my hair weak, and before I realized, there was hair all over the house! I've been wanting a pixie for a while, so last week, I gave myself a buzz with a #3 clipper attachment. I've never felt so liberated. I style it with Edge Control gel, and put on a satin wrap cap, it becomes a super cute, smooth pixie!
I am 58... 2 years dye-free and loving it!! Thanks for this video, Renee. Agree with everything you say!
I'm blessed to have good genes.I let my gray hair grow out and thought people will think I'm old..Actually it's the opposite..I still have young face just gray hair..I guess staying out of the sun was a big help..NO WRINKLES.
From a man's point of view, you look very nice. Going to have my wife look at this video.
AWE
I wish I had known how many compliments I would get after going gray! My hair looks like I have highlights, people ask if I dye it, nope just stopped dying it. Would never go back!
Your hair is beautiful! I shaved my head to get rid of the color and went gray but it did not turn out well. I only had some gray but it made me look sick. I tried all the shampoos etc and it just got worse. I have straight hair and it’s very thick. I tried different haircuts and nothing helped. For me, I had to go back to coloring my hair. Everyone says I look healthier with my colored hair. Some of us just don’t have the pretty gray. You look amazing! Great video too!
I also look sickly and tired with grey hair. My complexion doesn’t look good in any light colors (grey, white, off-white, etc).
I think the grey can work well on someone like this woman who has a high-contrast complexion: tanned skin, dark brows, dark eyes, and a dark hair base. In my case, I have very pale skin, pale blue eyes, pale sparse brows, pale lashes, pale lips, and my natural hair color is a dull, light mousey brown. If I don’t have color in my hair (and dye my brows, and wear mascara and a tinted lip balm), my facial features basically all blur together and I look featureless and worn out.
I'm 46 and my hair is starting to go white. I don't know yet if I'll just go with it or continue to color it. I am so thankful for this video, because it gave me the information that I need to consider before making my choice.
I am 66 and I am so happy I stopped wasting money hair dye. Your hair is gorgeous. So happy to be the woman God created me to be and stop trying to be someone I am not. Love my hair even if it reminds me that I am getting older. Just thankful that I have hair, because there are women out there that have lost theirs.
The days I stay in PJs are the only days someone will knock on my door. Hahaha!!!
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Happened to me last week when ups showed up honking for me to get my package. Neighbors dog was loose in my yard :( I was so embarrassed 😂
As a fellow curly girl who is 18 months into going grey, I can say the freedom that I felt when I embraced my curls in my 30's is the same freedom I feel now embracing the silver/white/grey. Love what you said about the grey upping your anti-frumpy self care efforts. Exactly! It is such a great time to learn how to do some of those daily things that up my game overall- can't let things slide and that is a good thing.
I loved this video!!!! You said it all! It took me 18 looonnng months to grow it to my shoulders - I had all the blonde color cut off. I did it one month before I turned 60. I went to Denver and partied with The Rolling Stones on my birthday and I felt so light and free! I couldn’t get over all the compliments on my color - I have my grandmothers grey - silver down the middle and dark underneath- yet I see it transitioning still. 2 years hair color free and loving it! Hair is so much healthier.
I’m 16 months into the process at 43 years old. My gray is about cheek length in the front. It really is a long process. I have felt the freedom from the beginning. I hated dyeing my hair. Thank you for the wonderful tips along the way!
Hi Rena! I totally agree! I decided to go gray on my birthday January 2019 I turned 62 and then Covid hit and made going gray a lot easier since we weren’t going out about as much. I am now fully transitioned to white/silver and I absolutely love it! No more having to go every 3 weeks for hair color and saving money🥰
Oh my! Your head of black, white and silver hair is gorgeous! I am 66, have never colored my hair and have some gray around my temples. They are my natural highlights!
Thank you, I'm glad I found your channel. I only dyed my hair for 2 years. In that time I started eating more fruits and veggies and when my hair grew out it was darker! It has a color pattern that is fun to work with. Just parting on the other side changes the amount of grey that shows. I like being a positive influence for younger women to show that natural hair looks good.
I loved the process of going gray, so much fun transitioning. My only regret is that I didn't do it sooner.
When my hair went totally salt, people started holding the door open for me, and they started saying the word ma'am to me. That's when I started to feel a little older 😳. Still, I love my grey.😁
Your hair is beautiful. I too, let nature take over coloring my hair from blond to different shades of gray and it is freedom!! You are a very attractive woman and telling your story with hair color will help a lot of ladies out there, I'm sure. Enjoy your videos!
I'm only in my 30s and I only have a few grey hairs. I have always done my own thing and wish to try to age as gracefully as I can. I love hearing what you have to say and it gives me confidence that going grey is just fine. I think you're beautiful!
I'm 59 and will be 60 May 5th. I'm trying to let my true self show. My grey is very weird too. However I'm determined to let it shine and ROCK IT. Thank you for being an advocate for being natural and embracing it. We still look GREAT, SEXY AND GLAMOROUS!!🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️
I'm 60 May 8th 👍I colour my hair Ash blonde so my grey and white hair mixes in with it. Not ready to go natural
Happy birthday!
Happy Birthday 🎂
You looked absolutely beautiful with your colored hair, sorry. Now, however, you look simply magnificent. So much hair and curl envy 🥰
You are right however what I think she was trying to say is that she looked not natural. Like it looked she dyed her hair.
Amen!!! It is Freedom😁
I colored my hair to cover my grey for more than ten years and finally decided enough is enough!!!
2019 I decided to go gray but there was no way I would be able to let it grow out with that line of demarcation so I just shaved my head and let my gray grow in. Best thing I ever did!
Your silvery white curls are so lovely around around face!
Awww thank you!
My last day of coloring was Jan 28th, 2020 with the intention that I'd keep doing it. I was vacationing for a month in Florida and mid February, realized that all of the nearby salons who could do my root touch up no longer carried my hair color. I literally could NOT get my hair done. I was in a panic and then it hit me.. "WHY do I keep doing this?" I googled going gray naturally and found you Renee! I watched your videos all weekend and made the decision that I was DONE. THANK YOU!! I still love your videos and love your hair. I would not have been able to stick with my cold turkey grow out without all of your encouragement and example.
I’m about to turn 50 in a few weeks. I only have a few grays sprinkled throughout. You have changed my point of view on going grey. BTW your hair looks fabulous.
Yes it does.
Don’t dye it! I remembered seeing my mom grow out her dye. She hated dying her hair, fearful that the cancerous compounds used in dark dye would hurt her. I had the additional “advantage” of not being able to breathe in a hair salon. It set off asthma really bad for me. I could not use ammonia to clean with, I sure was not going to allow it in my hair. I had gray streaks in my late forties and am all white in the front, now. Waiting for the back to go white at 62.
You're such a beautiful lady, you'd look good with gray/white hair too! Maybe as shoulder-length braids instead of your short hair style? That might look good too! Just a suggestion!
I was so amazed how freeing going grey is. No more hiding a part of me. After going grey I realized how much colouring my grey hair felt like a secret I had to keep people from discovering. Like it was something shameful. I'm so glad I did it. And I'm also very glad I don't have to go through the hassle of colouring it so often, just to have the fist greys start to show again in like two weeks. Would recommend. 😊
Think of hair color as good grooming...you bathe, comb your hair, put on some lipstick...you wouldn't leave the house without a bra on...who cares if people know you color your hair as long as it is an appropriate color. You would still shave if you needed to, wouldn't you? How freeing do you want to feel? I'm 74 and a $5 box of Revlon hair color is worth every penny. My opinion is that gray hair makes you look and feel old, no matter how pretty you are.
@@christineberardi2904 I'm in my mid 50's and I am so glad I stopped dying my hair. I actually feel more beautiful as it suits my skin tone and lights up my face. It doesn't make me feel old at all and I get a lot of compliments. If dying your hair makes you feel good than it's a good thing! We all have to find what works for us.
I don’t consider highlighting my hair, hiding..I consider it makeup for my hair...many women feel they have to wear makeup all the time, but I have been blessed with a clear complexion, and have only worn mascara and a little blush. My mother had naturally black hair and was salt and pepper for years until completely white. I am blonde, and I am not blessed with nice grey hair. At age 63, I have I little bit of silver on top. It looks crappy. With my blonde hair I would feel like a dingy mouse if I didn’t highlight it. So we all make trade offs...I don’t have to wear foundation, etc, I can be ready in 2 minutes every day, so colouring my hair every three months is ok with me. But, if I would look good in grey I would do it in a minute, lol.
@@Katrn30 I hesitated commenting and expressing my true opinion because truly I want to be kind and polite and never be mean and hurt anyone's feelings. Renee is so nice and a very loving person to everyone and especially the story about rescuing Pollux is heart warming and her love is so great to all. She put out this chit chat and, though I wanted to resist so as not to hurt anybody, especially Renee, I risked receiving the wrath of thousands of nice women, I truly feel that a woman should always at any age resist caving in to the cards dealt to us in life. Renee is 50--so young to my 74. I feel she looks old, old, old with that gray hair. She is pretty, vibrant, fit, vivacious, sweet, kind. Her gray hair is distracting. I don't think it is pretty at all. She may have tried early on to cover her grays with a very dark color, which looks garrish on anyone...and didn't like the results. She said her husband would like her hair coppery color. I had my hair colord professionally a light copper blond/brown. It looked great. However, to save money I use Revlon, lightest golden brown for about $5 and it looks natural, not garrish. It is easy--I dump the color and my head like shampoo, wait 30 minutes and rinse and condition. I agree with you here, coloring your hair is not hding anything. I feel it is good grooming like tweezing bushy eyebrows, putting on lipstck or mascara, etc. God's blessings to all.
@@christineberardi2904 it is all about doing what feels good for each of us. I think Renee’s hair is pretty, but I agree grey is always aging. But too dark hair is also aging, but it’s all ok if that is the look you are going for.
I applaud any woman who can go grey and feel comfortable in their skin. I am 59 and every four weeks I color my hair to dark brown. I was a natural blonde until I decided to go dark. I only found one product that covers the grey completely for the four weeks. Glad it worked for you but I can't do it.
My hair is natural silver platinum since I was 14 I was dark auburn but people now ask me..do you dye your hair? I say no it's natural❤
@@mariabrett6712 I'm jealous. Lucky you.
Same....I tried and felt invisible.
@@pepper1188So true but I already feel invisible without being gray. 😂
You look fantastic! I agree with the freedom of being yourself and not being bullied by cosmetics companies into believing that going grey equates to letting yourself go. I Found my first grey hair aged 15 - early greying comes from my father’s side. In my 30s tried dying it, the colour wouldn’t take in under 1.5 hrs ended up getting allergic to the chemicals. Grew it out and have never dyed since, luckily I have a lovely sparkly grey; when it yellows in goes the purple hair mask. When I gave up work In healthcare I decided to let my hair grow, to let the curls come back. Yesterday someone said it looked like angel hair - it was extremely windy so my hair was super fluffy! Have a happy birthday.
I went grey very young & was very conscious of it. I’d have to get it dyed at the hair dresser for the last 15 years every month; but what tiled it off I moved to an extremely tropical area & it was like my hair literally was bamboo growing so fast it was terrible I literally had to dye
My hair every 10 days!! The cost by this stage was out of control so about 18 months later after dying my hair for about 25 years I did get it CHOPED OFF! My hair is now a beautiful grey & curly near my shoulders. I think I could have bought a hair salon with the money I spent over the years. 😊 Central Victoria Australia 🇦🇺
Thank you. Headband when applying makeup. Simple but so important. I got married in 2018 at 63 years old. The people were horrified that I wasn't dying for the wedding. My hubby to be said I love your gray hair. It was settled. My African american skin with grey is beautiful.
I love your hair it's gorgeous
Eyebrows, eyeliner, lipstick is a must; everyday!
LMBO MAYBE FOR U...SOME PPL DONT NEED ANY OF THAT AND STILL LOOK GREAT
Very pretty lady, thanks for your words. 52 and just started my transition. I still have a long way to go, but your video encourages me to hang in there. Thanks 😊
I quit coloring at age 62. The last time I dyed my hair was January of 2018. No regrets whatsoever. I get compliments on how shiny and pretty my hair looks. I know what you mean about your hair matching your skin tones because I look so much better than I did with dark brown hair. To anyone who wants to try it I say go for it because if you hate it you can always start to color again.
So agree....go for it!
I think brunettes go grey nicer than blondes...I would look like a ghost...
This is great. I’m 77 and about to stop coloring my hair FOR THE THIRD TIME! Everything you’ve said is true. My problem was that all the colors that I had worn before (very light skin and very dark hair) didn’t work any. So I went back to coloring a second time. I’ve since spent some time on Pinterest and have learned more about color palettes for my coloring. This is important. Also I didn’t understand how to change my contrast level,since it was so high. Now armed with a better understanding of what will work for me, I can’t wait to get started.
By the way, your hair is gorgeous. I love the dark hair in the center.
When I retired 10 years ago, I stopped coloring. Let it grow out until I couldn’t stand it anymore, an cut it really short! It ha grown out really nicely and I wasn’t as gray as I thought. My hair was a reddish brown and now it just looks like it’s hi-lighted. One thing I didn’t know, was the texture of my gray is more coarse and curly that my old hair. It is freeing, and think of the money I’ve saved! I didn’t want to look like my 89 year old neighbor with jet black hair!
Sections of my hair strands developed a raggedy kink. Other than an odd wave in back, my hair was pretty much stick straight and silky soft as fine baby hair my entire life, so it's been adjustment to see this new and unusual texture up close every time I look in my magnifying makeup mirror.
Nobody should color their hair jet black, especially not an 89 year old. Revlon color silk is less than $5 a box.
@@christineberardi2904 ...I don't know your age but I sure do remember when Ronald Reagan was president. In his seventies his hair was one tone of dark brown which he insisted was natural, but we all knew he dyed it for decades.
@@msr1116 I am 74. I color my hair with Revlon color silk in lightest golden brown and it looks natural. No one should try to go to their original dark brown or black because that looks garrish. It is less than $5 a box...I dump it on like shampoo. wait 1/2 hour, rinse, condition...Done. I had it done in a light copper brown which looked natural and good as well. Honestly, I do not look 74...I fool young guys too and my photo ID only knows for sure. I feel old and ill when I look in the mirror with my grays. She asked for a chit chat but I can't agree with this opinion of "'I feel free"...Get the right color for your age and you will look 100 % better...that is my belief. God bless you.
@@christineberardi2904 ....Renee is one of the women for whom going gray is the right thing. For you, the gray doesn't work at all. Depends entirely on the person. As for me, I'd like to be able to tolerate the chemical odor better and may return to coloring my hair again since gray hair doesn't flatter my skin or eye color at all. Colorsilk was also my go-to brand for years and my best shade was Dark Ash Blonde.
I’m about 1 1/2 year into my transition of going Gray. I appreciate your honesty of feeling a bit frumpy if you don’t put a little lipstick or blush on. Just a little helps me a lot to feel better about the new me. Very happy I’ve done it - but you’re right about the new maintenance it requires - especially putting on foundation. Each time I get a compliment it makes me so proud of myself.
Awww yes.....be proud of yourself! It's a huge accomplishment :)
I have a lot of respect for you for standing up for grey hair and the freedom of being yourself. People ask me why don't I color my grey hair. I tell them grey is a color. I'm happy being grey. Thank you for a wonderful video. I want to go watch your video on purple shampoo soon. 👵🏻
You hit the nail on the spot with this video . Agree 100% with everything you talked about. It definitely is freeing!
I totally agree with the feeling old without any make up. I'll be 50 next month and I'm 10 months dye free right now. I have noticed that when I don't put any make up on I look older and tired. I actually think I look like my grandmother👵 😅 . The good thing is, just a little makeup goes a long way. I love your hair and you were one of the first I followed to get an idea of how my hair would look like when fully transitioned. So, thank you for keeping it real.😘
A little bit of makeup, can make a big difference. Also a good hair style.
If you leave the purple conditioner in for a hour it makes your grey hair great
Thanks for your story, it is a feeling of freedom. I stopped dying my hair doing the beginning of the pandemic.
Three years in. Done transitioning. FREEDOM !!!!!!... is the best word to describe the feeling. I am proud of the result. PATIENCE is the prerequisite for you transitioning women out there. Worth it as you wouldn't believe it. Hang in there!
Rene, embrace all that you are, inner and outter beauty. your personally
out shines it all.
Be happy
You do look better and your confidence is amazing! Thanks for uplifting all of us who are doing this.
I'll be 69 in August and still don't have any gray but I enjoy your videos anyway!
I am 67 and have only a few sprigs of grey. I do die my hair, but not to cover the grey.
I am 14 mos. into my transition. The thing I feared the most was the demarcation line but as my hair grew out, I cared about it less and less. One of the reasons: the regrowth of my hair, particularly, around my crown. I get so many compliments and most are not about my grey, but instead they are about the thickness of my hair.
Prior to ditching the dye, I was experiencing a lot of hair loss. I also learned about purple shampoo-I also use Joico. I rotate it with two other shampoos so it turns out that I use it every 9 days. It is a bit drying but it leaves my hair bright.
Tomorrow, I'm getting a haircut and it's wonderful knowing that I'll be out in an hour instead of sitting there for 45 minutes with dye on my head. I don't miss it a bit. Thank you for your encouragement, Renee!
I don’t have to be grey to pass myself in the mirror on the pj days to feel frumpy and old... I just feel better when I pull myself together even just a bit
I’m grateful for this video... I’ve been obsessed the last month or so on making the transition
I’ve just been hiding my incoming greys with root powder, and I LOVE what I’m seeing
I’m so excited to make the change...
I may just go to a colorist like Jack Martin here on RUclips and get the whole thing done 🤗
I will be 58 in February and started turning sliver around age 25. I made the choice then to not color my hair. My hair color now is a lot like yours. I thought by now it would have turned completely to sliver. Especially since my grandmother was completely sliver headed by the time she was 28. Purple shampoo and conditioner are definitely a must.
You inspires me. I stoped coloring last year. I'm turning 50 this summer. I'm from Sweden. I cut my hair as short as i dared. You look great! Thanks for the initeration. Keep on the good work. /Camilla
That is awesome!
Thank you I'm 55 totally grey. True I look 60. Oh boy I look in mirror and cry. So thank you I'm not alone . Advice you give. Touch of makeup. And embrace the grey xx
My mom was completely grey by 25. Early greying runs in my family. I started getting greys in my late 20s. It started getting really heavy in my late 30s/early 40s. I resisted it, and never learned how to take care of my curls... until about 45. I'm 49, and totally natural now. I started doing curly girl, did the big chop from shoulder length hair to a very short pixie, because I had a ton of damage from dying my hair. I just didn't have the patience to try to grow it out in stages.
I love your hair color and curls! Yes, I'm enjoying the freedom too at age 53...and it has been 2 years now. I made the decision during the lockdowns and appreciate that I have more time, more money, more self-acceptance.
I am 48 and 1 year 4 months in. I have only had a couple times when I felt bad about my transition and was tempted to get my hair colored but I didn’t do it. I actually really like my hair. I’m ready for it to be done growing out already. It’s at just past halfway point and I’m so ready to be done!! Lol I do notice people staring at me sometimes and I wonder what they are thinking but I don’t care if they like it. And I do see people who have darker hair but where the gray is on top is never quite the same color and it just doesn’t look good. I wish I could tell them not to worry so much about the grays! They are not as evil as we thought.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 same here my husband says am not the woman he married I said ok you have to get use to it , people looking at me I don’t really care am going all natural , good on you let us keep going
@@truemamle6184 LOL my husband isn't the same man I married either. No one is...we are all constantly changing and growing. Glad you told him to get used to it. LOL I did the same. You must be ready for it that's for sure! People are so crazy how they feel so free to give their opinions no matter what even when its not their body to make choices about.
@Lacey BallofChaosovich I just told them to buzz off and honestly I didn't care enough what they thought. When you don't either then you'll be ready... not your time right now and that is ok. It may be next year or 5 years from now but you will know what your there. Shame on them for being jerks to you. But don't let it bug you and do what you want when you want. Good luck.
@@mtdsmom 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏽🙏
@Lacey BallofChaosovich
Hi Lacey, I kind of went through the same thing.... so, to somewhat appease others, I colored my hair back black and it looked awful😢! I stayed in the house (pre-pandemic) and wore hats! I couldn't wait for my gray hair to start coming back in...and when it did I was all smiles! I love the pattern I have in my hair, I'm free from color and I'm loving me! Like you, I also have a streak in my hair...soooo cute and I know you are as well 😉
I am SO happy you made this video!!!... nobody ever tells you the other side, is right!!!!... still watching!!!!!
so true....no one ever talks about the other side
Thank you Renee for sharing this. I think it's important that women feel good about themselves as we age. I am 50 and don't mind the greys as they come in. I think It's beautiful. 😊
You are so welcome!
I’m not going gray yet, but I just love your channel! The dog videos and non-dog videos! You are so confident and an inspiration to women to love what they have!
Cracks me up in our age I'm 52 and I fought for years to keep my gray hidden I finally let it grow out and what cracks me up is these young girls are trying to achieve gray hair with hair dye
Thank you for your Wonderful Comment! So true!!
What a beautifully honest subject. I finally, at 60, decided to “let it go”! My hair is long, down to the middle of my back and I still have blonde on my ends. But what I did to make it more fun was to use a colored conditioner on the ends! My grey hair is beautiful! I waited until the right time: When I was ready. But I enjoy that fun twist of pink added in and receive lots of compliments. We should all enjoy our “crown”!
I only have three months left to make it to my two-year mark. My hair is now blond-ish looking, not really gray or silver. I tried the purple shampoo but decided that I’ll go with the blonde-ish for now. Your hair looks fabulous, by the way! 👍
61 yr old 30yr hairdresser here. I'm doingbthe grownup now. Something that I recommend is having h a irdresser do a Shades EQ gloss of slight silver over your hair once every 6-8wks. It makes hair shiny and makes the white gray a little more silver and not white & it makes my dental floss wirey curls a little tamer and it fades away slowly, no ammonia or peroxide just a tinted conditionig gloss ❤
Sorry for the typos I have Tremors and so I can't be a hairdresser anymore and obviously I can't text very well but I'm doing the grow out myself
Grey hair really fits you. You are so natural gorgeous lady 😊
Oh thank you!
I’m on a two year journey, no regrets and and my hair is past my bra line , I love love love that I stuck it out.
Careful with purple shampoo, make sure you professionally tone it .
I never feel old , I love my grey hair
I did the ‘big chop’ to 1” long. 4 months later it is a gorgeous curly shiny white/silver. So happy I just went for it. I have used purple shampoo once and it added a purplish cast to the white in my hair. Luckily it washed out.
I was at the hairdresser this weekend and a lady was paying after her appt. She had color on the top 2/3 gray and the bottom 1/3 black. Mine is the same combo only dark brown. My gal said, see...the two tone hair is in and yours cost alot less! That made me chuckle. November will be 2 years and I hope to have all the color cut out. I have variations like you and think it makes us more unique!
A truly quality dye job is expensive because of the highlights required to be added, in addition to the overall color, to mimic the hair's natural tonality. Figure the commute to and from the shop as well as the hours and hours sitting in various salon chairs, and the time dedicated to the whole experience really piles up over a one year period.
that's why I started all natural henna and cassia, do it at home, by myself, and learned to cut my own hair as well. can be fun, too!
I think your grey hair looks great and your curls are beautiful!
My hair has been going grey since I was 18 (I’m 30 now). And since I’ve never been one for having high maintenance hair, I’ve never completely dyed it. I’ll do fun semi permanents or I’ve had highlights in the past, but I’ve never permanently fully colored it so I’m watching my grey pattern develop as it grows in. I’m also a curly girl too.
Is your hair gray hair curly or did it become straight on going gray
@@prathyushad6665 it’s curly! I went curly when I hit puberty and it hasn’t changed much since.
Thankyou, for this vlog. I'm 20 months into my grey journey and don't think I will be finished in 24 months. My hair grows very slowly.
In recent years there has been a strong link between hair dye and breast cancer. I grew all my colour out about March 2020, and yes the word is freedom, I love being my authentic self. My 50th is in the Summer as well!
Renee I love your grey, silver, salt and pepper hair. I’m nearly 8 months in and like you look back at pictures of myself with dyed hair and wonder who the hell I was trying to fool. It just looks so harsh and not flattering in the slightest. I hope mine will look as lovely as yours it so suits you. You are so inspiring. I love your videos of Maxie and Pollux too, they are a delight. It’s wonderful how much fun Pollux and brought to Maxxie’s life. Keep up the good work, we need you.
I agree about others not seeing how colored hair really looks for many people.