What is the root cause? A western born child on average is extremely fortunate, good early childhood development, good communication development from early on, good respectful relationship with parents and others. Most importantly no physical abuse, no emotional abuse, no fear, no trauma, the child grows with unlimited potential. Add to that, superior reading skills, writing skills from early schools years. The child grows with full of self respect and confidence, therefore able to travel explore foreign lands as teenagers. Sadly a sri lankan born child grows up with religious and cultural dogma, family truma, social and family abuse, fear, judgements, so much mental emotional limitations, with very limited exposure to books , so very limited reading and writing skills. A sri lankan born child may look innocent with a ready smile, but underneath is an underdeveloped suppressed child full of fear and unable to expand. So as adults sri lankan society as a whole reflects the chaotic collectitive childhood. This absolute bullshit of our mindsets must be exposed. That's why SL is called an underdeveloped country, not just the economy, our minds are under developed. A tribal society indeed.
Yes, very true. Living in Australia, our daughter went on a tour of South America and Cuba on her own and with her own money - before she was 20 yrs old We were concerned as Sri Lankan parents, but she came through very well. Aftr that, we made the same trip.
Currently, Sri Lankan undergraduates are facing a non academic strike. Almost all the university studies are halted, only online studies, no practicals, most with no examinations, halted convocations, halted examination result issues. But no undergraduate speaks on behalf of them. I privately spoke against, just tried to explain the others to speak on behalf of them. IDK why they don't get into that. What happened is I became an uncommon fellow. Really sad about what's with most of my peers and colleagues What you are talking about is really important to us, Thanks Mr. Yaka
On the whole young genaration has more world wide view, knowledge of politics & policies, managing finance. Basically from the young age they are confident 😊 in many aspects of life ❤
Take any nation and put them under economic stress (mortgage or housing/ food/ daily expenses) but with a longstanding policy discipline, you'll see Australian youth in it
Traditional education system in SL almost one way straight trip. No chance for Drop outs, No take a rest & go facilities. Because of this narrowed opportunities & paths all the parents & children are living with high anxiety, stress & depression that would ruin their personalities beyond any remedy with time, without knowing them. I think this is one of the main reason behind abnormal behaviour patterns in the society. Despite the Open university & many technical colleges it seems not successful for some reasons. But German Tec & very few private institutions seems somewhat successful.
Ape kattiya godak anungen dewal balaporoththu wenawa rajaye rassa wage hari kammali eka dekin padam igana ganne na ayeth untama chande denawa thaman gana witharai hitanne dekmak na demawpiyange adare onawata wedi therumak nathi vidiyatqla many more
Can you please do a video about the disgusting Sri Lankan cultural practice of forcing children to kneel down for everyone, even who are just a few weeks older than them. Even many Lankans here in Aussi expect kids to do this, I have argued with my husband a lot about this, I believe this is the first point where Childrens’ ego & self confidence is crushed in Sri Lanka, having to kneel down for the worst ever abusive teachers or adults. Why not let children do what they feel out of respect- if the person is worth, it will come naturally from children. We need to educate children that even abusers, criminals, culprits & idiots can also be adults or grow up to become adults - respect is something you earn, not something any villain is entitled to just because they are older. I have been criticised badly from Lankan relos & friends both here & in Sl for not encouraging my kids to worship anyone just because they are older than them.
Ayye meka me video ekata relevant naha. Habay samahara youths la dakkama mehe, eyala ge behaviour eka dakkama ( udaharana lesa vape karana eka, drugs, swearing , complaining against parents and carers to the police and authorities when trying to disciplene them, when we see this ,feel about uncertainity of how to discipline our kids when they come to teen years .. how to manage this problem is a big problem . If possible please address this point in videoes
Thank you for the great idea! This is complex but achievable. Essentially, we need to guide our children to love themselves, appreciate society, and pursue interests that enrich their lives. Often, the main reasons for misbehaviours arise from underlying feelings of hopelessness and uncertainty. We'll do a video 📸
This is very narrow minded. To a millionaire fun might be being a millionaire. To a monk fun might be letting everything go. To this Yaka person fun might be being an Aussie. Find something you like and pursuit that. Work on that. Maybe, It's the best you can do to find your own fun.
What is the root cause? A western born child on average is extremely fortunate, good early childhood development, good communication development from early on, good respectful relationship with parents and others. Most importantly no physical abuse, no emotional abuse, no fear, no trauma, the child grows with unlimited potential. Add to that, superior reading skills, writing skills from early schools years. The child grows with full of self respect and confidence, therefore able to travel explore foreign lands as teenagers. Sadly a sri lankan born child grows up with religious and cultural dogma, family truma, social and family abuse, fear, judgements, so much mental emotional limitations, with very limited exposure to books , so very limited reading and writing skills. A sri lankan born child may look innocent with a ready smile, but underneath is an underdeveloped suppressed child full of fear and unable to expand. So as adults sri lankan society as a whole reflects the chaotic collectitive childhood. This absolute bullshit of our mindsets must be exposed. That's why SL is called an underdeveloped country, not just the economy, our minds are under developed. A tribal society indeed.
Spot on bro🔥👏👍🏻 Thanking you
Great comment revealing the truth underneath.❤❤❤❤
Actually our minds are keeping under developd..! 🙄🤧🙆
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ගිය සතියේ කොන්ක්‍රීට් ලෙවල් කරන ඔසී කොල්ලෙක් හමුවුනා වැඩබිමකදී. වයස 16 යි.
මේ වෙනකොට වැඩබිම් යන්ත්‍ර හැසිරීමට බලපත්‍ර හතරක් තියනවා. මේ වෙනකොට ගෙයක් ගන්න බලනවාලු.
සල්ලි ගොඩක් ඉතිරි කරපුහාම මුදලේ වටිනාකම අඩු වෙනකොට පාඩු නිසා ගෙවල් අරම් දාන එකලු අරමුන. කොහොමද ටිකිරි මොලේ.
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Thank you for sharing 🙏
Good video soyura
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Theruwan saranai 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍🙏🙏👍🙏🙏🙏
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Australia කියන්නේ පට්ටම රටක්! මම හරිම ආසයි. මම Tamil නිසා tourist visa වලින් Australia ඇවිත් asylum PR ගත්ත. ගොඩක් ලංකාවේ අයට එහෙම කරන්න බැරි බව දන්නවා...
කොහොම හරි එන්නයි ඕනෙ මචං.
ඔයා ගොඩක් වීඩියෝ වල එක එක රටවල එකඑක ජොබ් කරනවා 😂
සුපිරි වැඩ්ඩෙක් නේද?
දැන් මෙයාට තියෙන්නේ නාසා යන්න ට්‍රයි කරන්න... 🙏
හොද අදහස් ටිකක් 👏👏👏
Thank you bro❤️👍🏻
Yes, very true. Living in Australia, our daughter went on a tour of South America and Cuba on her own and with her own money - before she was 20 yrs old
We were concerned as Sri Lankan parents, but she came through very well. Aftr that, we made the same trip.
Thank you for sharing 🙏
Currently, Sri Lankan undergraduates are facing a non academic strike. Almost all the university studies are halted, only online studies, no practicals, most with no examinations, halted convocations, halted examination result issues. But no undergraduate speaks on behalf of them. I privately spoke against, just tried to explain the others to speak on behalf of them. IDK why they don't get into that. What happened is I became an uncommon fellow. Really sad about what's with most of my peers and colleagues
What you are talking about is really important to us, Thanks Mr. Yaka
Thank you for sharing and thank you for your compliments ❤️❤️👍🏻 keep in touch 👍🏻
On the whole young genaration has more world wide view, knowledge of politics & policies, managing finance. Basically from the young age they are confident 😊 in many aspects of life ❤
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Oya ge kathawa 💯 hari ...mageth addakeema okama thama ....
Take any nation and put them under economic stress (mortgage or housing/ food/ daily expenses) but with a longstanding policy discipline, you'll see Australian youth in it
Thnks aiya❤❤ video eka genawata 🎉🎉🎉
You are mostly welcome ❤️❤️❤️ keep in touch 👍🏻
Thawa oya wage karunu karana oya lamai ta kiyala denna oyata shaktiya diriya labewa!!!!
බොහොම ස්තූතියි 🙏
Thank u ape yaka aiya..❤
You are mostly welcome ❤️❤️❤️ keep in touch 👍🏻
As a youth, I'm really feeling sad about us
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එ අතින් බලනකොට පොඩි කාලෙ ඉදන්ම දෙශපාලුවොයි ආගම් නායකයොයි අපිව අන්දලා හිර කරලා තියෙන්නෙ පව් අපෙ රටෙ කොල්ලො කෙල්ලො
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වැඩිහිටියො බලාගන්න විදිහ ඒජ් කෙයා ගැන වීඩියෝ ඕනි
අනිවාර්යෙන්ම කරමි👍🏻
ඉතින් කොහොමද..කොහොමද...❤❤
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1st..❤
ජයවේවා 💪👏🎉👍🏻
Traditional education system in SL almost one way straight trip. No chance for Drop outs, No take a rest & go facilities. Because of this narrowed opportunities & paths all the parents & children are living with high anxiety, stress & depression that would ruin their personalities beyond any remedy with time, without knowing them.
I think this is one of the main reason behind abnormal behaviour patterns in the society.
Despite the Open university & many technical colleges it seems not successful for some reasons. But German Tec & very few private institutions seems somewhat successful.
Thank you for sharing your valuable perspective 👍🏻
Keep in touch 👍🏻
Great content Ayya ❤❤❤
Thank you so much brother ❤️❤️❤️ keep in touch 👍🏻
yakage katha niyama katha
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Tuition karayo andana andilla kohomada..
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Ape kattiya godak anungen dewal balaporoththu wenawa rajaye rassa wage hari kammali eka dekin padam igana ganne na ayeth untama chande denawa thaman gana witharai hitanne dekmak na demawpiyange adare onawata wedi therumak nathi vidiyatqla many more
කියලා වැඩක් නැහැ ඒව නම් 😢
very good one
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Good job 👏
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Australia vocational training gana video ekk krnna
True, faced the similar situations multiple times in my career. Shame working culture in sri lanka
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ඇත්තටම ලංකාවෙන් එලියට ආවම තේරෙන්නෙ අපි හිටියේ කොහෙද කියලා...😄 මගේ ආතල් ගන්න ඕනා කාලේ ගෙවිල ගියා ලංකාවේ පව් ගෙවලා දුක් විඳලා... හැබැයී මගේ පුතාට එහෙම වෙන්නෙ නෑ ඌට ඇත්තටම හොඳ ලයීෆ් එකක් ලැබෙනවා කියන එක තේරුනාම පට්ටම සතුටුයී... 🥹❤️ ලංකාවේ කොල්ලො කෙල්ලො ගැන ඇත්තටම දුකයී... 😢 මම නම් හිතන්නේ නෑ ලංකාව කවදාවත් ඔය කියන තත්වෙන් ගොඩ එයී කියලා මොකා ආවත් පාලනේ කරන්න...
ඔබ හරි.. හැබැයි අපේ ළමයින්ට මේ ජීවිතේ සාමාන්‍යයයි. එයාලා දන්නේ නැහැ අපේ රට වගේ සමාජ ගැන
ආතල් ගන්න වයසක් තියෙන්නේ කොහෙද
Can you please do a video about the disgusting Sri Lankan cultural practice of forcing children to kneel down for everyone, even who are just a few weeks older than them. Even many Lankans here in Aussi expect kids to do this, I have argued with my husband a lot about this, I believe this is the first point where Childrens’ ego & self confidence is crushed in Sri Lanka, having to kneel down for the worst ever abusive teachers or adults. Why not let children do what they feel out of respect- if the person is worth, it will come naturally from children. We need to educate children that even abusers, criminals, culprits & idiots can also be adults or grow up to become adults - respect is something you earn, not something any villain is entitled to just because they are older. I have been criticised badly from Lankan relos & friends both here & in Sl for not encouraging my kids to worship anyone just because they are older than them.
Absolutely disgusting so called culture of ours. Robbing s child's respect is child abuse.
😂😂 SriLanka is nothing else but little India, that kneeling to the begging and everything in between came across the Palk straight ..
I completely agree with you on this. Sri Lankans are still prisoners of cultural and religious practices.👍
Thank you for your valuable thoughts ❤️❤️👍🏻🔥.
We'll do a video 📷
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කන හරහා මොළේට... 😅❤
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Great! ❤
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Lankawe campus yana ayama thama owa kiwwama godak dong yanneh...unta kiyala kawadawath pudanna puluwan set ekak newi...
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what is this guy bubbling ?
hariyata hari bro, lankave AL karana gon set eka meka dakkanam, anika loke hondama campus lankave evalu, maratuwa colombo peradeniya yana un inne hena oluven, balan giyama potha kata padam karala gihin job hoya hoya polime innava, moratuwe degree eka kalama one ratakata giyekilu, e vge gon moda adahas thiyana un lankave inne, maha loku campus giya un maruti eke yanne
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ඔයා ටිකක් මිනිස්සු එකක් තරහකින් වගේ කතාකරන්නෙ මෙ program එකෙ විතරක් නෙමෙ හැම එකකම 😢😢
ඇත්ත ඇති සැටියෙන් කතා කරද්දී එහෙම පේන්න පුළුවන්🙏
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මාත් හිතන්නෙ ඔයා හිතන විදියට තමයි. මට තනියෙන් ගොඩයට විදියක් තිබුණා නම් මාත් ගොඩ යනවා. හැබැයි මෙඩිකල් පැකල්ටි වලට ගිහිල්ලා ඉන්ජිනේරු පීට වලට ගිහිල්ලා ඒවා සලකන්නේ නැතුව මේ රටේ දුක් විඳින ජනතාව වෙනුවෙන් සටන් කරලා මැරීච්ච කොල්ලො ගැන නම් මට තියෙන්නේ ලොකු ගෞරවයක්.
බොහොම ස්තූතියි ඔබගේ වටිනා අදහස් දැක්වීමට.
ඒ වගේම තමන් විශ්ව විද්‍යාලයට ගිහින්, තව කෙනෙක් පුද්ගලිකව ඉගෙන ගනියි කියලා තිබුණු කුහක ඉරිසියාව නිසා දාගලන්න ගිහින් මැරුම් කාපු අයත් ඉන්නවා
Ayye meka me video ekata relevant naha. Habay samahara youths la dakkama mehe, eyala ge behaviour eka dakkama ( udaharana lesa vape karana eka, drugs, swearing , complaining against parents and carers to the police and authorities when trying to disciplene them, when we see this ,feel about uncertainity of how to discipline our kids when they come to teen years .. how to manage this problem is a big problem . If possible please address this point in videoes
Thank you for the great idea!
This is complex but achievable. Essentially, we need to guide our children to love themselves, appreciate society, and pursue interests that enrich their lives. Often, the main reasons for misbehaviours arise from underlying feelings of hopelessness and uncertainty.
We'll do a video 📸
@@Yakagekatha yeah ayye thanks for that . This is the biggest issue I see here ... regarding kids
අන්න කරණියමෙත්ත සූත්‍රයේ ඒ අයි වලින් කරා කියලා මිනිහෙක් හිර කූඩුවට දාලා. යකා ඔයා මොකද මේ ගෙන කියන්නේ.
Ai karata kamak na naraka dewal karanne nathuwa waradi deyak karoth daduwam denna one ek lankawe karana deyak witharak newei mehe hodai wena ratawal wala eee agamata mokak hara karoth kelinma maranawa eee manussayawa anika horu thiyagena idala wadak nane ne owa issara idalama karanam ehema wenna naththan agamata wath garukaranne nathi amuthu jiwiyo inna ratak wei 😂 americawe indiyawe arabi aya hama ratakama thamanta labila thiyena agamata garukaranawa
Ai walin karapu ekwla newe weradda vikurthi kireema
මොන දේවල් වලට වත් ආගම් ගාව ගන්නේ නැතුව ඉන්නවනම් හොදයි
හීනමාන Extreme. ලංකාවෙ තරුණයටනම් වැරදිලා නෑ ඔසියො තරම්. දන්නෝ දනිති. 😅
පැහැදිලි කරන්න
This is very narrow minded. To a millionaire fun might be being a millionaire. To a monk fun might be letting everything go. To this Yaka person fun might be being an Aussie. Find something you like and pursuit that. Work on that. Maybe, It's the best you can do to find your own fun.
ඔයා නිකං අනිත් පක්ෂවලට මඩ ගහලා සොම්බියට කඩේ යන සීන් එකක් පේන්නේ පේනවා ඔයගොල්ලෝ ගොඩ ගිය පලියට අනිත් මිනිස්සු අමාරුවේ දාන්න එපා
ඔක්කොම සොම්බියෝ තමයි ඉතින්
@gimhanz
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