AI loves writing doormat main characters. "OP" will never stop simping. If there's another update it will be about how he's still considering divorce or he took her back and she cheated again.
Because AI likes drama even if it doesn't make sense. Always out the cheater before they can try to turn everything around and claim you were cheating.
Exactly. In fact, not telling the truth before usually works out against the person being cheated. They'll lie, hell, sometimes, they even say the other person is the one cheating!
The moment you go to hotel room with someone else behind your partner's back is the moment that you know they have no respect for you. I'll be amazed if nothing happened. Good on you for outing the cheater.
If she didn't think it was wrong, she wouldn't have hidden it. She made a conscious effort to do so. You don't hide something if it was "no big deal" I'm sorry but dude in story 2 had a complete non-issue. Idc if he explained that all problems are valid, no matter how trivial; if his biggest issue in his marriage is that his wife quit drinking, his marriage already doing 1000% better than most of the ones featured on this channel.
I'm gutted for 3rd story OP. Op being angry is far from the most upsetting reaction i've heard about in regards to losing a loved one to something terminal. Anger is a stage of grieving. It is unfair, it really is. I hope the rest of the time OP spends with him is good; that she gets to enjoy it as much as she can, anger and all. She's having the horrible opportunity to grieve someone who isn't dead yet, and that's heartbreaking. Best of wishes to her and his family.
I don't drink much, maybe 2 or 3 a year. It absolutely does change a relationship when you remove alcohol. Not the alcohol itself but by removing alcohol changes everything else around it. Social situations change, eating changes, celebrations change, how restaurants treat you changes. It can take some time to get use to the change. Someone like OP would find it easier as someone who doesn't drink but those who do drink more will have massive problems adjusting. Nothing bad just OP initially having issues thinking what life will be like and then adjusting to how life will be different. Just a normal phase trying to adapt to change.
Story 1: 1. He's gonna Stay and do the "Pick Me" Dance. And how many times have we seen a Man NOT SAY ANYTHING and his Wife goes to EVERYONE AND SOCIAL MEDIA to Create a FALSE narrative....AND YOU YELLED AT A CHEATING GASLIGHTING LIAR WHO OBVIOUSLY HAS NO RESPECT FOR YOU.
Story 1. Gaslighting 101. Stop simping. Never tolerate disrespect.
AI loves writing doormat main characters. "OP" will never stop simping. If there's another update it will be about how he's still considering divorce or he took her back and she cheated again.
Why tf are people acting like outing your cheater is a D move
Probably because they're cheaters
@@Levithos cheaters protect cheaters, story as old as time
Because they honestly _feeel_ that cheating isn't always bad, if they aren't cheaters themselves
Because AI likes drama even if it doesn't make sense. Always out the cheater before they can try to turn everything around and claim you were cheating.
Exactly. In fact, not telling the truth before usually works out against the person being cheated. They'll lie, hell, sometimes, they even say the other person is the one cheating!
The moment you go to hotel room with someone else behind your partner's back is the moment that you know they have no respect for you. I'll be amazed if nothing happened. Good on you for outing the cheater.
If she didn't think it was wrong, she wouldn't have hidden it. She made a conscious effort to do so. You don't hide something if it was "no big deal"
I'm sorry but dude in story 2 had a complete non-issue. Idc if he explained that all problems are valid, no matter how trivial; if his biggest issue in his marriage is that his wife quit drinking, his marriage already doing 1000% better than most of the ones featured on this channel.
I'm gutted for 3rd story OP. Op being angry is far from the most upsetting reaction i've heard about in regards to losing a loved one to something terminal. Anger is a stage of grieving. It is unfair, it really is. I hope the rest of the time OP spends with him is good; that she gets to enjoy it as much as she can, anger and all. She's having the horrible opportunity to grieve someone who isn't dead yet, and that's heartbreaking. Best of wishes to her and his family.
I don't drink much, maybe 2 or 3 a year. It absolutely does change a relationship when you remove alcohol. Not the alcohol itself but by removing alcohol changes everything else around it. Social situations change, eating changes, celebrations change, how restaurants treat you changes. It can take some time to get use to the change. Someone like OP would find it easier as someone who doesn't drink but those who do drink more will have massive problems adjusting.
Nothing bad just OP initially having issues thinking what life will be like and then adjusting to how life will be different. Just a normal phase trying to adapt to change.
I’m not much of a drinker. Like, once per year. Nobody cares. My husband and friends drink.
Nobody books a hotel room just to talk to a coworker. Miss me with that bs
S2's wife is clearly an alcoholic, and op is clearly a codependent.
First story...man learn to have control on yourself...and when this kind of thinks happen just move one and find a women who loves God
S2, what a freak. Really, what a freak, she should divorce him.
Story 1: 1. He's gonna Stay and do the "Pick Me" Dance. And how many times have we seen a Man NOT SAY ANYTHING and his Wife goes to EVERYONE AND SOCIAL MEDIA to Create a FALSE narrative....AND YOU YELLED AT A CHEATING GASLIGHTING LIAR WHO OBVIOUSLY HAS NO RESPECT FOR YOU.
Story 2 man is nuts
Your wife is working on her problems went R . U. Going to work on yours
What!
Story 2: OP completely missed one little detail - his wife stopped drinking because of another man.
I think it was an older woman, unless I misheard.
I was thinking that she’s probably quit drinking so abruptly because she did something (or someone) while she was wasted.