My ex blindsided me with a divorce and left me with two teenage kids; she didn't even want custody. Despite having to run a business, I raised my kids by myself. It was hard at times, but they both turned out to be compassionate, honest, and wonderful people. Within 5 years my ex burned through all of the money she got in the divorce, then spent the next 7 years piling up massive credit card debt trying to maintain her lifestyle. Fast forward to her 65 birthday.... she's heavily in debt, and living with her 92-year old mother in a 2 bedroom house in Detroit that was built in the 50's. Once my kids reached their 30's they visited her a couple of times and told me she is miserable... as the French say "tant pis pour elle." Looking back, the divorce was wonderful thing because I was able to save a ton of money and no longer had to support her lavish lifestyle.
My ex-wife left me for some dude in a chat room. Amazingly he was lying to her. She didn't work and had an easy life with me. She works a full time dead end job and lives with her parents. Hahaha, I haven't been this happy in many years living my best life.
this is/was my situation. married 28 years and she wanted to find herself, find happiness, wanted to get away from the toxic abusive men in her life (2 sons and me who bent over backwards to try to help her with her alcoholism). her friends, all divorced, egging her on stating pastures are greener athough she admits they are all miserably single. she took 50%+ of my life and the house in divorce. boys and i left to pick up pieces. she killed her relationship with boys (they are adults). i am moving on. she is now miserably single with her divorced friends. misery loves company. enjoy your tears.
Interesting, this is what they get sacrificing being dutiful for happiness. So funny that modern women would rather be dutiful to her bosses than the husband who will be there for her even during alcoholism, when actually the bosses will kick her out at any moment with or without any issue leave alone alcoholism.
55 year old widow here. My husband passed 9 years ago, at the age of 46 and I would give ANYTHING to have him here now. I have never been as happy as I was with him. We were together for 28 year, married for 26.
My husband was 32 and I was 20 when I met him. His wife of 11 years left him, he said she had packed up and left 28 times before and this last time he didn't call her and get her to come back. We've been married 21 years and have 3 kids. I love my life staying home with the kids and traveling with him all over the world on work trips. His ex eventually tried to get him back, but we were already together and he didn't even respond to her letters. I can't believe she'd throw this man away. My life is beautiful.
Kind of similar to me. I met my husband when I was 16, he had been divorced from his wife of about 10 years for about a year and a half. He was 26. She was an idiot, she had a hard working, loyal man and she threw him away because he refused to do the wife swapping thing. She tracked him down about 5 years into our marriage and wanted to reconnect with him. He laughed at her.
😮😮A lawyer friend said divorce is not equal. Older women find out they will end up with cats and the husband will find girlfriends if he wants company. . . . I found my wonderful husband shortly after his first wife ( of 12 years ) wanted her freedom to party with multiple men and she thought he was a boring homebody. . . After 30 years of marriage, I can say her loss is my gain.
You are an exception. Men cannot expect to find rare women that want to date old dudes that make stuff up about their ex. How do you know she was that way? Let me guess, he told you that. I am a Nigerian Prince and if you send me 100k my father will send you a million as a handsome reward.
@@mysurfing3550 1. There are people I know who know her relatives. 2. I read the divorce papers. 3. He really is a homebody. We share phones and other devices and he lets me handle all finances for him.
I hear other people or women do it to when we cry and look into the mirror you realize how silly you would look. Then you laugh and would stop. Now I guess you cry it’s time to pull that phone out
My husband’s ex threw him away after over 20 years. He didn’t make enough, not educated enough and other things. Well I made a little more than him but I’ve never had to hire a handyman since meeting him. Heck he even keeps an eye on the gauge in my car and will take it when fuel gets low to top it off so I don’t have to and checks tires/fluids while he is at it. He may not have a college degree but is well read and one of the smartest men I’ve ever known. While he still worked I fixed his lunches to take and he bragged about it to all the other guys. We split the chores doing what each of us do best. I ironed his work shirts. I forgive his ultra conservatism and he in turn forgives my tree hugging tendencies. 😂 Both retired now. One woman’s loss is another woman’s gain. Wake up women, good men are what you make of them. Anytime you make another person feel good they will pay you back 10 fold.
65 year old widower here. I have dated so many of these women who are bored after the kids leave. They think they are deserving a full time entertainer.
Exactly, 62 and life long bachelor here, I stopped dating 14 years ago when after about 8 girlfriends over the years I came to the conclusion my life is simpler and more peaceful alone. When I had a girlfriend I had to do everything I had to do as a single man, plus I have to tiptoe around her emotional land mines, I have to entertain her, and I have to read her mind.
@@drgdieselfrenzy7707yep Brittany Spears I am a genie in a bottle. Meaning to her your is my command master 24/7, hell no These women need a reality check ✔️ ✅
@@kc6810 What? After 18 plus years with ALL her attention on the kids and not wanting to be a wife and the man is suppose to now show her more attention? She should be lucky he stayed unless she knew how to balance her time during that period, then when the kids are gone they can continue their happy relationship together. From my perspective most women do not know how to balance the relationship. Most of the time the husband is reduced to a walking wallet. Guy retires and she cannot handle him around for 24/7! But, what do I know, my wife cheated and I divorced her. Been single for 40 years.
Toxic isn't new. A girl called me toxic in 2007. Meanwhile she then hooked up with a married co-worker who gave her an STD she still dealing with. I'm toxic? Ok, girlfriend.
Yeah, I had an ex call me a "momma's boy". I can assure you i was not. I was a mature independent man that often had to check my mother's behavior. My ex was just being a woman. Using words to attack me.
Something tells me this man was under valued in more ways than one. Where the blazes are her hobbies ha hahaha 😆 🤣. I suspect both are similar ages. She have no intention of growing old with her man. Gosh. I am from another dimension. Sorry folks....
I suspect there is more to this story than we are told. If a man chooses to sleep on the couch instead of with his wife, it's probably because she cheated on him. I would do the same. If a man pretends nothing happened and continues to sleep with his wife, she will have no respect for him and treat him like a doormat. That man was standing up for his dignity. He was probably waiting for an apology from his wife, but when none came, and she had no remorse, he knew it was over.
My mom was a happy SAHM until I was 6yo. Her friends before then consisted of married housewives. Then a divorcee moved into the house next door. She starts hanging out with the divorcee and all the other divorcee friends. Then all of a sudden she wanted to go back to work full time and ruined all that my dad had provided for us. She divorced him and destroyed our family. It took my dad years to recover but he met my stepmother late in life. She was a traditional women who cooked and cleaned and beautifully decorated the house with yard sale finds. She dressed very feminine and was soft spoken. She never swore and never said anything bad about anyone. She cared for my dad until he passed of cancer. I'm so glad he found love. My mom is still single and miserable.
Your Dad found his love through you and the stepmother. Praise be to God, sometimes pain creates growth. I'm happy that you stayed by his side. I'm sorry for your loss cancer isn't easy to deal with. A true father to his last breath 🙏🙏🙏
My mom destroyed our lives when she committed adultery, had twins, and left my dad. She’s 82, alone, and needs “help”. What if she was still with my dad? They argued a lot, and no longer had feelings for him.
@@jackijohnson3778 Because she said so. It's amazing how you all only believe women when they say exactly what you want them to say. Anything else is immediately challenged and dismissed. It's getting really old.
My wife did it to me, I was crushed, begged to keep our family together for the sake of our children. But I'm so happy she did it. She brought no joy into my life the last 10 years.I feel guilty that I'm so happy and relieved that she isn't in my life. God have mercy on her next husband.
Are you kidding me. I have been with my husband since we were 17.I gave him 5 sons and 2 daughters. 34 years and he is just getting hotter . You put in the work so he loves your heart, soul and mind when you aren't as beautiful as you used to be. I am ok for 54 but I am not a 100lb ,peach skinned, youngin no more. He is my best friend and I am grateful to see his smile that glint in his eyes when he looks at me every morning.
Interesting 🥳🥳, women like decorating things including statements. I am summarizing all you have said to 'duty'. right? Being dutiful to you as a husband and a father of your kids, and you to him as a wife and a mother of his kids.
What I suspect is this woman looked at the family finances. The value of the home, his retirement, and the money in bank and thought, "I could retire on half of all of that". A few years later, after the endless line of one night stand booty calls, she looks at her bank statement and wonders, "My god, where did all the money go".
When you look for 'happiness' by changing your outer circumstances only, you will discover 'that no matter where you go, there YOU are' Much better to work on you instead, ask yourself, "would I want to be married to ME?"
We used to write in our diary when we felt horrible, in the privacy of our bedroom. Now we record soggy videos and share them with the entire freaking world. So cringe. You would think adults would have more sense than this.
The difference is writing in private allows you to self reflect. Spewing on the internet give validation and you never know the advice you receive; most people don’t have your best interest.
Must be a generational thing. I’m an old woman and would NEVER go on social media and expose myself like this. This is embarrassing and why so many people seem to have no shame is baffling.
Women cannot manage boredom like men do. That is the issue. I bet she was nagging him to attend all sorts of things young people do to spice up her life and her ex was like 'We are too old for this, what's wrong with you and leave me alone'.
He’s been gone for a week and I can’t sleep, because I miss that “toxic” behavior so much. She does have one amazing ability though. She can cry without producing tears.
These women always read from the same script: “I’m leaving because it’s not too late to be happy.” What they really mean is I think I can do better. All the movies and their friends convince them if this. Never works out. I’m proof of that. We’ve provided such a sheltered existence for these women it gives them false self confidence.
Just wait until she starts dating again - then she will see how good her decision was lol. I talk to women in their mid 30s that act like it’s hell finding a guy at their age - that woman is 50 plus.. oh lord
I divorced my wife after some very bad behaviour on her part. Now her life is a mess and she calls to tell me how much she misses her life before divorce. 😂😂😂😂😂
Wait, she's getting a divorce and is upset because her husband is leaving? I thought that was what she wanted. If she were concerned about her son, she wouldn't have divorced her husband.
He doesn't understand MGTOW and MGTOW is not about avoiding women and relationships; that'll be like saying "don't think of a pink elephant." To me, MGTOW is a about self-focus and self-mastery... taking the time to get to know yourself and grow; become a better you for the people's lives you do touch. My whole life is better since taking up the philosophy. And when you look at the western world, for the most part (majority), there aren't alot of people/women with depth, substance, and morals that aligns with a man that has discipline and constantly growing. Also, going monk is not a bad thing, to/for me, because I'd rather remain abstinent than lose myself to someone unworthy.
Why? Most men will put up with misery to get routine sex and a little companionship . That’s why . I have friends that even have a little red pill knowledge but they still go through so much bs to get laid .. it kills me to see that
@@LisaKelly-k8s Men Going Their Own Way. There was a whole reddit for it up until about a year or 2 ago when it got taken down for being "hateful" or whatever blah blah. Good stuff though.
What a lot of these people don’t realize is that life is a journey and NOT a destination, they keep saying “I will find happiness” , you don’t go anywhere to “find” happiness, either you are happy or not. If you’re not a happy person you’re not going to find it anywhere!!!
It's also false to think you'll live a princess's life 24/7. They are crying because their idea of happiness is an illusion and they are starting to see that. Also, women have hormonal imbalances as they age and that cause emotional upset. They are projecting onto their spouses instead of taking responsibility for those emotions and it leads to divorce. Sometimes, it's a physical imbalance and you need to go to a doctor to "fix" your body in order to feel better in general.
Can't you see, man? He gave her a nice home, cars, beautiful clothes, leisure time to take long walks and complain into a camera. Oh! The horror of it all!
Mine told everyone I was toxic, abusive, manipulative, and controlling because I wouldn't let her open a line of credit to buy a $400 bar stool. Yes, ONE bar stool. She bought it anyway, behind my back. Never made payments and defaulted on $1200 with fees and interest. And she never once sat in that bar stool. It never left our storage shed. After the divorce, I took it and now it's a trophy I use it in my new man cave.
@@mikey92362 was told I was abusive and controlling because my I ASKED my ex, who didn't have a job, after I leave for work at 5:30AM to please wake up at 7 and make sure our 7yo, who had already gotten herself ready for school, actually got on the bus, then she could go back to bed til 2pm to rest up for a busy day of doing nothing but watching horror movies until 4AM.
23:40 I have a 17 year old son who has decided without ever dating to never date. He and several of his friends could care less about dating. They got burned by teachers in elementary and middle school. Teachers (that is multiple teachers over several years) evidently would criticize the boys in class for not being as good as the girls. I argued they had to have done something wrong but one of his friends agreed. The girls will talk and laugh in class without anything being said then a boy will say something to make the boys laugh and they all get in trouble. One teacher made them miss recess others gave them "quiet lunch" or made them clean the lunchroom for a week. Talking to several parents they confirmed the boy's stories but thought their son had exaggerated it as well. So, the RP community has about 6-8 highschool football, basketball and baseball players who won't so much as look at girls in their school. They now agree that it would be wasting money to buy a girl dinner twice a week when they can go games, fish, play golf and mess around as they please when some other poor shleps can never.go and are always broke or saving money to take out a girl who doesn't actually give a crap about him. Sorry my guy. I'm now in the "It's better to be single" band wagon.
Here’s the thing: she had a husband who gave her everything. 25 years of commitment, a home, a family, a comfortable and safe life. AND SHE LEFT HIM ANYWAY. A sane person would see this and say, what if I do those same things and she leaves me too? The only way to win the game is to not play.
She did not leave he did He lost interest and no longer cared for her She seems to have put up with it and was unhappy Long ago women in her situation stayed and took their misery and unhappiness out on their children
If divorce can happen to Bezos and Bill Gates then it can happen to anyone ! And you’re right don’t play the game because their rules won’t let you win, so don’t play if you don’t have to !
She didn't mention any abuse: physical, verbal, financial, or otherwise. She was just an insatiable woman, and became more insufferable when she discovered tiktok/social media. The sisterhood told her "you deserve better, girl." "Leave him and get you a man that'll....." She was hoping the separation would break him but he's realising how free he is to roll solo. That's killing her inside because she was expecting him to curl up in a fetal position, while begging her to stay. This would validate her, but she got the opposite.
My wife’s college friend is currently divorcing her husband. Spread for dozens of men into her 30s. Some married. Marries a guy off a dating website and after ten years discovers she’s not happy. She’s already on the dating apps looking for new sausage.
That’s a given …..tears, drama and a diatribe why it’s all your fault blah blah. Now that I’ve been single for 5 years I honestly can’t remember or figure why I got attached in the first place. I have more in common with my friends more fun with my friends more free time to spend on my interests more liquidity more happiness and if I feel the need for 🐈 I rent one for the evening and the best part is the variety. There’s nothing wrong with prostitution the moral ambiguity is a religious concept of guilt to strengthen the very thing we are freeing ourselves from.
My ex-wife left me for some dude on Facebook. He used and abused her and shes now on her 7th relationship in 9 years shes gone thru 5 vehicles , been in court for not paying her taxes, DUI Arrest, Alcoholic. Anorexic, thank god she left me. Amazingly he was lying to her. She didn't work and had an easy life with me. She works a full time dead end job and lives with her parents. Hahaha, I haven't been this happy in many years living my best life.
Not just divorce. They have the highest rate of domestic violence as well ! But what do you expect from CHILDREN !? study after study after sty for years and years and years have proved that little girls mature faster than little boys. FACT ! Those same studies also prove that women, never mature past the age of 12 or 14, while boys take longer but eventually become men, FACT ! Yes like everything else, there are exceptions to every rule or fact, but immature man boys are the exception, like mature adult women are also the exception. This 55 or more little crying, girl proves that FACT !!! Men are adults who sometimes act childish and women are children who sometimes act like adults !!!!
No. It is Ws. As one myself, I learned very early to stay away from most because I was backstabbed many times. Most of my friends were males (pure friendship) for a reason.
Women usually wait until a guy retires, makes his pension, gets a promotion, or reaches 10 years so they qualify for alimony. Then they file officially for divorce although they detached years prior.
Yep, what you described is an especially common occurrence in Japan, known as a grey divorce. Female nature is constant only the environment changes which some men mistaken that with women from this region are super good wife by nature.
Most men “distance themselves” after the woman cuts off bedroom fun, the fact she admits he did this for years in a marriage that lacks intimacy should have served as a warning sign. You can’t plead ignorance to your responsibility to hold up your end of a relationship.
Yep, by definition she wasn't doing her part to make that a marriage. My own wife is past menopause so full sex is painful - so we do everything else instead! Simple stuff.
Someone from Europe here. These videos of women recording themselves crying is really disturbing. It's a strange new level of raw exhibitionism, the "SEE ME!" factor is worryingly thick. This is not strength, this is utter despair.
My parents have been married 44 years! That’s a great accomplishment you have achieved! I’ve been married 7 years and I pray our marriage is as blessed as yours and my parents ❤
Met my husband at 15, married him at 24. Women made fun of me for not having any experience, whatever that means. Weve travelled the world together, he makes me feel safe, he is my hero. Im 38 now and im convinced ill love this man until i take my last breath. We're never getting divorced if i can help it. Women need to be aware of their single or divorced friends, they will get in your head and take joy in watching you ruin a good thing.
She wanted to spite him, to feel bad for losing her, is my guess.....however it seems like the husband is thrilled at the prospect of being rid of her!
Is it wrong that I experience a small warm glow in the cockles of my cold dead heart when I see these women suffer from the consequences of their own actions ?
Oh it's not wrong. It's the single greatest source of joy in the known universe. Their misery isn't what makes us happy. What makes us happy is seeing a woman having to accept consequences for the first time in her life.
No, it's exactly what she plans for you to feel. This woman and all the crying TikTok women are actresses running home video businesses for clicks. Many are happily married. You are her customer (although Ace Nate is taking his cut). If there were no clicking audience to run up her profits, she'd be doing something else. So, don't feel guilty; your reaction is just what she wants. I'm pretty sure I've been shadow banned here, but I answer just to try to support a bro who's being used for money once again.
@@rettbutler1312 You may have a valid point there. You're probably right in many cases. Personally I've never used tiktok, Instagram, or any other social media. The only sort of social media I use is watching RUclips a little bit most days. I also have a Facebook page, but I only check it for messages maybe twice a year. And that's it! I'll die before I download tiktok. It's garbage.
I'm a grandma and use the word toxic in regards to feminists. My oldest granddaughter (has blue hair this week I think) has a fit. How dare I? Whatever negative she says about man, I repeat back to her and switch out woman for man. She tolerates it grudgingly, cause I have money and she wants some, but I'm obvious stingy with her and generous with my other four, normal grandkids. 😊😊
I just went on a date with a hot, well educated, single mom. She left her husband she was with for 7 years to find happiness. 2 days later Ace Nate shows up in my feed to save me from a terrible mistake. I’m only out $100 for dinner. Thanks brother.
The dumbest ones are the ones that get gassed up by internet strangers she never met and not one who is already cheating and monkeybranching. Marriage is a job for over half the people. Lovebirds are the exception not the rule. Most are lucky to have someone who even puts up with each other long term.
This just happened to me.. My wife went on a women’s spiritual awakening retreat and came back and asked for a separation after 18 years of marriage and 3 kids. She said she deserved more from a partner and hasn’t felt safe or seen.. she said someone she met who’s husband had just recently passed away that had the “fairy tale” relationship and that our relationship had too much “lack” of these things..
These "retreats " are bull shit. The organizers of these deals are one of two things...man haters or lesbians trying to recruit. Well...I guess that's the same thing...huh? Either way...she will come home hating you.
And especially once the kids are old enough to be on their own and begin to start their own life. That's why so many of them want sole custody, because they live off the kids, once the kids are gone, this is how they all look. Those kids aren't calling or coming by because they have their own adult life to live, like duh😂. I don't feel sorry for any of them.
From a happily married woman, mom and grandma,stop listening to those dummies!!! You have good times and bad times, but you have to REALLY try!!!! If it doesn't work the first time, try again!!!! I almost died from cancer a few years ago and then lost my sis-in-law to it last year. Don't throw it all away for a moment of excitement!!!!! I never truly understood how much my husband loved me until I looked in his eyes when he thought I was dying!!!!! I'll protect that man FOREVER ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My divorce was the most liberating thing that’s ever happened. No more lies to sort through no more drama no more bull💩. If I feel the need for female companionship I pay by the hour instead of the month to month lease that providing nothing by aggravation and anxiety. I did all the cooking unless she brought home takeout I did most of the cleaning all the laundry and all the yard work and she just got more and more unhappy. Found out she cheated and when she said it was none of my business I agreed game over.
@@panacheautomotive4298Atta boy. I did the same thing mate. Was around your age at the time too, was my early Mid life crisis if you will lol. Had a blast and pissed off the ex something fierce. Win Win. Cheers.
@@panacheautomotive4298 Yep. I was told all through my 30s that I look like a high schooler. I finally realized that it's true, and now I am 40 my gf is a senior in high school.
The divorce didn't make her depressed. She was depressed before and thought that a major change in her life would make everything better. But the problem is she took herself with her. Fixing depression isn't about changing external factors in your life, it's about fixing the thought patterns in your own head. She sounds devastated that ending her marriage didn't fix her depression and now that's all she has left. It's terrible. I hope she gets the help that she needs.
Anyone narcissistic enough to telegraph the intimate parts of their lives on the internet is exactly the kind of narcissist that can't make a relationship work.
If a man wants to live a simple, stress free life, it is his birth right. He is under no obligation to take on another person, her problems, her drama, her bundle of emotions, her depression, her mental illness, and her silly games, not to mention her debts, expenses and retirement. Marriages benefit women far more than men. They bring little to the relationship, can call it quit or cheat on you anytime. Even their youth and beauty are but a flash in the pan…
I would say my husband benefits greatly from marriage. We both do. Have gave me a house, I made it a home. He comes home to a clean house, dinner ready, kids fed and clean and ready to sit down and spend time with him. I help him with his insecurities and anxiety. I’m his biggest cheerleader. I make his lunches and warm his bed at night. Yes, he works really hard to provide for us. But he doesn’t have to lift a finger at home, it I can help it. He tells everyone how lucky he is to have me, and I tell everyone how lucky I am to have him!
Youth and beauty mean very little compared to a lifelong relationship with your best friend. Beauty fades, but the support that my husband and I give each other will last forever. Marriage is still worth it.
Hang on...didn't she say in the first video she had TWO "toxic" people in her house? She's only mentioned her husband AND her son...so...didn't she call her own son "toxic?" But once her ex decided to bounce, NOW she's SOOO concerned about her son? If this wasn't a first-world country, she wouldn't survive a _week_ due to her own stupidity.
Superb Observation ! That's precisely what she stated at the "4:11 Minute Mark" of the video, i.e., "..... the two(2) most toxic people, ....... , the two(2) most toxic adults in my life live in my home with me right now ....." !
Many more women are going to end up like this. They are going to be alone in their old age. They overestimate their value. They underestimate the value and importance of their husbands...Get ready to be alone for the rest of your life ...with a pet and box wine 🍷...No sympathy at all.....
How did I know??? This was before she mentioned the D word and the commentator mentioned SSRI' ... Aside from having the advantage of a medical background, some things are just obvious...
I’d bet her son and husband did try to talk to her. I’m 56, married 32 years and know a lot of women like this…’stunted’ is the word I always think of when I hear them. There are certainly relationships that should end for various reasons, but she sounds very immature.
She didn't say how long the husband has been sleeping on the couch. It seems he didn't leave, or file for divorce. Maybe he hoped for a good outcome, but she didn't. This is all her own doing.
@@GBU61 "he can always find a younger, better option". Really. Quite often the reverse is true as well. All those many fat, balding, alcoholic men working dead-end jobs you mean? The ones on the hub all the time thinking they've got that option? Hahahahaha, this door goes both ways my friend.
The woman crying on the floor in her bathroom sent shivers through my body. That was the exact behavior of my ex-wife. She was an alcoholic and later became addicted to benzodiazepines. It will sicken you to watch them in this chemically induced lethargic, reflective state, where they psychobabble about how they are a victim of the world. The next day they will not remember much of it, but later that evening it starts all over again. You can't fix it! They have no problems, but make up things to be disappointed about then blame everybody for their imaginary injustices! It was a horrible environment to be trapped in. I lived like that for years until I finally broke. These people live forever, like vampires; they will feed on you until they drain you mentally, and physically. I couldn't take it anymore and left.
YES; They’re Not Playing With a Full Deck: Only Victim, Race and EBT Cards. * I Myself: Carry The Joker, Wild / Trump Card and the ever popular UNO reverse card.
Men don’t generally initiate divorce, biologically men want to protect and take care of their wives. As for happiness, each individual is responsible for their own happiness. If she’s unhappy with this man, she’ll be unhappy with another man happy people are happy people. This is her problem not his problem.
This is what happens when people do not have a mind of their own. Always following the trend in mainstream media. The mainstream said you can get any man you want. You go gurl. Never settle for less.
This is a result of the "I have to take care of MEEEEE" message women have been getting for years. The best life is a life lived in service to others, imo. I'm a woman, and I think women have really lost their way. My husband and I have been married 35 years and have been through some very hard times, but we always appreciated each other, even at the worst times.
Wait … I’m confused … she filed for the divorce ?? And is mad that HE’S mad that SHE’S divorcing him after 25 years… I don’t even know this broad and she’s gaslighting the fck outta me…. 😵💫
I tell my kids (about accountability): "Talk is cheap. Actions tell people who you are." None of these social media "friends" or "gurus" have any skin in the game of your relationship when they're sitting there typing on their phones about how your SO doesn't treat you right and you can do better. Granny gon' learn.
Marriage is a journey and its about both of you being there for each other. I got prostate cancer when I turned 50 and it ended my sex life. My wife did not say well I am out of here because you can not longer perform. Then fifteen years later my wife got ovarian cancer and I almost lost her. Relationships will not ever stay the same as it was when you first get married. Its called life. I wake up every day and I am so glad I still have my wife with me. Its not about instant gratification but about how you can enjoy each others company.
Happiness before AND after the divorce. She felt that he was holding her back from experiencing happiness when they were married, and now she thinks he should still try to make her happy despite the divorce proceedings. She wanted him away when they were together, now she's bitter that he's moving out of state and won't be around to talk to her after they've separated.
My ex blindsided me with a divorce and left me with two teenage kids; she didn't even want custody. Despite having to run a business, I raised my kids by myself. It was hard at times, but they both turned out to be compassionate, honest, and wonderful people. Within 5 years my ex burned through all of the money she got in the divorce, then spent the next 7 years piling up massive credit card debt trying to maintain her lifestyle. Fast forward to her 65 birthday.... she's heavily in debt, and living with her 92-year old mother in a 2 bedroom house in Detroit that was built in the 50's. Once my kids reached their 30's they visited her a couple of times and told me she is miserable... as the French say "tant pis pour elle." Looking back, the divorce was wonderful thing because I was able to save a ton of money and no longer had to support her lavish lifestyle.
Happy for you
My ex-wife left me for some dude in a chat room. Amazingly he was lying to her. She didn't work and had an easy life with me.
She works a full time dead end job and lives with her parents.
Hahaha, I haven't been this happy in many years living my best life.
Awesome!
You deserve to be happy. Protect the boy you used to be.
Congratulations.
I’m happy for you.
@@MenBeingHappyWise words!
Why woul grown women who are being cared for. Cheat. Unless he lost his mojo. 😪it happens. Medical tissues just a suggestion
this is/was my situation. married 28 years and she wanted to find herself, find happiness, wanted to get away from the toxic abusive men in her life (2 sons and me who bent over backwards to try to help her with her alcoholism). her friends, all divorced, egging her on stating pastures are greener athough she admits they are all miserably single. she took 50%+ of my life and the house in divorce. boys and i left to pick up pieces. she killed her relationship with boys (they are adults). i am moving on. she is now miserably single with her divorced friends. misery loves company. enjoy your tears.
Interesting, this is what they get sacrificing being dutiful for happiness. So funny that modern women would rather be dutiful to her bosses than the husband who will be there for her even during alcoholism, when actually the bosses will kick her out at any moment with or without any issue leave alone alcoholism.
My neighbors wife started hanging with her divoriced workmates😂😂
Got busted, and luckily for her, a second chance I wouldn't have given.
@@briansharp4388
Ex Learned How To Cheat From Her Divorced Coworkers,
On Her Many Girls Nights Out.
@@davidmumbo7764 Brainwashed by feminism
Love to you man
55 year old widow here. My husband passed 9 years ago, at the age of 46 and I would give ANYTHING to have him here now. I have never been as happy as I was with him. We were together for 28 year, married for 26.
Sorry for your lose. Life can be cruel sometimes.
Sorry. My condolences for your loss.
God Bless You 🙏
That’s too young to go 😢 So sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss, that’s awful. I met a great guy too and he passed suddenly. I don’t understand women who choose to throw away a good guy.
My husband was 32 and I was 20 when I met him. His wife of 11 years left him, he said she had packed up and left 28 times before and this last time he didn't call her and get her to come back. We've been married 21 years and have 3 kids. I love my life staying home with the kids and traveling with him all over the world on work trips. His ex eventually tried to get him back, but we were already together and he didn't even respond to her letters. I can't believe she'd throw this man away. My life is beautiful.
Kind of similar to me. I met my husband when I was 16, he had been divorced from his wife of about 10 years for about a year and a half. He was 26. She was an idiot, she had a hard working, loyal man and she threw him away because he refused to do the wife swapping thing. She tracked him down about 5 years into our marriage and wanted to reconnect with him. He laughed at her.
@@LillyMarz777 Bruh you were 16 with a 26 year old grown man...wth yall doing dating such older men? Proving the literal 18-30 men are 62% single...
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@@LillyMarz777 Wait he was 24/25 when he divorced and he was married at 14/15? Can you even be granted a marriage certificate at that age IDK.
@@TimpBizkitThey lived together for about 7 years, got married and divorced 2 years after getting official. He was younger than her.
Her husband is leaving the state to get far away from her. That tells be a lot.
Dodged a bullet for sure.
😮😮A lawyer friend said divorce is not equal. Older women find out they will end up with cats and the husband will find girlfriends if he wants company. . . . I found my wonderful husband shortly after his first wife ( of 12 years ) wanted her freedom to party with multiple men and she thought he was a boring homebody. . . After 30 years of marriage, I can say her loss is my gain.
I love hearing from women like you, who found their Diamond in the Rough. Congratulations!
You are an exception. Men cannot expect to find rare women that want to date old dudes that make stuff up about their ex. How do you know she was that way? Let me guess, he told you that. I am a Nigerian Prince and if you send me 100k my father will send you a million as a handsome reward.
@@mysurfing3550 1. There are people I know who know her relatives. 2. I read the divorce papers. 3. He really is a homebody. We share phones and other devices and he lets me handle all finances for him.
These are the dudes who are especially willing to be loyal to the death for a loyal woman
@@mysurfing3550
Found the Simp.
Women sitting by themselves and crying to a phone is insane
I hear other people or women do it to when we cry and look into the mirror you realize how silly you would look. Then you laugh and would stop. Now I guess you cry it’s time to pull that phone out
it's not insane, it's strong and independent. 🤣
@@mariuschirita187Karma's a B😅😅😅😅
It is definitely a public display of weirdness. 🤭
Insanity seems to be the new normal.😐
My husband’s ex threw him away after over 20 years. He didn’t make enough, not educated enough and other things. Well I made a little more than him but I’ve never had to hire a handyman since meeting him. Heck he even keeps an eye on the gauge in my car and will take it when fuel gets low to top it off so I don’t have to and checks tires/fluids while he is at it. He may not have a college degree but is well read and one of the smartest men I’ve ever known. While he still worked I fixed his lunches to take and he bragged about it to all the other guys. We split the chores doing what each of us do best. I ironed his work shirts. I forgive his ultra conservatism and he in turn forgives my tree hugging tendencies. 😂 Both retired now. One woman’s loss is another woman’s gain. Wake up women, good men are what you make of them. Anytime you make another person feel good they will pay you back 10 fold.
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I've never met a "liberal" man who still has the right to call themselves a man...
I love hippy chicks!
Have you ever saved a tree by hugging it? Lol
"Good men are what you make of them..." louder for the kids to hear over their music. 😂 Glad you found your guy, and he found you.
65 year old widower here. I have dated so many of these women who are bored after the kids leave. They think they are deserving a full time entertainer.
Exactly, 62 and life long bachelor here, I stopped dating 14 years ago when after about 8 girlfriends over the years I came to the conclusion my life is simpler and more peaceful alone. When I had a girlfriend I had to do everything I had to do as a single man, plus I have to tiptoe around her emotional land mines, I have to entertain her, and I have to read her mind.
@@kc6810HUH I can't hear you
@@drgdieselfrenzy7707yep Brittany Spears I am a genie in a bottle.
Meaning to her your is my command master 24/7, hell no
These women need a reality check ✔️ ✅
Wish
@@kc6810 What? After 18 plus years with ALL her attention on the kids and not wanting to be a wife and the man is suppose to now show her more attention? She should be lucky he stayed unless she knew how to balance her time during that period, then when the kids are gone they can continue their happy relationship together. From my perspective most women do not know how to balance the relationship. Most of the time the husband is reduced to a walking wallet. Guy retires and she cannot handle him around for 24/7! But, what do I know, my wife cheated and I divorced her. Been single for 40 years.
Toxic isn't new. A girl called me toxic in 2007. Meanwhile she then hooked up with a married co-worker who gave her an STD she still dealing with. I'm toxic? Ok, girlfriend.
Yeah, I had an ex call me a "momma's boy". I can assure you i was not. I was a mature independent man that often had to check my mother's behavior.
My ex was just being a woman. Using words to attack me.
Lol, that's what she gets. Hook ups and whoring ain't meant to be clean and safe
The married co-worker would be called "An adventure and finding one's true self."
😂😂😂 justice
Dodged that bullet.
Her husband is leaving the state...🤔 It seems to me that she was the one holding back that man.
🥳🎉🕺😂🤣
Interesting point. Good pick up.
Something tells me this man was under valued in more ways than one. Where the blazes are her hobbies ha hahaha 😆 🤣. I suspect both are similar ages. She have no intention of growing old with her man. Gosh. I am from another dimension. Sorry folks....
I suspect there is more to this story than we are told. If a man chooses to sleep on the couch instead of with his wife, it's probably because she cheated on him. I would do the same. If a man pretends nothing happened and continues to sleep with his wife, she will have no respect for him and treat him like a doormat. That man was standing up for his dignity. He was probably waiting for an apology from his wife, but when none came, and she had no remorse, he knew it was over.
A man doesnt sleep on a couch for no reason.
Yes, you nailed it. My thoughts exactly. Something happened to destroy the man's trust. That is obvious.
Yeah, she never said why he moved to the couch. I'm sure she's going to claim he was cheating on her.
He is on the couch because we men don't want her anymore. She is an emotional tampon. Who would want to next to that.
@danielmaldonado1074
In My Case, The Ex Was The One Cheating, And My Couch Time
Was Very Short..
Facts!!!!
My mom was a happy SAHM until I was 6yo. Her friends before then consisted of married housewives. Then a divorcee moved into the house next door. She starts hanging out with the divorcee and all the other divorcee friends. Then all of a sudden she wanted to go back to work full time and ruined all that my dad had provided for us. She divorced him and destroyed our family. It took my dad years to recover but he met my stepmother late in life. She was a traditional women who cooked and cleaned and beautifully decorated the house with yard sale finds. She dressed very feminine and was soft spoken. She never swore and never said anything bad about anyone. She cared for my dad until he passed of cancer. I'm so glad he found love. My mom is still single and miserable.
Your Dad found his love through you and the stepmother. Praise be to God, sometimes pain creates growth. I'm happy that you stayed by his side. I'm sorry for your loss cancer isn't easy to deal with. A true father to his last breath 🙏🙏🙏
How is going back to work ruining your family?
@@jackijohnson3778She experienced it she knows.
My mom destroyed our lives when she committed adultery, had twins, and left my dad. She’s 82, alone, and needs “help”. What if she was still with my dad?
They argued a lot, and no longer had feelings for him.
@@jackijohnson3778 Because she said so. It's amazing how you all only believe women when they say exactly what you want them to say. Anything else is immediately challenged and dismissed. It's getting really old.
My wife did it to me, I was crushed, begged to keep our family together for the sake of our children. But I'm so happy she did it. She brought no joy into my life the last 10 years.I feel guilty that I'm so happy and relieved that she isn't in my life. God have mercy on her next husband.
Not only did that dude leave the house, he left the state 😂
😂
Da Damn STATE! Run baby run!
Free at last! Carpe Diem lucky dude! Can't hit a moving target so easily can you; you don't need a man...ma'am?
Hooray for him !!
@@jamesnewberry1191 🍻
Are you kidding me. I have been with my husband since we were 17.I gave him 5 sons and 2 daughters. 34 years and he is just getting hotter . You put in the work so he loves your heart, soul and mind when you aren't as beautiful as you used to be. I am ok for 54 but I am not a 100lb ,peach skinned, youngin no more. He is my best friend and I am grateful to see his smile that glint in his eyes when he looks at me every morning.
Interesting 🥳🥳, women like decorating things including statements. I am summarizing all you have said to 'duty'. right? Being dutiful to you as a husband and a father of your kids, and you to him as a wife and a mother of his kids.
@@davidmumbo7764Duty? You’re clearly cold hearted. She obviously deeply loves her husband and he loves her. Take your bitter ass elsewhere.
What I suspect is this woman looked at the family finances. The value of the home, his retirement, and the money in bank and thought, "I could retire on half of all of that".
A few years later, after the endless line of one night stand booty calls, she looks at her bank statement and wonders, "My god, where did all the money go".
I always loved when Kevin Samuels would shut it down every time they ran to the "toxic" and or "narcissist" go-to buzzwords.
When you look for 'happiness' by changing your outer circumstances only, you will discover 'that no matter where you go, there YOU are' Much better to work on you instead, ask yourself, "would I want to be married to ME?"
We used to write in our diary when we felt horrible, in the privacy of our bedroom. Now we record soggy videos and share them with the entire freaking world. So cringe. You would think adults would have more sense than this.
You mean women do that.
Simpler times that was
Yeah, I'd normally say, "grow up", but now it's just like watching a car crash. You shouldn't watch, but you watch it anyway...
The difference is writing in private allows you to self reflect. Spewing on the internet give validation and you never know the advice you receive; most people don’t have your best interest.
😮whoa this is unnerving. Is it for real 😅
Women who record themselves “crying” and post to the internet is hilariously cringy. 😂
I can't get over that they watch each other so much doing that crap.
"Who hurt you!?" 🤭 "Only an insecure man would say this" 😆 "It's giving short diq nrg!!" 😂 And somehow, I doubt you're bothered. 🤣
I love how she almost died from asphyxia just by walking 🤣😂
@@ElleD308 harsh!!! but....🤭
Crocodile tears
Must be a generational thing. I’m an old woman and would NEVER go on social media and expose myself like this. This is embarrassing and why so many people seem to have no shame is baffling.
She is an old woman. Highly "narcissistic" as they like to call it, by the fact she post video like this publicly.
The two things women absolutely hate the most in divorce is if the man gets to keep most of his money, and is happier without her.
“Holding her back”
What does she have to do all day? 😂
I was just thinking "she never mentioned going to work".
Grandma threw it all away to go find the big bad wolf lol.
😂
She got bored and having her midlife crisis lol. She wanted to go back to the Chad cc lmfaooo
.....and all she's gonna find is Tik Tok
The wolf only considers her leftovers, he's waiting for red-Riding-hood that's a snacc
Do thugs like women like this?!?
Him sleeping on the couch by choice says it all…
30yrs with my wife. It has not always been easy but I take my vows very seriously. So did my wife. Thank God.
Ameen🙏
The need for validation is incredible. The fact that they make this videos speaks volumes of their personality
She’s at least 55yo. This is so immature and pathetic. My lord.
She’s about to exit life and acting like a teenager
Women cannot manage boredom like men do. That is the issue. I bet she was nagging him to attend all sorts of things young people do to spice up her life and her ex was like 'We are too old for this, what's wrong with you and leave me alone'.
You assumed they grow up?
Women…
@@waiwai5233 I get the feeling she is the type that is never satisfied with anything. She prolly never stops bching.
He’s been gone for a week and I can’t sleep, because I miss that “toxic” behavior so much.
She does have one amazing ability though.
She can cry without producing tears.
These women always read from the same script: “I’m leaving because it’s not too late to be happy.” What they really mean is I think I can do better. All the movies and their friends convince them if this. Never works out. I’m proof of that. We’ve provided such a sheltered existence for these women it gives them false self confidence.
Yup she wants an upgrade.
correct - this is how amazing of a life we’ve built for them. their hypergamy drives them to self sabotage the best existence their bloodline ever had
Just wait until she starts dating again - then she will see how good her decision was lol. I talk to women in their mid 30s that act like it’s hell finding a guy at their age - that woman is 50 plus.. oh lord
It’s sad ain’t it?
These women are internet trolls. The videos are fake, designed as click bait. They don't even fake their sadness very well, but they're making bank.
You'd think if he was so toxic, she would be glad that he left.
I divorced my wife after some very bad behaviour on her part.
Now her life is a mess and she calls to tell me how much she misses her life before divorce.
😂😂😂😂😂
I don't think you mentioned that she missed you?
Mine does too! 🤣
Wait, she's getting a divorce and is upset because her husband is leaving? I thought that was what she wanted. If she were concerned about her son, she wouldn't have divorced her husband.
SShe is mmad he saaid "Finee. I'll go!". She wanted him to plead to stay and he didn't.
Mgtow argues woman are not worth the trouble, this granny kind off proves their point. Why deal with this is what they mean.
He doesn't understand MGTOW and MGTOW is not about avoiding women and relationships; that'll be like saying "don't think of a pink elephant."
To me, MGTOW is a about self-focus and self-mastery... taking the time to get to know yourself and grow; become a better you for the people's lives you do touch.
My whole life is better since taking up the philosophy. And when you look at the western world, for the most part (majority), there aren't alot of people/women with depth, substance, and morals that aligns with a man that has discipline and constantly growing.
Also, going monk is not a bad thing, to/for me, because I'd rather remain abstinent than lose myself to someone unworthy.
MGTOW promotes physic self defence and mastery. Self awareness and self reliance. All else follows, relationships too but you will be better prepared.
Why? Most men will put up with misery to get routine sex and a little companionship . That’s why . I have friends that even have a little red pill knowledge but they still go through so much bs to get laid .. it kills me to see that
Men Guarding Their Own Wallets. 🤑
MTGOW isn’t about avoiding Marriage it’s about avoiding divorce.
MGTOW means what?
@@LisaKelly-k8s Men Going Their Own Way. There was a whole reddit for it up until about a year or 2 ago when it got taken down for being "hateful" or whatever blah blah. Good stuff though.
Men Going Their Own Way is a lifestyle , not a movement !!! ...
What a lot of these people don’t realize is that life is a journey and NOT a destination, they keep saying “I will find happiness” , you don’t go anywhere to “find” happiness, either you are happy or not. If you’re not a happy person you’re not going to find it anywhere!!!
They just do nit get that happiness is literally a choice. Every moment of every day
@@RussellDion Nailed it!
Social media ruins lives. Could only make it half way through this, that lady is insufferable.
those crocodile tears...she had to make sure she saved her best fake crying for the camera
Proof that wisdom doesn't always come with age, especially for women.
💯☝🏼
All these women don’t realize that happiness is a inside job
Nice quote!!
Exactly
So true. I think some people expect others to make them “happy”and don’t understand the concept of happiness.
Brilliant. Deserves to be pinned
It's also false to think you'll live a princess's life 24/7. They are crying because their idea of happiness is an illusion and they are starting to see that. Also, women have hormonal imbalances as they age and that cause emotional upset. They are projecting onto their spouses instead of taking responsibility for those emotions and it leads to divorce. Sometimes, it's a physical imbalance and you need to go to a doctor to "fix" your body in order to feel better in general.
This is what happens when one makes their personal life decisions VIA CONSENSUS.
That's how the female mind operates. On a consensus of what's socially accepted and will boost their standing
All the females on that app say "Abuse" and "toxic", yet they never go into full details what their husbands did to them.
Can't you see, man? He gave her a nice home, cars, beautiful clothes, leisure time to take long walks and complain into a camera. Oh! The horror of it all!
Mine told everyone I was toxic, abusive, manipulative, and controlling because I wouldn't let her open a line of credit to buy a $400 bar stool. Yes, ONE bar stool.
She bought it anyway, behind my back. Never made payments and defaulted on $1200 with fees and interest.
And she never once sat in that bar stool. It never left our storage shed.
After the divorce, I took it and now it's a trophy I use it in my new man cave.
@@mikey92362a woman will light the whole world on fire and watch it burn just to do the opposite of what her husband tells her
@@mikey92362 was told I was abusive and controlling because my I ASKED my ex, who didn't have a job, after I leave for work at 5:30AM to please wake up at 7 and make sure our 7yo, who had already gotten herself ready for school, actually got on the bus, then she could go back to bed til 2pm to rest up for a busy day of doing nothing but watching horror movies until 4AM.
Because it’s bullshit.
23:40 I have a 17 year old son who has decided without ever dating to never date. He and several of his friends could care less about dating.
They got burned by teachers in elementary and middle school. Teachers (that is multiple teachers over several years) evidently would criticize the boys in class for not being as good as the girls. I argued they had to have done something wrong but one of his friends agreed. The girls will talk and laugh in class without anything being said then a boy will say something to make the boys laugh and they all get in trouble.
One teacher made them miss recess others gave them "quiet lunch" or made them clean the lunchroom for a week.
Talking to several parents they confirmed the boy's stories but thought their son had exaggerated it as well.
So, the RP community has about 6-8 highschool football, basketball and baseball players who won't so much as look at girls in their school.
They now agree that it would be wasting money to buy a girl dinner twice a week when they can go games, fish, play golf and mess around as they please when some other poor shleps can never.go and are always broke or saving money to take out a girl who doesn't actually give a crap about him.
Sorry my guy. I'm now in the "It's better to be single" band wagon.
Here’s the thing: she had a husband who gave her everything. 25 years of commitment, a home, a family, a comfortable and safe life.
AND SHE LEFT HIM ANYWAY.
A sane person would see this and say, what if I do those same things and she leaves me too?
The only way to win the game is to not play.
She did not leave he did He lost interest and no longer cared for her She seems to have put up with it and was unhappy Long ago women in her situation stayed and took their misery and unhappiness out on their children
If divorce can happen to Bezos and Bill Gates then it can happen to anyone ! And you’re right don’t play the game because their rules won’t let you win, so don’t play if you don’t have to !
@@cynthiadavidson1487cynthia you literally made all that up
She didn't mention any abuse: physical, verbal, financial, or otherwise. She was just an insatiable woman, and became more insufferable when she discovered tiktok/social media. The sisterhood told her "you deserve better, girl." "Leave him and get you a man that'll....."
She was hoping the separation would break him but he's realising how free he is to roll solo. That's killing her inside because she was expecting him to curl up in a fetal position, while begging her to stay. This would validate her, but she got the opposite.
Women want 2 things in life. Something new and something else😊
She abandons her marriage and blames man...
It's starting to be a broken record
My wife’s college friend is currently divorcing her husband. Spread for dozens of men into her 30s. Some married. Marries a guy off a dating website and after ten years discovers she’s not happy. She’s already on the dating apps looking for new sausage.
@@map3384 Yuk!
That’s a given …..tears, drama and a diatribe why it’s all your fault blah blah. Now that I’ve been single for 5 years I honestly can’t remember or figure why I got attached in the first place. I have more in common with my friends more fun with my friends more free time to spend on my interests more liquidity more happiness and if I feel the need for 🐈 I rent one for the evening and the best part is the variety. There’s nothing wrong with prostitution the moral ambiguity is a religious concept of guilt to strengthen the very thing we are freeing ourselves from.
Of course, none of this was HER FAULT or responsibility. She's finally "happy". Bless her heart.
😂
My ex-wife left me for some dude on Facebook. He used and abused her and shes now on her 7th relationship in 9 years
shes gone thru 5 vehicles , been in court for not paying her taxes, DUI Arrest, Alcoholic. Anorexic, thank god she left me.
Amazingly he was lying to her. She didn't work and had an easy life with me.
She works a full time dead end job and lives with her parents.
Hahaha, I haven't been this happy in many years living my best life.
Sounds very familiar.
New, exciting experiences!!!😂
if the lesbian devorce rate is the highest of all households is it really the men?
Not just divorce. They have the highest rate of domestic violence as well ! But what do you expect from CHILDREN !? study after study after sty for years and years and years have proved that little girls mature faster than little boys. FACT ! Those same studies also prove that women, never mature past the age of 12 or 14, while boys take longer but eventually become men, FACT ! Yes like everything else, there are exceptions to every rule or fact, but immature man boys are the exception, like mature adult women are also the exception. This 55 or more little crying, girl proves that FACT !!! Men are adults who sometimes act childish and women are children who sometimes act like adults !!!!
This!
No. It is Ws. As one myself, I learned very early to stay away from most because I was backstabbed many times. Most of my friends were males (pure friendship) for a reason.
Women usually wait until a guy retires, makes his pension, gets a promotion, or reaches 10 years so they qualify for alimony. Then they file officially for divorce although they detached years prior.
That is the truth.
Yep, what you described is an especially common occurrence in Japan, known as a grey divorce. Female nature is constant only the environment changes which some men mistaken that with women from this region are super good wife by nature.
@airthrowDBTFacts!!!!
So she’s complaining in the middle of the night wanting to talk to one of the two most toxic people she knows.
Make it make sense 😂
its unfortunate the son is toxic also, he takes up after the father.
She was talking about her other "selves". Not even they want anything to do with her.
Most men “distance themselves” after the woman cuts off bedroom fun, the fact she admits he did this for years in a marriage that lacks intimacy should have served as a warning sign. You can’t plead ignorance to your responsibility to hold up your end of a relationship.
Yep, by definition she wasn't doing her part to make that a marriage. My own wife is past menopause so full sex is painful - so we do everything else instead! Simple stuff.
Someone from Europe here. These videos of women recording themselves crying is really disturbing. It's a strange new level of raw exhibitionism, the "SEE ME!" factor is worryingly thick. This is not strength, this is utter despair.
Can you imagine how insufferable she would have been to live with.
43 years in and we still love each other! Was it easy…No, but a commitment is a commitment, and it’s worth it!
My parents have been married 44 years!
That’s a great accomplishment you have achieved!
I’ve been married 7 years and I pray our marriage is as blessed as yours and my parents ❤
Met my husband at 15, married him at 24. Women made fun of me for not having any experience, whatever that means. Weve travelled the world together, he makes me feel safe, he is my hero. Im 38 now and im convinced ill love this man until i take my last breath. We're never getting divorced if i can help it. Women need to be aware of their single or divorced friends, they will get in your head and take joy in watching you ruin a good thing.
100% true. Crabs in a bucket.
She wanted to spite him, to feel bad for losing her, is my guess.....however it seems like the husband is thrilled at the prospect of being rid of her!
Sleeping on a couch will do that for you!
To this woman going on the internet crying about her divorce, Stop It, Get Some Help.
Wait, she wanted to be free and then was needing “ support” because he was leaving? Weird.
Ppl don’t realize what they have until it’s gone
So all her problems were because of a "toxic" man. Exit "toxic" man. Now her life is worse and she is the only one left. She must be the "toxic" one.
Nope, she will continue blaming toxic men...
If you’re alone and still consumed by hate, it’s you. Not the world f’ing with you. Lol.
Is it wrong that I experience a small warm glow in the cockles of my cold dead heart when I see these women suffer from the consequences of their own actions ?
Oh it's not wrong. It's the single greatest source of joy in the known universe.
Their misery isn't what makes us happy.
What makes us happy is seeing a woman having to accept consequences for the first time in her life.
That they take take and take, blame us, then finally have to pay the price. It's not our cold heart. It's theirs! "Cold as a Witches tit."
No, it's exactly what she plans for you to feel. This woman and all the crying TikTok women are actresses running home video businesses for clicks. Many are happily married. You are her customer (although Ace Nate is taking his cut). If there were no clicking audience to run up her profits, she'd be doing something else. So, don't feel guilty; your reaction is just what she wants. I'm pretty sure I've been shadow banned here, but I answer just to try to support a bro who's being used for money once again.
@@rettbutler1312
You may have a valid point there. You're probably right in many cases.
Personally I've never used tiktok, Instagram, or any other social media. The only sort of social media I use is watching RUclips a little bit most days.
I also have a Facebook page, but I only check it for messages maybe twice a year.
And that's it!
I'll die before I download tiktok. It's garbage.
Not at all
I’ve been married for almost 35 years. In July it will be 35 years of marriage, I’ll be 57 years old in August. Happily married. 😂😂😂😂
And we accept life or our partners are not perfect. I’m full of bs…my husband is pretty good at navigation. 😅
Social media has destroyed so many lives.
Why would a woman over 50 let TikTok influence what happens in her relationship?!?🤔🤔🤔
Herd mentality.
Misery loves company.
@@fishmo_mofishas a younger woman wow this is spot on.
@@fishmo_mofish🤣🤣🤣🤣 sisterhood loves helping each self destruct
She craves the validation she gets from women on tik tok
I'm a grandma and use the word toxic in regards to feminists. My oldest granddaughter (has blue hair this week I think) has a fit. How dare I? Whatever negative she says about man, I repeat back to her and switch out woman for man. She tolerates it grudgingly, cause I have money and she wants some, but I'm obvious stingy with her and generous with my other four, normal grandkids. 😊😊
My own mother always said feminism was the biggest fraud ever perpetrated on women.
Your son/daughter did a terrible job with parenting
@@JuzTroublez .... she is terribly naive and was coddled to much.
That's mature.🙄 Maybe try talking with her? Teaching her? Relating to her? Good grief.
@@sarahalderman3126sounds like you’ve never had to deal with a crazy feminist
🙄🙄🙄🙄 This is so surreal! SHE BETRAYED HIM! And, she's the one actually crying for attention?
I just went on a date with a hot, well educated, single mom. She left her husband she was with for 7 years to find happiness. 2 days later Ace Nate shows up in my feed to save me from a terrible mistake. I’m only out $100 for dinner. Thanks brother.
The dumbest ones are the ones that get gassed up by internet strangers she never met and not one who is already cheating and monkeybranching. Marriage is a job for over half the people. Lovebirds are the exception not the rule. Most are lucky to have someone who even puts up with each other long term.
This just happened to me.. My wife went on a women’s spiritual awakening retreat and came back and asked for a separation after 18 years of marriage and 3 kids. She said she deserved more from a partner and hasn’t felt safe or seen.. she said someone she met who’s husband had just recently passed away that had the “fairy tale” relationship and that our relationship had too much “lack” of these things..
She's doing you a favor.
These "retreats " are bull shit.
The organizers of these deals are one of two things...man haters or lesbians trying to recruit.
Well...I guess that's the same thing...huh?
Either way...she will come home hating you.
So how's it going?
Sounds like her spiritual awakening retreat was at a dancing bear club.
As much as it hurts now she did you a favor. She was never going to be loyal.
8:55 Uh she filed for divorce and is surprised that her husband left the state and the house? What am I missing here?
Probably knew that if he stayed local she would make it her mission to make sure he was as miserable as she is... run far run fast brother.
"I will be so much happier when I'm alone." Then they find out how much their ex was providing, and now THEY have to do it!
And especially once the kids are old enough to be on their own and begin to start their own life. That's why so many of them want sole custody, because they live off the kids, once the kids are gone, this is how they all look. Those kids aren't calling or coming by because they have their own adult life to live, like duh😂. I don't feel sorry for any of them.
When you're doing a good job, nobody notices. When the services are no longer available, the terror sets in.
From a happily married woman, mom and grandma,stop listening to those dummies!!! You have good times and bad times, but you have to REALLY try!!!! If it doesn't work the first time, try again!!!! I almost died from cancer a few years ago and then lost my sis-in-law to it last year. Don't throw it all away for a moment of excitement!!!!! I never truly understood how much my husband loved me until I looked in his eyes when he thought I was dying!!!!! I'll protect that man FOREVER ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My divorce was the most liberating thing that’s ever happened. No more lies to sort through no more drama no more bull💩. If I feel the need for female companionship I pay by the hour instead of the month to month lease that providing nothing by aggravation and anxiety. I did all the cooking unless she brought home takeout I did most of the cleaning all the laundry and all the yard work and she just got more and more unhappy. Found out she cheated and when she said it was none of my business I agreed game over.
Wait until she finds out he has a beautiful 30 yo girlfriend. 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂
or dating his daughters college room mate.
Yup one of the girls I'm dating is 1 year older than my daughter 25. I'm in my 40's and having the time of my life.
@@panacheautomotive4298Atta boy. I did the same thing mate. Was around your age at the time too, was my early Mid life crisis if you will lol. Had a blast and pissed off the ex something fierce. Win Win. Cheers.
@@panacheautomotive4298 Yep. I was told all through my 30s that I look like a high schooler. I finally realized that it's true, and now I am 40 my gf is a senior in high school.
You mean 20. 30 is way too old.
My only reaction is laughter.
“Where did all the free stuff go?”
The divorce didn't make her depressed. She was depressed before and thought that a major change in her life would make everything better. But the problem is she took herself with her. Fixing depression isn't about changing external factors in your life, it's about fixing the thought patterns in your own head. She sounds devastated that ending her marriage didn't fix her depression and now that's all she has left. It's terrible. I hope she gets the help that she needs.
Anyone narcissistic enough to telegraph the intimate parts of their lives on the internet is exactly the kind of narcissist that can't make a relationship work.
If a man wants to live a simple, stress free life, it is his birth right. He is under no obligation to take on another person, her problems, her drama, her bundle of emotions, her depression, her mental illness, and her silly games, not to mention her debts, expenses and retirement. Marriages benefit women far more than men. They bring little to the relationship, can call it quit or cheat on you anytime. Even their youth and beauty are but a flash in the pan…
98% of them & if she's crazy RUN AWAY !!!!
As a Man I Only Need Food, Affection, Peace and a Small Corner to live in. I guess that’s asking Too-Much 😢
I would say my husband benefits greatly from marriage. We both do. Have gave me a house, I made it a home. He comes home to a clean house, dinner ready, kids fed and clean and ready to sit down and spend time with him. I help him with his insecurities and anxiety. I’m his biggest cheerleader. I make his lunches and warm his bed at night. Yes, he works really hard to provide for us. But he doesn’t have to lift a finger at home, it I can help it. He tells everyone how lucky he is to have me, and I tell everyone how lucky I am to have him!
Youth and beauty mean very little compared to a lifelong relationship with your best friend. Beauty fades, but the support that my husband and I give each other will last forever. Marriage is still worth it.
Hang on...didn't she say in the first video she had TWO "toxic" people in her house? She's only mentioned her husband AND her son...so...didn't she call her own son "toxic?" But once her ex decided to bounce, NOW she's SOOO concerned about her son? If this wasn't a first-world country, she wouldn't survive a _week_ due to her own stupidity.
That’s precisely what I thought as soon as she mentioned her son as the only other individual.
She’s mental, another ‘woman’ with tik tok brain. RIP.
Superb Observation ! That's precisely what she stated at the "4:11 Minute Mark" of the video, i.e., "..... the two(2) most toxic people, ....... , the two(2) most toxic adults in my life live in my home with me right now ....." !
lol was she talking about herself as the other toxic person?
Many more women are going to end up like this. They are going to be alone in their old age. They overestimate their value. They underestimate the value and importance of their husbands...Get ready to be alone for the rest of your life ...with a pet and box wine 🍷...No sympathy at all.....
Unhappy in marriage. Unhappy after divorce. She's the common denominator!
ECCLESIASTICUS 25:16 I RATHER DWELL WITH A LION AND DRAGON, THAN TO KEEP HOUSE WITH A WICKED WOMAN.
"It wasn't too late to be happy." That's what happy looks like, to her? Crying to strangers on her phone?
@13:31, notice all of the pharmaceuticals/antidepressants/psych meds in the background 🧐
How did I know??? This was before she mentioned the D word and the commentator mentioned SSRI' ... Aside from having the advantage of a medical background, some things are just obvious...
I’d bet her son and husband did try to talk to her. I’m 56, married 32 years and know a lot of women like this…’stunted’ is the word I always think of when I hear them. There are certainly relationships that should end for various reasons, but she sounds very immature.
She didn't say how long the husband has been sleeping on the couch. It seems he didn't leave, or file for divorce. Maybe he hoped for a good outcome, but she didn't. This is all her own doing.
My nanna used to said women are meant to be widows not divorcees
NO, men should not be nagged and worked into an early grave.
"Congratulations, you played yourself." - Meme
the result of treating life as a game and not taking it serious.
You forgot to mention at the beginning of her video she said she was living with two toxic people! SHE CALLED HER SON TOXIC!!!!
This man checked out long before she filed. He was relieved the miserable living situation is over.!!
The ex husband being with a younger hotter woman is going to be the icing on the cake 😁
Let's wait for the update.
The cake she wanted to have and eat too!
It is the delicious, wonderful reward men get as we age. Her value drops like a rock while he can always find a younger, better option.
Not if the new chick is a repeat or worse than the ex. Dude better play heavy on the shrewd and light on the stupid.
@@GBU61 "he can always find a younger, better option". Really. Quite often the reverse is true as well. All those many fat, balding, alcoholic men working dead-end jobs you mean? The ones on the hub all the time thinking they've got that option? Hahahahaha, this door goes both ways my friend.
The woman crying on the floor in her bathroom sent shivers through my body. That was the exact behavior of my ex-wife. She was an alcoholic and later became addicted to benzodiazepines. It will sicken you to watch them in this chemically induced lethargic, reflective state, where they psychobabble about how they are a victim of the world. The next day they will not remember much of it, but later that evening it starts all over again. You can't fix it! They have no problems, but make up things to be disappointed about then blame everybody for their imaginary injustices! It was a horrible environment to be trapped in. I lived like that for years until I finally broke. These people live forever, like vampires; they will feed on you until they drain you mentally, and physically. I couldn't take it anymore and left.
i hope you continue to share your story. it’s important for men to hear
Yes, I also though she might be an alcoholic from her behavior in the video. They never tell you that in the videos they make.
YES; They’re Not Playing With a Full Deck: Only Victim, Race and EBT Cards. * I Myself: Carry The Joker, Wild / Trump Card and the ever popular UNO reverse card.
Men don’t generally initiate divorce, biologically men want to protect and take care of their wives. As for happiness, each individual is responsible for their own happiness. If she’s unhappy with this man, she’ll be unhappy with another man happy people are happy people. This is her problem not his problem.
Exactly. At best we can contribute to the happiness of a spouse. But you cannot make a constitutionally unhappy person happy.
This is what happens when people do not have a mind of their own. Always following the trend in mainstream media. The mainstream said you can get any man you want. You go gurl. Never settle for less.
This is a result of the "I have to take care of MEEEEE" message women have been getting for years. The best life is a life lived in service to others, imo. I'm a woman, and I think women have really lost their way. My husband and I have been married 35 years and have been through some very hard times, but we always appreciated each other, even at the worst times.
Yes! You nailed it. Sacrificial love has been lost to the care of me nonsense.
She's mental.
Her ex's life is about to improve.
She still doesn't understand that she is the problem.
Wait … I’m confused … she filed for the divorce ?? And is mad that HE’S mad that SHE’S divorcing him after 25 years… I don’t even know this broad and she’s gaslighting the fck outta me…. 😵💫
I tell my kids (about accountability): "Talk is cheap. Actions tell people who you are." None of these social media "friends" or "gurus" have any skin in the game of your relationship when they're sitting there typing on their phones about how your SO doesn't treat you right and you can do better. Granny gon' learn.
Marriage is a journey and its about both of you being there for each other. I got prostate cancer when I turned 50 and it ended my sex life. My wife did not say well I am out of here because you can not longer perform. Then fifteen years later my wife got ovarian cancer and I almost lost her. Relationships will not ever stay the same as it was when you first get married. Its called life. I wake up every day and I am so glad I still have my wife with me. Its not about instant gratification but about how you can enjoy each others company.
She does have a hard-core KAREN vibe
why do these women think it is her husband's job to make her happy or keep her happy or her happiness is his responsibility at all?
You can make a Woman happy, keeping Her that was is IMPOSSIBLE! As Women Cheat because it’s Never Enough. Men Leave because They’ve Had Enough!
Too many Disney movies years ago.
Happiness before AND after the divorce. She felt that he was holding her back from experiencing happiness when they were married, and now she thinks he should still try to make her happy despite the divorce proceedings. She wanted him away when they were together, now she's bitter that he's moving out of state and won't be around to talk to her after they've separated.