My wife Asked me For forgiveness when She cheated on me with my Cousin. Not only did I not forgive her. I spat in her mouth and kicked her to the side. I left New Jersey for Finland 🇫🇮 where I’m finding Peace away from Her whorishness. I WILL NEVER EVER FORGIVE HER EVER! FORGIVENESS IS NOT ALWAYS NEEDED OR NECESSARY. You still can find peace without ever forcing yourself to forgive others. Don’t let other people’s guilt trick your feelings into forgiving them. That’s unhealthy for your mental health. As for my cousin. He died from a brain aneurysm after his struggle with alcohol and drug addiction unrelated to what happened with this incident. I didn’t go to his funeral. His own parents didn’t even attend. No one forgave what he did. You can heed what I say or dismiss it. It maters not to me.
Sins cannot be justified because you forgave someone else. All throughout scripture, forgiveness of sins required death. "For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." - Romans 6:23 KJV Forgivness and salvation are two different words having two different meanings. Forgivness happened on the cross before we were even born. Salvation = Justified. We are justified the moment we READ and BELIEVE that all our sins were ALREADY FORGIVEN according to SCRIPTURE. Jesus has already made peace with you through the blood of his cross. NOT because of anything you did to get forgiven. Prayer is a work of the flesh. Ephesians 2:8,9 Praying to be forgiven wont forgive your sins, because forgivness happend nearly 2 centuries ago. God never told you to have faith in self-effort or mans wisdom, God said have faith in what his Son Jesus Christ has already accomplished on YOUR behalf according to scripture. *Placing your faith in the FINISHED work of Jesus Christ is what saves.* Nobody goes to heaven without faith. yours is misplaced, and Im sorry someone didnt care enough too tell you the Bible truth. Open. Read. BELIEVE your BIBLE I read in my kjBible that on the cross, God was in Christ Jesus, not charging our sins against us, but placed all our sins on Jesus. 2 Corinthians 5:19 Jesus was made THE PERFECT substitutionary sacrifice for sins to appease the soon wrath of God upon an unbelieving world. Ephesians 1:7 Ephesians 5:2 2 Corinthians 5:19 Jesus died for our sins according to scripture, was buried *with* our sins, and three days later arose *without* my sins. Getting my hair wet, walking the isle, kneeling at the alter, or rubbing the rosery has NOTHING to do with getting my sins forgiven. No amount of crying tears, holding on, no getting my life right, or quitting bad habits, forgave my own sins either. The moment I simply *agreed with God* that ALL my sins were forgiven on the cross, he was buried WITH my sins, and rose again three days later WITHOUT my sins, I was sealed with the Holy Spirit until the day of redemption. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 kjv "And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption." - Ephesians 4:30 KJV TODAY is the day of *salvation.* All your sins were already forgiven at the cross. 2 Corinthians 5:18,19 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 Romans 16:25 Want to be saved and go to heaven? Its NOT about what you do in your flesh, its because of WHAT and WHO you BELIEVE. On the cross, God was in Christ no longer charging our sins against us. He reconciled himself to us. Now believe, and be ye reconciled back to God and be SAVED! Believe today, and heaven is your home. Ephesians 2:8,9 Says salvation is NOT of yourselves. Not of any fleshly works, but by simply believing that what Jesus has already accomplish for us, was enough. Hope this helps. Truth Time Radio channel on yt can help you understand how to study your kjBible. Grace and peace
@@bridgetintheukraine"finally free" He wasnt freed because of his own self effort. He was ALREADY FORGIVEN when Jesus died for the WORLD on the cross. 2 Corinthians 5:18,19 Ephesians 1:7 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 Forgiveness happened nearly 2k years ago. Not when YOU do something to get your sins forgiven. You CANT. They already are. You don't get the credit, Jesus does. Grace and peace
Yes, otherwise it's like going on a date, date rape, forgive the guy, and go on another date with him..... No, that's dumb.... Forgive, but don't go back for more abuse
@bridgetintheukraine True 👍 I can do it as long as I don't talk to that person again. It's harder if it's your immediate family and you still need to be around them. Not as easy...any advice ? Thank you 🙏
Forgive because we are forgiven is for saved people who have believed that Jesus has already forgiven all our sins on the cross. Lost people do NOT believe that all thier sins have already been bought and paid for by the blood of Jesus Christ. Jesus has already made peace with you through the blood of his cross. NOT because of anything you did to get forgiven. Prayer is a work of the flesh. Ephesians 2:8,9 Praying to be forgiven wont forgive your sins, because forgivness happend nearly 2 centuries ago. God never told you to have faith in self-effort or mans wisdom, God said have faith in what his Son Jesus Christ has already accomplished on YOUR behalf according to scripture. *Placing your faith in the FINISHED work of Jesus Christ is what saves.* Nobody goes to heaven without faith. yours is misplaced, and Im sorry someone didnt care enough too tell you the Bible truth. Open. Read. BELIEVE your BIBLE I read in my kjBible that on the cross, God was in Christ Jesus, not charging our sins against us, but placed all our sins on Jesus. 2 Corinthians 5:19 Jesus was made THE PERFECT substitutionary sacrifice for sins to appease the soon wrath of God upon an unbelieving world. Ephesians 1:7 Ephesians 5:2 2 Corinthians 5:19 Jesus died for our sins according to scripture, was buried *with* our sins, and three days later arose *without* my sins. Getting my hair wet, walking the isle, kneeling at the alter, or rubbing the rosery has NOTHING to do with getting my sins forgiven. No amount of crying tears, holding on, no getting my life right, or quitting bad habits, forgave my own sins either. The moment I simply *agreed with God* that ALL my sins were forgiven on the cross, he was buried WITH my sins, and rose again three days later WITHOUT my sins, I was sealed with the Holy Spirit until the day of redemption. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 kjv "And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption." - Ephesians 4:30 KJV TODAY is the day of *salvation.* All your sins were already forgiven at the cross. 2 Corinthians 5:18,19 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 Romans 16:25 Want to be saved and go to heaven? Its NOT about what you do in your flesh, its because of WHAT and WHO you BELIEVE. On the cross, God was in Christ no longer charging our sins against us. He reconciled himself to us. Now believe, and be ye reconciled back to God and be SAVED! Believe today, and heaven is your home. Ephesians 2:8,9 Says salvation is NOT of yourselves. Not of any fleshly works, but by simply believing that what Jesus has already accomplish for us, was enough. Hope this helps. Truth Time Radio channel on yt can help you understand how to study your kjBible. Grace and peace
I don’t think you or I want to even accept it from them. They may want to avoid asking you for forgiveness because it’s too painful for them to admit, maybe. But we must let it go because it makes us bitter or fearful of someone else who could hurt us. We become scared of love and being loved. No more joy and happiness in life. We can’t live freely like this.
God yes..god...😢my future ...is in your hands..forgiveness. ..reconsideration. ..everything everything is in your hands.....god mold me anew pot...god your my future's way...
My Dad was an alcoholic most of my life,but one day the Lord told me,even if he never admits his wrong doing,you have to forgive him for your sake! I forgave my Dad about 10yrs before he passed away,and i'm glad the Lord gave me those 10yrs with my Dad,never mind the past years,it was those last 10yrs that actually mattered!
Forgiveness is also a lot like the arcade game "wack-a-mole".... You forgive, then it comes up again.. wack it down, then it comes back again....repeat, until totally gone, and you don't think about it anymore
I forgave things that I was called crazy or a liar for even being hurt by... Reconciling was never on the table when they tried to come back, and I'm called the festering one for making sure they even recognize the transgressions, let alone have no plans to repeat them.
Great motivation, you just made my day, im not perfect thank you for encouraging global community not everyone, wants to admits there faults, they walk away instead of facing fact, we are all equal not every one wants to accepts, rich or poor, lovely pastor 🙌
Please Help me to Forgive others and Please Forgive me My Good Precious Merciful Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ And Please Soften my sinful heart with more of Love and kindness 🙏🥺 All Praise And Glory To Our Great Merciful Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ For Showing His Great Love towards sinners like me who never deserve it 🙏♥️ I ask this In My Most Precious Merciful Good Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ Mighty Healing Name Amen ♥️🙏
Four keys of forgiveness are unvictimizing yourself and no longer putting yourself as the center of the story of your hurt (and releasing judgement on the offender), having empathy for the offender, having compassion on the offender, and loving the offender (love is an action and can be done by simply blessing, praying for, and being kind to the offender)
You'll know you have truly forgiven when the memory of the offense does not cause you to feel all the emotions tied to it. Release it to the Father so that you may also be forgiven.
Hmm is that so? Anything in the past i think about brings the full emotions of what i was feeling at the time. Regardless of how i feel now. When this happened in front of my psychiatrist she looked concerned and then recommended cbt. I have to remember to stay in the present while i remember things that happened. And not to time travel in my mind. But that's where my memories are . Ugh. I'm screwed up lol.
Good point but I am thinking if one could go one step further and ask God to take the memory of the incident away as if it never happened knowing God would protect you from the incident ever happening again to you because you have done this and with revelation and trust in God he would alert you not of the previous incident but to stay clear of a person or situation that would cause you offense.
With God all things are possible. Not knowing what happened to you, as we all experience level of hurt that only our Creator who has made us is able to heal and understand. I'm glad you have received help from a therapist. That's what you could do in the natural (your works ) now receive help in the spiritual ( by faith). Because faith without works is dead. As pastor said forgiveness is not an option but a command. Bring all your hurts and to the Lord who loves you , pour out your heart in prayer and forgive yourself. I know he's a healer and of the mind too. Draw closer to Jesus, and remember he loves you and is you best cheerleader! Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
Hmmm, if I understand you correctly. I'll start with a story. My older children were tasked with taking the trash out from the basement and putting it on the deck, in anticipation of the upcoming trash day. When that day came, they took the kitchen trash out so I assumed they did the trash on the deck. ( In high summer it is impossible to enjoy the deck because of mosquitoes). Two weeks, went by and because the deck door is covered by a curtain, I finally looked out and saw the trash. With dread I opened the lid, and what I saw " stained my mind with utter horror", I saw millions of maggots crawling over the trash and about to pour out of the can. 😩, I placed the lid back on, and said a prayer of Lord strengthen me not to get raging mad, I did not I was calm , got some duct tape. Taped it down shut and placed a sign on the trash in English and Spanish for the to throw the whole can away and not to open it. Spoke to the kids about Never letting that happen again. I never bought a can, after that would spray the bags with bleach or pepper to keep them from being torn open( it works). Because the memory of the offense, was so searing and I did not want it to stay " emblazoned" in my mind. I asked the Lord to take the very memory from my mind. He did! So now when I recall it I have to squint to remember, it's like it happened to someone else, the great offense was removed from my mind.
1 John 5:14 And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us: He has All Power, he is Holy and Sovereign Psalm 91 14-16 tells us why and how he will deliver us because we have known his name. Take time to know him, in prayer that's communication or communing with him, reading his word( we will learn his very loving compassionate character) and doing good ( because he is Holy so shall we also should be holy). Psalm 34 We got this! From his power from on high, his Holy Spirit For he has not given us the Spirit of fear, but of Power, of Love and a Sound Mind. Amen Beloved.
Thank you for this! Just did a podcast episode on forgiveness being a command, and backed it up with scripture but the enemy has been trying to convince me that it was too harsh. I believe I forgiveness is a big reason the church is hindered. God is forgiving so we must be as well ❤
Forgiveness is not forgetting your abuse while it may help temporarily in the long run it doesn't integrate your trauma as a whole it blankets the trauma and leads you to open yourself up to more abuse later on. One must integrate the whole trauma into a rational understanding of why you should not allow yourself to be abused again. You cannot allow people to deceive you and you must put your foot down and practice intolerance of evil. Tolerance of an evil individual leads to more and more evil. You cannot be someones punching bag over and over again. That is why forgiveness should only be used as a tool to integrate your experience rather than perpetuate an abusive situation. Simply put forgive yourself while forgiving your enemy and when you heal do not forget they are the enemy and will abuse you again given the opportunity.
I need to forgive myself I said something time ago that lead me on a self destruct path and it’s become worse and worse ever since I don’t know how to forgive myself or get out of the metaphorical hole I’ve dug
To overcome anything we must abide in Christ. Be consumed with Jesus, nothing else. Let everything else go. "I am the Vine, you are the branches. Whoever abides in Me has life. Whoever separates from Me withers, dies, and is cast into the fire (Hell). Abide in Me. Apart from Me you can do nothing." (John 15) "It is my prayer that they will be one with You just as I am." (John 17) Close the sin doors for satan and his demons. Forsake all sin. Forgive all your enemies for all things. Judge nobody about anything. Often people end up in sin because they judged someone else. For example, people who judge people for being homeless often end up homeless themselves. Judging is a very dangerous thing. "Humble yourselves before God and He will lift you up." (Bible) Hope this helps.
I feel sometimes there's a secret to it. I forgive as in I understand they're human and know they make mistakes like I do. I can't point a finger because only Jesus is blameless. The part I struggle with is how do I "forget" or be at peace with what transpired. How do I stop crying about it.
Please please pray for me. I have a hard time forgiving myself. Forgiving myself for missed opportunities, not following through with going back to school to get some training that could have made my life better. Not standing up to the bullies in my life. Being a coward and not fighting back. I believe shakespear said it best "A brave man dies but once a coward dies many times" And not so much getting into fist fights. But just sticking up for myself when need be. I dont like when you call me that, or when you throw me under the bus like you do, andif i don't get satisfaction i just leave the situation. I keep thinking of situations where i could have handled things better. Its been said hindsight is often 20/20. Im kind of thinking of writing stories where instead of rolling over and letting these people to continue to abuse me and walk all over me with sharpened football cleats I stick up for myself and take a stand against the bullies in my life. Please pray for me that I come to terms with these feelings and learn to forgive myself. Thank you
When people can't seem to forgive themselves, (now dont get upset) its saying that you know better than God. If God has forgiven you, do you have higher standards? Try thinking of it that way💗
@@DRVenard I get the point you are making but not everyone will side with or relate to that way of thinking. Not being able to forgive ones self comes with having low self esteem and perhaps a lack of self love. Those words might not help everyone but they might help others to love and forgive themselves like God loves and forgives them.
I will pray for you David. Keep on talking to God about all of your thoughts and feelings. Make time to spend it in His word. And seek His righteousness, His help, His guidance. Take comfort in Him and have peace in Him. Don’t be too hard on yourself ❤ Try to close your eyes and breath every now and then. Exhale and know God is with you.
Writing would be a good way to release it. God will TAKE IT ALL. Did u ever think... U MAY HAVE been taking the HIGH ROAD. Just maybe, maybe... U DID MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION FOR CHRIST. Forgiveness is granted by Him. Just dont go around those people that dont serve the same God as u. U BELONG TO GOD... HE WILL NEVER LEAVE U OR FORSAKE U 💜🕊️
Blessed is the peacemaker. Seek God's will for your life and move on. All things work together for good to those that love the Lord and are called according to His purpose.
Lately I've had my heart broken by yet another woman. But I do forgive. I always will every time I know I need to. Praise be to Jesus and I hope that I am forgiven for all of my sins too, which I know are many
❤Isnt this an impossible task and Extremely overblowing emotional mess,😢 just plain awful to tell this to victims of rape, abortion and domestic violence, Which city/State is this pastor? which city /country is this church? Don't keep in the secret ANYMORE! who can relate or advise😢😮😅incest survivors/ childhood abortion can make it seem like forgiveness is impossible, once the realization of how damaging the abuse was that has lasting scars on the body, soul, mind and spirit? N😮TE: Daddy issues lead to Issues with God and the holy spirit. 😢😮😅 Statues of limitation makes this worse!
Stay in therapy and work through it for however long it takes. You deserve peace and happiness. "Give all your cares to Him, for He cares for you." (Bible) "I came to set the captives free, to heal the broken hearted, to comfort those in mourning, to give joy for the spirit of heaviness." (Isaiah 61) Pray in faith. See Jesus sitting next to you, cause He's with you. "Abide in Me. Apart from Me you can do nothing." (John 15)
My abusive mother died on my birthday this year. My best friend ghosted me after informing her of this news. No phone call, no text, no email, nothing. I forgive her in the Name of Jesus, but I will not be reconciling with this friend. That's for sure.
To Christians forgiveness is not a choice, it's a command because if we do not forgiveness others, our Father in heaven will not forgive us. Matt 6:14-15 says, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." Unforgiveness is actually a burden that never stops growing and it is the cause for may people's sicknesses in this world. To be someone is accepts to forgive others, is to be someone who is wise and has accepted is live a peaceful life on earth.
I have forgiven the man who killed my daughter in June 2022. He has not been prosecuted for her death. Today I saw that he is in a new relationship with a woman 20 years younger than he. Should I be wanting good for them or praying for them?
Pray for me as I have been standing with a single mother of 4 children that let her kids be care for by pastors of this church. Her daughter of age 4 yrs at that time just came out and told her mom God told her to tell her mom what happened during their care with this couple. The Pastor was molesting her when the wife was in shower and I was elder of that church but God told me to step down in January 2021 to care for a widow that was bedridden and I did as God directed to. Last year on thanksgiving God told her to tell her mom. I forgave them but they act like they are the victims and makes me angry. Please pray for the families involved and for me please.
Pray and give this to God. Get the children away from abusers. Do not sacrifice children to evil doers. Report this so that man can no longer abuse other children.
❤awful. which pastor? which city /country is this church? Don't keep in the secret ANYMORE! who can relate or advise😢😮😅incest survivors/ childhood abortion can make it seem like forgiveness is impossible, once the realization of how damaging the abuse was that has lasting scars on the body, soul, mind and spirit? Daddy issues lead to Issues with God and the holy spirit. 😢😮😅 Statues of limitation makes this worse!
❤❤awful. which pastor? which city /country is this church? Don't keep in the secret ANYMORE! who can relate or advise😢😮😅incest survivors/ childhood abortion can make it seem like forgiveness is impossible, once the realization of how damaging the abuse was that has lasting scars on the body, soul, mind and spirit? Daddy issues lead to Issues with God and the holy spirit. 😢😮😅 Statues of limitation makes this worse!
I suspected. I chose beforehand to forgave her if she confessed. She did. It happened only once after we had a huge fight, she was utterly broken with remorse. I told her I forgive her because I love her more than she'll ever know. But the pain in my heart is paralyzing. Thoughs of how it happened ect. And that I want to kill the guy or maybe seriously injure him keeps coming in swarms. I need prayer. Ultimately we cheated on God since the beginning and we still do but Christ forgave us of the past, present and future sins. We must do the same with our wives because we are Christ' bride and he forgave us. I can't imagine the pain God feels everyday because of our sins. Coz it's almost unbearable. But wish it would go away fast. I can't tell her I'm hurting coz that will condemn her even more and she'll think I haven't forgiven her, I would make the wound bleed more. You can't love fully if you know you haven't been forgiven fully. Like with us and God. We love Him coz He first loved us. She can't know of the pain I'm in. I'm alone and it's really difficult. I wish God would give me a word of wisdom or knowledge. I don't know, anything. I'll pray for you and please pray for me too. Stay Strong.
If we don't forgive, neither will God forgive us. If God doesn't forgive us, there is NO SALVATION. This means if you still hold bitterness hostage, you are technically not saved. You should have mentioned these verses: "For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Matthew 6:14-15 KJV
Forgiveness (to me) means to let go and to not let the pain of what had happened to you hurt you any more. It means to move on and to not let your pain hurt you anymore.
Suggestions: How do you not reconcile with our abusivo parents when we are supposed to honor them and they are elderly, can’t take care of themselves? I have worked through sexual, and other types of childhood abuse but am still triggered. Being around him sends me in a spiral but they need help.
you are not required to honor a person who used and abused you. Honor the office of the father and mother, but not people who treated you so badly. you sound like an honorable daughter who has honored their names.
You can “honor” them by breaking generational curses. By not doing the bad things they did. Honor your Heavenly Father by obedient to Him and walking in His truth and being a light unto the world 🤍 And, pray for them from afar and allow God to work in them. It’s still up to them to receive His word 🙏🏼 I too had to go no contact with mine and forgive them without any accountability or apology. And I just pray for them from and focus on where God is leading me.
❤awful. which pastor? which city /country is this church? Don't keep in the secret ANYMORE! who can relate or advise😢😮😅incest survivors/ childhood abortion can make it seem like forgiveness is impossible, once the realization of how damaging the abuse was that has lasting scars on the body, soul, mind and spirit? Daddy issues lead to Issues with God and the holy spirit. 😢😮😅 Statues of limitation makes this worse!
Thing to do is God's will. If God is directing you to help them then He will help you do it. If He's directing you to stay away then you should stay away. If you stay away there should be other resources available.
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Every christian thinks that the "father forgive them" means everyone was forgiven without faith and repentance. Was Gestas, the one who mocks Jesus on the cross to the death, was he forgiven? He refuses to repent and mocks Jesus. Peter had to remind the people to repent for crucifying Jesus in order the "father forgive them" to be granted upon them (Acts 2:36-38).
If not forgiven they would've continued to stay blind in sin. "While we were still sinners Christ died for us." (Romans 5:8) That's why people sin. They can't see what they're doing. "The Lord's servant must not quarrel. He must be kind toward all, a good and patient teacher, who is gentle as he corrects his opponents, for it may be that God will give them the opportunity to repent and come to know the truth. And then they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who had caught them and made them obey his will." (2 Timothy 2:24-26)
@@user-bluetopaz777 Are you saying that if you do not forgive them, they will still continue to their wrong doing? Even if God himself gives them opportunity to repent, its up to their decision if they will repent or not. God cannot override their free will. Remember, some people will reject him that's why there are some people that will go to hell for choosing to be unrepentant just like those fellow believers that the church forbids to reconcile with because they are unrepentant will never have the heart to repent (Titus 3:10-11). If so, why don't we just pray that Jesus forgives everyone's sin even they are unrepentant. All Jesus need to say is "father forgive them" and poof! everyone's sin will be magically forgiven without faith and repentance and everybody will go to heaven no matter how diabolical sinners they are and heaven will be filled with murderers, thieves and liars for everyone was unconditionally forgiven and have a free pass to heaven.
@@jaguar004 Jesus died so we could be forgiven. He paid for our sins on the cross. "While we were still sinners Christ died for us." (Rom 5:10, I think) "Do not marvel that I say you must be born again." (John 3:7) The thief on the cross next to Jesus was saved. He was repentant and believed in Jesus. In 2 Tim 2 it says that (paraphrase) "if we deal gently with sinners about their sin, maybe God will bring them to their senses and they can escape Satan's snare." People sin because they're blinded by it, they can't see the truth about what they're doing. Another scripture says "And such were some of you, but now you're ashamed of the things you used to do." Because now we see. Sin can't blind us to its sinfulness anymore. After the earth shook and the sky darkened the moment Jesus died the soldiers said "Surely He was the Son of God." They came to their senses. Before that they didn't believe He was God's Son. Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit, having no idea the disaster that would bring because they stopped believing what God said and started thinking about what satan said. After they ate it they knew they were naked, but they weren't repentant, Eve blamed satan, Adam blamed Eve. That's why everything is such a mess in the world. People don't believe God's word and spend all their time listening to what the devil says.
@@user-bluetopaz777 Well, this is what this video is saying. All Jesus needs to say is "father forgive them" and everybody will go to heaven! Such a forgiving God we have!
If we're consumed with Jesus, nothing else can get in. "Set your minds on things above, not on things of the earth. Pray for discernment and wisdom to see things for what they are. "The end of all things is near. Seek the Lord while He may be found. Call upon Him while He is near." (Isaiah 55) "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you." (James - Bible)
🙏✝️ PRAYER TO SAY 'SORRY' "Dear LORD JESUS CHRIST, I want to take this opportunity to say "sorry" to all the people that I have hurt of offended out there in this big-wide-world. Please forgive me, and give me more of YOUR gracious love, mercy, and boldness to quickly forgive and forget, and let go by saying "sorry" when I truly need too, in YOUR loving and forgiving faithful name I have prayed, Amén!" 🇮🇹🌹Parola D'Amore Ministries 2024 Daniele Luciano Moskal
I forgive people all the time />>just too KEEP THEM AT ARMS LENGTH DISTANCE Y3S_ REVENGE BELONGS TO GOD/>> BE NOT LED INTO TEMPTATION & BE DELIVERED FROM EVIL❤ ITS WHY ITS IN THE OUR FATHER
The INSTANT a person places their faith in Christ ALONE as savior (believing He died for all their sins, was buried and rose again on the 3rd Day according to the Scriptures for their justification) they are IMMEDIATELY, PERMANENTLY and ETERNALLY saved!!!! They have received the IMPUTED RIGHTEOUSNESS of Christ that very INSTANT without which NO MAN can be justified in the eyes of God...saved from eternal death in hell and GUARANTEED eternal LIFE in the New Heavens and New Earth forever!!!!! "For He hath made Him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in Him." 2nd CORINTHIANS 5:21, KJV
Forguveness freed me from my abuser continuing his abuse, by taking me further from God! I forgave him so he wouldn't destroy my soul. Everyone thinks it's like condoning, but its releasing them for God to deal with. Hebrews 10:31 I don't need nor want an apology. God needs us to forgive because He doesnt want us burdened by unforgiveness! Which opens us up to demonic influence!
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1)parents/family/step family 2)ex friends 3) ex class mates 4) ex love interests/guys who asked me out 5)my self 6)ex teachers 7) neighbors 8) ex co-workers/bosses 9) current friends 10) people at my churchs 11) nannies/baby sitters my mom sent me to
METHOD REQUIRED RECIEVES FORGIVENESS ❤ 1. ACKNOWLEDGE THE WRONG 2. RECOGNIZE THE OFFENSE 3. CONFESS THE WRONG UNQUALIFIED 4. DEEP FELT SORROW FOR THE WRONG 5. TURN FROM THE WRONG 6. RIGHT THE WRONG 7. ASK FOR FORGIVENESS
I forgave someone years ago for something that happened 20 years BEFORE THAT, but try though I might, I struggled against hurt and anger on a rotating basis toward this person. I asked Jesus for help to divest myself of this cyclical fight I kept having with my emotions toward the person who hurt me. I said Lord I’ve forgiven this person!!! Please help me!! How do I get rid of this cyclical battle that is making me miserable? I want to FORGIVE FROM THE HEART like you told us to. Please help!!!! Well, it wasn’t long after this that The Lord told me to give my half-karat set of diamond earrings to a pastor’s wife who always wanted a modest pair of diamond earrings. She told me a few months later that she had to pray IN TONGUES a really long time over these earrings before she could wear them. Finally the anger and overwhelming hurt she felt when she tried to wear the earrings left her. It was also about this time I was delivered from the anger and hurt I felt towards the person who hurt me.
I keep getting told I need to forgive and I’m trying my best, I’ve prayed and said I’ve forgave but why do i keep getting told this.. idk what I’m doing wrong
I think need to approach them and tell them that you forgave them it will help you alot , you will be free it once happened to me and the Holy spirit commanded me to let them know that I forgave them..
I think you need to approach them and tell them that you forgive them it will help you alot, it once happened to me and the holy spirit commanded me to let them know that I forgive them
Maybe the situation is still bothering you in terms of anger or other negative emotions and that comes out when u speak of that person to others. Forgiveness and letting go of those negative emotions goes hand in hand.
I forgave the evil people than hurt and deceived me but I pray for justice...I deserve that, and I feel that God has forsaken me..I'm young but very broken,suicidal and hurt
It's being kind and respectful to them. Appreciate the good things they've done for you if there are any. Don't hate them, don't harbor anger in your heart. If the relationship is such that it's damaging your self worth, if they're abusing you, yes part ways with them. Just make sure you have someplace else to live first even if it's a shelter. Hope this helps.
Then what does it mean in Luke 17:3-4 Rebuke him if he sins against you, forgive him if he repents. There are so many different teachings on this it's ridiculous , I don't know what to believe.
I forgive my husband. But I cannot reconcile until he works himself into becoming a man of God. We have been married 14 years, for which 12 of them he have not worked, but has spent our savings. Since I am extremely tired, frustrated and ye a rning intimacy, I do not enjoy sex so Im willing to let it happen but with no enjoyment, hence he does not talk to me, does not share any interest with me, neither church, God, outings, nothing, continues to spend money. He spent all day playing video games and do not want to get help from a professional. He needs to find himself again. Until then, I forgive him but I wont reconcile until he is ready to be the protector and provider at home.
How to forgive? I can't let go of the pain of my father's perversion. I am 60 but haven't been able to let it go. I couldn't tell anyone because it would hurt so many people, including my grandmother. No one would have probably believed me anyway. He's gone now and I want to please God. I just don't know how to actively forgive someone who broke my trust in all people.
Here because I need forgiveness. The thing so thought I was doing right to please God were actually sinful and incredibly hurtful to those around me. I have asked forgiveness of many of these people, and some have yet to respond, though I told them they did not have to respond. However I deeply want to reconcile with them, and one individual in particular. I believe it is even God's Will that we be reconciled and am praying for that; if anyone else could pray for me as well, please do and feel free. Thank you and God bless. ❤️🙏
I really wish that God gave me and all of us the this right heart and mind and spirit and the power of the Holy Spirit to follow the command and able to do this.
We have to. Otherwise Jesus died for nothing in our case. He died so we could be forgiven. We don't want to take the grace of God in vain. If He forgives us, we don't have the right not to forgive ourselves. If we don't forgive ourselves then how could we receive the gift of salvation? What we're saying is is that we're unworthy of it. And we are. But Christ has already died for us. We don't want His suffering for us to be in vain. "You are saved by the Gospel if you hold firmly to it--unless it was for nothing that you believed." (1 Corinthians 15:2b)
Learn more about Forgiveness here: ruclips.net/video/CcS17EGxQ9U/видео.html
Pastor Vlad. How do I know if I have truly forgiven. Is it a feeling? How do I know I've actually forgiven?
Lord Jesus I'm willing to forgive completely and need Your help to do this. Amen
My wife
Asked me
For forgiveness when
She cheated on me with my
Cousin.
Not only did I not forgive her.
I spat in her mouth and kicked her to the side.
I left New Jersey for
Finland 🇫🇮 where I’m finding
Peace away from
Her whorishness.
I WILL NEVER EVER FORGIVE HER EVER!
FORGIVENESS IS NOT ALWAYS NEEDED OR NECESSARY.
You still can find peace without ever forcing yourself to forgive others. Don’t let other people’s guilt trick your feelings into forgiving them. That’s unhealthy for your mental health.
As for my cousin. He died from a brain aneurysm after his struggle with alcohol and drug addiction unrelated to what happened with this incident. I didn’t go to his funeral. His own parents didn’t even attend. No one forgave what he did.
You can heed what I say or dismiss it. It maters not to me.
No
Vlad do you believe you can lose your salvation if there is unforgiveness in your heart when you die?
At 72 I’ve finally forgiven all those who have hurt me, thank you Jesus. ❤
Finally free...
Excellent praise God!
im so happy for you!!!
Sins cannot be justified because you forgave someone else.
All throughout scripture, forgiveness of sins required death.
"For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." - Romans 6:23 KJV
Forgivness and salvation are two different words having two different meanings.
Forgivness happened on the cross before we were even born.
Salvation = Justified.
We are justified the moment we READ and BELIEVE that all our sins were ALREADY FORGIVEN according to SCRIPTURE.
Jesus has already made peace with you through the blood of his cross. NOT because of anything you did to get forgiven.
Prayer is a work of the flesh.
Ephesians 2:8,9
Praying to be forgiven wont forgive your sins, because forgivness happend nearly 2 centuries ago.
God never told you to have faith in self-effort or mans wisdom, God said have faith in what his Son Jesus Christ has already accomplished on YOUR behalf according to scripture.
*Placing your faith in the FINISHED work of Jesus Christ is what saves.*
Nobody goes to heaven without faith. yours is misplaced, and Im sorry someone didnt care enough too tell you the Bible truth.
Open. Read. BELIEVE your BIBLE
I read in my kjBible that on the cross, God was in Christ Jesus, not charging our sins against us, but placed all our sins on Jesus.
2 Corinthians 5:19
Jesus was made THE PERFECT substitutionary sacrifice for sins to appease the soon wrath of God upon an unbelieving world.
Ephesians 1:7
Ephesians 5:2
2 Corinthians 5:19
Jesus died for our sins according to scripture, was buried *with* our sins, and three days later arose *without* my sins.
Getting my hair wet, walking the isle, kneeling at the alter, or rubbing the rosery has NOTHING to do with getting my sins forgiven.
No amount of crying tears, holding on, no getting my life right, or quitting bad habits, forgave my own sins either.
The moment I simply *agreed with God* that ALL my sins were forgiven on the cross, he was buried WITH my sins, and rose again three days later WITHOUT my sins, I was sealed with the Holy Spirit until the day of redemption.
1 Corinthians 15:1-4 kjv
"And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption." - Ephesians 4:30 KJV
TODAY is the day of *salvation.*
All your sins were already forgiven at the cross.
2 Corinthians 5:18,19
1 Corinthians 15:1-4
Romans 16:25
Want to be saved and go to heaven?
Its NOT about what you do in your flesh, its because of WHAT and WHO you BELIEVE.
On the cross, God was in Christ no longer charging our sins against us. He reconciled himself to us.
Now believe, and be ye reconciled back to God and be SAVED!
Believe today, and heaven is your home.
Ephesians 2:8,9 Says salvation is NOT of yourselves.
Not of any fleshly works, but by simply believing that what Jesus has already accomplish for us, was enough.
Hope this helps.
Truth Time Radio channel on yt can help you understand how to study your kjBible.
Grace and peace
@@bridgetintheukraine"finally free"
He wasnt freed because of his own self effort.
He was ALREADY FORGIVEN when Jesus died for the WORLD on the cross.
2 Corinthians 5:18,19
Ephesians 1:7
1 Corinthians 15:1-4
Forgiveness happened nearly 2k years ago. Not when YOU do something to get your sins forgiven.
You CANT. They already are. You don't get the credit, Jesus does.
Grace and peace
Dang the command part got me. It's not an option but a command. So deep. Lord Jesus help me to forgive my husband he hurt me so bad.
I’m with you, sister.
Blessings.
Lord give me the strength to give thoes who mistreated me.🙏🙏
Forgiveness also means to keep away from the abusers. And Last but not least Forgive Yourself...also forgive for your own peace of mind.
I forgive, but will not forget. Blessings 🙏
Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, otherwise it's like going on a date, date rape, forgive the guy, and go on another date with him..... No, that's dumb....
Forgive, but don't go back for more abuse
@@dennisdelfina if you truly forgive, you will actually forget, but use wisdom in relation to that person. Don't go back for more abuse
@bridgetintheukraine True 👍 I can do it as long as I don't talk to that person again. It's harder if it's your immediate family and you still need to be around them. Not as easy...any advice ? Thank you 🙏
Wow. I needed that.
Forgiveness does not mean you subject yourself to the same abuser you just forgave.
👍👍
Forgiveness being a command. I never thought of it that way. But it’s true.
Forgive because we are forgiven is for saved people who have believed that Jesus has already forgiven all our sins on the cross.
Lost people do NOT believe that all thier sins have already been bought and paid for by the blood of Jesus Christ.
Jesus has already made peace with you through the blood of his cross. NOT because of anything you did to get forgiven.
Prayer is a work of the flesh.
Ephesians 2:8,9
Praying to be forgiven wont forgive your sins, because forgivness happend nearly 2 centuries ago.
God never told you to have faith in self-effort or mans wisdom, God said have faith in what his Son Jesus Christ has already accomplished on YOUR behalf according to scripture.
*Placing your faith in the FINISHED work of Jesus Christ is what saves.*
Nobody goes to heaven without faith. yours is misplaced, and Im sorry someone didnt care enough too tell you the Bible truth.
Open. Read. BELIEVE your BIBLE
I read in my kjBible that on the cross, God was in Christ Jesus, not charging our sins against us, but placed all our sins on Jesus.
2 Corinthians 5:19
Jesus was made THE PERFECT substitutionary sacrifice for sins to appease the soon wrath of God upon an unbelieving world.
Ephesians 1:7
Ephesians 5:2
2 Corinthians 5:19
Jesus died for our sins according to scripture, was buried *with* our sins, and three days later arose *without* my sins.
Getting my hair wet, walking the isle, kneeling at the alter, or rubbing the rosery has NOTHING to do with getting my sins forgiven.
No amount of crying tears, holding on, no getting my life right, or quitting bad habits, forgave my own sins either.
The moment I simply *agreed with God* that ALL my sins were forgiven on the cross, he was buried WITH my sins, and rose again three days later WITHOUT my sins, I was sealed with the Holy Spirit until the day of redemption.
1 Corinthians 15:1-4 kjv
"And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption." - Ephesians 4:30 KJV
TODAY is the day of *salvation.*
All your sins were already forgiven at the cross.
2 Corinthians 5:18,19
1 Corinthians 15:1-4
Romans 16:25
Want to be saved and go to heaven?
Its NOT about what you do in your flesh, its because of WHAT and WHO you BELIEVE.
On the cross, God was in Christ no longer charging our sins against us. He reconciled himself to us.
Now believe, and be ye reconciled back to God and be SAVED!
Believe today, and heaven is your home.
Ephesians 2:8,9 Says salvation is NOT of yourselves.
Not of any fleshly works, but by simply believing that what Jesus has already accomplish for us, was enough.
Hope this helps.
Truth Time Radio channel on yt can help you understand how to study your kjBible.
Grace and peace
...not waiting for a apology... that one hit me hard!
Yup, me too
I so long for an apology or some accountability for the total betrayal of our marriage. I pray for strength to endure
Truth!!!!!!!
I don’t think you or I want to even accept it from them. They may want to avoid asking you for forgiveness because it’s too painful for them to admit, maybe. But we must let it go because it makes us bitter or fearful of someone else who could hurt us. We become scared of love and being loved. No more joy and happiness in life. We can’t live freely like this.
Amen
Amen
Amen! Thank you for a vital reminder from God's Word. SHALOM and MARANATHA 🙏 ♥️ ✝️ ✡️ 🇺🇲 🇮🇱 🎺⚖️
Thank you Jesus
God yes..god...😢my future ...is in your hands..forgiveness. ..reconsideration. ..everything everything is in your hands.....god mold me anew pot...god your my future's way...
Love this❤ God bless you 🙏
My Dad was an alcoholic most of my life,but one day the Lord told me,even if he never admits his wrong doing,you have to forgive him for your sake! I forgave my Dad about 10yrs before he passed away,and i'm glad the Lord gave me those 10yrs with my Dad,never mind the past years,it was those last 10yrs that actually mattered!
Forgiveness is also a lot like the arcade game "wack-a-mole"....
You forgive, then it comes up again.. wack it down, then it comes back again....repeat, until totally gone, and you don't think about it anymore
Good analogy. 👍🏾 I’m constantly trying to practice that.
That's called pushing down your feelings until you're dissociated enough
I'm happy that you're uploading almost everyday. It helps us a lot :)
Amen 🙏🏽
Thank you so much I need to 3 good days to understand this I will keep watching now and then because I need to forgive someone before end of April
Amen I just went through this Xo Xo ❤
I forgave things that I was called crazy or a liar for even being hurt by... Reconciling was never on the table when they tried to come back, and I'm called the festering one for making sure they even recognize the transgressions, let alone have no plans to repeat them.
My mum😭😭😭she really hurts my feelings, please pray for me 🙏
Amen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
VERY TRUE!!!!
Amen
AWESOME!!!
Thank you for this.
GOD bless you and your family and keep you all in HIS perfect peace ❤ 🙏🏻 ❤
Powerful message
Great motivation, you just made my day, im not perfect thank you for encouraging global community not everyone, wants to admits there faults, they walk away instead of facing fact, we are all equal not every one wants to accepts, rich or poor, lovely pastor 🙌
Please Help me to Forgive others and Please Forgive me My Good Precious Merciful Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ And Please Soften my sinful heart with more of Love and kindness 🙏🥺 All Praise And Glory To Our Great Merciful Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ For Showing His Great Love towards sinners like me who never deserve it 🙏♥️ I ask this In My Most Precious Merciful Good Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ Mighty Healing Name Amen ♥️🙏
Four keys of forgiveness are unvictimizing yourself and no longer putting yourself as the center of the story of your hurt (and releasing judgement on the offender), having empathy for the offender, having compassion on the offender, and loving the offender (love is an action and can be done by simply blessing, praying for, and being kind to the offender)
Thank YOU
You'll know you have truly forgiven when the memory of the offense does not cause you to feel all the emotions tied to it. Release it to the Father so that you may also be forgiven.
Hmm is that so? Anything in the past i think about brings the full emotions of what i was feeling at the time. Regardless of how i feel now. When this happened in front of my psychiatrist she looked concerned and then recommended cbt. I have to remember to stay in the present while i remember things that happened. And not to time travel in my mind. But that's where my memories are . Ugh. I'm screwed up lol.
Good point but I am thinking if one could go one step further and ask God to take the memory of the incident away as if it never happened knowing God would protect you from the incident ever happening again to you because you have done this and with revelation and trust in God he would alert you not of the previous incident but to stay clear of a person or situation that would cause you
offense.
With God all things are possible.
Not knowing what happened to you, as we all experience level of hurt that only our Creator who has made us is able to heal and understand. I'm glad you have received help from a therapist. That's what you could do in the natural (your works ) now receive help in the spiritual ( by faith).
Because faith without works is dead. As pastor said forgiveness is not an option but a command.
Bring all your hurts and to the Lord who loves you , pour out your heart in prayer and forgive yourself. I know he's a healer and of the mind too. Draw closer to Jesus, and remember he loves you and is you best cheerleader!
Philippians 4:8
Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
Hmmm, if I understand you correctly. I'll start with a story.
My older children were tasked with taking the trash out from the basement and putting it on the deck, in anticipation of the upcoming trash day. When that day came, they took the kitchen trash out so I assumed they did the trash on the deck. ( In high summer it is impossible to enjoy the deck because of mosquitoes).
Two weeks, went by and because the deck door is covered by a curtain, I finally looked out and saw the trash. With dread I opened the lid, and what I saw " stained my mind with utter horror", I saw millions of maggots crawling over the trash and about to pour out of the can. 😩, I placed the lid back on, and said a prayer of Lord strengthen me not to get raging mad, I did not I was calm , got some duct tape. Taped it down shut and placed a sign on the trash in English and Spanish for the to throw the whole can away and not to open it.
Spoke to the kids about Never letting that happen again. I never bought a can, after that would spray the bags with bleach or pepper to keep them from being torn open( it works).
Because the memory of the offense, was so searing and I did not want it to stay " emblazoned" in my mind. I asked the Lord to take the very memory from my mind. He did! So now when I recall it I have to squint to remember, it's like it happened to someone else, the great offense was removed from my mind.
1 John 5:14
And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us:
He has All Power, he is Holy and Sovereign Psalm 91 14-16 tells us why and how he will deliver us because we have known his name.
Take time to know him, in prayer that's communication or communing with him, reading his word( we will learn his very loving compassionate character) and doing good ( because he is Holy so shall we also should be holy).
Psalm 34
We got this! From his power from on high, his Holy Spirit
For he has not given us the Spirit of fear, but of Power, of Love and a Sound Mind.
Amen
Beloved.
I love this message ✝️🕊️
Soooo powerful!!!! 🔥🔥🔥Such insight! Well received!!! Thank you Pastor Vald! May The Lord continue to bless you, family, and ministry❤️
Thank you for this! Just did a podcast episode on forgiveness being a command, and backed it up with scripture but the enemy has been trying to convince me that it was too harsh. I believe I forgiveness is a big reason the church is hindered. God is forgiving so we must be as well ❤
Forgiveness is not forgetting your abuse while it may help temporarily in the long run it doesn't integrate your trauma as a whole it blankets the trauma and leads you to open yourself up to more abuse later on. One must integrate the whole trauma into a rational understanding of why you should not allow yourself to be abused again. You cannot allow people to deceive you and you must put your foot down and practice intolerance of evil. Tolerance of an evil individual leads to more and more evil. You cannot be someones punching bag over and over again. That is why forgiveness should only be used as a tool to integrate your experience rather than perpetuate an abusive situation. Simply put forgive yourself while forgiving your enemy and when you heal do not forget they are the enemy and will abuse you again given the opportunity.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❣️❣️♥️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🧚♀️🧚♀️🧚♀️🧚♀️♥️❣️❣️Goly Halleluya Amen 🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is true Gospel filled teaching.
Book Called to Forgive by Reverend Anthony B. Thompson.
I need to forgive myself I said something time ago that lead me on a self destruct path and it’s become worse and worse ever since I don’t know how to forgive myself or get out of the metaphorical hole I’ve dug
To overcome anything we must abide in Christ. Be consumed with Jesus, nothing else. Let everything else go. "I am the Vine, you are the branches. Whoever abides in Me has life. Whoever separates from Me withers, dies, and is cast into the fire (Hell). Abide in Me. Apart from Me you can do nothing." (John 15) "It is my prayer that they will be one with You just as I am." (John 17) Close the sin doors for satan and his demons. Forsake all sin. Forgive all your enemies for all things. Judge nobody about anything. Often people end up in sin because they judged someone else. For example, people who judge people for being homeless often end up homeless themselves. Judging is a very dangerous thing. "Humble yourselves before God and He will lift you up." (Bible) Hope this helps.
I feel sometimes there's a secret to it. I forgive as in I understand they're human and know they make mistakes like I do. I can't point a finger because only Jesus is blameless. The part I struggle with is how do I "forget" or be at peace with what transpired. How do I stop crying about it.
Please please pray for me. I have a hard time forgiving myself. Forgiving myself for missed opportunities, not following through with going back to school to get some training that could have made my life better. Not standing up to the bullies in my life. Being a coward and not fighting back. I believe shakespear said it best "A brave man dies but once a coward dies many times" And not so much getting into fist fights. But just sticking up for myself when need be. I dont like when you call me that, or when you throw me under the bus like you do, andif i don't get satisfaction i just leave the situation. I keep thinking of situations where i could have handled things better. Its been said hindsight is often 20/20. Im kind of thinking of writing stories where instead of rolling over and letting these people to continue to abuse me and walk all over me with sharpened football cleats I stick up for myself and take a stand against the bullies in my life. Please pray for me that I come to terms with these feelings and learn to forgive myself. Thank you
When people can't seem to forgive themselves, (now dont get upset) its saying that you know better than God. If God has forgiven you, do you have higher standards? Try thinking of it that way💗
@@DRVenard I get the point you are making but not everyone will side with or relate to that way of thinking. Not being able to forgive ones self comes with having low self esteem and perhaps a lack of self love. Those words might not help everyone but they might help others to love and forgive themselves like God loves and forgives them.
I will pray for you David. Keep on talking to God about all of your thoughts and feelings. Make time to spend it in His word. And seek His righteousness, His help, His guidance.
Take comfort in Him and have peace in Him. Don’t be too hard on yourself ❤ Try to close your eyes and breath every now and then. Exhale and know God is with you.
Writing would be a good way to release it. God will TAKE IT ALL. Did u ever think... U MAY HAVE been taking the HIGH ROAD. Just maybe, maybe... U DID MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION FOR CHRIST. Forgiveness is granted by Him. Just dont go around those people that dont serve the same God as u. U BELONG TO GOD... HE WILL NEVER LEAVE U OR FORSAKE U 💜🕊️
Blessed is the peacemaker. Seek God's will for your life and move on. All things work together for good to those that love the Lord and are called according to His purpose.
Lately I've had my heart broken by yet another woman. But I do forgive. I always will every time I know I need to. Praise be to Jesus and I hope that I am forgiven for all of my sins too, which I know are many
If you truly forgive you won’t have no problem asking “how you doing” to somebody that hurt you.
I need to forgive myself. I‘ve made a mistake 😖💔
Forgiveness is NOT reconciliation... SHALOM🙂🙏
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AMEN!!!! FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS!!!! YES YES YES!!!! THANK YOU JESUS!!!!!
I’m getting very confused about this and asking God how to forgive people who are abusive
I think forgiveness is not holding a grudge :)
Thank God Yah ❤
❤Isnt this an impossible task and Extremely overblowing emotional mess,😢 just plain awful to tell this to victims of rape, abortion and domestic violence,
Which city/State is this pastor? which city /country is this church? Don't keep in the secret ANYMORE!
who can relate or advise😢😮😅incest survivors/ childhood abortion can make it seem like forgiveness is impossible, once the realization of how damaging the abuse was that has lasting scars on the body, soul, mind and spirit? N😮TE: Daddy issues lead to Issues with God and the holy spirit. 😢😮😅
Statues of limitation makes this worse!
Stay in therapy and work through it for however long it takes. You deserve peace and happiness. "Give all your cares to Him, for He cares for you." (Bible) "I came to set the captives free, to heal the broken hearted, to comfort those in mourning, to give joy for the spirit of heaviness." (Isaiah 61) Pray in faith. See Jesus sitting next to you, cause He's with you. "Abide in Me. Apart from Me you can do nothing." (John 15)
Amen! This truth
My grandmother died without forgave the man who abused her when she was young. Is she in Hell now ?
I would think that is up to God. James 5:11 God is very compassionate and merciful. He knows her heart.
According to scripture yes.
My abusive mother died on my birthday this year. My best friend ghosted me after informing her of this news. No phone call, no text, no email, nothing. I forgive her in the Name of Jesus, but I will not be reconciling with this friend. That's for sure.
To Christians forgiveness is not a choice, it's a command because if we do not forgiveness others, our Father in heaven will not forgive us.
Matt 6:14-15 says, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."
Unforgiveness is actually a burden that never stops growing and it is the cause for may people's sicknesses in this world. To be someone is accepts to forgive others, is to be someone who is wise and has accepted is live a peaceful life on earth.
I have forgiven the man who killed my daughter in June 2022. He has not been prosecuted for her death. Today I saw that he is in a new relationship with a woman 20 years younger than he. Should I be wanting good for them or praying for them?
Pray for me as I have been standing with a single mother of 4 children that let her kids be care for by pastors of this church. Her daughter of age 4 yrs at that time just came out and told her mom God told her to tell her mom what happened during their care with this couple. The Pastor was molesting her when the wife was in shower and I was elder of that church but God told me to step down in January 2021 to care for a widow that was bedridden and I did as God directed to. Last year on thanksgiving God told her to tell her mom. I forgave them but they act like they are the victims and makes me angry. Please pray for the families involved and for me please.
Pray and give this to God. Get the children away from abusers. Do not sacrifice children to evil doers. Report this so that man can no longer abuse other children.
Expose evil. Shine light in dark places.
❤awful. which pastor? which city /country is this church? Don't keep in the secret ANYMORE!
who can relate or advise😢😮😅incest survivors/ childhood abortion can make it seem like forgiveness is impossible, once the realization of how damaging the abuse was that has lasting scars on the body, soul, mind and spirit? Daddy issues lead to Issues with God and the holy spirit. 😢😮😅
Statues of limitation makes this worse!
❤❤awful. which pastor? which city /country is this church? Don't keep in the secret ANYMORE!
who can relate or advise😢😮😅incest survivors/ childhood abortion can make it seem like forgiveness is impossible, once the realization of how damaging the abuse was that has lasting scars on the body, soul, mind and spirit? Daddy issues lead to Issues with God and the holy spirit. 😢😮😅
Statues of limitation makes this worse!
My entire life is just forgiving everyone.
I refuse to forgive my cheating wife. I have tried but just can’t let go of the thoughts and betrayals
I suspected. I chose beforehand to forgave her if she confessed. She did. It happened only once after we had a huge fight, she was utterly broken with remorse. I told her I forgive her because I love her more than she'll ever know.
But the pain in my heart is paralyzing. Thoughs of how it happened ect. And that I want to kill the guy or maybe seriously injure him keeps coming in swarms.
I need prayer.
Ultimately we cheated on God since the beginning and we still do but Christ forgave us of the past, present and future sins. We must do the same with our wives because we are Christ' bride and he forgave us.
I can't imagine the pain God feels everyday because of our sins. Coz it's almost unbearable.
But wish it would go away fast. I can't tell her I'm hurting coz that will condemn her even more and she'll think I haven't forgiven her, I would make the wound bleed more.
You can't love fully if you know you haven't been forgiven fully. Like with us and God. We love Him coz He first loved us.
She can't know of the pain I'm in. I'm alone and it's really difficult.
I wish God would give me a word of wisdom or knowledge. I don't know, anything.
I'll pray for you and please pray for me too. Stay Strong.
If we don't forgive, neither will God forgive us. If God doesn't forgive us, there is NO SALVATION. This means if you still hold bitterness hostage, you are technically not saved. You should have mentioned these verses:
"For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."
Matthew 6:14-15 KJV
Amen
Help me Jesus
I forgive my mother today. Thank you Holy Spirit.
Amen
Forgiveness (to me) means to let go and to not let the pain of what had happened to you hurt you any more. It means to move on and to not let your pain hurt you anymore.
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How do you not reconcile with our abusivo parents when we are supposed to honor them and they are elderly, can’t take care of themselves? I have worked through sexual, and other types of childhood abuse but am still triggered. Being around him sends me in a spiral but they need help.
you are not required to honor a person who used and abused you. Honor the office of the father and mother, but not people who treated you so badly. you sound like an honorable daughter who has honored their names.
@@labrigful TY Any suggestions on getting them help with out me having contact with him?
You can “honor” them by breaking generational curses. By not doing the bad things they did.
Honor your Heavenly Father by obedient to Him and walking in His truth and being a light unto the world 🤍
And, pray for them from afar and allow God to work in them. It’s still up to them to receive His word 🙏🏼
I too had to go no contact with mine and forgive them without any accountability or apology. And I just pray for them from and focus on where God is leading me.
❤awful. which pastor? which city /country is this church? Don't keep in the secret ANYMORE!
who can relate or advise😢😮😅incest survivors/ childhood abortion can make it seem like forgiveness is impossible, once the realization of how damaging the abuse was that has lasting scars on the body, soul, mind and spirit? Daddy issues lead to Issues with God and the holy spirit. 😢😮😅
Statues of limitation makes this worse!
Thing to do is God's will. If God is directing you to help them then He will help you do it. If He's directing you to stay away then you should stay away. If you stay away there should be other resources available.
These are pastors who have not experienced enough in the subject of forgiveness at all. Standard scripture quotes.
May God perfect our understanding 🙏
The wife
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Every christian thinks that the "father forgive them" means everyone was forgiven without faith and repentance.
Was Gestas, the one who mocks Jesus on the cross to the death, was he forgiven? He refuses to repent and mocks Jesus.
Peter had to remind the people to repent for crucifying Jesus in order the "father forgive them" to be granted upon them (Acts 2:36-38).
If not forgiven they would've continued to stay blind in sin. "While we were still sinners Christ died for us." (Romans 5:8) That's why people sin. They can't see what they're doing. "The Lord's servant must not quarrel. He must be kind toward all, a good and patient teacher, who is gentle as he corrects his opponents, for it may be that God will give them the opportunity to repent and come to know the truth. And then they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who had caught them and made them obey his will." (2 Timothy 2:24-26)
@@user-bluetopaz777 Are you saying that if you do not forgive them, they will still continue to their wrong doing?
Even if God himself gives them opportunity to repent, its up to their decision if they will repent or not. God cannot override their free will.
Remember, some people will reject him that's why there are some people that will go to hell for choosing to be unrepentant just like those fellow believers that the church forbids to reconcile with because they are unrepentant will never have the heart to repent (Titus 3:10-11).
If so, why don't we just pray that Jesus forgives everyone's sin even they are unrepentant. All Jesus need to say is "father forgive them" and poof! everyone's sin will be magically forgiven without faith and repentance and everybody will go to heaven no matter how diabolical sinners they are and heaven will be filled with murderers, thieves and liars for everyone was unconditionally forgiven and have a free pass to heaven.
@@jaguar004 Jesus died so we could be forgiven. He paid for our sins on the cross. "While we were still sinners Christ died for us." (Rom 5:10, I think) "Do not marvel that I say you must be born again." (John 3:7) The thief on the cross next to Jesus was saved. He was repentant and believed in Jesus. In 2 Tim 2 it says that (paraphrase) "if we deal gently with sinners about their sin, maybe God will bring them to their senses and they can escape Satan's snare." People sin because they're blinded by it, they can't see the truth about what they're doing. Another scripture says "And such were some of you, but now you're ashamed of the things you used to do." Because now we see. Sin can't blind us to its sinfulness anymore. After the earth shook and the sky darkened the moment Jesus died the soldiers said "Surely He was the Son of God." They came to their senses. Before that they didn't believe He was God's Son. Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit, having no idea the disaster that would bring because they stopped believing what God said and started thinking about what satan said. After they ate it they knew they were naked, but they weren't repentant, Eve blamed satan, Adam blamed Eve. That's why everything is such a mess in the world. People don't believe God's word and spend all their time listening to what the devil says.
@@jaguar004 no
@@user-bluetopaz777 Well, this is what this video is saying.
All Jesus needs to say is "father forgive them" and everybody will go to heaven! Such a forgiving God we have!
Apology is the truth way forgive one another like God forgives us from our sins thank you for your forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏
This is TRUTH and beautifully stated👑🙋🏾👑
Amen thank you Lord
FORGIVE becauae they POKE❤YOU/>> TO LEAD YOU INTO TEMPTATION & LEAD YOU INTO EVIL🎬💯🎥REVENGE BELONGS TO GOD
😢have forgiven my husband without an apology 😢 for my peace and my Children,I need to truly enlarge my future 🙌,thank you 💗
yes we all know that . but whats the formula to do it ?
If we're consumed with Jesus, nothing else can get in. "Set your minds on things above, not on things of the earth. Pray for discernment and wisdom to see things for what they are. "The end of all things is near. Seek the Lord while He may be found. Call upon Him while He is near." (Isaiah 55) "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you." (James - Bible)
🙏✝️ PRAYER TO SAY 'SORRY'
"Dear LORD JESUS CHRIST, I want to take this opportunity to say "sorry" to all the people that I have hurt of offended out there in this big-wide-world. Please forgive me, and give me more of YOUR gracious love, mercy, and boldness to quickly forgive and forget, and let go by saying "sorry" when I truly need too, in YOUR loving and forgiving faithful name I have prayed, Amén!"
🇮🇹🌹Parola D'Amore Ministries 2024
Daniele Luciano Moskal
I forgive people all the time />>just too KEEP THEM AT ARMS LENGTH DISTANCE Y3S_ REVENGE BELONGS TO GOD/>> BE NOT LED INTO TEMPTATION & BE DELIVERED FROM EVIL❤
ITS WHY ITS IN THE OUR FATHER
The INSTANT a person places their faith in Christ ALONE as savior (believing He died for all their sins, was buried and rose again on the 3rd Day according to the Scriptures for their justification) they are IMMEDIATELY, PERMANENTLY and ETERNALLY saved!!!! They have received the IMPUTED RIGHTEOUSNESS of Christ that very INSTANT without which NO MAN can be justified in the eyes of God...saved from eternal death in hell and GUARANTEED eternal LIFE in the New Heavens and New Earth forever!!!!! "For He hath made Him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in Him." 2nd CORINTHIANS 5:21, KJV
Thank you Pastor Vlad for explaining forgiveness and reconciliation. A burden has been lifted out of me. ❤❤❤
God bless your family and ministry.
Forguveness freed me from my abuser continuing his abuse, by taking me further from God! I forgave him so he wouldn't destroy my soul. Everyone thinks it's like condoning, but its releasing them for God to deal with. Hebrews 10:31 I don't need nor want an apology. God needs us to forgive because He doesnt want us burdened by unforgiveness! Which opens us up to demonic influence!
Yes that's what long term abuse does. It chips away at our identity in Christ. God taught me years ago "Verbal abuse is slow murder."
🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨MY WHOLE FAMILY AND NEIGHBORS... PEOPLE THEY WHERE NEVER MY FRIENDS..... THE WHOLE CHURCH ..... ESPECIALLY MY CREATOR FOR I HAVE SPOKEN BLASPHEMY..... ..... 😶💔🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀HELP ME TO REALLY LET GO AND ACCEPT IT FOR WHT IT IS .... SMH I NEVER ASKED TO BE HERE .... OH PLEASE PRAY FOR ALL THE ORTEZ FAMILY IN EL SALVADOR & ORTIZ FAMILY ‼️ PLEASE BROTHER FOR I AM 🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀ITS OK WE ALL HAVE TO FACE IT ONE DAY ‼️ BUT HE IS OUR VINDICATOR RIGHT WELL .... I HOPE SO ... BYE.... AND NEVER HAD LOVE FOR THE WORLD & ITS MATERIAL PEOPLE..... ALWAYS SUFFERING BUT I NEED TO COUNT IT JOY.... OH BOY PLEASE PRAY FOR ME ‼️❤️🔥
Myself
Are your standards higher than God's? If God has forgiven you... Something one of my Pastors said💗
@@DRVenard Amen
I was an atheist
1)parents/family/step family
2)ex friends
3) ex class mates
4) ex love interests/guys who asked me out
5)my self
6)ex teachers
7) neighbors
8) ex co-workers/bosses
9) current friends
10) people at my churchs
11) nannies/baby sitters my mom sent me to
METHOD REQUIRED RECIEVES FORGIVENESS ❤
1. ACKNOWLEDGE THE WRONG
2. RECOGNIZE THE OFFENSE
3. CONFESS THE WRONG UNQUALIFIED
4. DEEP FELT SORROW FOR THE WRONG
5. TURN FROM THE WRONG
6. RIGHT THE WRONG
7. ASK FOR FORGIVENESS
Amen!
I forgave someone years ago for something that happened 20 years BEFORE THAT, but try though I might, I struggled against hurt and anger on a rotating basis toward this person. I asked Jesus for help to divest myself of this cyclical fight I kept having with my emotions toward the person who hurt me. I said Lord I’ve forgiven this person!!! Please help me!! How do I get rid of this cyclical battle that is making me miserable? I want to FORGIVE FROM THE HEART like you told us to. Please help!!!!
Well, it wasn’t long after this that The Lord told me to give my half-karat set of diamond earrings to a pastor’s wife who always wanted a modest pair of diamond earrings. She told me a few months later that she had to pray IN TONGUES a really long time over these earrings before she could wear them. Finally the anger and overwhelming hurt she felt when she tried to wear the earrings left her. It was also about this time I was delivered from the anger and hurt I felt towards the person who hurt me.
I keep getting told I need to forgive and I’m trying my best, I’ve prayed and said I’ve forgave but why do i keep getting told this.. idk what I’m doing wrong
I think need to approach them and tell them that you forgave them it will help you alot , you will be free it once happened to me and the Holy spirit commanded me to let them know that I forgave them..
I think you need to approach them and tell them that you forgive them it will help you alot, it once happened to me and the holy spirit commanded me to let them know that I forgive them
Maybe the situation is still bothering you in terms of anger or other negative emotions and that comes out when u speak of that person to others. Forgiveness and letting go of those negative emotions goes hand in hand.
Incest survivor which includes childhood abortion. Talk to me about forgiveness.😮❤😊
Love the way you put it all together! Thank you! God bless you, your wife & baby Samuel. Praise God for His Holy Word!
I forgave the evil people than hurt and deceived me but I pray for justice...I deserve that, and I feel that God has forsaken me..I'm young but very broken,suicidal and hurt
So, if who I have to forgive are my parents, ( I’m an adult) can I get away from them? How do I honor them? It’s confusing to me.
It's being kind and respectful to them. Appreciate the good things they've done for you if there are any. Don't hate them, don't harbor anger in your heart. If the relationship is such that it's damaging your self worth, if they're abusing you, yes part ways with them. Just make sure you have someplace else to live first even if it's a shelter. Hope this helps.
Then what does it mean in Luke 17:3-4
Rebuke him if he sins against you, forgive him if he repents.
There are so many different teachings on this it's ridiculous , I don't know what to believe.
A good man is known by his fruit speaking the truth in love and wisdom.... Good to hear the Good news
I forgive my husband. But I cannot reconcile until he works himself into becoming a man of God. We have been married 14 years, for which 12 of them he have not worked, but has spent our savings. Since I am extremely tired, frustrated and ye a rning intimacy, I do not enjoy sex so Im willing to let it happen but with no enjoyment, hence he does not talk to me, does not share any interest with me, neither church, God, outings, nothing, continues to spend money. He spent all day playing video games and do not want to get help from a professional. He needs to find himself again. Until then, I forgive him but I wont reconcile until he is ready to be the protector and provider at home.
How to forgive? I can't let go of the pain of my father's perversion. I am 60 but haven't been able to let it go. I couldn't tell anyone because it would hurt so many people, including my grandmother. No one would have probably believed me anyway. He's gone now and I want to please God. I just don't know how to actively forgive someone who broke my trust in all people.
Here because I need forgiveness. The thing so thought I was doing right to please God were actually sinful and incredibly hurtful to those around me. I have asked forgiveness of many of these people, and some have yet to respond, though I told them they did not have to respond. However I deeply want to reconcile with them, and one individual in particular. I believe it is even God's Will that we be reconciled and am praying for that; if anyone else could pray for me as well, please do and feel free. Thank you and God bless. ❤️🙏
I really wish that God gave me and all of us the this right heart and mind and spirit and the power of the Holy Spirit to follow the command and able to do this.
What about those who cannot forgive themselves ?
We have to. Otherwise Jesus died for nothing in our case. He died so we could be forgiven. We don't want to take the grace of God in vain. If He forgives us, we don't have the right not to forgive ourselves. If we don't forgive ourselves then how could we receive the gift of salvation? What we're saying is is that we're unworthy of it. And we are. But Christ has already died for us. We don't want His suffering for us to be in vain. "You are saved by the Gospel if you hold firmly to it--unless it was for nothing that you believed." (1 Corinthians 15:2b)
Amazing I forgive my brother. 🎉😊