Nofap - A relapse does not mean all progress is lost

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
  • Relapsing on nofap does not mean that all progress is lost. Even when you relapsing, you can still make progress in your nofap journey.

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  • @paravirallinen
    @paravirallinen 3 года назад +1363

    Haven't relapsed for 55days, and my mind is crystal clear.

    • @guruucybertricks8163
      @guruucybertricks8163 3 года назад +16

      Best 39 days😳😳😳

    • @harrypotr4179
      @harrypotr4179 3 года назад +14

      @@ZenovaAurelius I need help in this case. how can I stop . I relapsed after 15 days. not happy now. can we be connect in this good deed. I need a helper who can stop me in this condition.

    • @kko9329
      @kko9329 3 года назад +5

      @@harrypotr4179 I got you!

    • @harrypotr4179
      @harrypotr4179 3 года назад +1

      @@ZenovaAurelius ol

    • @fullspeedaheadbarcelona6502
      @fullspeedaheadbarcelona6502 3 года назад +6

      Yes! Nofap is real. Keep it going!

  • @sliccbacc
    @sliccbacc 2 года назад +355

    The guiltiness after relapsing is not worth it

  • @vinih1dtdydyc357
    @vinih1dtdydyc357 3 года назад +1016

    Man, I got at day 54, my best yet, I started like 9 months ago. I just relapsed, and I was devastated, till I watch this. Thank you SO MUCH. We all can, and will change, good luck guys.

    • @brianosterman456
      @brianosterman456 3 года назад +52

      I started in earnest a handful of months ago. 7 days at first was tough. Then 14 was easy. I just did 32 and relapsed last night. While disappointed slightly that I did, I do not feel nearly as destroyed as I used to.
      Still feel largely calm and relaxed, not much anxiety like I used to have.

    • @noahrodriguez1895
      @noahrodriguez1895 2 года назад

      I have a compulsive masturbation addiction which inevitably lead to watching pornography. Even when I was done masturbating I would watch it when I was bored just to enjoy it. Every night I would come home and Masturbate it was not a choice anymore. I just had to do it every night after work. That's all I would think about. Now I am getting better I no longer do it every night. However I have been relapsing after every 15 days on average. I know I have a lot of progress to make. But this behavioral addiction is definetly getting better. I no longer watch pornography which is good. However, being controlled by a behavior is still not good. I pray and hope I will get better as these streaks get longer and longer inevitably kicking this habit out of existence. Relapse is truly part of recovery. The brain is wired to want to relapse and it's going to take lots of time to rewire it. God bless you all. Just cause you relapsed do not be ashamed. Get up and continue building longer streaks until one point you will notice you've done x amount of days and will be suprised. Just as habits took time to form it will take time to unform.

    • @jtames9040
      @jtames9040 2 года назад +8

      I wish you the best! What helped me a lot is orthodox christianity. We need to keep up the good spirit, we Always need have God in our hearts, God is everything, the truth in life which is in the Orthodox christianity religion btw. it is the original and true form of christianity that Jesus taught us when he came to earth, and you can feel God’s grace and help through the holy mysteries after baptism , repentance-confession and holy communion in the orthodox christian church, something that completely changes your life and turns you into a happier person with a meaningful life and also saves you by strengthening your bond with God. I suggest Become an orthodox christian at an orthodox christian church near you, get baptised and receive the holy spirit and live a spiritual life (repentance- confession to the priest and holy communion). This is all God wants from us and through these sacraments we will be saved 💯

    • @Lazymath007_
      @Lazymath007_ 2 года назад +5

      Is a relapse really as bad? As far as I know, you dont lose testosterone from a relapse, i still have have a good body and toned muscles expect ofcourse for that short period of time right after fapping. Also if you have noticed your body immediately refills sperms after a short while so you're ready to fap again. Therefore according to my logic a relapse doesn't make you lose benefits, it simply pauses the benefits of Nofap for that particular day of relapse. If you're on day 39 and you nut all day, you don't experience any testosterone results on day 39 so your counter goes back to day 38. I don't know maybe I am just dumb, can someone help me with this?

    • @Lazymath007_
      @Lazymath007_ 2 года назад +1

      @JustAPlant I mean I am ready to bounce back. But my main concern is to know how much benefits you really lose from a relapse

  • @TheParadiseParadox
    @TheParadiseParadox Год назад +261

    Always remember, there is a big difference between a lapse and a relapse. One lapse doesn't make a relapse. A relapse is falling back into your old habits. If you have a lapse, it can be just that. Most of the gains are maintained, especially in terms of self-control. Keep going.

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 Год назад +2

      What if I bust one time and retain for 10 is do I lose all my benefits

    • @TheParadiseParadox
      @TheParadiseParadox Год назад +1

      @@rashaadpatmon4007 10 days, 10 months or 10 years?
      Any time you practise self control, there are some effects that last. Any time you return to old habits, there are some benefits you will lose
      It also depends on the person. Some people notice a big difference very early
      Maybe you should join the subreddits... Semenretention, pureretention. Have a read through the threads and think about what you've read

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 Год назад +6

      @@TheParadiseParadox 10 days I retain for like two weeks two times and I do hundred push ups a day

    • @Kt-tp4en
      @Kt-tp4en 8 месяцев назад +2

      💯💯🦾

    • @iambversamusic
      @iambversamusic Месяц назад +1

      Agreed!

  • @harshx1691
    @harshx1691 3 года назад +512

    I got to day 118, and relapsed. Was feeling down. Thank you for this. I'm starting strong over again

    • @bitron985
      @bitron985 2 года назад +7

      How its going now?

    • @harshx297
      @harshx297 2 года назад +49

      @@bitron985 Well, it's going up and down... I've learnt that it's much easier if you don't think about it at all and focus all your energy into something productive.

    • @doomslayer8431
      @doomslayer8431 2 года назад +4

      11 days for me

    • @onickislive5927
      @onickislive5927 2 года назад +15

      Replased on my 15th day it actually hurts 😔

    • @onickislive5927
      @onickislive5927 2 года назад +1

      Any motivation for me?

  • @g.vairavandinesh2415
    @g.vairavandinesh2415 3 года назад +282

    I relapsed after 12 days, but I didn't felt any guilt feel like before. I'm starting now 💪💪

    • @m1ghty_angel530
      @m1ghty_angel530 2 года назад +2

      How's it going :P

    • @topflight9182
      @topflight9182 2 года назад +41

      @@m1ghty_angel530 bro beating tf out his shi LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO

    • @licioussamuels
      @licioussamuels 2 года назад +1

      @@topflight9182 Lol 😂😂

    • @manzoor2378
      @manzoor2378 2 года назад +1

      Man I lost in couple of min ago

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 года назад +2

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

  • @averagejoe2043
    @averagejoe2043 Год назад +75

    Just relapsed after 3-4 months of staying clean. It's a process that takes time and I'm grateful that I have come this far in my self discipline. As Thomas Wayne told his son Bruce: "Why do we fall? So that we can learn to pick ourselves up."

    • @zapataboy9377
      @zapataboy9377 Год назад +4

      I thought about that too while watching this video

    • @JB-zv5cf
      @JB-zv5cf Месяц назад +1

      Same here, around 120 Days and i relapsed ... it FEELS like all for nothing in your mind but physically it did pretty much nothing

  • @matthewmayfield8095
    @matthewmayfield8095 2 года назад +316

    I relapsed yesterday.. pretty bad. 3 times in a day. It was like everything gave me the urge. I’m grateful for it actually. The guilt made it hard to sleep, which made me miss my alarm, no 4am workout, no journaling, no meditation, etc, late for work which threw off my whole morning. I caught myself in this low frequency and could only smile and look up with gratitude because atleast now I know the path and I see it clearly which I didn’t before yesterday. Day 1, LETS GO!!

    • @adrianarevalo9926
      @adrianarevalo9926 2 года назад +9

      I relapsed today bro…. 3 times to be exact after almost 50 days, I feel like crap about it like maybe if it was just once I wouldn’t feel as bad but 3 times! Finding the motivation to keep going is hard, like all my progress has been lost

    • @matthewmayfield8095
      @matthewmayfield8095 2 года назад +5

      Wow! 50 days is impressive. Congratulations on that feat my friend. You just need a few days of momentum and you’ll be back in it. I know the feeling and I think we all know exactly what you’re feeling. It’s such a low frequency I found out about “conscious connection” and it has helped me. Every morning I reassure myself that I won’t drink or fap no matter what. Just know you’re experiencing what everyone who’s relapsed experiences but 50 days will come again before you know it and you can resort back to how this feeling was by writing it down, making a video of yourself right now talking about how disgusting you feel. It’s worked for me. Good luck brother. Let us know how it goes 🙏

    • @adrianarevalo9926
      @adrianarevalo9926 2 года назад +2

      @@matthewmayfield8095 thanks bro I appreciate it!! I really felt like I had to get it off my chest. I need to start writing things down more and like you said have that mental conscious connection to control my mind more and get in touch with myself cause after the relapse I felt so disassociated. Thanks for the tips!

    • @timgrinxx7068
      @timgrinxx7068 2 года назад +10

      @@adrianarevalo9926 I relapsed today after a 5 month streak. This video has me looking at it in a different perspective. I wish It didn't happen but I can't change the past. I'm actually proud of myself for making it this far. I've never gone this far without releasing. Time to get back to the grind with a brand new perspective. 💪

    • @adrianarevalo9926
      @adrianarevalo9926 2 года назад +3

      @@timgrinxx7068 for sure man!!! 5 months that’s insane I can’t wait to get there! And after that relapse I picked myself up real quick and kept pushing on. This biggest struggle with my nofap journey so far isn’t just the temptation but the flatline! Especially with everything I’m doing in life trying to become a real estate agent it’s hard to think with the 24/7 brain fog and all the other withdrawal effects, but I’m still pushing! But kudos to you bro keep it up we all gon make it!

  • @fredwarren8190
    @fredwarren8190 2 года назад +111

    Once you relapse, understand that it is your mind set that determines how you feel! When you relapse you don’t lose the benefits that you acquired. AS A MAN THINKETH SO IS HE! Remember no human is perfect! When we fail, we learn, it’s the only way to move forward! STOP GOING SO HARD ON YOURSELF! It’s a mindset! after you relapse think of the positive results that you have gained I guarantee that your energy level will remain high! It’s all in the mind. If you only relapse once that’s fine. You only get tired if you have sex multiple times in a day / week! Releasing just once every month will not deplete you from the knowledge, wisdom, and understanding you have gained. You energy becomes stagnant when you have sex back to back more that time in a day/ week. Your body loses its vitamins, nutrients, zinc, ect when you constantly release, that is why most men feel so tired. One way to combat that is to jump in some cold water, read, workout to gain the lost energy back, and remain focused.

    • @TEOMITTAS
      @TEOMITTAS 2 года назад +8

      Bro I can’t thank you enough for this 🥹

    • @darren6147-e8c
      @darren6147-e8c Год назад +7

      Great advice bro
      I'm on day 28 and relapsed
      Screw it Man LoL
      I'ma jus Carry on as per usual simple

    • @Karl_95
      @Karl_95 Год назад +1

      I appreciate this.thank you.

    • @ChasTheCoolCat
      @ChasTheCoolCat Год назад

      Thank you my brother in Christ, we might have lost this small battle but we haven't lost the WAR!!!

    • @iambversamusic
      @iambversamusic Месяц назад

      AMEN! I felt that I kept all my progress but none much. I feel like its easier to get back up and keep going whereas in past you just fall and fall and feel bad about self ⬆️

  • @Sirfredo_
    @Sirfredo_ Год назад +142

    Made it 18 days, not a lot to many but meant everything to me hitting that new milestone. Thankfully I didn’t feel mentally physically drained . I Will reboot tomorrow & start over 💪🏽

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 Год назад +10

      Let's go how far you made it

    • @rishiadittya6626
      @rishiadittya6626 9 месяцев назад

      Made uit till 20 days it was tough for me

    • @Money0120
      @Money0120 7 месяцев назад

      That's literally how far I went at 18 days. Afterwards I didn't feel drained either.

    • @carloclearwater7253
      @carloclearwater7253 2 месяца назад

      @@rishiadittya6626same here. And just slipped up after 8 days😔

  • @LowBishoop
    @LowBishoop Год назад +30

    I was on my day 9 and i relapsed, i felt guilty, stupid and sad, almost depressed, but i seen this video and the other people's experiences and motivation came back. We will relapse sooner or later but we gonna win my brothers. 💪💪

    • @jayparshuram1464
      @jayparshuram1464 9 месяцев назад

      Same here bro relapsed at 8 day

    • @greencam8572
      @greencam8572 8 месяцев назад

      ​@jayparshuram1464 just relapsed man day 8 I've been on 5 days streaks but this time made it to 8 but my problem was I was so fking angry I needed to release it with some sort of hard exercise like boxing
      Feel crap but not as much as past few weeks as i learned a lesson there

    • @rustine07rr3
      @rustine07rr3 8 месяцев назад

      I recently relapsed, fighting urges as it all breaks, i lost fighting, but previous days i overcame urges, it's progress for me, i relapsed today, but that gave me a lesson, i used to be addicted to watching p*rn like fapping 10 times in a single day, but this new year 2024, last time i fapped is jan 1, and did nofap for 8 days straight, it's jan 10 rn, and i lost, at 12:47 am, but now i'm motivated to try working out and running and keep growing without fapping, 8 days for me is a very great achievement, my only limit is 2 days with nofap, 8 days is a slightly better improvement for me. That motivated me to resist urges, i also deleted tiktok because every trigger comes from that app. It's a start, but i'm starting to glow up more and more.

    • @manukharvi294
      @manukharvi294 4 месяца назад +1

      Bro what does mean relapse?????

    • @Godwinsouls
      @Godwinsouls 28 дней назад

      Got to day 20, my best is 23, feeling sad and unhappy, put i will start tomorrow again, praying for all of us 🙏

  • @suhaibkhan9401
    @suhaibkhan9401 2 года назад +27

    149 days and relapse 😭😭😭 that regret 😭😭😭 thoes good old days 😭😭😭 but am gonna comeback stronger 🔥 for everyone out there mindset is everything and this is what I learned in my 149 days streak so keep going.

    • @CrystalPlayer739
      @CrystalPlayer739 6 месяцев назад +2

      Hello ,I broke a 218 days myself ,how are you now?

    • @moments1590
      @moments1590 5 месяцев назад

      i broke a 1 week streak what do i do i cant make it to a month@@CrystalPlayer739

    • @AyushVerma71919
      @AyushVerma71919 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@CrystalPlayer739bro please help me 😭🙏 I'm accidentally broke my no fap streak after 1year long streak can i have to restart my nofap journey again im feeling guilty today 😭

    • @sanemi360
      @sanemi360 2 месяца назад +1

      I​@@CrystalPlayer739i broke.
      224 .. and i masterbated 2 days straight but iam not counting these days and just starting over..
      Fck this shit.....

  • @thereisnoiintheteam8475
    @thereisnoiintheteam8475 2 года назад +45

    After 8 months of hard mode streak, i relapsed for a stupid reason, and I have been on NoFAP since more than 6 years....This made me so depressed and full of shame and guilt and anger....but i must say that this video made me more optimisic by allowing me to see things in a positive way: true! My relapses are.much much better ..! GOD bless all the NoFAP fighters ..I love you and I understand how addiction is bad.. We should do something about all these websites that are destroying yoing children and adolescents and ruining their lives

  • @mundea
    @mundea 3 года назад +52

    A day when Rob uploads is always a good day

  • @lawliet.01
    @lawliet.01 2 года назад +160

    6 months and just broke my streak, but I'm going to be even more focused. I know myself very well now . Wish the same for you all ❤️

    • @vegezada2117
      @vegezada2117 2 года назад +3

      Same bro how is it going?

    • @Mkathet1m
      @Mkathet1m 2 года назад +8

      Just... relapsed after 100 days felt very bad 😞😔

    • @kiyoshi9825
      @kiyoshi9825 2 года назад +6

      @@Mkathet1msame... I also relapsed today after 111 days....it just sucks

    • @doomslayer8431
      @doomslayer8431 2 года назад +1

      I got 11 days but it felt like an eternity

    • @doomslayer8431
      @doomslayer8431 2 года назад

      Wait L, you’re still alive?

  • @seanm996
    @seanm996 2 года назад +187

    I've been trying NoFap for 6 years, still relapse occasionally, but also made improvements in most areas of life. It's often challenging to appreciate the overall progress when we slip up and focus on the negative. But the way you explain things here is really helpful to have perspective and keep going!

  • @rafsanabedinrifan8967
    @rafsanabedinrifan8967 Год назад +28

    Relapsed just on day 7,felt so low but glad I had some insight from you.Thank you

  • @josedejesuszaragoza3246
    @josedejesuszaragoza3246 2 года назад +43

    I was on a 70 day streak and just relapsed yesterday. I was putting my self down but thx to your vide I feel better. Next streak will be 140 days or more

  • @amg3601
    @amg3601 2 года назад +12

    Thanks bro ❤️
    After 140 days i relapsed too many times
    But now i will make it
    Love from India ❤️

  • @guillermocanjura3294
    @guillermocanjura3294 3 года назад +47

    You're absolutely right. i been doing nofap for about a month now. of course I relapsed, but I can feel that all the negative things of being addicted to porn are gradually disappearing. thank you for the motivation, keep the good work in this channel, you're helping a lot of us.

  • @pratikwaghmare9032
    @pratikwaghmare9032 2 года назад +20

    Man I relapsed after about 600+ days, and it felt terrible, but after your wise perspectives I am good to go!!
    I have deep faith in God, may be He will bring something great out of this too!!

    • @siddheshsrinivasan8818
      @siddheshsrinivasan8818 6 месяцев назад

      stay hard king

    • @monkmode9853
      @monkmode9853 2 месяца назад

      Day 600 wow..
      You still feel guilt?

    • @pratikwaghmare9032
      @pratikwaghmare9032 2 месяца назад

      @@monkmode9853 I relapsed for almost 90 days bro (2-3 days and drop),then I made peace with it and told myself it's okay and kept working on my business fap or no fap. I kept praying and now I am back 130 days strong approx( not counting).
      My lesson: No fap is better but keep on grinding otherwise too. Then we slowly rise above it.

    • @studyrj404
      @studyrj404 4 дня назад

      466 here

  • @PaulNecula
    @PaulNecula 5 месяцев назад +9

    I have lost my first and only nofap streak after 2 months.
    I can honestly say that there is no shame, yes i feel bad about losing the streak but I managed to go 2 months knowing before I was doing it everyday and I am proud of myself.

    • @dddudespark
      @dddudespark 3 месяца назад

      Bluddy can't even do 90 days 💀

    • @PaulNecula
      @PaulNecula 3 месяца назад

      @@dddudespark 💀

    • @dddudespark
      @dddudespark 3 месяца назад

      @@PaulNecula 💀

    • @dddudespark
      @dddudespark 3 месяца назад +1

      That's why I'm here to motivate! ;)

  • @survivalviktor5593
    @survivalviktor5593 2 года назад +8

    Im on day 27, urges are strong, but im stronger! God bless You and your families!

  • @Z-A-C
    @Z-A-C 2 года назад +49

    I relapsed on day 18… whoopsie. Minor setback, but I don’t feel drained at all. I still feel great

    • @user-yr1py
      @user-yr1py 2 года назад +2

      Me too but at day 21 I relapsed today

    • @glossyg1102
      @glossyg1102 2 года назад +5

      @@user-yr1py me but 22 days 🤣 shii is not easy at all but those 3 weeks were amazing

    • @user-yr1py
      @user-yr1py 2 года назад +5

      @@glossyg1102 haha it’s not easy man as a matter a fact this is my 19 day on semen retention and hey man what I’ve noticed is that the longer you hold the more you get closer to your achievements in life you feel the luxury coming

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 года назад +3

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

    • @Z-A-C
      @Z-A-C 2 года назад +5

      @@HarmzConscious back here again after making it 2 weeks on a new streak. I relapsed after getting passed 14 days. I’m not gonna remove my day count.
      But I am going to keep track of how many times I relapse. Let’s say I get to 30 days but I only relapsed once within those 30 days. That’s still 29 days of retaining and that’s a lot of progress. This will help me keep moving forward whilst also trying my best to stick to retaining. Resetting day count really demotivates me from doing it all over again so not resetting the day count helps a ton.

  • @jeffery3613
    @jeffery3613 Год назад +14

    i got to day 60 but relapsed, i was feeling like shit till i saw this video and made me realise that its not over yet and i can still get up (good luck to whoever will be reading this)

    • @paravkahol7948
      @paravkahol7948 Год назад +3

      I too relapsed after 60 days today. Comment section made me feel better, i hope you break 60 day record power to you 💪

    • @zaineadorin872
      @zaineadorin872 Год назад +2

      I relapsed in day 30

  • @flori4n268
    @flori4n268 3 года назад +48

    I’m only at the beginning of my journey, and for me the best feeling ,is that I am aware of what was wrong with me all this years. You are really good, and your videos actually makes sense.

  • @lucaszavaluentie4855
    @lucaszavaluentie4855 2 года назад +10

    My best was 4 days and I relapsed today. This video got in my recommended just in time. Thank you.

  • @keelee969
    @keelee969 2 года назад +14

    Shit i started in August 4 2021 and relapsed January 10 2022 i was so scared but thanks to you i know all my process isn’t gone :)

  • @spooderaumg1188
    @spooderaumg1188 Год назад +15

    I was on 8 day streak and I did it I felt like I was lost this video is so good made me realize that I’ll be stronger and I’ll have a bigger streak this time I’m going for a month without wish me luck guys

  • @NewRealityPill
    @NewRealityPill 5 месяцев назад +1

    I will not use this video as an OK for relapsing, but rather as a motivation knowing that the benefits of NOT relapsing are SO GREAT, because progress is not lost EVEN WHEN RELAPSING!
    Peace unto you my brother in spirit!

  • @vektor7780
    @vektor7780 Год назад +6

    I failed today on the 46th day. I think I already got rid of the addiction because I go to the gym regularly, work hard towards my goals and not give myself time to think about this. Thanks for the help.

  • @rushgaming7320
    @rushgaming7320 3 года назад +11

    Relapsed after 116 days feeling too bad .this video' motivated me thanks brother

    • @andrejromic99
      @andrejromic99 3 года назад +4

      Bro i only accomplished 30 days and felt horrible. Dont put such pressure on yourself. You are at a godlike point where i dont know if i can even reach as many days.

  • @user-ot9gh8fj7g
    @user-ot9gh8fj7g Месяц назад +2

    RELAPSED TWO TIMES TODAY!Such a shame!PLS FORGIVE ME EVERYONE ...This time I won't quit...

  • @TjohnBL
    @TjohnBL Год назад +3

    I relapsed today. But this time, i learned a lot about the situation that led to my relapse and now i can accurately update my strategy to counter and win against the trigger. But i am happy that i even reached this long when i couldn't even reach up to 3 days before.
    Within the 34 days, i have been surrendering my trigers and urges and with some miracle, i didn't experience so much urges unlike before. But on the 34th day after seeing a very enticing image from facebook, my mind was just wild and i didn't know how to counter that yet. But now i know.
    This is not the end, nor a huge failure. This is just a battle. Retreat, re-strategize, and fight for longer! We can do this kings!

  • @lofibeats1512
    @lofibeats1512 5 месяцев назад +1

    Relapsed today after around three weeks, however it's my first time trying this journey and i felt defeated by my urge until i saw this video that helped me realize that relapsing is sometimes part of the process. As the saying goes, you can't escape from place you never been. I have been to place of defeat, now i learned from my mistake and I'm even more motivated to keep going. Thank you for this video, it was really helpful. Best regards. :)

  • @Ancientknowledge
    @Ancientknowledge 2 года назад +7

    Relapsed at day 98 thanks for the encouragement! Been battling this addiction my entire life and I keep getting farther and father away from porn.

  • @renubaro-4778
    @renubaro-4778 Год назад +12

    Relapsed after 133 days in March
    .. After that having a hard time continuing 😭.. From today I will start again 💪 stay strong fellas we all can do it..

    • @Himricks
      @Himricks Год назад

      Stay strong buddy , you got this buddy ❤️

    • @raymondlealjr.2348
      @raymondlealjr.2348 Год назад

      Same here was on 135 i felt so horrible afterwards i jus wanted to stay in bed but im back now barley day 9 but its time to let that crap go fr this time.

    • @koreanpopcorn18
      @koreanpopcorn18 Год назад

      I failed 160 days in… just happened today. But tbh I don’t mind starting over again

    • @The4ortunateOne
      @The4ortunateOne Год назад +1

      Its alright man i relapsed to recently but we come back stronger 💪

    • @kmgn31psvm
      @kmgn31psvm Год назад +3

      strong spiritual journey for 4 years, relapsed 2023 need to catch again and i can understand you

  • @justgivemeonesec
    @justgivemeonesec Год назад +17

    started august 7th, relapsed today after having a bad day. definitely one of the harder days ive had in a while. to put it simply, i was in a bad mental state and the urges got the best of me. i don’t feel as bad as i was expecting. i kinda just accepted the mistake i did and im gonna keep moving on w my life and make sure i learn from this.

    • @teodortodorov1662
      @teodortodorov1662 Год назад

      I started 10th September and relapsed today! I tried as hard as I could to not lose all of my semen and I think I lost like 1/3 of my seeds, so I gonna say I lost like 45 days of progress, but I will start tomorrow stronger than ever. I will take a lesson by my mistake.

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 Год назад +1

      Don't give up I relapsed in coming back keep edging your gonna relapse but let's stay focus on going on monk mode for the next 3 months no distractions

    • @beingahealthiermakesaperso9726
      @beingahealthiermakesaperso9726 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@rashaadpatmon4007ok edging also tends to relapse?

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 6 месяцев назад

      @@beingahealthiermakesaperso9726 yes of course your tempted to do it again if your not edging you won’t do it again I’m day 5 I been losing years of energy never build it up it’s time to be more disciplined this year

  • @johnstonyt4140
    @johnstonyt4140 Год назад +4

    Day 9 might see like nothing but if you compare it to me last year I have made massive progress. Keep on going Kings, we will succede.

  • @Pjoki
    @Pjoki 2 года назад +29

    Just relapsed after my first try, 28 days. Thank you Rob for this video helped a lot :)

    • @mynameismegaman8654
      @mynameismegaman8654 2 года назад +1

      I relapsed after 21 days 😒

    • @nicolasgraduel4520
      @nicolasgraduel4520 2 года назад +2

      I just relapsed after 27 days 🥲

    • @Pjoki
      @Pjoki 2 года назад

      @@nicolasgraduel4520 Don't feel sad bro that's great! Watch this video it will change how you look at NoFap streaks. ruclips.net/video/7RF9m5fksbg-/видео.html

    • @Quickz221
      @Quickz221 2 года назад +2

      It took a while to get to day 28 at first I couldn't even go past day 4 now I feel like I can go forever my energy and momentum is unbelievable even after 3 relapses after day 28 and day 13 again you just keep going and going no matter how many times you Relapse never count you're days until you Relapse but I really think we all need a women who will appreciate our Relapses at the end otherwise I just feel like it's a waste
      Age 28 I feel like I'm a happy as when I was in my teens

    • @Oucho29
      @Oucho29 2 года назад +2

      I relapsed in day 27😿😿
      But i will overcome my porn addiction

  • @user-lj1yz1sf8p
    @user-lj1yz1sf8p 6 месяцев назад +1

    Man i got in day 30 and relapse again but i watched your video, i realized that relapsing is not bad, it is part of our journey, keep going.

  • @amincherif3838
    @amincherif3838 10 месяцев назад +2

    Watched this Video after hitting a 30 day streak and relapsing. I was devastated because I felt like I lost everything.. Feeling much better now. So thank you 🙏
    Learning to forgive yourself is definitely the hardest part about this journey.

  • @m.h6858
    @m.h6858 10 месяцев назад +1

    I'm not sure how I got here, nor what addiction he has, but I just relapsed from my celibacy journey, and this video has helped me to feel better about, so for that, I thank you!😢🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @heartlesshuncho5160
    @heartlesshuncho5160 Год назад +7

    When I was in college, I would easily relapse about 6 to 10 times a week. I was definitely at my worst at this point. That was 2016-2018. And now currently, I only relapse about 4 times a month sometimes just once or twice. This definitely takes time to get rid of. I've been addicted since the 7th grade. It's slowly fading away but that guilt still hits me hard sometimes. But it makes me happy to see that I've made huge progress over the years.

  • @spl8267
    @spl8267 2 месяца назад +2

    Haven't relapsed ever since June 2nd. Might just be my biggest streak yet, and I plan on keeping it that way, thats for sure.

  • @mundea
    @mundea 3 года назад +26

    I am on day 6 of retention, going strong

    • @thamaraimanalan5004
      @thamaraimanalan5004 3 года назад +4

      Best wishes to cross 250 days

    • @reydentapales81
      @reydentapales81 3 года назад

      Can I ask what is retention sir?is it different in nofap?sorry first to hear retention,how it works?

    • @Rustinpeace25
      @Rustinpeace25 2 года назад

      @@reydentapales81 the act of not ejaculating

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 года назад

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

  • @tejasnaik3144
    @tejasnaik3144 Месяц назад

    I relapsed after 5 months and
    Make me little sad that’s why I came to watch this video and it is helping me again to start my SR journey again Thanks for the video brother ❤

  • @Ronnied74
    @Ronnied74 2 года назад +24

    I relapsed after day 22 of nofap and I felt defeated but after watching your video I feel like I'm ready to go forward again and attempt another 30 day challenge of nofap.
    Thank you for your video.
    U inspired me to continue the fight and win this war.

  • @frankjoseph6071
    @frankjoseph6071 2 года назад +6

    been doing this for 8 years. it hasn't been a perfect journey, but he is right. i relapse about once a month verses every few days in the early years

  • @KRYPTOKINGGAMING
    @KRYPTOKINGGAMING Год назад +63

    I am an alcoholic, and I am on the wrong video.

    • @M5Ak
      @M5Ak 5 месяцев назад +13

      Maybe not

    • @GG-gw9oo
      @GG-gw9oo 4 месяца назад +6

      Nah bro

  • @anodiwanyabadza2255
    @anodiwanyabadza2255 Год назад +3

    I just relapsed after 10 days and felt like shit until I saw this. I see it like a season for a team you win but when you lose you pick yourself up and comeback stronger 💯💯

    • @soraxd1455
      @soraxd1455 Год назад

      Same I relapse today Day 11 suck

  • @lmaooaml5804
    @lmaooaml5804 2 года назад +5

    1 year and 3 month clean , I'm a beast in gym now 💪

  • @self-improvement..
    @self-improvement.. Год назад +2

    I relapsed tonight, ended punching myself in the face a few times for it. thank you tho, it's part of the process of becoming better. 🤝

    • @tyylerdavis
      @tyylerdavis Год назад

      Same just happend to me sexual demons are real

    • @self-improvement..
      @self-improvement.. Год назад +1

      @@tyylerdavis u punched urself too lol?

  • @vvs4120
    @vvs4120 Год назад +5

    In the end it's not always about the days you count, it's about how we become a better person afterwards.

  • @petarbaglic9721
    @petarbaglic9721 Год назад +1

    thank you for this,i relapsed today after 16months,,going stroooong again tomorow,wish you best luck God bless ya all!!

  • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953
    @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 Год назад +7

    I haven't fapped for 13 days, and then i relapsed. I felt down and mad at myself, but this video made me stay strong.

    • @djswirley
      @djswirley Год назад

      Yeah man I am pissed off with my self bro , I was on week 4 but I had a wet dream the other week on week 2 and then last night I had a wet dream and when I woke up I relapsed I was just pissed I release all the semen whilst sleeping , but honestly man I am going again , that was my longest streak , it just sucks that I am back on day 0 , it really does make you feel good the no fap , I am so pissed :(

    • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953
      @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 Год назад +1

      @@djswirley On what day you were before day 0 of Nofap

    • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953
      @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 Год назад +1

      @@djswirley Also, do you have intrusive thoughts? I mean OCD

    • @djswirley
      @djswirley Год назад

      @@bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 I was on day 28 :( now I am on day 1 :( and yeah it definitely fucks with my brain when I no fap, I can’t relapse any more man it fucks with me so much , and I am also getting hair loss aswell and no fap really helps with the hair so I will continue this journey forever

    • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953
      @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 Год назад

      @@djswirley If you were on day 28, that doesn't mean you go back to day 0. Count yourself on day 14

  • @Youlookgoodfr
    @Youlookgoodfr 17 дней назад +1

    From this day i won't relapse.. I promise.. I will come back after i complete my 100days no fp!🤝

  • @amlaanbhattacharjee8001
    @amlaanbhattacharjee8001 3 года назад +6

    Very true. It is the process that makes us happy. Let's grow together brother. Inspired

  • @Withinreasonandlogic
    @Withinreasonandlogic 2 года назад +6

    I did after a month and 1 week, i feel as if i have a hangover. I feel slowed and numb. Its a negative feeling. But im determined as well. Thanks brother

  • @steadfastmusic7660
    @steadfastmusic7660 2 года назад +4

    It's my 66th day and meanwhile I had to encounter the relapse posed to step in the threshold of my nofap but I have been fortunate to have people like u who help us heal with it 🙌❤️

  • @gm-gamingmusic5127
    @gm-gamingmusic5127 3 месяца назад +2

    lost my 200day streak soldiers i will come back even stronger

  • @BreakingKenjamin
    @BreakingKenjamin Год назад +3

    All I can say is that after a few relapses I have at least reduce my addiction. I use to fap every morning which got me late to work, school, or whatever. Now it's not really in my way, I got some things done and such and it feels good doing physical and productive things. I still have a long way to go!

  • @anhochi4429
    @anhochi4429 Год назад +1

    thank you so much for your videos, I have just relapse and i feel so much disappointed, I will try again, moving toward our goal make us happy.

  • @arunbabu450
    @arunbabu450 3 года назад +15

    Thanks for the motivation trying to keep going after my relapse yesterday

  • @rajneeshgupta330
    @rajneeshgupta330 Год назад +2

    I got to day 301 then relapsed, Feeling fucked up And dipressed, I just badly broked my streak about x8 continuously from 5 days Don't know what is going on, My mind is not even urging but still from the subconscious it's all happening..... Now started again Now this time I will Be a Top G,,,,, 🙏🏻

  • @diegoassam2005
    @diegoassam2005 3 года назад +18

    You always make me feel happy motivated and calm ! So I want to thank you very much for these videos cause they help me change my life 😎✌🏻

  • @samcanner2184
    @samcanner2184 Месяц назад +1

    Day 46 relapsed, I was feeling absolutely gutted and felt like I had lost all of my progress. But then I remembered I used to masterbate 2-3 times a day every day for 3years and in 46 days I had only done it once. This gave me the motivation to not be disheartens and carry on my journey to become a more confident male. I would reccomend to all of the people watching this video now that’s are in the same position as me to reflect on how far you have come and and remeber what your were like and how you are now this will help you picture how far you have come and changed as person.

  • @carltonsoo829
    @carltonsoo829 3 месяца назад

    Oh God thank you for making this video! I was like 70 days in and was having a really bad week at work and just caved in. I felt horrible today and wanted to beat myself up! Thank you so much once again for making this video. Picked myself back up and to the nofap journey here we go! 🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥.

  • @neetaspirant8811
    @neetaspirant8811 3 года назад +7

    Thank U So Much Sir...!
    You are providing light in my dark journey....🙏

  • @rahom.v
    @rahom.v Год назад +2

    Thank you master,
    i just relapsed after 2 month streak and feel regret and pain (why i do it!!)
    but this video help me alot.
    i will never stop chasing my goals✨🌞

    • @rebeccacruz4153
      @rebeccacruz4153 Год назад +1

      Same bro it's frustrating 😅

    • @rahom.v
      @rahom.v Год назад

      @@rebeccacruz4153 I recently signed up for the gym, and I will do the best for my life to develop and strive to reach the maximum limits.
      i hope you do the same sis🗿✨

    • @rahom.v
      @rahom.v Год назад

      @@rebeccacruz4153 I recently signed up for the gym, and I will do the best for my life to develop and strive to reach the maximum limits.
      i hope you do the same sis🗿✨

  • @Dinesh-ub7yi
    @Dinesh-ub7yi 2 года назад +4

    this came in clutch 😤🔥

  • @Ferjay45
    @Ferjay45 2 года назад +7

    Every time I last 5 days plus I don’t feel as bad, I only feel guilty when I do it again in the same day

  • @Roquea.207
    @Roquea.207 2 года назад +3

    Just relapsed an hour ago feel guilty and undisciplined but the temptation was so strong that couldn’t even sleep this night ,just 8 days and I’ve been so clear in the mind and with such energy that this past July 4 almost get me a beautiful young good quality future girlfriend through a social group
    Now I’ve lost that energy and I can sense it ,I’m starting over again

  • @buddy470
    @buddy470 5 месяцев назад +7

    i am in 264+ days and still going before this i relapsed 3 times

  • @joesamaha7287
    @joesamaha7287 Год назад +15

    I started no fap last week and...today I relapsed...I was so proud of myself because I usually did 2-3 times a day and I wasn't able to hold the urges more than one day, and this time I was able to hold it for 7 days and lost it all

    • @trillion8208
      @trillion8208 Год назад +2

      I was the same bro, 2/3 times a day everyday. You’ve got to remember it’s an extreme addiction that we’re facing. We’re going to relapse.

  • @auups5047
    @auups5047 3 года назад +18

    You explain it so calmly and clearly man. I always love your videos. I actually have been relapsing quite often now cause my relationship got so bad all of a sudden for no fucking reason and I'm taking help of p and I know it's bad cause I've been on the streaks for well over 3 months without a single relapse but after that relapses have been bombarding in the journey. I'm still hopeful and by this year ends, I'm going to make it. Let's grow stronger together.

  • @brickhandle1577
    @brickhandle1577 2 года назад +10

    My best this year was 33 days then I just relapsed on a 19 day streak. Not beating myself up just gonna keep going and do my best

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 года назад

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

    • @daniyaaal1411
      @daniyaaal1411 2 года назад +1

      My Best streak was 3 weeks. i just relapsed now but i will not give up. Keep going brozzers

  • @worldmapyt4321
    @worldmapyt4321 4 месяца назад +2

    When I have started I have failed in a few days but now I relapsed after 36 days.

  • @al-mashhoorbharwafrom3755
    @al-mashhoorbharwafrom3755 2 года назад +3

    It Was My 8th Day And I Relapsed 😞 But Brother Ur Video Is Helping Me Alot And I Will Come Again With More Power💪 Because Noting is Impossible❤️🔥

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 года назад +1

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

  • @sadaesthetic7598
    @sadaesthetic7598 2 года назад +1

    Sadly I relapse today after 2 months and 11 days, i instantly search something to put me on my feet again thanks man,
    Good luck guys keep up

  • @chiragsoni8630
    @chiragsoni8630 3 года назад +26

    Relapsed after a 146 day streak, starting again from tomorrow.

    • @Cr7dos_santos
      @Cr7dos_santos 3 года назад +5

      Oh my God i thought when u reach these days u can't relapse

    • @soultheconfusing9563
      @soultheconfusing9563 3 года назад +1

      If I may can I ask what caused it? People always say nofap gets easier if u stick to it if that’s the case how come people like u relapse after such a long streak?

    • @chiragsoni8630
      @chiragsoni8630 3 года назад +4

      @@soultheconfusing9563 I skipped my workout for a whole week followed by a lot of urges to relapse. I kept on convincing myself to continue and watch a movie to distract myself but then for some reason I wasn't able to that's it I was frustrated and it was over.

    • @chiragsoni8630
      @chiragsoni8630 3 года назад +8

      @@Cr7dos_santos Yeah even I thought that I am out of this. But see, after staying clean for nearly five months and then relapsing was a huge wake up call for me. I realised that these urges in the form of thoughts and certain images in mind is nothing but an energy, too powerful to be controlled instead we should learn to transform this energy to productive uses like exercising, meditation, reading a book or anything. Personally, for me exercise made it a lot easier to achieve such a long streak and once I took a break from workout , I was back to the old roots resulting in me relapsing. Please learn from my mistake, keep exercising and you will be out of this in no time. Good luck to all.

    • @Cr7dos_santos
      @Cr7dos_santos 3 года назад +1

      @@chiragsoni8630 thanks alot bro ..so it's all about getting busy ...five month run i have never seen it in my life bro you're great...i always relapse on the third week
      My addiction is in 9years very hard to break

  • @A22Wien
    @A22Wien Год назад +2

    I relapsed today, after 5 months of this spirtual journey I am disapointed in myself but I understand that through trial and error, eventually I will build a foundation to keep my mind afloat and survive this addiction. I wish everyone this journey luck and hope that your minds are strong and clear. Remember: Rome wasn't built in a day.

  • @markmason7934
    @markmason7934 2 года назад +10

    I just relapsed I feel like an idiot I should've closed the tabs when I had the damn chance

    • @c3s203
      @c3s203 2 года назад +2

      Same here .. im relapse today

  • @PankajKajal-kl1eg
    @PankajKajal-kl1eg 2 месяца назад +1

    I relapses after 18th day.... I am making this longer now.. Will Work on it.... Again... I am going to start this challenge again thank you..

  • @arthurmorgan9436
    @arthurmorgan9436 2 года назад +7

    Thanks Rob, I just relapsed, at first I felt really and I mean REALLY bad.
    Now that I've seen your video, i am proud and reliefed.

  • @-umnica-
    @-umnica- Год назад +1

    Lmao I haven't beat any for a few months and the next hour after I did it google finds this video appropriate for me to show, when I had literally zero nofap content for the last month in my feed
    I am good, won't relapse again, don't worry :)

  • @mirza4gaming403
    @mirza4gaming403 2 года назад +10

    I promised myself but still relapsed after 50 days 😞 feeling quite guilty. I'm starting again and will be proud of myself again!

    • @sadaesthetic7598
      @sadaesthetic7598 2 года назад +2

      You go champ, ovoid anything sexaul in social media or staring at women u lest longer brother

  • @gezzx1058
    @gezzx1058 Год назад +2

    It's been nearly 80 days 😔, I relapsed today, I'm super pissed but this video is helping a lot

  • @SithGod
    @SithGod 2 года назад +6

    For the last time. NoFap doesn’t mean Semen Retention. It’s no porn and no masturbation . Okay. Why is this so hard for everybody to understand?

  • @classicbucket9077
    @classicbucket9077 Год назад +1

    Dude thank you, ive been strugging with how to view relapsing and you really changed my way of seeing things, your an inspiration to anyone trying to stop this disease.

  • @hemchandrasawant6761
    @hemchandrasawant6761 3 года назад +16

    See this is what happens when you relapse; you start calling 'process' to 'progress' 😬

  • @MOART
    @MOART Год назад +1

    This man have a great mentality just like his great jawline 🔥🐺

  • @TheUnbotheredTexan
    @TheUnbotheredTexan 2 года назад +20

    Just relapsed on day 11th, feels so bad. I FEEL like I chose fap more than my goal, because I had a chance to choose to watch a nofap relapse proof video like I did on other days but I just stay awayed from it 😫
    But thank God, and your channel. It feels like I'm still counting my nofap journey it's just one day doesn't mean it's the whole progress.

    • @TheUnbotheredTexan
      @TheUnbotheredTexan 2 года назад

      I couldn't believe, 4 months ago I made it back on day 11. These months, I can't even escape 4 days. Just yesternight I relapsed after 7 days.

    • @markhilditch3467
      @markhilditch3467 Год назад

      @@TheUnbotheredTexan Keep trying!

  • @vhypnotic7825
    @vhypnotic7825 Год назад

    My most highest out of all was 62 days, 2 months. Nofap is actually real people! Somehow I’ve relapsed but I’ll keep going, and so do you

  • @nadeemsheikh5943
    @nadeemsheikh5943 3 года назад +4

    Thanks Rob, It is really helped take some pressure off. On my day 15 and I am going for 90 days.

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 года назад

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

  • @ghulamnabi1305
    @ghulamnabi1305 3 месяца назад +1

    Guilt is haunting me still I am pushing myself to do stuff done. On the 3rd of nofap. Move on. Make a positive mindset!

  • @felixjorosylvitre6288
    @felixjorosylvitre6288 2 года назад +4

    DAMN I relapsed after 113 days, I feel a little weak but I'll do my best to bounce back

  • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953
    @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 Год назад +1

    Here is help to people with relapse. I will make it shorter so it will be better. R = relapse don't forget
    R on day 7 = count yourself on day 2
    R on day 8 = count yourself on day 3
    R on day 9 = count yourself on day 4
    Gonna make it shorter C = count
    R on day 10 = C yourself on day 5
    R on day 11 = C yourself on day 6
    R on day 12-14 = C yourself on day 7-8
    R on day 15 = C yourself on day 9
    R on day 16 = C yourself on day 10
    R on day 17 = C yourself on day 11. And it goes more and more and more. Stay strong boys and guys! I am currently on day 5 because i relapsed on day 10. My target is to reach 30 days and then 60 and finally 90. WE WILL MAKE IT!

  • @mr.o8386
    @mr.o8386 2 года назад +3

    i just relapsed again, and i feel liek im failing my moral, parents, and religon, but i will keep my head up and try to move from this

  • @ppbrightstars
    @ppbrightstars 8 месяцев назад +1

    After 62 days, i relapsed because we became LDR of my girlfriend after a week i relapsed in NOFAP/Semen retention. Bruhh i hate isolation! I won't ever isolate again so that i wont get bored and relapsed again!