As an iNFJ I found it interesting what you said about the N being better at analyzing problems, because it's true! I have noticed that intuitives have a special ability to see "outside the box" and see things in more depth, as the phrase "you see, but you do not observe" says, I think it applies perfectly to intuitives, sensors tend to be more "closed mind" and "practical" in general.
@@aaronstollingsNo, what she's saying is, let your aggression out in the real world, write notes saying 'people don't love me' and then put them all around the house. I did that as a kid and you can obviously see it makes a cool memory to think about later - infp
Exactly what I was thinking. The worst part is that it is likely. Somebody new to MBTI finding out they're INFJ are likely to have not come across Kristen but are also likely to be recommended INFJ stuff. Watch those INFJ stuff and eventually this will be recommended, especially over other Kristen content which tend to be for all types.
@@dearkristinI knew it was satire from knowing you but in all seriousness I didn’t notice there was a label that this was satire. Some of us intuitives don’t register “little “ details unless we’re smacked in the face with it!! -INFP 😂 (And just had to edit out a completely random accidental time stamp I didn’t realize I put in there until the next day.)
Might be like "Hey, straight to the point, I'm ranking these guys. Here's the result. Pause the video to see. No, I will not elaborate on why (this beloved type) is ranked the lowest." :P
@@halimaalidrissi568I agree with you so much - it doesn’t include our crushes one bit! He could’ve gone off to Mars having signed papers that he’s never coming back to Earth and I’d still believe we’ll meet one day.
As an ENFP, I don't quite understand why we would have a disadvantage in life. Chaos is fun amidst the unpredictability of the world! Unless she meant that the world is too rigid and structured for us to live freely
@@evarootbeer22 both things you said are a bit true actually^^ I think that part was more about how the stereotypical INFJ absolutely CANNOT handle living in chaos and uncertainty, so it was more of a projection. Of course ENFPs can handle and love chaos cause they be built for chaos :p -INFJ
@@SecondFloor2311 Yeah, I think it's partially projection and partially thinking that an ENFP would never be able to go through life accomplishing anything, because they are so chaotic (not saying that's true, just explaining why she labeled it as a "disadvantage").
@@1029blue Ooooh, that makes sense too! Because we are so chaotic, free and our ideas are all over the place, we may seem like we can't survive and deal with the reality of the world (such as adulting, responsibilities, serious orders and stuff) since we prioritize fun a little bit too much haha. A disadvantage indeed, but a mature and healthy ENFP can easily be successful in living life, even if it means doing random things that make them happy since that is what matters in the long run for them (or for me).
“My extroverted feeling preference in my cognitive functions means that I do appear as quite a compassionate, kind, and positive person, but I am actually deeply judgmental”
I'd guess it would be the ENTP because she confessed to having a crush on an ENTP, who also has a crush on her, and he wanted it to be revealed to all. LOL! - Signed an INFJ who has a crush on an ENTP who she knows would do that. LOL!
@@justme8841 wrong. the shadow is the arch-nemesis pair. have you ever seen an estp interacting with an istj irl? or an entp with an intj? not that beautiful, is it? main axis' inverted e/i and middle axis inverted fully is what makes the golden pairing. i.e. entp and infj, enfp and intj, etc.
Bahahah as an INFJ, I'm concerned that I found this relatable. I am secretly so judgmental, definitely trying to work on it. Except that I would've put INFJ in the "over-analysing" column because I know that I over-analyse.
As the ENFP daughter of an INFJ who's regularly confusing me with her simultaneous sweetness and also deeply frustrating with her judginess... this was so validating to watch.
maaan this is why im scared to have kids. lmao we cant help but judge but we do the work to validate the reason why were judging you for later... makes sense?
@@halimaalidrissi568 aww makes sense! I always see INFJs as my mirror. I can't help but blindly accept everything, but I do now see how that's ultimately kind of naive and I know I need a little bit more judgement. I think as long as you have some awareness around it I wouldn't worry about it too much 🤗 my mom's great overall even if I am sometimes rolling my eyes 😆
@@hannahpeterangelo7551 i would say that ENFPs are the more outgoing/more impulsive version of INFJs for sure. We connect on another level & share the same general values. Im happy to hear youre appreciative of your mum,..kind of gives me hope 🤗
awww we legitimately love ENFPs though, you guys have so many things we can learn from!! maybe tell your mom kindly that although she might not mean it, sometimes she can come off as judgmental. i'm sure she'll take it into consideration even if she's in denial at first. i hope you don't feel too bad about it!
As an INFJ, I was cracking up all throughout this video. 🤣 I think it portrays the INFJ attitude more accurately than most of us INFJs would like to admit 😅😂🤣
we're pretty private about most of these things, since we're in constant conflict with ourselves and always trying to find out how to reconcile them within ourselves or what the optimal times to use each of these traits might be, when to not use them, etc. Quite embarrassing to have it all put out there. But ESFP's love to out us like this, since they want everything to be on the table at all times, because... why shouldn't it be ?!? This is why I don't have social media anymore (ESFP mom replies in the comments cost me entire friend groups, even if I've grown past the stage she mentions ).🤪
This is definitely one of my favorite videos that you’ve done thus far. I do realize that “as an INFJ,” I’m getting absolutely roasted by it, but it’s just too funny. I hope you do more with the other types!!
Kristen, could we have a skit of the mature version of each type interacting with their immature counterparts? I've been hoping for it for a while. I think it would be fairly hilarious to see "Becky" critiquing herself. (Full disclosure, I'm an INTJ who's really hoping for an accurate depiction of competent personal interaction as contrasted with the closed-off, jaded version that's so often depicted. Also, yes, this is the second time asking about this.)
I'll second this. It'd be fun to see an INTJ who's figured out that social skills are beneficial to one's quality of life, an ENFP who's matured beyond the complete haphazard goofball, an ISTP who . . . exists on screen for more than two sentences. xD
Agreed! The younger and older versions meeting each other is a great concept. I'm an older INFJ. I see a bit of teenaged me in the skits, but now that I'm in my 40s I am so different as a person.
God this portrayal was PERFECT, you nailed it!! the amount of thoughts, the venting the infj does, all this stuff she wants to do, the bias towards entps ( i find them attractive and am aware that this is probably not normal attraction), finding isfps confusing as fuck( tho i think they're putting in the work), liking intps and enfps, the detailed thoughts, the "i am very very kind but also roast the hell out of people", the superiority, honestly even the hair reminded me of myself. plus the general vibes, dude. great job.
😂 this is too good! Sometimes we need an external satirical perspective into our all too self-opinionated inner worlds of patterns, intuitions and profundities to keep us grounded! - INFJ here
Blast. As soon as Kristin said "suppressing wounds," the 🎵"I'm suppressing wounds"🎶 song and the dancing 🍀leprechaun🍀 popped into my head. Gonna be stuck in there for hours now. Thanks, Kristin... 🙄 I'm amazed we INTPs ranked as high as "doing the work." 🥳 Gotta tell the INFJ, though... ISTPs aren't suppressing wounds. They honestly just don't care enough about the things they can't affect to be bothered. They're in the here-and-now-real-world on a level I can only envy from a distance.
I do NOT spend my time hating humanity. I spend my time trying to figure out how to make human civilization work over the next three centuries while factoring in our collective stupidity and lack of foresight and pattern recognition. - INTJ
With those kind of questions the most challenging aspect I find is how do you create any system that has to be managed by people without the people needed to manage it warping it for their own advantage? people making seemingly dumb decisions because they give them personal profit seems to be the one universal constant of governance.
@@KarlJeager the question for me there is how do you insure that the people are ultimately attuned enough and in charge enough to displace bad actors and systems when necessary. Given the state of things, I'd say that is the core problem society ultimately can't quite get around. Change will happen, people will be selfish, lessons of history will be forgotten, but people adapt. However, the decay of institutuons, and failure of goverments in particular to really think long term seem a constant of our species. It's a tough nut to crack at least.
INTJs could only go so far with their physical and mental limitations. Leave it to God/the Creator. He will take care of everything and will eventually make all things new in His time when humanity is ripe for a harvest. I don't know if any of you believe in a supreme mastermind Who has ZERO sin/imperfection/character flaw/weakness that also created the entire universe, but I believe in such a being exists. Observing the seemingly endless reaches of outer space down to the most microscopic level of our material realm, there has to be more than what we percieve with our senses and thoughts. I suggest try studying the Holy Bible. It's not only a source of providing practical and moral guidelines on how to have fulfilling lives despite hardships or injustices surrounding us, it's very much a chronology of the fallen human condition as it foretells future revolutionary events that have yet to unfold. A future where the saints and humble redeemed are granted eternal life and joy, while the wicked and proud unrepentant are resigned to perish in the lake of fire. Like how God is completely independent from time and space, He is able to see everything from start to finish, and these special developments illustrated through prophecies. The current world order is coming to an end, but is going to usher in a brand new world without evil and corruption, a place where perfect love and justice prevails.
I haven't found that exactly. The INFJ's I've known are able to criticize themselves to some extent, but they also have a strong belief in their own abilities and, for want of better words, moral superiority. They believe their own philosophy is the correct one and although they are completely open to listening to others, they are very unlikely to be tolerant of other views. Outwardly maybe, but not inwardly.
@@9dodger9 If only you saw what we see, you would know that a lot of people don't have ANY morals. People are narcissistic for literally no reason today, so self-entitled with not a care in the world for how they damage others and only FEIGN morality because it's convinient and necessary to fit in society. People simply have no idea how much they abuse and/or get abused daily and the more they neglect themselves and let other have their way, the worse everything is for everyone, both on the long term for society and people's individual lives. Kristin represented us for what she understands of us, and I have nothing to say about that. Kristin is an ESFP. Perceivers lack and are repugnated by structure; it is normal that she wouldn't understand us without deeper study and this is a satirical video anyway (just like it is difficult for me to understand her way of being, which (I'm not referring just to Kristin) I have learnt to be harmless for society as long as the family of origin isn't a family of people). Ours is not a shallow sense of "superiority", it is a combination of natural self-esteem (Ni is self-esteem itself) and competence earned through discipling and evolving ourselves with our analytical skills that also grow in the process. We are just like ENTJs and INTJs. We have expectations and standards for ourselves because we respect ourselves on an authentic, deep level. Keep this in mind: it is vulnerable and not absolute BECAUSE it is authentic. Competence is a relative term and confidence or self-esteem are limited to what is known, which is only the past. For these reasons we dont look confident for most people. But that's because we are concerned with our knowledge being accurate enough to help others and not harm them down the line and not forget the multiple sides of things (Ni-Fe, and yes the Fe is also subconsciously applied to thoughts and analysis as well). This TRUE humility, not feigned humility to fit in, to avoid judgment from others (weakness makes one very mild ~ Nietzsche) is what leads us into self-doubt or even self-loathing. The so-called sense of superiority comes from the fact that we often see that we are the only ones putting the work for society and doing our part of the job to be an actually good citizen while everyone else is just living doing whatevah. I am not saying everyone should live in the exact same way believing in the same values - different people will have different values and different interests and different things that make them happy - but I AM saying that just because you are not a dreamer, a visionary, an artist, a philosopher it doesnt mean you should feel like you can just do whatevah and not care about the consequences of certain choices and actions for the collective and yourself. Everyone is a unique individual and we should live as such, not eccentricly but authenticly. Yet, people should still acknowledge the principles thanks to which they're able to live as they please in the first place, as unaliable and an absolute responsability (, not ) for the good of everyone (which includes them). We are social creatures: we need others and a few basic rules, and this is a fact (even authenticity or freedom are "rules" because they still define you as the one that isn't inauthentic or the one isn't unfree). What I mean to say (or rather, one of the many things I mean to say) is that, good lord, you are not the only person that exists in this world! Now, I do think morals SHOULD be questioned, but if people really did that, they would indeed realise the objective importance of a few fundamental ideas which they do not know nor do they care about in reality because of how oblivious and self-absorbed the self-proclaimed most righteous people actually are. Do you know that nobody needs the amount of "freedom" they assume would come from living just doin' whatevah anyway? They just want to escape responsibilities and be served by others, namely, us who can't even express our minds, concerns and objections because they box us as the sensitive empath and want us to be just that. Do you know why they do it? Do you know why they like altruism? Because they like YOUR altruism! Because it benefits THEM! As for the intolerance, I again disagree. We are not intollerant. It's that what people say either doesn't make any sense or is naïve or just a half-truth. People want to represent us as dreamy and lost in our minds, but we are absolutely grounded in reality. It's that people don't think nearly as much and as deeply as most INFJs do. So they get overwhelmed, and they just call you an overthinker so that they don't have to admit that they couldn't follow the train of thought and that they indeed do not care about anyone but themselves. The funny thing is that you could talk about anything with us or ask us to clarify something, and we would do it and appreciate you for asking and caring about the conversation and us. There are many reasons why people may reject others' points of view, but that's far from being exclusive to INFJs because saying that intuitives aren't open-minded is just ridiculous. Ne wants openness, and Ni wants facts and competence by definition. It's (a lot of) sensors that wouldn't accept anything that doesn't benefit them in the moment or them specifically as a person, whereas we would take in anything that makes sense (Ni-Ti) and is helpful in the long run for a smaller or bigger group of people (Ni-Fe). If you criticised my world view with a fair argument, I would try to prove that argument wrong first and implement the fruit of that clash of opinions to improve my system. I wouldn't dismiss or down-play anyone and anyone's opinion unless they are awful people and their opinions are just wrong (in case of doubt and/or a lack of conclusion, I would call it a nice discussion). I am sorry but I am sick of these representations that are supposed to "humble" us when we are the ones that have to put up with the most nonsense of the lazy, foolish humans, which we then also feel compelled to fix for them, because we care, which then gets laughed at, even though we are the only ones that actually care enough to do something about it and we aren't even responsible for all that mess in the first place! - "mess" which could have been avoided if a certain someone would just spend less time on TikTok to witness the last brain cell disappear and used it to become an independent thinker or at least a decent adult...
"Thinks they're self-aware but is really just overthinking everything." I knew I was in that category as an INFP lol I literally just escaped from my last overthinking spiral and was watching this video to comfort myself 😂😂😂😞
"I've been trying to practice being more concise." Yes I've actually said this. Repeatedly. Mostly to myself but sometimes outloud. -- INFJ surrounded by sensors, and married to an ISTJ
As a sweltering, human hating INTJ in boxers and a Tshirt shitting at the computer, it was like the toothpick fell out of my mouth. My smug gaze turned to a look of shameful introspection, I dissociated, and lost like a minute of time so then i had to rewind but im over it now. edit i meant sitting obviously wtf whats good with yall
I had an INTJ friend back in college and 90% of our conversations ended up being about our Ni visions of how humanity will slowly wither and die and why we deserve it lol. He challenged any sprinkle of optimism I had to offer. Sorry but Kristin understood the assignment on that one. -enfj
@@whitneyd6827 The physics teacher next door to me was an ENFJ, It was a spider man pointing at spider man moment (I learned year laters that ENFJs have Ni parent). I have never met anyone who cared so much or worked so hard, doesnt he know that a star that burns twice as bright..but he liked doing it like what the F
INFJ Becky initially addresses a supposedly imaginary audience about a tier list that she thinks nobody would ever see but "would just end up on her hard drive", and about her very promising book that was never written, albeit already a bestseller in her dreams... I wonder if she found out somehow that ESFP Kristin leaked her private vlog.. and how she'd feel about this :O :P I guess it's unpackable how Becky doesn't elaborate on why she put INFJ and ESFP on their assigned tiers ;)
Is there a lore developing? First the INTJ realising the characters are in a puppet-mastered fake realm and the ENTJ trying to suppress this fact as seen in the ghost and kidnapping skits, then the beginning of the civil war between the INTP and ENTP, and now an INFJ doing a deep dive about the others, thinking they won’t ever see it, but it has, in fact, been released to the world by the ESFP? Maybe a ‘16 personalities in a reality TV show’ like big brother could be a next skit? 😃
When she said, "It's going to be a quite while before the INTJ realizes they actually need to go to therapy," my honest reaction was, "No, I don't need to."
As an ISFP I would just like to point out that every Se dominant type was placed in tier 5 while every Ne type was placed tier 3 or higher. I think Becky is biased and I don't appreciate that. Fantastic work once again Kristin!!
Literally every type would put ENTJ in suppressing wounds. Even ENTJs, if they can be bothered to care about therapy. Also I'd love for this to become a series. ESTJs ranking personality types by their usefulness in a capitalistic hellscape--I mean, their employability? ENTPs by their debate skills?
LOL So much no on the INTJ. We're Ni/Fi. When we're not out doing stuff with/for other people or plotting for advancement (Te), we're essentially locked in our heads with our own feelings. Whatever wounds we have are really, really, really not subconscious. We're extremely aware of them. That's usually why we don't like other people or seek much contact with them. We know our own emotions. We just don't know what to do with *other* people's emotions, even if we do understand them.
@@EresirThe1st True in many cases, I think. But coming from an INFJ, it's weird. They're, like, our buddies who usually actually understand that we've been sentenced to solitary confinement in our own heads because they're the other Ni doms, so they're up there, all alone, too. We just have different coping strategies to the eternal inner monologue.
You’ve perfectly captured INFJ’s passive aggressive condescension, lack of self awareness, hypocrisy, overestimation of their Ti and Te blindness all in 10 minutes 🤣!
As an INTP (male) married to an ESFJ (female) I can honestly say that I was searching for answers but not emotions because I was unaware that I had any until the ESFJ introduced me to this thing called "happiness" which I had previously called the serotonin dopamine loop. Yes, the ESFJ found my emotions that I had left behind and neglected and I noticed that my dopamine and serotonin levels are significantly higher just with her being around me. I do have to admit wrong in that I was procrastinating the exploration of possible emotions but it was necessary because I was building my own Dobsonian telescope with a 250 mm f/6.4 and ... sorry, off topic. So I would urge you to move the ESFJ at least two notches up and the INTP at least two notches down. Thank you.
I know i can be soft, compassionate and kind, but my thoughts are also spoken aloud quite frequently. I just use Fe to make them more digestible for human beings to listen to and comprehend. My Ti fixation doesn't let me lie so i've learned to manipulate my words so that my thoughts can come through, while also not leaving the other person feeling uncomfortable and unsusceptible to listening to me. Words are spells, if you use them right, you have your desired outcome. You can tell the truth with goodness in mind. And yeah, i flufing hate black and white type of thinking. A fixed mind has nothing to learn.
This felt like watching myself make this kind of video. It was fun going between thinking “yeah you’re so right” and then remembering its just a character that you’re mocking lol. (tbf the infjs need more content like this bc some of us have such a big ego about the depth and nuAnCe.) ty kristen :)
@@jacobdevilliers9485 I think if they genuinely engage with these ideas instead of using mbti as some weird class structure they would be way better off
@@jacobdevilliers9485 I think all the "INFJs" (or most of them) who are that arrogant are either mistyped and/or immature ones who are projecting and trying to feel better about themselves. Maybe I'm wrong about this. But this is the impression I've got from so many. I'm also tired of the "special snowflake" complex do many people have and that is obvious in so many communities... Everyone, has talents and flaws. We shouldn't have to feel the need to put others down when they have multiple things they do better than us and we could learn from one another. Growth only happens if you're not afraid to face and accept you darker side. So yeah. This attitude is immature but at least we can work on overcoming it. :)
Honestly, putting FPs at the suppressing wounds part was quite insane, but I could definitely see the rest of it as a great (obviously extreme) way to represent my type. Also, putting the INFJ on top was fun, but I think our sterotype would know they only think they're self-aware, when really they're over-analyzing everything.
I always think its funny how INFJs and ENFJs skirmish with each other despite being so similar. ENFJs could learn a lot from INFJs and vice versa. It always sucks when they start dueling over who knows "best".
My twin is an ENFJ. We aren't in competition. I wish she had more goals beyond basing all her decisions on how her husband might react and not let her kids walk over her. She surprises me with her insights and brilliance and does listen and absorb my suggestions more then most. She calls me judgmental and suspicious and that isn't wrong...overall I like ENFJs and they are one of the easiest types to click with right away. They might get the doorslams if you find out later how manipulative and fake some are.
My best friend is an ENFJ, and we understand each other so well we basically had a whirlwind friendship when we first met. And at the same time, we have complimentary traits. I am reserved, she jumps right into social situations. I really understand peoples motivations, and warn her about them, she has an easy time asking for help and networking. I am great at strategizing on how to approach people to get what I want in the most efficient way, she is very ambitious and hardworking. While I take a long time to finish or even start projects, her motivation is often other people's expectations. I think in our 20 years as friends we have really made each other grow without constantly crossing boundaries and I appreciate that so much.
@@shannon1242I mean yea, I’m a Infj who worked with a enfj who told me that she was fake towards everyone and matched everyone energy. Even told me she was extra nice to the smartest kid in class to help her cheat on test
I’ll help you out. ENFP is ALWAYS suppressing wounds. Our sadness just comes out as jokes when we’re with people. Although we are probably doing the work on our own….no on second thought we probably need our own category.
Im glad you didnt keep your video on the hdd. I am intj and I know a sweet infj. Infjs are sensitive and kind in my experience and one of my favorites. You are also not extroverts so i can stand more time in your presence.
This is outstanding. I roll eyes at the thousands of videos about "spiritual" and "empath" or whatever fluffy butterfly nurturing caring understanding non-judgemental (double eye-roll here) nature of INFJs and it's relieving to see Kristin calling INFJs on their bullshit this directly. Don't get me wrong, my best conversations in life have been with INFJs, Dostoyevsky is my favorite writer etc., but you just gotta love ESFPs with their big mouths bringing some unfiltered truth about them (and everyone else - I certainly benefited a lot in life by being called out on my BS by ESFPs). Excellent work. Love from an INTJ.
I mean. I don't think are being empathetic, caring and spiritual and judgmental are inherently incompatible traits. In a twisted way they go "well" together. And most/many people are extremely judgmental anyway. Not about the same things. The question would be: are you aware of this side of you? Are you willing to put in the work to grow out of it? So yeah, everyone needs an opportunity to grow. And sometimes it's a slap in the face or an extremely accurate satirical video. :)
INFJs have this weird simultaneous superiority/inferiority complex. We want to be the best versions of ourselves and have incredibly high standards for ourselves and believe that we are fully capable of being truly amazing human beings, but when the reality hits and we fail to meet those standards, we think we have failed and feel bad about ourselves. So we are trapped within the idealizations of our minds and we rarely can purely just focus on the present moment without thinking of how things should be. I don't know how judgmental INFJs are in general towards others but I don't recognize that in myself. It can just seem to others as if I was judgmental of them because I keep talking about my idealizations
Well for the last personalities through the eyes of serie we are missing the ESFP, but really that's just this whole channel ;). Also please let this be a new series!
INFJ here. I think you do an excellent job portraying us. The only thing is I never think of people as "suppressing wounds," and you tend to bring that up a lot. I actually think many of the types are not wounded because they are not sensitive.
Hmm... I was looking for the INFJ who couldn't relate to this video. TBH, I didn't finish it, and I think yours is a great point! I never label people as wounded. Maybe the only INFJs Kristen has met are the narcissistic ones?
My ISTP friend actually LITERALLY just told me today, that she ran away from someone that was talking to her and when the other person caught up (because the ISTP got lost obviously) there was a very embarrassing moment 😂 so this depiction of an ISTP is not even wrong xD
The Iliad, Mona Lisa and 'INFJ tier-ranking the 16 personalities' are the things I would show to the aliens when they visit us and ask me what are the greatest masterpieces created by humans.
Ok, ouch. I (INFJ) used to be the quiet, "sweet" one when I was younger, but with the years and confidence I've lost my filter. Now, out of six housemates, I'm supposedly the one my sweet ESFP friend is the most scared of. I'm not mean, but I totally will ask you to please wash your dirty dishes or that tell you that your loud music is a disturbance. Oh, and, when repeatedly pressed for my opinion about a friend's crush (that we had already discussed to oblivion): "He thinks you're nice and enjoys talking to you, but no, he doesn't like you the way you like him."
As an ISFP, I actually love opening up to INFJs because they usually are quite trustworthy and compassionate. However, I'm just not sure I'd be comfortable opening up to THIS particular INFJ... Something is off about her... If she doesn't think ISFPs like talking about their personal feelings (come on, it's a huge part of our dominant function!!), then she simply doesn't know us!!!! Fi-doms are all about the feelings! But we hate passive aggression, and she seems to exude it, sadly... I don't surpress wounds, I just hide them from judgemental people. My real-life INFJ friends are the best! And fun side note, I've noticed the INFJs I know tend to get along particularly well with ISTP, ISFP, INFP, and ISTJ. Obviously that's just my personal observations, but I thought it might be interesting for some people to hear!
Hopefully, nobody would open up to THAT INFJ. 😂As with every type, there are healthy an unhealthy versions. One of my favourite fictional depictions of a healthy INFJ would be Edward Norton's role in Red Dragon.
idk this infj seems a bit harsh compared to me and other infjs, when someone doesn't want to open up i leave them alone since I also dont open up to others easily, (also what's it like being ISFP :) )
idk this infj seems a bit harsh compared to me and other infjs, when someone doesn't want to open up i leave them alone since I also dont open up to others easily, (also what's it like being ISFP :) )
I'm an INTJ but in this one I'm actually just a big fan of the ISFP's capacity to confuse the INFJ's Fe with their deeply unbothered Fi-Se approach to life. Also: interesting how most of the "suppressing wounds" personalities have Se as either the main or secondary function.
this video was so full of sarcasm and satire comments and projection and i seriously love that. as an INFJ, i was able to relate to almost everything that was said and would have ranked the types in quite a similar way as well. props to you, you really made me feel included. best video i've seen this month!
ENFP Here. I have to to thank you in the name of all ENFPs for showing the world that INFJs see us as the fun loving, naive and loyal dogs that we are! My INFJ gf would approve, if she would have the time, but she’s in a self healing reflective work out at the moment.
KRISTIN 😭😭 this is sooooo freaking good I love you for this, you have captured the struggle in every sentence, with just how contradictory we can be 😭😭 Also the first part on how we appear easy going so a RUclips channel is the way to release thoughts/anger so true For me it’s RUclips comments, cause everywhere else there’s a community that knows me and perceives me and unfortunately I cannot actually say what I think because of it. Only thing I hate about this character is how freaking condescending they are! But then I wonder if that’s me repressing ??
Maybe you are. Maybe it was Kristin exaggerating for comedic purposes and to show an not so mature version of the type. Or maybe it was both. It's weird to love to feel so seen and roasted at the same time XD
@@dearkristin@elisa4620 I did not see the replies but I thought about it and analyzed it (as per character) and I think this is for the better XD because for a long time I thought INFJs had been a somewhat overrated type or like over explained in the sense of “how good” they are, I feel like this could bring some nuance on us. Personally some stereotypes I hate is when they say we are good at reading people. (Edit: specifically other INFJs saying they know what they’re talking about) Like yes but also, could be that because we’re always playing a guessing game of what’s gonna happen next, we cannot help but “look further” on someone. But if we’re honest a lot of times we miss small details or we are too focused on a “vision” that we don’t see what should have been obvious. In other words, we can be wrong 😂😅 I think more INFJs need to admit that. Maybe this arrogant stereotype can shed some light into INFJs. Also other videos with INFJ boot camps as much as I love them and their advice they often use the words “always” and “never” which it is very bold to use on any human. Saying “INFJs will always…or never” is just kinda silly to me. ~end rant
Yes we do, but I think it's more of an external judginess than a internal one. That is, we come off judgy when internally, we're still open to a lot of possibilities (open-ended, internal Ni versus judgy, external Fe).
:grins: I was very shocked when, decades ago, a girlfriend slapped me with the wet-fish of "You're very kind-hearted but *so* judgemental!". Quite brought me up short ... but it helped me perfect my self-awareness :angel:
Makes me one happy Swedish meatball to hear what you mentioned about ENFPs. Well well, you are most definitely.. probably not so wrong about all of this. Lovely how you hit some core things with the types. Always fun to see!
Unpacked is fun-packed - so true! 😂 Who knew Becky could be laugh out loud hilarious?! Can't wait to see the categorizations employed by other characters in what will hopefully be a whole new series! 🤞
I know this is satire, but I (INTP) found this INFJ's judgment to be quite fair and charitable, because I am, indeed, quite the emotional dumb-dumb and I could probably learn a thing or two from a more emotionally aware INFJ. I figured I'd be put in "regular human" a the very least, so pleasently surprised. Great video as always, Kristin.
1- I can't interact too much with you: ESFJ 2- You hurt me and I can't understand you but sometimes you intrigue me and I end up admiring mature you: ESTJ 3- Sometimes is really easy to interact with you, sometimes I love you, sometimes I can't deal with you: ISFJ | ESFP | ISTJ | INFJ 4- I love you a lot, I grow with you: ISFP | ENFJ | ISTP | ENTJ 5- SOOO comfy interaction, you have my heart: INTJ | ESTP | INFP | INTP | ENFP 6- My muse: ENTP
One of your best😂 laughed all the way through! I love that the scale goes from red at the top to green at the bottom, am I right in thinking that's a subtle dig at the idea that the infj loves to focus on those who 'need her help'?
As an INFJ, I would absolutely hate interacting with this character. Just the condescension and holier than thou attitude grates on my nerves and it makes me sad that people think this is how INFJ acts...
Oh man I can't even. There is so much brilliance and acting skill in this one, and the fact you named her Becky and alluded to some existing storylines! Please let every Type do their own video! That would be amazing!!!❤😂
As an INFJ I found this really funny. Even the tier list placements, I would have done the exact same list. Except I would have put the INFJ in *"Thinks they're self-aware but really they're over-analysing everything"* , or *"Doing the work"* cause I'm actually really not that smug and if I were, that would totally be on purpose to annoy someone who deserved it. Even the weakness for ENTP is correct (even though I know they should go in *"Suppressing wounds"* ...)
If the INTJ video doesn’t include a comment to the effect of “in reality all of these should be at the bottom because the human race is the worst” I will be sorely disappointed.
I know that I have tendencies to judge people harshly, but (at least for me) it works a little different. I can let surprisingly many things slide for those who I love, but I can be waaaay too harsh on those who I hate. I have already begun to keep that in mind when I'm judging those people; I try to balance out the negatives with positives, or at least admit to myself that "no, I have these tendencies and inner mechanisms, don't go so hard on them". There is another thing, which was both a gift and a curse in this case. When I was a child, and I tried to blame somebody for something during an argument, my father's instant reaction was that I should focus on what was my fault in an argument, rather than the mistakes others have made. This way, I've learnt not be instantly judgemental with others, but with myself first. It helped me to find balance and seeing both sides of an argument or situation, but it was used so many times against me (my father apoligzed for this in hindsight, by the way) that I ended up being overtly judgemental with myself. So yeah, a generally harmful thing with some useful side effects, I guess.
I get now why people told me that I‘m arrogant. But honestly I don‘t have my life in order and struggle with feeling overwhelmed from time to time. Therefore I would put myself in „Doing the work“ because that‘s exactly what I‘m doing. And it already made some changes. I definitely see my younger self in that video. But today I cut out these cringey phases like „oh the world needs brightness.“ 🤣 And I‘m genuinely more positive. I really love your videos. It definitely helped me understand other peoples intentions and think patterns.
Just FYI, this video is savage and just AMAZING but please y’all don’t actually believe we think we have ‘nothing to learn’ 😂 we may like to think so but a more healthy INFJ will surely know that, besides some inherent insight/wisdom because of our particular perspective, we definitely have lots to learn when it comes to just living on Earth and doing the humaning. All types have their strengths and weaknesses^^ P.s. also why do I feel like I’m ALL the tiers at different times and in different aspects of life…. or is that just me overanalysing? :)
A gentle reminder to be kind to others in the comments 💜
Haha but i think INFJ is all of the above
As an iNFJ I found it interesting what you said about the N being better at analyzing problems, because it's true! I have noticed that intuitives have a special ability to see "outside the box" and see things in more depth, as the phrase "you see, but you do not observe" says, I think it applies perfectly to intuitives, sensors tend to be more "closed mind" and "practical" in general.
So what you’re saying is to keep all aggression passive? 😉
(ISFJ here)
@@aaronstollingsNo, what she's saying is, let your aggression out in the real world, write notes saying 'people don't love me' and then put them all around the house.
I did that as a kid and you can obviously see it makes a cool memory to think about later
- infp
@@VanessaLima-im9fs Absolutely agree. -INTJ
Imagine if this was someones first time here and they don't realize this is a character.
Exactly what I was thinking. The worst part is that it is likely. Somebody new to MBTI finding out they're INFJ are likely to have not come across Kristen but are also likely to be recommended INFJ stuff. Watch those INFJ stuff and eventually this will be recommended, especially over other Kristen content which tend to be for all types.
Actually I am new and had no idea! 😂
I need to make the "this video is satirical" label bigger next time 😅
HMM... I SMELL INFERIOR NE
@@dearkristinI knew it was satire from knowing you but in all seriousness I didn’t notice there was a label that this was satire. Some of us intuitives don’t register “little “ details unless we’re smacked in the face with it!! -INFP 😂 (And just had to edit out a completely random accidental time stamp I didn’t realize I put in there until the next day.)
Can't wait for the ISTP version where they say nothing and rank everyone in 1 minute
It would just be the completed tier list on screen for 10 seconds because you should be smart enough to pause it to read it yourself. 😂
Nah gotta get more creative than that
Might be like "Hey, straight to the point, I'm ranking these guys. Here's the result. Pause the video to see. No, I will not elaborate on why (this beloved type) is ranked the lowest." :P
@@icandoeddiethingmaybe they kept talking
I wouldn’t waste time ranking based on self awareness. The tiers would be based on usefulness.
The passive aggressiveness and subtle superiority complex is superb 😂
True 😂
I love that i hate her character 😂
"subtle" ;D
It's not a 'complex' when we truly are a more advanced form of human :p
@@rainbowratto1834Always make it just not subtle enough so they'll notice ;P.
"sometimes she just needs to come back down to reality"
Said the INFJ
good catch
Exactly what i was thinking
lmao yes and no. Were pretty much in our heads but very realistic about the world around us (that does not inckude our crushes)
@@halimaalidrissi568I agree with you so much - it doesn’t include our crushes one bit! He could’ve gone off to Mars having signed papers that he’s never coming back to Earth and I’d still believe we’ll meet one day.
@@Seca95because you will 😩
I belly laughed at ENFPs having “a disadvantage in life.” -ENFP
This satire is absolute gold
As an ENFP, I don't quite understand why we would have a disadvantage in life. Chaos is fun amidst the unpredictability of the world! Unless she meant that the world is too rigid and structured for us to live freely
@@evarootbeer22 both things you said are a bit true actually^^ I think that part was more about how the stereotypical INFJ absolutely CANNOT handle living in chaos and uncertainty, so it was more of a projection. Of course ENFPs can handle and love chaos cause they be built for chaos :p -INFJ
@@SecondFloor2311 Yeah, I think it's partially projection and partially thinking that an ENFP would never be able to go through life accomplishing anything, because they are so chaotic (not saying that's true, just explaining why she labeled it as a "disadvantage").
@@SecondFloor2311 Ah, that makes sense! Projection at its finest. Thank you for the compliment (or fact) :'D
@@1029blue Ooooh, that makes sense too! Because we are so chaotic, free and our ideas are all over the place, we may seem like we can't survive and deal with the reality of the world (such as adulting, responsibilities, serious orders and stuff) since we prioritize fun a little bit too much haha. A disadvantage indeed, but a mature and healthy ENFP can easily be successful in living life, even if it means doing random things that make them happy since that is what matters in the long run for them (or for me).
“My extroverted feeling preference in my cognitive functions means that I do appear as quite a compassionate, kind, and positive person, but I am actually deeply judgmental”
As an INFJ, this is a hilarious, honest comment.
I mean, it's true 😅❤
So very, very, very true. And don't judge me for it!
Quietly judging others and then judging myself for judging others is the story of my life. (INFJ)
@@1029blue I hear that!
The fact that the infj originally had 20 tiers when there’s only 16 personalities
The awkward silence before INFJ just ✨appears✨ at the top 🤣
I'm guessing either the ENTP or the ESTP found this and uploaded it without the INFJ's permission bc they thought it would be funny... well played.
I'd guess it would be the ENTP because she confessed to having a crush on an ENTP, who also has a crush on her, and he wanted it to be revealed to all. LOL!
- Signed an INFJ who has a crush on an ENTP who she knows would do that. LOL!
LOL yeah sounds about right
@@Lanino. Estp istj is. Its always the shadow function who is a golden pair. Entp for example golden pair is intj
@@justme8841 wrong. the shadow is the arch-nemesis pair. have you ever seen an estp interacting with an istj irl? or an entp with an intj? not that beautiful, is it?
main axis' inverted e/i and middle axis inverted fully is what makes the golden pairing. i.e. entp and infj, enfp and intj, etc.
@@Lanii thought it was intp and infj 😭
Kristin chose violence today. 😮😂
Yeah, that's how I died laughing haha -intj😂😂😂💀
Blood will flow
😅
PLEASE make this a series!
Oh, yea can't wait for ESFP tier-ranking 😆.
Brilliant 💡 idea
I want to see INTJ. We also jugde people in silience. But maybe it should be about something else than emotions?
@@arturkrol2907 Kristin has just shared her ideas for this on Patreon and I think it's going to be abso-flingin-flangin hilarious! 😂
@@edwright4892 Knowing her - that for sure :)
"The INTP are searching... for answers... to something..."
- That pretty much sums up my life right there 🤣👌
Have you found the answers yet? I'm still walking in baren wasteland of meaninglessness
This is why I lean towards thinking I’m an INTP
@@entropy8634 nope, I figure one only has to learn to enjoy the search 😅
I dunno, sometimes I am also looking for questions.
@@KarlJeager gotta ask good questions to get good answers 👌
Bahahah as an INFJ, I'm concerned that I found this relatable. I am secretly so judgmental, definitely trying to work on it. Except that I would've put INFJ in the "over-analysing" column because I know that I over-analyse.
I would definitely put us in "suppressing wounds" 🤣
Same :)
To both.
I love how the infj took 5 weeks to make the tiers more concise becuase they see nuance in everything 😂 love it!
That's by far the most accurate part of this.
@@renab.7390haha agreed. Highly called out.
And then didn't even use one of the tiers!
Further narrowing... it's a thing. Eventually all things become one thing.
@@bobdole347
After just asking for a week to narrow the scope of a presentation, that one hit hard.
As the ENFP daughter of an INFJ who's regularly confusing me with her simultaneous sweetness and also deeply frustrating with her judginess... this was so validating to watch.
maaan this is why im scared to have kids. lmao we cant help but judge but we do the work to validate the reason why were judging you for later... makes sense?
@@halimaalidrissi568 aww makes sense! I always see INFJs as my mirror. I can't help but blindly accept everything, but I do now see how that's ultimately kind of naive and I know I need a little bit more judgement. I think as long as you have some awareness around it I wouldn't worry about it too much 🤗 my mom's great overall even if I am sometimes rolling my eyes 😆
@@hannahpeterangelo7551 i would say that ENFPs are the more outgoing/more impulsive version of INFJs for sure. We connect on another level & share the same general values. Im happy to hear youre appreciative of your mum,..kind of gives me hope 🤗
awww we legitimately love ENFPs though, you guys have so many things we can learn from!! maybe tell your mom kindly that although she might not mean it, sometimes she can come off as judgmental. i'm sure she'll take it into consideration even if she's in denial at first. i hope you don't feel too bad about it!
@@ShravanaKakati haha we could start a club 🥳
As an INFJ, I was cracking up all throughout this video. 🤣 I think it portrays the INFJ attitude more accurately than most of us INFJs would like to admit 😅😂🤣
It can't be true
Stop pretending.
Just posted the same thing 😅
we're pretty private about most of these things, since we're in constant conflict with ourselves and always trying to find out how to reconcile them within ourselves or what the optimal times to use each of these traits might be, when to not use them, etc. Quite embarrassing to have it all put out there. But ESFP's love to out us like this, since they want everything to be on the table at all times, because... why shouldn't it be ?!? This is why I don't have social media anymore (ESFP mom replies in the comments cost me entire friend groups, even if I've grown past the stage she mentions ).🤪
I agree! It's hilarious
This is definitely one of my favorite videos that you’ve done thus far. I do realize that “as an INFJ,” I’m getting absolutely roasted by it, but it’s just too funny. I hope you do more with the other types!!
Hehe I just got roasted too, I'm sorry for both of us but it was super funny fr :)
who else started singing "i'm suppresing wounds 🎵" the moment she started explaining the tiers' names?
My mind kept on singing that through the entire video 😵💫
Me, I did!
ESFJ here, and she almost got me there twice😂😂🤣😜
Kristen, could we have a skit of the mature version of each type interacting with their immature counterparts? I've been hoping for it for a while. I think it would be fairly hilarious to see "Becky" critiquing herself.
(Full disclosure, I'm an INTJ who's really hoping for an accurate depiction of competent personal interaction as contrasted with the closed-off, jaded version that's so often depicted. Also, yes, this is the second time asking about this.)
I'll second this. It'd be fun to see an INTJ who's figured out that social skills are beneficial to one's quality of life, an ENFP who's matured beyond the complete haphazard goofball, an ISTP who . . . exists on screen for more than two sentences. xD
FJs that aren't manipulative or doormats
Yes please!
That could be fun!
Agreed! The younger and older versions meeting each other is a great concept. I'm an older INFJ. I see a bit of teenaged me in the skits, but now that I'm in my 40s I am so different as a person.
20 tiers for 16 objects: Very Te Polr.
Also the projecting about projecting was quite funny.
No one burns INFJ’s quite like ESFPs 😅
God this portrayal was PERFECT, you nailed it!! the amount of thoughts, the venting the infj does, all this stuff she wants to do, the bias towards entps ( i find them attractive and am aware that this is probably not normal attraction), finding isfps confusing as fuck( tho i think they're putting in the work), liking intps and enfps, the detailed thoughts, the "i am very very kind but also roast the hell out of people", the superiority, honestly even the hair reminded me of myself. plus the general vibes, dude. great job.
"They are searching... for answers... to something". The most accurate description of INTP.
I really wanted to hear an ESFP acting as an INFJ rant about her thoughts about ESFPs! 😂
"As an INFJ, "
LOL 😂
😂 this is too good! Sometimes we need an external satirical perspective into our all too self-opinionated inner worlds of patterns, intuitions and profundities to keep us grounded!
- INFJ here
as an INFJ, oh my god. THIS IS SO REAL, I had such a fun time watching this video. AND THE END WAS EVERYTHING I EXPECTED LMAOO
Blast. As soon as Kristin said "suppressing wounds," the 🎵"I'm suppressing wounds"🎶 song and the dancing 🍀leprechaun🍀 popped into my head. Gonna be stuck in there for hours now. Thanks, Kristin... 🙄
I'm amazed we INTPs ranked as high as "doing the work." 🥳
Gotta tell the INFJ, though... ISTPs aren't suppressing wounds. They honestly just don't care enough about the things they can't affect to be bothered. They're in the here-and-now-real-world on a level I can only envy from a distance.
samee I remembered it too during that moment lol
we love INTPs. they are very earnest.
Eh plenty of istps are suppressing wounds but they just don’t acknowledge it
INTPs being awkwardly considerate is the cutest thing ever.
Kristin as an SJ I think it’s my obligation to remind you that you still have the shoulder angels to do!
You know you've all subscribed for unfinished things
Not to mention "MBTI goggles" lol
@@dearkristincmon please at least finish through the eyes of you’re so close!
As an xNxP I actually agree with this xSxJ comment
and teas... 'cause obviously everyone wants know what tea they are, right?
I do NOT spend my time hating humanity. I spend my time trying to figure out how to make human civilization work over the next three centuries while factoring in our collective stupidity and lack of foresight and pattern recognition.
- INTJ
Finally a decent comment in the comment section... - INTJ
With those kind of questions the most challenging aspect I find is how do you create any system that has to be managed by people without the people needed to manage it warping it for their own advantage? people making seemingly dumb decisions because they give them personal profit seems to be the one universal constant of governance.
@@KarlJeager the question for me there is how do you insure that the people are ultimately attuned enough and in charge enough to displace bad actors and systems when necessary. Given the state of things, I'd say that is the core problem society ultimately can't quite get around. Change will happen, people will be selfish, lessons of history will be forgotten, but people adapt. However, the decay of institutuons, and failure of goverments in particular to really think long term seem a constant of our species. It's a tough nut to crack at least.
INTJs could only go so far with their physical and mental limitations. Leave it to God/the Creator. He will take care of everything and will eventually make all things new in His time when humanity is ripe for a harvest. I don't know if any of you believe in a supreme mastermind Who has ZERO sin/imperfection/character flaw/weakness that also created the entire universe, but I believe in such a being exists. Observing the seemingly endless reaches of outer space down to the most microscopic level of our material realm, there has to be more than what we percieve with our senses and thoughts. I suggest try studying the Holy Bible. It's not only a source of providing practical and moral guidelines on how to have fulfilling lives despite hardships or injustices surrounding us, it's very much a chronology of the fallen human condition as it foretells future revolutionary events that have yet to unfold. A future where the saints and humble redeemed are granted eternal life and joy, while the wicked and proud unrepentant are resigned to perish in the lake of fire. Like how God is completely independent from time and space, He is able to see everything from start to finish, and these special developments illustrated through prophecies. The current world order is coming to an end, but is going to usher in a brand new world without evil and corruption, a place where perfect love and justice prevails.
The INFJ ranking themselves in "Nothing left to learn" 😂... They absolutely would never 😂😅 They are their worst critics 😅😂
Depends on the INFJ I'd say.
I haven't found that exactly. The INFJ's I've known are able to criticize themselves to some extent, but they also have a strong belief in their own abilities and, for want of better words, moral superiority. They believe their own philosophy is the correct one and although they are completely open to listening to others, they are very unlikely to be tolerant of other views. Outwardly maybe, but not inwardly.
@@9dodger9 If only you saw what we see, you would know that a lot of people don't have ANY morals. People are narcissistic for literally no reason today, so self-entitled with not a care in the world for how they damage others and only FEIGN morality because it's convinient and necessary to fit in society. People simply have no idea how much they abuse and/or get abused daily and the more they neglect themselves and let other have their way, the worse everything is for everyone, both on the long term for society and people's individual lives.
Kristin represented us for what she understands of us, and I have nothing to say about that. Kristin is an ESFP. Perceivers lack and are repugnated by structure; it is normal that she wouldn't understand us without deeper study and this is a satirical video anyway (just like it is difficult for me to understand her way of being, which (I'm not referring just to Kristin) I have learnt to be harmless for society as long as the family of origin isn't a family of people).
Ours is not a shallow sense of "superiority", it is a combination of natural self-esteem (Ni is self-esteem itself) and competence earned through discipling and evolving ourselves with our analytical skills that also grow in the process. We are just like ENTJs and INTJs. We have expectations and standards for ourselves because we respect ourselves on an authentic, deep level. Keep this in mind: it is vulnerable and not absolute BECAUSE it is authentic. Competence is a relative term and confidence or self-esteem are limited to what is known, which is only the past. For these reasons we dont look confident for most people. But that's because we are concerned with our knowledge being accurate enough to help others and not harm them down the line and not forget the multiple sides of things (Ni-Fe, and yes the Fe is also subconsciously applied to thoughts and analysis as well). This TRUE humility, not feigned humility to fit in, to avoid judgment from others (weakness makes one very mild ~ Nietzsche) is what leads us into self-doubt or even self-loathing. The so-called sense of superiority comes from the fact that we often see that we are the only ones putting the work for society and doing our part of the job to be an actually good citizen while everyone else is just living doing whatevah. I am not saying everyone should live in the exact same way believing in the same values - different people will have different values and different interests and different things that make them happy - but I AM saying that just because you are not a dreamer, a visionary, an artist, a philosopher it doesnt mean you should feel like you can just do whatevah and not care about the consequences of certain choices and actions for the collective and yourself. Everyone is a unique individual and we should live as such, not eccentricly but authenticly. Yet, people should still acknowledge the principles thanks to which they're able to live as they please in the first place, as unaliable and an absolute responsability (, not ) for the good of everyone (which includes them). We are social creatures: we need others and a few basic rules, and this is a fact (even authenticity or freedom are "rules" because they still define you as the one that isn't inauthentic or the one isn't unfree). What I mean to say (or rather, one of the many things I mean to say) is that, good lord, you are not the only person that exists in this world! Now, I do think morals SHOULD be questioned, but if people really did that, they would indeed realise the objective importance of a few fundamental ideas which they do not know nor do they care about in reality because of how oblivious and self-absorbed the self-proclaimed most righteous people actually are. Do you know that nobody needs the amount of "freedom" they assume would come from living just doin' whatevah anyway? They just want to escape responsibilities and be served by others, namely, us who can't even express our minds, concerns and objections because they box us as the sensitive empath and want us to be just that. Do you know why they do it? Do you know why they like altruism? Because they like YOUR altruism! Because it benefits THEM!
As for the intolerance, I again disagree. We are not intollerant. It's that what people say either doesn't make any sense or is naïve or just a half-truth.
People want to represent us as dreamy and lost in our minds, but we are absolutely grounded in reality. It's that people don't think nearly as much and as deeply as most INFJs do. So they get overwhelmed, and they just call you an overthinker so that they don't have to admit that they couldn't follow the train of thought and that they indeed do not care about anyone but themselves. The funny thing is that you could talk about anything with us or ask us to clarify something, and we would do it and appreciate you for asking and caring about the conversation and us. There are many reasons why people may reject others' points of view, but that's far from being exclusive to INFJs because saying that intuitives aren't open-minded is just ridiculous. Ne wants openness, and Ni wants facts and competence by definition. It's (a lot of) sensors that wouldn't accept anything that doesn't benefit them in the moment or them specifically as a person, whereas we would take in anything that makes sense (Ni-Ti) and is helpful in the long run for a smaller or bigger group of people (Ni-Fe). If you criticised my world view with a fair argument, I would try to prove that argument wrong first and implement the fruit of that clash of opinions to improve my system. I wouldn't dismiss or down-play anyone and anyone's opinion unless they are awful people and their opinions are just wrong (in case of doubt and/or a lack of conclusion, I would call it a nice discussion).
I am sorry but I am sick of these representations that are supposed to "humble" us when we are the ones that have to put up with the most nonsense of the lazy, foolish humans, which we then also feel compelled to fix for them, because we care, which then gets laughed at, even though we are the only ones that actually care enough to do something about it and we aren't even responsible for all that mess in the first place! - "mess" which could have been avoided if a certain someone would just spend less time on TikTok to witness the last brain cell disappear and used it to become an independent thinker or at least a decent adult...
"Thinks they're self-aware but is really just overthinking everything." I knew I was in that category as an INFP lol I literally just escaped from my last overthinking spiral and was watching this video to comfort myself 😂😂😂😞
LOL
Yeah, I wasn't offended to be placed there either. Kinda wanted to see the secret INFJ tips to escape the overthinking too 😂
"I've been trying to practice being more concise." Yes I've actually said this. Repeatedly. Mostly to myself but sometimes outloud. -- INFJ surrounded by sensors, and married to an ISTJ
Feeling your pain gives me headache
Highly highly relate
I literally felt that line
INFJ-Kristin "but is sort of channeled more into..."
Me, an INFP: projects, vision, goals... objectives?
INFJ-Kristin: "hating humanity."
I also think that way! 😂🤣
As a sweltering, human hating INTJ in boxers and a Tshirt shitting at the computer, it was like the toothpick fell out of my mouth. My smug gaze turned to a look of shameful introspection, I dissociated, and lost like a minute of time so then i had to rewind but im over it now. edit i meant sitting obviously wtf whats good with yall
I had an INTJ friend back in college and 90% of our conversations ended up being about our Ni visions of how humanity will slowly wither and die and why we deserve it lol. He challenged any sprinkle of optimism I had to offer. Sorry but Kristin understood the assignment on that one.
-enfj
HAHAHAHAHAH
That's seriously legit
@@whitneyd6827 The physics teacher next door to me was an ENFJ, It was a spider man pointing at spider man moment (I learned year laters that ENFJs have Ni parent). I have never met anyone who cared so much or worked so hard, doesnt he know that a star that burns twice as bright..but he liked doing it like what the F
Called it! When she said on IG that she was going to be roasting one of the personalities it HAD to be INFJ. Great work!
INFJ Becky initially addresses a supposedly imaginary audience about a tier list that she thinks nobody would ever see but "would just end up on her hard drive", and about her very promising book that was never written, albeit already a bestseller in her dreams...
I wonder if she found out somehow that ESFP Kristin leaked her private vlog.. and how she'd feel about this :O :P
I guess it's unpackable how Becky doesn't elaborate on why she put INFJ and ESFP on their assigned tiers ;)
It’s payback for the characters kidnapping her
Is there a lore developing? First the INTJ realising the characters are in a puppet-mastered fake realm and the ENTJ trying to suppress this fact as seen in the ghost and kidnapping skits, then the beginning of the civil war between the INTP and ENTP, and now an INFJ doing a deep dive about the others, thinking they won’t ever see it, but it has, in fact, been released to the world by the ESFP?
Maybe a ‘16 personalities in a reality TV show’ like big brother could be a next skit? 😃
The TV show is called "MBTI inside" in Korea. 1 year+ it exists ^^
@@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzesi love mbti inside😩
When she said, "It's going to be a quite while before the INTJ realizes they actually need to go to therapy," my honest reaction was, "No, I don't need to."
This gives a whole new perspective to the concept of "16 personalities through the eyes of the INFJ" 😅😂
What are our minds but suppressed tier lists
As an ISFP I would just like to point out that every Se dominant type was placed in tier 5 while every Ne type was placed tier 3 or higher. I think Becky is biased and I don't appreciate that.
Fantastic work once again Kristin!!
Literally every type would put ENTJ in suppressing wounds. Even ENTJs, if they can be bothered to care about therapy.
Also I'd love for this to become a series. ESTJs ranking personality types by their usefulness in a capitalistic hellscape--I mean, their employability? ENTPs by their debate skills?
Darn it, I was really looking forward to reading volume 23.
Thanks for the laughs. This is a brilliant idea for a new series! 👍
LOL
So much no on the INTJ. We're Ni/Fi. When we're not out doing stuff with/for other people or plotting for advancement (Te), we're essentially locked in our heads with our own feelings. Whatever wounds we have are really, really, really not subconscious. We're extremely aware of them. That's usually why we don't like other people or seek much contact with them.
We know our own emotions. We just don't know what to do with *other* people's emotions, even if we do understand them.
True lol I think lots of Fe users can't comprehend us Ni-Fi users being totally aware of our own emotions.
@@EresirThe1st True in many cases, I think. But coming from an INFJ, it's weird.
They're, like, our buddies who usually actually understand that we've been sentenced to solitary confinement in our own heads because they're the other Ni doms, so they're up there, all alone, too. We just have different coping strategies to the eternal inner monologue.
You’ve perfectly captured INFJ’s passive aggressive condescension, lack of self awareness, hypocrisy, overestimation of their Ti and Te blindness all in 10 minutes 🤣!
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@@holacasita1979 you hurt?
Why do you think that you have the tools to accurately assess your intuitive superiors?
@@nelit708 as always
@@dallassukerkin6878 the same reason you asked that stupid question. Thanks for proving my point tho
As an INTP (male) married to an ESFJ (female) I can honestly say that I was searching for answers but not emotions because I was unaware that I had any until the ESFJ introduced me to this thing called "happiness" which I had previously called the serotonin dopamine loop. Yes, the ESFJ found my emotions that I had left behind and neglected and I noticed that my dopamine and serotonin levels are significantly higher just with her being around me. I do have to admit wrong in that I was procrastinating the exploration of possible emotions but it was necessary because I was building my own Dobsonian telescope with a 250 mm f/6.4 and ... sorry, off topic. So I would urge you to move the ESFJ at least two notches up and the INTP at least two notches down. Thank you.
That's the swetest comment I've read in a while. I can relate, xSFPs have had a similar effect on me.
- INTJ
This is so sweet!
ESFJ! The INTP's opposite and best mate if your purpose is max growth!
This is freaking genius! Well done! I love that it's the INFJ character for 10 minutes ranking the types on something that would matter to INFJ's.
I know i can be soft, compassionate and kind, but my thoughts are also spoken aloud quite frequently. I just use Fe to make them more digestible for human beings to listen to and comprehend. My Ti fixation doesn't let me lie so i've learned to manipulate my words so that my thoughts can come through, while also not leaving the other person feeling uncomfortable and unsusceptible to listening to me.
Words are spells, if you use them right, you have your desired outcome. You can tell the truth with goodness in mind.
And yeah, i flufing hate black and white type of thinking. A fixed mind has nothing to learn.
This felt like watching myself make this kind of video. It was fun going between thinking “yeah you’re so right” and then remembering its just a character that you’re mocking lol. (tbf the infjs need more content like this bc some of us have such a big ego about the depth and nuAnCe.) ty kristen :)
You’re probably the only INFJ I’ve seen who was ACTUALLY self aware enough to realise how arrogant they can be about these things
-ENTJ
@@jacobdevilliers9485 I think if they genuinely engage with these ideas instead of using mbti as some weird class structure they would be way better off
@@jacobdevilliers9485 I think all the "INFJs" (or most of them) who are that arrogant are either mistyped and/or immature ones who are projecting and trying to feel better about themselves.
Maybe I'm wrong about this.
But this is the impression I've got from so many.
I'm also tired of the "special snowflake" complex do many people have and that is obvious in so many communities...
Everyone, has talents and flaws. We shouldn't have to feel the need to put others down when they have multiple things they do better than us and we could learn from one another.
Growth only happens if you're not afraid to face and accept you darker side.
So yeah. This attitude is immature but at least we can work on overcoming it. :)
Honestly, putting FPs at the suppressing wounds part was quite insane, but I could definitely see the rest of it as a great (obviously extreme) way to represent my type. Also, putting the INFJ on top was fun, but I think our sterotype would know they only think they're self-aware, when really they're over-analyzing everything.
I always think its funny how INFJs and ENFJs skirmish with each other despite being so similar. ENFJs could learn a lot from INFJs and vice versa. It always sucks when they start dueling over who knows "best".
My twin is an ENFJ. We aren't in competition. I wish she had more goals beyond basing all her decisions on how her husband might react and not let her kids walk over her. She surprises me with her insights and brilliance and does listen and absorb my suggestions more then most. She calls me judgmental and suspicious and that isn't wrong...overall I like ENFJs and they are one of the easiest types to click with right away. They might get the doorslams if you find out later how manipulative and fake some are.
My best friend is an ENFJ, and we understand each other so well we basically had a whirlwind friendship when we first met. And at the same time, we have complimentary traits. I am reserved, she jumps right into social situations. I really understand peoples motivations, and warn her about them, she has an easy time asking for help and networking. I am great at strategizing on how to approach people to get what I want in the most efficient way, she is very ambitious and hardworking. While I take a long time to finish or even start projects, her motivation is often other people's expectations.
I think in our 20 years as friends we have really made each other grow without constantly crossing boundaries and I appreciate that so much.
@@shannon1242I mean yea, I’m a Infj who worked with a enfj who told me that she was fake towards everyone and matched everyone energy. Even told me she was extra nice to the smartest kid in class to help her cheat on test
I’ll help you out. ENFP is ALWAYS suppressing wounds. Our sadness just comes out as jokes when we’re with people. Although we are probably doing the work on our own….no on second thought we probably need our own category.
Fr us ENFP's we really deal with these wounds daily. All we can do is look on the bright side of things. Hell yeah we need our own category.
Im glad you didnt keep your video on the hdd. I am intj and I know a sweet infj. Infjs are sensitive and kind in my experience and one of my favorites. You are also not extroverts so i can stand more time in your presence.
This is outstanding. I roll eyes at the thousands of videos about "spiritual" and "empath" or whatever fluffy butterfly nurturing caring understanding non-judgemental (double eye-roll here) nature of INFJs and it's relieving to see Kristin calling INFJs on their bullshit this directly. Don't get me wrong, my best conversations in life have been with INFJs, Dostoyevsky is my favorite writer etc., but you just gotta love ESFPs with their big mouths bringing some unfiltered truth about them (and everyone else - I certainly benefited a lot in life by being called out on my BS by ESFPs). Excellent work. Love from an INTJ.
Are you annoyed with INFJ
Just asking for self improvement
-infj
Ok, lay it on me. Which INFJ hurt you? With love🫶, empathy✨️, and spiritual understanding✨️ - another INFJ
I mean.
I don't think are being empathetic, caring and spiritual and judgmental are inherently incompatible traits. In a twisted way they go "well" together. And most/many people are extremely judgmental anyway. Not about the same things.
The question would be: are you aware of this side of you? Are you willing to put in the work to grow out of it?
So yeah, everyone needs an opportunity to grow. And sometimes it's a slap in the face or an extremely accurate satirical video. :)
I agree. It's a good portrayal of an immature infj lol. One's who overcome these traits are great thought.
INFJs have this weird simultaneous superiority/inferiority complex. We want to be the best versions of ourselves and have incredibly high standards for ourselves and believe that we are fully capable of being truly amazing human beings, but when the reality hits and we fail to meet those standards, we think we have failed and feel bad about ourselves. So we are trapped within the idealizations of our minds and we rarely can purely just focus on the present moment without thinking of how things should be. I don't know how judgmental INFJs are in general towards others but I don't recognize that in myself. It can just seem to others as if I was judgmental of them because I keep talking about my idealizations
We need the "ENFJ's, Look in the mirror video" published, or I cannot die peacefully 😭
Love this! 😂❤
I'm totally down for another new series that's never going to be finished 🥳
Woohoo! 🥳
Well for the last personalities through the eyes of serie we are missing the ESFP, but really that's just this whole channel ;).
Also please let this be a new series!
Can’t wait for this series to boom! 🎉🎉😂😂😂
just as long as there's ENFJ version im good 😆
The istp video would be super easy, two tiers:
-pretty cool
-no
As an INTP, what I love about your channel is how creative your video ideas are.
Great video!
You did a really good job of portraying an INFJ, i want to see Brad's perspective next.
I love how soft her voice gets as the INFJ character. I'm an INFJ and people have often commented on my soft voice and struggled to hear me.
INFJ here. I think you do an excellent job portraying us. The only thing is I never think of people as "suppressing wounds," and you tend to bring that up a lot. I actually think many of the types are not wounded because they are not sensitive.
Hmm... I was looking for the INFJ who couldn't relate to this video. TBH, I didn't finish it, and I think yours is a great point! I never label people as wounded. Maybe the only INFJs Kristen has met are the narcissistic ones?
This is a good point. I'm often surprised and taken aback by this lack of sensitivity!
And it makes me, as a sensitive, feel inferior
My ISTP friend actually LITERALLY just told me today, that she ran away from someone that was talking to her and when the other person caught up (because the ISTP got lost obviously) there was a very embarrassing moment 😂 so this depiction of an ISTP is not even wrong xD
ISFJ here. I have no words 😂 “They have a lot of work to do…” 😂😂😂
The Iliad, Mona Lisa and 'INFJ tier-ranking the 16 personalities' are the things I would show to the aliens when they visit us and ask me what are the greatest masterpieces created by humans.
🎶 “I’m suppressing wounds, I’m suppressing wounds…” 🎶
You cant find an INFJ being more brutually honest than this 😂😂😂
I love this concept of having one personality type talk to us about their world. It’s awesome
Ok, ouch.
I (INFJ) used to be the quiet, "sweet" one when I was younger, but with the years and confidence I've lost my filter. Now, out of six housemates, I'm supposedly the one my sweet ESFP friend is the most scared of. I'm not mean, but I totally will ask you to please wash your dirty dishes or that tell you that your loud music is a disturbance. Oh, and, when repeatedly pressed for my opinion about a friend's crush (that we had already discussed to oblivion): "He thinks you're nice and enjoys talking to you, but no, he doesn't like you the way you like him."
Kristin roasts INFJs part 10 😂
Please continue this as a series for the other 16 personalities!
As an ISFP, I actually love opening up to INFJs because they usually are quite trustworthy and compassionate. However, I'm just not sure I'd be comfortable opening up to THIS particular INFJ... Something is off about her... If she doesn't think ISFPs like talking about their personal feelings (come on, it's a huge part of our dominant function!!), then she simply doesn't know us!!!! Fi-doms are all about the feelings! But we hate passive aggression, and she seems to exude it, sadly... I don't surpress wounds, I just hide them from judgemental people. My real-life INFJ friends are the best!
And fun side note, I've noticed the INFJs I know tend to get along particularly well with ISTP, ISFP, INFP, and ISTJ. Obviously that's just my personal observations, but I thought it might be interesting for some people to hear!
And to clarify, I do realize this is comedy and it's all meant in fun! 😄
Hopefully, nobody would open up to THAT INFJ. 😂As with every type, there are healthy an unhealthy versions. One of my favourite fictional depictions of a healthy INFJ would be Edward Norton's role in Red Dragon.
And i think healthy INFJs value nothing more than having their friends confide in them
idk this infj seems a bit harsh compared to me and other infjs, when someone doesn't want to open up i leave them alone since I also dont open up to others easily, (also what's it like being ISFP :) )
idk this infj seems a bit harsh compared to me and other infjs, when someone doesn't want to open up i leave them alone since I also dont open up to others easily, (also what's it like being ISFP :) )
I'm an INTJ but in this one I'm actually just a big fan of the ISFP's capacity to confuse the INFJ's Fe with their deeply unbothered Fi-Se approach to life.
Also: interesting how most of the "suppressing wounds" personalities have Se as either the main or secondary function.
That was savage. Poor INFJ you literally got roasted.
Can you explain please
How
Yeah, Kristin was always excellent at roasting INFJ, but this one is charred and caramelized. So good.
@@itzbuv_sin Her portrayal of INFJ is a critic of them.
True 😂
this video was so full of sarcasm and satire comments and projection and i seriously love that. as an INFJ, i was able to relate to almost everything that was said and would have ranked the types in quite a similar way as well. props to you, you really made me feel included. best video i've seen this month!
ENFP Here. I have to to thank you in the name of all ENFPs for showing the world that INFJs see us as the fun loving, naive and loyal dogs that we are!
My INFJ gf would approve, if she would have the time, but she’s in a self healing reflective work out at the moment.
Yes thank you INFJ's we appreciate you
KRISTIN 😭😭 this is sooooo freaking good I love you for this, you have captured the struggle in every sentence, with just how contradictory we can be 😭😭
Also the first part on how we appear easy going so a RUclips channel is the way to release thoughts/anger so true
For me it’s RUclips comments, cause everywhere else there’s a community that knows me and perceives me and unfortunately I cannot actually say what I think because of it.
Only thing I hate about this character is how freaking condescending they are! But then I wonder if that’s me repressing ??
All good. I deliberately overdid it ;)
Maybe you are. Maybe it was Kristin exaggerating for comedic purposes and to show an not so mature version of the type. Or maybe it was both.
It's weird to love to feel so seen and roasted at the same time XD
@@dearkristin@elisa4620
I did not see the replies but I thought about it and analyzed it (as per character) and I think this is for the better XD because for a long time I thought INFJs had been a somewhat overrated type or like over explained in the sense of “how good” they are, I feel like this could bring some nuance on us.
Personally some stereotypes I hate is when they say we are good at reading people. (Edit: specifically other INFJs saying they know what they’re talking about) Like yes but also, could be that because we’re always playing a guessing game of what’s gonna happen next, we cannot help but “look further” on someone. But if we’re honest a lot of times we miss small details or we are too focused on a “vision” that we don’t see what should have been obvious.
In other words, we can be wrong 😂😅 I think more INFJs need to admit that. Maybe this arrogant stereotype can shed some light into INFJs.
Also other videos with INFJ boot camps as much as I love them and their advice they often use the words “always” and “never” which it is very bold to use on any human. Saying “INFJs will always…or never” is just kinda silly to me.
~end rant
Man, that would have been a perfect opportunity to insert the "I'm suppressing wounds" jingle! (INTJ)
so many layers of satire you did it again kristin!
As an INFJ that was hilarious! We honestly have good intentions but, as my INFP daughter has pointed out, we do come across as judgy sometimes😬
Yes we do, but I think it's more of an external judginess than a internal one. That is, we come off judgy when internally, we're still open to a lot of possibilities (open-ended, internal Ni versus judgy, external Fe).
:grins: I was very shocked when, decades ago, a girlfriend slapped me with the wet-fish of "You're very kind-hearted but *so* judgemental!". Quite brought me up short ... but it helped me perfect my self-awareness :angel:
Add on top of it that I’m an enneagram 1, I’m definitely judgy. Working on it though 😅
Makes me one happy Swedish meatball to hear what you mentioned about ENFPs.
Well well, you are most definitely.. probably not so wrong about all of this. Lovely how you hit some core things with the types. Always fun to see!
half way through and omg, i HOPE we will get the rest of them weirdos to do their own tier lists ! this is so funny
No way an INFJ would let that last s in subconscious run onto another line XD
Jajaja amé la negación de Becky de su propio problema al final de su clasificación jajajaja
Unpacked is fun-packed - so true! 😂 Who knew Becky could be laugh out loud hilarious?! Can't wait to see the categorizations employed by other characters in what will hopefully be a whole new series! 🤞
I know this is satire, but I (INTP) found this INFJ's judgment to be quite fair and charitable, because I am, indeed, quite the emotional dumb-dumb and I could probably learn a thing or two from a more emotionally aware INFJ. I figured I'd be put in "regular human" a the very least, so pleasently surprised. Great video as always, Kristin.
1- I can't interact too much with you: ESFJ
2- You hurt me and I can't understand you but sometimes you intrigue me and I end up admiring mature you: ESTJ
3- Sometimes is really easy to interact with you, sometimes I love you, sometimes I can't deal with you: ISFJ | ESFP | ISTJ | INFJ
4- I love you a lot, I grow with you: ISFP | ENFJ | ISTP | ENTJ
5- SOOO comfy interaction, you have my heart: INTJ | ESTP | INFP | INTP | ENFP
6- My muse: ENTP
One of your best😂 laughed all the way through! I love that the scale goes from red at the top to green at the bottom, am I right in thinking that's a subtle dig at the idea that the infj loves to focus on those who 'need her help'?
As an INFJ, I would absolutely hate interacting with this character. Just the condescension and holier than thou attitude grates on my nerves and it makes me sad that people think this is how INFJ acts...
Oh man I can't even. There is so much brilliance and acting skill in this one, and the fact you named her Becky and alluded to some existing storylines!
Please let every Type do their own video! That would be amazing!!!❤😂
As an INFJ I found this really funny. Even the tier list placements, I would have done the exact same list. Except I would have put the INFJ in *"Thinks they're self-aware but really they're over-analysing everything"* , or *"Doing the work"* cause I'm actually really not that smug and if I were, that would totally be on purpose to annoy someone who deserved it. Even the weakness for ENTP is correct (even though I know they should go in *"Suppressing wounds"* ...)
im 5 minutes in and surely INFJs wont be the only one in ....
09:08 the amount of anticipation in me fails to stop me from waking my cats by laughing like a maniac in the middle of the night
Now we need to see a video where the other types react to this video
Be honest, who else knew she was going to give herself the win 🏆
I knew the second she unveiled that tier! 😂
ME!!
I saw that coming for a long time, yes 😂 But her description of my own type, INFP, was sooooooo ironically spot-on as well 😅
If the INTJ video doesn’t include a comment to the effect of “in reality all of these should be at the bottom because the human race is the worst” I will be sorely disappointed.
👏👏👏👏👏Hilarious and brutally honest. One of her best vids in a while. She really stayed in character.
Really cool concept. The constant cutting and Se-wannabe-zoom-ins are a nice touch.
I know that I have tendencies to judge people harshly, but (at least for me) it works a little different. I can let surprisingly many things slide for those who I love, but I can be waaaay too harsh on those who I hate. I have already begun to keep that in mind when I'm judging those people; I try to balance out the negatives with positives, or at least admit to myself that "no, I have these tendencies and inner mechanisms, don't go so hard on them".
There is another thing, which was both a gift and a curse in this case. When I was a child, and I tried to blame somebody for something during an argument, my father's instant reaction was that I should focus on what was my fault in an argument, rather than the mistakes others have made. This way, I've learnt not be instantly judgemental with others, but with myself first. It helped me to find balance and seeing both sides of an argument or situation, but it was used so many times against me (my father apoligzed for this in hindsight, by the way) that I ended up being overtly judgemental with myself. So yeah, a generally harmful thing with some useful side effects, I guess.
I get now why people told me that I‘m arrogant. But honestly I don‘t have my life in order and struggle with feeling overwhelmed from time to time. Therefore I would put myself in „Doing the work“ because that‘s exactly what I‘m doing. And it already made some changes. I definitely see my younger self in that video. But today I cut out these cringey phases like „oh the world needs brightness.“ 🤣 And I‘m genuinely more positive. I really love your videos. It definitely helped me understand other peoples intentions and think patterns.
Just FYI, this video is savage and just AMAZING but please y’all don’t actually believe we think we have ‘nothing to learn’ 😂 we may like to think so but a more healthy INFJ will surely know that, besides some inherent insight/wisdom because of our particular perspective, we definitely have lots to learn when it comes to just living on Earth and doing the humaning. All types have their strengths and weaknesses^^
P.s. also why do I feel like I’m ALL the tiers at different times and in different aspects of life…. or is that just me overanalysing? :)