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  • Опубликовано: 23 мар 2023
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Комментарии • 49

  • @benjaminwillcox7096
    @benjaminwillcox7096 Год назад +31

    Time stamps:
    2:06 Can a marriage work without intimacy?
    4:10 How do you choose your tattoos?
    5:10 How do we let go of blame?
    9:00 Top 3 favorite books on parenting and on relationships?
    15:12 How can a traumatic childhood that pre-dates your memory impact your development?
    19:07 Which one of Kelly's tattoos is your favorite? (joke)
    20:16 I'm an ICU RN, how do I know if I'm burned out or depressed?
    26:02 My friends let their kids drink alcohol in a "controlled setting". Thoughts?
    31:31 Who is a person besides your parents who you look up to/seek advice from?
    33:42 Best way to stay connected to our teens?
    40:00 Piece of advice you love to give but find hard to follow?

    • @strnglhld
      @strnglhld Год назад +1

      You’re the real MVP

  • @jessicacamp22
    @jessicacamp22 Год назад +28

    These questions were fantastic, I’ve learned so much in this episode and it’s so great to see Kelly jump into the conversation. The calls are great but sometimes just hanging out with John and the crew really takes the edge off of all of the heavy stuff. Kinda like how the song of the day kinda brings the show to a close.

    • @jessicacamp22
      @jessicacamp22 Год назад +2

      Also love the book recommendations!

  • @Lianne459
    @Lianne459 Год назад +5

    Letting your kids drink-like a sip on a special occasion-is good because it demystifies how great it is. As a teen the kids would gather with wine coolers in paper bags at night because it wasn’t allowed and it was taboo. I never joined because my parents had wine with dinner and showed us it wasn’t a big deal.

  • @janemuir3546
    @janemuir3546 Год назад +9

    Always love the questions. Kelly's input is priceless, give her a raise. And John, you are brave with the tattoos and Kelly. She will have so much fun with you some day. I hope we get to witness her actions. Oh wait.... everyone has a box in their pocket that will record it for all of us.

  • @desareecrane8734
    @desareecrane8734 Год назад +15

    I ❤ these types of shows!!

  • @mikecabe1114
    @mikecabe1114 Год назад +1

    fantastic show! thanks for all you do

  • @YesThatsMeFolks
    @YesThatsMeFolks Год назад +2

    I learned so much! Thank you so much! You guys are awesome!

  • @twixmaestro7722
    @twixmaestro7722 Год назад +2

    Great show as always John! Congrats on 400!!

  • @flashthecorgi2053
    @flashthecorgi2053 Год назад +7

    Yay!! Love AMA’s!!

  • @user-bd5ye4th1d
    @user-bd5ye4th1d Год назад +1

    Thank you for your ministry! This has been the best podcast recommended to me ever and I learn so much from it! I am also sending all my MH interns to your podcast and clients when there's an issue you've addressed. Congratulations and God bless on the next 400!

  • @AlexBobalexRavenclaw
    @AlexBobalexRavenclaw Год назад +2

    I love that Jenna recommended David Thomas’ book. I listened to each one of his episodes on a podcast, called Dadville, twice because they are so helpful and I take them to heart.

  • @Lianne459
    @Lianne459 Год назад +4

    There is no reason to be married if you don’t have intimate relations. Then you have a cherished friendship, not a marriage.

    • @Mszahnclass95
      @Mszahnclass95 4 месяца назад +1

      I Agree 💯 got ha e that sexual attraction as well as everything else

  • @AnusiaLA
    @AnusiaLA Год назад +2

    I’m in ICU RN and I was getting to a point of looking up coding schools because I felt so annoyed by patients and families that I just couldn’t do anymore. So many people are awful to nurses. Families make it worse. They keep people who are clearly suffering “alive” just do get a check from the government or to spare their own suffering. I’d do compressions on 80 year olds and feel their ribs brake and the family tells you to do everything even when you explain to them there is no chance of them making it. They take stoked out grandma who had a peg tube placed because she can’t eat without aspirating… and they feed her thanksgiving dinner and then she dies and they look at me like I was the one that did something wrong.
    It’s a hard and thankless job most of the time. Not to mention the hospitals who only care about money and the unit is always understaffed. Even if the staffing is good they put people on call (and take their PTO) and make the unit understaffed on purpose.

    • @isay207
      @isay207 Год назад

      Administration allows abuse of nurses thats why they're quitting on droves in Canada

  • @hawlet03
    @hawlet03 Год назад +1

    Sorry, just a small comment, that Gábor Maté is a proud Hungarian living in Canada. Excited about the show, keep going on!

  • @GwenMotoGirl
    @GwenMotoGirl Год назад +10

    Age does not reduce the need for sex and intimate connection for many. This belief is a problem for those of us with a partner who believes this and uses this to distance. I’m grateful to be single and no longer in that situation because it’s misery.

    • @sackettfamily4685
      @sackettfamily4685 Год назад +2

      I think he's talking about aging out of sex in the 70-90s as things change. But Even then it a fair assumption that not all sexual things stop. He was deliberately saying sexual intercourse, not everything else. As that's a lot more adjustable to aging.

    • @GwenMotoGirl
      @GwenMotoGirl Год назад +3

      @@sackettfamily4685 I get it. I’m 63. I’m in the best physical and emotional condition in my life. I’ve taken great care of myself. This is a concern for me and so many I know who are now sexually mismatched in marriages with partners who won’t even consider a solution or intervention. My ex used age as an attempt to shame me into accepting it, and he found much validation from those who say aging out of sex is normal.

    • @janemuir3546
      @janemuir3546 Год назад +2

      ​@@GwenMotoGirl I so understand your thinking.

    • @GwenMotoGirl
      @GwenMotoGirl Год назад

      @@janemuir3546 thank you, and I’m sorry that you do.

    • @bffoxjr
      @bffoxjr Год назад

      Exactly. Charlie Chaplin was fathering kids in his 80s. Old folks homes are rife with sexual debauchery.

  • @jaylavansloun1994
    @jaylavansloun1994 Год назад

    You guys are amazing. I know it may get annoying delony picking on Kelly but I couldn't stop laughing.

  • @Mysterious_Moon
    @Mysterious_Moon Год назад +2

    Would be jazzed for interview with John and Gábor Maté.

  • @janethomas78
    @janethomas78 Год назад

    Honestly, Most people are misunderstood and accused of blaming somebody when actually they asking.WHY and wanting to understand.

  • @nedawilmhoff3599
    @nedawilmhoff3599 Год назад

    With our sons we learned seeing great nature was ok for vacation but there were minimal complaints and they were much happier if there was a pool were we stayed.

  • @maxkiley3369
    @maxkiley3369 Год назад +3

    Kelly is amazing

  • @Riverrules666
    @Riverrules666 Год назад

    What album is that in the background?

  • @jkbc
    @jkbc 4 месяца назад

    have you ever had a second thought about the advice you have given to anyone and you had to call them back and made a revision?

  • @Mszahnclass95
    @Mszahnclass95 4 месяца назад +1

    No way .i could not live without connecting in the bed . Touching not just in the sheets is just as important especially a women in their prime .an men in their mid life. bonding with the person you love .thats me nowadays drs can prescribed

  • @mariee.5912
    @mariee.5912 Год назад +3

    🎉🎉 😂 first 17 here.

  • @vjs4539
    @vjs4539 Год назад

    My husband gets mad if I read books. I can't even have them in the house unless they are religious books

    • @nancyglezhdez
      @nancyglezhdez Год назад +1

      Wtf that sounds abusive

    • @markt4281
      @markt4281 Год назад +1

      As a Christian, that’s toxic.

    • @markt4281
      @markt4281 Год назад

      Depends on the books

    • @MsMak03
      @MsMak03 8 месяцев назад +1

      That’s wild

  • @ThisMissK
    @ThisMissK Год назад +1

    10x 👍 for vulgar!

  • @alejandrocano1994
    @alejandrocano1994 Год назад

    Why do you have a Colombian flag in the background

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 Год назад +1

      It’s a band called the Avett brothers and that’s what their cover for the album is. (True sadness)

    • @alejandrocano1994
      @alejandrocano1994 Год назад

      @@flashthecorgi2053 thanks for that info

  • @tomnohmy1273
    @tomnohmy1273 Год назад +1

    I wanted to ask u a question but I was speaking in tongues today.

  • @chrismamcdonald2291
    @chrismamcdonald2291 5 месяцев назад

    J

  • @finismartin7626
    @finismartin7626 Год назад

    He promotes dream cloud mattresses
    They are overpriced garbage, I wouldn't recommend

  • @amandagriffin9485
    @amandagriffin9485 Год назад +5

    I don't totally disagree with not letting a child drink alcohol in your home. However, by this logic, shouldn't a child not hold a gun until they are 18 (and really should be 21). Guns are the number one cause of injury related deaths in kids. What good can come of this given the data we have on the dangers of guns?