I will not tolerate any victim blaming or other inappropriate comments. Thanks all & be kind to each other! And support Shelby! Domestic violence resources: US based hotline, 24 hours/7 days/365 days a year: www.thehotline.org/ UK resources: www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help
Kind sir/mam, may I please have a full photo of the defendant’s response with your annotations included? I think your notes are great and my english is bad so I cannot annotate his response myself. Thank you!
@@madeleinebrett-matthewson71421 i mean she could b lying since there isnt proof, so shes prolly saying it to make him look bad? she has a pretty large community too, and really anyone can be manipulative
I just hope with all my heart that he actually learnt from this like he said in his apology. I don’t see him as a bad person but i know he did bad things and many of them. I just hope he changed these habits.
@@NotSensyYT its not even an apology to be fair, he still called their relationship "playful" and "consentual" when she stated that he didn't care and weaponized their safeword. When he doesn't hold accountability for his own actions, it makes one doubt the change is even possible when he does not recognize how his behaviour was (and is) wrong
@@NotSensyYTalthough I do think he's a bad person and I can't say your opinion is wrong. But I will say in terms of his response, as a victim of an manipulator/emotional abuser, most don't change. And you can't convince them to unless if it's their idea. Often times they'll lie and pretend they've changed or just ignore that all the shit they did happened. Not 100% saying wilbur is doing that, but it is likely imo.
Thank you for saying this. Wilbur *was* one of my content creators and I am very sad he went down this road and is a terrible person but I refuse to support him.
To be honest, I just want a way to listen to NPT and One Day without supporting Wilbur until he (And I pray to god he does) either shows proof Shubble is lying (See: Kwite. Not saying she is, just saying its happened before) or actually makes an effort to make himself a better person. Just to be clear, I'm not defending him nor do I think he deserves to keep his fame and wealth, I'm just a big believer in redemption.
I just want to say how proud i am of Clem Everett as a channel for uploading this. Considering the majority of this channel was devoted to Lovejoy and W!ilbur content it must have taken a lot to change so rapidly and to that i am in utter awe. Well done to Clem Everett and my heart goes out to Shelby for having to endure this and all those affected.
It's the least I could do. Thank you all for taking this seriously and supporting Shelby throughout this. I've been a fan of Shelby longer than I've been a fan of Wilbur or Lovejoy, and beyond that I've supported many women through abusive situations and it's so important to warn and protect others. Much love!
she's so brave for even having the courage to talk about that. honestly, i am so disappointed in wilbur. i can't believe he would do something like that. sending love and strength to all of the victims!! ❤
Yk what I'm disappointed in? I'm disappointed that people are dumb and just believe shit from 1 video. She's mocking abuse victims and trying to ruin his career. The thing is is that people are so good at lying that they can easily fool millions of people and ruin someone's life. Think about Wilbur. If he lost all his fans, life, money, and mental sanity. This is what leads people to suicide. When rumours are spread and it wrecks someone's life so much. That they want to end it. So, don't believe everything off 1 story. Think about the bigger picture and grow up
this is disgusting. this man got me through suicidal times and times of abuse and all the venting of other people i cant believe i found comfort in a monster.
You didn't find comfort in a monster, you found comfort in the character he showed. Public personas are rarely what the person is truly like. I'm glad his persona helped you, and it wouldnt be bad if it still does, even if who he truly is is awful Just...uh, probably only go for like...old clips or something to avoid accidentally supporting him if you'd like to hold on to some of it
@@ik.-.same I mean how far would many people would go to let this anger fester to the point that they would take it out on others who expressed themselves and be delusional to the point that they would point fingers on those who expressed their opinions differently and assuming that they’re supporting an abuser when it’s not the case that’s one of the reasons I’ve always hated about discourse when it comes to their idols being caught red handed and not helping out with themselves in a situation is that they’re want people to be mad and rightfully so but don’t consider their own ego getting in the way of how to approach something so serious when it comes to Shelby’s situation here and the trauma they end inflicting on her and the worst part is they don’t see that until their accounts are deactivated
Like the others have said, he has had a persona online, a comforting-funny-relatable persona that everyone loved, that's what you put your comfort on. Not the person behind the persona. I'm sorry that you've been suicidal. I hope that you're doing fine now.
I can’t believe I’ve ever supported that man i’m truly disgusted by him now. Shelby is so brave for speaking up. I hope she can heal from this horrible experience
my bf has low functioning autism and he bites me to show affection, however, it has never hurt me and he knows not to go to far, so i do understand people biting to show affection but this is to far and when it gets out of hand like this it is abuse, we're here for u shubble
i really didn’t want to believe it was will.. i thought it was just another rumour and that he would never do something like this but he did. shelby is so brave for speaking out about this and it really seems like wilbur has some unresolved issues to deal with. it’s sad because i used to really look up to and admire wilbur
@@lukeherzog6083 i didn't want to believe it either but remember that content creators have a personality on the internet that is very different from how they are in real life sometimes... you can't trust everyone or get attached because stuff like this can happen to anyone nowadays
I'm not defending him at all. With this being said, his 'apology' was him trying to give more information. He apologized within it, but it was not generally an apology. Edit : This being said, it does not make it any better. His information was try to manipulate people into believing he was the victim, or not responsible.
@@edensgraces i agree. It was lacking for sure. I also think it was pure raw thoughts, rather than something very put together. Wilbur doesn't seem to realize how bad it was. (This is not defence for him, it was fucked up)
omd fr💀💀 he was being hella self centred. I swear he better get in trouble for this😡 shubble deserves betterr🤩🤩 and im so glad so many people are on her side, so am i btw❤️🤩✨
Thank you for posting this, making it easier to find resources. Posting the responses ftom others, Like Aimsy, Tubbo, and Ranboo, would also help people better undeerstand. Thank you so much for making sure we are informed. Thank you fir keeping me informed.
I added to the description, but plan to make some videos particularly sharing Lexie Marie's VOD of her and Shelby discussing abuse, as well as Aimsey's stream today.
I’m so upset at how much i’ve supported wilbur while all of this was happening. I am DISGUSTED when Shelby said they yelled out the safe word and Wilbur bit even harder. Financial abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse, and manipulation. I’m so sick to my stomach. Fuck wilbur. Shelby is so brave for coming out with her story. Much love to her ❤🫂
Don't be upset at yourself for having supported Wilbur, he did seem like a very nice guy on the internet. That's the danger of domestic violence: Often, no one else knows about it and therefore, no one can do anything about it. What's important is to believe and support victims of abuse when they tell their stories and to be willing to change your relationship with a person/stop supporting a person if they are revealed to be an abuser. Since you seem to very much do that, you're doing everything you can. And that is good and enough.
"While I may percieve our interactions differently, I recognize that this person has processed and expressed feelings of hurt." is literally just a long winded way of saying "I'm sorry YOU feel like that."
I have a super close friend who bites as a sign of affection, and I can say that it is never to the point of pain. The fact that Wilbur was doing it to that point frequently and playing it off as an accident then doing it in front of friends until she screamed is so angering to hear. Just the idea of it being an "accident" and then not at other times makes it hard to believe it was ever an accident to begin with Edit: You can play bite someone without hurting them. It is common to do as a result of oral fixation. Most just don't use pressure when doing this. Wilbur doing it to a point of pain is preventable on his part. I don't get how what I said makes it seem like I'm okay with people doing it in a way to hurt others. That's like saying play fighting (like fake punching with no force) is the same as real fighting or hitting.
I'm autistic and I also bite my family to show affection. I never, EVER bite to the point of hurting, never leave marks, or would continue to bite after they said it hurt. I hope Shelby is doing well
fr. When I get exited I bite, but it's always myself and yes, it has gotten to the point of bruising but it is only ever to myself. I would never subject ANYONE to that pain because, while it's a subconscious thing, when I realise I'm in pain it fucking hurts
fucking hell. ive said this before and ill say it again: coming out about your traumatic abuse is one thing but coming out to the WHOLE INTERNET? FUCKING BRAVE. SHELBY DESERVES ALL THE LOVE. SHE IS SO FUCKING AWESOME FOR SPEAKING OUT LIKE THIS. WOOOOOO Wilbur's "apology" was like the embodiment of that one meme where the guy is getting dressed up as a clown for every box. thats what i saw reading his statement. utter, vile bullshit. i am so sorry to the people hurt by him. disgusting. thank you, Clem, for posting this and making people aware. looking forward to any other cool concerts, and have fun at the ones you go to :)
I heard that part and i was Like "wait a second, am i Like that too?" Because my room is messy, but then i remembered that i would never in a Million year physicaly, financialy or mentaly hurt anyone i care about, i Always apologize for every mistake i make and i actively try to better myself. Will is a horrible Person for that and i feel ashamed for even considering to compare myself to that
exactly, i used to do this to excuse my moms abuse of me literally until i was 18 and realized that abuse is abuse not matter how someone was raised. its up to THEM to heal and change
@@mariannehorn1375 I heard the biting part and had the same reaction like 'Wait a second, am I like that too?'. I like biting but if my partner told me it hurts and they want me to stop I would stop. And like breaking someone's skin is not easy, that doesn't just accidentally happen... there's serious intent behind that or *IF* it's accidental it wouldn't happen that often. Makes me sick to my stomach she kept telling him to stop and he wouldn't. He just straightup abused her and enjoyed all of it. I'm glad she's away from that disgusting monster.
@@mariannehorn1375yeah I totally know how you feel. My routines are a reeeeaaal mess (because of ADHD and other stuff) and slightly began to feel bad and worried that me being bad at keeping up the routines is a red flag. But as long as we don't begin to make it the problem of others and we don't begin to rely too much on the help of others and become too complacent, it's fine. I know that the moment, anyone other than me had to deal with it, I would be able to chance it.
True, once you're adult you should know that's just common sense. Poor Shelby fell into "I can fix him" trap. No, that doesn't happen with adult men, they either come out right on their own effort and accord or that's just how they are. Outside forces don't really have an influence on stuff like that. So don't bother falling for "potential" or having pity when they have same arms and legs and even boast about being stronger. They're plenty capable.
as one of the many ppl who got sucked into the dsmp/minecrafters bubble during early covid this is so heartbreaking to watch. i'm so sorry to shelby and niki and anyone who was hurt by him. i cant imagine how scary it must have been to come forward against sb who was so so widely loved and respected on the internet as a "comfort streamer" and musician
REAL I just mentioned this in a different reply section, but during 2020-2021 I was REALLY into the Minecraft community in general. Seeing this news after not really knowing any recent drama/ events/lore etc.(besides the dream vs gumball va thing) is mind-blowing at a minimum.
@@sorrybusyreadingand someone’s pov bc they met Wilbur and shubble told him “don’t we have somewhere to be?” like she was pissed that he stopped to interact with a fan.
@@sorrybusyreadingshe doesn’t want to admit it, she sent death threats to minors and abused 3 people, her boyfriends. so where’s the proof? where’s the bruises? let me know where are the bruises on shubble?
Oh my god. I would have never known about this and about who he really is without you telling your story. I was SA’d a couple months ago and I’m so sorry. Power to the victims. It’s hard to hear this as I’ve been a fan of him for so long but I believe you. We believe you.
I can’t believe Shelby had to go through this pain and it hurts me that my comfort streamer was the one who caused it. I’m so proud that she had the courage to explain but i just feel so betrayed by Wil.
I hate how he wanted to be a DAD. if you can’t even take care of your partner and not DOMESTICALLY ABUSE THEM, there’s no way he could be safe with kids. 100% supporting Shelby.
@@ZO-NEX0 first of all, shut up. second, she was abused. third, he wasnt "affectionately biting", he was biting. fourth, he didnt have consent most of the time, there was a safe word, he didnt listen to her when she said it
@@ZO-NEX0consent starts small and gets bigger. if he can’t handle consent for biting, who’s the say he’ll be able to for bigger things. plus all financial abuse, manipulation and everything else mentioned in the video are pretty key things to remember.
Dude, a lot of his songs make a lot of sense now. It's like he makes himself the victim in his songs, I never could explain this properly until now. Wow. Love for Shelby.
Yeah I was listening to Your New Boyfriend for the nostalgia the other day and the "I just think that I deserve a little bit of what I've earned" line stuck out to me as weird
@@Ispspsps-kl1ltthat entire song was parody on the 'nice guy' trope, that's not a song about him, it's about a make believe character the song is from the perspective of. call out will all you want but at least do it right
Poor girl, she was so brave for telling everyone the truth and sharing her story, venting... 'cause saying things about artists is hard, since their number of fans is huge... Honestly, i was never a fan of Wilbur but since i knew him, he always looked so nice and i was comfortable with his streams... So as i didnt know much of him, i didnt know about Shubble... now i do... I had been abus3d in a relationship, but mentally, and just like her: i didnt think it was too much to be considered a problem... Women, please search deep about abus3 and know you have a voice... i really know how hard it is to tell the person to stop or how you feel.. but you all will get through it! ❤
I’m so shocked that Wilbur, the man I found comfort in with my own abuse and my own life, has done this to someone. He’s a monster. I hate that I supported this man. Support Shelby ❤
I saw someone else reply to a comment with this but it’s such an important message to share: You did not find comfort in him as a person, you found comfort in the character that he played. the character is supposed to be comforting and relatable, and it’s not your fault for finding comfort in his online persona. none of us know celebrities or youtubers other than the small amount of them we see online. It’s not your fault because you didn’t know, but you know now and that’s when it counts. I hope you are doing better and have been able to move past the abuse you have experienced.
@@panickingpianoman He said many times in streams that who he is online is just a facade. We knew all along he was different behind the scenes but none of us expected his true self to be so far fetched from the meticulously crafted persona he put on online. The fact it's all so calculated is a little concerning.
@laurequackHaving empathy for each and every person is important, but context is just as important. On a video detailing the abuse that a victim suffered, I think it's completely appropriate to label her abuser as a monster. Sure, he can change, but that's just not relevant right now.
It’s the last sentence in that whole “apology” that really shows how he sees this situation. “I am dedicated to earning and maintaining the trust of those around me and hope I continue to be held to these HIGH STANDARDS I wish to attain and maintain” He refers to being held accountable and not abusing someone as a “high standard.” This is abuse and I send all my love and support to Shelby and I want everyone reading this to do the same
I'm an autistic person, people using his autism to justify this behaviour is absolutely disgusting. Autistic people can at times overstep boundaries and hurt people accidentally, but autistic people can recognize when they're being abusive and or intentionally hurtful. I'm honestly ashamed people can ever even think that it may be an excuse for it. An autistic abuser being autistic doesn't ever justify abuse, or even give the abuse a reason. I'm so srry this happened to Shelby, these types of situations can be incredibly traumatic and damaging, i can see the manipulation in this story clear as day. Good luck to all domestic abuse survivors and victims, my heart goes out to every one of them, including Shelby.
It's also really silly that people were jumping on the "autism as a defense" train when it's not even confirmed that he really IS an autistic person. He made an offhand joke about having special interests once, and his fans kind of ran with that.
Just watched Tubbo's response and it's crazy how mature his response actually is compared to someone literally 7 years his senior. I'm actually glad to see that he was genuinely angry and was imploring everyone to support Shelby. I'm so glad to see Shelby get all the support she deserves, especially from those who were in Wilbur's circles.
I have never been a Shubble viewer, but my heart goes out to her! So many women endure abuse for fear of the consequences that would come from speaking out. Shelby is so brave for sharing her experiences, and i am so happy to hear her stating the power she feels now that she is free. I never considered myself a Wilbur fan, but i have watched some of his content in the past. He is obviously a man with some serious issues that need to be addressed (and this is not an excuse for what he did). I hope Shelby's story is able to spread awareness, and that others can avoid falling into a similar situation. My heart also goes out to anyone who has been in a sililar situation to what she described here. You are so strong.
This honestly helped me sort through some stuff from the abusive relationship I got out of 8-9 months ago. I’ve been trying to find a whole video of what she said and I’m really happy you posted this thank you
I’m completely on Shelby’s side, but I have been a fan I’ve Lovejoy since they formed, and a massive fan of Wilbur from 2019. Hearing this breaks my heart because I didn’t think he was the person who would do that. I feel guilty talking about lovejoy and/or Wilbur because I feel like I’m defending the abuser, especially since this band is/was my special interest. Thank you so much for uploading this clem, we love you
remember, there are still three other amazing members of that band! however, we haven’t been given the future of Lovejoy yet, for now, support Shelby and don’t listen to Wilbur’s own music! :) /gen
He always seemed a bit off to me from the start, couldn't take a joke at his expense, would go ballistic if someone made him look uncool, was full of virtue signaling performances, constantly lecturing and "educating" his peers about social issues he has no business in. His creepypasta quirkiness was early Shane Dawsonesque too. It was obvious he was putting on a "I'm a bit of a sad boy, classy, edgy old soul, dead poet society, danisnotonfire, Im14AndThisIsDeep gentleman" facade, and was a bit of a psycho in reality. Certainly didn't expect it this much though, just thought he was vain, pretentious and had a short fuse but wouldn't go through something like this to ruin his narcissistic holier-than-thou image. He doesn't even show remorse, he's sorry he got caught and that she expressed hurt, he's not sorry about causing the hurt.
The other guys in Lovejoy are blameless. They'll do something else in the future. That drummer is so bloody good you could put him into any top tier band and he'd fit right in with no problems at all.
This absolutely broke my heart. The fact that Shelby had to go through all that is just so sad and it makes me so upset. The fact that anyone, no less Wilbur soot, could do this to someone and just absolutely exploit them and their boundaries is vile. Wilbur’s music and Lovejoys music has always been my favourite, idk how I’ll go about phasing it out of my music taste but it WILL happen. I will support shelby wholeheartedly through EVERYTHING.
thank you for not capitalizing on this horrible situation like all the drama channels out there. this was the only clip i could find that wasn't super click baity and monetized, not to mention you included a fundraiser and wilbur's annotated response. thank you 🙏, and i'm glad shelby told her story
you literally don't know the story.. you're such a sheep wow. One girl makes an allegation and everyone just believes it immediately? There's 0 evidence and you just take her side..? This whole comment section is so crazy..
As someone who used to support Wilbur and lovejoy, it’s feels so disgusting to know that I supported him while this abuse was going in behind the scenes. Man, looking back there were so many clues that we missed, in lyrics like “I abuse those I love while I ostracise the ones who love me”, and like the entirety of New Boyfriend and Nice guy ballad. And his “apology” was nothing short of vile. How he in his mind believed that it would “fix” his problems I have no idea. He made it all about himself, his emotions, his thoughts when he should be taking OWNERSHIP of his actions. I very much hope he goes to therapy and learns about his fucked up actions. And Shelby, I wish nothing but the best for her. She’s brave just talking about it, let alone on the internet. She and other victims, deserved so much better and I hope the fandom/community can rally around them and give them some love.
I distinctly recall in one stream (idk if it was his own or on phils) saying how he did not like people thinking about him often or putting him on a pedestal (fair enough, me neither), but I did find it a tad odd that he said “I’m not a good person”. Which for most part flew under the radar for me, because it’s fairly normal. In this new context, it makes me wonder if he had some level of self-awareness of who he is. Those lyrics you mentioned sure does make me wonder
I kind of fell off of the wilbur train awhile back. He always seemed to be playing a character. In one of his houses (idk if it's the one he is now). during a fundy video you can tell he wasn't all the person he said it was. He had holes in the walls from hitting them out of anger. This situation really brings up the "celebrate the art not the artist." I can't support Wilbur like at all, but i probably will still listen to Lovejoy just because I enjoy the music but I probably wont be listening to his solo music. I don't know much about this person but she is so fucking brave for telling everyone. And it makes me sick that someone would abuse someone else let alone biting.
@@Thicc_Cheese_Dip there are other people in that band, I don’t think that’s fair to them. I understand though that it’s a bit of a gray area since he still would be profiting. 😕
Adding to this video to people who think he’s changed : In his twitch chat his mods were banning people who were showing support towards Wilbur and the mods were spreading links for to support domestic abuse victims through a bot and extend support to shelby. Today though Wilbur has unmodded all his mods, got rid of the bot spreading the link and when people tried alerting twitch that he had no mods he made a burner to make mod and unban the people the mods before banned (mind you its because he wanted the money, the people the mods banned were people who were subbing during that time). What’s worse is that his burner account is called jebediah springfield a character in simpsons and Wilbur KNOWS simpsons, jebediah is a bad person in simpsons a person saw as a hero iirc but turned out to be a murderous pirate now the worst part is that this character has an ex girlfriend called SHELBYville manhattan, he knows full well what he’s doing and it’s fucking vile. He is not sorry at all. His apology is supposed to be manipulative do not believe it, he just wants his fame and money. Edit: Just a little extra ; Shelbyville the character wanted a town devoted to chastity and abstinence and Shelby herself is asexual and i don’t think that’s a coincidence, he’s using this simpsons thing in attempt to mock.
just came here to comment the same thing so boosting this - i don't want to see anyone claiming he's "changed" or is "actually sorry" about what he did. this proves he isn't as if his nothing burger of a statement wasn't proof enough
It hurts so much to know that a man that helped me through the worst parts of my life is actually just a abuser and just disgusting in general , I just want to disappear right now (I’m obviously not supporting Wilbur) Anyway , all of my support to Shubble ❤️ edit : I didn’t even totally finished the video and I feel like throwing up like , I physically feel sick…
Hey, you got through the worst parts of your life. Just know even tho he is an abuser, it doesn't make you a bad person, and the happiness you had was still real. You liked good qualities, you couldn't have known about the bad ones. You are not wrong or invalid for enjoying his content years ago, you were going through a rough time and found a way to make it through, that's what matters, be proud of yourself for that, and for being able to hold him accountable, you got this
hope this helps to explain why personally respect both of them greatly: He's clearly been struggling with his mental health, this is what happens when depression and such is managed poory, it gets taken out on loved ones. If you choose to "cancel" him then you are saying that people can't charge and shouldn't try to. Support Shelby, don't ruin someone's life. This is not the time to shame Wilbur this is the time to encourage a new era of personal growth, something which he has clearly been trying to do himself. You don't have to give up on him just because of this, people should shift their perspective of him from some kind of idol to a regular person.
I feel so sick as well when she talked about the anxiety and the safe word usage i was shivering with anger. Fuck him fr for being such a terrible dude. I hope shelby can fully recover from this.
@@bcw1nc86529:34 "In my opinion, I do think that there are some things that are across a line that make you a bad person. I don't think that most people can be defined in a black and white, 'you're good or you're bad,' but I do believe there's a line that you can cross, and only bad people will do the things on the other side of that line." It's really sympathetic that you think he can change, but having depression doesn't cause abusive behavior like this on its own. People with depression do not make the conscious decision to hurt those they've loved, intentionally, and with a smile on their face. I don't think it's appropriate at all to respect someone who lies and abuses the people that they claim to love. I sure as hell wouldn't count on somebody who's made no effort to better himself to suddenly have a change of heart, and a person like that shouldn't get any of your respect until he truly does.
@@a66x No you did not, there was no apology and he didn’t even acknowledge the actual problem. He just said he thought biting was consensual when she never even said it wasn’t. He’s literally trying to make it look like she said something she didn’t. She did NOT consent to being HURT. She has no problem with biting, she has a problem with him trying to hurt her. He did not say he was sorry for hurting her, he did not even acknowledge that he did. He removed all of his mods and made a burner account mod with a username to mock Shelby. If you think that sterile response to try to avoid backlash is sincerity you’re lying to yourself.
All of this genuinely made me cry. I’ve followed Shelby since I was in middle school and now I’m 21. So about 8 years. I haven’t seen her content as much recently but I always supported her and as a person on the asexual spectrum I just valued her so much for speaking on it. I suspected she was dating Will at one point and I just felt happy for her because I thought she was happy. And I feel so horrible that I ever felt happy for her in those moments. I support Shelby in every way I can even if she doesn’t know me. I care about her and her happiness as a human being and I think everyone should always do that for anyone. And it’s clear Will did not feel the same way. F*** him and those who can excuse his actions.
as someone who bites affectionately, its really not hard to not hurt someone when biting them 😭😭 i occasionally bite too hard by accident if we’re being kind of more playful and roughhousing, but normally its like, if im biting someone its barely any pressure bc yk. why would you be biting someone hard enough to hurt (unless that’s what they want in which case yall do yall)
@@alyssataylorsversion13i cant tell if this is sarcasm or what, but affectionately biting someone isnt abuse? its when you bite too hard on purpose or refuse to acknowledge someone's discomfort that it's abuse
@@alyssataylorsversion13 Man you're either a troll or you're entirely misunderstanding WHY biting can be abusive. The fact that Wilbur bit her is not abusive, it's the repeated ignoring of boundaries, the purposeful hurting in a way that eventually came to punish behaviour he did not like, and the active refusal to change. It's the escalation of behaviour and disregard of your partner's health and safety. Accidentally biting someone too hard is not itself an abusive behaviour.
Ugh just the image of someone biting someone’s SKIN and grinding it makes me want to wince but imagine that happening on a daily bases for months on your LEGS. What the heck. Poor Shelby ☹️
Genuinely I can’t believe this happened, I feel so bad for Shelby!! I can’t believe that he would’ve done this stuff, I honestly think him biting you should’ve been served as a red flag anyway, regardless if his mom had said he had it since he was a kid. Shelby is honestly so brave and courageous for sharing this, the fact that it takes most people so, so, SO long to tell people that they are being abused emotionally, physical, and sexual. I feel so bad for everything Shelby had endured throughout this entire relationship, I really do hope she’s doing better after this messy situation! :(
Biting is perfectly fine as long as it is consenting. This was not consensual, from everything they (Shelby) said it would extremely difficult not to understand he was hurting her. The fact they would yell the safe word, or have to say it several times in a day, is an indicator that he purposefully ignored her. It's not just the biting either that makes this abuse, it's what he's said and how he's acted as well. One thing I'd like to point out is with these kinds of things, the abuser cares heavily on appearances. With the "apology" and how he acted when with friends is a good example of that. For everyone outside of this, give people time to respond. Some of them quite literally could not have known, and others are reeling from the news that they aren't alone or that something happened to Shelby. Do not press Shelby nor her circle to give more information or to reply. Honestly the same thing with Wilbur's circle as well, give them time to process. Especially since there are people who run in both. It will come out when it's ready and by doing that, you are also supporting her in another way.
I don’t usually comment on things, but I just wanted to say that I think you have handled this situation so well Clem. Your response was extremely tactful, especially considering how much of your channel surrounded lovejoy and Wilbur content. I see and appreciate how much you are putting the emphasis on the victims story first and foremost. This video is a great resource for people wanting to become informed about the situation--unbiased and with all the important info. I came for lovejoy, but I'm sticking around for you. Keep up the great work man.
Will was someone i admired way to much... and i really enjoyed his content, but i'm not so sure now if i'd like to continue knowing much about him. I wouldn't stop listening to lovejoy though (don't wanna affect the rest of the band), but i do give full suport to Shelby, and i want to send lost of love her way!!! She's so brave for telling her experience with a abusive relationship and i wish she has a very well deserved recoverie!!!
This is actually insane the abuse and filth i never thought he wad like this i used to watch dsmp alot and everyone seemed like genuine friendly people the internet seriously hides so much from the real world i love shelby she’s actually so strong for this you cannot defend this guy in any way how will anyone even be fans of him idk we love you shelby
Narcissism is a personality disorder that comes from childhood neglect and trauma and it doesn't automatically make someone evil, so let's not throw around the word like that.
@@loveablesimpno one is throwing that word around like its nothing. wilbur is an abuser and a lot of abusers tend to be narcissists and he might be one too
Nearly a year ago I broke up with my abusive ex and I have hardly told anyone the true extent of the things I endured. Sometimes I still doubt and blame myself and wonder if I truly were abused or if I am simply victimizing myself, but hearing people like shubble share their stories is so validating and provides me with so much reassurance that what I went through wasn't ok and I'm not alone either. It's painful and difficult to talk about things like this but it's important. I wish nobody ever endured things like this but it makes me feel better to know I am not alone and it is ok to feel how I feel. I am really proud of shubble for sharing her story and I'm really happy she did and hope other victims can also find validation and reassurance in what she has said, I just can't believe there are some people defending Wilbur.
You're brave as hell for being willing to talk about this stuff publicly, especially when it regards someone as large as him. Nice job freeing yourself.
Bro I watched shubble so much and she was so positive and I was so happy, seeing how bad of things shes gone through with someone so many people trusted breaks my heart. I just found this out because I came back but she deserves all the love and support in the world. It was the right time and horrible person, Shelby is kind and deserves every good thing in the world, she didn't deserve this burden or pain
#supportshelby im so sorry she had to go through this and that she had to stay quite for so long , wilbur has forever tinted my image of him , his music and his content , i really hope shubbel gets the support she deserves.
shelby is so so SO brave for this. we love you shelby thank u for sharing ur story! and thank u for uploading this clem everett, this has empowered so many people and honestly been so eye opening. im in shock still in the middle of this video
For Shelby: I am so sorry that you went through this. We say stop and we mean stop! I found that your story has helped me, even today, after many years of processing my own relationships with abusers. Let us pray that the work is actually done and changes are practiced and perfected so that the world can live in harmony. Thank goodness for your friends for helping out and for standing with you. Be safe and remember that he knows that you know and that is not good as the slander will follow. Hold on to your truths. Keep doing your own work. It’s what will help us forgive and move on. Learn from the past and never forget. Heal and be safe.
My inner child is fucking having her heart ripped out rn. Like what the fuck this man has bought me thru the hardest times in my life and here we are him being a fucking domestic abuser. My heart genuinely goes out to shubble and well done for speaking up bout this. and I can’t believe this genuinely this is fucking like idk ..
i had a very similar experience with an ex of mine. this is such a real issue, and idc if he genuinely thinks he's not in the wrong, he still is and didn't take any accountability for that fact in his bs apology. i stand with shelby!
im almost thirteen this year and have had this happen to me, i ever told anyone so im proud of shelby (a.k.a my favorite youtuber :3) for speaking out about this! :)
its important, because he is an abuser NOBODY should get away with that, no matter who they are or what they do, please try and think more before posting @@hotkfclover6169
@@hotkfclover6169 by supporting the music/video, you support the artist/creator, even if you don’t want to. It’s like saying to separate music from artist when that artist has said/sone horrible things.
I'm so, so sorry Shelby had to go through such an experience... A lot of hers really made me relate with a very similar abusive relationship I was in. People who say "Why don't you just leave then? The signs are all there!" don't understand how actually careful and manipulative these people are in making you believe what they are doing is actually fine and you are the problem. They do everything in their power to make you second guess yourself daily, because you yourself want to just love them and they know how to weaponize that love against you. Shelby is so strong for talking about her experience on the internet! I wish her the best and hope she will find someone who actually deserves and appreciates her
Thank you for your decision and the way you'll change your channel, and thank you for this fundraiser! For various reasons, I am incapable of donating, but I am glad you've put this into place!
Gosh it genuinely hurts me that Shelby went through such thing. Shelby's content has comforted me so much and it just hurts so much to see someone who has comforted me went through abuse. I'm glad that she had the courage to share all of this and I hope she gets even better now. At first I thought that Wilbur was just getting fake rumors because that happens but damn i'm just shocked and speechless at what he has done. It goes to show that not everyone is good in real life. Thank you so much for uploading this, I wouldn't be aware of it without this video.
Im in awe. I feel so horrible for shelby. actually in awe. awe that not only is wilbur a bad person but that he did this. i dont support him. sending love and support towards shelby during these hard times ❤❤
Shelby is so fucking strong for this, not only coming out about it and explaining it in the kindest most stubble way ever that Wilbur is a fucking abuser, plus that tweet: "and for the record, I don't accept ur apology". FUCKING ICONIC.
I looked up to willbur and now it feels like a crime to have felt that way about such a person. Shelby your amazing for speaking out it should be inspiring for others who are going through the same thing or who did
I hope you are doing better, I’m sorry you had to go through that. Drink water, eat food, get rest, you are incredibly important and reach out to the proper places if you need help. Lots of love, support Shelby (and all abuse victims) 🫶
my ex was so similar and luckily we couldn't meet in person bc we were long distance. Even Wilbur's apology reminded me of how he'll victimize himself even when he was the one who hurt me, i recognized it immediately when I saw it. It's crazy how he love bombed me and used me yet i had no clue how toxic he was being until we broke up... I've never watched Shelby's streams before but I'm proud of her for getting through this and sharing it to others to create awareness. It definitely helped me see how toxic my ex was and that i dodged a bullet.
@@SURI.-.101 ikr! yeah even if they look small they can lead to infections and stuff and can also lead to damaged tendons/joints too if it’s bad enough like i would be astounded if she didn’t have to get treatment for them cuz it sounded like he bit insanely hard
watched shelby as a kid shes literally the sweetest kindest personality ive ever seen online to abuse that is pure fucking evil. im so happy she didnt move in with him i dont even want to think about what wouldve happened. im happy she realized that quick and im so proud of her for leaving so early on shes so kind for buying everything for him. from food to basic cleaning supplies. its absolutely horrendous hearing how he lived and that he didnt care or pay for any of that himself, she is genuinely the sweetest for providing that when it absolutely wasnt her responsibility.
My god this is disgusting, I was never a big Wilbur fan but even just knowing that I enjoyed content he had a part in disgusts me. Nothing about this behavior is okay! And it just kept getting worse! I hope she can enjoy herself on her break and i am very glad she has friends supporting her!
Whatever messages he releases even if they show "consent" don't mean anything. Consent is willful, enthusiastic participation in the ongoing situation and is not something that lasts forever if given once. Any point after she used the safe word or said she wanted it to stop that past consent means absolutely nothing
Thank you for sharing your story 💗 It takes an incredible amount of strength to come out with these things publicly! Know that you are not alone and loved 💗🤗
wow. i am so sorry to hear this. this hurts. it is so so so hard to leave something even when it hurts you. and you know they love you. but that is not love. that is abuse. it hurts to hear victims tell their story, it brings such a crushing reality to a person. however, you are helping SO MANY potential victims, not just about him but about anyone. listen to the flags. don't think "i can fix this" or "but i know they love me" or "its okay this will get better". be cautious, be critical, and listen to your intuition, if you feel like something is wrong, leave, if people warn you, listen and leave. be careful
i feel so bad for shelby . i've been a fan of lovejoy and wilbur's whole music career for years . i genuinely thought he was a good person . i can't put into words how bad i feel for her . support shelby 100%
Its insane how little we actually know these people and still find comfort in them. Abuse is unforgivable and vile. I don’t believe that people who abuse can change, like Shelby said if you cross that line theres evil in you thatll never fade.
I can't believe this, Shelby is really so brave for sharing. I'm just not really sure how to feel about this. One of my fav youtubers turns out to be an abuser, fake, non-sincere apologies and all.
when it's some nameless person online claiming to have stuff done to them by a celeb there's a tiny thread of hope that you can hang onto to hope the person is lying it's not there he was someone i actually watched his banter with charlie his wholesomeness with tallulah it's all gone now im just gonna say that niki dodged a bullet
She Really, really didn’t… she basically implied that she experienced the same… she said she still shakes hearing his name 💔💔 Edit - I said Niki said she shakes hearing his name, but I misremembered her statement so going to copy it below: “I see that people expect me to say something about the situation. Truth is that I was freshly 18 years old when I met him, while I did not see a problem with it back then I can now see how harmful he was to my young self and how damaged I am from that time. My time in the UK had some of the darkest moments of my life (and I think people can tell from the way I used to act on stream) I still can’t think too much about everything that happened back then without shaking and I don’t want to, I always felt so unheard whenever I brought up any situation regarding that time. I don’t want to say more as I don’t want to make this situation about myself.”
@@danielmcluckie9596 Niki did? These poor wholesome women having to suffer from that vampire. He bit them, exploit their empathy and perhaps leave all kinds of scars for life. He was such a pretentious theatre kid always putting on a facade, he enjoyed playing villain a little too hard too.
Shubble is so sweet and I've become a mild fan of her in the past year or so. I had no idea that any of this happened and my heart goes out for her for having to endure any of this. Abuse and manipulation is very real in relationships and it is important to learn to let the person go for the safety and peace of mind for yourself. I really get how important it is to really pay attention and know your limits and needs. No one should have to go through any of this junk, but it sadly happens. And for those who have, and most importantly who have spoken out to share their experiences, you guys are your own heroes and are so strong! I gained a lot more respect for Shelby now after watching this video and look forward to her continuing to live her life out to the fullest and truly have fun and joy like what she has brought for us.
This is so wild. I cannot believe what Shubble has been through, and how much I used to love Wilbur's content. Never in a million years would I have imagined this, and yet it happened. I feel so bad for her and am so impressed by her bravery of coming out and saying this.
Wilbur apology is just god awful, he did not take accountability what so ever and it was just so wrong, i always looked up to wilbur in the past, he was the main reason I got into playing Minecraft but now hearing what he’s done is just sickening, nobody deserves what he has done to his victims, shelby/shubble has been one of my favorite RUclipsr for a long time and she has always been one of the sweetest person I’ve ever seen and I am just heartbroken that she has gone through this, I hope she gets all the love and support she deserves, many of other RUclipsrs such as Tubbo,Ranboo,Aimsey,Punz,Dream,Sneegsnag,Seapeekay,Badboyhalo and even Billzo have pick apart Wilbur’s “apology”, as much as it saddens me to hear how she was hurt by some she trusted it also warms my heart to see how much support she is getting, and to anyone how has been in a similar situation to shelby please know your not alone and there are people that will be there to love and support.
I could never ever imagine Will doing this but here we are, I'm supporting you and it's perfectly fine to be upset in this situation I'm Against physical abuse and I'm not standing for it, I'm so so sorry that you went through this xx
this one reaally hurt. to know the guy that i looked up to, the guy whos music basically got me through part of my life is an abusive piece of shit really stings. i want no nostalgia from an abuser (i immidiately and overdramatically deleted all of his songs from my playlists yesterday). always believe victims first. shelby is beyond strong for sharing this knowing his fanbase and how much people love him. im gonna just take all the energy i put over the years into supporting soot, into supporting shelby. what a strong, well spoken and eloquent person
I will not tolerate any victim blaming or other inappropriate comments. Thanks all & be kind to each other! And support Shelby!
Domestic violence resources:
US based hotline, 24 hours/7 days/365 days a year: www.thehotline.org/
UK resources: www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help
thank you for uploading this! many people need to see it!
Clem thank you for uploading this ❤❤❤
Kind sir/mam, may I please have a full photo of the defendant’s response with your annotations included? I think your notes are great and my english is bad so I cannot annotate his response myself. Thank you!
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thankyou for having this!! ❤
his apology had big “well i’m sorry You feel that way” energy
its more like "sorry i dont even have the guts to mention your name"
because he ended with "sorry if i hurt her in any way" like why the hell would she say all this if she wan't hurt? he is a piece of work
@@madeleinebrett-matthewson71421 what does wan't mean? did you mean wasn't or am i dumb
@@Muffin_Sammyim p sure they meant “wasnt”
@@madeleinebrett-matthewson71421 i mean she could b lying since there isnt proof, so shes prolly saying it to make him look bad? she has a pretty large community too, and really anyone can be manipulative
remember, its okay to feel upset that wilbur is a bad person but its NEVER okay to support an abuser. support shelby
I just hope with all my heart that he actually learnt from this like he said in his apology. I don’t see him as a bad person but i know he did bad things and many of them. I just hope he changed these habits.
@@NotSensyYT its not even an apology to be fair, he still called their relationship "playful" and "consentual" when she stated that he didn't care and weaponized their safeword. When he doesn't hold accountability for his own actions, it makes one doubt the change is even possible when he does not recognize how his behaviour was (and is) wrong
@@NotSensyYTalthough I do think he's a bad person and I can't say your opinion is wrong. But I will say in terms of his response, as a victim of an manipulator/emotional abuser, most don't change. And you can't convince them to unless if it's their idea. Often times they'll lie and pretend they've changed or just ignore that all the shit they did happened. Not 100% saying wilbur is doing that, but it is likely imo.
Thank you for saying this. Wilbur *was* one of my content creators and I am very sad he went down this road and is a terrible person but I refuse to support him.
To be honest, I just want a way to listen to NPT and One Day without supporting Wilbur until he (And I pray to god he does) either shows proof Shubble is lying (See: Kwite. Not saying she is, just saying its happened before) or actually makes an effort to make himself a better person. Just to be clear, I'm not defending him nor do I think he deserves to keep his fame and wealth, I'm just a big believer in redemption.
I just want to say how proud i am of Clem Everett as a channel for uploading this. Considering the majority of this channel was devoted to Lovejoy and W!ilbur content it must have taken a lot to change so rapidly and to that i am in utter awe. Well done to Clem Everett and my heart goes out to Shelby for having to endure this and all those affected.
It's the least I could do. Thank you all for taking this seriously and supporting Shelby throughout this. I've been a fan of Shelby longer than I've been a fan of Wilbur or Lovejoy, and beyond that I've supported many women through abusive situations and it's so important to warn and protect others. Much love!
@@ClemEverettYT Very very proud of her for speaking publicly and for you as a channel owner to support her by using your platform. Absolutely amazing
@ClemEverettLVJY what will you do now?
What's the point of saying W!lbur in a youtube comment, not Wilbur? I don't understand /gen
@@kinggl0ver9There is no point, they're being weird about it. Just say the dude's name, it's not a slur.
she's so brave for even having the courage to talk about that. honestly, i am so disappointed in wilbur. i can't believe he would do something like that. sending love and strength to all of the victims!! ❤
I'm so proud of wilbur for what he's done! Women are evil frfr (I dislike the existence of birth givers)
Yk what I'm disappointed in? I'm disappointed that people are dumb and just believe shit from 1 video. She's mocking abuse victims and trying to ruin his career. The thing is is that people are so good at lying that they can easily fool millions of people and ruin someone's life. Think about Wilbur. If he lost all his fans, life, money, and mental sanity. This is what leads people to suicide. When rumours are spread and it wrecks someone's life so much. That they want to end it. So, don't believe everything off 1 story. Think about the bigger picture and grow up
this is disgusting. this man got me through suicidal times and times of abuse and all the venting of other people i cant believe i found comfort in a monster.
You didn't find comfort in a monster, you found comfort in the character he showed. Public personas are rarely what the person is truly like. I'm glad his persona helped you, and it wouldnt be bad if it still does, even if who he truly is is awful
Just...uh, probably only go for like...old clips or something to avoid accidentally supporting him if you'd like to hold on to some of it
@@caki4695woah, that’s so mature?? wow, thanks for saying that
@@qu1ttttfr I was afraid people would tell the commenter off
@@ik.-.same I mean how far would many people would go to let this anger fester to the point that they would take it out on others who expressed themselves and be delusional to the point that they would point fingers on those who expressed their opinions differently and assuming that they’re supporting an abuser when it’s not the case that’s one of the reasons I’ve always hated about discourse when it comes to their idols being caught red handed and not helping out with themselves in a situation is that they’re want people to be mad and rightfully so but don’t consider their own ego getting in the way of how to approach something so serious when it comes to Shelby’s situation here and the trauma they end inflicting on her and the worst part is they don’t see that until their accounts are deactivated
Like the others have said, he has had a persona online, a comforting-funny-relatable persona that everyone loved, that's what you put your comfort on. Not the person behind the persona. I'm sorry that you've been suicidal. I hope that you're doing fine now.
I can’t believe I’ve ever supported that man i’m truly disgusted by him now. Shelby is so brave for speaking up. I hope she can heal from this horrible experience
my bf has low functioning autism and he bites me to show affection, however, it has never hurt me and he knows not to go to far, so i do understand people biting to show affection but this is to far and when it gets out of hand like this it is abuse, we're here for u shubble
i really didn’t want to believe it was will.. i thought it was just another rumour and that he would never do something like this but he did. shelby is so brave for speaking out about this and it really seems like wilbur has some unresolved issues to deal with. it’s sad because i used to really look up to and admire wilbur
No me too I can’t believe the sweet Wilbur that would never hurt anyone.. is a abuser. Can’t trust anyone anymore
This is very true
@@lukeherzog6083 i didn't want to believe it either but remember that content creators have a personality on the internet that is very different from how they are in real life sometimes... you can't trust everyone or get attached because stuff like this can happen to anyone nowadays
Yeah, unfrotunately, a lot of celebrities are abusive manipulators, since they have a lot of money the next thing they want is control, power.
same here :(
She is so strong. Shelby has always been a role model of mine, and I have never been more proud of her.
his apology was an absolute joke, how he managed to make the entire thing about himself baffles me
support shelby!!
I'm not defending him at all. With this being said, his 'apology' was him trying to give more information. He apologized within it, but it was not generally an apology.
Edit : This being said, it does not make it any better. His information was try to manipulate people into believing he was the victim, or not responsible.
@@edensgraces i agree. It was lacking for sure. I also think it was pure raw thoughts, rather than something very put together. Wilbur doesn't seem to realize how bad it was. (This is not defence for him, it was fucked up)
omd fr💀💀 he was being hella self centred. I swear he better get in trouble for this😡 shubble deserves betterr🤩🤩 and im so glad so many people are on her side, so am i btw❤️🤩✨
You can't even call kt an apology
its not even enough to be called 'apology'
Thank you for posting this, making it easier to find resources. Posting the responses ftom others, Like Aimsy, Tubbo, and Ranboo, would also help people better undeerstand. Thank you so much for making sure we are informed. Thank you fir keeping me informed.
I added to the description, but plan to make some videos particularly sharing Lexie Marie's VOD of her and Shelby discussing abuse, as well as Aimsey's stream today.
I’m so upset at how much i’ve supported wilbur while all of this was happening. I am DISGUSTED when Shelby said they yelled out the safe word and Wilbur bit even harder. Financial abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse, and manipulation. I’m so sick to my stomach. Fuck wilbur. Shelby is so brave for coming out with her story. Much love to her ❤🫂
I feel exactly the same
I can relate, I cried then this happen. because i supported him in the past.
Don't be upset at yourself for having supported Wilbur, he did seem like a very nice guy on the internet. That's the danger of domestic violence: Often, no one else knows about it and therefore, no one can do anything about it. What's important is to believe and support victims of abuse when they tell their stories and to be willing to change your relationship with a person/stop supporting a person if they are revealed to be an abuser. Since you seem to very much do that, you're doing everything you can. And that is good and enough.
you supported the Wilbur you knew, who was the Wilbur everyone was supposed to see. God knows he's a good actor
can i ask how people found out it wad wilbur? i dont think she mentioned his name
Abuse never looks like abuse until it does.
facts bro
Reminds me of the saying "All red flags look like normal flags when you're wearing rose-tinted glasses"
"While I may percieve our interactions differently, I recognize that this person has processed and expressed feelings of hurt." is literally just a long winded way of saying "I'm sorry YOU feel like that."
I have a super close friend who bites as a sign of affection, and I can say that it is never to the point of pain. The fact that Wilbur was doing it to that point frequently and playing it off as an accident then doing it in front of friends until she screamed is so angering to hear. Just the idea of it being an "accident" and then not at other times makes it hard to believe it was ever an accident to begin with
Edit: You can play bite someone without hurting them. It is common to do as a result of oral fixation. Most just don't use pressure when doing this. Wilbur doing it to a point of pain is preventable on his part. I don't get how what I said makes it seem like I'm okay with people doing it in a way to hurt others. That's like saying play fighting (like fake punching with no force) is the same as real fighting or hitting.
I'm autistic and I also bite my family to show affection. I never, EVER bite to the point of hurting, never leave marks, or would continue to bite after they said it hurt. I hope Shelby is doing well
fr😭😭🥺🥺🥺🙏🙏🙏
Exactly. There's play/affectionate bites and then there's whatever the heck he was doing. He sucks
fr. When I get exited I bite, but it's always myself and yes, it has gotten to the point of bruising but it is only ever to myself. I would never subject ANYONE to that pain because, while it's a subconscious thing, when I realise I'm in pain it fucking hurts
even baby animals learn that better than him, an adult human man
fucking hell.
ive said this before and ill say it again: coming out about your traumatic abuse is one thing but coming out to the WHOLE INTERNET? FUCKING BRAVE. SHELBY DESERVES ALL THE LOVE. SHE IS SO FUCKING AWESOME FOR SPEAKING OUT LIKE THIS. WOOOOOO
Wilbur's "apology" was like the embodiment of that one meme where the guy is getting dressed up as a clown for every box. thats what i saw reading his statement. utter, vile bullshit. i am so sorry to the people hurt by him. disgusting.
thank you, Clem, for posting this and making people aware. looking forward to any other cool concerts, and have fun at the ones you go to :)
at first i thought this was gonna be a hate comment but now i love this! love ur profile btw
@@pennyambao the username as well. Describes wil perfectly. A horrible, disgusting, vile thing, a foot.
@@shivshankar1409 ik agreed
@@shivshankar1409 PAHAHAHHA I CACKLED AT THIS
feet are literally so weird though you're right
@@pennyambao I would never hate on the victims trust me
always believe them
24:10 weaponized incompetence at it's worst, your upbringing doesn't justify doing ANY of this bull😐
I heard that part and i was Like "wait a second, am i Like that too?" Because my room is messy, but then i remembered that i would never in a Million year physicaly, financialy or mentaly hurt anyone i care about, i Always apologize for every mistake i make and i actively try to better myself. Will is a horrible Person for that and i feel ashamed for even considering to compare myself to that
exactly, i used to do this to excuse my moms abuse of me literally until i was 18 and realized that abuse is abuse not matter how someone was raised. its up to THEM to heal and change
@@mariannehorn1375 I heard the biting part and had the same reaction like 'Wait a second, am I like that too?'. I like biting but if my partner told me it hurts and they want me to stop I would stop. And like breaking someone's skin is not easy, that doesn't just accidentally happen... there's serious intent behind that or *IF* it's accidental it wouldn't happen that often. Makes me sick to my stomach she kept telling him to stop and he wouldn't. He just straightup abused her and enjoyed all of it. I'm glad she's away from that disgusting monster.
@@mariannehorn1375yeah I totally know how you feel. My routines are a reeeeaaal mess (because of ADHD and other stuff) and slightly began to feel bad and worried that me being bad at keeping up the routines is a red flag.
But as long as we don't begin to make it the problem of others and we don't begin to rely too much on the help of others and become too complacent, it's fine. I know that the moment, anyone other than me had to deal with it, I would be able to chance it.
True, once you're adult you should know that's just common sense. Poor Shelby fell into "I can fix him" trap. No, that doesn't happen with adult men, they either come out right on their own effort and accord or that's just how they are. Outside forces don't really have an influence on stuff like that. So don't bother falling for "potential" or having pity when they have same arms and legs and even boast about being stronger. They're plenty capable.
as one of the many ppl who got sucked into the dsmp/minecrafters bubble during early covid this is so heartbreaking to watch. i'm so sorry to shelby and niki and anyone who was hurt by him. i cant imagine how scary it must have been to come forward against sb who was so so widely loved and respected on the internet as a "comfort streamer" and musician
REAL
I just mentioned this in a different reply section, but during 2020-2021 I was REALLY into the Minecraft community in general. Seeing this news after not really knowing any recent drama/ events/lore etc.(besides the dream vs gumball va thing) is mind-blowing at a minimum.
“And for the record, I don’t accept the apology”
Can we take a second to applaud Shubble for standing up and exposing what really happened!
I was thinking the same thing! Preach queen! She is so brave. I’m so proud of her for doing this.
@@sorrybusyreadingshe’s not brave, she’s hiding it so she gets attention from other people
@@sorrybusyreadingand someone’s pov bc they met Wilbur and shubble told him “don’t we have somewhere to be?” like she was pissed that he stopped to interact with a fan.
@@sorrybusyreadingshe doesn’t want to admit it, she sent death threats to minors and abused 3 people, her boyfriends. so where’s the proof? where’s the bruises? let me know where are the bruises on shubble?
@@sorrybusyreadingwhere’s the god damn bruises on Shubble?
Oh my god. I would have never known about this and about who he really is without you telling your story. I was SA’d a couple months ago and I’m so sorry. Power to the victims. It’s hard to hear this as I’ve been a fan of him for so long but I believe you. We believe you.
I hope you are also doing well and getting any help you need! Sending you love and support as well ❤
oh my god! are you okay? are you doing better?
I’m doing better just taking time to heal
Wishing you the best mate
I Also wish U the Best dude.
I can’t believe Shelby had to go through this pain and it hurts me that my comfort streamer was the one who caused it. I’m so proud that she had the courage to explain but i just feel so betrayed by Wil.
The “try ur hardest to get me off u” is so terrifying and disturbing
literally the worst sentence i’ve ever heard. it’s disgusting
@@alexa-jd8ws its an insane red flag girl
shelby deserves the world, she is one of the people who is strong and stands against these things and get the information and facts straight.
I hate how he wanted to be a DAD. if you can’t even take care of your partner and not DOMESTICALLY ABUSE THEM, there’s no way he could be safe with kids. 100% supporting Shelby.
He can't even take care of himself
he's so unhygienic his newborns might die
How the fuck is that abuse? Your downplaying real victims of abuse, affectionately biting your own partner with consent isn't abuse period
@@ZO-NEX0 first of all, shut up. second, she was abused. third, he wasnt "affectionately biting", he was biting. fourth, he didnt have consent most of the time, there was a safe word, he didnt listen to her when she said it
@@ZO-NEX0consent starts small and gets bigger. if he can’t handle consent for biting, who’s the say he’ll be able to for bigger things. plus all financial abuse, manipulation and everything else mentioned in the video are pretty key things to remember.
Dude, a lot of his songs make a lot of sense now. It's like he makes himself the victim in his songs, I never could explain this properly until now. Wow. Love for Shelby.
Yeah I was listening to Your New Boyfriend for the nostalgia the other day and the "I just think that I deserve a little bit of what I've earned" line stuck out to me as weird
@@Ispspsps-kl1ltthat entire song was parody on the 'nice guy' trope, that's not a song about him, it's about a make believe character the song is from the perspective of. call out will all you want but at least do it right
I’m actually shaking. This is terrible. I want to cry so badly. I hope Shelby’s okay.
Poor girl, she was so brave for telling everyone the truth and sharing her story, venting... 'cause saying things about artists is hard, since their number of fans is huge...
Honestly, i was never a fan of Wilbur but since i knew him, he always looked so nice and i was comfortable with his streams... So as i didnt know much of him, i didnt know about Shubble... now i do...
I had been abus3d in a relationship, but mentally, and just like her: i didnt think it was too much to be considered a problem... Women, please search deep about abus3 and know you have a voice... i really know how hard it is to tell the person to stop or how you feel.. but you all will get through it! ❤
I’m so shocked that Wilbur, the man I found comfort in with my own abuse and my own life, has done this to someone. He’s a monster. I hate that I supported this man. Support Shelby ❤
LETS GOOO SUPPORT SHELBY✨✨✨
I saw someone else reply to a comment with this but it’s such an important message to share:
You did not find comfort in him as a person, you found comfort in the character that he played. the character is supposed to be comforting and relatable, and it’s not your fault for finding comfort in his online persona. none of us know celebrities or youtubers other than the small amount of them we see online.
It’s not your fault because you didn’t know, but you know now and that’s when it counts.
I hope you are doing better and have been able to move past the abuse you have experienced.
@@panickingpianoman He said many times in streams that who he is online is just a facade. We knew all along he was different behind the scenes but none of us expected his true self to be so far fetched from the meticulously crafted persona he put on online. The fact it's all so calculated is a little concerning.
@aure5127he IS a monster, don’t baby him he’s a grown man
@laurequackHaving empathy for each and every person is important, but context is just as important. On a video detailing the abuse that a victim suffered, I think it's completely appropriate to label her abuser as a monster. Sure, he can change, but that's just not relevant right now.
It’s the last sentence in that whole “apology” that really shows how he sees this situation. “I am dedicated to earning and maintaining the trust of those around me and hope I continue to be held to these HIGH STANDARDS I wish to attain and maintain”
He refers to being held accountable and not abusing someone as a “high standard.”
This is abuse and I send all my love and support to Shelby and I want everyone reading this to do the same
I'm an autistic person, people using his autism to justify this behaviour is absolutely disgusting. Autistic people can at times overstep boundaries and hurt people accidentally, but autistic people can recognize when they're being abusive and or intentionally hurtful. I'm honestly ashamed people can ever even think that it may be an excuse for it. An autistic abuser being autistic doesn't ever justify abuse, or even give the abuse a reason. I'm so srry this happened to Shelby, these types of situations can be incredibly traumatic and damaging, i can see the manipulation in this story clear as day. Good luck to all domestic abuse survivors and victims, my heart goes out to every one of them, including Shelby.
I'm autisitc too, and I couldn't have said it better.
Wait he is autistic
it depends on the stadium yk
@@weronikawitecka2585 yes, but I feel like most autistics would understand if someone told them that they're hurting them.
It's also really silly that people were jumping on the "autism as a defense" train when it's not even confirmed that he really IS an autistic person. He made an offhand joke about having special interests once, and his fans kind of ran with that.
Just watched Tubbo's response and it's crazy how mature his response actually is compared to someone literally 7 years his senior. I'm actually glad to see that he was genuinely angry and was imploring everyone to support Shelby. I'm so glad to see Shelby get all the support she deserves, especially from those who were in Wilbur's circles.
I have never been a Shubble viewer, but my heart goes out to her! So many women endure abuse for fear of the consequences that would come from speaking out. Shelby is so brave for sharing her experiences, and i am so happy to hear her stating the power she feels now that she is free. I never considered myself a Wilbur fan, but i have watched some of his content in the past. He is obviously a man with some serious issues that need to be addressed (and this is not an excuse for what he did). I hope Shelby's story is able to spread awareness, and that others can avoid falling into a similar situation. My heart also goes out to anyone who has been in a sililar situation to what she described here. You are so strong.
This honestly helped me sort through some stuff from the abusive relationship I got out of 8-9 months ago. I’ve been trying to find a whole video of what she said and I’m really happy you posted this thank you
I’m completely on Shelby’s side, but I have been a fan I’ve Lovejoy since they formed, and a massive fan of Wilbur from 2019. Hearing this breaks my heart because I didn’t think he was the person who would do that. I feel guilty talking about lovejoy and/or Wilbur because I feel like I’m defending the abuser, especially since this band is/was my special interest. Thank you so much for uploading this clem, we love you
You could still support them in the future when he decides to actually be a decent human being?
remember, there are still three other amazing members of that band! however, we haven’t been given the future of Lovejoy yet, for now, support Shelby and don’t listen to Wilbur’s own music! :) /gen
He always seemed a bit off to me from the start, couldn't take a joke at his expense, would go ballistic if someone made him look uncool, was full of virtue signaling performances, constantly lecturing and "educating" his peers about social issues he has no business in. His creepypasta quirkiness was early Shane Dawsonesque too. It was obvious he was putting on a "I'm a bit of a sad boy, classy, edgy old soul, dead poet society, danisnotonfire, Im14AndThisIsDeep gentleman" facade, and was a bit of a psycho in reality. Certainly didn't expect it this much though, just thought he was vain, pretentious and had a short fuse but wouldn't go through something like this to ruin his narcissistic holier-than-thou image. He doesn't even show remorse, he's sorry he got caught and that she expressed hurt, he's not sorry about causing the hurt.
The other guys in Lovejoy are blameless. They'll do something else in the future. That drummer is so bloody good you could put him into any top tier band and he'd fit right in with no problems at all.
i’m speechless. all i can say is good for her
This absolutely broke my heart. The fact that Shelby had to go through all that is just so sad and it makes me so upset. The fact that anyone, no less Wilbur soot, could do this to someone and just absolutely exploit them and their boundaries is vile. Wilbur’s music and Lovejoys music has always been my favourite, idk how I’ll go about phasing it out of my music taste but it WILL happen. I will support shelby wholeheartedly through EVERYTHING.
Time to start listening to James Marriott 👍
@@AliDoesEdits I already do! Have been for a while now :)
@@AliDoesEditsyes I'm definitely back in my James marriot era after all this again, and I'm happy about that
Look up similar stuff or run one of their songs through a playlist generator
Will Wood is also a good artist if you wanna check him out!
thank you for not capitalizing on this horrible situation like all the drama channels out there.
this was the only clip i could find that wasn't super click baity and monetized, not to mention you included a fundraiser and wilbur's annotated response.
thank you 🙏, and i'm glad shelby told her story
This is disgusting. As a Wilbur fan of 2-3 years he is SICK!
FR im fucking disgusted..
i've been watching him since the soothouse era and i'm just... shocked. disgusted ofc but... yeah. i don't think i've fully processed it yet tbh
you literally don't know the story.. you're such a sheep wow.
One girl makes an allegation and everyone just believes it immediately?
There's 0 evidence and you just take her side..?
This whole comment section is so crazy..
@@volkova6209 didn’t he admit to it?! And literally made an apology.
@@volkova6209 you have two eyes to read with, use them
Wishing you all the best Shelby!!
You deserve all the love ur getting
As someone who used to support Wilbur and lovejoy, it’s feels so disgusting to know that I supported him while this abuse was going in behind the scenes. Man, looking back there were so many clues that we missed, in lyrics like “I abuse those I love while I ostracise the ones who love me”, and like the entirety of New Boyfriend and Nice guy ballad.
And his “apology” was nothing short of vile. How he in his mind believed that it would “fix” his problems I have no idea. He made it all about himself, his emotions, his thoughts when he should be taking OWNERSHIP of his actions. I very much hope he goes to therapy and learns about his fucked up actions.
And Shelby, I wish nothing but the best for her. She’s brave just talking about it, let alone on the internet. She and other victims, deserved so much better and I hope the fandom/community can rally around them and give them some love.
I distinctly recall in one stream (idk if it was his own or on phils) saying how he did not like people thinking about him often or putting him on a pedestal (fair enough, me neither), but I did find it a tad odd that he said “I’m not a good person”. Which for most part flew under the radar for me, because it’s fairly normal. In this new context, it makes me wonder if he had some level of self-awareness of who he is. Those lyrics you mentioned sure does make me wonder
I kind of fell off of the wilbur train awhile back. He always seemed to be playing a character. In one of his houses (idk if it's the one he is now). during a fundy video you can tell he wasn't all the person he said it was. He had holes in the walls from hitting them out of anger. This situation really brings up the "celebrate the art not the artist." I can't support Wilbur like at all, but i probably will still listen to Lovejoy just because I enjoy the music but I probably wont be listening to his solo music. I don't know much about this person but she is so fucking brave for telling everyone. And it makes me sick that someone would abuse someone else let alone biting.
I thought that he wasn't being serious. It almost seemed like a joke, like his house actually needed maintenance.
Nah dude if you support Lovejoy you're giving Wilbur money.
If you like Lovejoy that much just pirate their music.
@@Thicc_Cheese_Dip there are other people in that band, I don’t think that’s fair to them. I understand though that it’s a bit of a gray area since he still would be profiting. 😕
Adding to this video to people who think he’s changed :
In his twitch chat his mods were banning people who were showing support towards Wilbur and the mods were spreading links for to support domestic abuse victims through a bot and extend support to shelby. Today though Wilbur has unmodded all his mods, got rid of the bot spreading the link and when people tried alerting twitch that he had no mods he made a burner to make mod and unban the people the mods before banned (mind you its because he wanted the money, the people the mods banned were people who were subbing during that time). What’s worse is that his burner account is called jebediah springfield a character in simpsons and Wilbur KNOWS simpsons, jebediah is a bad person in simpsons a person saw as a hero iirc but turned out to be a murderous pirate now the worst part is that this character has an ex girlfriend called SHELBYville manhattan, he knows full well what he’s doing and it’s fucking vile. He is not sorry at all. His apology is supposed to be manipulative do not believe it, he just wants his fame and money.
Edit: Just a little extra ; Shelbyville the character wanted a town devoted to chastity and abstinence and Shelby herself is asexual and i don’t think that’s a coincidence, he’s using this simpsons thing in attempt to mock.
just came here to comment the same thing so boosting this - i don't want to see anyone claiming he's "changed" or is "actually sorry" about what he did. this proves he isn't as if his nothing burger of a statement wasn't proof enough
And people think Wilbur is actually sorry
Holy fuck yes! He was unbanning the people WTF
I mean wouldn't u unban the people who agree with you??
oh my god thats insane ☠️ whats wrong with him wtf
I still can't believe that I used to support Wilbur.....Shelby is so brave for doing this and I genuinely feel so bad for her.....#SupportShubble
It hurts so much to know that a man that helped me through the worst parts of my life is actually just a abuser and just disgusting in general , I just want to disappear right now
(I’m obviously not supporting Wilbur)
Anyway , all of my support to Shubble ❤️
edit : I didn’t even totally finished the video and I feel like throwing up like , I physically feel sick…
Hey, you got through the worst parts of your life. Just know even tho he is an abuser, it doesn't make you a bad person, and the happiness you had was still real. You liked good qualities, you couldn't have known about the bad ones.
You are not wrong or invalid for enjoying his content years ago, you were going through a rough time and found a way to make it through, that's what matters, be proud of yourself for that, and for being able to hold him accountable, you got this
hope this helps to explain why personally respect both of them greatly:
He's clearly been struggling with his mental health, this is what happens when depression and such is managed poory, it gets taken out on loved ones. If you choose to "cancel" him then you are saying that people can't charge and shouldn't try to. Support Shelby, don't ruin someone's life. This is not the time to shame Wilbur this is the time to encourage a new era of personal growth, something which he has clearly been trying to do himself.
You don't have to give up on him just because of this, people should shift their perspective of him from some kind of idol to a regular person.
I feel so sick as well when she talked about the anxiety and the safe word usage i was shivering with anger. Fuck him fr for being such a terrible dude. I hope shelby can fully recover from this.
@@bcw1nc86529:34 "In my opinion, I do think that there are some things that are across a line that make you a bad person. I don't think that most people can be defined in a black and white, 'you're good or you're bad,' but I do believe there's a line that you can cross, and only bad people will do the things on the other side of that line."
It's really sympathetic that you think he can change, but having depression doesn't cause abusive behavior like this on its own. People with depression do not make the conscious decision to hurt those they've loved, intentionally, and with a smile on their face. I don't think it's appropriate at all to respect someone who lies and abuses the people that they claim to love. I sure as hell wouldn't count on somebody who's made no effort to better himself to suddenly have a change of heart, and a person like that shouldn't get any of your respect until he truly does.
@@a66x No you did not, there was no apology and he didn’t even acknowledge the actual problem. He just said he thought biting was consensual when she never even said it wasn’t. He’s literally trying to make it look like she said something she didn’t. She did NOT consent to being HURT. She has no problem with biting, she has a problem with him trying to hurt her. He did not say he was sorry for hurting her, he did not even acknowledge that he did. He removed all of his mods and made a burner account mod with a username to mock Shelby. If you think that sterile response to try to avoid backlash is sincerity you’re lying to yourself.
Thank you for reloading this❤
All of this genuinely made me cry. I’ve followed Shelby since I was in middle school and now I’m 21. So about 8 years. I haven’t seen her content as much recently but I always supported her and as a person on the asexual spectrum I just valued her so much for speaking on it. I suspected she was dating Will at one point and I just felt happy for her because I thought she was happy. And I feel so horrible that I ever felt happy for her in those moments. I support Shelby in every way I can even if she doesn’t know me. I care about her and her happiness as a human being and I think everyone should always do that for anyone. And it’s clear Will did not feel the same way. F*** him and those who can excuse his actions.
as someone who bites affectionately, its really not hard to not hurt someone when biting them 😭😭 i occasionally bite too hard by accident if we’re being kind of more playful and roughhousing, but normally its like, if im biting someone its barely any pressure bc yk. why would you be biting someone hard enough to hurt (unless that’s what they want in which case yall do yall)
yeah, it makes me sad because he didn't even acknowledge the safe word :(
you need to control yourself buddy 💀 thats domestic abuse
@@alyssataylorsversion13i cant tell if this is sarcasm or what, but affectionately biting someone isnt abuse? its when you bite too hard on purpose or refuse to acknowledge someone's discomfort that it's abuse
@@alyssataylorsversion13 Man you're either a troll or you're entirely misunderstanding WHY biting can be abusive. The fact that Wilbur bit her is not abusive, it's the repeated ignoring of boundaries, the purposeful hurting in a way that eventually came to punish behaviour he did not like, and the active refusal to change. It's the escalation of behaviour and disregard of your partner's health and safety. Accidentally biting someone too hard is not itself an abusive behaviour.
@@alyssataylorsversion13 biting _can_ be done affectionately, it's just that Wilbur weaponized it as a method of abuse.
Ugh just the image of someone biting someone’s SKIN and grinding it makes me want to wince but imagine that happening on a daily bases for months on your LEGS. What the heck. Poor Shelby ☹️
Genuinely I can’t believe this happened, I feel so bad for Shelby!! I can’t believe that he would’ve done this stuff, I honestly think him biting you should’ve been served as a red flag anyway, regardless if his mom had said he had it since he was a kid. Shelby is honestly so brave and courageous for sharing this, the fact that it takes most people so, so, SO long to tell people that they are being abused emotionally, physical, and sexual. I feel so bad for everything Shelby had endured throughout this entire relationship, I really do hope she’s doing better after this messy situation! :(
Biting is perfectly fine as long as it is consenting. This was not consensual, from everything they (Shelby) said it would extremely difficult not to understand he was hurting her. The fact they would yell the safe word, or have to say it several times in a day, is an indicator that he purposefully ignored her. It's not just the biting either that makes this abuse, it's what he's said and how he's acted as well.
One thing I'd like to point out is with these kinds of things, the abuser cares heavily on appearances. With the "apology" and how he acted when with friends is a good example of that. For everyone outside of this, give people time to respond. Some of them quite literally could not have known, and others are reeling from the news that they aren't alone or that something happened to Shelby. Do not press Shelby nor her circle to give more information or to reply. Honestly the same thing with Wilbur's circle as well, give them time to process. Especially since there are people who run in both. It will come out when it's ready and by doing that, you are also supporting her in another way.
I don’t usually comment on things, but I just wanted to say that I think you have handled this situation so well Clem. Your response was extremely tactful, especially considering how much of your channel surrounded lovejoy and Wilbur content. I see and appreciate how much you are putting the emphasis on the victims story first and foremost. This video is a great resource for people wanting to become informed about the situation--unbiased and with all the important info. I came for lovejoy, but I'm sticking around for you. Keep up the great work man.
I'm going through something similar right now... This is so comforting to hear rn and help me deal with my experiences rn.
Are You ok!?
Will was someone i admired way to much... and i really enjoyed his content, but i'm not so sure now if i'd like to continue knowing much about him. I wouldn't stop listening to lovejoy though (don't wanna affect the rest of the band), but i do give full suport to Shelby, and i want to send lost of love her way!!! She's so brave for telling her experience with a abusive relationship and i wish she has a very well deserved recoverie!!!
absolutely based that you're thinking so open mindedly man
Honestly if I had money I'd donate, you've got this. I was in an abusive relationship as well
This is actually insane the abuse and filth i never thought he wad like this i used to watch dsmp alot and everyone seemed like genuine friendly people the internet seriously hides so much from the real world i love shelby she’s actually so strong for this you cannot defend this guy in any way how will anyone even be fans of him idk we love you shelby
That's not autism, that's a narcissist.
THIS !!!
Fax I would know I have autism
Narcissism is a personality disorder that comes from childhood neglect and trauma and it doesn't automatically make someone evil, so let's not throw around the word like that.
@@loveablesimpno one is throwing that word around like its nothing. wilbur is an abuser and a lot of abusers tend to be narcissists and he might be one too
YESS THIS THIS IS IT
Nearly a year ago I broke up with my abusive ex and I have hardly told anyone the true extent of the things I endured. Sometimes I still doubt and blame myself and wonder if I truly were abused or if I am simply victimizing myself, but hearing people like shubble share their stories is so validating and provides me with so much reassurance that what I went through wasn't ok and I'm not alone either. It's painful and difficult to talk about things like this but it's important. I wish nobody ever endured things like this but it makes me feel better to know I am not alone and it is ok to feel how I feel. I am really proud of shubble for sharing her story and I'm really happy she did and hope other victims can also find validation and reassurance in what she has said, I just can't believe there are some people defending Wilbur.
Also Wilbur saying to shubble that he won't change has only been further solidified by how terribly he has handled this situation
You're brave as hell for being willing to talk about this stuff publicly, especially when it regards someone as large as him. Nice job freeing yourself.
“And for the record, I don’t accept the apology” perfectly executed, short and simple.
its a point of view
For anyone that doesn't know "💙" are the hearts we are using in support of Shelby
Is there a reason it’s blue?
💙
I'm not 100% sure but I think it may have just been randomly chosen? But blue hearts symbolise loyalty and trust.@@AriHatesMakingUsernames
@@VixieP1xie ohhh okay, thank you!! I’ll start using it when talking about this situation now 💙
you can use anything to support, this person just wants to be special@@AriHatesMakingUsernames
Bro I watched shubble so much and she was so positive and I was so happy, seeing how bad of things shes gone through with someone so many people trusted breaks my heart. I just found this out because I came back but she deserves all the love and support in the world. It was the right time and horrible person, Shelby is kind and deserves every good thing in the world, she didn't deserve this burden or pain
#supportshelby im so sorry she had to go through this and that she had to stay quite for so long , wilbur has forever tinted my image of him , his music and his content , i really hope shubbel gets the support she deserves.
shelby is so so SO brave for this. we love you shelby thank u for sharing ur story! and thank u for uploading this clem everett, this has empowered so many people and honestly been so eye opening. im in shock still in the middle of this video
For Shelby: I am so sorry that you went through this. We say stop and we mean stop! I found that your story has helped me, even today, after many years of processing my own relationships with abusers. Let us pray that the work is actually done and changes are practiced and perfected so that the world can live in harmony. Thank goodness for your friends for helping out and for standing with you. Be safe and remember that he knows that you know and that is not good as the slander will follow. Hold on to your truths. Keep doing your own work. It’s what will help us forgive and move on. Learn from the past and never forget. Heal and be safe.
“my soul is so healed. I am light-years beyond him” THE POWER-
i don't understand how people are making fun of her for this abuse. this is so sickening.
My inner child is fucking having her heart ripped out rn. Like what the fuck this man has bought me thru the hardest times in my life and here we are him being a fucking domestic abuser. My heart genuinely goes out to shubble and well done for speaking up bout this. and I can’t believe this genuinely this is fucking like idk ..
IM STILL A KID HAD A CRUSH ON HIM SINCE I WAS 7! I DIED AND AM CRYINF THE FUCK OYT OF MYSELF!!!!
@@madhunarayan6254 yea Ik it’s hard but it’s ok ur allowed to be upset x irl get better x
this is a sign to always think carefully before completely attaching yourself emotionally to a social media / internet celebrity, sad but facts
i had a very similar experience with an ex of mine. this is such a real issue, and idc if he genuinely thinks he's not in the wrong, he still is and didn't take any accountability for that fact in his bs apology. i stand with shelby!
im almost thirteen this year and have had this happen to me, i ever told anyone so im proud of shelby (a.k.a my favorite youtuber :3) for speaking out about this! :)
Wanna talk about it? Like privately or something
we are here for shubble and if anyone defends him they need to gtfo
yes. agreed 100%
Not defending, but lol he's a good content creator. You can't just say he isn't. I don't like how video/music creator's behavior is somehow important
@@hotkfclover6169he literally abused his girlfriend and you want to give him money?? are you serious???
its important, because he is an abuser NOBODY should get away with that, no matter who they are or what they do, please try and think more before posting
@@hotkfclover6169
@@hotkfclover6169 by supporting the music/video, you support the artist/creator, even if you don’t want to. It’s like saying to separate music from artist when that artist has said/sone horrible things.
I'm so, so sorry Shelby had to go through such an experience... A lot of hers really made me relate with a very similar abusive relationship I was in.
People who say "Why don't you just leave then? The signs are all there!" don't understand how actually careful and manipulative these people are in making you believe what they are doing is actually fine and you are the problem. They do everything in their power to make you second guess yourself daily, because you yourself want to just love them and they know how to weaponize that love against you.
Shelby is so strong for talking about her experience on the internet! I wish her the best and hope she will find someone who actually deserves and appreciates her
Thank you for your decision and the way you'll change your channel, and thank you for this fundraiser! For various reasons, I am incapable of donating, but I am glad you've put this into place!
Gosh it genuinely hurts me that Shelby went through such thing. Shelby's content has comforted me so much and it just hurts so much to see someone who has comforted me went through abuse. I'm glad that she had the courage to share all of this and I hope she gets even better now. At first I thought that Wilbur was just getting fake rumors because that happens but damn i'm just shocked and speechless at what he has done. It goes to show that not everyone is good in real life. Thank you so much for uploading this, I wouldn't be aware of it without this video.
Im in awe. I feel so horrible for shelby. actually in awe. awe that not only is wilbur a bad person but that he did this. i dont support him. sending love and support towards shelby during these hard times ❤❤
Shelby is so fucking strong for this, not only coming out about it and explaining it in the kindest most stubble way ever that Wilbur is a fucking abuser, plus that tweet: "and for the record, I don't accept ur apology". FUCKING ICONIC.
I looked up to willbur and now it feels like a crime to have felt that way about such a person. Shelby your amazing for speaking out it should be inspiring for others who are going through the same thing or who did
He fooled us all. Don't feel guilty for the disgusting actions of Wilbur.
everything she says lines up to well with small things in his music, his videos, everything. too fucking well. it makes me sick.
i forever and always stand with shubble i just got out of an abusive relationship myself and it HURTS.
I am glad you are safe, stay as strong as you can love bug
I hope you are doing better, I’m sorry you had to go through that. Drink water, eat food, get rest, you are incredibly important and reach out to the proper places if you need help. Lots of love, support Shelby (and all abuse victims) 🫶
I hope ur doing better you and anyone who went through this doesnt deserve this
my ex was so similar and luckily we couldn't meet in person bc we were long distance. Even Wilbur's apology reminded me of how he'll victimize himself even when he was the one who hurt me, i recognized it immediately when I saw it.
It's crazy how he love bombed me and used me yet i had no clue how toxic he was being until we broke up...
I've never watched Shelby's streams before but I'm proud of her for getting through this and sharing it to others to create awareness. It definitely helped me see how toxic my ex was and that i dodged a bullet.
human bites can be seriously dangerous and can lead to infections. im so proud of her for speaking out about such a difficult thing. support shelby!
WAIT WHAT-
THEY CAN LEAD TO INFECTIONS!?!?!?
POOR SHELBY!!
@@SURI.-.101 ikr! yeah even if they look small they can lead to infections and stuff and can also lead to damaged tendons/joints too if it’s bad enough like i would be astounded if she didn’t have to get treatment for them cuz it sounded like he bit insanely hard
??????
Thank you for sharing and spreading awareness.
watched shelby as a kid shes literally the sweetest kindest personality ive ever seen online to abuse that is pure fucking evil.
im so happy she didnt move in with him i dont even want to think about what wouldve happened. im happy she realized that quick and im so proud of her for leaving so early on
shes so kind for buying everything for him. from food to basic cleaning supplies. its absolutely horrendous hearing how he lived and that he didnt care or pay for any of that himself, she is genuinely the sweetest for providing that when it absolutely wasnt her responsibility.
My god this is disgusting, I was never a big Wilbur fan but even just knowing that I enjoyed content he had a part in disgusts me. Nothing about this behavior is okay! And it just kept getting worse! I hope she can enjoy herself on her break and i am very glad she has friends supporting her!
Whatever messages he releases even if they show "consent" don't mean anything. Consent is willful, enthusiastic participation in the ongoing situation and is not something that lasts forever if given once. Any point after she used the safe word or said she wanted it to stop that past consent means absolutely nothing
Thank you for sharing your story 💗 It takes an incredible amount of strength to come out with these things publicly! Know that you are not alone and loved 💗🤗
We all support you Shelby
wow. i am so sorry to hear this. this hurts. it is so so so hard to leave something even when it hurts you. and you know they love you. but that is not love. that is abuse. it hurts to hear victims tell their story, it brings such a crushing reality to a person. however, you are helping SO MANY potential victims, not just about him but about anyone. listen to the flags. don't think "i can fix this" or "but i know they love me" or "its okay this will get better". be cautious, be critical, and listen to your intuition, if you feel like something is wrong, leave, if people warn you, listen and leave. be careful
Everything in that ‘apology’ was just ‘me, me, me’.
i feel so bad for shelby . i've been a fan of lovejoy and wilbur's whole music career for years . i genuinely thought he was a good person . i can't put into words how bad i feel for her . support shelby 100%
Its insane how little we actually know these people and still find comfort in them. Abuse is unforgivable and vile. I don’t believe that people who abuse can change, like Shelby said if you cross that line theres evil in you thatll never fade.
I can't believe this, Shelby is really so brave for sharing. I'm just not really sure how to feel about this. One of my fav youtubers turns out to be an abuser, fake, non-sincere apologies and all.
when it's some nameless person online claiming to have stuff done to them by a celeb there's a tiny thread of hope that you can hang onto to hope the person is lying
it's not there
he was someone i actually watched
his banter with charlie
his wholesomeness with tallulah
it's all gone now
im just gonna say that
niki dodged a bullet
Niki talked about how she got bit too on stream and Zoe (a previous trumpet player on the band) also was bitten. This wasn’t an isolated incident.
She Really, really didn’t… she basically implied that she experienced the same… she said she still shakes hearing his name 💔💔
Edit - I said Niki said she shakes hearing his name, but I misremembered her statement so going to copy it below:
“I see that people expect me to say something about the situation. Truth is that I was freshly 18 years old when I met him, while I did not see a problem with it back then I can now see how harmful he was to my young self and how damaged I am from that time. My time in the UK had some of the darkest moments of my life (and I think people can tell from the way I used to act on stream) I still can’t think too much about everything that happened back then without shaking and I don’t want to, I always felt so unheard whenever I brought up any situation regarding that time. I don’t want to say more as I don’t want to make this situation about myself.”
@@danielmcluckie9596 Niki did? These poor wholesome women having to suffer from that vampire. He bit them, exploit their empathy and perhaps leave all kinds of scars for life. He was such a pretentious theatre kid always putting on a facade, he enjoyed playing villain a little too hard too.
her voice breaking and her trying not to cry breaks my heart.
Shubble is so sweet and I've become a mild fan of her in the past year or so. I had no idea that any of this happened and my heart goes out for her for having to endure any of this. Abuse and manipulation is very real in relationships and it is important to learn to let the person go for the safety and peace of mind for yourself.
I really get how important it is to really pay attention and know your limits and needs. No one should have to go through any of this junk, but it sadly happens. And for those who have, and most importantly who have spoken out to share their experiences, you guys are your own heroes and are so strong!
I gained a lot more respect for Shelby now after watching this video and look forward to her continuing to live her life out to the fullest and truly have fun and joy like what she has brought for us.
This is so wild. I cannot believe what Shubble has been through, and how much I used to love Wilbur's content. Never in a million years would I have imagined this, and yet it happened. I feel so bad for her and am so impressed by her bravery of coming out and saying this.
Wilbur apology is just god awful, he did not take accountability what so ever and it was just so wrong, i always looked up to wilbur in the past, he was the main reason I got into playing Minecraft but now hearing what he’s done is just sickening, nobody deserves what he has done to his victims, shelby/shubble has been one of my favorite RUclipsr for a long time and she has always been one of the sweetest person I’ve ever seen and I am just heartbroken that she has gone through this, I hope she gets all the love and support she deserves, many of other RUclipsrs such as Tubbo,Ranboo,Aimsey,Punz,Dream,Sneegsnag,Seapeekay,Badboyhalo and even Billzo have pick apart Wilbur’s “apology”, as much as it saddens me to hear how she was hurt by some she trusted it also warms my heart to see how much support she is getting, and to anyone how has been in a similar situation to shelby please know your not alone and there are people that will be there to love and support.
I could never ever imagine Will doing this but here we are, I'm supporting you and it's perfectly fine to be upset in this situation I'm Against physical abuse and I'm not standing for it, I'm so so sorry that you went through this xx
Sending all support i can to Shelby
this one reaally hurt. to know the guy that i looked up to, the guy whos music basically got me through part of my life is an abusive piece of shit really stings. i want no nostalgia from an abuser (i immidiately and overdramatically deleted all of his songs from my playlists yesterday). always believe victims first. shelby is beyond strong for sharing this knowing his fanbase and how much people love him. im gonna just take all the energy i put over the years into supporting soot, into supporting shelby. what a strong, well spoken and eloquent person
same. loved his music and deleting it rn mg.