This is Indian mother's mentality. Bcoz she failed in her life, she tries to impose her failure on her daughter,esp on elder daughter. Jitni bharas hoti h sb
Tum bongs log kuch bolo he mat. Sabko tmlogo ke character ke bare mey pata hai , tumlogo ko kya pata ghar jodd ke rakhna kya hota hai , is vdo mey ek maa apni beti ki ghar ko bacha rahi hai. Par yeh cheez tum samaj na paogi.
@@Ouuuvi-oc7rx bilkul independent bong women adjustment k nam k pati k juta nehi chatti...Here this scene signifies how women have to sacrifice their dreams and ambitions because of societal expectations and her mother was also a victim of it... It's clear you didn't understand the concept utna brain nehi he tereme.. Offcourse independent women are theat to you they don't entertain jokers like you...
One my favourite films ever. It's not perfect, some of it is heavy handed and it's too long, but scene after scene the film forces us to rethink our morality and our attitude towards things. If a film were to be called great for its ability to challenge us, then this film takes the cake. 👌🏾
When you impose the result of your own action on your supportive husband. Did she actually compared this to her daughter's situation which is so so grave???
How much? How much can a woman bear to kill her dreams, how much can a woman bear to live with what's unfair. Earn for the family, cook for the family, and then get treated like some second class citizen in your own home.
Are you saying men don't kill their dreams, don't bear anything, and don't work their asses for family? There's a lot of sacrifice men make for their families, but they don't question their existence. Every person may have different experiences with their partners so please don’t generalise your opinion.
All ve dreams. Sometimes they come true, sometimes they r shattered. Sometimes , u can make them true by waiting for the correct timei.e. after fulfilling all the responsibilities. Don't burden ur full life with family responsibilities. Teach them to bear their own responsibilities. Sometimes it's worth the wait.
@@zaheerahmad8188i certainly don't see men being beaten , treated like second class being, or has no voice to say their opinion Who moves their whole life to husbands family and adjust to men's families? Do men ever value the work women does inside their home ? Most men I have seen never ever . Men should be appreciated for all the work they do , should be praised, should bow down to them . I never ever saw that done for a homemaker. She is always put down .
@@Lila-ke8ux again you generalising, if you haven’t seen it doesn’t mean doesn’t exist. Again, it’s depends on what type of life partners you get. It can go both ways, irrespective of whether you are men or women.
@@Dhyaam5989 Shaadi means dusre k ghar aake uske saath ghar basana. Koi ahsaan nhi kr rhi , apne liye kr rhi ho tkie akeli na pado , dhyaan rkhne wla koi ho. What you want ? 24*7 samne bait k husband appreciate krte rahe ki thnk you for doing your job. Pati ka ghar kya patni ka nhi h ? If yes then apne ghar k kamo ke liye y you need appreciation ? Ajki ladkiyan mtlb zarasa kch bolne pe divorce , 2nd cls citizen behavior jhelke rahena isa dream. Enough victim card. Apne minus ko dhakne puri duniya ko minus boldo.
Bhyi chaahe aapne sahi intention se likha ho, ye comment bohot misplaced hai. Ek aurat ko doosri aurat ko sikhana padta hai ki agar tum Aisa nahi karogi to aas paas ke mard bawaal kar denge. Wo dushman nahi hoti, protector hoti hai. And protect karte karte us misogyny ko internalise kar leti hai. Wapis ghumaake baat auraton pe na daalein. Aurat ki sabse badi dushman patriarchy hi thi qur patriarchy hi rahegi, uska vehicle koi bhi ho sakta hai.
This is 100% correct that a woman makes a home out of a house by killing her inner self. It is her sacrifices and Tapasya that make a heaven of a house. However, marriage is not mandatory in life. In the modern world, it has just become another social obligation; hence, it is better to come out of a bad marriage than hang around unloved emotionless societal incumbency. Emotional bonding is foremost in marriage.
I’m a female but I think she shouldv atleast expressed her thoughts with her husband. It’s difficult to read a persons mind and how serious they r about their interests.
Exactly , agar sorry chaiye tha toh bolo. Boli v nahi upar se expert kari ki uska husband mind read karke uske demand ko samajke sorry bolega. Aisa real mey thodi hota hai.
This entire movie is shown like only women have done adjustments in building a family, making sacrifices for home, pride letgone !!!! Looks like all the men are partying from morning to evening with no sacrifices, no personal adjustments, no hardships, and have to answer for allthe sacrifices women have made, Awesome !!!!!
This is too much. If he had actively opposed her singing, I can understand. But she has a brain. She should take responsibility for her lack of courage and determination. And now she wants her daughter to adjust and live with a person who slapped and insulted her , in a party in front of a number of people, and has no remorse
Right! sometimes, or most of the times you have to take your own decisions confidently and with conviction. Sabko adjust karna padhta hai lekin man maarna galat hai jo hum karte. We loose our self respect and individuality which is out of compromise.
I think that’s the point the brilliant director and screenwriter is making. This is why women don’t support each other. They assume it’s women’s jobs to sacrifice themselves in any and every way possible to “keep the household together” and be the sole manager of everything thanklessly. “If I had to and my mother and every woman I know did, so you can’t complain and you also have to ignore your own needs, self respect and abandon your basic individual hopes and dreams too for the greater good of the family”
Maan sabka hota hai... Admi ka bhi maan hota hai ki woh sportsman ya singer banne.. But responsibility samaj ke... Kaam karna padta hai.. No matter what... Option ya "my choice" nahi hai.
Bano singer. Bollywood mein hai to singers. Jitni bhi film industries hai , hai un mein singers. Andar se jo awaz aaye aur awaaz kahe ki Ttheek hai to karo. Galat ka to Baad mein pata chalta hai. Sahi kaha is movie mein. Family supportive honi chahiye. Family mein har koi har kisi ko support kare to mil baant kar icchhayein poori hoti hai. Na support mile to sahi faisla Lo agar awaz andar se aaye to.
This is Indian mother's mentality. Bcoz she failed in her life, she tries to impose her failure on her daughter,esp on elder daughter. Jitni bharas hoti h sb
Tum bongs log kuch bolo he mat. Sabko tmlogo ke character ke bare mey pata hai , tumlogo ko kya pata ghar jodd ke rakhna kya hota hai , is vdo mey ek maa apni beti ki ghar ko bacha rahi hai. Par yeh cheez tum samaj na paogi.
@@Ouuuvi-oc7rxGhar jidhar aadmi narcissist ho!!!
@@devangibari3141 Reverse UNO🃏 , Independent woman se bada narcissist aur koi nahi , Isiliye shadi ke layak nhi hoti.
@Ouuuvi-oc7rx bhai tujhe English me gali du ya hindi me , I can't change your views but damm , i think you are troll 😂
@@Ouuuvi-oc7rx bilkul independent bong women adjustment k nam k pati k juta nehi chatti...Here this scene signifies how women have to sacrifice their dreams and ambitions because of societal expectations and her mother was also a victim of it... It's clear you didn't understand the concept utna brain nehi he tereme.. Offcourse independent women are theat to you they don't entertain jokers like you...
One my favourite films ever. It's not perfect, some of it is heavy handed and it's too long, but scene after scene the film forces us to rethink our morality and our attitude towards things. If a film were to be called great for its ability to challenge us, then this film takes the cake. 👌🏾
Your life is your karma (action), take charge of it.
Sad life 😅
When you impose the result of your own action on your supportive husband. Did she actually compared this to her daughter's situation which is so so grave???
How much? How much can a woman bear to kill her dreams, how much can a woman bear to live with what's unfair. Earn for the family, cook for the family, and then get treated like some second class citizen in your own home.
Are you saying men don't kill their dreams, don't bear anything, and don't work their asses for family? There's a lot of sacrifice men make for their families, but they don't question their existence. Every person may have different experiences with their partners so please don’t generalise your opinion.
All ve dreams. Sometimes they come true, sometimes they r shattered. Sometimes , u can make them true by waiting for the correct timei.e. after fulfilling all the responsibilities. Don't burden ur full life with family responsibilities. Teach them to bear their own responsibilities. Sometimes it's worth the wait.
@@zaheerahmad8188i certainly don't see men being beaten , treated like second class being, or has no voice to say their opinion
Who moves their whole life to husbands family and adjust to men's families?
Do men ever value the work women does inside their home ? Most men I have seen never ever . Men should be appreciated for all the work they do , should be praised, should bow down to them . I never ever saw that done for a homemaker. She is always put down .
@@Lila-ke8ux again you generalising, if you haven’t seen it doesn’t mean doesn’t exist. Again, it’s depends on what type of life partners you get. It can go both ways, irrespective of whether you are men or women.
@@Dhyaam5989 Shaadi means dusre k ghar aake uske saath ghar basana. Koi ahsaan nhi kr rhi , apne liye kr rhi ho tkie akeli na pado , dhyaan rkhne wla koi ho. What you want ? 24*7 samne bait k husband appreciate krte rahe ki thnk you for doing your job. Pati ka ghar kya patni ka nhi h ? If yes then apne ghar k kamo ke liye y you need appreciation ? Ajki ladkiyan mtlb zarasa kch bolne pe divorce , 2nd cls citizen behavior jhelke rahena isa dream. Enough victim card. Apne minus ko dhakne puri duniya ko minus boldo.
EVERY LADY TO MANY STRUGGLE, KILLING OWN DREAMS WO TO GHAR HAI WO HAI TO DUNIYA HAI..❤❤❤❤
This scene clearly shows ki ek aurat hi dusri aurat ki sabse badi dushman hoti hai.
What her lawyer was a woman. -_- matlab kuch bh. Her neighbour was also a woman. :/
Her husband though was a man
Bhyi chaahe aapne sahi intention se likha ho, ye comment bohot misplaced hai. Ek aurat ko doosri aurat ko sikhana padta hai ki agar tum Aisa nahi karogi to aas paas ke mard bawaal kar denge. Wo dushman nahi hoti, protector hoti hai. And protect karte karte us misogyny ko internalise kar leti hai. Wapis ghumaake baat auraton pe na daalein. Aurat ki sabse badi dushman patriarchy hi thi qur patriarchy hi rahegi, uska vehicle koi bhi ho sakta hai.
This is 100% correct that a woman makes a home out of a house by killing her inner self. It is her sacrifices and Tapasya that make a heaven of a house. However, marriage is not mandatory in life. In the modern world, it has just become another social obligation; hence, it is better to come out of a bad marriage than hang around unloved emotionless societal incumbency. Emotional bonding is foremost in marriage.
That's call jealousy......
This is clear allegations . She should have informed or at least talk to him. And now she is giving wrong advice to her daughter.
Men take for granted women
Har man baap ko kyon Lagta ki shaadi Nahin Tiki to Jindagi Mein dusra Kuchh Bhi Nahin Hai
Bcoz thats reality , bina shaadi ke ladkiyon ka life ja ke dekh akeli , nashili , frustrated , character problem.
I’m a female but I think she shouldv atleast expressed her thoughts with her husband.
It’s difficult to read a persons mind and how serious they r about their interests.
Exactly , agar sorry chaiye tha toh bolo. Boli v nahi upar se expert kari ki uska husband mind read karke uske demand ko samajke sorry bolega. Aisa real mey thodi hota hai.
The problem is the training mother to daughters this generation have to change your happiness is first not be fooled
क्या ये जरुरी है कि जो कभी कहा ना जाऐ उसे कमी समझा भी न जाऐ?
This entire movie is shown like only women have done adjustments in building a family, making sacrifices for home, pride letgone !!!! Looks like all the men are partying from morning to evening with no sacrifices, no personal adjustments, no hardships, and have to answer for allthe sacrifices women have made, Awesome !!!!!
I’m a woman and i also felt it
This is too much. If he had actively opposed her singing, I can understand. But she has a brain. She should take responsibility for her lack of courage and determination.
And now she wants her daughter to adjust and live with a person who slapped and insulted her , in a party in front of a number of people, and has no remorse
I agree
Right! sometimes, or most of the times you have to take your own decisions confidently and with conviction. Sabko adjust karna padhta hai lekin man maarna galat hai jo hum karte. We loose our self respect and individuality which is out of compromise.
Apni daughter ke decision mei taang nhi adaani chahiye
I think that’s the point the brilliant director and screenwriter is making. This is why women don’t support each other. They assume it’s women’s jobs to sacrifice themselves in any and every way possible to “keep the household together” and be the sole manager of everything thanklessly. “If I had to and my mother and every woman I know did, so you can’t complain and you also have to ignore your own needs, self respect and abandon your basic individual hopes and dreams too for the greater good of the family”
@@saraha4518 And there is this huge issue of "log kya kahenge! "
This is what a woman has to say to men and society....man mar lete h hum...
Koi mard agar promise kare ki is type ke situation kavie aane nahi dega par badle mey wose ek housewife he chaiye , mil sakta hai ?
Msla yhn pr ha k wo parh likh Gai bs yehi galti hui ap sa
Aise tukde tukde flim dikhane ne acha hein pura hii dekha dete
Aise hi karthe hai rotha dekker bhi na dekhne ki acting kare husband
Ku
Maan sabka hota hai... Admi ka bhi maan hota hai ki woh sportsman ya singer banne.. But responsibility samaj ke... Kaam karna padta hai.. No matter what... Option ya "my choice" nahi hai.
Are your comparison is wrong. Thappad marna and jo bi career pr compromise krna hota hai ye dono alag baat hai.
Toh Banno who stopped you .
Bano singer. Bollywood mein hai to singers. Jitni bhi film industries hai , hai un mein singers. Andar se jo awaz aaye aur awaaz kahe ki Ttheek hai to karo. Galat ka to Baad mein pata chalta hai. Sahi kaha is movie mein.
Family supportive honi chahiye. Family mein har koi har kisi ko support kare to mil baant kar icchhayein poori hoti hai. Na support mile to sahi faisla Lo agar awaz andar se aaye to.
Aur PM bhi bana hai😂😂
Wah kya comparison hai,this is the problem. You still don't get the lack of respect