My son Caleb would have loved this song, Cut. He was a cutter. He took his own life at 17, in 2011. Plumb's song, Safe in My Arms, helped me through the years of grieving. Both of these songs make me cry, but in a good way. There's someone else who understands what I am feeling.
I am so sorry for your loss. I relate closely to Caleb, as I used to cut to self harm. I turned 18 in 2011. You are doing right by Caleb through sharing your/his story. Never stop because sadly, there was always be someone out there that can empathize - and sometimes from personal experience. Rest in Peace, Caleb and may your family live the rest of your lives in peace, too.
@@AhsanBeeharry it's never God's plan for us to be destitute or broken, we end up that way by circumstances outside of God's plan. But the Lord will make the best of our brokenness if we let him. I cannot begin to say that I understand your situation because I have not experienced it and I would not dismiss you by saying that I do understand. I just pray that God will bless you and open up your heart and your mind to see what it is he has in store for you. The Bible tells us over and over that the Lord is closest to the poor and the brokenhearted. You are added to my prayer list, And I pray that you find whatever joy it is that God is trying to give you. God bless you! You are in my heart❤️
@@AhsanBeeharry In the TV show Vikings episode Season Finale Lagertha says, "Life is about suffering. There's no escape from it. That's the truth. What's important is how we deal with suffering, how we deal with the truth". -Lagertha
I'm sorry for your loss.... i remember I went through that but as an adult. I wanted to cut my self and did just a few times. Then i found this song!!!! so i would listen to it try to keep busy and the feelings always went away!! If you can just HOLD ON for a min or 10 howeverlong it may take it ALWAYS PASSES!!! Pray!!
I honestly believe the story in vampire diaries more than tru blood. However I can't watch it because it brings back bad memories of an even worse ex. She loved this and twilight of all things.
Tiffany the frontwoman of the band is an amazing vocalist but especially lyricist. If you get the chance checkout her Candy Coated Waterdrops my personal fave CD but I've followed Plumb from their self titled debut. You wont regret it.
This song is deep and it has truly helped me understand my baby girl's pain. I have shared it with her on fb and she was glad I found this song. It's now been a year since the last time she has cut.
There is nothing more powerful than the shackles of depression and rejection. I've cut myself since I was thirteen. Until very recently was I able to overcome that. And I still slip up and my wonderful husband is the only person in this world who ever really noticed and prevents me from it. It's so hard to stop but it's possible. You are never to far from God that he can't heal you, that he can't save you. It is within your power to stop. Anything else is a lie from the enemy. This is a ploy to keep you in bondage. Don't give Satan that power. Be who Christ called you Beautiful, strong, couragous, wonderfully made. You are not your pain.
Before I ever heard this song, I was self harming every single day. i'm still cutting to this day, but when I have the biggest urge ever to cut or have suicidal thoughts... I listen to this song and it helps me let everything out by crying instead of the thoughts or the blade dragging on my skin so, I thankyou Plumb for bringing this song out. Much love. Xxx
It's been almost 20 years that I stop self harming myself, but it still is a daily struggle and today is particularly hard. It's good to not feel alone, but the pain is still overwhelming. Everyday is a war of me against my mental health and I don't know how much strong I can still be, after all this years fighting and feeling like I will never be able to win.
As children of God we are called to reach out, and give hope. Even where darkness and hopelessness is, to bring God's light. That is what her songs do for me. As a teenager I struggled very much and wish there was music like this back then. Instead I listened to music which now I cannot even stand. The closer I get to God I can hear things in music I never heard before. I can hear good music and when I hear music directly talking against God, I immediately get angry and shut it off. This woman is awesome.
God loves in physically infinite abundance. Not everyone has experienced divine love and unity with it. You don't have to feel uncomfortable anger- humans go through a lot of pain, and music that seems anti-religious is really just about feeling a lack of love even if the musician doesn't know. But once you do experience divine love, you can only feel a sense of love for everyone no matter what, because there is such an abundance of love. There is so much love that even "hate" is just an absence of love. Everything is defined and structured by and for love, which is why divine love is literally everything in a sense. Music sounds much better because a complex human being made that music for love, by love, and with love without even knowing so or why. There is a deep romanticism there that is only pleasurable if you understand the human-spirit narrative that permeates art no matter what. (i feel i have to say that i am not on drugs either, not that i would judge anyone that is. i have a deep spirituality and i have experienced this heightened appreciation of all people and artforms, so i found your comment interesting. Knowing the real God does feel almost like taking a drug nearly, but it is an absolutely healthy drug that nurtures everything rather than just pieces of pleasure.)
Many of us atheist and agnostics listen to her. She's what we really would like to see more of with Christian values because we know her heart is about inclusiveness, not exclusivity and discrimination.
I haven't cut since October of 2011! It's a wonderful thing to defeat. I started in 2005 and just kept getting deeper into it. It's a dark hole that takes a lot of strength to come out of. I'm so glad to be free
Honestly it just took me realizing that it was more of a bondage than a release. It never kept the pain away for good, just for a moment. When I started taking my pain to God (which I promise to work.. it's a process that takes a few months to start showing change.) That's when stopping started becoming easier. It does take time. Especially if she has been doing it for more than a year. She needs to see hope in her future, to realize this really is only a passing time. The song "Hero" (red pill mix version) by Superchick did me some HUGE improvements. That song gave me hope. If you have more questions let me know. It breaks my heart to know anyone dealing with that.
I'll be here if you ever have any other questions that I may hopefully add some input to on this subject Dawn. The devil really likes to keep Christians in a hard place, but the ones he tries to take the lives of, those are the ones who are meant for great things. Remind her that the devil wouldn't be giving her this problem if he wasn't afraid of her future.
Thank you so much!! :D You know no matter how strong you are, there are just days you need encouragement! I really appreciate it Dawn. The Same goes for you! God Bless :)))
I saw her live in concert back in the 90s at Hershey Park in Pennsylvania. It was an incredible show. Longtime fan here. Way before TVD and I loved TVD but shocked to hear her music on it. LOL
So heart wrenching, I wish I could tell every single person that is in this overwhelming pain, that I love them, I care and I have felt that overwhelming pain too where you want to end it all. Jesus came and saved me, showed me what true love is, I am now filled with overwhelming joy and love that is beyond explanation. This world is filled with people who love to criticize and put other people down because it is all they know. I also love these people and feel sad for them, they also don't know LOVE. Jesus's love fills the missing hole in our heart, that we try to fill with people and items. May God help and bless those who suffer from the painful feeling, of being lost, unwanted and unloved by the world and the ones they love the most.
What a beautiful song! Personally I've never really struggled with cutting, but I have struggled with depression for many years now. Sending hugs to all those who struggle with self harm and depression. Keep fighting. ❤
I only got to know this song trough TVD, but omg it hit me right in the feels then en surely hits me now, because I used to harm myself as well as a teen and even now 29 I am still struggling with my mental health, but I am managing it better. The shame one feels when cutting or later on having to hide the scars.. some people understand, others ignore but most judge. I am so grateful for my loving partner who doesn’t understand, sometimes judges, absolutely can’t sympathize and yet still supports me, loves me and guides me through the darkness when I am lost. Wish everyone were that lucky ❤
No one has the right to judge you because they do not walk in your shoes, nor do they truly know you. Though I think you are much stronger than you know and more so because you never hide your pain like most of us do, I wish you and your partner all the best for the future.
I get so into this song when I sing it. Brings me to tears every time. I feel nothing inside of myself. Some days it's harder to fight than others. As much as I want to give into my attempts, I still fight, if not for myself, for someone else.
I know how you feel just keep fighting I've been dealing with that same feeling for 5 years it feels like it's not getting better just worse but I promise there is a light at the end of the tunnel
Jesus is the Light. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. You can overcome this with the help of Jesus. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13
Be strong and be Patient, i have also same Problem when i was young. With Patient, pray and strong principle everything's gonna be okay. Believe me soon or a later your life will be very beautiful
i first heard this song when i wrote a poem on this site about cutting myself. a girl told me to listen to this song and i bawled my eyes out the first time i heard it. whenever i would feel like cutting myself i would turn this song on sometimes. sometimes it helped, other times it didnt. i havent cut in almost a year. sometimes its really hard and usually when i feel this way i play this song because it says exactly how im feeling. i usually sing along with it to get the pain out and then im ok. but sometimes like today its fighting more than ever. its like its screaming for me. but i know that im stronger that it is. that one cut can ruin my life and i can lose everything i love. i have a daughter now and a wonderful boyfriend. they are my world and they remind me everyday that its not worth it.
Thank you for sharing your story. Know that everyone, even random online strangers, are reading your story and are proud of you and sending their love and light your way. Keep going strong dear. Blessed Be 💜
I was hospitalized for suicide when I was 15 I am now 39. This song has brought back memories of the pain in my life then and make me understand what I went through to make it where I am now. To those that are going through what I went through NEVER forget there are people who care. You may not have even met them yet, so you have to keep going to see whats around the next corner.
I love plumbs music! I've been listening to it sense I was a little girl it's so beautiful, and I relate to it, it helps me remember that I'm not alone and God loves me❤
I too struggled with cutting. Reaching milestones, such as one year, feels awesome!! There is a book titled "Cut" by Patricia McCormick I read during my teen years--boy were they tough--I suggest anyone struggling with self-harm take a minute and read it :)
Im 32 now. From age 9 to age 26 i was a cutter. Stiches and scars and sleves to cover the fresh ones. This song helped me not feel alone, helped me realize that i didnt wanna hurt myself. I just wanted relief. 6 years without cutting myself now! Every once and a while the temptation returns. Then i play this song and know i am not alone and i put the knife down and just cry. I do not wanna be afraid. I do not wanna die inside just to breath in. I found relief. Praying for thise still battling
this is why this song will always hold onto me. cutting was a release, it's been 9 years now, and I'm hoping everyone else can get above that addiction. I'm so glad you defeated it.
I love this song. It's emotional both through the music and the lyrics. I am not a cutter (thought I love plating with sharp stuff around my skin), nor in big deppression and I think it's because this song. It's just helps me. For those who have overcame their problems - good job keep going foward. For those who are still fighting - don't give up.
Oh and "cut" don't mean only self harm. It's describes (for me) the pain that someone can feel. As example - love. There can be many struggles, but better this way then alone. It will lead to a good thing one day.
I used to cut. Haven't done that in years thou, like 4 to 5 years now. I still feel sometimes I'd like to do it when I'm in a really, really bad place. This song brings back the memories of how it felt after cutting yourself. How the mental pain faded away temporarily and was replaced with the stinging cut that needed to be taken care of. Then the awful shame and feeling bad until you'll cut again. It was a vicious cycle that fed itself. Bad times, but a good song.
its been a year :/ sadly i feel the same way sometimes. but im stronger than that now. it gets scary sometimes though. sometimes its like its screaming at me.
I had never heard this song until just now. What a song. It has been more than 15 years since I cut. I managed to clean myself up from that and high school, but had a lapse when I went to college. If anyone knew, no one said. I've found that my faith and writing have kept the temptation away for a very long time. This song really hit a string on my heart.
She doesn't beat around bushes (which is why i love her music- honest raw emotions that people go through in lives). I never knew aabout cutting before this song. I learned a lot about it by reaserching. Found out my husban's uncle cut, did stop. The end of this song gives hope that a person can heal from whatever made them cut in the first place. Im so glad my uncle was able to stop cutting. He was such a good, careing man. He since died from cancer, but he was a surviver. Like "Say Your Name" is about a friend who's huaband died. Another is about a friend whos baby dies right after it was born. Things that that everybody has suffered in their life at one time or another.❤I got meet her and have a picture of her and I. I will always treasure it.
I was a cutter... It's been a while... Instead when I get tempted I listen to music like this and write poems... I just wish I'd have talked to someone instead of being ashamed and hiding my scars
Paul Johnson Jesus is The Way, The Truth, and The Life..... He said "Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and you shall find REST unto your souls." - Matthew 11:28-29. Cry out to Him. Give Him your heart and all that's in it, and He can, and will, heal you. He is your help, because He loves YOU with an everlasting love.
This song is both beautiful & makes me cry like a baby. Much love to everyone battling depression, anxiety, ocd, low self esteem, and everything that makes you struggle. You are all beautiful & so worthy of love & happiness
Story of my life. I am a cutter and she explains what it does so well. Not encouraging anyone to do this but it helps everyone understand why we do it. Getting help for myself.,learning new ways to cope.
I can sadly relate too closely to this song....thank you, Plumb, for putting to poetry and emotion of music those things that cannot be spoken....our hope is in our Savior...who bears our scars through His......one day....we will be healed.....
Can I just say one thing without people getting all up me and thinking i endorse it? I think that anyone recovering from depression and cutting are bigger than most of us. And for you to even be recovering is absolutely amazing, because not everyone does. You are awesome and NEVER forget that!
I used to harm myself a long time ago and this song really did embody how to articulate how it feels when you’re in that place and how I felt when I found it at the time. I found this song again just now and I’m so glad to be able to listen to it now and not see it as a desperate way to explain my feelings but a part of my past I can remember and know I have moved on. Music can help you emote so much you feel and it’s so comforting to know I don’t feel this way anymore
I know the feeling when you have a deepest depression, when you feel alone, and you want to die to stop suffering, but then God came into my life, telling me that He loves me and I belong to Him since the foundation of the world, that I am the princess of His eyes and I shouldn't be afraid or feeling sad, because Jesus died for ALL THE HUMANITY not just for saving us, but to live a healthy, happy and free life, Jesus is my strength, my rock, and my redeemer, forever and ever!
even in the deepest depression, when you feel alone, there is a loving father who doesn't want you to see you like that. hurting yourself is not the way. Matthew 11:28 Common English Bible (CEB) 28 “Come to me, all you who are struggling hard and carrying heavy loads, and I will give you rest.
Locked inside my own mind. Scars run deep but I am blind. A red rain pours down. And yet nothing can reach the ground. Your life blood fades. Ash in the wind. This time is it. This time it ends.
I have that addiction too. It started when I was 13 and 6 years later, I still struggle with it. I've gone a few months without cutting, but whenever something bad happens, cutting is the first thing my mind jumps to. In my case, my addiction didn't go away, I learned to control it better. I hope I get to a point where I don't think about it at all. I hope you find that kind of peace too.
This is the most incredible song, Tiffany. Heavier impact than a rock ballad. Rockin' those feelings on your sleeve. Thank you, and lots of love your way for sharing such a message.
I feel her music deeply it moves and stirs my soul. She's so talented and blessed with this Gorgeous gift from God . I l listen to her and I feel like a heavy burden is lifted . Thank u Jesus and for this beautiful womans voice and music
This song touch home cause I was a cutter... I got thru it self harm is not the way seek help... To all my people out there self harming... Life does gets better... Trust me
This song always takes me back to 2015 when I watched Tvd for the first time, Now Im rewatching it again.. Mannn
Tvd for me is the best of the best. And this song can really touch ur soul
My son Caleb would have loved this song, Cut. He was a cutter. He took his own life at 17, in 2011. Plumb's song, Safe in My Arms, helped me through the years of grieving. Both of these songs make me cry, but in a good way. There's someone else who understands what I am feeling.
I am so sorry for your loss. I relate closely to Caleb, as I used to cut to self harm. I turned 18 in 2011. You are doing right by Caleb through sharing your/his story. Never stop because sadly, there was always be someone out there that can empathize - and sometimes from personal experience. Rest in Peace, Caleb and may your family live the rest of your lives in peace, too.
The purpose of life is to suffer,me I have lost nothing less than everything, now I on the street, maybe it god plan
@@AhsanBeeharry it's never God's plan for us to be destitute or broken, we end up that way by circumstances outside of God's plan. But the Lord will make the best of our brokenness if we let him. I cannot begin to say that I understand your situation because I have not experienced it and I would not dismiss you by saying that I do understand. I just pray that God will bless you and open up your heart and your mind to see what it is he has in store for you. The Bible tells us over and over that the Lord is closest to the poor and the brokenhearted. You are added to my prayer list, And I pray that you find whatever joy it is that God is trying to give you. God bless you! You are in my heart❤️
@@AhsanBeeharry In the TV show Vikings episode Season Finale Lagertha says, "Life is about suffering. There's no escape from it. That's the truth. What's important is how we deal with suffering, how we deal with the truth". -Lagertha
I'm sorry for your loss.... i remember I went through that but as an adult. I wanted to cut my self and did just a few times. Then i found this song!!!! so i would listen to it try to keep busy and the feelings always went away!! If you can just HOLD ON for a min or 10 howeverlong it may take it ALWAYS PASSES!!! Pray!!
Heard this song in The Vampire Diaries. This song feels so much. And the Stefan and Elena scene was awesome! 😭❤️💕
If you’re seeing this hmu
I honestly believe the story in vampire diaries more than tru blood. However I can't watch it because it brings back bad memories of an even worse ex. She loved this and twilight of all things.
yh was :( 😭😭
Which episode plis
@@gabbyhj2709 Season 1 episode 10
2024 over here ☝️
this song is absolute art, and her voice is like an angel, sublime and pure from the heavens
BEST STELENA SONG EVER, AFTER DROP IN THE OCEAN 🥺🥺
Beautiful. I love Christian music. I pray of all who have experienced trauma.
I only know this song from the Vampire Diaries... But this song is BEAUTIFUL
Yessssss❤️
She's very much like Frida from ABBA very much so;-)
Tiffany the frontwoman of the band is an amazing vocalist but especially lyricist. If you get the chance checkout her Candy Coated Waterdrops my personal fave CD but I've followed Plumb from their self titled debut. You wont regret it.
Same
YESSSSSS
"you don't have to hide from me" BEST SERIES EVER😩😩
"But the only anesthetic that makes me feel anything, kills inside"
That line ALWAYS hits me hard!!!
Came here after watching TVD, love it so much and now I'm obsessed with this song....
Which TVD fans are still listening this art piece in 2022🥳
I listened to this way before the show and it’s not from that for me. I can’t believe it’s in the show…… it brings back so many memories for me
ヴァンパイアダイアリーでこの曲を知りました衝撃が走りました😢とても悲しい歌詞だけど気持ちが分かるので何度も聞きにきてます
This song is deep and it has truly helped me understand my baby girl's pain. I have shared it with her on fb and she was glad I found this song. It's now been a year since the last time she has cut.
Jase Wolf you are an amazing dad
*hugs*
Nothing helps a person better than knowing they are understood. :)
Jealous of your daughter I was abandoned by everyone I thought cared about me
Jade Wu you are cared for, i hope you know that now. don’t give up and it’ll all get better with time, trust me
There is nothing more powerful than the shackles of depression and rejection.
I've cut myself since I was thirteen.
Until very recently was I able to overcome that.
And I still slip up and my wonderful husband is the only person in this world who ever really noticed and prevents me from it.
It's so hard to stop but it's possible. You are never to far from God that he can't heal you, that he can't save you.
It is within your power to stop. Anything else is a lie from the enemy.
This is a ploy to keep you in bondage. Don't give Satan that power.
Be who Christ called you
Beautiful, strong, couragous, wonderfully made.
You are not your pain.
Continue to find your strength and Christ completely He will give you the victory
This song is so true and I cannot help but feel for the writer. Only a self harm victim could truly capture those emotions in a song. Amazing.
Those were my thoughts the first time I heard it as well!!!
2024 and I'm still here🖤
Same 🖤
same 🥹
Me 2❤
for sure I am here
Before I ever heard this song, I was self harming every single day. i'm still cutting to this day, but when I have the biggest urge ever to cut or have suicidal thoughts... I listen to this song and it helps me let everything out by crying instead of the thoughts or the blade dragging on my skin so, I thankyou Plumb for bringing this song out. Much love. Xxx
Some people are actually here because this song is something people can relate to or have had a troubling past.
"Tears that still drip sore" AHHHHHH, such gorgeous lyrics.
Beautiful song from one of the most beautiful moments from The Vampire Diaries. Still after 15 years awesome.
"i feel alone and cold here,
though I don't wanna die.
but the only anesthetic makes me feel anything kills inside."
powerful song.
Vanessa Mota hello
Vanessa Mota gg
It's been almost 20 years that I stop self harming myself, but it still is a daily struggle and today is particularly hard. It's good to not feel alone, but the pain is still overwhelming. Everyday is a war of me against my mental health and I don't know how much strong I can still be, after all this years fighting and feeling like I will never be able to win.
join the Club. something to do with Serotonin. Hang in there!
As children of God we are called to reach out, and give hope. Even where darkness and hopelessness is, to bring God's light. That is what her songs do for me. As a teenager I struggled very much and wish there was music like this back then. Instead I listened to music which now I cannot even stand. The closer I get to God I can hear things in music I never heard before. I can hear good music and when I hear music directly talking against God, I immediately get angry and shut it off. This woman is awesome.
I agree with you
God loves in physically infinite abundance. Not everyone has experienced divine love and unity with it. You don't have to feel uncomfortable anger- humans go through a lot of pain, and music that seems anti-religious is really just about feeling a lack of love even if the musician doesn't know. But once you do experience divine love, you can only feel a sense of love for everyone no matter what, because there is such an abundance of love. There is so much love that even "hate" is just an absence of love. Everything is defined and structured by and for love, which is why divine love is literally everything in a sense. Music sounds much better because a complex human being made that music for love, by love, and with love without even knowing so or why. There is a deep romanticism there that is only pleasurable if you understand the human-spirit narrative that permeates art no matter what. (i feel i have to say that i am not on drugs either, not that i would judge anyone that is. i have a deep spirituality and i have experienced this heightened appreciation of all people and artforms, so i found your comment interesting. Knowing the real God does feel almost like taking a drug nearly, but it is an absolutely healthy drug that nurtures everything rather than just pieces of pleasure.)
Many of us atheist and agnostics listen to her. She's what we really would like to see more of with Christian values because we know her heart is about inclusiveness, not exclusivity and discrimination.
I haven't cut since October of 2011! It's a wonderful thing to defeat. I started in 2005 and just kept getting deeper into it. It's a dark hole that takes a lot of strength to come out of. I'm so glad to be free
Honestly it just took me realizing that it was more of a bondage than a release. It never kept the pain away for good, just for a moment. When I started taking my pain to God (which I promise to work.. it's a process that takes a few months to start showing change.) That's when stopping started becoming easier. It does take time. Especially if she has been doing it for more than a year. She needs to see hope in her future, to realize this really is only a passing time. The song "Hero" (red pill mix version) by Superchick did me some HUGE improvements. That song gave me hope. If you have more questions let me know. It breaks my heart to know anyone dealing with that.
I'll be here if you ever have any other questions that I may hopefully add some input to on this subject Dawn. The devil really likes to keep Christians in a hard place, but the ones he tries to take the lives of, those are the ones who are meant for great things. Remind her that the devil wouldn't be giving her this problem if he wasn't afraid of her future.
Thank you so much!! :D You know no matter how strong you are, there are just days you need encouragement! I really appreciate it Dawn. The Same goes for you! God Bless :)))
People like you inspired me to try to stop. I started cutting when I was in 6th grade no im in 8th. thank you
Dawn Cordes Jesus is the answer.
Plumb. I love this lady. Don’t know how long it has been, 6-7 yrs and its still beautiful
Plumb is a Christian singer. I went to the winterjam concert nd seen her..and stuff. I have all her cds. Shes a amazing person frm god.
i totally agree with you she is to me awesome
i finally saw her last year for the first time. I got to meet her too..!!!
I saw her live in concert back in the 90s at Hershey Park in Pennsylvania. It was an incredible show. Longtime fan here. Way before TVD and I loved TVD but shocked to hear her music on it. LOL
So heart wrenching, I wish I could tell every single person that is in this overwhelming pain, that I love them, I care and I have felt that overwhelming pain too where you want to end it all. Jesus came and saved me, showed me what true love is, I am now filled with overwhelming joy and love that is beyond explanation. This world is filled with people who love to criticize and put other people down because it is all they know. I also love these people and feel sad for them, they also don't know LOVE. Jesus's love fills the missing hole in our heart, that we try to fill with people and items. May God help and bless those who suffer from the painful feeling, of being lost, unwanted and unloved by the world and the ones they love the most.
Amen!
God bless you dear sister and may our Lord Jesus Christ, fill your heart with his Love, Peace and Joy.
+Patria Fernandez and God bless you to as well😁! I pray that u will have a great day tomorrow!!!😁
Pat Fernandez Thank u!! 😘😘😘 Jesus loves u so much!
Katlyn Cave
God bless you dear sister and Jesus loves you too.
her voice is so emotional , i just love this :)
What a beautiful song! Personally I've never really struggled with cutting, but I have struggled with depression for many years now. Sending hugs to all those who struggle with self harm and depression. Keep fighting. ❤
I only got to know this song trough TVD, but omg it hit me right in the feels then en surely hits me now, because I used to harm myself as well as a teen and even now 29 I am still struggling with my mental health, but I am managing it better. The shame one feels when cutting or later on having to hide the scars.. some people understand, others ignore but most judge. I am so grateful for my loving partner who doesn’t understand, sometimes judges, absolutely can’t sympathize and yet still supports me, loves me and guides me through the darkness when I am lost. Wish everyone were that lucky ❤
No one has the right to judge you because they do not walk in your shoes, nor do they truly know you. Though I think you are much stronger than you know and more so because you never hide your pain like most of us do, I wish you and your partner all the best for the future.
I get so into this song when I sing it. Brings me to tears every time. I feel nothing inside of myself. Some days it's harder to fight than others. As much as I want to give into my attempts, I still fight, if not for myself, for someone else.
I know how you feel just keep fighting I've been dealing with that same feeling for 5 years it feels like it's not getting better just worse but I promise there is a light at the end of the tunnel
halley martin are you still there? Doin ok?
Music is so healing, How are you?
Jesus is the Light. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. You can overcome this with the help of Jesus.
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13
Be strong and be Patient, i have also same Problem when i was young. With Patient, pray and strong principle everything's gonna be okay. Believe me soon or a later your life will be very beautiful
i first heard this song when i wrote a poem on this site about cutting myself. a girl told me to listen to this song and i bawled my eyes out the first time i heard it. whenever i would feel like cutting myself i would turn this song on sometimes. sometimes it helped, other times it didnt. i havent cut in almost a year. sometimes its really hard and usually when i feel this way i play this song because it says exactly how im feeling. i usually sing along with it to get the pain out and then im ok. but sometimes like today its fighting more than ever. its like its screaming for me. but i know that im stronger that it is. that one cut can ruin my life and i can lose everything i love. i have a daughter now and a wonderful boyfriend. they are my world and they remind me everyday that its not worth it.
helena zutso Praying for you.
Thank you for sharing your story. Know that everyone, even random online strangers, are reading your story and are proud of you and sending their love and light your way. Keep going strong dear. Blessed Be 💜
omg this artist shouldn't be ignored. i hope some day she will be in top singers ever! she's have an amazing voice. .. respect 👌👏👍
here in the United States she is very popular in Christian Music!
+Aaron Moore really..I'm so happy for her😆
She has a beautiful voice
Her voice is incredible.
one of my favorites songs!! The Vampire Diares brought me here and I'm really in love with this 🎶 😻 💝
I was hospitalized for suicide when I was 15 I am now 39. This song has brought back memories of the pain in my life then and make me understand what I went through to make it where I am now. To those that are going through what I went through NEVER forget there are people who care. You may not have even met them yet, so you have to keep going to see whats around the next corner.
Thank you
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Thank i need. Thanks Plume!🤗👐🏻🙌👑⛪⛪👐🏻🙌⛪👑⛪🤗
this song makes me tear up EVERY time I hear this. I use to cut but anymore because of this song. thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!!!!
Im so happy to read this!! keep up the good work 💕
+Krysti Morrison trust me I am!!!😇😇 I honestly feel so much better. and I'm a lot more confident now!!💪
happy for you!
doing a great job!
Akemi Dodd thank you!! When feel the urge to I just listen to this song or I listen to Skyscraper by Demi Lovato or Try by Colbie Caillat.
+Genesis Rashid I will listen to them 😃 ik it's hard to stop hurting urself ik trust me and i hope u will get stronger and better even happiness!!!😊😉
I love plumbs music! I've been listening to it sense I was a little girl it's so beautiful, and I relate to it, it helps me remember that I'm not alone and God loves me❤
I couldn't control my tears when I listened to it ......
If I can make it to August which I'm quite sure I can, it will be one year of no cutting for me!
:D I believe in you. August is now 2 1/2 weeks away!!
Melinda Moreno
Thank You!! :D
I too struggled with cutting. Reaching milestones, such as one year, feels awesome!! There is a book titled "Cut" by Patricia McCormick I read during my teen years--boy were they tough--I suggest anyone struggling with self-harm take a minute and read it :)
Congrats
Amen! Praise be to God!
9 years pass and I still am standing here! Something that I just can't speak out!!!!
I'm still listening to it in 2024😴✌🏼
Gggggggghggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggghg
Im 32 now. From age 9 to age 26 i was a cutter. Stiches and scars and sleves to cover the fresh ones. This song helped me not feel alone, helped me realize that i didnt wanna hurt myself. I just wanted relief. 6 years without cutting myself now! Every once and a while the temptation returns. Then i play this song and know i am not alone and i put the knife down and just cry. I do not wanna be afraid. I do not wanna die inside just to breath in. I found relief. Praying for thise still battling
this is why this song will always hold onto me. cutting was a release, it's been 9 years now, and I'm hoping everyone else can get above that addiction. I'm so glad you defeated it.
I fell in love with this song whilst watching the Vampire Diaries series season 1 episode 10 Elena and Stefan 💣💣😀😀😀
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This song is beautiful! I wish I had heard it a few years ago when I was going through the hardest time of my life!
First time ⌚ I have been heared this cute song forom vampires series.
Thank Staffan an Elena
2021 and this song still makes me tear up. So beautiful!!! ❤️✨
Yes Hi, I like it too. I heard it for the first time. Who is this song?
so romantic, it reminds me with Stelena scene in The Vampire Diaries 😭
omg yes that scene was so 😻
Amal Lee same! 🙂
How is it romantic it’s about self harm..
This song is about self harm
Same 😭😭😭😭
VAMPIRE DIARIES BROUGHT ME
+Neve Fillary So true though
Is better Delena♡
omg yess!!!
Delena for the win
BITCH!! NO! Stelena for the win!!!!!
I love this song. It's emotional both through the music and the lyrics. I am not a cutter (thought I love plating with sharp stuff around my skin), nor in big deppression and I think it's because this song. It's just helps me. For those who have overcame their problems - good job keep going foward. For those who are still fighting - don't give up.
Oh and "cut" don't mean only self harm. It's describes (for me) the pain that someone can feel. As example - love. There can be many struggles, but better this way then alone. It will lead to a good thing one day.
I can relate to emotional pain if this song .I'm not a cutter or anything ,but dealing with a very painful separation after 20 years .
Happy Birthday love...
Life is so much more than what material gain you've settled for. ❤🌻
This song has helped me through so many hard times and continues to help. It is truly beautiful.
Colour Kitten 👍
I used to cut. Haven't done that in years thou, like 4 to 5 years now. I still feel sometimes I'd like to do it when I'm in a really, really bad place. This song brings back the memories of how it felt after cutting yourself. How the mental pain faded away temporarily and was replaced with the stinging cut that needed to be taken care of. Then the awful shame and feeling bad until you'll cut again. It was a vicious cycle that fed itself. Bad times, but a good song.
its been a year :/ sadly i feel the same way sometimes. but im stronger than that now. it gets scary sometimes though. sometimes its like its screaming at me.
God is one of the reasons i have the strength not to.
I had never heard this song until just now. What a song. It has been more than 15 years since I cut. I managed to clean myself up from that and high school, but had a lapse when I went to college. If anyone knew, no one said. I've found that my faith and writing have kept the temptation away for a very long time. This song really hit a string on my heart.
She doesn't beat around bushes (which is why i love her music- honest raw emotions that people go through in lives). I never knew aabout cutting before this song. I learned a lot about it by reaserching. Found out my husban's uncle cut, did stop. The end of this song gives hope that a person can heal from whatever made them cut in the first place. Im so glad my uncle was able to stop cutting. He was such a good, careing man. He since died from cancer, but he was a surviver. Like "Say Your Name" is about a friend who's huaband died. Another is about a friend whos baby dies right after it was born. Things that that everybody has suffered in their life at one time or another.❤I got meet her and have a picture of her and I. I will always treasure it.
I was a cutter... It's been a while... Instead when I get tempted I listen to music like this and write poems... I just wish I'd have talked to someone instead of being ashamed and hiding my scars
I cud b a friend to listen to u. U r loved
Kimberleigh Danielle me too. I need help but im afraid......
I still cut on myself sometimes.
Paul Johnson Jesus is The Way, The Truth, and The Life..... He said "Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and you shall find REST unto your souls." - Matthew 11:28-29.
Cry out to Him. Give Him your heart and all that's in it, and He can, and will, heal you. He is your help, because He loves YOU with an everlasting love.
Just look for Jesus, don't be affraid, He loves you. Big hugs! :)
Gosh this woman really puts her whole heart and soul into the song ❤ I still listen to it every so often after first hearing it on Vampire Diaries ❤
This song is both beautiful & makes me cry like a baby. Much love to everyone battling depression, anxiety, ocd, low self esteem, and everything that makes you struggle. You are all beautiful & so worthy of love & happiness
Wunderschöne Song und die Stimme wie Text…. ich höre diese Musik immer wieder….
I don't have words to describe how this song is so beautiful. Yeah, Tiffany is a great songwriter. Congrats!
Story of my life. I am a cutter and she explains what it does so well. Not encouraging anyone to do this but it helps everyone understand why we do it. Getting help for myself.,learning new ways to cope.
This helps me with my daily struggle with self-harm, and I am so thankful to someone like Tiffany who writes these amazing lyrics.
Amo esta canción, llevo años escuchando esta canción, pero no me acordaba quién la cantaba
I’ve Been Cutting Since I Was 7 Years Old… I’m 30 Now And It’s Been 2 Years Since I Last Cut.
This Song Makes Me Cry Every Time🖤
I can sadly relate too closely to this song....thank you, Plumb, for putting to poetry and emotion of music those things that cannot be spoken....our hope is in our Savior...who bears our scars through His......one day....we will be healed.....
I love this song so much. I heard it for the first in vampire diaries and became a fan of both the show and the song
THE VAMPIRE DIARIES HAS THE BEST SONGS OMG LOVE THIS
Can I just say one thing without people getting all up me and thinking i endorse it? I think that anyone recovering from depression and cutting are bigger than most of us. And for you to even be recovering is absolutely amazing, because not everyone does. You are awesome and NEVER forget that!
This song deserves a 4K video
This song gets me everytime.
This song is the most beautiful and deep song I have ever heard. I'm so glad I found this song, it's beautiful
I used to harm myself a long time ago and this song really did embody how to articulate how it feels when you’re in that place and how I felt when I found it at the time. I found this song again just now and I’m so glad to be able to listen to it now and not see it as a desperate way to explain my feelings but a part of my past I can remember and know I have moved on. Music can help you emote so much you feel and it’s so comforting to know I don’t feel this way anymore
You do that for attention
This song is so much more than amazing. I love it.
I know the feeling when you have a deepest depression, when you feel alone, and you want to die to stop suffering, but then God came into my life, telling me that He loves me and I belong to Him since the foundation of the world, that I am the princess of His eyes and I shouldn't be afraid or feeling sad, because Jesus died for ALL THE HUMANITY not just for saving us, but to live a healthy, happy and free life, Jesus is my strength, my rock, and my redeemer, forever and ever!
You...you've brought my feelings to life with this song. you're extremely talented. Bless your hands for now and forever.
So heart wrenchingly beautiful. So much love to all of you. Hold on!
even in the deepest depression, when you feel alone, there is a loving father who doesn't want you to see you like that. hurting yourself is not the way. Matthew 11:28
Common English Bible (CEB)
28 “Come to me, all you who are struggling hard and carrying heavy loads, and I will give you rest.
now this is heck of a hell of SOMETHING!!... this song is incredible!!!
Wow................that's an intense song.........loved it!
2021. Still stands true
Locked inside my own mind. Scars run deep but I am blind. A red rain pours down. And yet nothing can reach the ground. Your life blood fades. Ash in the wind. This time is it. This time it ends.
so good
im here from tvd, its 2020 now, been years takes me back to that first episode
Why is this not a hit yet 😑😑😑😑😑
Belive me. It is better this way
This is a hit in the Christian community
Absolutely amazing ... Never heard a song so powerful in my entire life
THE MOST BEAUTIFUL SONG .....
THE MOST BEAUTIFUL SONG ... POWERFUL LYRICS !!!
The love of my life was a cutter... Strangely, I understood his pain. Now I pray he is at peace in the arms of Jesus.
Still a powerful song and music. This never gets old.
I have that addiction too. It started when I was 13 and 6 years later, I still struggle with it. I've gone a few months without cutting, but whenever something bad happens, cutting is the first thing my mind jumps to. In my case, my addiction didn't go away, I learned to control it better. I hope I get to a point where I don't think about it at all. I hope you find that kind of peace too.
Her voice is gorgeous
This song is my life.
Just Amazing!!!!! I haven't heard such an anazing voice... I can't stop hear that song
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OMIGOSH... ANYONE WOULD FALL IN LOVE WITH THIS SONG!!!!!!! I love thing song!! TVD
This is the most incredible song, Tiffany. Heavier impact than a rock ballad. Rockin' those feelings on your sleeve. Thank you, and lots of love your way for sharing such a message.
Indeed
I feel her music deeply it moves and stirs my soul. She's so talented and blessed with this Gorgeous gift from God . I l listen to her and I feel like a heavy burden is lifted . Thank u Jesus and for this beautiful womans voice and music
This song touch home cause I was a cutter... I got thru it self harm is not the way seek help... To all my people out there self harming... Life does gets better... Trust me
' I do not wanna die inside just to breathe in ...'.
I love this song !
I'm here cause TVD. I remember this song in sence betweenStefan and Elena. Elena realizes that she loved Stefan ❤️
Still listening this in 2021.